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You Have PowerOver Your Brain
Loretta Graziano Breuning, PhDInner Mammal Institute
Rewire Yourself for More Happy Brain Chemicals
You were born with billions of neuronsand
very few connections between them
You built the connectionsfrom life experience
Each time something felt good or bad, your brain made a connection
Your good and bad feelings are brain chemicalsthat pave your neural pathways.
We all get wired to
feel good in ways that felt good
before
Andfeel bad
in ways that felt bad before
The electricity in your brainflows like water in a storm,
finding the paths of least resistance
Your electricity will keep flowing down your old paths unless you build new ones
Your old paths support your valuable skills
But we each have some paths we’re better off without
You can re-wire yourself to turn onyour happy brain chemicals in new ways, and
avoid some unhappy brain chemicals
But it’s not easy
It helps to know how your brain
works
Your brain is designed to promote survival, not to
make you happy all the time
But it defines survival in a quirky way
It cares about the
survival of your genes
Even ifyou don’t
consciously think that
And it cares about whatever felt good when you were young
Because that’s when your brain releases myelin,which turnsneural trailsintosuperhighways
We all end up with some quirky circuits we’d rather not have
You can builda new circuit in your brain if you repeat a new behavior every day for 45 days
That’s hard to do, like slashing a new trail in the forest
It’s hard to pass along unconnected neurons, so it feels unsafe
And after all that effort,your new trail disappears quickly
But a new trail gets establishedif you use it every day for 45 days
Every day without fail
What new habit do you wantto build?
Dopamine Serotonin Oxytocin Endorphin
It helps to know what turns on our happy brain chemicals
It would be nice if they justflowed all the time
dopamine oxytocin endorphin
But each happy chemicalhas a special job
serotonin
It turns on in short spurts and then it turns off
You have to do more to get more
That’s why life feels likea roller coaster so often
Happy brain chemicalsreward you with a good feeling when you meet a survival need
All mammals have the same happy brain chemicals
controlled by the same core brainstructures
In animals, it’s easy to understand what turns them on
becausethey don’tcover uptheir motiveswith words
Dopamineis the great feeling
that a reward is at hand
Dopaminereleases energy for the chase
Dopaminedroops once you get the reward
untilyou set your sights on another reward
How can you enjoy more Dopamine in your life?
Always have a
short-term goal
a long-term goal
and a medium-term goal
and be ready to replace with new goals
Keep stepping toward your goals and you will wire yourselfto expectthe good feelingof dopamine
Oxytocinis the good feeling we call “trust”
Oxytocinis stimulated by touch
and by safety in numbers
Oxytocin droops when you’reseparated from the herd
which makes you feel like your survival is threatened
What can you do to build your Oxytocin circuits?
Build trust in many small steps
We are not meant to release itall the time because it’s not safe
to trust everyone always
Serotoninis the pleasure of social dominance
Serotoninis not aggression but the calm sense that “I will get the banana”
Serotonin is soon reabsorbed so wekeep seeking ways to stimulate more
How can you enjoy more Serotonin without doing things
that will hurt you in the long run?
Focus on the advantages of what you have instead of
on the advantages of others
Endorphin masks pain so you can do whatit takes to survive
Endorphin is “endogenous morphine”
it’s meant for emergencies,not partying
Endorphintrickles with laughing, crying, and exercise
• Make time to laugh• Exercise• Do not create pain
Choose a new way to turn on yourdopamine, serotonin or oxytocin.
Repeat the new thought or behavior every day for 45 days
A new pathway
will build
Each happy chemical spurtpaves a neural pathway that helps turn it on in the future
Each happy chemical droops after it spurts
When your happy chemicals droop,you notice your unhappy chemical
cortisol the stress chemical
Your brain keeps looking for ways to promote survival in order to feel good
dopamine endorphin oxytocin serotonin
You can wire yourself to feel good when you do things that are good for you
But it’s not easy
It’s as hard as carving a new trail through the jungle
You will wish for your old road, even if it led in the wrong direction
Keep feeding a new experience to your brain, and
your neurons will connect
Your happy chemicals will turn on in new ways
Habits of a Happy BrainRetrain your brain to boost your serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin and endorphin
Beyond CynicalTranscend Your Mammalian Negativity
I, MammalWhy Your Brain Links Status and Happiness
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InnerMammalInstitute.org
dopamine serotonin oxytocin endorphin
Questions ?
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Nothing is wrongwith me
Your happy chemicals will droopsometimes
They’re just doing their job
Getting ready for new inputs
I can createpathways that areright for me
you can make peace with your inner mammal
for example
Vinayak sits all day, and wants to take better care of his body. He thinks walking one mile a day will make him happy, and decides to build the habit.On Day 2 he is not happy about it. He would rather do other things with his time and energy.
But he decides to honor his promise to himself, so he does it every day for 45 days. At the end, he looks forward to his walk and it feels so normal that he cannot imagine ever spending a day without walking.
Vinayak enjoys dopamine when he steps toward meeting his needs.
He enjoys serotonin when he feels pride in his accomplishment.
He enjoys oxytocin when he walks with a friend.
But these spurts don’t last.
Soon he is thinking about a new goal, and when he takes a step, his dopamine flows.
Amana wants to develop her career skills, but she never actually takes the steps. She decides to build a habit of spending a half hour each day building a career skill. At first, it’s hard work. She feels frustrated and wants to avoid that bad feeling by forgetting her goal.
But she decides to honor her promise to herself, so she does it every day for 45 days. At the end, she loves her new skill and she loves her power to learn, so she keeps doing it.
Amana enjoys dopamine when she steps toward meeting her needs.
She enjoys serotonin when she feels pride in her accomplishment.
She enjoys oxytocin when she talks to others about career skills.
But these spurts don’t last.
When she thinks about a new goal, that gets her dopamine going again.
Anand would like more harmony with friends and family. He decides to spend five minutes a day communicating his sincere feelings, and five minutes a day listening to the sincere feelings of others. On Day 2, it’s uncomfortable and he starts to hate the idea.
But he decides to honor his promise to himself, so he does it every day for 45 days. At the end, he is surprised to find that he looks forward to these difficult conversations. He feels like a different person.
Anand enjoys dopamine when he steps toward meeting his needs.
He enjoys serotonin when he feels pride in his communication skills.
He enjoys oxytocin when he trusts others and enjoys their trust.
But these spurts don’t last.
Soon he is thinking about a new goal, and that gets his dopamine going again.