The Introduction Service · Affinity The Introduction Service [email protected] Tel 020 8832 9030 The Premier Introduction Service for London and the South of England Affinity

AffinityThe Introduction Service

[email protected]

Tel 020 8832 9030

The Premier Introduction Service for London and the South of England

Affinity was established in 1999 in West London. Since then we have expanded to create tens of thousands of matches between thousands of happy clients across the south of England and beyond.

Thank you for your interest in Affinity - The Introduction Service

This e-brochure showcases our services and explains how we work to help you find the new relationship you seek. It also contains our questionnaire, which we normally complete together when we meet new clients.

Sandra J McMahon

I sincerely hope that you will join us and allowing Affinity to help you to find a new partner for your life.

I hope it gives you a good idea of how we operate and what our services will deliver for you. We always welcome your futher questions or enquiries.

We are Personal Matchmakers not an Internet Dating Agency. We focus on quality of introductions, providing our clients with both standard service levels and bespoke targeted searches, all in a confidential and secure environment.

(Director)

Registered in England No. 3788238Affinity (London) Ltd, 3rd Floor 207 Regent Street, London W1B 3HH

Established: 1999

Tel. 020 8832 9030 www.affinitylondon.com [email protected]

What can you expect of Affinity?

Our Company

At Affinity we recognise that the key element in successful relationships is chemistry. We aim to assist our clients in finding this elusive factor, which is often missing from so many dates where people are randomly thrown together. Every one of us possesses a unique set of characteristics, which will prove irresistible to someone else out there; the problem is finding him or her. Our methods all focus on making that vital link using the best of personal attention backed up with information technology.

Relationships for Today

People want different things when looking for a new partner. We know that many of you will want marriage, but a lot of people want something different - a regular partner for social events, friendship, a steady relationship and so on. People live many different lifestyles and we will help you find a partner for yours.

Choose a Service to Suit You

We offer 3 different service levels to suit your requirements, ranging from a standard membership to our top level Focus service. There are no monthly retainers to pay, no charges per introduction, only one joining fee which will provide you service until the expiry of your membership. See “Our Service Levels” sheet for full information.

Our Members

Unlike many agencies, which are very insular and protective of a small membership, we do everything possible to expand our membership, and therefore offer you more choice.

In addition to marketing through national and local press, on the Internet and on radio, we encourage links and co-operation with other singles organisations, such as dining-clubs and singles holiday organisations. We target and directly mail a large number of professional, single people in London and across the south of England, with significant success. As a result, we have an extensive database of genuine single people who will want to meet you from day one. We also have absolutely no age limits.

How do we operate?

From the outset we are working for you and your success. You’ll find that our techniques are rather different from most agencies’. We have a questionnaire that will let you specify what you really want. We stress the importance of our hand selection and personal approach, combined with computer back up and our 90-point ‘Chemistry Factor’ assessment. This is an analysis based on the psychology of relationships, which will produce a picture of both you and your needs in a partner. We produce a very complete and professional picture-profile that will represent you in your best light to potential partners.

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Photography

Do people judge you on your photograph? Simply yes – it does have an enormous impact when a potential partner reads your details. Don’t panic if you feel you don’t photograph well. When we meet, we can take high quality digital photograph of you If you do have a favourite photo of your own, then we can also scan that into our system, provided that it is recent and good quality.

Confidentiality & Security

When you consider an introduction service you may want to keep it to yourself. Many agencies allow their clients to browse through the profiles of one and all of their members at will. The contact details may be removed but the photographs are there for all to see – your boss, colleague or even your ex-partner could be reading your most personal details! With Affinity this will never happen. Only the selected few will receive your details. There is absolutely no browsing through the members profiles allowed. When new members join us we always verify identity and address at interview, for everyone’s peace-of-mind.

Follow-Up

Matchmaking is a two-way street – we encourage your feedback to tell us how your dates are going. Our staff will appreciate your input after a date to let us know how it went. Did we get it right? Or do we need to fine-tune your requirements before your next date? The more we work together the better we can help you. We want you to help us identify the type of person you are looking for and create an opportunity for you to meet people that you would not normally come across. The more we work together the better we can help you.

ABIA Membership

You want to know that you are joining a reputable organisation. Affinity is a member of the Association of British Introduction Agencies. The ABIA produces guidelines for its members and provides you with the assurance of industry best practices.

And Finally…

Our members find that joining Affinity is a surprisingly easy and relaxing experience that soon leads to a number of interesting introductions without embarrassment.

Our aim is to provide our members with one-to-one meetings that are a pleasant surprise, and where natural similarities and common ground makes conversation spontaneous and unstilted, so that a mutual attraction can start to grow. After that the rest is up to you!

Look us up online at www.affinitylondon.com

CALL US ON (020) 8832 9030 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday

The following table illustrates the benefits of each of our service levels. Service Level Standard Premium Focus International

Membership duration 12 Months 24 Months 24 Months 24 months SKYPE or FACETIME Interview possible

NO NO NO YES

Special Overseas focused headhunting also included.

NO NO NO YES

Personally reviewed matches, not just generated by computer or at random.

YES YES YES YES

Totally Confidential Service. All member’s ID checked.

YES

YES

YES

YES

We take your photograph or use your own photograph.

YES YES YES YES

Free Pro Photo Session at your home.(5)

NO NO YES NO

Matching as a “Date” from (4) our own extensive Database.

YES YES YES YES

Searches for YOU performed on our own extensive Member Database

YES

YES

YES

YES

Focused HEADHUNT - a partner search tailored for you through adverts, affiliates, partner organisations and other routes.

NO

NO

YES

YES

Guaranteed Introductions 10 12 n/a (1) n/a (2)

Priority Matching with New Members

NO YES YES YES

Personal Reviews 1 2 Unlimited In London only Maximum “On Hold” Time possible (3)

6 Months

1 Year

2 Years

2 Years

Discount for Joining at First Interview

NO NO £50 N/A

Dating advice and guidance

NO YES YES YES

Free Interview at your home.

