bride THE GUIDE Here comes the bride and with her – lots of things on the to do list! Whether you are a bride, a mother of the bride or a supportive friend, The Bride Guide lists only vendors who have been recommended by busy, Lowcountry women. Exclusive content, including a Wedding Workbook, is available at EveryBusy- Woman.com. Be sure to sign up for the Busy Bride Buzz eNewsletter to stay up to date as the big day approaches. Enjoy! Betty
Tips, hints and recommended businesses for brides to be as their planning their Lowcountry Charleston, SC wedding. Includes helpful checklists and more.
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Here comes the bride and with her – lots of things on the to do list! Whether you are a bride, a mother of the bride or a supportive friend, The Bride Guide lists only vendors who have been recommended by busy, Lowcountry women. Exclusive content, including a Wedding Workbook, is available at EveryBusy-Woman.com. Be sure to sign up for the Busy Bride Buzz eNewsletter to stay up to date as the big day approaches. Enjoy! Betty
WildFlour PastrySpecialty cakes and desserts available for all occasions.
73 Spring Street, Charleston, SC 29403tel 843.327.2621
www.wildflourpastrycharleston.comSee our ad page 30
BARTENDING SERVICES
ICEBOX Bar Services Outstanding, high quality event bar services offering fresh, innovative and exciting beverage ideas. Our many packages offer the ability to customize bar service to accommodate your every need. We are committed to delivering the best quality service and products with expert bartenders trained in the latest techniques of mixology, speed techniques, and
customer service. Now offering free beverage consultations and client cocktail tastings.
Professional & Friendly • Fully InsuredStandard & Tailored Bar Packages
2220 Old School Drive, Charleston, SC 29405 tel 843.407.0473
The Spa at Charleston PlaceLocated on the 4th Floor of Charleston Place Hotel,
in the heart of downtown Charleston.205 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC 29401
tel 843.937.8522www.charlestonplace.com
See our ad page 6
Stella Nova Salon Spa Esthetique & Make-Up Studio
Stella Nova is the bridal expert, let us prepare you for the aisle.Bridal Gifts, Bridal Suite. Outcall Hair & Make-Up.
292 King Street, Charleston, SC 29401tel (Spa) 843.723.0909, (Salon) 843.577.2500,
(Store) 843.722.9797or 800.577.NOVA
www.stella-nova.com
BUSY BRIDE TIPS
Little Wedding Guests If you have invited children to be guests at your wedding, consider
the following: • Hire a babysitter to watch them during the ceremony.
• Set up a children’s table or room at the reception, complete
with favors, crayons, coloring books, small toys and games.
• Consider hiring special children’s entertainment, such as
a caricaturist or clown. • Ask your caterer to prepare kid
meals or options. • Toss a candy bouquet for the kids in addition to your
flower bouquet.
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43CATERING
Cru Catering Eclectic Modern American Cuisine
Cru Catering offers full-service customized catering, including weddings, meetings, special events and private parties. We coordinate pre-planned menus for groups of
all sizes. Find out why we’ve been voted Charleston’s Best Caterer for more than a decade.
Voted Best Caterer 2001 - 2012 by Charleston City Paper readers. Voted the Best of Weddings 2010 - 2012 Pick by The Knot Chef John Zucker, 1st in Class, Cordon Bleu Graduate
• Let people know where you’ve registered by setting up a
Web site and telling shower and party hosts.
• Revisit and update your registry often.
Don’t: • Wait until the last minute;
register with time for showers and engagement parties. • Select items you will
never use. • Overlook the details. Read the
fine print and know what the store’s policies are for shipping,
returns and exchanges. • Make things hard for your
guests by only choosing stores with local-accessibility. Include at least one large chain or store
that has online shopping.
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45WEDDING EVENT VENUES
Carolina Queen Make your wedding a truly special occasion aboard the
Carolina Queen – one of Charleston’s most unique eventlocations. Whether you’re planning a rehearsal dinner,wedding ceremony or wedding reception, delight your
guests with exceptional service, delicious food andthe ever-changing views of Charleston’s picturesque harboras you cruise on Charleston’s only Paddlewheel Riverboat.
Harbour ClubLocated in the heart of historic Charleston, the 200-year-old
building and rooftop terrace offer an atmosphere symbolic of southern hospitality for parties of to 250. Allow us to create a
day to carry you through forever.35 Prioleau Street, Charleston, SC, 29401
tel 843.723.9680www.harbour-charleston.com
See our ad page 46
Lighthouse on the CreekNestled in the heart of Mt. Pleasant, SC on historic
Shem Creek, our unique waterfront facility features a stunning sunset vista, spacious porches and a sensational
Lowcountry backdrop your guests will love. Perfect for weddings, rehearsal dinners, executive retreats, corporate
meetings and other elegant events.tel 843.881.7384
www.shemcreekevents.com
Tides Hotel on Folly Beach Your Wedding. Your Way.
