Yale-New Haven Hospital Always Events Program: Premature Life Transitiona

A program dedicated to improving end-of-life care of infants and their families

Startled and fascinated by the beauty and fragility of your wings, I watch you move so gently. . . so quietly. . . almost unexpectedly through my world

And then I watched as you move on, fluttering softly into the distance.

Pleading silently, I beg you, please . . . Don’t go. I haven’t yet had the time to memorize. . . to remember. . . to understand the uniqueness of the beauty that is yours.

I know I cannot hold you for long, capturing you for my world.

But rest gently with me if only for a moment.

That I may treasure the memory and the beauty of the gift that you are.

JULIA BISHOP-HAHLO, RN

Steering Committee

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Project Leader: Janet Parkosewich, RN, DNSc, FAHA Nurse Researcher, YNHH

Michael R. Berman, MD, FACOG Clinical Professor, OB-GYN, Yale University President, Hygeia Foundation, Inc.

Laurel Jonason, RN, BSN Clinical Nurse, Newborn Special Care Unit

Julia Bishop-Hahlo, RN, BSN Clinical Nurse, Newborn Special Care Unit

Mark R. Mercurio, MD, MA Director, Yale Pediatric Ethics Program Associate Professor of Pediatrics, Yale University SOM

Jeanne Criscola, MFA, BFA, AS Criscola Design

Renee Molnar, MS Family Support Specialist, Newborn Special Care Unit

Reverend Maxwell Grant, M.Div Chaplain, Religious Ministries

Eileen R. O’Shea, DNP, RN, CNS Assistant Professor, Fairfield University SON

Marjorie Funk, PhD, RN, FAHA, FAAN Professor, Yale University School of Nursing

Barbara E. Sabo RN, MSN, APRN, NNP-BC Neonatal Nurse Practitioner Newborn Special Care Unit

Elaine Holman, RN, AD APSM, Newborn Special Care Unit

Karen R. Zrenda, BS Director of the Family Resource Center Coordinator of the Family Connections Program

Funding for the Premature Life Transitions Program is provided by the 2011-2012 Picker Institute Always Events® Challenge Grant

Despite advances in neonatal care, more children die in the perinatal and neonatal period than in any other time in childhood.

FACTS The Center for Disease Control reports a neonatal mortality

rate of 4.5 per 1000 live births.

Most neonatal deaths occurred following a decision to remove life-sustaining technology.

At YNHH, during 2010, there were 4397 live births and 90 deaths

– 32 stillbirths

– 58 deaths in our Newborn Special Care Unit (NBSCU)

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2010 NBSCU Mortality Statistics

Number (%) of Neonatal Deaths

35 (60%) died within first 7 days of life 26 received life-sustaining technology 9 received comfort care only

9 (15%) died within 8-28 days of life after receiving life-sustaining technology

9 (15%) died following transfer to the NBSCU at varying ages

5 (8%) died after 28 days of life after receiving life-sustaining technology

58 (100%) TOTAL

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Why do we need to improve end-of-life (EOL) care for our patients and families?

FACTS Although highly trained in the medical care of dying infants,

clinicians are ill-equipped with the skills required to communicate and support families facing end-of-life decisions and their infant’s death.

Communication skills are primarily learned through trial & error. – 40% of neonatal fellows reported no communication training in

the form of didactic sessions, role play, or simulated patient scenarios (Boss et al., 2009)

– 61% of neonatal nurse practitioners/ICU nurses received bereavement care and end-of-life training, but only 42% were satisfied with the education they received (Engler et al., 2005)

Why do we need to improve EOL care for our patients and families?

FACTS Parent satisfaction with the quality of end-of-life care is

substantially influenced by clinicians’ interpersonal skills.

Unfortunately, far too many parents: – feel they are the ones who have to initiate end-of-life

discussions – experience distress when clinicians attempted to persuade

them to change their viewpoint – feel criticized for their choices – lack an opportunity to participate in team meetings – need more involvement from their family and clergy – feel abandoned after the death of their infant

What are common barriers identified in the literature that contribute to sporadic quality end-of-life care in neonatal ICUs?