YES YES YES N/A

Special advertising at cost NO NO YES YES

Joining Fee including VAT

£1,050 £1,450 £2,250 £3,500

See Notes on following page

Affinity (London) Ltd. Tel. 020 8832 9030

www.affinitylondon.com [email protected] Rev: Jan 2019

NOTES

1) FOCUS is our top level of UK service but has no guaranteed number of introductions. That is because clients choosing this will have very selective requirements; hence the emphasis is on quality rather than quantity of matches.

2) INTERNATIONAL is only available to non-UK residents and is the only service we can sell to those who are resident abroad. Does not operate on a guaranteed match basis.

3) ON HOLD facility allows members to stop the clock on their elapsed membership time and reactivate later. Useful for periods when unavailable or when starting a new relationship to see how things go.

4) When you are matched as a Date, this means that you come up as potential partner when we are searching on behalf of someone of the opposite sex.

5) Pro Photo Session available at extra charge to other membership levels.

Affinity (London) Ltd. Tel. 020 8832 9030 www.affinitylondon.com [email protected] Rev: Jan 2019


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If you know you want only the best from us, then Affinity Focus is for you. If you have a high-

profile lifestyle, or are extremely selective about the people you wish to meet, then Focus is

the answer. This service is our highest level of service and is about quality of matches not

quantity. We will do our utmost to find that very special and unique person who will fit with

your life and lifestyle

Affinity Focus provides you with a targeted partner search to suit your specific requirements.

Rather than being a reactive service, it is pro-active, in that we search outside our existing

membership for suitable matches for you. We will implement a tailor-made search program to

ensure that you have the maximum potential to meet the partner that you need. With Affinity

Focus we go that one step further than a regular introduction service to target the right people

in the best possible way. How do we do this?

We hold an in-depth discussion with you to understand your priorities and identify

the qualities in a partner that are really important to you.

We offer you a “Pro Photo Session” in your home, where several shots will be taken

of you to make the very best of your image, so we can market you most effectively. You also receive the best shots from the session to keep for your own use.

We select a number of publications appropriate to your interests and lifestyle, and

place advertisements on your behalf in these, keeping your identity anonymous.

We will contact partner and affiliate agencies in our search for you.

We will contact personal advertisers in other media to select any that meet out

standards and your requirements for further vetting.

We receive the letters, phone calls and web-site responses from these

advertisements and vet them for suitability and a match with your requirements.

Priority matching with new clients

With an extended membership of 24 months and up to 24 months on hold if required, you

have the flexibility to use the Focus membership as best suits you, when it suits you.

Personal reviews are a great way to keep in touch during your membership. Of course, we will

talk regularly on the phone, when you give us feedback from the matches we produce for you,

but nothing can replace a face-to-face meeting. Focus membership allows you to benefit from

these meetings as and when required at no extra cost.

Obviously, this level of personal attention will cost a little more, and we recognise that it’s not

for everyone. But if you are a discerning person for whom only the best will do, then Affinity

Focus could be for you. So, why not give us a call and we can discuss how we can focus on

finding your new partner.

Sincerely,

Sandra McMahon


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Affinity Premium is our higher-level service which provides extended membership and

additional benefits.

For the small additional cost over and above the Standard level you will receive double the

length of membership (24 Months), a minimum of 12 guaranteed matches and up to 12

Months “on hold” time.

The On Hold facility allows members to stop the clock on their elapsed membership time and

reactivate later. This is very useful for periods when you may be unavailable or when starting

a new relationship and wish to see how things go.

If you join us at Premium Level then you will receive priority matching before members at

lower levels. Your Premium Level membership will ensure that you receive profiles of new

joiners matching those particular requirements before lower level members. While we

generally have ample membership and a constant influx of new people, this membership level

may be of advantage to you if, for example, you wish to meet someone who is in a limited

geographic area or in a particular profession.

Personal reviews are a great way to keep in touch during your membership. Of course we will

talk regularly on the phone, when you give us feedback from the matches we produce for you,

but nothing can replace a face-to-face meeting. During your Premium Level membership

period we may arrange to meet for two free one-hour discussions. This facilitates a free

exchange of opinions on how things are going with your membership. We will discuss the

people you have met, and make any necessary changes to your profile and requirements and

maybe take a new picture. This keeps your membership ‘current’ and fresh and allows us to

do our best for you. If you are busy person and haven’t the time, there is no obligation, but

the facility is there should you need it.

We believe that Premium level is the ideal membership for many people. It offers you

excellent value for money and gives us the scope to provide you with the introductions you

need.

Sincerely,

Sandra McMahon


A STAN-3

Affinity standard offers you a quality introduction service that targets the right type of people on

our database and provides accurate matching using the best of automated search and personal

attention.

Our membership comprises:

Professional and business people, and those in specialist or creative fields of a similar status.

Single, separated, divorced or widowed people.

People who have a definite desire to form a relationship with a member of the opposite sex,

whether for friendship, dating, or something more serious.

People who want the right partner, not just any partner.

People concentrated within Greater London Home Counties & the South of England.

We will meet you to prepare your personal profile. This will highlight all of your best qualities in

order to interest potential partners. We can take a high quality photograph to accompany your

details using digital technology; this will allow you to preview and select your pose.

We combine our personal approach with computer selection techniques to match profiles from our

extensive membership database, and we also use our 90-point ‘Chemistry Factor’. This is an

analysis based on the psychology of relationships, which will produce a picture of both you and

your needs in a partner. This will be given to you at our offices, to complete with the assistance

of one of our consultants. In our view this is the key element in a successful relationship.

