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Small details can make a big di� erence on your wedding day. Conversely simple but big details can create an amazing e� ect. Here are some ideas for altars and isle decorations.

Garland AltarCreate a � owing canopy altar with � ower garlands. This simple but elegant altar needs no extra decoration.

Signs for the AltarHave giant signs spell out love, faith or your names. For instance: make a sign that spells out LOVE, and which if � ipped reads XOXO, when the groom kisses the bride.

Ceremony ArchBring nature inside with a canopy arch. In the picture urns were � lled with arching Bradford pear branches. Spray paint a few leaves gold or silver to create a fantasy atmosphere. Small touches like a knot of your favourite dainty � owers secured with a ribbon or lace create a stunning e� ect.

Monogrammed entryDoors can have a special signi� cance and form part of the decor. Decorate the entrance to the ceremony with your initials cut out in wood. Match the ties and paint with your wedding colours.

Pew BouquetsChurch benches or chairs can be decorated with a crepe-paper bouquet. Pair bigger blooms with small delicate � owers and add a few beads.

Rose-Covered AisleCarpet the aisle with rose petals in di� erent shades. Half-� ll large hurricane vases with water and add � oating candles for a romantic atmosphere.

Hanging lanternsLanterns are the perfect complement to evening weddings. Hang them on trees to

lead the way or overhead to lend a soft glow to proceedings.

Paper Pew WreathUse tissue paper to create a gorgeous white wreath to hang on each pew. Add some silver bead for fairytale glamour.

Festive GarlandsUse the guests’ favourites as decorations. String paper bags � lled with light goodies like seeds, marshmallow sweets or photos overhead to create a festive atmosphere. At the end of the evening each guest can choose one and take it home.

Topiary BannerString a banner with the couple’s names between two miniature topiary trees for an elegant table decoration. Alternatively use it at the entrance to the reception area to point guests in the right direction.

Autumn WreathMake use of an abundance of leaves for an autumn wedding. Create wreathes of dried leaves and use them as isle decorations or to mark the rows reserved for family.

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It’s in the little (and big) details

You’ve got the tickets, saved up your spending money and googled everything about your destinations. Now you need to pack. But what do you take and what do you leave?Here is a list of items to ensure you’re not dragging a massive bag with or that you have to buy half the essentials for twice the price elsewhere.

Essentials:• Plane ticket or proof of purchase• Passport/visas/driver’s license

• Credit cards (if you really need them)• Hotel reservation confi r-mations• Traveller’s cheques.• Two sets of copies of all of the above, as well as one of your medical aid/travel insurance and prescriptions.• Phone numbers for your doctor, house/pet sitter and card companies (in case you lose your cards or they’re stolen)• Prescription medicine (in the original packaging)• Contraception• Travel locks and luggage tags

• Camera

Pack in:• Insect repellent• Sunscreen• Sunglasses• Aloe vera• Basic fi rst aid kit• Female sanitary neces-

sities• Paperback books (you can leave them at the hotel or a bookstore when you’ve read them)• A deck of cards• A tote bag for the beach/pool

• Guidebook• Electric plug converter/adapter

Toiletries (buy travel-size):• Toothpaste and –brushes• Deodorant

• Cosmetics and remover• Cottons balls and swabs• Comb brush• Nail fi le/clippers• Shaving cream• Razors• Hair accessories

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What to pack for your honeymoon

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Compiled by Retha NelSource: http://www.elle.com/beauty/hair/best-wedding-hairstyles-2013, http://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/beauty/hair-trends/2012/02/wedding-hairstyles-2012

You’ve got the venue, the dress, the accessories and now you have to decide on your hair. Take inspiration from these beautiful wedding hairstyles for you, your bridesmaids or even

for a special guest.

Tiara chignonFeel like a prin-cess try a simple, elegant knot or go for an elegant braid twisted into a chignon in the nape of the neck. A plain hairdo will focus the attention on your beauti-ful tiara and not detract from your make-up.

Classic braidThere is a reason the braid has remained a � rm favourite with brides. A loose braid inter-twined with rib-bons or � owers is more whimsi-cal, while a tight braid radiates elegance and class.

Fresh � owersCreate a fairytale image with loose wavy hair crowned by a garland of fresh � owers. This look can be recreated with both long and short hair.

Simple updoThis simple updo is created by roll-ing up the hair from the outside and securing it with pins on the inside.

Twist itA twist on the classic bun, instead of braiding the hair, twist and intertwine the part-

ings to create this beautiful tangle.

Short and classyYou don’t have to grow your hair or go through the pain of hair extensions to look gorgeous on your wedding day. A Chinese bob cut framed by a broad, sparkly hairband can be just as classy as � owing locks.