We have everything you need to make your big day everything you’ve ever imagined and as original as you are. From casual, intimate ceremonies on the beach, to elegant,
formal affairs, Tides is the only full-service oceanfront hotel in the Charleston area that has a setup to match any wedding style. With the beach right outside our doors and over 4,000 square feet of banquet space inside, the Tides Hotel on Folly Beach can accommodate everything from a casual buffet to
a formal dinner. To start planning your one-of-a-kind Charleston oceanfront wedding, contact one of our friendly
wedding professionals today.Tides Hotel on Folly Beach, 1 Center Street, Folly Beach, SC 29439
tel 843.588.6464 www.tidesfollybeach.com
See our ad page 49
BUSY BRIDE TIPS
Wedding Why’s?
Wedding rings are worn on the third finger of the left hand
because it was once believed that the “vena amori” or vein of love ran from the ring finger to
the heart.
The veil was originally worn by Roman brides to disguise
themselves and outwit malevolent spirits.
Bridesmaids were used to confuse evil spirits by dressing
alike and surrounding the bride.
In medieval times, men wore their swords on their right side, thus would keep that side free in case they needed to draw.
Therefore, if escorted, the bride walks down on the left and the bride’s family and guests sit on
the left side of the aisle.
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WEDDING CHECKLIST12 MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING❏ Set a budget❏ Select a theme, colors, etc.❏ Ceremony date, time and site❏ Book officiant❏ Reserve the reception site❏ Select your attendants❏ Caterer, Florist, Wedding Consultant❏ Photographer and Videographer❏ Music - ceremony and reception❏ Wedding dress, headpiece and accessories❏ Bridesmaid’s dresses❏ Begin compiling guest list❏ Be sure to sign contracts!
9 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Register for china, gifts, etc.❏ Plan the honeymoon!❏ Send out save the date cards
6 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Order bridesmaid’s dresses and flower girl’s dress❏ Current visas and passports?❏ Discuss rehearsal dinner with groom
4 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Finalize guest list❏ Order invitations, programs and stationery
❏ Order formal wear for groom and attendants❏ Book hair and makeup❏ Wedding cake and groom’s cake
2 MONTHS BEFORE❏ Final dress fitting❏ Finalize ceremony details: procession, seating chart, etc.❏ Gifts for bridal party❏ Cake knife and champagne glasses for toast❏ Guest registration book❏ Wedding rings❏ Select who will be in charge of what on day of❏ Plan your getaway - car, carriage, etc.
6 - 8 WEEKS BEFORE❏ Mail invitations❏ Photo list for photographer and videographer❏ Send announcement to newspaper
2 WEEKS BEFORE❏ Pick up wedding gown❏ Marriage license❏ Put all necessities in one bag or container for easy transport
1 WEEK BEFORE❏ Guest count to caterer❏ Check in with all service providers❏ Inform attendants and family where to be and when
WEDDING RENTALS
Event DRS Dining Rental Solutions
Providing you with a complete resource for all your event rental needs. Known throughout Charleston for our amazing selection,
great customer service, and can-do attitude. We pride ourselves on providing quality products at a reasonable
price. We have all the rental equipment to make your next event spectacular!
A Busy Bride’s Best GirlPrior to the day, arrange for one
reliable person:• Carry your lipstick & powder - and tell you when you need it!• Make sure you have drinks
& food.• Keep a comfy pair of
ballet-style slippers for you to change into.
• Help you to the ladies room. Trust us, you’ll need it.
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this issue!
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BRIDAL Buzz: EmErgEncy WEdding day Kit
No need to say, “If only I had my _____” on your big day! Gather the following things together to make your own wedding day “emergency kit.”
For the Bride…
❑ Band-Aids
❑ Any medications you may need
❑ Bobby pins
❑ Make-up
❑ Hairspray
❑ Clear nail polish (for pantyhose runs)
❑ Brush
❑ Tissues
❑ Baby powder or white chalk (for covering stains)
❑ Comfortable shoes
❑ Safety pins
❑ Spare pantyhose/stockings
❑ Cell phone & a list of vendors numbers (see our Wedding Workbook p. 23 – 32)
❑ Water & spirits for a pre-wedding toast with the gals (don’t overdo it)
For the Groom…
❑ Rings
❑ Spare, white shirt (leave unopened so that you can
return if unused)
❑ Large, black umbrella
❑ Hair styling products
❑ Razor & shaving cream (just in case you miss a spot)
❑ Tooth brush & tooth paste
❑ Breath mints
❑ Cologne & deodorant
❑ Camera
❑ Cash for tipping & emergencies
❑ Local map and/or directions to your honeymoon escape
❑ Water & spirits for a pre-wedding toast with the guys (don’t overdo it)
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Download this list at EveryBusyWoman.com
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Every bride needs an organizational tool for planning a wedding. You can use this workbook as a start. Turn the page and find
at-a -glance worksheets for a month by month checklist, registry and budget checklists, a vendor contact list and more. You
can also download and print these pages at our Web site www.EveryBusyWoman.com.