When you join us at Affinity, we will provide you with both Suggested Matches and Confirmed

Matches. Suggested Matches are profiles of the opposite sex for your initial approval. Confirmed

Matches are profiles of those members that have already said they would like to get in contact

with you. These will have contact details included. This means that every person you ring will

be anticipating your call.

We aim to provide an absolute minimum of 10 such introductions per year’s membership at your

request, but remember you are likely to receive many enquiries from people who want to meet

you.

In our dealings with you, all communication will be kept strictly confidential. We will also verify

the identity and address of all persons joining Affinity. We will not allow members or anyone

outside our organisation, to browse through profiles, thereby breaching confidentiality.

We believe that Affinity Standard is an excellent level of membership for many people. Those

considering it should also compare the Premium service which provides added value.

Sincerely,

Sandra McMahon


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Service Description

Affinity International (Our Service for non-UK residents)

This service is a bespoke matching service for clients who reside outside the UK for all or part

of the year, and would like to receive introductions from potential partners within the UK.

Since its inception in 1999, Affinity has often received enquiries from overseas residents. In

our globally mobile society this interest in forming international relationships continues to

grow. For this reason we introduced the Affinity International service in 2014, which caters

specifically for non-UK resident members wishing to meet a partner currently resident in the

UK.

The Affinity International service is equally suited to people seeking to move to the UK under

the right circumstances; or those who wish to meet a partner who may be interested to move

abroad to their country; it is also suited to those who maintain multiple residences globally.

We will source suitable matches for our Affinity International clients from a combination of our

existing membership plus the results of targeted external searches and headhunting.

Like our Focus membership, this is a bespoke matching service, with the following key points:-

At the time of joining, your initial interview can take-place either face-to-face in London, or by means of a Skype or FaceTime conversation.

In the case of a remote interview we will require you to provide a good quality photograph to be used on your Affinity profile.

For the purpose of Verification of Identity we require acceptable photo-ID: Passport, National ID card or Driving License are all suitable. In the case of a

remote interview we will accept a high quality scan or photograph of the

documents.

As an Affinity International member you must have email and the ability to read PDF documents.

You will receive introductions from us originating from two sources: firstly, from

our own existing membership files; secondly from the results of specific

personalised searches performed for you, our client,

We will contact partner and affiliate agencies in our search for you.

With an extended membership of 24 months and up to 24 months on hold if required, you have the flexibility to use the Affinity International membership as

best suits you, when it suits you.

We believe that Affinity International is a unique and affordable service for International

Professionals. We look forward to welcoming you as a new and valued client.

Sincerely,

Sandra McMahon

A QUALITY PHOTO MAKES A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION

Our Portrait Service is literally transforming the

acceptance rate of many of our members!

We come along to your own home with a professional photographer. We

bring professional cameras, backgrounds, lighting and all of the

paraphernalia needed to produce a selection of high quality photographs

which we can use on your profile. We can also produce a CD-ROM of

best images for you to use and print as you like, plus two 10" x 8" images

of your chosen prints.

Our service also includes all the ‘post processing’ which is so essential in modern photography.

This means using all the latest digital software to make the absolute best of your photograph.We

find that a photo session in your own home has several advantages over visiting a studio for formal

photographs: -

Travelling time and costs are included for everyone within 60 miles of Central London.

We expect to spend about two to three hours at your home, of which the first half hour is

setting up and the last half hour is packing up. On average we will photograph your for about

one and a half hours.

We may find locations in your own home that make for a good setting that will

enhance the photographs.

It is easy to change clothes and try several outfits, or different jewellery or make-up.

At home you will be far more relaxed.

You can be photographed in different looks: formal, smart casual and casual.

Most of our clients find it an interesting and fun experience and are pleased with the images

which they use for their own personal memories as well as providing us with high quality

images for their profiles.

The cost for an Affinity Professional Photo Session is £350 including VAT

020 8832 9030

www.affinitylondon.com

A word on Bereavement…

Tel. 020 8832 9030 Fax. 020 8832 9039 www.affinitylondon.com [email protected]

A New Beginning after Bereavement

A Special Situation

At Affinity we understand that the situation of a person who has been widowed is very different to that of people who find themselves single again for other reasons.

Most people who have suffered the loss of a partner have to wrestle with conflicting emotions of, on the one hand, loyalty to their former partner and their lives together, and on the other, their own desire to give some new meaning and focus to life.

This is in direct contrast to the feelings of the divorced and separated, who often consider their previous relationship with feelings of bitterness.

We also found that those who have been widowed often find common ground and the basis for a new relationship with someone of the opposite sex in a similar situation. Both will usually understand that a new partner is not a replacement for a lost spouse; rather he or she can be the start of a new chapter in life that compliments the past and does not seek to destroy or invalidate those former years.

Practical Matters

On a practical level, those who are widowed will often understand existing financial or other obligations to family members, and these ties are less likely to cause conflict if you are both in the same situation.

Of course, it is not a hard and fast rule that the bereaved should never attempt a new beginning with someone who has divorced, and indeed many such relationships have succeeded. However, our approach at Affinity would be to first match you with those in a similar situation, or with those divorcees whom we believe have the necessary sensitivity and appropriate attitude of mind to understand the difference.

Joining Us

At Affinity we appreciate that dealing with any Introduction Service may seem a strange and alien concept to start with, but we hope you will soon feel at ease in dealing with us. Upon joining we will simply meet you for a friendly chat, fill in a our simple questionnaire together, and take your photograph. We will prepare your profile and send it for your approval. From that point on you will receive the profiles of others that we match you with and with your permission we will then exchange contact details. The whole process is simple, efficient, and totally confidential.

You do have to take the first step however, and that is to call us for a chat to learn more, and arrange a time to come and talk to us. Why not do it today?