Hair ornamentLike the tiara hairdo, an elabo-rate hair orna-ment features more strongly with a simple hairdo. A side-swept fringe and a high bun is transformed in an elegant do with snow� ake clips.

Braid updoPerfect for black tie parties and formal weddings. This updo uses a high ponytail as base. Braid the ponytail and coil it around into a bun.

Simple wavesLess is more with this look – simple curls brushed to one side. This can make the bride’s neck look longer and slimmer.

Beehive glamBoth classic and modern, this beehive style is simple enough to add hair accessories but chic enough to keep plain.

gorgeous wedding hairstyles

D i e troubegroting is seker die grootste knelpunt van enige troue en verg deeglike beplanning en oorweging. Om seker te maak dat jy nie vergeet om die koek of tafeldoeke te bestel nie, is hier ‘n lys van troubenodighede om af te merk.

Seremonie:Huur van lokaalTrou-amptenaar/predikant

Onthaal:SpysenieringBreekgoed en messegoedGlaswareDekor (tafeldoeke, plek-matjies, stoeloortreksels,ens)Drinkgoed (water, koel-drank, sjampanje, alkohol)KroegdiensKoekMusiek

Trou-uitrustings:TrourokSkoene

BykomstighedeUitrustings vir strooimei-sies/strooij onkers RingeHare en grimeringBruidegom se uitrusting

Fotografi e:Fotograaf se tariefVideograaf se tarief

Blomme:KerkOnthaallokaalTafelrangskikkingsBruid se ruikerRuikers vir strooimeisies

Drukwerk:Save-the-date-kaartjiesUitnodigingsProgrammePleknaam-kaartjiesBedankingskaartjies

Vervoer:Vir troupaarGevolgOuers

Geskenke en allerlei:GastegeskenkiesGeskenke vir die strooimeisiesGasteboek en -pen

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Die begroting – wat moet ek als betaal?

Compiled by Retha NelBron: Huisgenoot Trou 2013

D i e Onthaal:

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Die begroting – wat moet

Wenke:Ondersteun liefdadigheidswin-kels. Die geld gaan aan verskeie projekte en daar is baie wins-kopies te vind.Kies ‘n onthaalruimte met na-tuurlike dekorelemente soos grasperke, mooi boompies, dam-metjies of fonteine.Dit is meestal goedkoper om self van jou benodighede te maak, soos die kaartjies, geskenkies vir die gaste en van die dekorelemente. As jy nie self ‘n slag met sulke dinge het nie, span ‘n familielid of vriend in (met behulp van ‘n blok duur sjokolade of ‘n bott el wyn).

Wedding invitations come in all shapes and sizes these days — from elaborate cards to simple but colourful emails. The message it contains is, however, the most important part of the invite.The bride’s parents are traditionally the hosts, thus their names are usually in the � rst line of the card, fol-lowed by the grooms names eg Martin & Marie Smith and André and Alice le Roux cordially invite you to the wedding of Larize and Shaun.

ModernAs most couples host their own wedding, the cards can also re� ect this eg Together with their families, Miss Annabelle Marais and Mr Reynard van Wyk....

Divorced parentsList their names on separate lines, with mom’s name � rst. If she remarried use her married name. Tradition dictates that stepparents are omitted from the invite, but add them if you like.

Parent passed awayYou don’t have to add a parent who has passed away, but many feel that this is a way for their parent to be part of the proceedings. Just make sure that the word-ing re� ects that the parent has passed away.

Middle names and titlesYou don’t have to add titles and middle names, but

this is appropriate for formal weddings and can make for an impressive card.

Request lineMany couples hold the wedding and reception separately and invite di� erent people. Make sure your invites re� ect where the wedding and reception is being held. If it is held at a church use ‘request the honour of your presence’, in-formal ceremony: ‘would be delighted by your presence at the marriage of their children, informal reception only: ‘invite you to join them at the wedding reception of’.

Date and timeTraditionally the time and date (num-bers) are spelled out but these days only numerals are used (for easier read-ing).

WhereThere is no need to put in the exact address of well-

known locations, but if you’re expecting guests unfamiliar with the area please do. Add a map of the area as an insert or paste it on the back of the invite to make sure guests don’t get lost.

RSVPThe RSVP line tradition-ally goes in the lower

left corner. If you plan on mailing guests their invite, then add a reply card, en-velope and stamp. The quicker way is to give an email address or phone number to RSVP to.

Special detailsLet your guests know if the reception doesn’t include a full meal, but fi nger foods instead. Re-member to specify the type of dress – black tie, casual or theme.