your wedding workbook
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your BudgEt cHEcKlist
SERvicE BuDgEtED Amount vEnDoR EStimAtE Amount SpEnt
ReceptionVenue
Baker
Caterer
Beverages
Miscellaneous fees
AttireWedding gown
Veil or headpiece
Shoes
Jewelry
Hair & make up
Groom’s attire
Groom’s accessories
Miscellaneous fees
Flowers and DecorationsFloral arrangements for ceremony
Floral arrangements for reception
Bride’s bouquet
Bridesmaids’ bouquets
Corsages and boutonnieres
Flower girl’s buds
Ring pillow
Reception decorations
Lighting
Miscellaneous fees
musicCeremony music
Reception music
Miscellaneous fees
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your BudgEt cHEcKlist
SERvicE BuDgEtED Amount vEnDoR EStimAtE Amount SpEnt
photographer and videoBridal portrait
Photography – rehearsal dinner
Photography – wedding day
Videography
Additional prints & albums
Miscellaneous fees
Favors & giftsGuest bags
Bridal party gifts
Parting favors
Miscellaneous fees
ceremonySite fee
Officiant fee/donation
Miscellaneous fees
StationerySave the date cards
Invitations
Thank-you notes
Programs
Seating & place cards
Postage
Miscellaneous fees
Wedding RingsBride’s ring
Groom’s ring
transportationLimo or car rental for bride & groom
Transportation for wedding party
Transportation for guests
Miscellaneous fees
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rEgistry cHEcKlist
FoR tHE KitcHEno 1 set of pots and pans (1 stock pot, 2 sauté pans, 1 sauce pan)o 1 set of knives (one of each: paring knife, chef’s knife, bread knife and serrated knife)o 8 steak kniveso 1 standing mixero 1 blendero 1 coffeemakero 2 cutting boards o 1 set each of measuring cups and spoonso 1 set of mixing bowlso 1 set of cooking utensils (spatula, whisk, slotted and wooden spoons)o Salt and pepper shakerso 2 covered casserole disheso 3 baking sheetso A cake pan, a pie pan and a bundt pano Oven mittso 2 sets of kitchen towels
FoR tHE Dining Roomo 12-piece set of formal chinao 12-piece set of everyday dinnerwareo Set of serving dishes and bowls to match the aboveo 2 serving platterso 1 gravy boato 12 water glasseso 8 white wine glasses, 8 red wine glasseso 8 high ball glasseso 8 old-fashioned glasseso 12 Champagne glasseso 8 mugso 12-piece set of silvero 12-piece set of everyday flatwareo 1 tea service (tray, pot, sugar and creamer)o Serving utensils (large forks, spoons, cheese knives)o 12 placematso 12 napkins and ringso 2 table cloths
Depending on what you and your hubby-to-be already own, you can use portions of this checklist. You may have a well-stocked kitchen, but desperately need new bed linens (yours are too girly and his so not?). Also, remember that you can register for large-ticket items as well.
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FoR tHE BEDRoomo 2 sets of sheetso 1 comforter and duvet covero 1 bedskirto 2 blanketso 4 sleeping pillowso Set of decorative pillows and shamso Decorative items
FoR tHE BAtHRoomo 4 – 6 bath towelso 4 – 6 hand towelso 4 – 6 wash clothso 2 bath sheetso 2 bath matso 1 shower curtain and linero 1 trash basketo 1 soap dish and toothbrush holder
FoR cHARitYMake your wedding day gifts give to others as well by signing up with one of the following organizations. A portion of your gift purchases can go to a favorite charity!www.idofoundation.org www.JustGive.org’s www.changingthepresent.org
miScEllAnEouSo Picture frameso Candles and holderso Mirrorso Vaseso Decorative pillows for living roomo Decorative blanketso Travel items: suitcases, garment bags, etc.
NOTE: Ask a reliable friend or relative to point out important people to your photographer. And let your photographer know if you want something very specific like Aunt Betty danc-ing her famous Charleston.