Find us online at www.affinitylondon.com CALL US ON (020) 8832 9030

What Our Clients Say About Us


We have successfully matched

many clients over the years, but

here are just a few example

testimonials from satisfied

customers of Affinity…

We would be happy to show you the originals of these letters when you visit our offices.

Good Morning Sandra, Valentines Day is tomorrow, and Sue and I want to wish you a very happy one. It has been a crazy year and I am finally settling into my new life here. Sue and I got married in August.. It was a wonderful day and a beautiful wedding… She is a wonderful lady and has helped me to become a new man. We are both enjoying life so much now and could not be happier... I want to thank you very much for not only introducing me to Sue but counseling me along the way. You went far beyond the expectations of an introduction agency. We are both forever grateful for your efforts. R. (Feb13 2020) Hi Sandra, . I’m very happy with the men you have arranged for me to meet, and have said so in my review. Stuart and I have a lovely weekend planned, and we’ve just booked a 12 day holiday in Bali this summer. He is such a great guy! Hazel May 2019

Hi Sandra, Perhaps I am being overly optimistic, but I think you have done it. S and I have been talking regularly since December and she seems wonderful. Our first date was brilliant and she is coming out to visit in April…… Please forgive me for going on like a school boy with a crush, only I think you you get the picture. Ray, Feb 2018 Hello Sandra. I hope you have a very happy and healthy 2018. Thank you so much for introducing me to Alan, we are both looking forward to 2018 together and really cannot thank you enough for your amazing introduction service. You really have the most amazing talent for seeing what other people might see in somebody else. All the best, A H xxx Jan 2018 Hi Sandra Well… he is absolutely gorgeous and I may be falling in love!!!!! Its all very quick and we may both suddenly come to our senses, but at the moment things are just wonderful and I cannot believe that I have met such an amazing and utterly charming man. He makes me laugh and I have the utmost respect for him. I do not know how to thank you, Anne, July 2017 Dear Sandra, After I joined Affinity in August you immediately sent me 4 possible introductions. The only one that attracted me was (Mr R). He called me straight away and we met soon after. We knew straight away that we were happy in each other’s company and we are so well suited. We continue to meet regularly and I am very happy. To be honest I didn’t think this method would work but it has and the very first introduction as well, which is amazing! Mary, Sept 2015

What Our Clients Say About Us


Dear Sandra, Compliments of the season. I meant to contact you first Sandra. Thank you for thinking about me. I met Mr H through Affinity almost 5 years ago. We have been to Mexico, France and Zimbabwe my home Country three times. I retired from my Job two years ago and we are planning to move to Brighton to live together. Kind regards, Martha (Feb 2015)

Dear Sandra, I got married around 18 months ago to C. You kindly sent her details to me and we immediately got on. We had a registry office wedding in the UK and a church blessing in Shanghai, which was an interesting experience. Being married to C is quite an adventure. Sometimes there are little cultural differences but that is all part of our continuing journey of knowing one another! We are very grateful for the introduction. Mr A, Herts (Jan 2012) Dear Affinity, Have been thinking of writing to you for several months to say THANK-YOU! Have met

someone through your agency and we have been seeing each other since April ... We are very happy

and I hope things continue like this. You have been wonderful in your approach. I am very grateful to

you. Best wishes. (Miss R, SW London)

Many thanks for getting Belinda and I together. It's been nine months since we first started going out

and our relationship is getting stronger and stronger.(Mr R, W London)

Thank you for your friendship and continued support through the year. (Miss T, NW London)

Hi Sandra

I would recommend you to others, however we are now in New Zealand so don't have much contact with people in

the UK anymore!

You introduced me to Peter and it honestly changed my life. I met the most wonderful man who has made me

happier than I ever thought I would be. We got married and moved to NZ and just last year we had a little baby

boy who has brought more joy and happiness into our lives.

So definitely a success story!

Elizabeth

Just to say a huge thank you for introducing me to Stuart - well it worked (so far) - we

met in November, and since then he's been such a wonderful, caring and loving boyfriend.

So far its been fantastic. Thank you so so much. Affinity has been fantastic for me - I will

certainly recommend your services to anyone in need! (Miss M, Middlesex)

I just thought you would be pleased to hear that Sarah and I met yesterday and I know what people

mean when they say, “You will know when you meet the right one”. For Sarah is simply all I want,

particularly now that I’ve been happy by myself for a long time. Thank you so much for introducing

us. Time to look for a new hat!!?!! (Mr B, Berkshire)

I just wanted to let you know that I have actually met someone and am in a long-term relationship. I

actually met them through Affinity and therefore I have a lot to thank you for. Many thanks for all the

help you have provided and I will certainly have no hesitation in recommending your organisation to

friends. (Mr S. N London)

PRF-4 COPYRIGHT AFFINITY (LONDON) LTD 2014 NO PART OF THIS DOCUMENT MAY BE REPRODUCED WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF AFFINITY (LONDON) LTD

PART 1 – Personal Details 1 Title Mr Mrs Ms Miss Dr Other ………

2 * Surname

3 * Forename(s)

4 What do you like to be called ?(e.g. Bob)

5

Sex

Male

Female

6 Date of Birth Day Mon 19

7 * Address House name

No. / Street

Town

Postcode

Country

8 * Tel. Home

9 * Tel. Office

10 * Tel. Mobile

11 * Fax No.

12 * E-mail address

* Items above marked with an asterisk will not be disclosed without your agreement

13 Occupation

14 Marital Status Single Separated Divorced Widowed

15 How many children do you have?

How many live with you?

16 Do you live: Alone With Parents With friends

Others (specify)

………………..

