Psy 311: Family Costs of Divorce 1) NEGATIVES: l (Societal stigma) l Loss of a parent or parenting unit.

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Costs of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: (Societal stigma) Loss of a parent or parenting unit

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Costs of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: Host of potential problems

– Family conflict– Stressed out parents– Fewer parenting resources– Change, disruption, confusion– Loss of confidence in relationships

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Consequences of Divorce Short-term: Very hard on children

– School, acting out at home, peers– Peaks at one year– Boys may be more affected than girls

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Consequences of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: Long-term: Much recovery; effects smaller

but still there.– Lower school achievement– More psychological problems

• Boys: externalizing• Girls: internalizing

– May be permanent– Girls more affected by remarriage

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Consequences of Divorce (cont)

2) POSITIVES: End to parental conflict Can promote independence

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How does divorce affect children?

It depends Many factors influence how a

child adapts to divorce.

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Influencing Factors

1. Adequate financial support 2. Adequate parenting by custodial parent

– Warm, consistent, respectful 3. Emotional support from the non-

custodial parent– Affectionate contact with both parents– Protected from any parental conflict

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Influencing Factors (cont.)

4. Additional social support– Children: friends, support-groups– Parents: friends, family

5. Minimum additional stressors– Moving, changing schools, losing contact

with grandparents, etc.

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Most Important Factor

Quality of relationship with the non-custodial parent.

Why?

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Film Clip: Divorce & Children’s Development

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FAMILY VIOLENCE

1. Child abuse– Verbal abuse– Physical abuse– Sexual abuse– Neglect

2. Spouse abuse 3. Elder abuse

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Consequences of Family Violence

1. Things you get that damage you Physiology- stress reactive View of self Aggression and violence

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Consequences of Family Violence (cont.)

2. Things that you don’t get that damage you

Lack of cognitive stimulation Attachment disturbance Self-regulation (self control) problems

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Consequences of Family Violence (cont.)

Long Term Risk for: Emotional problems (e.g., depression) Difficulty relating to others (e.g., peers) Poor social skills Impaired cognitive development Poor school performance

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WHY DOES ABUSE HAPPEN?

A vulnerable individual faces overwhelming stress with

insufficient resources

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WHAT MAKES A PERSON VULNERABLE?

The complex interaction of personal and social variables

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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN?

1. “Normal” people– Young, single mother, with multiple young

children 2. High stress

– Poverty (80% of cases)– Dangerous environment– Unwanted or difficult children

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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN (cont.)?

3. Low resources– High strung temperament– No partner– Violent relationships– Little social support

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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN (cont.)?

4. Low skills– Immature– Little knowledge about children or

development– Few techniques for discipline– No role models

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INTERVENTIONS

1. Target individuals and personal traits 2. Areas

– Social skills– Parenting skills– Child development education– Counseling

3. Reduce stigma of seeking help– Parents Anonymous

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INTERVENTIONS

What about social and political factors?

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INTERVENTIONS

1. Prevention of unintended pregnancies 2. Prevention of poverty 3. Education 4. Job availability 5. Community resources

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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:

Get support from society

1. Collective responsibility– Children as a value of society– Child-rearing as a valued activity

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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:

Get support from society

2. Financial support– Single wage-earner makes enough

to support family– Two half-time jobs make enough to

support family

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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:

Get support from society

3. Job flexibility– Part-time or flex-time jobs– Maternity and paternity leave– Child sick leave

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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:

Get support from society

4. Child care support– Education on child-rearing– Quality affordable child care– Community centers– Crisis interventions

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LAST NAME, first name

1. Name 3 factors that influence children’s adjustment to divorce.

2. What is the most important factor? 3. What are the long-term effects of

abuse for children? 4. Name 3 factors that increase the risk

of abuse.

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LAST NAME, first name

1. What are the short-term effects of divorce for children?

2. What are the long-term effects of divorce for children?

3. Name 3 factors that influence children’s adjustment to divorce.

4. What is the most important factor?