Ic chapter 2 introduction

• 1. Interpersonal Communication Speech 153 CHAPTER TWO INTRODUCTION: BUILDING BRIDGES TO OTHERS

2. "INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATON IS LIKE BREATHING; IT IS A REQUIREMENT FOR LIFE." -BEEBE & REDMOND 3. THE MOST SIGNIFICANT SKILL YOU WILL LEARN DURING YOUR LIFETIME IS THE ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. -FUJISHIN OVER THE SPAN OF OUR LIVES, OUR INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS WILL , TO A GREAT EXTENT, DETERMINE, THE QUALITY OF OUR LIVES. 4. THIS CHAPTER IS ABOUT DEFINING INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION AS A CONCEPT. WHAT IS IT? WHAT IS IT NOT? 5. PREVIEW: WHY IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION IIMPORTANT? WHAT IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION? THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS PRINCIPLES OF IC THREE QUALITIES OF AN EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONA L COMMUNICATOR 6. WHY IS THIS CHAPTER IN THE BOOK? JUST TO TELL US WHAT INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION MEANS AND WHY IT IS IMPORTANT 7. HOW WILL INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION BE IMPORTANT TO YOU? IT WILL IMPROVE UNDERSTANDING WITH OTHERS IMPROVE FRIENDSHIPS IMPROVE FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS OPEN JOB OPPORTUNITIES 8. WHAT IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION? 9. "COMMUNICATION" "COMMUNICATION" HAS AT LEAST 120 KNOWN PUBLISHED DEFINITIONS 10. "COMMUNICATION" PROCESS OFTRANSMITTING MESSAGES TO CREATE SHARED MEANING. -FUJISHIN 11. THE BASIC GOAL OF COMMUNICATION IS FOR TWO PEOPLE TO HOLD THE SAME PICTURE OF AN IDEA OR FEELING IN THEIR SEPARATE MINDS, WITHOUT DISTORTION OR MISUNDERSTANDING. -FUJISHIN COMMUNICATION 12. INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION 13. INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION IS COMMUNICATION THAT VIEWS PEOPLE AS UNIQUE, HAVING FEELINGS, AND POSSESSING VALUE. -FUJIHIN DEFINITION 14. "A DISTINCTIVE, TRANSACTIONAL FORM OF HUMAN COMMUNICATION INVOLVING MUTUAL INFLUENCE, USUALLY FOR THE PURPOSE OF MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS." -BEEBE, BEEBE, & REDMOND DEFINITION 15. DEFINITION 16. Impersonal------------------------------------Interpersonal No History No Future People Treated as Objects People Treated as Unique Clerk, Server Friend, Family Member LINEAR VIEW OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION DEFINITION 17. PROGRESSIVE VIEW OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION DEFINITION SPOUSES SPOUSES COWORKERS COWORKERS FRIENDS USED WITH PERMISSION OF CREATIVE COMMONS 18. More Complex Relationships/Communication Situations Involve Combination of Roles DEFINITION 19. Examples: A. Cashier at Wendys I Have Not Met Before B. My Doctor C. My Husband or Wife, Also My Boss D. My Friend, A Server at Golden Corral DEFINITION 20. "DISTINCTIVE" 21. MORE THAN JUST SUPERFICIAL COMMUNICATION BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE DEFINITION 22. "DISTINCTIVE" INTERACTION WITH ANOTHER PERSON AS A UNIQUE, AUTHENTIC INDIVIDUAL RATHER THAN AS AN OBJECT OR AN "IT." UNIQUENESS OF OTHERS AT THE HEART OF THE COMMUNICATION DEGREE OF INTIMACY WILL VARY DEFINITION 23. INTIMACY IN THE INTIMACY STAGE OF A RELATIONSHIP, BOTH INDIVIDUALS EXPERIENCE AND EXPRESS DEVOTION, DEDICATION, AND RESPONSIBIILITY TO EACH OTHER-FUJISHIN, P. 155. DEFINITION 24. TRANSACTIONAL DEFINITION 25. DEFINITION COMMUNICATION AS ACTION-ONE WAY (SENDER TO RECEIVER) COMMUNICATION AS TRANSACTION-TWO WAY (SENDER