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How to write the invites

this is appropriate for formal weddings and can make

and invite di� erent people. Make sure your invites re� ect where the wedding and reception is being held. If it is held at a church use ‘request the honour of your presence’, in-formal ceremony: ‘would be delighted by your presence at the marriage of their children, informal reception only: ‘invite you to join them at the wedding

Traditionally the time and date (num-bers) are spelled out but these days only numerals are used (for easier read-

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left corner. If you plan on

Crazy Wedding

Facts• The term “best man” dates back

to the times when Scotsmen kidnapped their future brides. The friend of the groom who had excelled at the abduction was acclaimed to be the best man.

• The largest wedding attendance was a Jewish wedding in Jerusalem in 1993 where 30,000 people attended.

• It was the accepted practice in Babylon 4,000 years ago that for a month after the wedding, the bride’s father would supply his son-in-law with all the mead he could drink. Mead is a honey beer, and because their calendar was lunar based, this period was called the “honey month” or what we know today as the honeymoon.”

• Life in the 1500’s: Most people got married in June because they took their yearly bath in May and were still smelling pretty good by June. However, they were starting to smell, so brides carried a bouquet of fl owers to hide the body odor.

• The wedding shower originated with a Dutch maiden who fell in love with an impoverished miller. Her friends “showered” her and her groom with many gifts so the couple could do without her dowry.

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1. Round brilliant cutThis cut in the most tradi-tional and popular of the cuts. Around 80% of dia-monds used in jewellery are sold in this cut. It has also been found to be the most beautiful and bril-liant of all shapes because of the 58 facets it has. This cut is mostly set in soli-taire ring settings to show o� their shine.2. Princess cutThe princess cut is the second most popular cut. Although beautiful, this

cut is not as brilliant be-cause of its four corners which allow too much light to leak out.3. Marquise cutThis is a favourite of roy-alty for its elegant cut. Be-cause of the long shape, the bride’s � ngers will also appear longer. Due to its large surface area it will appear larger than what it weighs in carats. For this reason you can buy a smaller marquise diamond ring that you would in a di� erent dia-

mond shape because it looks larger. A proper cut will be very sparkly, but the cut could exhibit a bow-tie eff ect (in the cen-tre, where it is not as bril-liant).4. Oval cutThis cut is usually used with two smaller dia-monds on either side of it. It is not regularly used in solitaire rings, but fre-quently appears in triple-diamond settings. An excellent cut has a lot of brilliance and � re.

Most girls dream of a brilliant, sparkly diamond ring when they think of weddings. Besides deciding on the ring’s shape, there is a surprising

amount of cuts that diamonds come in. When choosing a ring, carefully consider which will � t your beloved best. A single, simple diamond in a

beautiful cut can easily outclass any gaudy, over-the-top creation.

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Diamonds are a girl’s best friend

Round Princess Marquise Oval

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Cupcake stacksTriple the taste with cupcake stacks. Use dif-ferent � avours with each level and decorate with � u� y buttercream icing in your wedding colours.

Cupcakes in a jarLet guests take their dessert home as a favour. In a glass jar sand-wich a vanilla cup-cake with a layer of jam and a generous dollop of cream-cheese frosting. Secure a wooden spoon with a ribbon tied around the jar.

Chocoholic’s treatTreat chocoholic guests with tiny molten chocolate cakes. Stick a fork into the soft chocolate outer and discover the runny, delicious centre. There are many cupcake variations on this dessert. Pick one that � ts your budget and taste and jazz it up with ganache or interesting garnish.

Rose bouquetsMake miniature bouquets of your cupcakes by adding me-ringue or sugarpaste roses to the top of a plain cupcake. Let the colours and � avours match your wedding colours or � owers and use them as centrepieces.

Choc-mocha cupcakesGive your guests an energy boost

for late night dancing by adding a shot of mocha to your cupcakes. Co� ee-chocolate cakes slathered with chocolate mousse, covered with chocolate glace will satisfy both chocolate and co� ee lovers.

Meringue and berry cupcakesThis delicious confec-tion isn’t actually a cupcake. Meringue pieces were layered with berry compote and whipped cream for a sweet, airy des-sert.

Brownie bitesScore some brownie points with your guests with this bite-size snack. Bake brownies in cupcake cases and cover with smooth chocolate ganache. These can be decorated with the cou-ple’s initials or chocolate buttons.

Pavlova cupcakesServe individual pavlovas by baking them in miniature cupcake cases. This pavlova is a pu� y meringue with a crispy outer shell covering a soft, melty inside. Top this with yogurt cream and sugared fruit as garnish.