Clinician • Lack of training/education • Lack of comfort communicating with families facing end-of-life decisions • Sense of frustration and powerlessness – an inability to change the

ultimate outcome for the infant and lessen the parents’ grief • Lack of knowledge and understanding of family’s culture beliefs and

practices • Lack of personal experience with death – may be reluctant to discuss topic • Fear of becoming emotional in front of colleagues or families • Fear of not knowing the answer to parents’ questions or how to deliver bad

news • Lack of empowerment to express opinions, values, and beliefs (The same

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What are common barriers to quality EOL care (cont’d)

Environment and ICU Culture • Less than ideal physical environment to provide end-of-life care (lack of

privacy)

• Traditional curative culture of the neonatal ICU setting - Dramatic improvements in biomedical technology have increased our

ability to care for infants with a widening array of diagnoses and gestational ages.

- Medical and nursing interventions tend to intensify in small increments as an infant’s condition deteriorates to the point where it is difficult to discern whether care is extending life or postponing death.

- Neither medicine nor nursing has mastered the ability to set limits of care or demonstrated a consistent awareness of when to cease curative interventions.

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To empower the neonatal interdisciplinary team with the knowledge and skills necessary to provide compassionate patient and family-centered care every day, for every patient and family, as they transition from curative to end-of-life care, infant death and bereavement.

This mission will be actualized through the use of this educational presentation followed by simulated patient scenarios, on-unit debriefing sessions, and enhanced documentation processes.

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MISSION

EDUCATIONAL OBJECTIVES

After competing this program you will be able to:

• Describe the philosophy of the Premature Life Transitions Program

• Discuss how the four underlying principles of the Premature Life Transitions Program with their respective strategies will redefine the provision of end-of-life and bereavement care

• Define the strategies used in the Premature Life Transitions Program to help parents build a relationship with the neonate and preserve memories

PHILOSOPHY

The Premature Life Transitions Program is grounded in patient and family centered care.

The primary tenet of patient and family centered care is the establishment of collaborative relationships among patients, families, and clinicians for the planning, delivery, and evaluation of care. These relationships are guided by the following principles:

• Respecting each child and his or her family

• Honoring racial, ethnic, cultural, and socioeconomic diversity and its effect on the family’s experience and perception of care

• Recognizing and building on the strengths of each infant and family, even in difficult and challenging situations

• Supporting and facilitating choice for the family about approaches to care and support

PHILOSOPHY

• Ensuring flexibility in organizational policies, procedures, and clinician practices so services are tailored to the needs, beliefs, and cultural values of each family

• Sharing ongoing honest and unbiased information with families in ways they find useful and affirming

• Providing formal and informal support for the parents or guardians, siblings and extended family (eg, March of Dimes, family-to-family, religious ministries)

• Collaborating with families at all levels of health care, in the care of the individual child and in professional education, policy making, and program development

• Empowering each family to discover their own strengths, build confidence, and make choices and decisions about their health Adapted from:

AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS Committee on Hospital Care INSTITUTE FOR FAMILY-CENTERED CARE POLICY STATEMENT Family-Centered Care and the Pediatrician’s Role PEDIATRICS Vol. 112 No. 3 September 2003

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The Premature Life Transitions Program is based on four distinct components that are found in quality neonatal end-of-life programs.

1. Clear, consistent, compassionate communication

2. Collaborative clinician-parental decision-making (guided consensus)

3. Physical and emotional support at the time of death

4. Bereavement care that includes follow-up medical and psychosocial care

These components will constitute the Premature Life Transitions Program’s ALWAYS EVENT, meaning that we will provide each of these components every day to every patient and family as they transition from curative to end-of-life care, infant death, and bereavement.

PHILOSOPHY

Clear, consistent, compassionate communication

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ALWAYS EVENT #1

“Do clinicians realize that we will never forget their names,

their faces, and what they said to us about our dying child.”

BRIAN SHAW, father

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Why is clear, consistent, compassionate communication so important?

FACTS Poorly delivered information is perceived by parents as a lack of

empathy and respect. This experience may be etched in their minds for the remainder of their lives, compounding and prolonging the grieving process.

Parents of critically ill infants: - acknowledge the importance of continuity of care especially during

changes to the plan of care and to frequent changes in health care team members

- appreciate consistent communication between caregivers, especially during handoffs

- become frustrated when information is inconsistent among members of the health care team.

