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HOW TO BE AN EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR

By : EducationRainow.com

Objectives of effective communication

• Define and understand communication and the communication process

• List and overcome the filters/barriers in a communication process

• Practice active listening

• Tips to improve verbal and non verbal communication

Four common ways we communicate

Spoken Word

Written W

ord

Visual Im

ages

Body Language

4 ways of communication

How do we understand Communication

Communication is the transmission

of an idea or feeling so that the

sender and receiver share the

same understanding.

Communication is not a mysterious process.

It takes place when the ideas from your mind are transferred to another’s

and arrive intact, complete, and coherent.

Process of communication

SENDER(encodes)

RECEIVER(decodes)

Barrier

Barrier

Medium

Feedback/Response

One-way communication

Communication types

Presentation by single personSpeech by a famous leader/teacher /persons etc.

Two-way

ONE TO ONE – TALK – SHARE

One to Many

1. One person addressing many people

2. Meeting of group discussion leader leadsPolitical meetings

3. Seminars etc.

COMMUNICATION COMPONENTS

Vocal communication

Verbal Communication

Non-verbal communication

Effective Communication Active

Listening

Eye contact

Posture

Simple language

Questioning skills

HELPFUL TIPS

Quicker problem solving

Better decision making

Steady work flowStrong business relations

Better professional image

How communication becomes a barriers

Distractions

Use of jargon

Poor listening skills

Cultural differences

Language differences

Emotions

Assumptions/Misconceptions

Inappropriate medium

Noise

Hearing V

s List

ening Hearing – Physical process, natural, passive

Listening – Physical as well

as mental process, active,learned process, a skill

Listening is hard.You must choose to participate in the process of listening.

Hearing

Choosing

Understanding

Responding

The reception of sound.

The act of choosing to focus attention on the message.

Deciding what the message means to you.

Your reaction to the message. It can be emotional and intellectual.

Process of listening

Definition of listening:It is a physical and psychological process that involves choosing to listen, understanding, and responding to symbolic messages from others.

Your knowledge, attitudes, values, beliefs and self-concept influences your perception.

You first respond emotionally, then intellectually. Then you decide how to respond.Your own needs,

interests, attitudes, and knowledge affects your choice to pay attention.

Not everyone hears the same way. Men actually prefer certain frequencies.

placating

filteri

ng

derailing

comparing

mind reading

rehearsing

dreamingsp

arringidentif

ying

judgingbeing right

BLOCKS TO LISTENING

• Never compare yourselfconstantly comparing yourself to the other person, checking to see if you measure up in terms of intelligence, wit, emotional stability, competence, or even level of suffering or children's achievements.

• Mind Readingwhat you think someone "really means" (based primarily on your own feelings, assumptions, or hunches) than to what he or she is actually saying.

• Rehearsingplanning your response to what someone is saying to you while the other person is still speaking.

• Filteringtuning out certain topics or you may hear only certain things and tune everything else out, any possible hint of unhappiness, no matter what he actually says.

You talk th

ey listen

• Judgingif you decide ahead of time that the other person is not worth hearing (because he or she is "stupid," "crazy,"'"hypocritical," or " immature"), and that you will therefore listen only in order to confirm your opinion.

• Dreamingyou pay only a fraction of your attention to the person talking; inside, your thoughts are wandering elsewhere.

• identifyingwhatever you hear from the other person triggers memories of your own similar experiences, and you can't wait to.jump into your own story.

• AdvisingJumping in with advice when the other person has barely stopped talking (or before)

Keen look on your communication

• SparringIf you listen only long enough to find something to disagree with, and then assert your position-—regardless of what the other person says.

• Being RightIf you want to prove that you're right or to avoid the suggestion that you're wrong— including lying, shouting, twisting the facts, changing the subject, making excuses, and accusing

• Derailingchanging the subject or make a joke whenever you become bored or uncomfortable with the conversation.

• Placatingbeing so concerned with being nice, agreeable, or liked that without really listening you agree with everything being said.

Be active and attentiveThe process of

recognizing, understanding, and

accurately interpreting communicated messages

and responding to spoken and/or nonverbal

messages.

Be a better listener

Don’t talk – listen.Don’t jump to conclusions.Listen between the lines.Ask questions/paraphrase.Don’t get distracted by the

environment.Keep an open mind.Be willing to listen to someone

else’s point of view and ideas.Provide feedback.Take advantage of your brain

power.

BE SMART IN YOUR VERBAL COMMUNICATION-TIPS

o Eliminate Noiseo Get Feedback – Verbal & Body Signals

o Speak Slowly & Rephrase your sentence

o Don’t Talk down to the other person

o Listen Carefully & Patiently

Body Language - Tips

Keep appropriate distance

Touch only when appropriate

Take care of your appearance

Be aware - people may give false cues

Maintain eye contactSmile genuinely

EXCELLENT COMMUNICATION SKILLS!

WILL MAKE YOU AS A BEST COMMUNICATOR

MAKE BEST OF YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILL TO MAKE YOUR WORK PLACE THE BEST

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