Mini cheesecakesRecreate a coff ee shop favourite by baking them in small cupcake cases. These treats were decorated with raspberry purée hearts.Vanilla cupcakesThese cupcakes are a blank slate and can be decorated to match the decor. Pipe swirls of plain frosting and add sugared or fresh � owers or round them o� with the couple’s initials in sugarpaste.

Fashionable wedding cupcakesThe cupcake is one of the most fashionable bites at weddings these days, with many couples using them instead of the

traditional wedding cake. Surprise your guests with one of these interesting tiny cakes for dessert or to take home as a favour.

Cupcakes in a jarLet guests take their dessert home as a favour. In a glass jar sand-wich a vanilla cup-cake with a layer of jam and a generous dollop of cream-cheese frosting. Secure a wooden spoon with a ribbon tied around the jar.

Chocoholic’s treat

Meringue and berry cupcakesThis delicious confec-tion isn’t actually a cupcake. Meringue pieces were layered with berry compote and whipped cream for a sweet, airy des-sert.

cake with a layer of jam

Rose bouquetsMake miniature bouquets of your cupcakes by adding me-ringue or sugarpaste roses to the top of a plain cupcake. Let the colours and � avours match your wedding colours or � owers and use them as centrepieces.

Choc-mocha cupcakesGive your guests an energy boost

for late night dancing by adding a shot of mocha to

Brownie bitesScore some brownie points with your guests with this bite-size snack. Bake brownies in cupcake cases and cover with smooth chocolate ganache. These can be decorated with the cou-ple’s initials or chocolate buttons.

Pavlova cupcakesServe individual pavlovas by baking them in miniature

favourite by baking them in small cupcake cases. These treats were decorated with raspberry purée hearts.Vanilla cupcakesThese cupcakes are a blank slate and can be decorated to match the decor. Pipe swirls of plain frosting and add sugared or fresh � owers or round them o� with the couple’s initials in sugarpaste.

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groom/@center/272440/wedding-etiquette-adviserDay vs nightConsider when the wedding will take place. Daytime weddings tend to be shorter and the temperature warmer, while night-time weddings tend to last well into the next morn-ing and get quite chilly. Match the styleMake sure that your style of dress � ts the occasion. If you’re planning a formal reception in a ballroom then a ballgown-style dress would be best and your groom would look gorgeous in a matching black-tie tuxedo. For an outdoor or more cas-ual wedding, why not try wearing a

white sundress and a smart-casual suit for the couple?FormalA long, white dress is a wedding classic for a reason. They are perfect for both formal and informal. Strap-less dresses are considered formal, but are traditionally more appro-priate for evening weddings. The groom can use a formal occasion to wear a tuxedo or morning suit with a cutaway jacket, waistcoat and as-cot. This is strictly appropriate for evening functions.Semi-formalThe sheath dress is an excellent

dress for a daytime wedding. Pair with fun or funky accessories like wedges. Cocktail dresses (above/below knee) are also a nice option. Tradition dictates that daytime brides should stay away from strap-less dresses.InformalWith an informal wedding the op-tions are limitless, just be sure to � t in with the style of the wedding. A simple, light dress in cotton or simi-lar is very appropriate. The groom would be comfortable in a cotton or linen suit in plain colours with a colourful tie.

Wedding attire: fabulous or flop?The wedding dress is the key element of any wedding and a lot of brides plan their themes around that perfect dress. This is

after all the out� t you’ll be immortalised in on your wedding photo.When choosing your out� ts for your big day there are several factors that will in� uence your decision:

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Vinyl RunnerAs a spill-proof alternative use a swatch of vinyl as a runner. Besides not disinte-grating if spilled on, it also adds a di� er-ent texture to the decor.

DIY table runnersTable runners are a perfect way to round o� your table surfaces and can provide a beautiful base for centre pieces and

table settings. Even unusual materials can create a beautiful e� ect.

Straw mat runnerStraw mats are often used as table mats, why not use a longer, thinner mat as a runner? This is perfect for outdoor, trop-ical or rustic themes.

Gift wrap RunnerSearch through your local Cardies or craft shop for beautiful wrapping pa-per. The black-and-white houndstooth wrapping paper pictured adds a touch of elegance to an evening reception.

Crepe paper RunnerCrepe paper is available in many dif-ferent colours and has a lovely texture. Use it to add a splash of colour to your tables.

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tafelrangskikkings by troues gebruik word nie — kerse, vere en selfs feëliggies word deesdae ingespan. Die nuutste gier is egter ‘n eetbare meesterstuk van

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suiker word geoes van wit beet, en is nie tradisionele rietsuiker nie. Dit word gesmelt teen 160˚C, deur ‘n skokproses ge-neem (waarby die

suiker stabiliseer), dan is dit gereed vir

gebruik. Dis uiters warm en moet met baie

sorg gehanteer word. Enige vorm of lengte kan

gemaak word.

