Joseph A. Devito’s Barriers to Interpersonal Communication Racist, Sexist, and Heterosexist Listening ● What is Racist, Sexist, and Heterosexist listening? o Just as Racism, Sexism, and Heterosexism influences language, it can also influence the way we listen. o This concept refers to the assumption that what someone is saying is influenced by the speaker’s sex, race, or sexuality ▪ For example, “Of course he complimented her shirt, he’s so gay.” ● Why should I avoid this listening? o Allowing someone’s message to be influenced by their race, sexuality, or sex leaves room for misunderstanding, misinterpretation, and the proliferation of stereotypes. ● How do I correct Racist, Sexist, and Heterosexist Listening? o Practice listening to the speaker’s message irrespective of their race, sex, or sexual orientation/identity. o Realize when you are filtering a person’s message through these labels and correct yourself accordingly. o Realize the people you communicate with are complex individuals and should never be limited to just a label. University Speaking Center, speakingcenter.uncg.edu, (336) 256-1346; DeVito, Joseph A. The interpersonal communication book. 10th ed. Boston: Pearson Education, Inc., 2004