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ARIES

Aries man  March 21-April 19 Introduction: King James I once said…I can make a lord, but only God can make a gentleman. Well thankfully, God did His bit in blessing us with the quintessential gentleman in the Aries man! Charming, attractive, dominating, energetic, humorous and above all chivalrous, the Arian male is the amalgamation of all things good. A man of action, he makes his presence felt just by his very existence! At a party you can spot him behind the bar mixing drinks or at a night club he will be the one bullying the DJ to play his favourite tracks. But wherever he is you can surely see his aura spreading radiantly across the room and people around naturally gravitating towards his charming persona. Aries men are usually aggressive and energetic and are constantly in the whirlpool of activity. While the aggressive kinds have majority stake under this zodiac sign, there are also the passive types who are usually quiet, observant and speak only when spoken to. 80% of them would be classified as aggressive and 20% as passive. Within the 80% there are certain types who have a dark side to them. While they may have some core characteristics like being compassionate at times but are mostly self centered.  I have encountered such type of Aries men and for the record, most of the above and what is written ahead does not hold true for them. How to identify an Aries man? Aries men are usually bursting at seams with unbounded energy. This energy stems from their ever-flowing ideas and creativity. So you are most likely to spot an Aries man in animated conversation with someone or interacting with a group of people. And the point of differentiation between him and the others would be his sparkling demeanor.  A typical Arian will make himself comfortable in any given surrounding. When in his true element, he can discuss even rocket science with easy grace. But when he is out of sorts, he is likely to recoil into a shell. An Aries man is quick to take you under his wing, if he takes a fancy to you. And you will find yourself on a joyride with a dynamo. He is the one with quick actions and with a quicker mental process to match. Even the passive Aries men are good conversationalists so it is easy to be around them at a social event. What are his general personality traits? 

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The personality of an Arian can be defined in a word – passion. He is passionate about everything in life… from his first job to his golden jubilee wedding anniversary. You will never see him lagging behind or being lax about anything. However he is rather low on patience. He cannot stand procrastination or half baked jobs. So if you have to keep up with him, you better sprint. An Aries man is bold, confident and dead sure of himself (and that includes his irresistible persona, his attractive face and his way with words). But perhaps the most distinguishing characteristic of an Aries male is his dominating nature. Even the small percentage of passive Arians is not completely bereft of this trait. For him dominance is a term that comprises absolute control, total mastery and often dictatorial attitude. There is something ‘Herr Hitler-like’ about his mindset, which coupled with cynicism, can lead to a rather overpowering personality. 

What are the finer traits of his personality? Very often with the Aries man it’s a case of your own weapons being turned on you. Cynicism in his nature that propels him ahead often turns him into a self analytical critic. Moreover, it does not allow him to tolerate criticism from others. Cynical and short tempered, an Aries man is usually found to have less self control. To combat his cynicism, he takes to meditation, spirituality and philosophy. Full of insights, he is an interesting conversationalist. Arians are thinkers, dreamers and achievers. Their approach to life is realistic and practical. They are more emotional than sentimental but their realism helps in balancing their nature. 

How is he when in love? An Aries man will never tire of experiencing love. If he fails the first time, he will gather the remains of his broken heart and begin again. His love is full of passion, mounting to frenzy. He will wheel you round and round in the roller coaster of his emotions until you are puffing with excitement. No half-baked love this! He will court you in style and woo you till you are dizzy with his attentions. He will never hide his love or emotions. It will be a jolly ride all the way. But of course there would be bumps and potholes aplenty. An Aries man, especially the aggressive kind, will be as much a control freak when in love as he is when not in love. He would want to know everything about you. Don’t bother (or should I say dare) to flirt while you are dating an Arian. He will smolder like lava at the minutest signs of betrayal. And don’t get fooled by the passive Arian who appears to be ‘super cool’ every time your mobile phone buzzes with text messages from your male friends. Passive or aggressive notwithstanding… remember he is an Arian first.

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 You can expect the same from him too. He is usually committed to a relationship as long as he is actually in love. His attention to you will largely depend on your ‘interest holding potential’… the longer you sustain his interest, the stronger you bond will be. 

How is he in various relationship roles? Undoubtedly his responsible nature makes him an excellent son, although his streak of doing things his way can make him a parental nightmare as well. Extreme possessiveness and his love for romance makes him a good boyfriend/husband. But be well aware of his obsession with love and make no mistakes. He finds it difficult to forgive errors in love and his emotions are not to be trifled with. As much as he can be a doting husband and father, he can be equally crude and rude if driven by his moods. He wants his children to be well-behaved and disciplined at all times. He can be like a child with a child, wrestle with kids or cuddle them. But at the same time he is a tough father to deal with you rub him the wrong way or don’t live by his rules. At a party, you will often spot an Aries man talking to everybody. His ability to converse intelligently and to take initiative in breaking the ice makes him do this naturally. Since he is capable of sharing his emotions because he trusts people easily, he has many friends. But this is not before you have passed his qualifying rounds of trust. As a friend he is totally dependable. You can trust him with your secrets as he is very secretive and expects the same of you. 

Compatibility quotient: Compatibility between two individuals depends on various factors and not just on their likes and dislikes. I have often found that persons of similar behavioral traits don’t quite hit it off in the long run. For a long standing relationship, a balance between aggressive and passive traits of a personality is necessary. And more so in case of Aries men! Aries man and… Aries woman: 3.5/10. An Aries woman is too similar to her male counterpart to make a relationship successful. Even the most passive of Aries men and women are dominating and overpowering. In such a case, who would dominate whom? Taurus woman: 4/10. A Taurus woman will not be able to handle the Arian ego effectively. She is too practical to allow his impulsiveness and he is too fond of his freedom, to like her ‘sticking together’ ideas.

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 Gemini woman: 10/10. Gemini-Aries can paint the town red… with passion, love, fire or actual paint. With challenges and adventure at every step and each ready for it, this relationship can be loads of fun and full of conversation. Cancer woman: 6/10. A balanced relationship can be had with much hard work at both ends. The Arian will need to keep his bluntness in check, while the Cancer girl will have to curb her ‘mothering’ feeling. Both will have to bring their emotions on a mutual comfort level for a relationship to work. Leo woman: 6/10. Great chemistry and a happy match, with full on emotions thrown in! But a word of caution here… too much of similarity can bring the relationship to a dead end. Virgo woman: 4/10. Not a very happy venture! The Arian will find it difficult to take orders from the ‘preaching’ Virgo woman. Their personalities are too contrasting to result in a healthy relationship. Libra woman: 7/10. If there’s something called love at first sight, this can be it. Each will be taken in by the other’s intelligence but for things to go a long way, both will have to use patience and understanding. Scorpio woman: 9/10. He has all the passion and masculinity that she’s looking for and she has all the mystery and femininity that he’s looking for. So far a perfect match! Only both may have to add a dash of respect for each other to sustain the relationship. Sagittarius woman: 6/10: The Sagittarian woman will share a good deal of her love for adventure and travel and her sense of humor with the Arian. He in turn will impress her with his creativity and intelligence. This relationship can be for keeps if both are able to keep their bluntness in check. Capricorn woman: 9/10: With the right amount of submissiveness, the Capricorn female can find a perfect match in an Arian. She may find it difficult to handle his egoism and dominating nature, but she has patience enough to be steady with him. Aquarius woman: 7/10: The Aquarian girl has the right amount of independence and femininity to floor the Arian. She will be sporting enough to take in his angry outbursts and he will be caring enough to infuse their relationship with passion. But too much of dominance which an Aquarian woman displays from time to time could play spoils sport. Pisces woman: 7/10: This combination can go either way. With the nagging Piscean woman and sarcastic Aries man, it can be a boat on the rocks. Or with the emotionally dependent Piscean and the masculine Arian, it can be a match made in heaven. 

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Aries woman: March 21 – April 19 IntroductionA shooting star leaving a trail of blaze on the inky blue sky… liken this scene with an Aries woman and you will know what a true fire sign is. Just like her male counterpart, an Aries woman shows sparks of vigour and strength of character. Although aggression figures in largely in her attitude, there are Aries women who are more placid too. But both the kinds are like a shining star, unrivaled in its glory and complete in its own radiance.Extremely conscious of her self, the Aries female is fearless, strong and egocentric. To her the world revolves around her. What she does or thinks is of utmost importance… while others are neglected or sidelined in the bargain.She takes the term ‘extreme’ to her heart. She loves in extremes, she hates in extremes and generally lives life on the extreme. If she loves you, you will be the core of her existence, but if she dislikes you… nah! There’s no word like dislike for her… its simple hatred. That’s what I call living life in black and white! How to identify an Aries woman in a crowd? With a body language that bespeaks boldness, the Aries girl will talk with authority and look at you in the eye with unabashed confidence. Not one to mince words, it is easy to spot her in a social setup as she will be the one most vocal with her opinions. She will give you her undivided attention… but only so long as your conversation interests her. the minute she finds it boring, she will start looking around with impatience.Another give away of the Aries female is her ‘do-it-myself’ stance. She will rush to get her own drink, pull up her own chair and carry her own bags without much ado. But that’s not saying that she won’t expect men around her to behave in a gentlemanly fashion. It’s just that she is too independent to seek assistance, especially from men.How is her appearance?An Aries woman has sharp arresting features and a strong jaw line. You will usually see her making a statement with her attire. She is fond of dressing well and likes people to notice her style, but no flashy clothes will do for her, her sense of style is very subtle yet effective. With making a statement I don’t mean she will always be dressed to kill, but whatever she wears will have a certain swagger to it.What are her most striking characteristics?With the sensational election of Barrack Obama as the President of USA, America’s first ever woman president doesn’t seem an impossible dream. And I am sure there are a lot many female Arians aspiring to step into the White House. With a persistent urge to lead and be numerouno in everything, an Aries woman comes with a natural knack of leadership. She is full of energy and vitality, which also makes her restless. She is constantly on a lookout for new enterprises to utilize her energy. With never a moment to spare she is on a whirlwind

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mission to complete tasks within the standards she has set for herself. Her aspirations are always high and she usually lands up expecting as much out of others as she does from her own self.Is there more to her personality?Of course there is! I have come across Aries women that are highly focused on all fronts. At work they outshine others with their ambitious and competitive spirit. In the role of a home maker, you will find them competent at just about anything, from cleaning herself or overseeing/supervising the cleaning the house to cooking and from doing the dishes to taking care of the family and pets. She likes to be in CONTROL!She also wants and yearns to be independent. Financial dependency leads to frustration in an Aries woman. She likes to do things her own way, including money matters. Apart from earning money, she is also enamored by the fame attached to a work well done. Like in everything else, she is an early bird at earning a living as well. Don’t be surprised if you see her doing odd jobs to earn those extra bucks.What’s on her flip side?Lots! The very traits that set her apart when taken to the extreme can turn darker. For instance, her aggression often borders on crudeness while her ambition can make her seem heartless. Her low grace quotient, which is a by-product of her ‘throw it in your face’ attitude, can make her an eyesore in company.Once she flips her lid, it’s difficult for her to stop. Her verbal barrages can drive people away, leaving her with her foot in her mouth. She also finds it hard to take criticism. Criticizing her is a sure shot way of sending that lid up the roof!What’s her idea of love?Before we go further on this front, let me clarify that Aries women are extremely practical. Although they love the very concept of love, their approach is overruled with practicality. After she has covered the grounds for education and career, her next priority is to find a compatible companion. And this search is likely to begin very early in life.Being experimental and flirtatious, she goes through learning curves as she matures to understand what she wants and what she doesn’t. Unlike the other two fire signs, an Aries woman can cleverly hide her desires and wants of material things. While she can stand by her companion through hardships and struggles, she would make sure she is not out wasting her time with a loser. 

