The Experience Called Grief Gary D. Smith, MAEd..

The Experience Called Grief

Gary D. Smith, MAEd.

Five Stages of NormalReaction to Loss

1. Denial

2. Anger

3. Bargaining

4. Depression

5. Acceptance

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Death brings a flood of feelings and emotions to each person in their own

way!

Feeling

A sense of knowing or an impression on

the mind

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Emotion

A mental and bodily

reaction accompanied by a strong

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Stages of Grief

1. Denial

a) Acknowledging

the loss

2. Anger

a) Experiencing

the pain

3. Bargaining

a) Experiencing the pain

b) Re-adjusting to the loss

4. Depression

a) Finding a way to move on

Acknowledging the Loss May be Hard

Shock DisbeliefConfusionAnxietyPanic

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Children Acknowledging the Loss

• Anger • Frustration• Questioning• Guilt• Copying the

behaviors of others

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Adults acknowledging the loss

AngerFrustrationGuiltBlaming othersA sense of loss

of control

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Disorientation Phase

Despair Lowered self-

esteem Pre-occupation Loneliness State of disequilibria Tearful

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The Faces of Grief are Different in Each Person

Bargaining / Experiencing the Pain

DisorientationFearLoss of ControlState of LimboFrustration Vulnerable

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Depression / With the Pain

• Helplessness• Hopelessness• Resentment• Bitterness• Emptiness• Sadness

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Bargaining and Adjustment( Adaptation )

Re-adjusting to the loss Struggling with new roles

and responsibilities Envy Yearning Missing

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Acceptance a Sense of Healing

Developing a new environment

New Relationships

New ActivitiesNew HopeA Sense of

Healing

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Acceptance Reconciling The Loss

Hope for the future

Growth from the trial

Healing from the heart

Remembering with less pain

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Rainbows Give Us Hope For The FutureAnd Build Bridges Over Our Trials.

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There Is Life After Grief

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