Suikerballe word ook geblaas met ‘n “sugar blower” en kan gebruik word in die meesterstukke.Sjokoladerose word gemaak deur die sjokolade te smelt en teen 37˚C in sekere vorms en stolmetodes te gebruik. Elke roos word met baie sorg gemaak Die basis van die meesterstukke is ook van suiker. Enige kleur kan gemeng word, op enige koek gemonteer word en is pragtig en lekker om te eet. Dit is besonders mooi op troukoeke en mini-troukoekies. “So belangrik as wat die rok is, net so belangrik is die troukoek,” meen me Melani Lamprecht, die meesterbrein agter Cre8tive Cakes.Die suiker kan ook deur ‘n ander proses in koraalvormige-kristalle omgeskep word. Die kokende suikermengsel kan ook oor ys gegiet word, om pragtige koraalvorms te maak.Cre8tive Cakes maak verder ook ontwerperstroukoeke — as die bruid dit kan droom kan húlle dit maak. Koekgeure soos vanielje, sjokolade, maroela, karamel, ‘fudge’, sjampanje, amandel en wortelkoek is beskikbaar.Vir meer inligting oor hierdie interessante skeppings, besoek www.creativeparties.co.za.

10 September 2013

Suikerkuns: tafelrangskikkingsDit is al lankal nie meer

net blomme wat as tafelrangskikkings by troues

gebruik word nie — kerse, vere en selfs feëliggies word deesdae ingespan. Die nuutste gier is egter ‘n eetbare meesterstuk van

suiker en sjokolade. En dit is nou in Tzaneen beskikbaar by Cre8tive Cakes.Hierdie proses is uiters sensitief en verg baie sorg en geduld. Die

suiker word geoes

dan is dit gereed vir gebruik. Dis uiters

warm en moet met baie sorg gehanteer word.

Enige vorm of lengte kan gemaak word.

Suikerkuns: tafelrangskikkings

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Don’t assumeIt’s not compulsory for your parents to pay for the whole wedding, so don’t assume they will. Be-cause so many couple have lived together before they get married, they tend to pay for the ceremo-ny and reception out of their own pockets.

Talk about itWhen � guring out your budget talk about who is contributing and how much. Be sure that eve-ryone is happy about the amount they’re giving before paying any deposits.

Going big isn’t necessaryIf you can’t a� ord a big reception with the wed-ding ceremony, rather plan a small gathering of good friends and close family. That way you can save for a larger reception at a later stage.

Communication is keyKeep everyone who is contributing money in the loop during the planning stages. This will ensure that they know what they pay for and you don’t spend more than you have.

Ask questions

When booking the various elements of the wedding ask about the included services and hidden costs. That way you’ll be sure that you can a� ord it.

Keep your bridal party in mindWedding costs can quickly get out of control, so keep in mind how your decisions will a� ect con-tributors. Make sure that everyone knows what they have to buy or pay and try not to place too big a burden on them. You’re going to be sur-rounded by friends and family on your wedding day and you’ll want everyone to have fun.

Keep track of your � nancesMake sure you know which deposits or bills have been paid, by whom and how. This will avoid bills going unpaid and contributors go-ing over budget.

Never ask guests for moneyIt is extremely rude to ask your guests for mon-ey instead of gifts. You should rather register at shops for gift cards or make arrangements at your local travel agents if guests would prefer to contribute to your honeymoon.

The Budget: Avoiding pitfalls

Before you even get to the planning stage of a wedding there is already a looming problem. Yup, that’s right — the Budget. Here are a few do’s and

don’ts to help you avoid arguments, tears and ultimately family feuds.The biggest part of a wedding reception is

the food. Make it memorable by trying these interesting alternatives to traditional catering.

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• DonutsPile a variety of donuts on a tiered cake stand as part of the dessert table.• Mini burgersYou’ll be sure to satisfy most ap-petites with a hamburger. Serve platters of mini beef and chicken hamburgers with several dif-ferent dipping sauces as � nger food before the reception.• PopcornAs an interesting dessert or � n-ger food serve caramel or sa-voury popcorn in cones.• Ice cream / Sorbet Cool down your guests in sum-mer with a bowl of gourmet ice cream or sorbet. Don’t be afraid to serve interesting � avours.• Regional cuisineIf the couple comes from dif-ferent cultures build the theme

around one of them. Using tra-ditional dishes will put family members at ease and be an ad-venture for friends.• Chip ’n dipGive hungry guests cones fi lled with fresh hot chips and a choice of dips as a late night snack.• Sushi barTreat friends and family a treat by hiring a professional sushi chef to make sushi on demand. Keep the menu small and simple to avoid a long wait for hungry guests.• PiesServe a platter of sweet and sa-voury pies as hors d’oeuvres or give guests mini-tarts for dessert. •Soup shootersA new twist on a traditional starter. Serve your guests a vari-ety of soups in shot glasses.