How is she when in love? Before we go further on this front, let me clarify that Aries women are extremely practical. Although they love the very concept of love, their approach is overruled with practicality. After she has covered the grounds for education and career, her next priority is to find a compatible companion. And this search is likely to begin very early in life.Being experimental and flirtatious, she goes through learning curves as she matures to understand what she wants and what she doesn’t. Unlike the other two fire signs, an Aries woman can cleverly hide her desires and wants of material things. While she can stand by her companion through hardships and struggles, she would make sure she is not out wasting her time with a loser.

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Romance is the core of her belief system. So much so that she is fully satisfied with the idea of a complete romance rather than the actual romance itself. Compatibility quotient: They say one must fight fire with fire. I don’t know how true that is technically but amongst zodiac signs too much of fire can result in explosions. The fiery nature of the Aries girl needs a match that’s cool and down to earth and yet one that has traits to equal her passionate nature. Compatibility with an Aries female is much more than a play of fire and ice.  Aries woman and… Aries man: 3.5/10. There’s too much of fire in between these two for a long term relationship to work out. With ego, dominating nature, temper and impatience in both, it is an unlikely match. Taurus man: 6.5/10. This combination can work only if both are ready for compromises. She will have to curb her extroverts nature and unruly tongue, while he will have to learn to give her space. Money can be a bone of contention between these too as the Taurean is extremely cautious with it, while the Arian is extravagant. Gemini man: 9/10. Here’s a good one. Both are highly charged individuals. The Gemini man is intelligent enough to accept the free spirit of the Arian. She will be instantly floored with his charm and romantic nature. Cancer man: 7/10. This relationship can work out in a long run if both are able to check their obstinacy. The Aries girl will have to understand his moodiness and sedentary nature while the Cancer guy will have to respect her spirited and outgoing nature. Leo man: 8/10. Great chemistry here! The Leo man has as much confidence and masculinity as required to impress the Arian girl. She is capable of taking care of his emotional needs and weak ego, while he is capable of giving her the luxuries of life. Virgo man: 7/10. This match can go a long way in spite of the inherent differences. The Aries woman should learn to get used to his cautious and organized nature and also to keep her adventurous streak under check. Libra man: 7/10. Again a good match in spite of the differences. The Arian will have to exercise the last ounce of her patience to deal with the indecisiveness of the Libran man. But he is quite capable of taking care of her and his idea of romance is also likely to suit him to a tee. Scorpio man: 6/10. The differences here are rather strong. The Scorpio man will not like her dominating nature while the Arian girl will not take his possessiveness too well. Although they will admire each other for some traits, it would take too much hard work from both ends to make this relationship last in the long run.

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 Sagittarius man: 9/10: A match well made! Both are attuned to each other’s personality traits. Both are impulsive and adventure-loving. He has a good humour to keep her interested and she has spontaneity to keep him impressed. The Arian may have to guard her tongue now and then, but apart from that they make a compatible pair. Capricorn man: 7/10: Capricorn man and Aries woman are poles apart but oppoites do attact. She is vivacious while he could be somber; she is expressive while he is not sometimes. But patience and tolerance can do wonders to this relationship. Aquarius man: 8/10: The Aquarius man is unconventional enough to suit the Arian taste. Her sharp and astute mind will prove to be a turn on for him. With little bit of understanding about each other’s temperament and need for space, they can hit it off superbly. Pisces man: 7/10: Although both are emotional, their emotional needs are quite different. Her aggressiveness might hurt the sensitive Piscean nature. She will like his mystic mind and with her intelligence can help him find his way in this materialistic world.

TAURUS

Taurus man – 21 April – 21 May Introduction A very cautious man is how I would describe a Taurus male. He is a levelheaded person, who likes to think over everything before making a decision. His calm and composed demeanor conceals a fertile and active mind. One of the most industrious of zodiac signs, a Taurus man believes in himself and his ability to achieve everything with hard work. Although patient most of the times, he can get quite stubborn if provoked. Make sure you don’t rub him the wrong way and you will have the most patient and understanding man. Here’s a male who understands his role as the head of the family and will do everything in his power to provide for the well being of his loved ones. Trust him implicitly and you will get his trust and loyalty in return… for life. How can you identify a Taurus man in a crowd?

 It is easy to spot a Taurus man in a crowd as he is extremely animated in conversation and discussion. He will always try to dominate with his views, leaving very little room for suggestions or opinions from others. He has a hovering eye… checking out things and people. 

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Broadly speaking there are two types of Taurus men: 70% of them aggressive and 30% passive. A Taurus man is extremely flirtatious and not shy to strike conversations with strangers particularly with women. While dressing up he prefers to stick to classics… you will usually find him in Polo tees, checked or striped shirts and in bright solid colors like orange. Although there’s nothing loud in his style, he definitely makes a classic statement with them. The way he dresses up and carries himself evokes a natural respect for this gentleman. What are the general personality traits of a Taurus man? The Taurus male excels in the role of a provider. He is a thoroughbred family man with a bachelor’s heart. Confused? Well, here comes the explanation. His list of wants isn’t too long. He would want things for himself and his family that are necessary to make life comfortable. Luxuries can wait. Of course the definition of luxury depends on his social status too. But overall you won’t find a Taurean who is pining for opulence. No matter how settled he is in his family life, the bachelor in him will often peep out and make himself obvious. He enjoys the bouts of beer at the sports bar with his cronies. You may also catch him flirting harmlessly with his female colleagues. He will stay in touch with his college friends and probably do all the things he did in ‘the days of yore’ like clubbing, playing snooker and watching football matches with them. But come dinner time and he will amble home for a warm meal and a good night’s sleep. Although a Taurus man is most of the times driven by his emotions and is also sentimental, he is level headed enough to be realistic in his approach towards life. He manages to keep a clear head, thanks to his pragmatic way of thinking. He also prefers to be a leader, which makes him a good entrepreneur. What are the finer traits of his personality? A Taurus man is romantic in a truly bookish sense. He is your knight in shining armour who would take delight in surprising you with gifts and flowers. Nothing pleases him more than clambering over to his girlfriend’s balcony at midnight with a pastry in hand to wish her a happy birthday. When in love or out of it, he will write poems and sing songs. He is slow to fall in love, but once in love he will woo you with the most romantic ideas. And yes, this one is a stickler for remembering dates… from your first movie together to your last fight, he will remember everything. A Taurus man is known to be reliable and dependable. You can trust him with your darkest secret. But don’t forget that he likes to gossip too… so let the secrets you share with him be less meaty otherwise he would be tempted to share it with the world. But on the whole, when it comes to work, duties and responsibilities, he is extremely dependable. 

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While dating him you should… … be ultra feminine. He likes those knick knacks you carry in your handbag, as also your silk scarf and diamond studs. While other males will size up a girl with a sweeping glance, the typical Taurean will take delight in details. So be sure you are well groomed on your date with him. Nothing will miss his discerning eye… not even the subtle shade of your lip gloss. Dress up elegantly, wear mild perfume and carry accessories that make a statement. Club these personal charms with good food, warm ambience and stimulating conversation and your Taurus date will be enchanted. One aspect of the Taurus male that comes across rather strongly is his sensuality. You can’t miss it while dating him. He is extremely manly and his masculinity will be seen in the way he carries himself and takes charge of the situation. If you are meeting him at a restaurant or coffee shop, don’t jump the line and place the orders. He wouldn’t like that at all. He’s the man here and you better not forget it.  How is he when in love? Let me tell you what he looks for in his life partner - a lady! Yes, a Taurus man wants his girlfriend or wife to be a complete lady, in every sense of the term. He would prefer a home maker who is also an excellent cook. Given his love for food and eye for detail, he would want a well set table to welcome him after a hard day at work. While he can be indulgent enough to accept undercooked pasta and overcooked spaghetti occasionally, you dare not make it a habit. Like I mentioned earlier, he is extremely critical of food and your culinary skills will be forever put to test. Here’s a good piece of advice… cook food like his mother used to make and your man will be as pleased as punch. With his penchant for hard work, a Taurus man likes to chill out at home. On his day off you will usually find him lazing around and hence he needs a partner who understands his need to rest. He looks for complete support and trust in his better half and is equally willing to give it to her too. He takes his responsibility seriously of taking his spouse/ partner for dinner and movie outings in appreciation of what she puts into the relationship. Also is generous and extremely verbal with compliments when due. As a home maker, he will expect his wife to keep a good house for him… one that is clean and warm and a welcoming place for him, his family and his select group of friends. Compatibility quotient: Which sun sign can match up to the stubbornness of the bull? And which sun sign is smart enough to appreciate the qualities of the home loving Taurean? It is strange how one weak point in a man can outweigh his good qualities. But a discerning eye and a loving heart is all that counts to make two people compatible. With the Taurean good sense and love for security, it