17 Do you own your home? Yes No

18 Do you live in a: Flat Maisonette House Farm Country Estate

Other ……

19 What is your income bracket?

<20k 20-40k 40-60k 60-100k 100k+

20 Nationality UK N European S European Mid-East Afro/Carib

Asian

Oriental Australasian N American S.Americn Other……

21 Religion C of E Rom Catholic Jewish Moslem Hindu Agnostic Atheist Sikh

Just Spiritual Other

22 Education (maximum level attained)

GCSE O-Level A-Level Higher Education (non-degree)

Bachelor Degree

Masters or PhD


PART 2 – Lifestyle Tick one box for each of the following questions: 23 Describe how often

you drink Alcohol? Never Rarely Socially Regularly Binger Heavy

24 How often do you smoke?

Never Rarely Regularly (light)

Regularly (heavy)

25 What are your eating preferences?

Vegan Vegetarian Chicken & Fish

Kosher Other religious

Omnivore (eats

anything!)

26 Do you have a driving license?

Yes No

27 Do you own a car? Yes No PART 3 – Your partner and your life

28 What are your goals and ambitions?

29 Are you happy to meet a divorced, separated or widowed person?

Yes No

30 Are you happy to meet someone with children living with them?

Yes No

31 What age group partner are you looking for? Minimum: Maximum:

32 In your own words how would you describe your personality?

33 Are there any qualities you seek in a partner?

34 Are you happy to meet a smoker? Yes No

35 Are you hoping to have children? Yes No

36 What type of relationship might appeal to you? (tick up to 3 )

Platonic Companion

Social

Lover

Steady partner

Committed relationship

Living Together

Marriage


PART 4 – Your Appearance

37A What is your height? (In metres preferably)

37B What is your weight? (in Kilos preferably)

38 What is your Eye Colour?

39 What is your hair colour?

(tick closest ) Light Blonde

Dark Blonde

Light Brown

Mid Brown

Dark Brown

Chestnut

Red

Grey

Black

White

Bald

40 What is your skin type? Pale

Fair

Medium

Freckled

Olive

Ruddy

Tanned

Swarthy

Brown

Black

IF YOU ARE MALE THEN COMPLETE THIS SECTION

41 Hair Length Long

Medium

Short

Very Short

Receding

Balding

Bald

42 Facial Hair Beard (full)

Beard (styled)

Moustache

Full set

Sideburns

None

43 Chest Size 36 or less

38

40

42

44

46

48 plus

44 Your BUILD. Tick as many of the following words as describe you.

Lean

Athletic

Average

Thick-set

Well Built

Slightly Overweight

Rangy

Slim-hipped

Mr 6 Pack

Stocky

Plump

Broad-shouldered

Muscular

Hairy

Slight

Barrel Chested

Wiry

Paunchy

IF YOU ARE FEMALE THEN COMPLETE THIS SECTION

45 Hair Length Below Shoulders

Shoulder Length

Medium Length

Chin length

Short

Cropped

46 Dress Size (UK) 6/8

10

12

14

16

18+

47 Your BUILD. Tick as many of the following words as describe you.

Slender

Athletic

Shapely

Curvaceous

Petite

Slightly Overweight

Voluptuous

Willowy

Solid

Wide Shouldered

Pear Shaped

Plump

Broad-hipped

Boyish

Leggy

Busty

Square

Buxom


PART 5 – Your Ideal Partner’s Appearance

48 What height is acceptable to you ? (In metres preferably)

MAX MIN

49 What hair colours do you

like? (tick ALL you like)

Light Blonde

Dark Blonde

Light Brown

Mid Brown

Dark Brown

Chestnut

Red

Grey

Black

White

Bald

No Preference

50 What skin types do you like? (tick ALL you like)

Pale

Fair

Medium

Freckled

Olive

No Preference

Ruddy

Perma-Tan

Swarthy

Brown

Black

IF YOU ARE FEMALE COMPLETE THIS SECTION DESCRIBING THE MAN YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET

51 Hair Length (tick ALL you like)

Long

Medium

Short

Very Short

Receding

Balding

Bald

No Preference

52 Facial Hair (tick ALL you like)

Beard (full)

Beard (styled)

Moustache

Full set

Sideburns

None

No Preference

53 Chest Size (tick ALL you like)

36 or less

38

40

42

44

46

48 plus

No Preference

54 Your MAN’S BUILD. (tick ALL you like)

Lean

Athletic

Average

Thick-set

Well Built

Slightly Overweight

Rangy

Slim-hipped

Mr 6 Pack

Stocky

Plump

Broad-shouldered

Muscular

Slight

Barrel Chested

Wiry

Paunchy

No Preference

IF YOU ARE MALE COMPLETE THIS SECTION DESCRIBING THE WOMAN YOU WOULD LIKE TO MEET

55 Hair Length (tick ALL you like))

Below Shoulders

Shoulder Length

Medium Length

Chin length

Short

Cropped

No Preference

56 Dress Size (UK)

(tick ALL you like) 6/8

10

12

14

16

18+

No Preference

57 Your woman’s FIGURE. (tick ALL you like)

Slender

Athletic

Shapely

Curvaceous

Petite

Slightly Overweight

Voluptuous

Willowy

Solid

Wide Shouldered

Pear Shaped

Plump

Broad-hipped

Boyish

Leggy

Busty

Square

No Preference


PART 6 – Your Tastes IN EACH OF THE SECTIONS BELOW TICK UP TO SIX ITEMS YOU ENJOY, CROSS ANY YOU REALLY

DISLIKE. IF YOU HAVE NO STRONG FEELINGS LEAVE IT BLANK. SPORTS (PARTICIPANT) Rugby Cricket Golf Tennis Squash Football

Fishing Motor Racing Ski (snow) Horse-riding casual

Horse-riding competitive

Flying

Cycling Badminton Athletics Ski (water) Sailing Windsurfing

Canoeing Shooting Hockey Ice-Skating Pool Running

Swimming Sub-Aqua Power Boating Other Watersport

Personal Fitness Table-tennis

Roller-blading Mountaineering Martial Arts Snooker Darts Walking

Rowing Archery OTHER:

