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PUBLISHERPastor Tyrone Crider, Sr.

EDITOR-IN-CHIEFMr. Tracey Harris

MANAGING DIRECTOR/EDITORW. Alvin Jackson

CONTRIBUTING WRITERSLeslie Briscoe

Dr. Candice CabbilC. Chandon Carter

Ava CollierLady Regina Crider

Shelley M. Dunson-Allen, MDPastor Joyce Gilmer

Micah HarrisTricia Harris

Kindred HowardDr. Carolyn Ann Knight

Nurisha LigginsRhodell LewisR. Leon Sapp

Minister Tavares StephensPastor Juandolyn Stokes

Dr. Lisa M. TaitPastor Yolanda Thompson

PRODUCTION/OPERATIONSSamantha Cardwell

Tevera TabronLinda Whatley

SALESRita Williams/Larry Young

LAYOUT & DESIGNWhispers of the Heart

(770) 881-6599

PHOTOGRAPHYTameka Pero

[email protected] (678) 525-5588www.tpero.com

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Reproduction of the content in whole or part without written permission is prohibited. Reported inaccuracies will be addressed in the next issue. All rights reserved. Copyright © 2011 - The Gospel Tribune Atlanta.

2011 Dove Awards

Spiritual Enhancement Is the Church Diminishing?SCLC First Lady Yolanda Creecy

Arts & Entertainment 2011 Dove Awards100 Black Men - An OrganizationWorthy of Our Support

Cover StoryMrs. Xernona ClaytonFounder, President, & CEOTrumpet Awards

Health & Wellness Know the Risks & Signs of a StrokeWalking the Talk for CancerWomen, Hypertension & Stroke

Family & YouthDo You Need a Marriage Makeover?Are You a Woman Who Sometimes Feels Desperate?Where There is Faith, There is a Chance to Succeed.A tribute to Mothers & FathersHow Cool is it to be a Kid?Therapeutic EssentialsYour Child’s Greatest Need

Senior Living Honoring Mary MobleyBesse Cooper, 114 years young

SCLC First Lady Creecy

Susan G. Komen

Publisher’s StatementPastor Tyrone Crider, Sr.

The Power SourceLady Regina Crider

Editorial StatementMr. Tracey Harris

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Publisher’s Statement

The Power Source First Lady Regina Crider

Recognizing Our Mothers and Fathers

“GOD IS MY STRENGTH AND POWER AND HE MAKETH MY WAY PERFECT.”II Samuel 22:33

In these days and times, where we find ourselves caught in vicious cycles; life is a series of highs and lows. We seem to lack the faith and trust that God will do what He said He would do. Instead we want every thing overnight and instantly, in the same way we microwave our food. That includes relationships, friendships and discipleship; all of which takes time to build and sustain. We need to recognize God as the ultimate source for all things especially our strength. All true power comes from GOD! I would like to share a few Prayer Principles that will enable you to be more effective in your daily prayers and build a stronger prayer lifestyle. Be: Quick to Repent –

Quick to Bring a Sacrifice - Quick to Believe God.

CONSISTENCY, COMMITMENT AND CONFIDENCE will bring you STRENGTH, POWER AND PERFECTION

David said, “God is my strength and power: When I was too weak to overcome the Lion, the bear and the giant. God strengthened me and gave me power to defeat my enemies.” Paul said, “In my weakness His strength is made perfect.” I say, when the going gets tough, the tough get tougher! • I run to my strong tower, my fortress, my deliverer, my God. • I run to the secret place of the Most High • I run to my rock, my shelter, my hiding place • I run and I cry out and He hears and delivers me from all of my fears.

PRAY INSPITE OF, PRAY BECAUSE OF, PRAY IN LIGHT OF, PRAY IN LIEU OF.

II Chronicles 7:14 says “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn fromtheir wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”GOD IS YOUR POWER SOURCE; YOU DON’T HAVE TO PLUG IN BECAUSE HE DWELLS WITHIN YOU!

God bless and keep you all, Lady Regina Crider

In this issue of The Gospel Tribune Atlanta our cover story features Xernona Clayton, who gave birth to the Trumpet Awards, making her one of the first African-Americans to have her own television show. The awards affectionately called The Trumpet is an annual event that recognizes the accomplishments and contributions of African-Americans. Also, featured in this issue is a story on Yolanda Grier Creecy, known as Lady Yolanda by the congregation at The Olivet Church. She is the wife of the Pastor, Rev. Dr. Howard W. Creecy Jr., who also serves as the President of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference. Similar to Olivet Church, Lady Yolanda will play an active role in helping Dr. Creecy to reshape and retool the SCLC. Another one of our featured stories is the 100 Black Men of America and specifically the chapters in Atlanta. This is a great organization that is making a huge difference in the lives of our children that definitely deserves your support.

In recognition of Mother’s Day in May and Father’s Day in June, this issue includes articles on parenthood. After the dinners have been served and enjoyed, and the gifts received; while we are glowing with a sense of accomplishment, we must remember the awesome responsibility we have as parents. In today’s society, too many parents find it all too easy to abdicate their responsibility by allowing their kids to entertain themselves. Just because they have tons of gadgets and plenty of ways to entertain themselves, does not mean we can skimp on spending time with them and providing guidance. What they need most from us is our love, time and guidance. Enjoy the publication!

Pastor Tyrone Crider, Sr.Publisher



Editorial StatementNow that the The Gospel Tribune Atlanta has LAUNCHED ...The next step is to implement God’s plan and vision to ensure The Gospel Tribune Atlanta (GTA) is properly developed and maintained. We are truly excited about the future prospects for the GTA. We are very grateful for the words of encouragement and support we from the faith community in Atlanta. We will continue to spread the good news of the gospel in a carefully thought-out and caring manner.

The heart and soul of any publication is content. Our goal is to ensure that The Gospel Tribune Atlanta newspaper is always rich in content. Although our content will vary; our primary focus will always be spiritually led. In some of our issues, we will feature pastors, churches, celebrities, entertainers, athletes, community leaders, politicians and the ministries. In other issues, we will feature the heroes and she-roes in our community who represent the core values and concerns of our readers. Most importantly, we want our content to reflect the interests of our readers, so we invite you to provide us with your feedback by emailing us at [email protected].

Like any successful endeavor, there is always a need to blaze a new trail while seeking the wisdom of experience. I am pleased to announce that W. Alvin Jackson, (Al Jackson) joined the GTA family as Managing Director/Editor. Al is a retired executive from Chrysler Corporation. He began his career working for Ebony Magazine where he was mentored by the Founder and CEO of Johnson Publishing Company, John H. Johnson. He is also a writer and author of a recently released book, Witness. To order, go to www.jarradent.com.

To potential advertisers, I encourage and invite you to be a part of this ground-breaking publication whose readers will be looking to identify companies and organizations that value them and support the faith community. For more information, please contact us at [email protected].

Finally, to all mothers and fathers, know that you are gifted with the God given task of guiding and teaching our children. At times, the parenting road may seem unclear, but know that God has it ALL under control. On behalf of the Gospel Tribune Atlanta, Happy Mother’s Day and Father’s Day to each of you!

The Word “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart;

and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him,

and He shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6

Mr. Tracey HarrisEditor-in-Chief


Alternative remedies are known to be cyber churches, satellite churches, marketplace churches and church television broadcast services. USA Today recently reported on the rise of natural churches, where people invite others to worship in the environment they are currently in - on a farm, in a home or at a motorcycle club meeting.

Seemingly, the church of today is not necessarily defined by structure, size or the Sabbath day. Neither is it always defined by its’ membership, discipleship or stewardship. It is not characterized by its organization or denomination. Although Christ is the central focus of the traditional and biblical institution of the church, many of the other elements we define the Church by are changing. It causes some to contemplate whether the church is hidden in the hearts of men, wondering around in cyber space, sandwiched in the New Testament, or just a picture hanging on a wall. The ultimate question for many centers on whether the church is diminishing.