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would be quite a treat for the ladies on the zodiac to be with a man who knows what a true lady is. Taurus man and… Aries woman: 7/10. Essentially these two have disparate qualities. He is too home bound and intense, while she is too outgoing and free spirited. But if both are able to adjust with each other, this relationship can work out pretty well. Having said that, given the fact that 50% Aries Women are submissive and easy going, this could be worth exploring. Taurus woman: 8/10. This relationship is bound to be lovable and sensuous. However, both are stubborn. Being a man, the Taurus male’s stubbornness can take an upper hand, but if he learns to control it both the Taureans can be compatible together. Gemini woman: 8/10. Again a great combination… but one that will blossom only after some adjustments. It would be important for the Taurus guy to give his Gemini partner ample space and freedom. He in turn can be an anchor to her vivacious mind. Cancer woman: 9/10. Although I don’t want to use this term, it is unavoidable here… these two are made for each other. She is mysterious and entrancing and he is loving and caring. He has the ability to give her a secure life, while she is capable of being a perfect woman for him. Leo woman: 7/10. This can be a relationship that’s full of spark… and sometimes fireworks. Once the Leo girl gets used to the Taurean ‘I wear the trousers’ attitude and the Taurus guy accepts her extrovert nature, it would be a joyride for both. She will have to be more patient with him and he will have to show more understanding to avoid conflicts. Virgo woman: 8/10. Another relationship that is likely to work wonders. The Virgo girl meets her match emotionally in the Taurean guy. Also he has the right amount of passion to influence her. She is feminine enough to suit his taste and he will be happy looking after her and her womanly needs. Libra woman: 6/10. The basic interests of these two might clash. While the Libra girl will like his sensitive and sentimental nature, she will be put off with his possessiveness. The Taurus guy, on the other hand, will find her need to be with friends intriguing and disconcerting. Scorpio woman: 5/10. These two are too similar to each other… especially on negative points. Both are stubborn, wanting to take the upper hand and possessive. Lot of compromises would be required at both ends to make this a happy relationship. This relationship to start with could have major sparks and seem like it is going somewhere, but where is usually unknown till both learn to adjust. Sagittarius woman: 4/10: The Sagittarian girl will not like his bossiness as she dislikes taking orders from anyone. As she loves her freedom too much, she will definitely not appreciate his possessiveness. He is way too inflexible to suit the taste of the swaying Sagittarian.

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 Capricorn woman: 9/10: Her femininity is sure to attract him. The Capricorn girl is responsible enough to take up the role of the woman of the house, while she would thoroughly enjoy being looked after by her man… something the Taurus male loves to do. Aquarius woman: 6/10: The compatibility quotient between these two is quite low. His conservative thinking can clash with her unconventional ways. In case of disagreements, it would be difficult to mend matters as both are willful and unbending. Pisces woman: 9/10: This combination will work as both can balance each other beautifully. He is sensitive enough to handle her hyper-sensitivity, while she is romantic enough to deal with his sensuousness.

Taurus woman: 21 April – 21 May Introduction: The expression ‘a sound head over her shoulders’ was coined for the Taurean female spirit. A woman who knows how to balance her emotions, a woman who is a woman in every sense – without being a sissy and a woman who knows exactly what she wants in life… that’s a typical Taurus woman for you. Known for her stubborn yet affectionate nature, the true Taurean will find her way into your heart via two routes… either gliding sensuously into love or tickling your palette with her culinary skills. Either ways she will head for your heart! There are two types of Taurus woman and both are poles apart. About 60% are aggressive with a strong streak of feminism in them. They like being dominant and belong to the liberated women’s group. The balance 40% of them are true earth sign females… more submissive and easy to be with. But don’t think they lack aggression. The passive kinds too have the vein of aggression in them, albeit a not so strong one.  How can you identify a Taurus woman in a crowd? The aggressive type of Taurus woman is not too difficult to spot in a crowd. With her nose high up in the air, she is awfully opinionated. She also displays certain masculine qualities like dominance and power play in a conversation or discussion. Trying to control things around her is the core characteristic of this woman.On the contrary, the passive kind of Taurus females is a sight for sore eyes. She is warm, friendly and forever smiling. Neither an introvert nor an

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extrovert, she is a curious mix of both. She is also not likely to mingle in a crowd very easily, but you will find her approachable and friendly. Once she is comfortable with you, you will see her as a warm individual and a treat to be with.  What to expect from her on the following points: Appearance: Taurus women have a very distinct combination of sharp yet blunt features. They have sharp expressive eyes. I have funny observation: I have noticed a small percentage of Taurus women to have a well shaped nose, but genAerally they have blunt noses. For a Taurus woman the highlight of her face is undoubtedly her lips, usually observed and found are just perfect. True to her earth sign, her taste in clothes too is earthy. She prefers clothes that are comfortable, generally in pastel shades and in soft fabrics like cottons, linen and denims. Since most Taurus women are creative and artistic, this is reflected in their dressing and you will find them wearing embroidered fabrics like batik and sometimes even whacky designs. Ambition: Both kinds of Taurus women are highly ambitious. To them growth and climbing up the ladder, both monetarily and socially, is very important. They always aspire for top positions and work diligently towards their set targets. You will get a better idea of her ambitiousness when I tell you how strongly it is backed by her stubborn will and her persistent need to be economically secure. It is almost impossible to get her to do what she doesn’t want to do or stop her from doing what she has set out to do. She will stubbornly persevere in her efforts till she attains her targets. And in the process it is important for her to make money, which to her signifies purchasing power, stability and security.  What are the general traits of her personality? One of the highlights of a Taurus woman’s personality and perhaps a misguiding factor as well is her relaxed demeanour. She appears to be outwardly calm and composed, but inside she is bubbling with restless emotions. She is much like a frozen river… icy cool on top and gurgling with action inside. The ice breaks very often and emotional outbursts are not uncommon. With a Taurus female, caution is her middle name. Be it the aggressive or the passive kind, she makes every move and every decision with great caution. With such a detailed thought process, she is likely to arrive at absolutely correct decisions or come by them rather late. Sometimes her cautiousness makes her almost inactive. Because of her cautious nature, she is reluctant to accept change. This quality she shares with her male counterpart. Change of any kind, especially brought about by others, is a big no-no for a Taurus woman. So conservative is her attitude that she will never break away from the old order and will prefer to toe the traditional line.

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 I may have made them sound all intense and serious. But, Taurus women have a unique sense of humour too. They are generally funny people and love to have a good laugh.  What are the finer traits of her personality? One of the finest traits that I have noticed in Taurean females is their capacity to be feminine without being sissy. Deep inside she is as solid as a rock… at least emotionally. She is emotionally quite sound and any attempt to convince you otherwise is mere eyewash. She is also quite independent. I don’t mean it in a manly sense but she likes to take things in control and manages tasks related to herself with efficiency. The one sense a Taurean girl has in abundance is common sense. She sees everything with a practical standpoint. You won’t catch her wasting anything, be it money or emotion, without a reason. Because of this trait in her, she always gets to the crux of the matter and doesn’t believe in philosophical, intellectual or verbal meanderings. However, this does not imply that she is not smart. Her intelligence is directed towards making the most of this practical world. How is a Taurus woman when in love?  The Taurean love is not just love… it’s a complete package. She will be a lover, wife, friend and guide to you. she will be wife-like even though you are not married, which means she will take care of you and your needs as a wife would. She would also be a guide to you as she will always give you wise practical tips on how to get along with life. Like I had mentioned earlier, the Taurean is possessive by nature. It is advisable not to make her jealous or suspicious. Since she trusts easily, she finds it difficult to handle breach of trust. Another reason to avoid provoking her is her destructive anger. Very often she is not able to control her anger and it rages on like a storm, destroying everything in vicinity. When in love perhaps the most outstanding of her traits would be her sensuality. The Taurus girl will tread the path of love rather slowly. She will size you up completely before going ahead. But once things get underway, romance will be in the air forever… it would be akin to her aura. 

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Gemini man – 22 May – 21 June Introduction: Two faced? Flirt? Reckless? Restless? Are these words making popping sounds in your head at the mention of a Gemini man? Well you couldn’t be more right… or wrong. A Gemini male is all this and none of this at the same time. His two faces are not any different from the masks each one of us dons in our day to day life… thankfully with a Gemini there are only two faces. The duality in his nature is genuine and he rarely tries to mask it. And whether he is flirtatious, reckless and restless largely depends on his age and social status. Young Geminis tend to be more restless than more matured ones. And a true Gemini, no matter what his age, will be partial towards the company of the fairer gender. But this sociable being has amazing masculine grace and a head full of fantastic ideas. Life with a Gemini is a roller coaster ride. A lot of ups and a lot of downs… but when you are with him you will always get butterflies in your tummy! How can you identify a Gemini man? Unless you spend a lot of time studying people, it’s not easy to spot a Gemini man in a crowd. In a given situation like a party, if you keenly observe you will find him looking at or flirting with the prettiest face. That’s how he has earned the tag of being flirtatious. But he will flirt in the most subtle manner, as if he doesn’t care for the result. Little that I know of women, they find this usually endearing and are often found falling for this kind of bait. This is the only sun sign that leaves me confused as I am not able to classify Gemini men into either aggressive or passive kinds. After having met many Gemini men, the only thing I have concluded is that they are highest on energy levels. What to expect from him on the following points? Appearance: Most Gemini men I have met have mischievous and playful eyes. They come across as extremely intense yet fun loving. Ambition: For a Gemini man who loves materialistic things, usually sky’s the limit. And there are certain percentage of Gemini men who will put in a lot of hard work and sincere efforts in their work or in creating a business empire, while a majority of them want to work little but make pots and pots of money and have maximum fun. What are the general traits of his personality? Generally, the first reaction one gets upon meeting a Gemini man is that he is two faced. This can be attributed to the symbol assigned to this sun sign. I strongly feel that if not all a lot of us are two faced, but this trait is stronger in Gemini men. While you hear people generally

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categorizing all ‘Geminis’ as two faced, I have found a majority of men rather than women fitting the bill. You will find diverse qualities co-existing in Gemini men. Being a convincing talker and a knowledgeable man, women often find a Gemini male appealing. But he is wary of commitments and hence may have many women in his life and settle down late in life. He likes challenges, be it in love, business or career. A Gemini man is intelligent and also versatile and since he likes talking, he is usually found amongst people, if not in a crowd. A people’s person, he likes parties and social dos. You are likely to see the best side of him at a social event. He also likes traveling and entertainment. Known to enjoy life to the fullest, he is also extremely adventurous. Although like I said before 20 odd percent of them are introvertish and are known to have select friends only. The Gemini male is inordinately interested in observing human nature. I guess it arises from his unquenchable thirst for knowledge. To him any individual is like a mystery, which he has to unravel. Once it is solved, he would move on to the next one. This may be one reason why he is fond of dating many women. In his quest for knowledge, the two things that help the Gemini get more out of life are experience and travel.  How is a Gemini man in love? Discussing this most sought after question in the context of a Gemini man can be quite a task. But I am going to attempt it nevertheless. I have explained earlier how his restless and indecisive nature keeps him from settling down early in life. While women can take this as a warning while dating him, a Gemini man himself can take this as a cue and make wise decisions about relationships and marriage. However, this is not be interpreted as a red signal to stay away from a Gemini man. On the contrary, he can be a very attentive lover. Being a good conversationalist, there will never be any dearth of communication and interesting exchange of information. Perhaps, this is why a Gemini man looks for a receptive and informative girlfriend to date. Gemini man can be mischievous, notorious, crazy and even kinky. He can enjoy one or multiple relationships that match his desires. But for settling in the long term, he looks for simplicity in his partner. In spite of being all of the above, he is quite conservative while choosing his life partner. 