SPORTS (SPECTATOR) Rugby Cricket Golf Tennis Squash Darts

Power Boat Racing

Motor Racing Ski (snow) Equestrian Events

Football Snooker

Cycling Boxing Athletics Wrestling Baseball American Football

Horse Racing Gymnastics Ice-Skating OTHER:

HOBBIES & INTERESTS D.I.Y. Current Affairs Environmental

Issues Fashion Internet /

Computers Photography

Shopping Museums Art Galleries Painting Pottery Travel

Gardening Bridge Chess Cooking Voluntary Work Reading

Cinema Betting Eating-out Casinos Keep-Fit Collecting

Dancing (General)

Dancing (Ballroom)

Dancing (Latin) Dancing (Country)

Dancing (Disco) Antiques

Yoga Holistic Esoteric TV Interior Design OTHER:

MUSIC Classical Opera Choral music Country &

Western Folk Jazz (Trad)

Jazz (Modern) Jazz (Acid) Heavy Metal Ambient Hip-Hop Romantic Current Chart

Music 60s/70s Pop 80s Chart music Rock Blues Soul / Funk

R&B House/Dance Techno / Trance

Brit-Pop Latin Garage

POLITICS ( MAXIMUM 2 CHOICES) Right Wing Centre-Right Centre Centre-Left Left Wing Disinterested

THE ARTS (YOUR TOP SIX CHOICES) Theatre Fringe Theatre

(Repertory) Musicals Concerts

(contemporary) Photographic

Art Comedy Poetry Ballet Opera Concerts

(classical) Cinema

Fine-Art Sculpture Modern Art Contemporary Art

Cultural Art Arthouse Cinema


PART 7 – The Final Words 58 Do you like to travel? Name some places

you have enjoyed visiting.

59 Do you speak any foreign languages? Please specify.

60 What is your ideal holiday?

61 What is your idea of a perfect evening?

62 What newspapers do you enjoy reading?

63 Do you like animals?

64 Do you have any pets?

65 What is your favourite food?

66 Name a film you have enjoyed.

67 Do you consider yourself a morning person, night person or neither particularly?

68 Do you play a musical instrument?

69 What are your pet hates?

70 Do you have any other interests which have not been listed above?

71 Are you in good general health?

72 Is there anything else you would like to add to your profile?

I confirm that all of the above information is true and complete to the best of my knowledge, and that I have not omitted any information that would be relevant to this profile. I agree to contract with Affinity London Ltd for ONE / TWO YEARs of matchmaking service from the date below, and understand that no refund of my payment is available. I accept the terms and conditions of this service as provided by Affinity London Ltd. I have read and understood my obligations under this contract. Name (PRINT)……………………………….……… Signed …………………………. Date:………………. FOR OFFICE USE ONLY I.D. CHECK

D/L Passport B / Cert

ADDRESS CHECK

Bill Type: Date:

Checked by Date

Personality - The Chemistry Factor Part 1. YOUR PERSONALITY

In each of the categories below circle one word that best describes you - choose the closest even if its not absolutely accurate. Assertiveness Nervous Shy Self-assured Confident Forceful

Sensitivity Indifferent Dispassionate Sympathetic Compassionate Hypersensitive

Humour Humourless Dry Wit Good Humoured Zany Jester

Generosity Tight Thrifty Benevolent Extravagant Lavish

Tolerance Intolerant Prejudiced Objective Liberal Open-minded

Time-Keeping Lackadaisical Tardy Timely Punctual Obsessive

Romanticism Unromantic Dutiful Attentive Impulsive Romanticist

Disposition Apathetic Laid-Back Balanced Out-going Frenetic

Outlook Depressive Reserved Realistic Optimistic Escapist

Adventurousness Timid Cautious Exploratory Bold Devil-may-care

Gregariousness Solitary Reserved Sociable Convivial Party Animal

Vanity Unconcerned Modest Aware Conceited Narcissistic

Orderliness Chaotic Disorganised Tidy Methodical Perfectionist

Self-Esteem Vulnerable Insecure Comfortable Assured Self-reliant

Personal Appearance Sloppy Practical Well Groomed Fashionable Fastidious

Ambition Unambitious Hopeful Enthusiastic Enterprising Overzealous

Intellect Disinterested Streetwise Educated Academic Genius

Talkativeness Taciturn Quiet Communicative Chatty Effusive

Personality - The Chemistry Factor Part 2. YOUR PARTNER’S PERSONALITY

Now in each category circle one word that best describes what you are looking for in a partner -choose the closest even if its not absolutely accurate. Assertiveness Nervous Shy Self-assured Confident Forceful

Sensitivity Indifferent Dispassionate Sympathetic Compassionate Hypersensitive

Humour Humourless Dry Wit Good Humoured Zany Jester

Generosity Tight Thrifty Benevolent Extravagant Lavish

Tolerance Intolerant Prejudiced Objective Liberal Open-minded

Time-Keeping Lackadaisical Tardy Timely Punctual Obsessive

Romanticism Unromantic Dutiful Attentive Impulsive Romanticist

Disposition Apathetic Laid-Back Balanced Out-going Frenetic

Outlook Depressive Reserved Realistic Optimistic Escapist

Adventurousness Timid Cautious Exploratory Bold Devil-may-care

Gregariousness Solitary Reserved Sociable Convivial Party Animal

Vanity Unconcerned Modest Aware Conceited Narcissistic

Orderliness Chaotic Disorganised Tidy Methodical Perfectionist

Self-Esteem Vulnerable Insecure Comfortable Assured Self-reliant

Personal Appearance Sloppy Practical Well Groomed Fashionable Fastidious

Ambition Unambitious Hopeful Enthusiastic Enterprising Overzealous

Intellect Disinterested Streetwise Educated Academic Genius

Talkativeness Taciturn Quiet Communicative Chatty Effusive

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AFFINITY CONDITIONS OF BUSINESS 1 Interpretation 1.1 In these Conditions: ‘CLIENT’ means the person named on the Client Questionnaire for whom Affinity

has agreed to provide the Services in accordance with these Conditions ‘CLIENT QUESTIONNAIRE’ means Affinity’s questionnaire to be completed by