With many churches in crisis it is easy to understand why the question. Instead of looking at it from the perspective of diminishing, maybe we should look at it from the perspective of change. If the question is whether the Church is changing: the

answer is yes. Like every other organization Churches today need to change to better serve the people. In some cases this means redefining how, when and where we worship.

Juandolyn Stokes is pastor of the Deeper Life In Christ Ministries, Inc. in Conyers, Georgia. She holds a Master’s of Divinity and Masters of Arts in Christian Education degrees from the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, Georgia.

Is the Diminishing?

There once was a time when we could find a church on every corner. Whether it was in a storefront building or under a tent on an open field, churches were alive and well. Church for many was defined as a building where believers would gather to worship the Lord. Moreover,

it was the place where God’s presence dwelt. For some, church is the “ecclesia,” a governmental assembly or general assembly, consisting of a Christian body of people. It mattered not the name it bared - temple, sanctuary, tabernacle or cathedral, but it was known to be the “house of God.”

Historically, churches were not defined as buildings, but as institutions of religion and reform, by church fathers like Clement of Rome, Tertullian and Martin Luther. It served as the foundation for many of our church creeds, doctrines, disciplines, biblical teachings and interpretations of today. For Catholics, church became a place of confession to aid individuals in their walk of holiness. With Bishop Charles Mason, founder of the Church of God In Christ, there was no church without prayer, power and the Spirit of God. For Methodist, as established by John Wesley, church was not a denomination, but a religious movement that operated by “rule and method” for its biblical teachings and understandings.

The Apostolics and the Baptists could not envision church without the ritual of water baptism. As Apostle Paul began to structure churches, he started out in homes, and evolved into strong missionary work administered to both Jews and Gentiles. Church shifted from being just a building to a body of believers; a mere worship center to a religious government center; a place of God’s Spirit to a place of ritualistic services; being individualized and marginalized to being community.

So now, in this digital age and post modern world, what is the Church? How does or how should the church look? When you view Christ from the New Testament, Christ taught in the temples, but did ministry outside the temples - in the streets, on the street corners, among the crowds, in homes, boats, on the water, at weddings, in the cities and the fields. In the Great Commission, Matthew 28:16-20, Jesus Christ instructed the disciples to spread the gospel to every nation.

Gabe Lyons, author of “The Next Christians,” would argue that there are many “unchurched Christians.” These are the ones who have Christ in their hearts and nurture their walk through creative and innovative digital means. They don’t depend on a church or pastor for spiritual formation.

Dwight L. Moody believes that, “Church attendance is as vital to a disciple as a transfusion of rich, healthy blood to a sick man.” Church is for believers and nonbelievers. Albert Winseman, religion and social trends editor for the Gallup Daily News says “people are shopping for alternatives to church and that is why 3000 churches close their doors annually.”

By Juandolyn Stokes


A Taste of Tradition Rhodell Lewis Jr. AKA “Rhodell In The ATL”

Rhodell “IN THE ATL” Lewis started his career in 1976, thirty-five years ago, while living in Fort Lauderdale, FL. and attending Miami University. Rhodell

currently serves as an on-air personality for your afternoon drive on Praise 102.5 Radio One. Rhodell is an ordained and licensed minister of the gospel, anointed singer and praise leader.

The Gospel Tribune Atlanta newspaper is excited to announce that we will feature Rhodell Lewis in a monthly column entitled A Taste of Tradition. His column will highlight some of the finest traditional gospel singers, including The Canton Spirituals, The Mississippi Mass Choir, Lee Williams and Spiritual QC’S, Tramaine Hawkins, the late Albertina Walker, and Dr. Bobby Jones, Bishop Walter Hawkins, just to name a few.

Stay tuned for incredible interviews/life experiences with these pioneers in gospel music. Rhodell’s Internet Radio Show can be heard on www.atasteoftradition.com. Please help us welcome Rhodell “IN THE ATL” Lewis to the Gospel Tribune Atlanta family!

Time & Chance

Time and chance happens to us all. My name is Cheryl Action Jackson, I was one of 150,000 people who requested tickets to Oprah’s farewell show. Can you imagine my surprise when I received an email saying I had been chosen to attend the spectacular event? I packed my bags and traveled from Dallas to

Chicago to witness history.

When the doors opened, I immediately got a seat on the first row. Right before the show began, the show producer said, “I need to move you.” My immediate question was why? Isn’t that how we do God sometimes? As I walked to my new seat in disappointment, I looked in front of me and noticed the initials OW and OW-TP on place cards. I looked to the right and saw the names Gayle King, Stedman Graham and others and I began to smile. I had been moved to sit directly behind Oprah Winfrey, Tyler Perry and many other celebrities that would rotate in front of me during the evening. When you think you have arrived, just know that God has something bigger and better planned for your life. Please go on the journey with me as I share with you His plans for my life. I pray that I can inspire you to take action for your life too.

Cheryl Action Jackson, facebook.cheryljackson.com


SCLC First Lady Yolanda Creecy

Who is “Lady Yolanda?” I am a product of southwest Atlanta, raised in a Christian home by loving parents. I have a cross cultural educational background via North Fulton High School International

Studies Magnet program

to the University of Georgia and I am

now completing a BA degree in Christian Ministries at Atlanta Christian College. My world has consisted of the south side and north side; black and white, rich and poor; the haves and the have nots. However, my grounding and foundation has always been my faith and my

connectivity with the local church. I am a Christian who is navigating life with the help of the Holy Spirit and discovering God’s plan for my life and His destiny and will for my human service.

What was your most memorable childhood experience? I have fond memories of attending Mount Moriah Baptist Church on the corner of the Ashby and Fair Street. My father in law, the late Rev. Howard W. Creecy Sr. was the pastor. He would bring the city to a halt with his prayers. Mount Moriah was a mega church in Atlanta before the term “mega church” entered our modern lexicon. As a kid, Sundays consisted of Sunday school, Church Service, Paschal’s fried chicken and more church. I remember asking my husband to marry me when I was twelve years old. He came to preach one Sunday evening. He was then and still is a ‘looker’ as my grandmother would say. I would have never imagined he would become my best friend and life partner.

You and Reverend Creecy are a dynamic pair; what keeps the two of you grounded? The ideal marriage is not give and take. It is give and give. If you want your marriage to fit into God’s ideal for what a home should be, then it will require much giving on behalf of both parties. When a marriage is lived right, it is a thing of great beauty and tremendous blessing. It brings a fulfillment to life that cannot be duplicated. However, it takes work. It takes constant prayer and commitment.

How do you balance motherhood with your responsibilities as the church’s Executive Administrator? My first priority is to my family. My primary role is Mommy to my eight year old daughter Kennedy Grier and as friend and confidant to my chosen daughter

Teresa Christine-a graduate of Clark Atlanta University. I have been blessed with excellent support systems that allow me to function in the Olivet Church and beyond the church walls.

Now that your husband is leading the SCLC, how do you envision your role in the organization? My role is to act as a supporting partner to my husband as we give our best to lift SCLC to its highest. I strongly believe in the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, mission and objectives to ‘redeem the soul of America’. My personal skill set is organizational management and structural integrity. I believe in systematic fluidity. These are tools I will offer my husband in support of his leadership as we work together to move the organization forward into the 21st century struggle for freedom and justice.

Are there any interests that you would like to advance through your affiliation with SCLC? I will work directly with the SCLC Women TODAY’s Initiative. The initiative will strive to ensure all women have equal access to employment and education. This program will also provide, through our chapters and affiliates, women’s health screening, as well as “rights” seminars that inform women of their legal rights and resources available to them through their local and national government. SCLC is on the move! The new leadership is intentional on reclaiming and reenergizing our base. As we move into the future we will be intergenerational, interfaith, and globally conscious in all of our initiatives. This is an exciting time at SCLC and we are reclaiming our membership as we work for justice and peace. What are your short term and long term goals? My short term and long term goals now have connectivity to the goals of SCLC. Let me share them with you.