Alternative catering

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Candy BoxesSend your guests home with something sweet. Fill small brightly coloured box-es with chocolates or sweets and wrap in cellophane. Tie a thank you note to each of the boxes with a piece of wool, matching ribbon or piece of lace.

Flower boxesMake the favours your table deco-rations by using plain boxes with faux � ower arrangements glued to the top. Arrange these around a matching larger box which can double as storage space for nap-kins or confetti. The small boxes

can be � lled with a petit fours or two or a piece of wedding cake.

Mix and MatchGive each guest a set of coasters and jazz up the � at boxes by swopping dif-ferent coloured lids and bottoms. Glue on printed labels with the couple’s names and make sure the lids are se-cured with black elastic cords.

Elegant Cookie CubesStack iced cookies in wooden or plastic cubes with your monogram on all sides. Wrap in plastic and tie securely with a ribbon.

Bird boxesFor a fantasy or outdoor theme give guests a little treat packaged in these cute boxes with a bird on top.

Love PoetryPrint out your favourite poem in newsprint to wrap boxed favours in. Tie a message spelled in beads for a romantic love letter gift.

Cherry blossom boxesBut Menthos or mint sweets in petal favour boxes and arrange � ve of them in a circle for a beautiful cherry blossom table decoration.

Jam jar FavoursGet an aunt or grandmother to make seasonal jam. Send each guest home with their own small jar of de-liciousness.

Herb FavoursEnviromentally conscious? Give each of your guests a small pot with a herb plant like basil, parsley or oregano. Print out examples of dishes each herb can be used in and wrap it around the pot.

Regional FavoursIf you’re expecting guests from far away consider using regional spe-cialties as wedding favours. In the Tzaneen area there are numerous options — oranges, macadamias, honey, dried fruit or Coach House nougat. Put a few in a bag, add per-sonalizes labels or stickers with a thank you message.

Personalized Candy FavoursFill stackable containers with di� er-ent jelly sweets or jelly beans.

Fan programs and confettiIf you get married in the summer, consider printing your programs on paddle fans to help keep guests cool. Add a bag of confetti or dried herbs for the confetti toss.

Bird’s Nest FavoursCharm guests with a small faux bird’s nest � lled with tiny chocolate eggs or sugar-coated almonds.

Something to take homeThere are many ways to remind guests of your wedding day. Some people give engraved glasses or a tote bag and

others prefer a sweeter alternative. Here are some ideas for beautiful favours your guests might just save for a rainy day.

Compiled by Retha NelSource: http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/228556/50-great-wedding-favors/@center/316393/wedding-favors#140872

LanternHolding a lantern instead of a bou-quet is a great way of bringing some magic into a night wedding. Lanterns can range from small

tealight-candle ones to large hurricane lanterns. Choose one that � ts with your out� t and that you can carry easily.

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The bridal bouquet: fans, feathers and flowers

Girls queue for this part of the evening — the bouquet toss. For some this is

one of the highlights of the evening, for others the bouquet is an integral part of their out� t. Make your bouquet and

out� t memorable with these interesting bridal bouquet ideas.

Compiled by Retha NelSource: http://o� beatbride.com/2009/03/wedding-bouquets, http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/269161/unique-wedding-bouquets/@center/272502/bouquets

FansAdd some character to your out-� t by using a vintage fan instead of � owers. This is also a great way to keep cool (and your make-up from melting) in summer.

Anemone bouquetUse simple � owers in an unu-sual colour like this beautiful ar-rangement of anemones.

ButtonButtons aren’t just used to keep clothes fastened anymore. Use interesting vintage buttons to create a visual masterpiece.

Leaf bouquetUse a variety of big leaves tied with a length of ra� a for a fresh, beach-like bouquet.

CandyHave your bouquet and eat it! Create a yummy confectionary bouquet with a variety of sweets in your wedding colours.

Dried � ower bouquetAnother option that will not wilt. Use a variety of dried � owers combined with potpourri for a fragrant, vintage bouquet.

FeatherFeathers add a bit of swag to your out� t. Create a feather ar-rangement to match a fringe on your dress or a beautiful hair ornament.

Felt � owerMake sure your bouquet lasts longer than the night by creat-ing a bouquet of felt � owers. This can also add a pop of colour to a plain dress

Bead bouquetAdd some sparkle to a plain wedding dress with an arching bead bouquet.

