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Page 1: The Conscious Road to Compassion Heidi A. Wayment, Ph.D. Department of Psychology Northern Arizona University May 16, 2013 A Social Psychological Perspective.

The Conscious Road to Compassion

Heidi A. Wayment, Ph.D.Department of PsychologyNorthern Arizona University

May 16, 2013

A Social Psychological Perspective on the Quiet Ego

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Outline

What is compassion?

What are the barriers to compassion?

What is a “quiet ego?”

What good is a “quiet ego?”

Can a “quiet ego” be cultivated?

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What is Compassion?

At the core of every spiritual and religious tradition

“... the feeling that arises in witnessing another’s suffering and that motivates a subsequent desire to help.”

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Goetz, Keltner, & Simon-Thomas, 2010Psychological Bulletin

Is target deserving of

help? Anger

DistressAnxiety

Fear

Compassion

No

Yes

Do I have resources to

help?

No

Yes

Witness suffering

NoDoes target’s suffering satisfy

self goal?

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Behavior Cognition

Emotion

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Psychological Distance

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Schopenhauer (1969, p. 372)

Compassion ...

the recognition that any perceived distinction between others and ourselves is only a

"fleeting, deceptive phenomenon"

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