SHORT TERM (SCLC): Over all we must restore our Creditability, Visibility and Viability. Establish creditability of our National Board, National Board, Chair, and Nation officers (President, Executive Director, Treasurer.) Re-build our base of Chapters, affiliates, and state units while focusing on the inclusion of young people. Also, ensure that our mission and platform is 21st century-centered.

LONG TERM (SCLC): To restore SCLC as a “National Force” in the fight for Social Justice. To become a more Cross Culturally diverse organization that is intentionally Gender and Generational inclusive in its make-up. Create sustainable streams of financial support to underwrite the work of our organization

Do you have any parting thoughts for our readership? Ones’ legacy is determined by your desire to make a difference in the lives of others. Sow seeds of goodness and change a life forever.

Mr. Tracey Harris: Editor-In-Chief of the Gospel Tribune Atlanta.

If you have a story or an event you feel will bless the Christian community, please contact us at:www.gospeltribuneatlanta.com.



The Dove Awards, Christian music's most prestigious awards, began honoring the best and brightest in Christian and Gospel music in 1969. Eleven total categories saw winners in that first ceremony.

The Gospel Music Association (GMA) Dove Awards are presented annually by the Gospel Music Association for outstanding achievements in the Christian music industry. The awards are usually presented during a ceremony in Nashville, Tennessee, that features performances by a number of the industry's newest and most successful artists. From 2004-2006, they were officially called the GMA Music Awards, but have since returned to the better known title of Dove Awards.The awards were established in 1969 and represent a wide variety of musical styles, including metal, pop, rock, rap & hip hop, country, gospel, and praise & worship.

The 42nd GMA Dove Awards took place on April 20, 2011 at the Fox Theatre in Atlanta, Georgia.


Photography by Tameka Pero


ernona laytonX C Founder, CEO and President, Trumpet Awards

The Trumpet Award Goes To…

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Mrs. Xernona Clayton is the Founder, President and CEO of the Trumpet Awards Foundation, Inc. and Creator and Executive Producer of the Foundation’s Trumpet Awards. The Trumpet Awards is a prestigious event highlighting African American accomplishments and contributions. Initiated in 1993 by Turner Broadcasting, the Trumpet Awards has been televised annually and distributed internationally to over 185 countries around the world.

Mrs. Clayton began her television career in 1967 and become the South’s first Black person to have her own television show. The Xernona Clayton show was a regular feature on WAGA-TV, CBS affiliate in Atlanta. Ms. Xernona Clayton was employed at Turner Broadcasting for nearly 30 years where she served as a corporate executive. The Gospel Tribune Atlanta had the privilege of spending some time with Ms. Xernona Clayton. We are honored to share with you a glimpse into her fascinating life.

As the Founder, President and CEO of the Trumpet Awards Foundation; how did the concept of the Trumpet Awards come to fruition?

I was working at Turner Broadcasting when I got the idea some 20 years ago. I’ve always wanted to do something to change the image of our people. The images out there were so negative. I knew there was so much more to our people than what was being shown. Instead of complaining and accept-ing the images, I decided to use my resources to do something about it. I had the convenience of work-ing in television and the good wishes of my boss, Ted Turner. I came up with the idea and Ted blessed and embraced it and I was off and running. It was only

four years ago when Ted Turner was leaving the company that Turner Broadcasting decided to give me ownership of the Trumpet Awards. Turner Broadcasting donated $5 million to independently launch the Trumpet Awards Foundation. This was the stepping stone that allowed the Trumpet Awards Foundation to become a non-profit orga-nization. While working as a corporate executive at Turner Broadcasting during your 30-year career span, you were one of the highest ranking female employees. What career advice or strategies can you share with our audience, specifically our young ladies/teens, to help them strive for success?

Thank you for that compliment. I have tried to live my life so that people around me could see that I have three basic principles:

1. Do it well, 2. Do it right the first time 3. Do it on time.

I am very thorough in everything I do. I like what I do and I don’t touch any project unless I can give 100% of my energy to it. I have found that these three basic prin-ciples have been a source of stimulation to those who work around me. By me leading by example, I have witnessed people grasp a task with more fervor and dedication than they did when they first started. You might s well get it done right the first time!

You have worked side by side with historical legends or what you call “Brave Warriors” who have sacri-ficed and struggled to make equality a reality for all. Can you share what are some of their characteristics?

I worked the longest and closest with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. There is a quote of his that has been helpful to me since starting the Trumpet Awards. Dr. King said, “We have to include other people; we have to be one nation.” So I started including non-African American recipi-ents who have helped to make the work of African Americans easier, better and more accessible. Our first non-African American recipient was Frank Sinatra. He was a vivid example of what the Trumpet Awards are all about because he was a performer in Las Vegas and everybody recognized him. Entertainers, such as Lena Horne and Duke Ellington couldn’t open up shows in Las Vegas. They had to walk through the back doors and couldn’t eat in the same restaurants. Frank Sinatra didn’t like this and put it in his contract that he wouldn’t play at a show anymore unless these Black artist could have the same things that he had. He opened the door and we honored him for it.


(L-R) Tracey Harris, Mrs. Xernona Clayton, and Maria Newby


You have been highly recognized by numerous organizations for your continuous dedication to civil rights, our community, and for your leadership. When someone mentions your name, Mrs. Xernona Clayton, what would you like for YOUR LEGACY to be?

I’d want them to know the truism. What my spirit is and that I do every-thing I can to help others; I mean everything. My frustration is that I wish I could assist everyone that asks me for help, but I can’t do it all. So I think to myself; just do what you can. So I give all I can because I feel good when I can help someone else.

Also, when I look at my television career, my joy didn’t come from just being on television. The real joy came when I realized the role I played in history by being the first Black Anchor, the first Black Reporter, and the first Black News Director. Recently someone approached me in Detroit and told me thank you; it is because of you that I have my job, because of what you did. That just sends a thrill, a chill, and a sense of joy and excitement to your whole existence. This is what I would want people to say - I did what I could.

With such a demanding professional career, how do you balance your professional life with your home or personal life?

I can’t resist asking you this. Your many accolades demonstrate that you are a highly intelligent and savvy business woman. However, for our female audience; they all want to know what are your beauty secrets to staying so beautiful and healthy?

It’s really easy for me...I have a happy home life. I have a husband who supports me in what I do. It is a mental vacation that I don’t have. Plus I don’t have a competitive husband. He doesn’t like the public as much as I do, so we have a good balance in what we pursue. He is busy with his own projects and keeps himself busy. We manage to spend lots of time together and it’s fun and exciting. It works for us.

First of all I am flattered and honored by the question. I don’t have any beauty secrets. What I do have is a healthy attitude towards people. It keeps me feeling young and vibrant. I don’t have a negative attitude and I try to dispel them whenever they come around. I really do turn away from any negativity. I want to feel healthy and happy. It’s the way I feel inside and I want to exude it on the outside.

Mr. Tracey Harris: Editor-in-Chief of The Gospel Tribune Atlanta. www.gospeltribuneatlanta.com


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AN ORGANIZATION WORTHY OF OUR SUPPORT

was they have multiple chapters in most major cities, it allows them to better serve the individual communities that make up the city. In Atlanta, there are four chapters consisting of the 100 Black Men of Atlanta, Inc., the 100 Black Men of DeKalb County, the 100 Black Men of North Metro, Inc. and the 100 Black Men of South Metro, Inc. Although they share a common bond and have the same mission, vision and value statement they go about carrying it out in a way that is unique to their particular chapter. Each year all the chapters get together to discuss best practices and share ideas. This year on June 9th they will be celebrating their 25th Annual Confer-ence in San Francisco. Now that I have seen the bigger picture, I decided it was time to talk with the folks that make it happen.