Compatibility quotient The hovering eye and restless nature of a Gemini man are much talked about issues. But these aspects are mere personality traits and not the deciding factors of his character. After all, the

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measure of a person’s ‘negativity’ depends on his situation in life, his upbringing and individual mindset. Gemini men are sociable, charming, adventurous and fun loving and they share a common bond with many women on the zodiac. Gemini man and… Aries woman: 9/10. This relationship is ‘happening’ on a number of levels. Both have energetic and vibrant personalities. He has a commanding presence without being too dominating, while she has the adventurous streak to match his fervour. However, both will have to learn to curb their possessive nature and let things take their own course. Taurus woman: 4/10. Not likely to work well, this relationship has too many ‘opposites’ to deal with. The outgoing, reckless Gemini will find the intense and steady Taurean rather boring. Moreover, his flirtatious nature will drive her nuts. Gemini woman: 7/10. A bonding between the two Geminis will result in excellent rapport and highly charged tête-à-têtes, not to mention some adventurous escapades and a lot of partying. But on the flip side, both might get tired of each other pretty soon. They would need to take each other’s specific needs into account and make adjustments accordingly. Cancer woman: 8/10. Once the Gemini guy masters the art of dealing with a completely feminine woman, this relationship can go places. The Gemini has the exact dose of verve and passion to interest the Cancer woman, while she has charm and mysticism to intrigue him. But, the Cancer woman will have to learn to keep her emotions in check to be able to adjust with a Gemini. Leo woman: 8/10. The Gemini is quite compatible with the lioness. Both would enjoy each other’s company and conversation. Since the Leo girl is also adventure loving and a party person, she will have a rocking time with the Gemini guy. Of course before the fun begins she will have to give him ample space, while he will have to refrain from his wandering ways. Virgo woman: 7/10. Although this combination has chances of success, it would largely depend on the way these two adjust with each other. It would be advisable for the Gemini guy not to make the Virgo girl jealous. On the other hand, she should refrain from criticizing him too much, as he is not likely to take it sportingly. Libra woman: 9/10. Great chemistry here! This relationship will be full of liveliness, adventure, passion and charm. She will be impressed with his intelligence; the Gemini man will be lured into a commitment by the compelling charm of the Libran and will stick with her in a long-term relationship. Scorpio woman: 6/10. The one thing both have in common is passion. And there ends the similarity. However, similarity is not actually a necessity. These two can use their disparate natures to their advantage. The Gemini guy will have to give her commitment and security, while keeping a tight rein over his flirtatious nature.

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 Sagittarius woman: 8/10: If both can treat each other with caution, this relationship can stand the test of time. Both are outgoing people and party lovers, but the Sagittarian also needs a comfortable home to get back to. His ‘common sense’ and intellectual behaviour might over awe her. Both would need to mellow down their spirits in order to coexist in bliss. Capricorn woman: 5/10: A difficult match! The Capricorn woman’s sensitivity is too fragile for the dashing Gemini spirit. She is warm and tender hearted and he would find it difficult to adjust with such a person. Moreover, he won’t be able to provide her with the security that she desires. But she will be able to give him as much space as he needs and he can teach her how to be flexible in life. Aquarius woman: 9/10: Both are likely to hit it off from day one. The vivacious Aquarian meets her match in the energetic Gemini. These two can easily forge a deep friendship and thereon their relationship can be a joyride full of conversation, adventure and new experiences. Pisces woman: 6/10: Emotions can be the bone of contention here. The Piscean girl is hypersensitive and extremely emotional, while the Gemini guy hates to be tied down with emotions. He might hurt her easily with his blunt tongue and her passive stance would not appeal to his egoistic nature. Famous Gemini men Celebrities/Personalities: Johnny DeppBob DylanClint EastwoodSalman Rushdie 

Gemini woman – 22 May – 21 June Introduction The Gemini woman is beautiful. Don’t misconstrue this as a biased opinion. It is more than an opinion… it’s an observation. Even if she is not beautiful in the conventional sort of way there is an inner beauty in her, which gets reflected on her face as you get to know her better. 

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And her face… or faces! Is she really two faced? I don’t think so. This woman has a multi-faceted personality and knows the art of adapting herself to any given situation. If this trait can be labeled as ‘two-faced’, then so be it! A woman of intellect and boundless charm, the Gemini always leaves a trail of peppiness and fun behind her. Given her penchant for multi-tasking, she is usually found to be over-committed… running from pillar to post to achieve her targets. Having a Gemini female as a friend or a girlfriend is an added advantage as with her around life is full of stimulating conversation and tinkling laughter.  How can you identify a Gemini woman? If you ever come across a woman who has a store of intelligent questions about the most diversified subjects and at the same time is an amazing listener… you can be sure she is a Gemini. At any social event, you will find her moving from one group of friends to another with unmatched grace and a warm innocent smile on her face. While most attributes discussed in this chapter will apply to all kinds of Gemini women, there are two categories amongst them and some behavioural differences obviously exist between the two. I would divide Gemini women into 70% passive and 30% aggressive. 

What are the finer traits of her personality? When people who have considerable knowledge of zodiac signs encounter Gemini women, they usually have a comment or two to make on their dual personality or the famous (or infamous) Janus-faced characteristic. Through my personal observations and interaction with Gemini friends and workmates, I would give 80% of Gemini women a clean chit on this label. Yes, what I am saying is that 80% of Gemini women are not two faced… it is just a myth!   What does she look for in her life partner? The first thing any Gemini woman will look for in a man is intelligence. She cannot abide stupidity or silliness of any kind. Secondly, she will look deeper for humility but with the right amount of pride. She is quite capable of getting involved with ‘her type of men’, who are artistic, creative, thinkers, philosophers and writers. I have discerned that Gemini women eventually settle with passive men. Since you already know by now that she is full of variety and excellent at multi-tasking, it’s also important to know that she is very passionate and can get crazy and kinky (again depending on her mood and age).

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While she is capable of doing all this, she does expect her man to be equally passionate, full of variety and surprises to keep her passion going. Are there more attributes to her persona? Oh yes! She has many facets to her personality. You will find a Gemini woman restless and cranky only if she has unfinished business, otherwise she is quite composed. You may also find her confused and indecisive at times, but mostly she is quite clear about what she wants. A Gemini woman is more sensitive than sentimental, unless it concerns her immediate family or a loved one. But under certain odd situations you will find her being attached to small things like a gift from an old friend. She is a woman full of feminine charms. Although Gemini women portray a strong exterior, they are all femininity inside. They would always show that they don’t break down easily and usually they don’t. But they are not bereft of feminine weaknesses. Also as and when situation demands they can use their femininity to their advantage. What is her attitude towards commitment in a relationship? A Gemini woman is typically an independent thinker and has a mind of her own. Once again being curious by nature and having got answers to most questions early in life, she is quite aware of what she wants from an early age… sometimes as early as 16 or 17. so if you are planning on dating or wooing a Gemini girl, you have a daunting task ahead. But here’s help. I know the secret to a Gemini woman’s heart and I’m letting it out right here… to win the irresistible heart of a Gemini female let your guard down and be absolutely unpretentious. She hates pretense of any kind and is smart enough to see through any games you try to play with her. So just be yourself and show your love and she will be ready to be wooed. But also remember she is a woman, albeit an intelligent one. And just like any other woman would like her man to be a man… not a spineless junkie.  How is a Gemini woman at work/career? I have observed 6 out of every 10 Gemini women to be part of the media industry be it TV or print. Her need to be in this industry very likely comes from her inherent curiosity to know things. Being in professions like news reporting, content writing and research and development, satiates her quest for knowledge and allows her to constantly be in a creative environ. It would be needless to add here that her ability to prioritize her work and multi task makes her a very competitive worker. She is also not shy of hard work and will put in as much effort as is required to achieve her goals. Compatibility quotient

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 Given her zest for life and quest for knowledge, dating a Gemini woman is fun. But is that enough to sustain a long-term relationship? It is quite a task to manage an over-committed Gemini and break through the myth of her ‘dual’ personality. Unless you are equipped with a good deal of common sense, getting along with the vivacious Gemini can be a hard bargain. Gemini woman and… Aries man: 10/10. Wow! And double wow! This relationship sizzles! The Gemini girl is the ideal match for an Arien guy. An Arien’s love for conversation is the answer to the Gemini curiosity, while the Gemini spirit is the answer to the Arien passion. Of course, the Aries man will have to balance his arrogance and ego around her and she will have to swallow her pride to put-up with his super blunt nature. Taurus man: 8/10. With the right kind of adjustments, this combination can work out well. Once the Taurean learns to give the Gemini woman enough space, he will have a fun-loving and practical partner by his side and for life. In return, his steady nature would be a good anchor to her liveliness. He can be a dependable partner and can provide the emotional security she secretly yearns for. Gemini man: 7/10. Since both share a love for good stimulating conversations, they might start-off on a pleasant note, but then they will have to make an effort to sustain the other’s curiosity. Once the course of conversation is run, they might grow weary of each other. This relationship requires more than ‘lip service’ to work in its favour. Cancer man: 5/10. The free Gemini spirit might not be able to offer the Cancer man the love and security he needs, neither will she be able to give him undivided attention. His serious demeanour might put-off the vivacious Gemini mind. If this relationship is to work successfully, a lot of adjustments are required at both ends. Leo man: 8/10. The sociable nature of both these individuals can be a key to the success of this relationship. With her around, their relation will never lack romance or passion and with him in charge, it will be full of good humour and generosity. The only hitch here being that they can end-up offending each other’s egos. Virgo man: 8/10. With a bit of fine tuning, this relationship can go a long way. For starters, both have an understanding nature and an identical emotional quotient. The Virgo guy however will have to bridle his critical attitude, while the Gemini girl will have to keep her tactless tongue under control. Libra man: 9/10. Another great combination! Both are sociable and party-lovers. There would be enough passion and romance in this relationship to keep the two going. The Libran wit and the Gemini liveliness would only add to the fervour. The only issue that could crop up is that they both love their independence and space.If they are in opposite zones and unable to connect, then it could mean trouble.