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14 September 2013

In the olden days, the groom’s family would pro-vide catt le to the bride’s family to thank them for raising their daughter.

Lobola in the past, almost like today was used as a platform for the groom to show his future in-laws that he is capable of taking care of their daughter.

Since women were not economically equivalent to their male counterparts, they were expected to stay at home, cook, clean, do laundry, raise chil-dren and still take care of their husbands.

Thank God for gender equality, women can now have the best of both worlds.

They can still wear their stilett os and climb the corporate ladder by day and wear an apron and be moms and wives by night.

This has changed the way in which lobola is be-ing charged as many women are becoming more educated and empowered.

Since there is no lobola regulation board, there is no agreement as to say how much is too much.

It merely depends on the family of the bride to estimate their daughter’s worth. This then deter-mines the bridal price.

A few aspects are considered when the bride price is determined, these are:

1. The level of education: how many degrees, certi� -cates does the potential bride hold?2. How many children does she have? This factor is

also important as it decreases the bride’s worth, es-pecially if the children are not her future husband’s biological kid(s). However, the groom is also charged lobola for his bride’s off spring(s), and sometimes the child then takes his/her stepfather’s surname. Women without children are viewed as pure in a sense that they do not have children out of wedlock. This cre-ates an impression that this childless bride should be worth more.3. Age: the older you are, the cheaper the bride price becomes. If your biological clock is up and you are in your late 20’s,30’s,40’s and God forbid 50’s and are without child, you become cheaper. If you do have children and happen to get married again, there is an exception. Children mean a lot to the in-laws, they ex-pect grandchildren from their bride. 4. Position: If you are a woman of stature who has “made it” career wise, you are worth more than some-one who does not have a career. You are capable of-bringing more money into your marriage. You won’t be a � nancial burden to your future husband.5. Assets: If you own property, fancy cars or a business, you are worth more than a bride who doesn’t own any of these assets.6. If the bride is from a royal family: her bride price increases.

In all essence, lobola should boil down to love and two families coming together to celebrate the new love of their children.

Lobola is a cultural and traditional practice of the Nguni people, where cattle or money is granted to the bride’s family by the groom and his extended family in

exchange for the bride.To some, lobola is a money-making scheme, to others it’s a token of appreciation

to the parents of their future bride.Many brides strictly adhere to wedding traditions and superstitions to ensure

their married life starts on the right note. If you avoid walking under a ladder, hate

black cats or don’t step on cracks, this advice is for you.

Compiled by Tshegofatso NgobeniTshegofatso Ngobeni writes from her own personal views, observations and experience and do not intend to o� end any of my readers.

Compiled by Retha Nelhttp://www.marthastewartweddings.com/345519/common-wedding-traditions-and-

superstitions/@center/272419/youre-engaged

The concept of Lobola 12 wedding superstitions and traditions

1. Something Old, New, Borrowed, and Blue This is a well-known rhyme repeated when the bride is deciding on her out� t. Something old rep-resents the bride’s past, the new happy future. Something borrowed should be from someone who is happily married in the hope that her good fortune rubs o� on the bride. Blue is to symbolise � delity and love.2. The veilThe custom of wearing a veil at the wedding cere-mony originated in Rome. The bride would wear a veil when walking down the aisle as a disguise so that evil spirits who were jealous of her happiness would not recognise her.3. Not seeing each other before the weddingThis superstition comes from the time of ar-ranged marriages. Peo-ple believed that if the couple saw each other they would have time to change their minds be-fore the wedding. Howev-er, these days many cou-ples prefer to take their wedding photos before the ceremony.4. Rain on your wedding dayThis occurrence symbol-ises fertility and cleansing in some cultures.5. Knives as a wedding giftKnives signify a broken re-lationship and are there-fore, according to folklore, bad luck. Traditionally gift givers are given a few cent for their knives, as the gift is then considered a pur-chase.6. Carrying your bride over the thresholdIn medieval Europe many believed that the bride was extra vulnerable to evil spirits through the

soles of her feet. The groom therefore carried the bride into their new home to avoid bringing in any evil spirits.7. A spider on your dressFinding a spider on your wedding dress is consid-ered to be a good omen according to English lore.8. Sugar cubeGreeks believe that plac-ing a sugar cube on the bride will sweeten the marriage. A twist on this could be to use sugar cubes as decoration for food and drinks.9. Crossing a monk or nun’s pathIt is considered extremely bad luck to see a nun or monk on the way to your wedding. It is said that the bride will be cursed with a barren life dependent on charity.10. Chime bellsThe Irish chime bells at weddings to keep evil spirits away and ensure the couple has a harmo-nious family life. Some brides include small bells in their bouquets to re-mind them of their sacred wedding vows and bells are a common wedding gift.11. Breaking glassAt Italian weddings the newlyweds smash a vase or glass at their wedding. The amount of pieces the glassware breaks into is said to symbolise the amount of years they’ll be happily married.12. Crying on your wedding dayThe bride will enjoy good fortune if she cries on her wedding day. Her tears symbolise that she had shed all her tears and will not cry during her mar-riage. Make sure you’re wearing waterproof mascara to avoid nasty streaks.