The �rst stop is the 100 Black Men of Atlanta. The chapter president is Gregory Hawkins. Beyond mentoring, they o�er a variety of programs includ-ing one called Project Success, a post secondary prep and tuition assistance program. Another one of their programs is the 100 Academy, which has a “Saturday School” that provides study skills and test taking workshops, leadership training and a host of other assistance. To help carryout portions of their mission, they enlist the support of college students in their Collegiate 100 program, which is a network of Atlanta based college students who share their service ethic. The signaure fundraising event for the Atlanta chapter is the Bank of America Football Classic at the Georgia Dome scheduled to take place September 24, 2011.

The next chapter I paid a visit to is the 100 Black Men of DeKalb County. The president of the chap-ter is E. Lamont Houston, and the chapter is run by Mae Jones, the Executive Director. The central focus of this chapter is their Leadership Academy. The academy meets every Tuesday evening during the school year, and its’ participants are middle and high school students. Their program is made up of modules consisting of Core Values, Goal Setting, Leadership Development, Etiquette, Science and Computer Technology, Junior Achievement and Health & Wellness. One of the program highlights is their annual Youth Summit, which attracts 400 plus students to an all day session on a non-school day to discuss various challenges students are faced with. The principal fundraising activity for this chapter has been the Casino Royale. This year they have decided to switch up and instead will be hosting a Labor Day concert. It will feature the Men of Soul (Je�rey Osborne, Freddy Jackson and Peabo Bryson) and En Vogue at the Georgia International Horse Park on September 3, 2011.

Ask anyone in Atlanta about the 100 Black Men of America organization, a�ectionately call the “hundred,” and they will say, “I know someone who is a member, or I attended one of their fundraising events” such as the Casino Royale or the Football Classic. Beyond knowing the name of the organiza-tion and some of their signature events, most people don’t know there are 116 chapters of the organization with 10,000 members. Even those in the know are unaware they have chapters in England, the Bahamas, the U.S. Virgin Islands, Jamaica and Africa. The organization serves more than 100,000 youth annually in their mentoring and youth development programs.

The organization got started in New York in 1963 when a group of concerned African-American men sought to �nd ways to improve conditions in their community. The name 100 Black Men was chosen as a sign of solidarity. Their goal was to develop and implement programs to improve the quality of life for African-Americans and other minorities. They wanted to focus on youth development to ensure the future of the community. The initial members were successful business and industry leaders. The rostrum included David Dinkins, Robert Mangum, Dr. William Hayling, Nathaniel Goldston III, Livings-ton Wingate, Andrew Hatcher and Jackie Robinson.

The vision of the group is “to serve as a beacon of leadership by utilizing our diverse talents to create environments where our children are motivated to achieve, and to empower our people to become self-su¤cient shareholders in the economic and social fabric of the communities we serve. Their motto is “what they see is what they’ll be.” As an organization they understand all too well that the future of our communities is directly linked to the investment we make in our youth today.

To gain greater insight into the organization, I interviewed Dwayne Crawford, the Senior Vice President of Development for the 100 Black Men of America, which by the way is headquartered here in Atlanta. He says, “While the organization continues to serve the community, whose needs are growing exponentially given the current economic situation, they are challenged in their ability to do so by the precipitous decline in corporate support.” He went on to say that many of their corporate sponsors have made signi�cant cuts in their overall gift giving as a result of this. When I asked what they are doing about it, he indicated “Like Corporate America and most households, we have to �nd ways to do more with less.” Switching the subject a little bit, I asked why you have multiple chapters in Atlanta. His reply

Servicing the communities on the north end of Atlanta is the 100 Black Men of North Metro. This chapter’s president is Dwight Kelly. They work with over 600 students each year in their mentoring program held at the Boys and Girls Clubs in Austell and Lawrenceville and in the middle and high schools where they have a strong presence. As a chapter their primary focus is to provide leadership in four key areas: mentoring, education, health & wellness and economic development. Last year they added a competitive robotics program to their curriculum and embraced a new concept called “Mentoring Across a Lifetime” that provides educa-tion and mentoring to youths and adults. The big fundraising event for this chapter is their annual “Youth Achievement Luncheon” where they honor their students. It was held at the Georgia Aquarium April 30th and their key note speaker was Chesley McNeil, the meteorologist for 11Alive.

Last but not least is the 100 Black Men of South Metro. This is the second oldest chapter in the Atlanta area, and their president is Charles Reddick. From their perspective, their main purpose is to improve economic development and enhance the education of all African-Americans. The programs they o�er are centered on mentoring, rights of passage and education with the goal of changing the lives of the students they serve by changing the way they think and behave. Students enter their program in the 8th grade and for the next �ve years go through a 26-week program each year. They literally put them through a boot camp to prepare them for college and beyond. Their major fundrais-ing initiative is their annual Southern Crescent Beautillion that was held this year April 2nd at the Marriott Marquis. This right of passage ceremony introduces the young men to the world, where they are required to dress in formal wear consisting of tuxedos with tails. For the students and their families, this is a life changing event. The good work, this organization and the chapters here in Atlanta do is heavily dependent upon their fundraising activities. In light of the decline in support from some of their corporate sponsors, I would encourage you to support them by purchas-ing tickets to their fundraising events. Remember “what they see is what they’ll be.”

www.100blackmen-atlanta.org

Atlanta Chapter DeKalb Chapter

www.dekalb100blackmen.org

North Metro Chapter

www.northmetro100.org

South Metro Chapter

www.100blackmensouthmetro.org

W. Alvin Jackson is an author and retired automotive executive from Chrysler Corporation, who has traveled extensively and lived abroad in Paris.


do not have much control over? Absolutely! Our age, gender, genetics, family history, race and previous history of strokes are some things that are just out of our control. But we can definitely work on the things that we can control and it’s a great time right now to get started.

For more information on strokes, please visit:

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention1600 Clifton Rd.

Atlanta, GA 30333(800) CDC-INFO(800) 232-4636

TTY: (888) 232-6348www.cdc.org

National Stroke Association9707 E. Easter Lane, Suite B

Centennial, CO 80112(800) STROKES(800) 787-6537www.stroke.org

S t r o k eKnow the risks and signs of a

By Ava Simone Collier In 2001, my father died from a series of strokes at the young age of 63. Before his stroke, he was vibrant, energetic, full of life and totally unaware of the danger that lurked inside of his body: untreated hypertension, an enlarged heart and diabetes. It was this toxic trio that ultimately caused his subsequent strokes. His first stroke struck quickly, leaving his left side paralyzed. After hospitalization, rehabilitation and a cocktail of daily medications, it was easy to see that my father’s spirit was broken. My mother said that she often caught him looking at his paralyzed arm as though it had betrayed him. In fact, it had. His second stroke came just a little over a year later, just before Christmas. This one was merciful and quick; He didn’t linger and died peacefully the next day. My father’s story is one among millions, although the impact of the disease may vary. Some people survive strokes with only mild reminders, while still others survive with permanent debilitations. One thing is certain—more information about the disease and its effects should be shared with society so that prevention and cure is certain. According to the National Stroke Association, a stroke or a “brain attack” occurs when a blood clot blocks an artery (a blood vessel that carries blood from the heart to the body) or a blood vessel (a tube through which the blood moves through the body) breaks, interrupting blood flow to an area of the brain. When either of these things happens, brain cells begin to die and brain damage occurs. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), Stroke is among the five leading causes of death for people of all races and ethnicities. But the risk of having a stroke varies. Compared to whites, African Americans are at nearly twice the risk of having a first stroke. Hispanic Americans’ risk falls between the two. Moreover, African Americans and Hispanics are more likely to die following a stroke than are whites. Are you at risk? Let’s look at some of the risk factors and symptoms:

Risk Factors:• High blood pressure,• Obesity, • Smoking• Diabetes, • High blood cholesterol,• Heart disease

Stroke Symptoms:• Sudden numbness or weakness of the

face, arm or leg, especially on one side of the body

• Sudden confusion, trouble speaking or understanding

• Sudden trouble seeing in one or both eyes

• Sudden trouble walking, dizziness, loss of balance or coordination

Okay, so now we know what a stroke is, and some of the risk factors and symptoms. Now for the good news! According to the National Stroke Association, up to 80% of all strokes are preventable! If you haven’t already, get your blood pressure checked. If you’re on medication, take it as prescribed by your doctor. If you aren’t already exercising, get your body moving; Regular exercise does wonders for your heart, lungs and your waistline! Are there certain risk factors that we

A Freelance writer, editor and edi-torial consultant, Ava is the former Editor-in-Chief of Trendsetters to Trendsetters Magazine, an Atlanta-based publication.