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 Scorpio man: 5/10. What might start off on a promising note is likely to meet with major roadblocks. The Scorpio man might get smitten by the Gemini passion and she by his persuasive charm, but in the long run he won’t be able to put up with her inconsistent nature. She will find it difficult to cope with his demanding and dominating nature, not to mention his possessive attitude. Sagittarius man: 7/10: Both are on the same wavelength intellectually, but their emotions tend to be out of sync. Her flirtatiousness can make him feel insecure, while he is too undemonstrative to suit her taste. But if both are in love these differences can be overcome with some amount of hard work and this relationship could actually work. Capricorn man: 5/10: This one can swing either way! If they both learn to appreciate each other’s good qualities, this relationship might work. Otherwise the Gemini’s modern outlook will not go down well with the conservative Capricorn man. Aquarius man: 8/10: Since both share common traits like non-conformist behaviour, love for adventure and spontaneity, this relationship is likely to work in the long run. There would be understanding in both and each seeks change and variety in life. Pisces man: 5/10: Not a very happening combination! The Gemini girl is way too pragmatic to suit the lifestyle of the dreamy Piscean. It is also a balancing act between her blunt tongue and his sensitive heart. This relationship calls for a lot of compromises. Gemini women Celebrities/Personalities: Angelina JolieNaomi CampbellNicole KidmanBrooke ShieldsShilpa ShettySonam kapoor

CANCER

Cancer man - 22 June - 23 July  Introduction 

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Forgot who said what and when? Or what you may have worn on the first date? Ask your Cancerian partner and he will rattle off all ies in a breath. His memory can be compared to the great tusker and there’s very little that he doesn’t store in the deep recesses of his mind. With moods that swing like a pendulum, the Cancer guy can dip low and rise high in a matter of minutes. Sensitive to the core, a harsh word or a careless gesture is enough to hurt him. But he also comes armed with an easy going nature that appeals to all. He has a quirky sense of humour and being with a Cancer guy can be whole lot of fun. While his love for travel can take him places, he would always want to come back to a warm abode… his ‘den’, an affectionate wife and obedient children. And if his mother is staying with him, he is likely to come home double quick! How can you identify a Cancer man in a crowd? This is one of those zodiac signs where it is impossible to make categories of aggressive and passive. There are distinct percentages of introvert and extrovert kinds under the sign of the crab, but the sociability of even the most extroverted Cancer men is within limits. Most Cancer men I have met have a carefree attitude and an easy going nature. Although outgoing, they have selected friends. This may be because they tend to get picky with their preferences as they mature. A Cancer man is adventurous and likes to hit the road. His easy going nature makes him adjust to various situations with grace… he can stay at a five star hotel or a two star motel with equal comfort. Don’t be surprised if you see him on a luxury cruise liner one day and on a bag packing spree the next. What are his general personality traits? Like I said before, a Cancer man’s outgoing nature is within boundaries. This maybe because the assertive side of his personality is tethered to shyness, insecurity and ego. These qualities often stop him from opening up in front of people, especially strangers. But there is a positive outcome of this too… most not all Cancer men know how to mind their own business. One of the major highlights of a Cancer male’s personality is his mood swings… err constant mood swings. He is in a perpetual state of transition and can be seen in different avatars in the span of a day. He is much like a baby… sleeping one moment and awake the next, laughing one moment and crying the next. But these mood changes are not personality changes and as his frame of mind returns to normal, he gets back to being his usual self. His moods range from restless to hyper active, stubborn to easy going and ‘gnashing your teeth’ to ‘happy go lucky’. So much so for a Cancer man in a day! 

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He is also a perfectionist… but not in the general sense of the term. To him being a perfectionist means having everything around him in order. He likes to keep his accessories on display and in perfect array. Anything out of sort can rock his boat! How does he handle difficult situations like a quarrel? In a situation like a quarrel from what I have seen, known and heard there is a clear divide on how different kinds of Cancer men behave in different ways. While a certain percentage of them can stay composed and yet get things resolved, some of them can get really aggressive because of their extremely possessive and insecure nature. Due to this when in such a torrential mood, some are even capable of manhandling the woman they love. Is there something more to his personality? Yes… there are more characteristic features to a Cancer man’s personality but ones that are evident only to a discerning eye. A Cancer male can be a good mix between being satisfied with what he has and aspiring to have more. Depending on the standard of living and his status he can grow from moderately ambitious to overly ambitious. Although he flaunts a casual attitude, he is usually not satisfied with mediocre living. He aspires for good things in life but is not dependent on them. A Cancer man craves for security… be it emotional or financial. He is so fond of saving things for tomorrow, it is almost an obsession. There is an underlying fear of being destitute or helpless in every Cancer male, which leads him to think of future as ‘full of tragedy’. He imagines untold miseries upon himself and his loved ones and therefore takes every precaution to provide for the future… and that includes huge savings in the bank and hoarding his refrigerator! How is he when in love? Remember your school days, when you were caught napping in class and your teacher asked you to write ‘I won’t sleep in class’ fifty times on the blackboard? Well, being in love with a Cancer guy is akin to this punishment. The difference being here you might have to repeat ‘I love you’ hundred times a day. I am not kidding you when I say this. The sense of insecurity is so strong amongst Cancer men, which is coupled with a suspicious and possessive nature that it becomes important for them to receive assurances of love. When in love they would expect their partner to be vocal and expressive about her love. Words like commitment, trust and loyalty mean a lot to a Cancer man. He won’t stand infidelity or dishonesty of any kind. Given his sensitive nature, he is likely to be deeply hurt at the smallest sign of any of these traits in his partner. 

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Although this may make him sound as very self-centered, I would hasten to add that a Cancer guy in love can be very romantic, caring and attentive. Once he is able to come out of his shell of reserve, he will sport a warm and affectionate heart. He will shower you with gifts and take you to fantastic, yet undiscovered, places to woo your heart. Compatibility quotient What do you need to be compatible with a sensitive creature like the Cancer guy? Love without understanding can mean very little for a Cancer man. Given his need to be in a secure relationship, finding the right soulmate can be a tough job for him. Let’s find out who amongst the twelve zodiac ladies can best cope with the candid Cancerian. Cancer man and… Aries woman: 7/10. With understanding and a little bit of adjustment, this relationship can go a long way. The Arien will have to understand his mood swings and sedentary nature, while the Cancerian will have to give space to her outgoing nature and independent thinking. Both will have to keep their stubbornness under strict check. Taurus woman: 9/10. Great chemistry! While both would know how to keep the romance going, their mutual understanding adds to it; she will know how to manage his mood swings patiently, while he will find her femininity appealing. Gemini woman: 5/10. This combination might result in clashes. The free spirited Gemini would find the Cancerian conservatism irksome. He is too serious and intense to suit her vivacious nature. Cancer woman: 8/10. There will be no dearth of love and care in this relationship. But both suffer from mood swings and hence the relationship can suffer if the moods are not bright. However, if one of the two Cancerian is emotionally more secure, this relationship can work wonderfully in the long run. Leo woman: 8/10. Once the Leo female learns to control her blunt tongue, this relationship can rock. She would have to adjust with the Cancerian’s hypersensitive nature. In return, she would get his loyalty, love and ample care. Virgo woman: 9/10. These two can strike a very good bond. The Virgo girl would know how to draw out the Cancer man from his reserve with her love and affection. He would respect her femininity and protect and provide for her in the most affectionate manner. Libra woman: 7/10. This relationship won’t work without understanding. His lack of emotional expression might leave her feeling high and dry, while she may find his ideas of scraping and saving too much to digest. 

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Scorpio woman: 9.5/10. Rocking chemistry here! A Scorpio is a perfect match for the Cancer guy. This would be an emotionally-charged relationship as they would understand each other’s emotional needs perfectly. Sagittarius woman: 5/10: Lot of hard work will be required to make this relationship work. The Sagittarian would have to curb her ‘out of the house’ behaviour and concentrate more on home-making. He would have to get a bit adventurous and treat her to the thrills of life every now and then. But with the right kind of adjustments, this can work just fine. Capricorn woman: 6/10: Once they learn to respect each other’s opinions and emotions, this combination can work. However, here the equation is reversed as the Cancer guy would need to teach the Capricorn woman to display her emotions. Although both are emotional, their emotional quotient is quite different and they would need to develop an understanding in this sphere. Aquarius woman: 4/10: A difficult matter! The Aquarian might not be ready to give the Cancerian 100% of her time and love. She lacks the depth that he is looking for. Similarly, he won’t be able to meet up with her demands of highly intellectual conversations and would be at a loss to appease her questioning mind. Pisces woman: 9/10: Perfect! The Piscean girl has just the right amount of womanly charm to floor the Cancerian, while he has a warm and affectionate heart to offer to her. Since both are understanding and sensitive, they will appreciate these qualities in each other. Famous Cancerian Men celebrities/personalities: Tom HanksGeorge W. BushTom CruiseGeorge Michael 

Cancer woman - 22 June - 23 July Introduction I would like to introduce the Cancerian woman with 5 C’s : Crazy, creative, calculative, compassionate and confused. The Cancer woman displays signs of sudden mood swings. She can be happy as a lark one minute and down in the dumps the next… and each mood would be as

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genuine as the next governed largely by impulsive crazy or in an extreme case depressing thoughts. The Cancer girl nevertheless has soulful laughter and a good sense of humour. But her sensitivity is the hallmark of her personality traits… There is a crab-like trait in her too. Innately shy and reserved, a Cancer woman would rarely make the first move… in love, business or any walk of life.  She needs an understanding partner to draw her out and help her emote well. Even the most career oriented woman has her heart at home. A complete ‘home’ person, cooking and keeping her house in order constitute her favourite activities. She is a warm and affectionate person and likes to pamper her loved ones. You can trust her to bundle you off to bed with a hot chocolate on a cold night. Extremely careful with her money, the Cancer girl likes nothing more than a fat bank balance and a protective man in her life. She has a thing for security, be it emotional or financial, which is a kind of obsession with her. How can you identify a Cancer woman in a crowd? This may sound funny but I have observed a good number of Cancer women to have an almond shaped face. Some of them deep pocket and small eyes. They are usually extroverts by nature. A Cancer woman is warm and friendly and in a crowd she is likely to be the most popular person on the scene. Most women I have met or observed are extremely particular about their dressing. And coordinating their clothes with accessories like hand bags, belts and shoes is a must for Cancer women. What are the general traits of her personality? There are two types of Cancer women: 30% aggressive and 70% passive. The aggressive kind is extremely competitive and loud. She always wants to be on top of everything and can also be overly demanding and ambitious. Completely unpredictable by nature, some are found pursuing careers in the televison or film industry. Cancer women are extremely blunt and forthright although none of them want to intentionally hurt others but their sharp tongues often end up hurting people’s feelings. The aggressive kind of Cancer women is usually an achiever and will relentlessly pursue what she sets her mind at. She is not shy to use her femininity to her advantage as and when situation demands. The 70% passive kind of Cancer woman too is unpredictable and very moody. She is essentially a romantic at heart and could go to any end to get what she wants as far as romance is concerned. She is very emotional and sentimental as well as hyper sensitive, being with her can be a tight rope walk. 