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When all the planning, eating and dancing is over on the wedding day, the newlyweds get to slip away for their honeymoon. But why travel abroad if there are so many great destinations in South Africa? Here is a list of nine interesting honeymoon destinations where you and your loved one can create memories to last a lifetime. Gauteng: SowetoIf you want to spend your honeymoon in a vibrant, lively area, why not visit Soweto. There are a range of hotels and guest houses to choose from and it’s just a stone’s throw away from the metropolitan areas of Johannesburg and Pretoria. Visit the many landmarks like Mandela House and Walter Sisulu Square or the Nelson Mandela Na-tional Museum. Catch a soccer game or experience the nightlife by visiting one of the many shebeens and enjoy-ing some Kwaito or Kasi Rap.

Western Cape: Cape TownOne of the best South African destina-tions, Cape Town o� ers a variety of ac-tivities to enjoy. Take long walks on the beach, visit historic spots like Robben Island or the Van Riebeeck Castle or do some shopping at the V&A Waterfront. Lounge in luxury at a beach front hotel or eat � sh and chips wrapped in newspaper on a sidewalk. Visit one of the many wine cellars within driving distance or go up Table Mountain with a cable car.

Mpumalanga: MbombelaMpumalanga is home to many game reserves, the Kruger National Park, as well as the Blyde River Canyon and many waterfalls like the Mac Mac Falls. Sate your appetite for adventure with white river rafting, canopy tours and quad bike trails. Visit historical spots like Pelgrim’s Rest or the memorial for Jock of the Bushveld. Pamper yourself at one of the exclusive game reserves’ health spa’s or go shopping at one of Mbombela’s many shopping centres.

Limpopo: Kruger National ParkThe Kruger Park is a wonderful desti-nation for couples who love nature or want a bit of peace and quiet. Stake out a watering hole for a photo safari or go for a night drive. Archaeologi-cal sites like Masorini and Thulamela provide information on early life in the area and the Elephant Museum at Le-taba explores the wonder of elephants. Relax at one of the various camps, overnight hides or luxury lodges with their gorgeous views, restaurants and interesting gift shops.

North West: MagaliesbergClose to the heartbeat of SA, Johan-nesburg, Magaliesberg o� ers you beautiful mountain views, bird watch-ing walks and adventure for adrenaline junkies. Go for a trail ride on horse-back/quad bike or get your blood pumping with a canopy tour. Take a tour through the oldest gold mine in Gauteng or pan for gold at the Blaaw-bank Historic Gold Mine. Enjoy some cheese at the local cheese farm or visit the art gallery of Angela Eidelman.

Northern Cape: ColesbergVisit one of the many heritage build-ings in town, like the Dutch Reformed Church. Enjoy delicious food at one of the many restaurants and pubs on-site at many of the guest houses and B&B’s in town. Guest farms in the district o� er accommodation with 4x4 and mountain bike trails, game hunting and bird watching.

Eastern Cape: Port ElizabethPE is situated at the eastern end of the Garden Route and a favourite tourist destination. Go for a swim or sunbathe at one of the many beaches, visit his-toric attractions and art museums or go shopping at the Boardwalk Water-front complex. The Addo Elephant Park is within driving distance as well as Algoa Bay which o� ers scuba diving, windsur� ng and kiteboarding. Swim with the dolphins or go for a sunset cruise.

Explore SA for your honeymoon

Kwazulu Natal: DurbanDurban is packed with tourist attrac-tions – visit uShaka Marine World or see horseracing at the Greyville Race-course. Exotic and beautiful birds await you at the Umgeni River Bird Park or buy curios at the Markets of Warwick, a large informal street market. Play blackjack or go for a show at the Sun-coast Casino & Entertainment World.

Free State: ParysThe quaint town of Parys gives you a peek of bygone days. Visit the many

historical buildings and heritage sites or taste a beer at one of their three breweries. Close by are SA’s only black raspberry farms and largest wild olive forest. Breë and Water Streets are home to a diverse collection of art gal-leries, antique and gift shops and turn of the century memorabilia. There are also an abundance of restaurants and co� ee shops selling fare like vetkoek, tripe and delicious cakes. Relax at one of the many spa’s while listening to sound of the Vaal River.