Detailed handoffs are critical to maintaining clear communication among team members and parents. Each day an infant and family in NBSCU may experience 10 to 12 hand-offs among multiple caregivers.

How to provide clear, consistent, compassionate communication

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Determine presence of barriers to effective communication

• Identify parent’s primary language - When needed, always use a professional interpreter. - Family members should not be translating health information. They may

withhold important information that they feel might upset the parent.

• Assess parents’ ability to read and comprehend written language - 25% of Americans read at or below a 5th grade level. - Always use pictures or diagrams as much as possible and distribute

easy-to-read educational materials so parents can review the information and share it with others.

• Determine if hearing or visual impairments are present - If present always use a TTY phone or sign language

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Why is clear, consistent, compassionate communication so important?

FACTS 80% of communication is non-verbal. It includes your

body language, gestures, eye contact, and how and where you position yourself in relation to the parent during conversations.

- We communicate when we are not consciously aware that we are communicating.

- The majority of messages we send are non-verbal.

Strategies for enhancing effective non-verbal communication • Always make eye contact, but don’t force parents to make eye contact

with you. They may be treating you with greater respect. In Asian, Hispanic, and Middle Eastern cultures making eye contact is considered disrespectful.

• Always position yourself next to the parent without invading personal space (approximately 3-4 feet); Follow the parents’ lead; If they move closer to you, you may do the same. Avoid using furniture as a barrier. For example, do not stand across from the parents with the isolette in front of you.

• Always position yourself at the same level as the parent and lean towards the person - this conveys you are approachable and receptive.

• Always use hand and arm gestures with great caution. Gestures can mean very different things in different cultures.

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For more information see the Provider’s Guide to Quality and Culture at: http://erc.msh.org/mainpage.cfm?file=1.0.htm&module=provider&language=English&ggroup=&mgroup=

How to provide compassionate communication

• Always introduce yourself and your role to the parent

• Always use the infant’s name

• Always use open ended questions. Begin your conversation by asking:

“What do you know about infant’s name current condition?”

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Strategies to enhance effective verbal communication

FACTS Parents value hearing difficult news from someone

they trust, who clearly demonstrates a caring attitude, and gives them adequate time to talk and express their emotions.

• Always provide time for parents to tell their story as communication should not be perceived as ‘one-way’.

• Always provide ample time for parents to respond to your questions.

• Attentive listening is as important as providing information, it conveys empathy. Always use active listening techniques – nodding, asking questions, making eye contact.

• As you talk with parents always observe them for signs that they are actively listening to you.

• After asking questions or sharing information, always wait quietly, periods of silence give parents time to process information more effectively and conveys that you are there to support them.

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Communicating with Children. Levetown Ethics in the NICU:Parental Perceptions



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FACTS Parents may become frightened, overwhelmed, or intimidated

by the information presented.

Clinicians who lack the ability to deliver difficult news with sensitivity and compassion are creating vivid and painful memories for parents who are trying to deal with their critically ill, dying infant.

Unfortunately, not all YNHH clinicians’ communications with family members are exemplary, as evidenced by the following:

Recently, at the Evening of Remembrance held in June 2011, a father shared that he first learned of his son’s impending death when the physician used a sports analogy to describe his son’s critical condition.

“Kidneys down, game over” Despite all of the wonderful care his son received this interaction is the one incident that the father remembers the most about his experience at YNHH, leaving him and his family with negative memories.


When providing difficult news: • Always prepare the parents by using an introductory phrase:

“I am sorry that I have some bad news for you.” OR

“I am sorry that the results of the (tests) are not what we had hoped for.” (using we lets the parent know that you and the parent have a shared goal)

• Following your introductory statement, always pause for a moment to give the parents time to prepare mentally for the difficult news

• Always use statements such as “I wish (the test, surgery, diagnosis) were different” – It conveys sincerity and forges a closer connection with families.

• Always avoid using euphemisms, colloquial, and value judgments statements - “Not doing well” or “passing away” are euphemisms for dying

• Always avoid saying “I know what you are going through” “I know how you feel” “I know how hard this is”

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• Always keep the message concise, use lay language, and repeat the information more than once

• Always share information in a timely manner – Including parents in daily rounds keeps them updated and helps them become familiar with the team

• Always use a quiet, private setting with suitable social support for parents if planning to discuss difficult news (diagnoses, prognosis, treatment options)

• Be concrete; Always avoid medical jargon; Phrases that we use in our medical discussions have different meanings to parents (see table below).

