Presented by Tracie Sweet, Program Facilitator 2012 Fall ReNEWal Conference
Jan 02, 2016
“I firmly believe many of the answers we are searching for rest in the minds and hearts of our students. Thus, the relationship we create with them is a critical component that separates good schools from mediocre schools.”
–Stephen Peters
Blue is a color that has been shown to soothe the central nervous system. It fosters
psychological contentment and physical tranquility. It can be
said that when a person is feeling BLUE, they are
experiencing emotional intensity and sensitivity to the
dramas of life. The figure of speech referring to "True Blues"
takes on the meaning of friendship, helpers, “there
when you need them” individuals that will go the
extra mile for others.
Words/Phrases that Characterize BLUEThese are intuitive feeling people and above all, they must be
authentic.
• Compassionate• Purpose in life is to have a purpose in life• Strive to be in harmony with inner self• Making a difference in the world• Devoted to relationships• Spiritual• Romanticize their experiences• Interested in people watching• Sees possibilities in people• Cultivates potential in others• Emotional • Affectionate eternal commitment to love
What Others Think About BLUE
• Over-emotional• Bleeding heart• Mushy• Flaky• Unrealistic• Hopelessly naïve • A pushover• Weak• Too “touchy-feely”• Just pathetic
Out of Self-Esteem
• Attention-getting behavior• Lying to save face• Withdrawal• Fantasy, day-dreaming• Crying and depression• Passive resistance• Yelling and screaming
Praise the BLUE Person’s:
• Unique contributions• Personal achievements• Personal characteristics• Honesty and sincerity• Energetic and enthusiastic manner• Contributions to the performance
of the group and the organization
Orange is a color often used to promote action, motivation,
excitement. Orange urges you to PAY ATTENTION - wake up and seize the moment, make
quick decisions…take advantage of the immediate
opportunity available right now! Orange encourages a playful atmosphere of activity and
movement. Think of the flash of fire, shimmer of sparklers on
the fourth of July or the flame of a match – hot, dazzling, Orange
energy.
Words/Phrases that Characterize ORANGEThese are sensory perceptive people and above
all, they must be free to act.
• Tests the limits• Free spirit• Great in a crisis• Needs variations• Loves tools• Boldness• Exciting• Light-hearted• Full of fun• Performer &
entertainer
• Waiting is psychological death
• Do it now• Today is today• Only temporarily
defeated• Spontaneous
relationships• Clutter is
acceptable• Generous• sharing
What Others Think About ORANGE
• Irresponsible• Flaky• Wishy-washy• Not serious about serious
matters• Spend too much time at things
they’re good at or enjoy• Not seem interested in ideas• Unimaginative• Disobeys rules• Not trustworthy
Out of Self-Esteem
• Rudeness and defiance• Breaking the rules intentionally• Running away and dropping out• Use of stimulants• Acting out boisterously• Lying and cheating• Physical aggressiveness
Praise the ORANGE Person’s
• Cleverness• Skill• Quickness• Spontaneity• Versatility• Quick and timely responses
Green is an expression of the logic - the system of existence and the abundance of this color
in nature. Greens are concerned with the world's
challenges, such as preserving the wisdom of mother earth for
the future. Psychological research has shown the color
Green to have a calming effect and many Greens demonstrate a composed demeanor using
mind over emotion to orchestrate and solve the
mysteries of life.
Words/Phrases that Characterize GREENThese are sensory judging people and above all,
they must be of service.
• Love of intelligence• Stores wisdom• Obsessed to learn• Can never know enough• Need for control• Sees the big picture• Must understand objects and events• Individualist• Believes things are obvious to all• Speculates on others’ motivations• Often too abstract for others• Often oblivious to others’ emotions• Thinks through relationships carefully
What Others Think About GREEN
• “They think they are superior beings.”
• Arrogant• Heartless• Don’t care about people• Ruthless• Unrealistic• Eccentric or weird• Poor dresser• Emotionally controlled• repressed
Out of Self-Esteem
• Indecisiveness• Refusal to comply or cooperate• Extreme aloofness and
withdrawal• Snobbish, put down remarks,
sarcasm• Refusal to communicate; the
silent treatment• Perfectionism due to severe
performance anxiety• Highly critical attitudes toward
self or others
Praise the GREEN Person’s:
• Competence• Quality of Work• Ingenuity• Analytic abilities• Clear, logical explanations in
precise terms• Good ideas and capabilities
Gold is a color with numerous metaphors associated with it. Think of the common phrase, “Good as Gold”. It represents value, stability and strength. The expression “Solid Gold work ethic” conjures up an
image of someone who is very responsible... on time, organized, fulfills their obligations with stellar
dependability, efficiency and thoroughness. The classic expression “sets the Gold
standard” is also a suitable fit.
Words/Phrases that Characterize GoldThese are sensory judging people and above all, they must be of
service.
• Useful• Not free loaders• Strong work
ethic• Parental attitude• Compelled to be
bound and obligated
• Should be rules• Be prepared• List maker• Responsible• Organized
• Detail oriented• Hates wasting
time• Right and
wrong• Commitments• Questions
change• Traditional• Dependable• Punctual• Schedules• predictable
What Others Think About GOLD
• Rigid• Controlling• Dull or boring• Stubborn-pigheaded• Opinionated• System-bound• Unimaginative• Uncreative
Out of Self-Esteem
• Complaining and self-pity
• Anxiety and worry• Depression and fatigue• Psychosomatic problems• Malicious judgments
about self and others• Herd mentality exhibited
in blindly following others
• Authoritarianism and phobic reactions
Praise the GOLD Person’s:
• Accomplishments• Accomplishments and
sense of responsibility
• Thoroughness• Contributions to the
growth and development of the organization and its performances
• Good ideas and capabilities