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Is there more to her personality? The ‘more’ in her personality is actually the ‘less’. What I mean is she has less of the unsightly traits that are prominent in women of other signs. For instance she isn’t bossy or outspoken or fickle or proud. She is your simple girl-next-door that has a thing for sentiments. A homely affectionate person, she yearns for emotional security. Once she gets that in her partner, she would stand by him at all times. A Cancer woman can be very practical and is usually very graceful in getting her demands fulfilled. She can be patient yet watchful if it is something that she desires/fancies, in a situation of delay, she might let go of it. But if her heart is set on something she will make sure she gets it. Cancer women can get hyper in any emotional situation, whether difficult or otherwise. They can scream, shout, hit and throw to get their emotions out. Mostly a Cancer woman will go on and on about it in her head, but it is all very subjective and depends on the gravity of the situation. How is a Cancer woman when in love? Love can bring the best out of this woman. The amazing feel and sense of pride of true love gets reflected on her face and you would instantly know how deeply she cherishes it. Although in her usual way, she would be reserved about her feelings, yet the frequent happy moods that she finds herself in would be instant giveaways. While in love, she would literally lay her heart out for her lover. Nothing about her is shallow or casual hence she would not only take her love affair very seriously, but also walk the extra mile to make it happening. A Cancer woman is quite romantic in the conventional sense of the term and once you get used to her hyper sensitivity, your love journey with her would be a pleasant one. She will shower you with gifts and praises, cook your favourite food and take care of you very much like your mother. Her love is for keeps and she will never give you a chance to get suspicious or jealous. Her actions, gestures and words will all proclaim her love for you… and mean it too.  While dating her, you should… …be chivalrous. The Cancer girl is romantic, albeit in a very traditional sense. She would expect her date to be gentlemanly and courteous, if not the actual knight in shining armour. Like I had mentioned before, you should be careful with your words while dating her as she is hyper sensitive. Her emotional quotient is also rather high, so it is advisable to plunge into a relationship with her only if you are thinking of long term bonding. A short fling or a passing affair is a term unknown to the true Cancerian unless she is looking for it to get over a break up or just looking for fun... A few dates down, you will have to either go ahead or back off. The

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Cancer girl can get emotionally involved pretty quickly and pulling off after a few dates might be a difficult thing to do. Take her to a restaurant with excellent food and beautiful ambience. Nothing will evoke the romantic in her as music, milieu and cuisine. Draw her out of her shell and let her talk. Once she is in the comfort zone with you, she will fill your heart with warmth and the room with her tinkling laughter. She can talk eloquently when she chooses too, so give her space and time to open up and you will be spending your date with the most wonderful companion. 

Compatibility quotient Dealing with sensitivity and putting-up with nagging or coming back from work to a warm, glowing home and a dining table full of wonderful aroma…which one’s for you? I know everyone would jump at the latter, but dear reader you will get both sides of the bargain when you date or marry a Cancerian girl. Find out who amongst the zodiac is best suited to the emotionally charged Cancerian. Cancer woman and…  Aries man: 6/10. This relationship can work well if both are able to keep certain personality traits under check. The Aries man will not like being constantly pampered or treated like a child, while the Cancer woman is not capable of standing the blunt and straightforward words of the Arien. Taurus man: 9/10. This combination can hit the bull’s eye. He has the ability to love and care for her and most importantly give her the security she craves for. On the other hand, she is the perfect mate for him as she can cook well and keep a good house for him…things that are important to the Taurean as well. Gemini man: 9/10. The Gemini with his usual panache can do wonders to this relationship. He has the vivacity to attract and draw the reclusive Cancer out of her shell, while she has the feminine charm to impress his manly heart. The Cancerian however will have to keep her hypersensitivity under check. Cancer man: 8/10. The success of this relationship will largely depend on the emotional security that both the crabs have. If one of them is able to take stock of the emotional balance, this bonding can go a long way. Moreover, both will have to keep their mood swings under control. Leo man: 9/10. This relationship is a perfect blend of loyalty and love. Since the Cancerian will remain committed towards the Leo, he would be more than happy in her company. Moreover she

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would let him be in charge and load him with motherly care and attention, something the Leo guy won’t be able to resist. Virgo man: 9/10. Another relationship that can stand the test of time! Both are equally romantic as well as dependable and sincere. Although the Virgo lacks interest on the home front, the Cancerian has enough culinary talent to make him stay back with her at home. Libra man: 6/10. This combination can swing either way. If both show understanding of each other’s basic needs, this relationship can work out better. The Libran will have to go slow on his intellectual trips while the Cancerian will have to learn to be less emotionally dependant. Scorpio man: 8/10. She is romantic and he is passionate. He is masculine and she is feminine. And both are almost faithful and sincere. This relationship has the potential of going a long way. Sagittarius man: 4/10: The Sagittarian outspokenness may not go down too well with the Cancerian sensitivity. After the initial attraction, things might get a bit difficult as he will dislike being tied down and she will object to his flirtatious ways. Capricorn man: 7/10: A difficult yet not impossible combination! The Cancerian for once will have to make the first move and draw the Capricorn out of his reserve. The Capricorn on the other hand will have to adjust to the excessive emotional demands of the Cancerian. Aquarius man: 5/10: This is a case of opposites and although opposites attract they are not necessarily compatible. She would interpret his freedom as negligence while he would think her emotional bonding as excessive neediness. It can be a clash between emotion and intellect. Pisces man: 9.5/10: This combination is near perfect. His imaginative mind is a true match to her feminine heart. He will shower her with love, affection and care and give her the support and security she needs. The Cancerian can make her world revolve around the Piscean—believe in his dreams, be supportive and make him feel ‘he’s the only one’. Famous Cancer women celebrities/personalities: Princess DianaPamela AndersonMeryl StreepPriyanka Chopra 

LEO

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Leo man - July 24 - August 23 Introduction  He would roar like a lion…interpret that as a signal to attract attention. He would purr in contention…that’s his way of saying he is satisfied. He would growl with impatience… especially when his ego is hurt. That’s the Leo man for you. He is the most assertive of all zodiac signs and loves to be the centre of attention. Every time he enters a party scene, it is with much fanfare. He wants people to sit up and take notice, be courteous towards him and generally consider his presence a ‘huge favour’. Two minutes into a conversation with him and you would know how full of ‘ Me  myself and I’ this is your conventional Leo male!  The passive kind is more easy-going, warm and friendly. He also has an irresistible charm about him, all thanks to his extreme passion. He is romantic in every sense of the term. He won’t shy off from stopping at the traffic signal to buy flowers for his girlfriend or leave work early to catch up with her for a cup of coffee. All these romantic interludes however come at a price. Once you know how to deal with his impatience, you will have a rather mellow Leo at your side. With good amount of love and trust, you can have the lion eating out of your hand!  How to identify a Leo man in a crowd? Here I am in a fix… identifying a Leo man in a crowd is pretty easy, but explaining how that is done is kind of difficult. I will tell you why. Based on my observations I have inferred that amongst Leo men 60% are the aggressive type and 40% are passive. However it is not as simple as that. The passive kind of Leo men also possesses a belligerent streak, which is very well in control. So, in appearance and behaviour the passive Leo male will appear as composed and behaviour as they come. The aggressive Leo will also appear outwardly calm and composed and it is only after you interact with him that his ego centric nature and assertive manners come to fore. This is the chief difference between these two kinds of Leo men. What are the finer characteristics of a Leo man? True to the majestic animal in its symbol, men of this Zodiac sign like luxury and grandeur. More often than not, Leo men are not able to differentiate between wishful thinking and dreaming big. This stems from lack of pragmatism in their thinking. They want everything to be larger than life… whether it suits them or no. Another interesting quality I have noticed in Leo men is that they are like children through most of their lives. I say this because they want to have everything they see. No matter what age,

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experience or maturity he has, a Leo male will keep yearning for material things… just like a 5 year old yearning for his first bike. His list of desires just keeps growing with age. Even within the 40% passive Leo men, 15% possess this characteristic. Anything with a luxury tag or any brand spelling grandeur usually catches his eye. I have known some Leo men who are determined to achieve success only in order to fulfill their desire list. Another peculiar trait and one that often works to his disadvantage is a Leo man’s love for flattery. I have observed that the right amount of flattery is the easiest way to a Leo man’s heart. It is usually nothing but an ego boost to him but as soon as he hears a compliment or sweet talk about himself his brain sends a message saying this person is likeable. It is also very easy to stir up a Leo male emotionally. He can get easily influenced by genuine and not so genuine stories and is capable of acting upon them without any verification. Diplomacy is a skill most passive Leo men and very few aggressive ones possess. While they are known to be blunt, curt and straight forward in their speech, some of them can be quite hypocritical. Although they don’t believe in mincing words, they can play it up to anyone to get their work done. Compromising on values to suit their needs is not an unknown tact for Leo men. In spite of these limitations, a Leo man is a man of honor. When he makes a promise he abides by his word as he believes it’s a matter of prestige to do so. Very rarely will a Leo male not keep his word, especially if it is a promise made to his loved ones. However, he has not such compunctions in business deals. While is not exactly a shady character, it is better to double check on his assurances before you sign the dotted line. What exceptional qualities does a Leo man possess? I have found that there is something of an actor in a Leo male. Whether he is in his boyhood or beyond sixty, the child in him forever makes him take up play acting. On the surface, he can play the mimic to a hilt. And deeper still he can don masks to get things done his way. Like I had mentioned before, he takes up the role of a gallant to prove his chivalry, which may be just a façade to mislead people around him. I am not implying he is not genuine, but he also has the capacity to ‘act’ in order to fulfill his hidden agenda. Here is a man who understands the meaning of power like no other. Power means everything to him. He is very conscious of the importance of power play in his life… be it in terms of monetary, physical, psychological, social or political. Akin to his Aries counterpart, a Leo man has a strong dictatorship quality. While this makes him an excellent leader, it also makes him stress on power more than ever.    What is his approach to life? 