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What you say What the parent hears “The scan is positive”. “That is great, we have good news”. “The baby is stable”. “The baby is getting better”. “Saturations are improved”. “The baby’s lungs are better”.

“Your baby is very sick”. “The baby will have to stay in the hospital a few extra days”.

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Collaborative clinician-parental decision-making (guided consensus)

ALWAYS EVENT #2

“The future is bright for medical innovation and alleviation of

suffering. But we must be careful not to allow this technology

to wedge the Doctor-Nurse-Patient bond. We must recognize

and heal those ‘unspeakable’ losses evident when medicine

and technology can no longer treat and the physician can no

longer cure.”

MICHAEL R. BERMAN, M.D.

Collaborative decisions-making with the health care team enables parents to have an active role in caring for their critically ill infant.

FACTS

Parents rely on physicians more than friends and family to guide them in decision-making, a process known as guided consensus.

Parents are clear about their desire to be informed and included in decisions regarding their infant’s medical care, including end-of-life decisions.

Hope is a necessary ingredient for parents as they cope with the meaning of their infant’s critical illness, make difficult decisions about the goals of their infant’s care, and begin the journey to healing after the infant’s death.

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A few thoughts about hope • The goals that parents have for their infants originate from their hopes,

values, and beliefs. These goals often evolve from parents’ beliefs in miracles…. “God will save my child”.

• It is our responsibility to help the family explore which of these goals are realistic and which may involve a potentially excessive burden with little objective chance of success.

• At this time, the ongoing conversations and efforts to sustain the relationship with the parents are crucial. We may not be able to cure the infant’s condition, but we can help parents reframe painful realities they are facing into a different kind of miracle, thus maintaining hope.

• Chaplains from the Department of Religious Ministries are specifically trained to work with families around issues related to their theology (belief in miracles, belief in a deity who “tests” the faithful, people who fear punishment for their own misdeeds through the outcome of a pregnancy).

Neonatal End-of Life Spiritual Support Care Rosenbaum (2011)

How to use the guided consensus process

• Always provide as much information as the parent desires to facilitate shared decision-making, taking into account that different parents desire different involvement in decision-making.

• Always establish the parent’s preferences for his or her role in decision-making. This may vary from family-to-family and person-to-person, which may be culturally based. – Ask the parents:

“Whom would you like to receive information about (infant’s name)?”

“Who makes decisions about (infant’s name) care?

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• Always engage parents in a frank discussion of their wishes, concerns, and expectations of care for their infant

• Always identify all treatment options, including those suggested by the parents; Then, discuss the outcomes associated with each option based on the current literature

• Always help parents to understand what each treatment option would mean for their infant

• Always continue discussions in an effort to reach consensus between the parents and health care team regarding the infant’s best treatment options and plan of care

Remember parents want to: – be supported whatever their decision – respected when they do not want to

make a decision – made to feel that the right decision has

been made

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How to use the guided consensus process (cont’d)

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How to use the guided consensus process

FACTS

Parents appreciate it when all team members are knowledgeable about the goals for their infant’s care.

Family meetings facilitate the guided consensus process by sharing information and concerns, clarifying goals of care; discussing the infant’s diagnosis, treatment and prognosis; and developing the plan of care.

Family meetings are not to be saved for “crisis” situations, but are used proactively to identify issues and concerns of parents and find resolution before they become major ethical dilemmas.

Value of Family Meetings

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How to facilitate an effective family meeting

Before the meeting

• Always determine who should be present and who will facilitate the meeting. Often parents wish to include other family members for support and to aid them in recall of meeting details.

• Always include the infant’s nurse and other key team members; Their participation will allow them to respond accurately to distressed parents questions at a later time, further assisting parents in coming to terms with information.

• Always assure that there is adequate seating for all attending

• Always turn beepers and cell phones off

• Always schedule an initial family meeting within 72 hours of admission as the majority of deaths in NBSCU occur within the first two weeks of life

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Beginning the meeting

• Always introduce each member of the health care team • Always ask the parents to tell you what they know about the infant’s

condition. Opening questions might include: “Tell me what the doctors have told you about (infant’s name) condition?” “Can you describe for me your sense of how things are going?” “What changes have you seen over the past . . (timeframe). .?”

The family meetings should always focus on: • A review of the medical facts • The parents’ perspective regarding the infant’s illness and their wishes • The development of a plan of care

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FACTS

There is a direct relationship between the amount of time a family speaks during a family meeting and the family’s satisfaction with that meeting.

Parents prefer that uncertainty be clearly communicated.

Conflicts between parents and the health care team regarding goals of care are more likely to occur when the diagnosis or prognosis is uncertain, as it is often difficult to predict morbidity and mortality accurately.

Ultimately, parents balance pertinent medical facts with their own values.

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During the meeting

• Always listen attentively and use active listening behaviors

• Always validate what you have heard and correct misconceptions; Parents must have a clear understanding of the information presented so they are able to make informed decisions on behalf of their infant.

• Always give parents adequate time to internalize the information presented and be prepared to answer their questions.


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Ending the Meeting

• Always end the meeting by asking. . . . “What hasn’t been covered today that you would like to discuss?” or “Are there any questions you had that haven’t been answered?”

• Always establish either when the next meeting will occur or let the parents know you are available to meet as they need to.

• Always let the parents know you will keep them informed about their infant’s condition and you will continue to meet with them to decide together the best course of treatment for their infant.

• Always thank everyone. . . Especially, the parents for their contributions to the plan.


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Immediately After the Meeting

• Always conduct a debriefing of the meeting with the team to discuss what went well, what could have been improved and, most importantly, address the emotional reactions and needs of the team.

• Document who was present, topics discussed, what decisions were made, what the follow-up plan is and share this with the all members of the care team.

• Nurses can provide continuity for the family and professional caregivers who did not attend the meeting, helping to ensure that answers to questions and clinician communications and decisions are consistent.


When a cure is no longer the goal of care. . . . .

Approaches to having difficult conversations

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FACTS

Parents expect the physician to recognize and discuss the need to change the goals of their infant’s care. They rely on the health care team to interpret all the data and discuss care options using a compassionate, sensitive approach that incorporates their needs and desired level of involvement

Infants are admitted to the NICU with every hope of survival. When survival is not possible, finding and maintaining hope is one of the greatest challenges, yet it is the greatest gift that caregivers can offer to parents.

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When a cure is no longer the goal of care

FACTS Many physicians wait until they perceive that the family is

“ready” to hear difficult news about their infant’s prognosis.

Waiting too long leads to additional emotional and physical suffering and prolongs the infant’s death.

45% of parents of critically ill children thought it may be time to stop attempts to treat the illness before the physician brought it up, but none broached the topic (cite)

Mixed messages given by clinicians to families about the infant’s conditions is confusing and upsetting, which may lead to unrealistic decision-making as the parents (understandably) hold on to the most hopeful messages.

Although most parents want to be involved in the decision to transition care from treatment to comfort, some may not feel they are able to participate nor want the responsibility for making that final difficult decision.

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Recommended approaches to delivering difficult messages • Always meet as a team prior to having a family meeting to discuss the

transition of care from cure to comfort. Prior to the family meeting, it is important for the team to agree on goals of care and identify the needs of the patient and family. Remind team members that after the family meeting there will be a debriefing session.

• Always address conflicts within the team early in the care planning process using available professional supports, such as ethical or spiritual consultants (chaplain from the Department of Religious Ministries).

• Always have a spokesperson (usually the attending MD) to maintain continuity of communication with the family.

• Always be certain you show support for the parents, regardless of the decisions that they have made.


During daily conversations • Always avoid terms that express improvement such as "good," "stable,"

"better" in reference to the dying patient so as not to confuse parents.

• If necessary, use words such as "death," "die," and "dying"

• Do not use euphemisms such as "not doing well" or "passing away"

• Never say "There is nothing more we can do"

WE ARE NOT OUT OF OPTIONS FOR TREATING THE INFANT.

• Always use a better approach by saying: “I am afraid we are out of options to treat the ……(refer to the disease),

however, the focus of our care will be to maintain (infant’s name) comfort and to give you time to be together.