By Dr. Candace Cabbil

Did you know that women suffer strokes at a higher rate than men? The National Stroke Association asserts that 55,000 more women than men suffer from stroke at 425,000 each year. Additionally, seven out of 10 women are not aware that they are more likely than men to have a stroke. African American and Hispanic women were less likely than Caucasian women to correctly identify the causes for strokes or are aware of stroke symptoms. However, African American women suffered a significantly higher number of strokes and Hispanic women lead the way in stroke related deaths compared to Caucasian women.

It is important for women to take a comprehensive and holistic approach when looking at their health care needs. As a Naturopathic Practitioner and a woman suffering from stress-induced

hypertension, I know the importance of taking my physician-prescribed medication. Nevertheless, I am aware that alternative therapies provide a natural and effective way of resolving the underlying factors of hypertension without the many side effects associated with hypertension medications. I discuss my alternative options with my doctor and we work together to design a treatment plan tailored specifically for my health needs. I encourage women to educate themselves about their individual health care needs and options so that they will feel empowered when taking charge of their health.

“Stress and a sedentary lifestyle are other factors to consider when diagnosing and treating hypertension,” according to W. Lee Cowden, M.D., author of Longevity: An Alternative Medicine Definitive Guide and cardiologist from Fort Worth, Texas.

Major treatable risk factors include diet, exercise, and controlling stress levels.

Herbs and botanicals such as those in the garlic family, mistletoe, and olive leaves are known to have hypo-tensive (blood pressure lowering) properties. Calcium, Magnesium (non-chloride salts), and Potassium along with Zinc and antioxidants are nutritional supplements that can help reduce hypertension.Please contact me for a more detailed listing of alternative methods of reducing high blood pressure.

Dr. Candace Cabbil is a Naturopathic Doctor and Program Associate/Internal Organizational Development Consultant with SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective. Contact me: [email protected]

HypertensionWomen,

and StrokeNatural Remedies for Symptoms

Walking the Talk for Cancer

FACT: Breast cancer impacts 1 in 8 women making it the most frequently diagnosed life threatening disease. FACT:Early detection through routine screenings saves lives.

God’s children must embrace healthy lifestyles to fulfill His calling on our lives. That is achieved partly through health risk assessments and routine screenings. Women 20 to 40 need clinical breast exams at least every 3 years. Women 40 and older need annual mammograms.

On May 17th, the 2011 Komen Race for the Cure drew 17,000 Atlantans, raising over $1.7 million for breast cancer awareness and low-to no-cost breast cancer screenings for 10 metro Atlanta counties. “This was our largest turnout ever—Atlanta at its finest,” said Kelly Dolan, Executive Director of Susan G. Komen for the Cure of Greater Atlanta.

Tricia Harris is a writer, strategist, activist, and business consultant specializing in progressive social change, capac-ity building for nonprofits/social enterprises, and intellectual property management. Beginning at age 18, she served the legacies of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and Mrs. Coretta Scott King for over 13 years. For further informa-tion visit: www.triciaharris.snappages.com.

In Komen’s words, “Together we can make a difference.” Together God’s Kingdom must make early cancer detection a priority. We must make a difference. Get involved. Join The Gospel Tribune Atlanta at Komen Atlanta’s interfaith initiative, “Worship In Pink”, October 21 – 23, 2011. Learn more by visiting komenatlanta.org or call (404) 459-8700.


Do You Need A Marriage

M a k e o v e r ?By Dr. Lisa Tait

“What can I do to save my marriage?” As a counselor, this is the most frequently asked question that I encounter. If you take seriously the covenant of marriage between a husband, wife and God, it is painful to even consider divorce as an option. So, what can couples do to bridge the gap left in their marriages from issues of infidelity, loss of trust, abandonment, neglect, abuse, fatigue, financial hardship, harmful addictions, etc.? What do you do when the pain of remaining with someone is so overwhelming that divorce seems like the only escape to peace and sanity?

First, let’s identify key issues that make researchers conclude that between 40% and 60% of new marriages will eventually end in divorce. (Brian K. Williams, Stacy C. Sawyer, Carl M. Wahlstrom, Marriages, Families & Intimate Relationships, 2005). One of the glaring problems is that our society teaches us that everything and everyone in our lives requires work and maintenance except our marriages. Hollywood has hood-winked us into believing that once we say “I Do” everything will fall magically into place and we will ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after.

We all recognize that owning a home requires constant maintenance and a regular financial investment. We bring children into the world and we automatically shift into parent mode—providing for their needs and carefully crafting a future for them. However, when it comes to marriage we put our lives on auto-pilot and assume that somehow things will work themselves out.

My mother used to tell me, “Whatever you did to get him, you must do to keep him.” I’ve often reminisced about the amount of work I put into my relationship while

dating. I never wanted to appear in a negative light. I went out of my way to be supportive and flattering. Now

do you get the point?

Your marriage must become sacred, precious, and a top priority. It is no longer simply about your individual needs but that the two have now become one. If our marriages are destroyed, our families are destroyed and our children suffer. Children of divorced parents lack an example of a two-parent home. Many of us wonder why our children end their marriages in divorce once they have matured, but we fail to recognize that a generational lesson has been taught to our children. That lesson is that marriage is dispensable. We allow our children to hear us speak negatively about their other parent. They see us verbally (and sometimes physically) assault one another.

We must end the attack on marriages and families and change the discouraging statistics! What can you do to be proactive about keeping your marriage and family healthy?

Here are a few biblically-based steps to help you “divorce-proof” your marriage and protect your family:

Create a Marriage Plan. The purpose of a written marriage plan is to provide direction, content, structure and purpose to your marriage. Just as you, as an individual, have a God-ordained purpose, so does your marriage. If you’re not certain what that purpose is, pray about it, then talk to your spouse. Re-assess your gifts and abilities and share your heart’s passion until God’s purpose is crystal clear. Then write it down as a mission or vision statement (Habakkuk 2:2-3) for your marriage. What do you want to accomplish together (e.g., successfully rear our children, finish our degrees, start a business, work together in ministry, write a book, own property, etc.)

Cultivate Your Love Life. Marriage takes work. This work isn’t one-sided but the load is equally shared; which makes it seem much lighter. (Eph. 5: 22-25) Work on how you talk to one another. Use love language that is certain to affirm, build up, and support your spouse. Set aside a date night once a week or twice a month. Find a sitter and spend time alone simply sharing your dreams. Take vacations together and remember that little things (e.g., a home-cooked meal, a single flower, a massage, an encouraging word) mean a lot.

Center Your Marriage In Christ. A relationship devoid of Christ is a relationship headed for divorce. The trials and tribulations that you face daily, coupled with the reality that your spouse, as well as you, are flawed human beings, is enough to end the strongest marriage. Never forget that your marriage vows included a covenant with God; and with God all things are possible (Matt. 19:26). Continue to invite God into your marriage to guide, comfort, protect and keep you and your spouse.

I hope you will begin taking the necessary steps to fortify your marriages “before” and not “after” any breakdown. Value the gift of marriage and family, recognizing that there are many people who would love to be married with children. Remember, marriage will work if you work at it!