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A Leo male is a far cry from being realistic and practical. He is largely governed by his emotions and sentiments. Moreover, he is hyper sensitive. The slightest of emotional drama can send him in the throes of agony. To add to this, he is also idealistic and a dreamer. Most Leo men would prefer to lead, as they possess natural leadership qualities. But if provided with the right kind of inspiration and motivation, they will not hesitate in following people they idealize. How is a Leo man in love? Very very romantic and very very passionate! A Leo man loves the very concept of love. Also he enjoys the attention and pampering that is associated with being in love. With the kind of romance that he believes in, it is easy to get a Leo man fall in love. Moonlight walks, candle lit dinners, romantic movies and sweet nothings over long telephonic conversations can do the trick. When in love, he needs constant assurances from his lady love… and will not hesitate to give the same in return. 

Leo woman - July 24 - August 23 Introduction: What’s the most striking characteristic of a lioness? She’s a born hunter. Graceful, athletic and stunning to look at, the lioness has a beauty of a different genre. There is a stark difference between the majesty of a lion and that of a lioness. The lion loves to laze while his counterpart is always on the alert… sharp golden eyes glittering in the dark, on the lookout for a prey. Now liken this description with a Leo woman. She is charming, graceful and very often good looking. And the hunter spirit? Although outwardly composed, the innate aggression lurks very near the surface. The Leo woman can match the ferociousness of any lioness with her passion. An odd mix of pride and friendliness, loyalty and coyness and passion and compassion, the Leo girl is the one craving for spotlight. Known to making ‘bang-on’ appearances, the lioness in a human garb is hard to miss.  

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How to identify a Leo woman in a crowd? With Leo women, the aggressive and passive categories are in 80 to 20 ratio. But both types are extremely assertive and love having their way with things. While dealing with someone they would give in or be submissive only if they are deeply in love with that person or have great respect for him. It is not difficult to spot a Leo woman in a crowd. Apart from her facial features a Leo woman will possess unmatched style and panache. You are also likely to see her talking endlessly, mostly about herself. While in a group of people, she will be the principal talker and the conversation will usually revolve around herself.  What are the general traits of her personality? A Leo woman is materialistic hence she will not be satisfied with ordinary living. She will of course make do if situation demands but her eyes will be set on a glitzy lifestyle. While describing her behaviour in a crowd, I have mentioned that she likes to talk and is also an attention seeker. But I would like to add here that she is not a senseless talker and definitely not a chatterbox. In spite of being outspoken and straightforward (read blunt), unless she is very comfortable with people around her, a Leo girl can be quite reserved. I have observed that her reserve arises from firstly her ego and secondly her need to be at ease and in command of the situation and people at hand. Her ego often stops her from breaking the ice, while she can also be reticent to open up until she has reached a stage of compatibility with people around her. Don’t let her initial reticence fool you. This lady is anything but shy. She is only sizing up the situation and waiting to get into the comfort zone to open up. I think I have harped enough about a Leo female’s desire for materialistic pleasures. Let me add here that to her every material comfort comes with a grandeur tag. Remember the lioness! Everything that she does… from clothes to home décor is done on a majestic scale. If you ask me she scores a ten on ten for getting the grand effect and if her bank balance permits her opulence would know no bounds.  What is her approach towards life? Here is one lady who is emotional and sentimental and ergo sensitive too… and given all this knows the shortcomings of her nature. Dreamy and idealistic, Leo girls are not very realistic.

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Being emotional they are not very practical either. But they sure know how to lead and have an innate talent of forging ahead and making way for others to follow. How to effectively deal with a Leo woman? What she looks for in her man is a ‘gentleman’. A Leo woman lays great stress on social etiquettes, graceful manners and a caring attitude. Naturally she wants her man to have all these attributes. Further, she also wants someone who is aggressive enough to dominate her… although not overtly. To effectively deal with a Leo woman, one needs to have a good idea of social decorum, an outspoken and honest nature and the right dose of flattery. Flattery, my dear friends, is the key to this lady’s heart! One of the most distinguishing characteristic that Leo women possess and one which helps others to tackle her sensibly is a certain amount of humility that she has in her. Due to this she is able to understand and accept healthy criticism. This is also because she is able to distinguish between a well-wisher and a casual friend. 

While courting her you need to… Match her standards for starters! She expects gentlemanly behaviour from you so don’t think she will be impressed with your cowboy acts and rugged looks alone. A Leo woman will come across as polished, stately and gracious and she is all that without doubt. But that doesn’t mean she lacks depth. Her stateliness is not skin deep, it penetrates her mind and thought process as well. She is an intelligent woman and needs a man who understands her. She is always high on passion and energy (another typical fire sign trait) therefore she needs a ‘cool’ person to balance her. More than dominating she wants her partner who knows how to restrain her.

VIRGO

Virgo man - August 24 – September 23 

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Introduction:Practicality rules the mind of a typical Virgo male. He thinks, acts and sometimes even dreams logically. The best way to be around him is to ‘cut the fuss’. He has a repulsion for flowery language or unnecessary emotional gestures. If there’s someone who likes to travel light, it’s him. With a Virgo man, no emotional baggage please! Although emotional himself, he is not likely to understand the state of emotions in others. And when in love he needs ample of room… to be himself, to do his thing, and to take off if required. Behind his serious expression is a mind that loves to laugh. I say mind because he likes intelligent humour and not slapstick comedy. He is knowledgeable and opinionated and shrewd enough not to let others, especially strangers, see the hand that is being dealt to him. A man who knows his mind and understands his needs – a man who frequently asks himself ‘what’s in it for me?’, that’s a typical Virgo guy. How to identify a Virgo man? A Virgo man is quiet and reserved, not much into initiating conversation unless spoken to. He is the type of person who would take initiative only if he has a motive. Only if you possess a hobby like mine of observing people and their behavior will you be able to spot a Virgo man. Here again I am at a loss on how to classify Virgo men into aggressive and passive categories because I have observed that Virgo men behave aggressively only when provoked or pushed. While in a conversation they might display interest in keeping it interactive, they usually spend time getting their point across. They are also very opinionated. How does he score on the following points? Cynicism: I have observed that 70% of Virgo men are cynical. Sometimes being cynical can be a good thing because it can bring forth the zing required to achieve success. It can bring out the best in you. If used correctly, cynicism can be a great motivator. Somehow most Virgo men have the tact to use it positively. The flipside is given a situation of dispute/disagreement their cynical side gets them into awkward situations. Suspicion: A Virgo man on suspicion… yes and no. ‘Yes’ because he is suspicious when it comes to his career and achievements and ‘no’ because he isn’t suspicious about his relationships. He is possessive about his achievements and personal belongings. With his work and people related to work, he is forever on his guard, especially regarding money matters. Regarding his relationships he displays a secure and non-caring attitude. He is not likely to be suspicious except when given a reason to doubt. Jealousy: A definite YES! A Virgo man can be jealous and very easily so. If at work or business his direct competition scores over him, our man can go green with envy. He finds it difficult to stand someone else’s success, if that person is in the same field of work. The reason for this… he thinks he deserves it more than the next man. On relationship front, he can be extremely jealous if his girlfriend or wife displays interest in another man.

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 What does a Virgo man want from life? Well, this question cannot be answered in a word or two as the list of his desires is endless. Not only does he want everything from life, he also wants to be good at everything he does… the best in the industry or field as they say. Definitely not one to be satisfied with an ordinary life, he is perceptive enough to make do with low standards while he is struggling. But he has the girth and determination to achieve his targets. And a quality life is one of his targets. What is his characteristic weakness? Although I have mentioned his characteristic weakness earlier, I would like to elaborate on it here. His chief shortcoming is his disability to create and maintain relationships. He avoids people generally and is not particular about keeping up friends and acquaintances. Yet he is dependent on them for one thing or the other. This habit makes him come across as selfish and self-centered. And who isn’t sensitive to such behaviour?  What is his approach to life? A Virgo man is not very realistic. But he is practical enough to know that life is full of ups and downs and since he likes new challenges his pragmatism is of great use to him. On an emotional level he is rather partial… not so emotional about others and quite emotional about himself. He is also sentimental. Given his ambitiousness, a Virgo man is quite a dreamer. He believes in dreaming big and achieving big. He is fine with someone else taking the lead, but only till he learns the tricks of the trade. From there on he would prefer being the ultimate leader. How is he when in love? Just like how he is on any regular day. There is no difference between a Virgo man in love and a Virgo man not in love. Like I said before he finds it difficult to emote and even when in love, you will not find anything lover-like in his behavior. Also he is a hardcore practical man… the proverbial man of the world so nothing he does is for the sake of sentiments and emotions. If you are expecting scented love letters and sweet nothings from your lover… you are clearly with the wrong man. Maintaining a love relationship with a Virgo man is like being in a chemistry lab – everything has to be mixed in the right way in the right amount. Otherwise fireworks are in order! To get the best out of your Virgo man you have to maintain the right amount of closeness and the right amount of distance with him. He wants to be loved but not overburdened with it. Overt display of emotions can turn him off, so keep everything subtle. When dating a Virgo man, you should…

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 … Make the first move. And if you think it sounds un-ladylike or needy you can steer away from the Virgo guy. If you are waiting for him to ask you out, chances are it won’t happen for a long long time. Before dating a Virgo man you need to learn certain lessons about this guy and his nature. While he is a funny and intelligent friend and a wonderful companion, with dating he sort of breaks all the rules. Romantic in his own peculiar way, he can re-define the role of a Romeo, if not the term ‘love’ itself. In a word, expect the unexpected while dating a Virgo guy. Lesson one: He won’t chase you no matter how beautiful, intelligent or rich you are. Although he appreciates these qualities in a woman, he always thinks there are plenty of girls out there for him and he won’t take much effort at convincing you to date him. Lesson two: His serious expression and un-emotional stance is a façade. He is basically insecure about getting hurt and therefore limits the amount of true emotions on display. But deep down, he is sensitive and loveable. Don’t get fooled with his unenthusiastic response to your advances.