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Communicating with Children and Families. . .Levetown


How to approach the DNR discussion

• No communication is more difficult than telling parents their child will die.

• Avoid using the usual method listed below as it gives parents the impression that CPR will work

• Always use a variation of the alternative message

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Usual Method

Parent’s Perception of Usual Method Always Event - Alternative Method of Message

“Do you want us to do CPR?”

“CPR would work if you allow us to do it.”

“Tell me what you know about CPR.”

“CPR is helpful for patients who are relatively healthy, and even then, only 1 of 3 patients survive. Many of (infant’s name) organs are not working. As you know she/he is on a breathing machine for her lungs, she/he . . . . . . . . .”

“If her heart were to stop it would be because she is dying, so pumping on her heart will not make her better.”

“Although I am recommending not doing CPR, I am not recommending stopping other treatment she is receiving at this time.


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Physical and emotional support at the time of death

ALWAYS EVENT #3

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“To cure some of the time, relieve often, and comfort always. . . ”

—HIPPOCRATES

FACTS

“A protocol for care at the time of death is only as good as the humanness with which it is carried out and the compassion with which it is delivered.”

“How the health care team cares for and communicates with the families greatly influences how the families leave the healthcare setting and enters the long process of adapting to a new life without their child.”

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Please view YNHH’s Policy: Interdisciplinary Care of the Patient and Family Experiencing the Death of a Newborn, Infant, or Child

Physical and emotional support at the time of death

• Always provide privacy for the family and offer choices for the location of end-of–life care including: – Remaining in the nursery where they have bonded with the staff – Using Caroline’s Room – Moving to an isolation room, if available – Transferring to the mother’s post partum room – Discharging the infant home to die – requires significant planning

• Always encourage parents to be close to their infant (holding/kangaroo care)

• Always provide parenting opportunities (bathe, diaper, or dress the infant)

• Always make provisions for other family members to be present, as desired

• If multiple infants are involved, always provide an opportunity for the infants to be held together, if possible

• If parents initially refuse to hold their infant or engage in parenting activities, always ask again as they may change their mind at a later time.

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How to provide physical and emotional support

• Always offer parents the opportunity to create memorable moments through photography; Quality photographs illuminate the loving bond between infants and family members. − If the parents agree, the nurse first obtains their written consent according to

hospital policy. − Photographs may be taken by a volunteer photographer from Now I Lay Me

Down to Sleep (NILMDTS). The nurse calls NILMDTS to determine availability of the photographer.

– In addition, NBSCU has a camera and printer available − Consent forms, NILMDTS contact information, and directions for use of the

camera and printer are all the Transitions Care Packets.

• Always involve parents in the photographing of their infant as they may have a preference for the composition of the photographs.

• If parents initially refuse, always ask again as they may change their mind at a later time (unless expressly based on religious or cultural reasons).

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FACTS Spiritual beliefs, practices, and rituals can be a source of

emotional support and comfort to families at the time of death and assist them with coping.

Many cultures have specific rituals and religious preferences. However, do not make assumptions about the preferences of families. Respect each family’s unique preferences.

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Spiritual information


• Always ASK “Help me understand how your family cares for someone who is

dying?”

• Always ASK if the family members wish to see our chaplain – Contact a chaplain from the Department of Religious Ministries

as requested. The chaplain can facilitate pastoral care from a wide variety of religious traditions.

– Be prepared for Baptism or Blessing if parents desire.

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Spiritual information


Withdrawing Life-Sustaining Treatments

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FACTS

Parents remember the people who were with them during the extremely difficult and emotionally stressful time of their infant’s death.

If parents perceive the hospital staff as compassionate, sensitive, and intuitive to their needs, they recall the experience in a favorable manner.

Being physically present and able to participate in the care of their infant fosters a sense of control and facilitates preparation for the infant’s death.

Before the removal of life-sustaining technology, a plan should be in place for the eventuality that the infant continues to breathe independently.


Withdrawing Life-Sustaining Treatments • Medications such as morphine should be given for respiratory distress and

discomfort; oxygen is not usually provided. – An IV line should be left in place to administer comfort medications. If no IV line

exists, rectal or sublingual route should be considered.