TO RECEIVER AND RECEIVER TO SENDER (FEEDBACK) COMMUNCATION AS INTERACTION (SIMULTANEOUS COMMUNCATION-CONTINUOUS LOOP) 26. MUTUAL INFLUENCE DEFINITION 27. "MUTUAL INFLUENCE" ALL PARTIES ARE AFFECTED BY THE COMMUNICATION TRANSACTION DEFINITION 28. MUTUAL INFLUENCE I AM AFFECTED BY A SMILE I AM AFFECTED BY AN ENGAGEMENT RING DEFINITION 29. TO MANAGE RELATIONSHIPS DEFINITION 30. TO MANAGE RELATIONSHIPS WE USE INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION TO INITIATE, REDEFINE, AND END RELATIONSHIPS DEFINITION 31. INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION: Uniqueness of Relationship (Nature) Intimacy in Relationship (Substance) Mutual Influence (Effect) Management of Relationships (Purpose) DEFINITION 32. VIEW DEFINITION AS A WHOLE TO OBTAIN CLEARER UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IT MEANS TO COMMUNICATE ON AN INTERPERSONAL LEVEL DEFINITION 33. "A DISTINCTIVE, TRANSACTIONAL FORM OF HUMAN COMMUNICATION INVOLVING MUTUAL INFLUENCE, USUALLY FOR THE PURPOSE OF MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS." -BEEBE, BEEBE, & REDMOND INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION 34. THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS/MODEL 35. THE COMMUNICATION MODEL-ALANS DEFINITION A way of visualizing or mapping all the elements in the process of communication. 36. Professor, I have some bad news About your test results. Oh, that sucks. MODEL 37. MESSAGE CHANNEL SOURCE RECEIVER LINEAR MODEL NOISE 38. ORIGINATOR OF MESSAGE SOURCE MODEL 39. THOUGHT OR FEELING BEING COMMUNICATED MESSAGE MODEL 40. MEDIUM OR PATHWAY THE MESSAGE IS BEING SENT CHANNEL MODEL 41. DESITINATION OF THE MESSAGE RECEIVER MODEL 42. ANY INTERFERENCE TO THE FIDELITY OF OR ACCURACY OF THE MESSAGES, SUCH AS PHYSICAL NOISE FROM TALKING OR INTERNAL NOISE LIKE MULTIPLE WORD MEANINGS NOISE MODEL 43. MESSAGE CHANNEL SOURCE RECEIVER INTERACTION MODEL ENCODING/ DECODING ENCODING/ DECODING FEEDBACK NOISE 44. THE PROCESS OF SENDING INFORMATION FROM THE RECEIVER BACK TO THE SOURCE OF THE MESSAGE FEEDBACK MODEL 45. MAKING SENSE OF THE CONTENT OF THE MESSAGES TRANSMITTED BY BOTH THE SENDER AND THE RECEIVER ENCODING AND DECODING MODEL 46. MESSAGE COMMUNICATOR 1 COMMUNICATOR 2 TRANSACTIONAL MODEL ENCODING/ DECODING ENCODING/ DECODING SENDS/RECEIVES SENDS/RECEIVES CONTEXT 47. BECAUSE BOTH COMMUNICATORS ARE ENCODING AND DECODING AT THE SAME TIME SENDER/RECEIVER CHANGE TO COMMUNICATOR MODEL 48. THE PHYSICAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL SURROUNDINGS OR ENVIRONMENT IN WHICH THE COMMUNICATION TAKES PLACE CONTEXT MODEL 49. PRINCIPLES OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION 50. PRINCIPLES OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION: COMMUNICATION IS CONSTANT (CANNOT NOT COMMUNICATE) IS A PROCESS IS IRREVERSIBLE PRINCIPLES 51. INVOLVES CONTENT AND RELATIONSHIP DIMENSIONS (POWER, CONTROL, EMOTION, ATTITUDE- TRANSCRIPTS) IS SYMBOLIC (CAN BE MISUNDERSTOOD) IS LEARNED PRINCIPLES OF INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION (CONT.) PRINCIPLES 52. THREE QUALITIES OF AN EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATOR 53. THREE QUALITIES OF AN EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONALCOMMUNICATOR BE OPEN BE FLEXIBLE BE KIND QUALITIES 54. SUMMARY: WHY IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION IMPORTANT? WHAT IS INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION? THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS PRINCIPLES OF IC THREE QUALITIES OF AN EFFECTIVE INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATOR