Health 8 UNIT 2: Family Life Courtship, Dating and Marriage MR. CARLO JUSTINO J. LUNA Malabanias Integrated School Angeles City
Health 8UNIT 2: Family LifeCourtship, Dating and Marriage
MR. CARLO JUSTINO J. LUNAMalabanias Integrated School
Angeles City
Family is the foundation of society which is primarily responsible for
shaping the lives of its members.
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Activity 1: Loop-a-WordLoop as many words associated with marriage.P D A T I N G V C T J L CR R M A R R I A G E F O OE E E H T A L C Y R E V UG N F G N E W B O R N E RN I N F A T U A T I O N TA E F R I E N D S H I P SN N S Y F X N Y J K W G HC T T E U L F A M I L Y IY E N G A G E M E N T R P
Activity 1: Loop-a-WordLoop as many words associated with marriage.P D A T I N G V C T J L CR R M A R R I A G E F O OE E E H T A L C Y R E V UG N F G N E W B O R N E RN I N F A T U A T I O N TA E F R I E N D S H I P SN N S Y F X N Y J K W G HC T T E U L F A M I L Y IY E N G A G E M E N T R P
AssignmentInterview your parents or couples who are close to you. Ask them the questions below.1. How did the couple meet each other?2. Why did they like/love each other?3. Did the marriage/relationship start with courtship
and dating? How?4. Is courtship and dating important to them in
choosing a lifetime partner? Why?5. What message can you draw from the information
that you gathered from your parents of the couples?
Both are intense emotions that one feels for another person.The two feelings differ in their actuality of love, intensity, and final outcome.
LOVE and INFATUATION
is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love
is admiration for someone while not recognizing that person’s flaws
INFATUATION (Crush)
is a feeling of likeness to someone in a short period of time
usually lasts for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months
INFATUATION (Crush)
can be described as a feeling of intense affection for someone
is based on a true desire for the other person’s best interests
LOVE
is admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better
usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush
ATTRACTION
Activity 2: Picture Connectivity
What words can you form out of these pictures?
How do these pictures apply
to you?
Why is courtship and dating important in choosing a lifetime
partner?
Activity 3: Sharing ViewsHere are three boxes which need your views to be shared with the class.
Definitions / meanings / words that you associate
with courtship
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Practices associated with courtship
• • • •
Importance of courtship
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Courtship is the period in a couple’s relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage.
COURTSHIP
During courtship, a couple gets to know each other and decides if there will be an engagement.
COURTSHIP
Courtship is an opportunity to know the background of each other, including the family where each one belongs.
COURTSHIP
Balagtasan The suitor begins singing a
romantic song, and then the courted lady responds by singing, too.
TAGALOG REGION
Rooster Courtship The rooster is assigned
to be the "negotiator", wherein the male chicken is left to stay in the home of the courted to crow every single morning for the admired lady's family.
LUZON
Gestures and Actions Serenading with Tagalog love
songs accompanied by a guitar Doing household chores Pay respect to the woman’s
parents by saying “Mano po.”
BATANGAS
Taga-amo means “tamer” is a form of love potion
or charmPalabas means “show or drama” The suitor pretends to
commit suicide
PANGASINAN
Ca-i-sing (Ifugaos)Ebgan (Kalingas)Pangis (Tingguians) A man and a woman are separated into
“houses.” The house for the males is called ato,
while the house for females is known as the olog or agamang.
KALINGA
Pasaguli Love riddles To assess the sentiments of the
parents of both suitor and the womanPabalic / Pabalik is done to settle the price in a form of
dowry that will be received by the woman from the courting man
PALAWAN
Balak (serenade) Love letters (sent through a
trusted friend or relative of the woman)
Presents (to the woman and her relatives)
Love potions
CEBU
Pangagad / Paninilbihan The suitor accomplishes
household and farm chores for the family of the woman (approximately 1 year before they get married).
Subok – a trial or test period for the serving suitor
LEYTE
Palabas, sarakahan tupul, or magpasumbahi
A suitor would threaten to stab his heart while in front of the courted woman’s father.
If the father of the woman refuses to give her daughter’s hand, the suitor is smitten by a knife.
TAUSUGS of MINDANAO
Send a knife or a spear as a gift to the home of the courted woman for inspection.
Accepting the weapon is equivalent to accepting the man’s romantic intention and advances.
BAGOBOS of MINDANAO
A suitor can court through the use of cellphones, the internet, and social media.
This courtship practice is alarming.
COURTSHIP PRACTICESat the AGE OF TECHNOLOGY
You should be careful and responsible for everything you post in social media.
“Think before you click.”