• Staff may worry that giving an infant a narcotic might hasten the death. However, the Principle of Double Effect states:

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End of Life in the NICU: A study of Ventilator Withdrawal (Abe et al., 2001)

“An action having foreseen harmful effects (potential respiratory depression) practically inseparable from the good effect (comfort) is justifiable if upon satisfaction of the following:

1. The action itself must be morally good or at least indifferent. 2. Only the good effect must be intended (even though the bad or secondary

effect is foreseen). 3. The good effect must not be achieved by way of the bad effect. 4. The good result must outweigh the bad result.


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Physician Responsibilities:

• Place orders for the following measures − DNR − Medications for comfort care − Discontinuation of IV infusions of medications and fluids − Heplock to maintain IV for comfort medications. − Discontinuation of ventilator and infant extubation − Discontinuation of monitoring

• Wean neuromuscular blockade prior to removal of life-sustaining technology

• Maintain a presence during the infant’s dying process

• If family wishes to have someone with them at all times, coordinate schedule with nurse to ensure coverage.


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Nursing Responsibilities: • Discontinue medication and fluid orders as prescribed

• Remove all lines and tape, keeping one IV as a heplock for administration of comfort medications

• Discontinue ventilatory support as ordered

Respiratory Therapist Responsibilities: • Assistance the nurse with the final steps involved in ventilator removal

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What to say and do for parents when their infant’s death is imminent

• Always answer parent’s questions honestly and explain the dying process

• Always notify our chaplain about the impending death of the infant. The chaplain assesses the family’s spiritual needs. Although families may decline the chaplain’s support or just request a quick prayer, this connection may be helpful later during the grieving process.

• Because there may be important cultural or religious aspects related to care of the dying, always ask parents about their wishes rather than assume you know what is appropriate. Use open-ended questions such as:


How would you like to be involved in your infant’s care right now? (suggest kangaroo care, parenting activities, making hand/foot prints, time alone)

What would you feel most comfortable doing for your infant? (Suggest that they hold the infant or have you hold the infant for them. An alternative

would be to put the infant in the bassinette and keep the infant close to them.)

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• Always encourage parents to hold or cuddle their infant and provide parenting activities.

• If the parent appears reluctant or fearful, always role model these activities for the parents by holding the infant, gently touching the infant’s hand or face, while speaking in a soft, comforting voice. Your support will help parents become more comfortable with handling their infant.

• Parents who initially decline to hold their infant should always be offered to do so at least one more time before the infant’s death.

• Always reduce impediments to parental contact with dying infants, as nothing should come between parents and their infants at this difficult time.

What to say and do for parents when death is imminent

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• The MD pronounces the infant’s death, writes a death note, and fills out the Death Certificate.

• At an appropriate time, the MD discusses the possibility of autopsy as well as the disposition of the baby’s body with the parents. ̶ There is no rush to obtain autopsy consent except in the case of organ biopsies,

which must be obtained within 30 minutes to 1 hour after death. ̶ Should the parents need more time to decide about autopsy or disposition, the

infant’s body can be kept in the morgue until the parents have considered their options or until other family members can arrive to view the infant.

• The MD completes information outlining the request or denial for autopsy and instructions for the disposition of the body, which must be signed by the parents.

• In the rare instance, the deceased infant may qualify as an organ donor. A New England Organ Donor Program representative will assist the physician in discussing organ donation with the parents.

Care of the infant after death

Care of the infant after death

• In the State of Connecticut, the infant must go to the morgue and can only be discharged to a funeral home.

• The family will need to contact a funeral home to make arrangements. Many parents are young and inexperienced and may need your guidance regarding this information (please see Transitions Resource Book) .

• Once the parents have left the unit the nurse provides post mortem care and arranges transport to the morgue accompanied by a PCA.

• Should the parents wish to accompany their infant, make sure that the infant’s nurse assists with the transport to the morgue.

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CPM: Post mortem Care

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Bereavement Care: Follow-up medical and psychosocial care

ALWAYS EVENT #4

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“Families tell the story of their experience as part of their own

healing. With our help, they will have memories and even a few

small objects to share, as they feel able. We may walk with them

for only a short part of their journey, but we help them leave

YNHCH with the milestones that will help them continue to

measure their way forward.”

Rev. Maxwell Grant, M.A., M.Div.

FACTS Bereavement is the term used to describe the experience that

individuals have as they anticipate and experience the death of a loved one and adjust to life without that person.

