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Imposter Syndrome KEELAN

Jan 19, 2017

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IMPOSTER SYNDROME& other scary things as a community manager

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CHRISTINA KEELAN

community manager @christinakeelan

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RETHINKDB

➤ The realtime, open-source database that makes it dramatically easier to build realtime apps.

➤ 7 years in the making

➤ Been stuck with me for the past 2.5 ;)

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HORIZON

➤ Horizon is a realtime open-source backend for JavaScript apps.

➤ Built by the RethinkDB team and an amazing community!

➤ ~5 months in the making

➤ They’re stuck with me on this one :D

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What is my actual background?

Fashion Design + Psychology (= fundraisers galore!)

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WHAT IS IMPOSTER SYNDROME?

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“A collection of feelings of inadequacy that persist even in face of information that indicates that the opposite is true. It is experienced internally as chronic self-doubt, and feelings of intellectual fraudulence.

-https://counseling.caltech.edu/general/InfoandResources/Impostor

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A FEW FACTS…

➤ The term was coined by clinical psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes in 1978.

➤ Early research suggested it was more prominent amongst women, new research suggests equal for men and women.

➤ Common feelings of “fraud” and like one does not deserve the success she/he has achieved (key word: achieved)

➤ Not a distinct personality trait, but some are more prone than others.

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WHAT CAN WE DO?

➤ Caveat: not a formal mental disorder, thus no clear consensus on treatment options.

➤ Recognize it! If it is not addressed, victims can develop anxiety, stress, depression, etc.

➤ Embrace positive feedback (as hard as that may be) and don’t downplay accomplishments.

➤ Seek help or find a mentor. We forget others feel inadequate, too.

➤ Accept that we can’t do it all. Do what we do, and do it well.

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OTHER SCARY THINGS!bum bum bummmm

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METRICS!how do we “prove our worth”

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WHAT CAN WE DO?

➤ What does leadership expect from you?

➤ Ask questions early-on:

➤ What are their expectations for your community?

➤ How do they measure “success”?

➤ Determine what metrics are necessary for your team.

➤ What works in one community will not work in another.

➤ Start to track early-on so you don’t get overwhelmed as community grows.

➤ Maintain open and honest communication with your leaders.

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BURNOUTand other sneaky ways our mental and physical

health are affected…

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SYMPTOMS OF BURNOUT

➤ Chronic fatigue

➤ Anxiety

➤ Insomnia

➤ Difficulty concentrating

➤ Increased illness

➤ Change in appetite

➤ Depression

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WHAT CAN WE DO?

➤ Don’t wait until we’ve hit rock bottom (both physical and mental).

➤ Ask for help :)

➤ Make sure you balance your personal life and work schedule.

➤ Disconnect!

➤ It’s ok to say “no” (as hard as that may be).

➤ Take vacations, work from home, go for a walk, etc.

➤ Do you have a friend who can help? Support each other!

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LET’S KEEP DOING WHAT WE DO BEST

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THANK YOU!@christinakeelan

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RESOURCES

➤ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome

➤ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/high-octane-women/201311/the-tell-tale-signs-burnout-do-you-have-them

➤ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/high-octane-women/201104/overcoming-burnout

➤ https://counseling.caltech.edu/general/InfoandResources/Impostor

➤ Clance, P.R.; Imes, S.A. (1978). "The imposter phenomenon in high achieving women: dynamics and therapeutic intervention.". Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice 15 (3): 241–247. doi:10.1037/h0086006