Clients from time to time ‘CONTRACT’ means the contract for the provision of the Service ‘INPUT MATERIAL’ means any photograph of the Client and any documents or

other materials, and any data or other information provided by the Client relating to the Service as required by Affinity from time to time

‘SERVICE’ means the services of a dating and introductions agency to arrange introductions between Clients and its other clients to be provided by Affinity for the Client and set out in these Conditions

‘AFFINITY’ means Affinity London Limited (registered in England under number 3788238) whose registered offices are at Third Floor, 207 Regent St, London W1B 3HH

‘AFFINITY’S STANDARD CHARGE’ means the charge shown in Affinity’s brochure or other published literature relating to the Service from time to time

2 Supply of the Service 2.1 Affinity shall provide the Service to the Client subject to these Conditions. Any

changes or additions to the Service or these Conditions must be agreed in writing by Affinity and the Client.

2.2 The Client shall at its own expense supply Affinity with all Input Material relating to the Service, within sufficient time to enable Affinity to provide the Service in accordance with the Contract. The Client shall ensure the accuracy of all Input Material.

2.3 The Service shall be provided in accordance with Affinity’s current brochure or other published literature relating to the Service from time to time, subject to these Conditions.

2.4 Affinity may at any time without notifying the Client make any changes to the Service which are necessary to comply with any applicable safety or other statutory requirements, or which do not materially affect the nature or quality of the Service.

3 The Service 3.1 Affinity reserves the right in its absolute discretion to refuse to take the Client

as a client of Affinity. 3.2 Subject to clause 3.1 the Client's Input Material will be installed onto Affinity's

computer database upon receipt in cleared funds by Affinity of the payment of the fee set out in clause 7.1 ("Joining Date").

3.3 In the event that Affinity (in its absolute discretion) deems any part of the Input Material (before and after amendment or alteration) to be inappropriate or unsuitable Affinity shall be at liberty to remove that part which is unsuitable or inappropriate.

3.4 After installation of the Client's Input Material pursuant to clause 3.2 and upon the Client's request Affinity will search its client database to locate other client who match with the Client's Input Material ("Match").

3.5 A profile of the Client, excluding that information marked with an asterisk on the Client Questionnaire will be sent to each Match.

3.6 Each Match will be asked if they wish to meet the Client. If a Match wishes to meet the Client Affinity will send a profile of the Match, including the information marked with an asterisk on the Client Questionnaire, to the Client for the Client to make direct contact with the Match. Receipt of the Match’s profile by the Client will constitute a Confirmed Match.

3.7 Any meetings arranged between the Client and the Match are entirely at the discretion of the Client and the Match

3.8 In order to locate Matches for the Client the Client's Input Material will be reviewed by a combination of computer programme compatibility testing and personal review of the Client's Input Material by Affinity's personnel whereby the mandatory section 3 in the Client Questionnaire must equal that of Matches and the remaining sections are matched on a 'best fit' basis.

3.9 Affinity will use its reasonable endeavours to produce adequate and appropriate Matches for the Client within the 24 month period after the Joining Date ("the Period"). However, as this service is a specific focused search with narrow selection criteria, Affinity does not guarantee that it will provide any specific number of matches or that these will meet all the criteria specified by The Client.

3.10 If the Client wishes to terminate the Contract at any time after approval of the Input Material he/she may do so but will not be entitled to a voluntary refund of the fee referred to in clause 7.1.

3.11 For the avoidance of doubt the Client shall not be entitled to any refund unless Affinity has negligently or otherwise breached these terms. Neither shall Affinity refund any fees if a request is made due to the change in the client’s

circumstances through no fault of Affinity. 3.12 The Client shall be permitted to suspend temporarily their membership of

Affinity upon written notification to Affinity and Affinity accepting such suspension. Suspension must be for a minimum of 1 month, the maximum number of suspensions in any 2 year period is 3 and the maximum period of suspension is 2 years from the Joining Date.

4 Collecting Information 4.1 In obtaining the Input Material of its clients Affinity shall be under no obligation

to make enquiries into its client's social background or investigate the creditworthiness, character, behavioural characteristics or history of its clients (including the existence of any criminal record or investigate the status of its client's health).

4.2 In obtaining the Input Material of its clients Affinity will assess the client's identity by reference to their passport, driving licence or birth certificate and assess the client's current address by reference to a utility bill of not more than 3 months old

5 Aftercare Affinity requests that the Client notify Affinity with any information about

his/her Match which the Client feels Affinity and/or its other clients should be made aware of

6 Expulsion Affinity shall in its absolute discretion be entitled to terminate the Contract with

the Client if Affinity reasonably deems the Client to be unsuitable as a client of Affinity in which case the Client will not be entitled to a refund of any fees paid otherwise than at the discretion of Affinity.

7 Charges 7.1 Subject to any special terms agreed, the Client shall pay Affinity’s Standard

Charge and any additional sums which are agreed between Affinity and the Client for the provision of the Service.

7.2 Affinity shall be entitled to vary Affinity’s Standard Charge from time to time by giving not less than one month written notice to the Client.

7.3 All charges quoted to the Client for the provision of the Service are inclusive of any Value Added Tax.

8 Warranties and Liability 8.1 Affinity warrants to the Client that the Service will be provided using reasonable

care and skill. Where Affinity supplies in connection with the provision of the Service any Input Material supplied by a third party, Affinity does not give any warranty, guarantee or other term as to their quality or accuracy or otherwise.