Dr. Lisa Tait serves as Executive Director of the Atlanta Center For Healing, Public Relations Manager and Therapist with Mental Health Georgia (www.mentalhealthgeorgia.com) an Adjunct Professor at the ITC, and a radio personality and rela-

tionship expert. She is author of Women of Des-tiny: Five Principles For Pursuing Your Purpose in God and CEO & Founder of Women of Destiny Ministries (www.womenofdestiny.org). Learn more about Dr. Lisa at www.DrTait.com.



By Pastor Joyce Gilmer

As a wife, mother and woman in ministry I can unashamedly say, that there have been times I have experienced disappointments, setbacks and struggles. There have been seasons where it seemed like although I prayed, the answers just wouldn’t come. There are times when you can be completely inundated by all that life throws in your direction; that you can find yourself backed up against the wall; stuck in an unhappy relationship; drowning in debt and frustrated with work and family-all at the same time. The reality is this: as much as we love God, we can and do get discouraged, and even get desperate for change.

There is something about a woman when she feels cornered, that causes her to tap into deeper levels of creativity, productivity and even prayer. I cannot help but think about the biblical account of Hannah in I Samuel 1:1-20. She was so desperate to have a child she ended up in a state of depression and emotional distress, to the point that she didn’t eat. Although we do not have time to examine the full account of her story, I’ve taken the liberty of noting a few significant points to help those who may be in the “the desperate woman” stage to move from where she is in her psyche, to where she desires to be in her destiny.

• Women Feeling Desperate are Real Women with Real Problems-Desperation knows no prejudice. Hannah was the wife of a priest and even she was forced to deal with depression, emotional distress and discontentment.

• Women Feeling Desperate Pray-Hannah went to the temple to pray and asked God for a son and the end result was that “She was no more sad”. I Sam. 1:18.

• Women Feeling Desperate Know Worship Causes God to Remember-After Hannah worshipped God and went home with her husband, it was then God remembered her and she conceived. What is it that you are trying to bring into

fruition? What dream or vision is locked on the inside of you? It may be time to worship.

• Women Feeling Desperate Keep Their Promises-When God blessed Hannah to have the son she so desperately wanted, she kept the same promise in her deliverance that she made in her moment of desperation. When God brings you out, make certain that you keep your promise.

If there are situations that have you vexed and in a quandary, learn from Hannah. You can alter your course and change your mind about where you are, so you can move progressively toward your future. Use the principles provided in the word of God, to bring you to an expected end. The challenges we face in life as women and as believers are not designed to take us out, but to cause another level of faith to rise in us, so that the answers we seek can be revealed through prayer. As a desperate woman, why just weep over what is troubling you, when you can pray and worship like Hannah and get results?

Pastor Joyce Gilmer is a preacher, teacher and mentor and has served in ministry for more than 25 years. She is the visionary and founder of the Kingdom Sisters Network, which places emphasis on encouraging the hearts and empowering the visions of women in ministry. Additionally, she is the author of Healing Words for Wounded Hearts and When Sisters Speak, Life Lessons for Women in Ministry. She travels across the states as a revivalist and workshop facilitator. Connect with her at: www.joycegilmer.com

Are you a Woman who sometimes feels

Desperate?


By Tavares Stephens

Imagine entering what should be your senior year in high school and; you find yourself nearly fourteen credits shy of graduation. You are frustrated as you think about what could have been if only you had applied yourself, valued your education, and used every ounce of your time and energy to achieve. You lament over the fact that graduation could be the dream indefinitely deferred. In August of 2010, Stanley Scandrett faced the aforementioned scenario. Yet, nearly nine months later, Stanley’s academic life and destiny have forever been changed for the better. In spite of early academic setbacks, his dream of being a high school graduate has become reality.

Stanley began the 2010-11 school year with 12.5 credits. In order to graduate, Stanley needed 23 credits. Many students in this situation choose to drop out. Yet, Stanley did not make that choice. He chose to seek a way to graduate. He enrolled in Clayton County School’s Career Center and Open Campus, also known as the Perry Center for Learning. At the Career Center and Open Campus, students work on both a block schedule and extended day schedule that enables them to earn up to 8 credits per year. Additionally, like other Georgia schools, after school and online classes are offered at the Career Center and Open Campus. So, in addition to his full load of classes, Stanley decided to take every additional class he could add. He took both after school classes, online courses, and his regularly scheduled classes. His goal was to earn 10.5 credits. Through embracing a rigorous course load, Stanley earned the credits and became part of the class of 2011. He completed nearly two years of credits within one year. He even scored on the highest levels of the Science portion Georgia High School Graduation Test.

Stanley’s decision helped him avoid being part of the large number of high school students who don’t finish. According to the Georgia Department of Education, 19.2 % of the students who should have graduated last year in Georgia did not complete requirements. And according to the U.S. Department of Education, in 2008, nearly 25% of eligible students did not complete high school. Although Georgia’s graduation rate has steadily increased over the last few years, it should be disturbing that nearly one-fifth of the students in our state and one-fourth of our students nationally may end up being non-completers of high school.

When asked what helped him turnaround, Stanley credits both faith in God and the grace of God. He also had incredible support from his family. As they encouraged him, he finally embraced the support being giving and developed a laser focus. Stanley says, “I had to discipline myself, cut off certain friends, give up my lunch, and recognize that anything that looked like free time had to be study time.” Amazingly, as Stanley began his turnaround, God began birthing a new gift in his life – the gift of musicianship. As his academic focused increased, so did an ability to play music by ear. Stanley’s gift has grown to the point that he now serves as a lead guitarist for Open Door Evangelistic Pentecostal Church in Atlanta. He travels nationally with the music ministry and God is using him to touch the lives of both believers and nonbelievers across the country.

Stanley’s father, Stanley, Sr. was instrumental in his academic rebirth. According to Mr. Scandrett, “Stanley has always been intelligent. Yet, he lost focus. As began to listen to the wise counsel of family and church members, he began to see that faith in God makes things possible.” Mr. Scandrett states further, “While going through his struggles, he began to focus. He began seeing successful people who believed in God and it changed him. After a minister in the church prophesied that he’d be a great musician, his mind opened to a new reality and his talents began to develop.” Mr. Scandrett went on to say that as Stanley’s talents grew, he pushed him to realize that if God would bless him with amazing musical gifts, God would bless him to be a better student. Stanley embraced this idea and that’s when the beautiful story you are reading began to fully unfold.

Stanley’s story reminds us that the grace of God can take dead dreams and resurrect them. It also shows us that through faith, hard work, and sound guidance, we can yield to God’s unlimited vision of success for our lives. If we can help all of our children embrace the beautiful challenge of seeking success – even in difficult circumstances – imagine what this world might be like. Students like Stanly Scandrett are leading the way. We must encourage young people like him believe and let their lights shine.

Where There Is Faith, There Is a Chance to Succeed

Minister Tavares Stephens is an educator, consultant, and founder of Earthseed, LLC. He presents to teach-ers, schools, and civic groups on developing mentoring programs, African American male student development, differentiated teaching styles and character education.


today. Overall, my mom taught me how to persevere. Through the good, she taught me how to push from average into becoming better. Through the bad, she taught me how to overcome, in an effort to achieve victory. How did she teach me? She taught me that prayer is the key to strength, survival and success. Prayer is the avenue for coaching, comfort and counsel. Prayer is the vehicle for potential, purpose and destiny.

My mother was a jewel. Elder Helen Stokes was the matriarch of our family, the mother of our church, the mother to six children, and the wife of forty-nine years to my father. Yes, I miss seeing her beautiful face, touching her smooth skin, hearing her soft yet powerful voice and though I yet have my mother-daughter mourning moments; she is still my friend forever. For one day, I will see her again over in glory. And it will be in glory where all of my tears will be wiped away.