COURTSHIP PRACTICESat the AGE OF TECHNOLOGY
Importance of Undergoing Courtship1. It gives a person time to know better
the character and background of someone being considered as one’s future lifetime partner.
2. It gives time to understand one another and determine if you can get along with minimal conflicts.
Importance of Undergoing Courtship3. It reveals one’s interests, likes and
dislikes, limitations, and aspirations in life.
4. It allows couples to decide whether they are ready to be committed.
5. It allows couples to determine and focus on what to expect in marriage.
Importance of Undergoing Courtship6. It develops security and establishes
respect for each other.7. It develops understanding and
acceptance.
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Activity 4: Showing AffectionThere are many healthy ways for individuals to show affection which may lead to courtship between persons who are physically and emotionally attracted with one another.
Make a list of practices or behavior demonstrated by people to show their affection.
Activity 5: Do You Know?Copy and answer the following questions:1. What does it mean to go on a date?2. What are the activities usually done
during dates?3. How does dating differ from a regular
outing?
Dating is a social activity which involves two or more people generally assessing each other’s suitability for a potential relationship.
DATING
Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people, as partners in an intimate relationship or as a spouse.
DATING
Dating is an act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity, together as a couple.
DATING
1. Standard Date – involves two people2. Double Date – two couples go on a
date at the same time and place3. Group Date – where any number of
couples can enjoy a date
TYPES OF DATING
1. Strengthen the relationship2. Spend quality time with each other3. Observe the other person’s character4. Know one another better5. Know one’s strengths and
weaknesses
IMPORTANCE OF DATING
6. Reveal any potential problems the partners may have
7. Develop affection and respect for each other
IMPORTANCE OF DATING
1. Date rape2. Use of illegal drugs3. Early and unwanted pregnancy4. Fall prey to thieves, robbers,
kidnappers, or other types of criminals
RISKS OF DATING
At times, dating even the people you think you know maybe risky if they are just pretending to be trustworthy but really have bad intentions.
RISKS OF DATING
So what shall you do?
It is important to be cautious and safeguard yourself to avoid mistakes that you will regret later on.
RISKS OF DATING
Engagement is a period of agreement entered between two people in love for them to be able to know each other and their families well enough to be sure that they are ready and are suited for life-long companionship.
ENGAGEMENT
Activity 6: Sharing OpinionsIf you were engaged, which would you prefer, long engagement or short engagement? Justify your idea.
Activity 7: My Ideal PartnerOn a bond paper, draw and colour your ideal man/woman. Below your drawing, write the characteristics you expect from him/her.
It take only two people, a man and a woman, to unite and
make a successful relationship as married
couple.
MARRIAGE
Marriage is a bond between two people who continue to grow and develop their best qualities as human beings.
MARRIAGE
1. Good charactera. God-fearingb. Responsible and honestc. Hardworking and industriousd. Respectful and compassionate
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
2. Maturitya. Handles relationship responsiblyb. Makes wise and well thought-out
decisions
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
3. Fidelitya. Makes the relationship lastingb. Considers the relationship sacredc. Sincere and true to promises
made to one’s partner
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
4. Commitmenta. Makes peaceful and lasting
relationshipb. Dedicated in fulfilling
responsibilities
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
5. Lovea. Strengthens the relationship with
the partnerb. Understands one’s partnerc. Endures till death
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
6. Economic Readinessa. Aims for a better future of the
familyb. Able to provide for the needs of
the familyc. Maintains stable job or business
that can support a family
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
7. Physical Maturitya. Has a healthy bodyb. Accepts and is proud of partner’s
physical features
FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN CHOOSING A LIFETIME PARTNER
1. Love2. Understanding/Respect3. Care4. Loyalty5. Shared Philosophy
INGREDIENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE
6. Cooperation7. Growth8. Involvement9. Sharing and Giving10. Communication
Activity 8: Expressing OpinionChoose an issue below and discuss your position (if you are in favor or not) with your group. You are given 10 minutes to discuss before you share it with the class1. Early Marriage2. Live-in Partners3. Same Sex Marriage
Activity 9: Role PlayingTo fully understand courtship before and at present, form a group and decide on which to portray: either courtship before or courtship at present. Your group will be given five (5) minutes to prepare for the presentation. Be guided by the scoring rubric to be used in the presentation.
Rubric for Evaluation:
Criteria (5)Excellent
(4)Good
(3)Needs Some
Improvement
(2)Needs Much Improvement
(1)Fair
Relates to audienceProvides a fluent rendition of scenarioRole plays scenario with feelings and expressionsVaries intonationPresents characters appropriatelyGives the scenario its full range
Activity 9: Role Playing
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