8.2 Affinity shall have no liability to the Client for any loss, damage, costs, expenses or other claims for compensation arising from any Input Material or instructions supplied by the Client which are incomplete, incorrect, inaccurate, illegible, out of sequence or in the wrong form, or arising from their late arrival or non-arrival, or any other fault of the Client.

8.3 Except in respect of death or personal injury caused by Affinity’s negligence, or as expressly provided in these Conditions, Affinity shall not be liable to the Client by reason of any representation (unless fraudulent), or any implied warranty, condition or other term, or any duty at common law, or under the express terms of the Contract, for any loss of profit or any indirect, special or consequential loss, damage, costs, expenses or other claims (whether caused by the negligence of Affinity, its servants or agents or otherwise) which arise out of or in connection with the provision of the Service or their use by the Client, and the entire liability of Affinity under or in connection with the Contract shall not exceed the amount of Affinity’s charges for the provision of the Service, except as expressly provided in these Conditions.

9 Commencement, Termination and Renewal The Contract shall commence on the Joining Date and shall terminate 1 year

thereafter unless extended by the Client for further periods of 12 months upon payment (before expiry of the existing Contract) of 50% of Affinity’s Standard Charge current at the time of renewal.

10 General 10.1 These Conditions constitute the entire agreement between the parties, supersede

any previous agreement or understanding and may not be varied except in writing between the parties. All other terms and conditions, whether express or implied by statute or otherwise, are excluded to the fullest extent permitted by law.

10.2 English law shall apply to the Contract.

Affinity FOCUS level terms of business


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‘AFFINITY’ means Affinity London Limited (registered in England under number 3788238) whose registered offices are at 3rd Flr, 207 Regent St, London W1B 3HH
















3.9 Affinity will use its reasonable endeavours to produce 12 Confirmed Matches for the Client within the 24 month period after the Joining Date ("the Period").

3.10 In the event that less than 12 Confirmed Matches are obtained within the Period the Client will be offered the opportunity to extend his/her Contract with no further fee being payable to Affinity until 12 Confirmed Matches are obtained.


3.12 For the avoidance of doubt the Client shall not be entitled to any refund unless Affinity has negligently or otherwise breached these terms. Neither shall

Affinity refund any fees if a request is made due to the change in the client’s circumstances through no fault of Affinity.

3.13 If the Client chooses not to authorise the sending to Matches of his/her photo he/she shall not be entitled to extend his/her membership as set out in clause 3.10 and shall not be entitled to the receive the number of Confirmed Matches as set out in clause 3.9.

3.14 The Client shall be permitted to suspend temporarily their membership of Affinity upon written notification to Affinity and Affinity accepting such suspension. Suspension must be for a minimum of 1 month, the maximum number of suspensions in any 2 year period is 3 and the maximum period of suspension is 2 years from the Joining Date.





















Affinity PREMIUM level terms of business


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‘AFFINITY’ means Affinity London Limited (registered in England under number 3788238) whose registered offices are at Third Floor, 207 Regent St, London W1B 3HH
















3.9 Affinity will use its reasonable endeavours to produce 10 Confirmed Matches for the Client within the 12 month period after the Joining Date ("the Period").

3.10 In the event that less than 10 Confirmed Matches are obtained within the Period the Client will be offered the opportunity to extend his/her Contract with no further fee being payable to Affinity until 10 Confirmed Matches are obtained.


3.12 For the avoidance of doubt the Client shall not be entitled to any refund unless Affinity has negligently or otherwise breached these terms. Neither shall

Affinity refund any fees if a request is made due to the change in the client’s circumstances through no fault of Affinity.

3.13 If the Client chooses not to authorise the sending to Matches of his/her photo he/she shall not be entitled to extend his/her membership as set out in clause 3.10 and shall not be entitled to the receive the number of Confirmed Matches as set out in clause 3.9.

3.14 The Client shall be permitted to suspend temporarily their membership of Affinity upon written notification to Affinity and Affinity accepting such suspension. Suspension must be for a minimum of 1 month, the maximum number of suspensions in any 2 year period is 3 and the maximum period of suspension is 1 year from the Joining Date.





















Affinity STANDARD level terms of business

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‘AFFINITY’ means Affinity London Limited (registered in England under number 3788238) whose registered offices are at Canada House, 272 Field End Road, Ruislip, Middx HA4 9NA
















3.9 Affinity will use its reasonable endeavours to produce adequate and appropriate Matches for the Client within the 24 month period after the Joining Date ("the Period"). However, as this service is a specific focused search with narrow selection criteria, Affinity does not guarantee that it will provide any specific number of matches or that these will meet all the criteria specified by The Client.


3.11 For the avoidance of doubt the Client shall not be entitled to any refund unless Affinity has negligently or otherwise breached these terms. Neither shall Affinity refund any fees if a request is made due to the change in the client’s

circumstances through no fault of Affinity. 3.12 The Client shall be permitted to suspend temporarily their membership of

Affinity upon written notification to Affinity and Affinity accepting such suspension. Suspension must be for a minimum of 1 month, the maximum number of suspensions in any 2 year period is 3 and the maximum period of suspension is 2 years from the Joining Date.



4.2 In obtaining the Input Material of its clients Affinity will assess the client's identity and current address by reference to their passport, National ID card, driving licence, birth certificate or other proof of address.













9 Commencement, Termination and Renewal The Contract shall commence on the Joining Date and shall terminate 2 years

thereafter unless extended by the Client for further periods of 2 years upon payment (before expiry of the existing Contract) of 50% of Affinity’s Standard Charge current at the time of renewal.




Affinity INTERNATIONAL level terms of business

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