FRIENDS FOREVER

Pastor Juandolyn Stokes & Her Mother, the late, Elder Helen Stokes

IIt was on a Tuesday afternoon, Christmas week in the year 2009 that my mother, Elder Helen Stokes transitioned from her earthly body to be with the Lord. Having been raised in a family of six siblings, I was the middle child. My mom knew how to nurture and love all of us the way we needed love.

She was certainly a woman to be admired. As a holy woman, full of virtue, she was a praying woman who took her walk with God seriously. My experience with her was life-changing. She taught me how to be a lady. She stressed the importance of cleanliness, beauty and elegance from morning until night. She built esteem and confidence in me as a little girl. She would say that a girl-lady-woman should look beautiful all day. Whether she is single or married, a girl-lady-woman should look her best. Whether she’s going to church, getting ready for bed, or running an errand to the corner store, a girl-lady-woman should always look great. She modeled for me what it meant to be a holy woman.

I witnessed her life of prayer and praise unto God, faithfulness to ministry, reverence to church and religious leaders, commitment as a mother, and dedication as a wife. I learned the joy and value of serving the Lord from her and my father. My mother dedicated her finances, gifts and time to church and ministry. Having watched her serve in multiple capacities in ministry- from a secretary and usher, to a missionary and Elder, she demonstrated the importance of rendering one’s gifts unto the service of the Lord. I watched my mom love all people. She greeted all with a smile and a hug. From children to adults, I watched her gift of hospitality be extended from the least and the greatest. She and my father took in strangers, friends, couples and youth into our home, especially if they were experiencing troubled marriages, challenges in life, or the sort.

My mom was my greatest role model and mentor. She nurtured me into what I am

A Tribute to Mothers & Fathers

Juandolyn Stokes is pastor of the Deeper Life In Christ Ministries, Inc. in Conyers, Georgia. Ms. Stokes a cutting-edge entrepre-neur with the focus to empower, educate and inspire.

DADDY’S GIRL SEARCHING FOR

DADDY

by Tricia Harris

“I’m grown up, but I’m still a little girl sitting in the corner.”

In her first book, “Finding Daddy,” 40-year old Renita Wilson-Gibbs courageously tells a tale all too familiar to women and girls who grow up without a father’s love. Daddy is absent. Mother gets Father’s Day cards. Girl grows into woman with an ache she cannot shake nor share. A daddy’s little girl without a daddy; always missing what she never had. “Finding Daddy” takes you on a ‘real-talk’, tell-it-like-it-is spiritual journey through Renita’s quest for her father’s love. “This is not just a book. I’m going to stay on the battlefield,” she said, “It is a generational curse that keeps happening. It’s affecting our kids.”

After reaching out for 30-years, Renita reunited with her ailing father, only for him to die six months later. “In order to get fully delivered from a thing you have to face it,” she said, “Writing this book is showing me - me; how I can be a better person and take the mask off.” Renita does, indeed, remove her mask as she offers words of love, faith, and strength for the many who will undoubtedly hear their story in hers.

Originally from Augusta, Georgia, Renita Wilson-Gibbs is a motivational speaker focused on women’s empowerment, goal-setting and self-esteem. She also mentors young women 16-22. The book can be purchased online at http://renitagibbs.homestead.com or on Amazon.com.The Gospel Tribune Atlanta would like to hear from you. Please email comments or childhood stories to [email protected].

Tricia Harris is a writer, strategist, activist, and busi-ness consultant specializing in progressive social change, capacity building for nonprofits/social enterprises, and intellec-tual property management. For further information visit: www.triciaharris.snappages.com.

What Makes a DadGod took the strength of a mountain,

The majesty of a tree,The warmth of a summer sun,

The calm of a quiet sea,The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night,

The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle’s flight,The joy of a morning in spring,

The faith of a mustard seed,The patience of eternity,

The depth of a family need,Then God combined these qualities,

When there was nothing more to add,He knew His masterpiece was complete,

And so,

He called it ... DadAuthor Unknown


Hello, my name is Micah Harris. This month I am writing about how cool it is to be a kid.

Well, first of all, I love being a kid because it is fun to be young and have a lot of energy. My mom tells me all the time about how lucky I am to be a kid. She says I am lucky because I don’t have to pay bills and I don’t have to work hard all day at a busy job.

I also still have many exciting things to experience and decisions to make that will help me shape the life I want for myself. She also tells me that being a kid will probably be the best time of my life.

With all my friends and family around, I will be able to create memories that will last the rest of my life.

My advice to all kids is to enjoy your life, make good choices and have fun doing it.

Let me encourage you to have your copy of the Gospel Tribune Atlanta delivered to your home & have exclusive online access for only $20 per year. For more details, visitwww.gospeltribuneatlanta.com

Love & Peace,

Micah Harris

How Cool is itTo Be a Kid?When Parenting Becomes Impossible:

“Dealing with Adopted Children with Attachment Issues”

by Cassandra Johnson Landry, L.P.C.

Many parents of adoptive children are uncertain of how to parent these sometimes withdrawn, emotionally volatile and defiant children. As a licensed therapist trained specifically in the area of Attachment disorders I have watched parents struggle with the “best” way to handle their adoptive child. Many feel like these children are gifts from God, however they are uncertain how to move that child from feeling estranged to feeling embraced, loved and secure. One of the most difficult cases I ever dealt with was that of a 4-year-old Romanian orphan. His parents thought that it was normal for him to be a rambunctious whirlwind of activity at his age; but his mother, in particular, quickly noticed behaviors that were “not so normal”.

Joseph had poor eye contact and a need to be in control of every situation he was in and would often become hostile and rock back and forth. He would lash out at the family dog in cruel manners and when he was scolded for doing this he had a lack of empathy or remorse for what he had done. He never seemed to feel guilty for his acting out behaviors and would attempt to charm his way out of many situations. What was most peculiar was Joseph’s response to strangers. He seemed to have no fear of them; he would often walk right up to people and begin conversation and hug or even attempt to kiss them. This was odd enough, but what was even stranger was the fact that Joseph would flinch at the mere touch of his parents and turn his back if they tried to hug him. Joseph often stole simple things around the house and would lie about doing so. Joseph’s parents were at odds about whether Joseph did these things and Joseph seemed to take pleasure in watching them disagree.

Desperate for answers, Joseph’s mother sought out a mental health professional and explained Joseph’s symptoms; we immediately suggested she bring Joseph in for an assessment. Joseph was diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), a continuum in which some children are securely attached; some suffer from mild attachment issues; and some from severe attachment disorders, as in Joseph’s case. I began working with Joseph and his family, not only on Joseph’s Attachment issues, but to instruct his mother and father how to parent him therapeutically as typical parenting techniques do not work with attachment disordered children. Joseph began as a child that seemed incapable of loving his parents or being loved by them; he wouldn’t obey, trust, or be joyful with them. With the appropriate RAD treatment, Joseph is now a child who loves his parents and loves the world; but most of all, he loves to be loved!

Here are some things you can do if you are struggling with a child with Attachment issues:

1. Call a children’s mental health agency that specializes in Attachment and Bonding issues.

2. Get an assessment done on your child and begin therapy.3. Get educated on how to properly parent your child with Attachment issues.4. Involve the whole family in the process to create a healthy “attached” environ-

ment for everyone.

Cassandra Johnson Landry is a licensed child and adolescent therapist practicing in the Atlanta Metropolitan area. She is the Co-Owner of Mental Health Georgia (www.mentalhealthgeorgia.com) and Co-Founder of the Atlanta Center for Healing.

Therapeutic Essentials


Your Child’s Greatest Needby Kindred Howard

As loving parents, we long to meet our children’s needs. We strive to protect them, teach them, guide them, and, at times, discipline them. Our goal is nothing short of helping our kids grow up to be the men and women we believe God wants them to be. We also want our sons and daughters to get an education, acquire the skills and knowledge that will equip them to pursue a career, and gain a measure of financial, emotional, and spiritual security. The truth is, when we start thinking about all the good things we want for our kids, it can become overwhelming—if not downright scary. How do we continually provide for our children’s material needs? What does it take to mold their character to become people who will one day be godly husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, neighbors, and friends? How do we steer them towards a meaningful walk with God? What can we do to help them experience peace, security, and a fulfilling life?

