The real value lies inside …
In The End Sword Is Always
Conquered By The Mind
“Tis the mind that makes the
body rich”
A mind is its own place and
in itself can make a heaven of a hell and a hell of heaven
Everything…streams to you from your own heart and mind
Imam Al Banna
Thinking?The Operating System that runs the Mind Machine
We are what we think.With our thoughts we make our world.
Buddah
Form follows idea
Idea
You are a Mind with a Body
You are a Mental beingMental power __ your ability to control your own thoughts
You are the creator of your own destiny
“Thought means life,
since those who do not think do not live in any high or real
sense. Thinking makes man.”
“Few people think more than two or
three times a year. I have made an international
reputation for myself by thinking once or
twice a week.”
Thinking is the hardest work
there is, which is the probable
reason why so few engage in it.
The Genie inside you
The serpent powerThe other “you”The Subconscious Mind
Commanding the Giant WithinVisualizeVerbalizeEmotionizePrayerizeActionize
Mind is
never idle
Analogy
=… and you are the programmer.
Garbage InGarbage Out
Human Energy is Magnetic
“Energy of a certain quality or vibration tends to attract energy of a
similar quality and vibration”
Law of Attraction
You are a living magnet
Like always attracts like
SECRET
Mental Language?
Law of Focus
What you think upon, … Grows
You are what you think most of the time
William JamesThe father of Applied Psychology
What you resist,…persists
+Ve & -Ve Thinking
… makes the difference
‘I knew it! It’s going to be another bad day’
‘We could do with some rain – it’ll help the flowers to grow’
Two people who arrived at a similar crossroads of opportunity.
One turned around and walked away – while the other stepped forward and made the most of it.
Left and Right BrainProductivity
Innovation
Dreaming
Problem Solving
Evaluation
Judgment
Critical Analysis
Problem Identification
Half empty or half fill?
Dysfunctional Ways of Thinking
Cognitive Repeated Intrusive Unrealistic OthersDistortions Thoughts Assumptions
1 2 3 4
Arbitrary Assumptions
Selective Abstraction
Over-generalization
Magnification
Minimization
Low self-regard
Excessive Self-depreciation
Excessive Self-blame
Scapegoating
Ideas of deprivation
Irrational Injunction
“I must be perfect”
“Everybody must like me”
“I cannot be happy unless I have a lot of money”
Type of Fear
1- Embarrassment because of personal appearance
2- Fear of things totally beyond your control
3- Fear of being physically hurt by something you can’t control
4- Fear of what other people may think and say
5- Fear of people
Action
Improve it. Go to barbershop or beauty salon. Shine shoes. Get clothes cleaned and pressed.
Switch your attention to something totally different.
Pray / turn your attention to helping to relieve the fear of others.
Make sure what you plan to do is right. Then do it. No one ever does anything worthwhile for which he is not criticized.
Put them in proper perspective. Remember, the other person is just another human being pretty much like yourself.
How am I thinking? Check list
1- When I worry Would an important person worry about this?Would the most successful person I know be disturbed about this?
2- An idea What would an important person do if he had this idea?
3- My appearance Do I like someone who has maximum self-respect?
4- My language A m I using the language of successful people?5- What I read Would an important person read this?6- Conversation Is this something successful people would
discuss?7- When I loose my temper Would an important person get mad at what I’m
mad at?8- My jokes Is this the kind of joke an important person
would tell?9- My job How does an important person describe his job
to others?
Situation:
Conversation
Progress
Future
Work
Competition
Mistakes
The big thinker’sApproach:
Talks about positive qualities of …
Believes in expansion.
Sees the future as very promising.
Looks for more ways and things to do, especially helping others.Competes with the best.
Ignores errors of little consequences.
The petty thinker’sApproach:
Talks about positive qualities of …
Believes in retrenchment or at best the status quo
Views the future at limited
Looks for ways to avoid work
Competes with the average
Magnifies minor errors.
Phrases which Create Small, Negative Mind Images:
It’s no use, we’re whipped.
I’ve tried but the product wont sell. People don’t want it.
Five years is too long a time to spend before I’ll get into the top ranks in your company. Count me out.
Nobody will ever want that product.
I’m too young/old for the job
Phrases Which Create Big, Positive Mind Images:
We’re not whipped yet. Let’s keep trying. Here’s a new angle.
So far I’ve not been able to sell this product. But I know it is good and I am going to find the formula that will put it over.
Five years is not really a long time. Just think, that leaves me 30 years to serve at a high level.
In its present form, it may not be saleable, but let’s consider some modification.
Being young/old is a distinct advantage.
Positive Management Practices
Be cheerful
Be a positive speaker
Accentuate the positive
Use positive words to outline plans to others
Practice positivity
Develop “I can” attitude
Open the lines of communication
Always play fair
Match the skill to the task at hand
Encourage workers to figure it out on their own
Good/Bad Thoughts Good/Bad Life
Thinking
Beliefs
Values
Principles
Behavior
Character
LifeThe choice is yours …
Be +ve & you’ll attract …
USE or LOSE
Practice makes perfect
Intelligent practice is the price of
proficiency
Law of Control
If you don’t control it, someone else will …
Do you act or react?
We can’t always control events, but we can control the way we react to them
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How you respond to adverse circumstances?
Positively or Negatively
Peaceful Life Stressful Life
They can because they think they can
Law of Cause and Effect
Thoughts Conditions
The Echo of Life
Life is a mirror of …
Life gives you back what …
As you sow, so shall you reap!
O Lion ! Its time to awake
Know thyself!
Unleash the strength within!
Think Big!
P = ( Knowledge + Skill ) Attitude
Performance?
Productivity, Progress, Personality