Pre- Marital Sex- A Sinful Act

PRE- MARITAL SEX- A PRE- MARITAL SEX- A SINFUL ACT.SINFUL ACT.

• An exposition presented at Abundant Life Association G.A Special Programme at Ogo Oluwa Baptist Church,Odogunyan, Ikorodu, on the 28th march 2009. By: Dn Tunde Oladapo. Bible text: - Rom 12:1-2; 1cor 3:16-17.

Preamble (Preamble (case study). case study).

Ada, the only daughter of Deacon Benson and the G.A president of a local church was rushed to the hospital due to complication

from a full dose of medicine ,Yomi her boy friend gave her to abort her unwanted pregnant. She lay on the hospital bed in pain, looking sorrowful and full of regret. She could not imagine why she put herself into such mess. Now Yomi who is responsible for the pregnancy has absconded leaving only her to bear the consequence of their

sinful act.• Doctor said she may not be able to conceive in life again.

Dad and Mum were angry and were so disappointed. “What a pity, I have sinned against my God, my parent and even my self.” she lamented soberly and then broke into tears

Now the question, is pre-Now the question, is pre-marital sex actually a sin?marital sex actually a sin?

• Definition of key words. Pre: • It simply mean before it is a prefix

before a noun that expresses an action that is done earlier before the actual event. Words like pre-degree, pre-caution, pre-marital are common to us.

MaritalMarital::• Is an adjective that has to do with

marriage

SexSex::• A divine arrangement but

manipulated by Satan a times: Is a physical action between two

opposite sexes that involves the use of their sexual organs.

Sin.Sin.• According to oxford advanced

learner’s dictionary sin is an offence against God or against moral law. You sin against God when you disobey him. Our society and world at large is under reproach because of sin. Righteousness exalts the nation but sin is a reproach to the people.

• What then is pre-marital sex?......................................................................?

Why pre-marital sexWhy pre-marital sex is a sinful act. is a sinful act.

• The marriage institution was established by God himself. It is not good for a man to be alone……….. Gen: 2: 18 God established marriage for;– Companionship. Gen 2:24-25– An help mate– Procreation. Gen 2:8..

why sex a sinful act –contdwhy sex a sinful act –contd• Procreation can only be made possible

when there is sexual union between man and woman. God also made sex an interesting and exiting activity to bring about intimacy between husband and wife alone and alone but Satan took advantage of this and confused mankind to have wrong notion about sex and making them to disobey God. Remember Satan deception in the Garden of Eden.

why sex is sinful act-contdwhy sex is sinful act-contd• Sex outside marriage is filthy,

shameful, it defiles and is unholy. Who ever therefore engage in sex before marriage has eaten the forbidden fruits. He/she has acted against the will and purpose of God and thus sin against God. Sex is mean only for the married couple. Heb 13:4 ------marriage is honorable………..

The case study.The case study.• Ada from our case study did not only sin

against God but against herself and even against her parent. It is interesting to note that God’s laws and instructions are made for us to have a fulfilling and meaningful life. The choice is now left for individual to make. Instead for Ada and Yomi to be at peace the lord has provided they made a wrong choice to tear their life into pieces. Don’t sin against God and yourself, desist from pre-marital sex.

Danger of pre-marital Danger of pre-marital sex.sex.

– Sin against God. – Shame.– Loss of virginity and integrity– Unwanted pregnancy.– Abortion.– Disappointment– E.t.c

What then should I do?What then should I do?• Self determination/resolve to resist

the devil. James 4:7.• Watch your thought. Matt 15:19-20a• Beware of peer pressure. Pro 1:10,

15-16• .Don’t make yourself unnecessarily

attractive.• Focus on your carrier and be diligent

in your study.

How can all these things How can all these things be possible?be possible?

• This question came up on different occasions to Jesus Christ but the right answer has always been; yes, with God all things are possible. Matt 19:26, Lk 1:37; Mk10:27

• It is possible with God if only you abide with him and obey His instruction.

You need the following.You need the following.• Be born again. John 3:16• Be spirit filled Eph 5:18.• Pray without ceasing. …. 1 Thess

5:17.• Study the word of God always….2 Tim 2:15.• Never despise the gathering of believers.• Seek good counsel……… Prov 11:14.• Don’t be ignorant.• Never relent in working for God

And the grace of God will be And the grace of God will be sufficient for you.sufficient for you.

ConclusionConclusion• To remain a virgin and wait before

marriage is only possible for the chosen ones. The only few ones who resolve and determine to remain undefiled until their wedding day. Would you join them today???