Nov 18, 2014
INTERPERSONAL
SKILLS
PERSONAL
INTRA - PERSONAL
INTER – PERSONAL
ROLE GOALPLAN TO ACHIEVE
BALANCING….“ I ”
PERSONAL LIFE
FAMILY LIFE
SOCIAL LIFE
WORK LIFE
INTRA - PERSONAL
I LIKE ME
I LOVE ME
I HATE ME
POOR ME
BAD ME
OH…ME
INTER – PERSONAL
WINWIN
WIN LOSE
LOSEWIN
LOSELOSE
Knowing self
Knowing others
Blind self
Knowing self
Knowing others
Blind self
Unknown others
Unknown others
I am ok.. You are ok.
I am ok.. You are not ok
I am not ok..You are ok.
I am not ok.. You are not ok.
INTER – PERSONAL
Interpersonal :- Existing or done between two people
Skill :- Ability to do a thing well, cleverness
Skills can be with :- People,Information,Things
People skills Information skills Things skills Personal skills Interpersonal skills Group skills Inter group skills
INTER – PERSONAL
INTER – PERSONALIt has two dimensions namely
Expressed behavior towards others
Wanted behavior from others.
The Seven first order skills.
Interpreting other people’s behavior
Presenting your self
Communicating
Persuading
Using Power
Working in groups and meetings
Leading and facilitating groups and meetings
We Cry for whom we care
We share with whom we love
We Laugh with whom we enjoy
We Become angry with whom we
feel our own.
We Smile at whom we like………
INTER – PERSONAL
INTER – PERSONAL
CHANGE
Change at thoughts makes your behavior
change
Change at behavior makes your habits change
Change at habits makes your personality
change
Change at personality makes your destiny
change
The Moment you are in TENSION
You will lose ATTENTION
You will lead CONFUSION
You will spoil PERSONAL RELATION
You will make your things COMPLICATION
Your friend may rise above CAUTION
You will have to take MEDICATION
So instead understand the SITUATION
Try to think about the SOLUTION
Many problem can be solved by DISCUSSION
Which will workout better in your PROFESSION
If you understand my INTENSION
You will never come again with TENSION
Well, how is your SITUATION Are you in TENSION………?
GAMES THAT PEOPLE PLAY
THEME
Blaming othersSaving othersFinding fault
Provoking put DownsEnjoying Misery
Coping out
PURPOSE –TO PROVE
You are not OkYou are not OkYou are not Ok
I am not OkI am not OkI am not Ok
INTER – PERSONAL
AN OSTRICH IN YOU…
Who buries his head in the sand
and refuses surface reality
or admit there is any problem.
A GIRAFFE IN YOU..
Who looks down on others and the program in general feeling “I am above all this childish nonsense”
A TORTOISE IN YOU..
Who withdraws from the group refusing to give his ideas or opinions.
A PEACOCK IN YOU..
Who is always showing off competing for attention, “see what a fine fellow I am”
A MOUSE IN YOU..
Who is too timid to speak up on any subject.
A MONKEY IN YOU..
Who fools around, chatters a lot and prevents the group from concentrating of any serious business.
A CAT IN YOU..
Who is always looking for sympathy “ It’s so difficult for me…. “Meow”
A DONKEY IN YOU..
Who is very stubborn and will not change his point of view
A RABBIT IN YOU..
Who runs away as soon as he senses tension/conflict or an unpleasant job. This may mean quickly switching in another topic.
A LION IN YOU..
Who gets in and flights whenever others disagree with his plans or interfere with his desires
A SNAKE IN YOU..
Who hides in the grass and strikes unexpectedly
AN ELEPHANT IN YOU..
Who simply blocks the way and stubbornly prevents the group from continuing along the road to their desired goal.
A RHINOCEROS IN YOU..
Who charges around putting his foot in it and upsetting people unnecessarily
A FROG IN YOU..
Who croaks on and on about the same subject in a monotonous voice
AN HIPPOPOTAMUS IN YOU..
Who sleeps all the time and never puts up his head except to yawn
AN OWL IN YOU..
Who looks very solemn and pretends to be very wise, always talking in long words and complicated sentences.
Dealing with difficult people
Moaners-who murmurs and grumblesBullies-complainersShirkers-avoids duty /workBackstabbers-people with inferiorityTime wasters-without common senseNegative people-with thoughts,words,attitudesHypocrite-false claim,insincereTeasers-who provokes
Solution to the problems
Be a naturally agreeable personIf you can’t agree at least don’t tell that you disagreeAvoid arguments. It does not payWhen you are wrong apologize sincerelyFor Bullies,treat with behaviour and not with wordsPractice liking people
Smile Big
A smile is a valuable commodity. Because a smile costs less than electricity and gives more light
Rules of the Jungle
Smile – When you really want to screamPromise – only what you can deliverDream – But always with your eyes wide openWork- Like there is no tomorrowAct – While others are still thinking
ABC OF RELATIONSHIPAlways Be Honest, Would You Want Others To Lie To You?Be There When They Need You…Or You May Wind Up Alone….!Cheer Them On, We All Need Encouragement.Don’t Look For Other's Fault.Encourage Their Dreams, What Do We Do Without Them…?Forgive Them………Get Together Often.Have Faith In Others.Include Them.We Needed To Be Included Sometimes……… Just Be There When They Need You.Know When They Need A Hug, Couldn't You One Too?Love Unconditionally….. Without Expectation
ABC OF RELATIONSHIPMake Them Feel Special…. Because We Too Are Special!
Never Forget Them Offer To Help….’No Thanks’ Is Just Politeness Praise Honestly…………………..Openly Quietly Disagree……….Noisy ‘No’ Make Enemies Really Listen, Friendly Ear Is A Soothing Balm Say Sorry………. Don’t Let Them Assume It Talk Frequently, Communication Is Important Use Good Judgment Verbalize Your Feelings Wish Them Luck………….Hopefully Good X'amine Your Motives Before You ‘Help’ Out Your Words Count, Use Them Wisely Zip Your Lips When Told A Secret
Prayer
Oh God! Grant me patience.But please hurry….!
Bad EvilAnger, Envy, Ego,Sorrow, Lies,Regret, Greed,Arrogance, False pride,Resentment, Guilt,Self-pity,Superiority,Inferiority…
Joy, Peace, Love,Serenity,Humility, Kindness, Faith,Benevolence, Empathy, Hope, Generosity, Truth, Compassion…
Good Evil
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