THE LAW OF ATTRACTION Getting the Relationship You Deserve Part 1
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION
Getting the Relationship You DeservePart 1
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Let me ask you this….
Do you despair of ever finding the” right” one?
Think you’re too old, too fat, too unattractive??
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Hogwash!
Right now, baby, you’re only attracting what you think you deserve….
I’m not saying you’re doing it consciously….
Huh??
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But, you’re doing it. Yup.
Let’s change that, shall we?First, we need to make sure you really know what you want…
We call this “Clarity through Contrast”
I see….
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Clarity through Contrast
Example :My Ideal Relationship
Contrast-Things I do NOT like
Clarity-Things I like
Based on previous relationships or
observances• Smoker• Hates pets• Doesn’t clean up
after himself• Disrespectful to me
and my friends• Drinks too much
Therefore, I want:
• Non-smoker• Loves dogs & cats• Tidy & helpful around
the house• asks and listens to
my opinions and feelings
• Drinks only socially or not at all *
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Yow-sa!
Now you know what you want-this is the first step in attracting the person who completes you.Take the time now to complete your own clarity list
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Next…
To attract what you want….you need to heap attention on what you desire….(the intention, not the person-we’re not advocating stalking here.)
The Law of Attraction doesn’t work if you push the desire to the back of your mind…
attention
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Remember…..
The Law only works when we bring it out, shake it off and give it sustaining attention,
power and focus.
When we create momentum within ourselves to keep our desire in the forefront of our
thoughts… the Law of Attraction works to bring it into our life.
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Surprizing Ways You May Be Giving Attention to Your Desire
Talking with others about your desireDaydreaming about your desireActing “as if” you already have the desireSaying yes to somethingSaying no to somethingFeeling anxiety about something Complaining about something Thinking positive thoughtsThinking negative thoughtsWriting drawing or scrap-booking about your desireWhen you’re praying about your desire
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Are you extending + or – attention to your desire?
Contemplate the thoughts you regularly entertain regarding your desire.
Make a list of negative beliefs you now hold about your ability to attract what you desire…and change them to positive!
Hmm..good point
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To Recap:
~Clarify what you are really looking for by noticing what you don’t want~Find ways to keep ypur desire in the forefront of your consciousness~Use positive words and actions pertaining to your desire
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Next up…The Law of Attraction Part 2
How to make your affirmations work for you
How to create a Desire Statement