Grief is a natural and universal response to the death of a loved one. It is a physical, mental, and emotional response to this loss.

The grief experience is unique to each person. There is no right or wrong way to grieve.

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Bereavement and Grief

Common Feelings Associated with Grief Physical and Emotional Effects of Grief Shock Sleep disturbances

Disbelief Loss of appetite Guilt Fatigue

Anger Anxiety Depression Loss of interest in usual activities

Loneliness Tearful Relief Physical illness

FACTS

Staff of the NBSCU have shared the journey of this family and may be the only one’s who have had contact with and knowledge of their infant’s life and history

After the death of the infant the parents often feel abandoned by the health care team.

A mother’s greatest fear is that her infant will be forgotten.

There is a need to improve how we facilitate the family’s transition back to the community after their infant’s death and during their time of bereavement

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Needs of the Bereaved Family

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Bereavement Team Goals

• Establish a mechanism to create meaningful memories honoring the relationship between the family – infant dyad (parents and infant, grandparents and infant, and siblings and infant)

• Assure that staff have resources needed to provide initial bereavement support at time of death (bereavement kits, grandparents’ information, sibling kits)

• Provide ongoing communication with parents and families at established timelines to provide support, resource information, and referrals, as needed

Bereavement Care Bereavement Team Members Responsibilities • Obtain certification as Bereavement Coordinators • Provide staff education regarding their role in assuring that bereavement

care is an always event for families • Maintain supplies and other resources needed by staff • Establish program timelines for communicating with families during the first

year of the infant’s death (see below) • Provide bereavement interventions according to established timeline • Evaluate program

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Bereavement Timeline

Sympathy card signed by staff

7-10 days 2-3 weeks 4-6 weeks 3 months 6 months 9 months 1 year 14 months

1st phone call to assess parental grief & coping

1st letter & resource packet

2nd phone

call

2nd letter & Evening of

Remembrance invitation

3nd phone

call

Anniversary letter

Bereavement Care Survey

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How the Premature Life Transitions meets the needs of bereaved families

Mission: To meet the needs of bereaved families by establishing a 12-month bereavement follow-up care program.

Team Coordinators: Julia Bishop-Hahlo RN, BSN, CNII Laurie Jonason, RN-C, BSN, CNIII

Member: Rev. Maxwell Grant, M.A, M.Div.

• By establishing a Bereavement Team

Bereavement Care

Infant’s Nurses Responsibilities: • Always obtain a Transitions Care Packets – it contains information for you

about caring for the infant and family. Complete the Family Profile form found in the Transitions Care Packet

• Always inform the family that one of our Bereavement Team Members will be in contact with them within the next two weeks, noting any refusals on the Family Profile form

• Always assure that mothers have a plan for follow-up with OB physician

• Always provide mothers with written information on “How to Dry Up Mother’s Milk”, if appropriate

• Always be prepared to provide information on area funeral homes as requested

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Bereavement Care

Infant’s Nurses Responsibilities (cont’d):

• Always provide the family with the “Memory Box”

• Always provide family members with information about the Hygeia Foundation

Memory Box Contents Hand or Footprint Memory Book Crib Card infant’s length & weight Blanket and clothing used by infant Infant’s stuffed toys Bereavement booklets Hygeia Foundation, Inc information

Bereavement Care

Infant’s Nurses Responsibilities (cont’d): • Always provide family members with information about the Hygeia

Foundation

Founded by Dr. Michael Berman

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Hygeia is a model for best practices in community-based bereavement care by providing:

- On-line information and support for families experiencing miscarriage, stillbirths, or neonatal loss, as well as health care professionals

- Ongoing education, counseling, & comfort - Monthly support groups in 3 locations – run by parents

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When caring for families as they experience their infant’s premature life transition, from curative care to comfort care and death, know that

It is an honor

It will humble you

You are not working independently, but are a part of a team

You will be there when families are most vulnerable

You are creating life long memories for families during one of life’s most tragic times

ADAPTED FROM THE MARCH OF DIMES

Premature Life

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For more information about culturally competent care see the Provider’s Guide to Quality and Culture at: http://erc.msh.org/mainpage.cfm?file=1.0.htm&module=provider&language=English&ggroup=&mgroup

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