A Balanced Life 1439 اﻵﺧﺮ رﺑﯿﻊ5 23.12.17 Social balance The heaviness thing on the scale on the Day of Judgement is good manners. The personality of a person must be balanced in all aspects, otherwise you may exaggerate one aspect. If you have balance, you will remain in moderation. This comes with faith. When you take responsibility for your actions, you will be well mannered. Don’t wait for the actions of others, you go forward and be good to them. If you don’t have the balance, you may misbehave with others. The Messenger of Allah ﷲ ﺻﻠﻰ وﺳﻠﻢ ﻋﻠﯿﮫwas the best in manners. Nothing but the mercy of Allah surrounding you makes you soft. No one likes harshness, they flee from harsh people. We must believe in what Allah says, that softness is the best strategy. Softness attracts, harshness repels. You may get irritated when you are out of your comfort zone, but you still can’t blame others for your bad behaviour. People love the one with good manners, by default. Kindness is appreciated by everyone. The Manifestations of Good Manners ▪ Don’t harm others, give to others, even if it is a little. ▪ Clean your heart of all resentment and jealousy. ▪ Smile, this is a universal language. ▪ Develop the characteristics of truthfulness, trustworthiness, loyalty and pardoning. Good manners can be inbuilt, or adopted. It is a great struggle to train yourself to adopt good manners, greater than praying and fasting. A person can pray and pray, and fast all the time, but have bad manners. This requires purifying your heart all the time. Don’t rely on yourself, ask Allah for help, and be positive and determined. جتماعي ا التوازنخلق ال حسنٍ يمِ ظَ عٍ قُ لُ خٰ ىَ لَ عَ لَ ك نِ إَ وAnd indeed, you are of a great moral character اﻟﻘﻠﻢ ﺳﻮرة68:4 َ نتُ كْ وَ لَ وۖ ْ مُ هَ لَ نتِ لِ اَ ن مٍ ةَ مْ حَ ر اَ مِ بَ فۖ َ كِ لْ وَ حْ نِ م وا ضَ نفَ ِ بْ لَ قْ الَ يظِ لَ غ اً ّ ظَ ف يِ فْ مُ هْ رِ اوَ شَ وْ مُ هَ لْ رِ فْ غَ تْ اسَ وْ مُ هْ نَ عُ فْ اعَ فَ ا نِ إۚ ِ ا ىَ لَ عْ ل كَوَ تَ فَ تْ مَ زَ ع اَ ذِ إَ فۖ ِ رْ مَ ْ اَ ِ ل كَوَ تُ ْ ا بِ حُ يSo by mercy from Allah , [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah . Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]. ﻋﻤﺮان آل ﺳﻮرة3:159 The Messenger of Allah عليه ا صلى وسلمsaid : ْ نِ مُ لَ قْ ثَ أِ انَ يزِ ْ ا يِ فُ عَ وضُ يٍ ءْ يَ شْ نِ ماَ مِ قُ لُ خْ الِ نْ سُ حَ بِ احَ ص نِ إَ وِ قُ لُ خْ الِ نْ سُ حِ ةَ الصَ وِ مْ و الصِ بِ احَ صَ ةَ جَ رَ دِ هِ بُ غُ لْ بَ يَ لNothing is placed on the Scale that is heavier than good character. Indeed the person with good character will have attained the rank of the person of fasting and prayer. 2003# حديث، الترمذي جامع
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A Balanced Life 5 ربیع اآلخر 1439
23.12.17 Social balance
The heaviness thing on the scale on the Day of Judgement is good manners.
The personality of a person must be balanced in all aspects, otherwise you may exaggerate one aspect. If you have balance, you will remain in moderation. This comes with faith. When you take responsibility for your actions, you will be well mannered. Don’t wait for the actions of others, you go forward and be good to them. If you don’t have the balance, you may misbehave with others.
The Messenger of Allah صلى هللا was the best in علیھ وسلمmanners.
Nothing but the mercy of Allah surrounding you makes you soft. No one likes harshness, they flee from harsh people. We must believe in what Allah says, that softness is the best strategy. Softness attracts, harshness repels.
You may get irritated when you are out of your comfort zone, but you still can’t blame others for your bad behaviour.
People love the one with good manners, by default. Kindness is appreciated by everyone.
The Manifestations of Good Manners
▪ Don’t harm others, give to others, even if it is a little. ▪ Clean your heart of all resentment and jealousy.
▪ Smile, this is a universal language.▪ Develop the characteristics of truthfulness, trustworthiness, loyalty and pardoning.
Good manners can be inbuilt, or adopted. It is a great struggle to train yourself to adopt good manners, greater than praying and fasting. A person can pray and pray, and fast all the time, but have bad manners. This requires purifying your heart all the time. Don’t rely on yourself, ask Allah for help, and be positive and determined.
التوازن اإلجتماعي حسن الخلق
وإنك لعلى خلق عظيم And indeed, you are of a
great moral character سورة القلم
فبما رحمة من اهلل لنت لهم ولو كنت 68:4وا من حولك فظا غليظ القلب النفض
فاعف عنهم واستغفر لهم وشاورهم في ل على اهلل إن اهلل األمر فإذا عزمت فتوك
لني يحب املتوكSo by mercy from Allah , [O
Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in
heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And
when you have decided, then rely upon Allah . Indeed, Allah loves
those who rely [upon Him]. سورة آل عمران
3:159
The Messenger of Allah صلى اهلل عليه : said وسلم
ما من شيء يوضع في امليزان أثقل من حسن الخلق وإن صاحب حسن الخلق الة وم والص ليبلغ به درجة صاحب الصNothing is placed on the Scale that
is heavier than good character. Indeed the person with good
character will have attained the rank of the person of fasting and prayer.
جامع الترمذي ، حديث 2003#
▪ Show as much ihsan as you can to the creation. This requires great struggle. Always think good of others, push all negative thoughts away. Change yourself and you will see everything around you change as well. ▪ Make du’a to Allah to guide you to the best manners and deeds, and remove the faults from you. ▪ Memorize and remember the hadith which tells us about the weight of the good manners on the Day of Judgement. ▪ Find the ayaat which tell us about the importance of good manners from the Qura’an.
Material Balance For the personality to be perfectly balanced, it must also have material or tangible balance. This requires a sound intellect in a sound body. This is very important in life; you
must take care of your body. We have the ability to make so many movements, so there is more which is required from you.
▪ Do moderate exercise every day. Don’t give excuses not to exercise, be determined to. Don’t rely on the means, but take them. ▪ Do cardio exercises, this will make the blood flow to your brain, helping you in your thought process. It will release the pressures and stress of every day life. ▪ Exercise will make you mentally strong, more
enduring, helping you think in an organized manner. You will be able to make decisions easily.
▪ Make a time for exercise every day. ▪ Work out for a minimum of half an hour. ▪ Walk briskly for half an hour, and use this time for pondering and reflection, and remembrance of Allah. ▪ Do all this for Allah, we have been given our bodies as a trust. We need an able body for worship.
استخرجت آیات حسن الخلق
التوازن املادي العقل السليم في الجسم السليم
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