Real relationships in a virtual space #NMTrain

Real Relationships in a Virtual Space? How can digital media enhance true community?

Dr Bex Lewis, The Big Bible Project, CODEC UKSocial Media Consultant, Digital Fingerprint

@drbexl@digitalfprint@bigbible@ww2poster

#NMTrain

http://j.mp/virtualcomm

http://youtu.be/1JFYioMWfBk

Community? Wikipedia defines community as

A group of interacting people, living in some proximity (i.e., in space, time, or relationship). Community usually refers to a social unit larger than a household that shares common values and has social cohesion.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Community

DISCUSSWhat defines “a community”?

What defines ‘a Community’?

http://audioboo.fm/boos/367199-a-few-pearls-of-wisdom-from-jas-tdc11-re-community

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Christian Values?

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Love thy neighbour?What does it mean to ‘love your neighbour’ in a world in which a

‘friend’ might as easily be the kid from down the street you grew up with as a woman in Botswana whom you’ve never seen in person and only know in the context of Facebook status updates, photos, and notes? What is the nature of community at prayer in a compline service tweeted each evening by the cybermonks of a Virtual Abbey? What is the ecclesiological and liturgical significant of worship in various churches across the theological spectrum on the quasi-3D, virtual reality site ‘Second Life’? How can we negotiate spiritual interaction in these contexts without losing sight of basic elements of Christian faith expressed in traditional embodied and geographically located practices of prayer, worship, and compassion towards others?

Tweet if You Heart Jesus, p.xiv

http://youtu.be/3SuNx0UrnEo

http://bigbible.org.uk/2011/06/does-social-media-count/

http://blogs.laweekly.com/squidink/donutsocialmed.jpg

Tweet if you heart Jesus, p86

“In fact, the progression and continuing interaction among social media formats is not unlike that found in face-to-face engagements. Twitter, for instance, is a bit like a public coffee hour. When you’re at your best, you spend a little time with everyone, and take care especially to welcome newcomers. And, as at the coffee hour, it’s generally considered rude when a group of more established friends hangs out in a clique, telling inside jokes that highlight how much everyone else is not part of their set. Facebook, by contrast, is ore like going to coffee with a select group of friends who might bring some of their own friends along. The conversation is still relatively public, and you might run into folk at the coffee shop who join in the conversation. A blog, however, is a poetry reading. Sure, it’s public in a way. But it’s pretty likely that only those people who already know you will come to hear what you have to say. If they like it, they might invite friends to the next one, or they might hang out afterwards to comment on your work.

Tweet if you heart Jesus, p86

The thing is, it’s not likely that you would introduce to someone and then immediately invite them to your upcoming poetry reading. You might mention that you wrote poetry in the context of a coffee hour getting-to-know-you or just-checking-in conversation. If there’s a mutual interest, you might even go for coffee with your other poetry loving friends. All of this would happen before you started inviting people to your readings by way of creating a context for that invitation that comes off as something more relational than narcissistic.”

Outreach Magazine, May 2012

May 2012, @ChristianityMag

Human Beings at Machines, not “are machines”.

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Friendship

“…Out of a commitment to an ideal of Christian relatedness that sees us all as God’s children, each worthy of attention and care.” (p.145)

Where is the balance between conserving our sanity/deeper relationships, and ensuring that all feel valued? What about friendship ‘clearouts’?

http://bigbible.org.uk/big-read/bigread12/

http://j.mp/IaePVj

#Digidisciple(s)

http://bigbible.org.uk/digidisciple/our-digital-disciples/

http://j.mp/9waysmission

Some good advice from @ianaspin:

Care for others - genuinely

Know that the world doesn’t revolve around you

Be ‘remarkable’, be different

Earn the right to have others take notice of you

Be grateful if ONE person cares what you’re doing

Have something to say that matters

Do stuff that matters – make an impact

Strive to bring value to everyone you connect with

Be fantastically generous with our time, money, and kindness

Be outrageously committed to making the world better

It’s all about relationships – build & nurture them

Thanks @ianaspin (http://bigbible.org.uk/2010/10/the-eleven-commandments/)

Community?

Wikipedia defines community asA group of interacting people, living in

some proximity (i.e., in space, time, or relationship). Community usually refers to a social unit larger than a household that shares common values and has social cohesion.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Community

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