I believe that the first step in truly raising secure, life-ready children is to recognize that we, as parents, tend to worry too much. In our minds, we formulate a long, anxiety-producing list of things we “must” do and opportunities we “must” provide for our kids. We allow our culture rather than the Bible to dictate to us what our children “need” in life, like academic success, athletic achievement, social acceptance, and so on—all in the name of preparing them for adulthood. The truth is, there is only one thing our children truly need from us. Our kids need a mom and dad whose love for and faith in God manifests itself as daily obedience to His word.

As parents, we cannot separate our personal relationship with God from our day-to-day role as mothers and fathers. Whether we are still together as a couple or are currently trying to raise our kids as single parents, it is only through an intimate walk with God that we truly become the people our children need us to be. How can our kids seriously believe in the power of unconditional love when they are hearing about a Jesus who said, “Father, forgive them,” but live with parents who can’t forgive each other or are perceived to only fully accept their children when those children think or act in a certain way?

God has chosen to reach our children through us, their parents. God has made us an extension of Himself, not because we’re perfect, but because He has chosen us the way He chose Moses. So what does

God want from us if not perfection? Three things.

1. Surrender. A surrendered life is a life of discipleship. It’s a life that has been laid on the altar as a living sacrifice (Romans 12:1). A surrendered life doesn’t guarantee a lack of hardships, but it does guarantee that God is steering the ship through any turbulent waters we have to navigate.

2. Humility. Nope, we’re not perfect. But, fortunately for us, the Bible is full of imperfect people who, by God’s power, fulfilled their God-given role. Sorry dads, but you are going to fail sometimes. Hate to break it to you moms, but you are going to blow it. What’s more, your kids are going to be aware that you failed/blew it. Don’t’ panic. You don’t need advice from Dr. Phil or the latest edition of Parenting Magazine to get back on track. Just be humble. Confess your sin and repent. (1 John 1:8-9). Apologize to the person you hurt. If you spoke harshly to or about your

spouse in the children’s presence, then make sure your kids hear or at least know about the apology. And ask forgiveness.

3. Love Like Jesus. Jesus loves us unconditionally. He loves us more than himself. He valued our need for salvation greater than his own needs. That’s how we are to love our spouse and kids. 1 Peter 4:8 tells us that the most important thing we can do is love one another, because love covers over a multitude of sins. If you do nothing else, love your family like Jesus. Love them unconditionally. Love them sacrificially. Love your kids for who they are, not what you want them to be. Want your kids to put their security in an unchanging and unshakable God rather than in circumstances that can change with the stock market, a human decision, or the results of a medical exam? Then it’s not complicated; trust God and be what you want children to become.

Kindred Howard is the founder and Lead marriage and Parent-ing Coach for Family Upward, and family life coaching institute dedicated to strengthening families through biblically-based principles and methods. He is a certified parenting coach, and award-winning published writer and a highly acclaimed public speaker. Kindred and his beautiful wife, Meredith, have been married for nearly 14 years and have 5 children.


Spend five minutes speaking to Mrs. Mary Mobley and you will have a new definition of what it means to be busy! This self-proclaimed “senior in denial” has an agenda and you better not get in her way.

Mary Ruth Mobley learned at a young age the value of family, a strong work ethic and a positive attitude. An only child born in Oklahoma, Mary grew up with a large extended family of cousins, aunts, uncles, grandmothers, grandfathers and great grandmothers. One of her earliest life lessons was taught to her by her great grandmother. Teaching Mary to cook at age 9 she also instilled in her the message that “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop” and to “Always have something to do, keep something on your plate.” Mary laughs now that her plate should actually be a platter! Keeping busy is a way of life and it brings her joy knowing she is helping those around her.This mother of 7, grandmother of 13 and great grandmother of 15 has been married for 27 years to her wonderful and supportive husband John.

She retired 2 years ago after a 32 year career in the manufacturing field. An Electrical Mechanical Technician by trade Mary lived by the standard that “You take your time and do your work right.” “What you do represents who you are – take ownership.” She shared her feelings on lazy people stating that “she loves people but doesn’t understand being lazy.” “God gave us all a gift and even if you don’t know what yours is yet do something!”

Mary has been a resident of Georgia for 23 years and a member of St. James for all 23 of those years. She remembers the day she first visited St. James at the Kimball Bridge location. The first 2 people she met were Mr. and Mrs. Carter. Mrs. Carter was greeting at the front door while Mr. Carter was ushering. They both welcomed her like they had known her for years and she knew she had found her church home.

The importance of finding a church home is a message she shares with her children and grandchildren. She tells them that whenever you leave home your #1 priority should be to find

a church home. You will receive all the directions for everything you

need to know about the new place you are living in and have a built in family who

will love and support you.

Family is a huge priority for Mary. She loves planning reunions and get togethers and feels

there is a huge void in our families today. “Parents are losing their

connection with their children.” She stresses the importance of sitting down to dinner together as a family. “Jesus met the disciples at “the table.” “He gave instruction and communicated to them at “the table.” “There is significance in that.”

While Mary enjoys working on the computer and cooking one thing she truly loves is creating things – using both her hands and her mind. She is meticulous and says, “If it don’t come out right she’ll re-do it till it’s right.” As this year’s church historian Mary is working on compiling information for the upcoming church anniversary. She is also taking her love of scrapbooking to an at home project creating a portfolio of Black History for her grandchildren. She also finds time to volunteer at the Mary Hall Freedom House which benefits women and children in need of rehabilitation. This includes GED prep and testing, job training etc. Mary serves over 100 plus women through monthly birthday celebrations, yearly graduation ceremonies and an annual holiday event that has included a fashion show/banquet and most recently a Christmas Tea Party.

With all this to keep her busy, I asked Mary what else is there you’d like to accomplish. She was quick to answer that her dream is to open a Tea Room. She loves hosting Tea Parties and would name her Tea Room “Mar’Ru” a play on her given name, Mary Ruth. Most recently she has been hosting on the spot kids Tea Parties which have been a tremendous hit!

Giving back and sharing with others is Mary Mobley’s way of life. Her friends and family marvel at how unselfish this only child continues to be and how she shares this message of giving with all those who come in contact with her. She comments that “There is always a ram in the bush – make the best of life and look to God for the direction he wants you to go in.” “Stay in his will.” “I know even I can get out of order she says with a laugh, but I try not to let “self” get in the way.” “That has to be your focus when you are striving to be Christ-like.”

Mobley

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Mary

Honoring


Besse Cooper blows out the candles on her cake as she celebrates her 113th birthday at Walton Regional Medical Center Nursing Home in Monroe, Ga. on August 26, 2009

At 114 years and 265 days old, Besse Cooper of Walton County is the oldest living person in North America. She originally held the title of oldest living person in the world until until Wednesday, May 18th when Brazil’s Maria Gomes Valentim -- a mere 48 days older -- moved into the top spot. Born July 9, 1896, Valentim now holds the No. 1 spot since her age was certified by Guinness World Records

Besse Cooper was born Aug. 26, 1896, in Tennessee, but moved to Walton County during World War I to teach because teachers in Georgia made more money, her son previously said. She married her husband, Luther, in 1924 and stopped teaching school when she had her first child at age 33. Luther Cooper died in 1963.

In addition to her four children, Besse Cooper has 12 grandchildren and more than a dozen great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren. Her family members helped her celebrate her 114th birthday in August 2010, complete with cake, balloons, songs and an Elvis impersonator. “Everyone’s pulling for her to make 115,” Sidney Cooper said.

Excerpt from the AJC, May 18th 2011. Written by Alexis Stevens.The photo was taken by Curtis Compton.

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