Virgo woman – August 24 – September 23 Introduction: Are you attracted to that reserved, polite, politically-correct and emotionally disciplined Virgo woman? She appears reserved, but she can be quite a chatter box too. She is polite but if you hurt her ego, she can sting like a bee. And emotionally- disciplined? That’s a mere masquerade. She is as emotional as the next girl, but believes intensely in hiding her emotions. With a hint of lethargy and a tinge of Nosey Parker, the Virgo woman’s personality has almost all shades of the spectrum. How to identify a Virgo woman in a crowd? My estimate says 60% of Virgo women are aggressive and 40% are passive. It is not difficult to identify them in a crowd. Almost all of them like to talk a lot and speak at the speed of lightening, just like Aquarius women. When it comes to fitting maximum words in one breath Virgo women can give Aquarian females a run for their money. I have also noticed that Virgo women like to gossip and sometimes they seem to mind other people’s business more than their own.

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 Compared to their male counterpart they are quick at making friends and are usually very social. However, there are about 15% of Virgo women who are reserved and introverted. While observing them, I realized that they are extremely sharp and very quick on the uptake. Depending on their mood they can be quite witty and funny too. They seem to have an uncanny way of matching the wavelength and thought process of a man, which makes them more compatible with men. Ergo Virgo women have a lot of male friends. What to expect from her on the following points? Appearance: The aggressive kind of Virgo woman is expressive and is capable of emoting and smiling with her eyes. Her eyes have a distinct quality of catching your attention with the multitude of emotions in there. The passive kind of Virgo woman is extremely warm and friendly and is also very caring about her friends and loved ones. However, both kinds have a subtle dressing sense… nothing loud works for them. You will usually find them dressed as occasion demands. They seem to be obssesed with shoes and handbags and now I know how so many stores survive. Ambition: There is a wide chasm between the ambitious and the non-ambitious Virgo women. About 80% of them are ambitious while the rest 20% are sheer lazy. Since we are discussing ambition here I would like to elaborate about the 80% category of ambitious Virgo women. Independent minded and determined, she is often seen having preferences for print or television media or the hospitality/airline industry. She is equally detailed and meticulous about her work and home chores. What does she want from life? I think the passive kind of Virgo woman can remain content with what life has offered her, but the aggressive kind in her own subtle way has an endless wish list. An aggressive Virgo female is rarely satisfied with ordinary living and always aspire for a better lifestyle. This is purely my observation that she needs support in everything she does – at work, with emotions and in almost every walk of life. So in most cases she becomes dependent on others for her performance in whatever character she plays in life. What is her approach to life? A Virgo woman can undoubtedly be both realistic and practical but she is governed by her moods and the extent of her practicality largely depends on that. She is less emotional and sentimental but more sensitive. This could be another reason why she has more male friends. She is also dreamy and idealistic. 

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She finds it easier to follow than lead. Although she has a strong opinion about everything she is comfortable at following rather than leading. This could also be because of fear of failure, in which case she wouldn’t want to take the responsibility. Is there something more to her persona? Yes, there is! A Virgo woman is a stickler for punctuality. She cannot abide late comers and her patience runs low when she is waiting for someone. Although not short tempered, she can let her lid fly when her expectations are not met with… especially about things she cares. According to me, she would score an nine on ten for punctuality. Her ambitious drive is well backed with a hard working spirit. Given her analytical mind, she knows that nothing can be achieved without sincere efforts. However, when it comes to work or relationship, she is quite conservative in her attitude and you may have a difficult time to get her to accept new ideas. When dating a Virgo woman, you should… …be her friend first! Getting a Virgo woman to date you isn’t an easy task. She seems hard to get as she lacks emotional expression. But if you are friends with her, it would be easy to break her self-imposed barricade. A Virgo girl is conservative. She is a straightforward, traditional-minded girl and loves routine. Even if you take her to her favourite restaurant every day, she would be as pleased as punch. She is a stickler for cleanliness. She likes people and things around her to be neat and tidy. Make sure you are well groomed while dating her. You may not be wearing the clothes that are in vogue, but as long as they are clean and well-ironed, she would be impressed. And here’s a tip—don’t wear a strong perfume. Virgo girls are sensitive to strong smells. Be careful with your spending. The Virgo girl will appreciate that. She also loves Nature and nothing can win her heart like a serene Nature walk. But make sure you have a cozy armchair ready for her at the end of it all…she will welcome your gesture. Her satisfaction will be evident from the glow on her cheeks and the spark in her eyes. How is she when in love? Hmm… before I answer that one let me tell you what love is for a Virgo woman. There is only one definition of love for her… true, pure and exclusive. She will not tolerate passing affairs or insincere feelings. Once her heart is set on something, she will move with a determined gait to achieve it. But let not all this talk of determination and ambition make you think she is masculine. No ways! This one is a complete woman and a strong one at that. While courting her you will have to keep a lot of things in mind. Firstly, etiquettes… this lady is a classic nit-picker when it comes to mannerisms and social behaviour. She will watch you with

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a hawk’s eye and will be satisfied only if you match up to her rather high standards of decorum. Secondly, underplay… she dislikes loud and brash behaviour, especially if it is about love. Public display of love is a big no-no with her. So keep it simple and subtle and of course genuine. And throw in plenty of charm and before long you will be humming the Jackson classic “The girl is mine…”

LIBRA

Libra man - 24th September-22nd October  Introduction: A Libra man is a man of the world. He has infinite charm and a friendly demeanour. Once you meet him, you are not likely to forget the casual chat you had with him for a long time. And chat with him you will, he has an irresistible attraction factor and you will be instantly drawn into his circle of influence. But no amount of charm can help the Libran in making decisions. The scales of his sun sign will keep tipping every time he is faced with a decision-making situation. It is the urge to get the best in life and do ‘a thousand things’ in one go that propels him ahead. Romantic and carefree, a Libran can as easily shrug responsibility as a cat shakes water off its fur.  His ability to connect with people on a social level makes him befriend many but he shares true friendship with few. Whichever relationship role he plays, he is fun to be with and extremely entertaining. How can you identify a Libra man in a crowd? In a group, gathering or party, it is easy to identify a Libra man. He is usually the one with a warm and friendly expression on his face and is popular amongst everyone. From an early age he usually has a calm and composed expression on his face which belies  the restless dynamo beneath. During his conversations or in his behaviour you will never be able spot the hurry or restlessness that he has to meet and greet other people. He would show deep interest in a conversation but upon seeing other friends may include them in the same. He has a natural way of networking, which very few sun signs possess. There is no particular face type to describe a Libra man but it is the calmness of face and sharpness of eyes, combined with sincerity in speech and attitude that makes him friendly. Melting smile, hovering eyes constantly darting from one place to another—that’s a Libra man for you! What are the key features of his personality?

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 A Libra male is a romantic at heart and he discovers romance at an early age. His source of inspiration lies not in romance novels or movies but his own nature. Charming and friendly, he connects easily with people. He also has impressive looks and good humour to match his skills. He likes the idea of falling in love and being in love, hence his mind is in a perpetual state of romance. But he also has a strong practical aspect to his personality so his romantic ideas are not baseless or in the air. Another peculiar trait in a Libran is his concept of fair play. Although he is capable of playing practical jokes and doing crazy things that boys do when young, as he matures he understands the difference between fair and unfair. He can become a strong believer in justice and fair play. But somehow when it comes to his own cause, he would try and swing things his way. What is his approach towards life? A Libra male is realistic and practical in his approach to life. But he is also highly emotional and sentimental, which sometimes clouds his ability to think practically. There is something of a dreamer in him and he is also idealistic about life. The Libran is one man who wants to extract everything from life. Like I said before he wants to do everything, be everywhere, learn everything…and more. I have nicknamed a few of my Libran and Sagittarian male friends as walking-talking encyclopedias because of this quality of theirs. Libra males are capable of being both followers and leaders.  How is he when in love? If a Libra man is a micro chip, then the only language he understands is love. Love brings the best out of a Libra man. But the first step towards love is friendship. His natural flair to connect with people enables him to forge genuine friendship bond with men and women alike. With women friendships can lead to love, but not necessarily marriage. Given his knack for weighing the plus and minus of everything, he will not commit to anyone immediately. But once you have his love, it is for keeps. Not one to back out on his commitment, he will put in every bit of effort to make a relationship work. And it is up to you to keep the romance alive in your relationship…for this guy is a real sucker for it! Is there more to his persona? Libra is represented by the sign of the scales and you will notice the balancing act becomes an important factor of a Libra male’s personality. He spends a good deal of time (a great deal actually!) in thinking, working out details and deciding about every minutest aspect of life. He finds it difficult to make up his mind…but the only person he would consult in times of confusion is himself. You will rarely find him being impulsive about anything and even if he is…it’s a calculated impulse. Ironic, isn’t it?

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 The funny part is his mental act of weighing the pros and cons of people and situations, which is quite evident in his unvarying eye movements which offer him the opportunity to scan the entire perimeter constantly. 

Libra woman – 24th September-22nd October  Introduction Have you ever come across girls who look at you in the eye every time you talk and are constantly interrupting your flow of words with their ‘come to the point’ instructions? Well, those are the ones governed by the sign of scales… I mean Libra. Libran girls are brisk, business-like and precise. They dislike dilly dallying and are rarely found to mince words. Libra ladies are graceful and well poised to the point of perfection… as crisp as newly minted bank notes. As much as she is intense, the Libra woman is also emotional and sensitive. If you are friends with a typical Libran, you would know what a fantastic sense of humour she’s got. And it is a sight to watch her do the balancing act with her constantly tipping scales. All in all, she’s a wonderful person to be with. How to identify a Libra woman in a crowd?  To be able to identify her in a crowd you would need to watch her behaviour very carefully. If you are a stranger to her you would notice her interaction with you will be limited to exchange of pleasantries. But sitting in the same gallery she would be totally involved in the full spirit of having fun in solitude or with her close friends. What is interesting to observe in a Libra woman is how her facial expressions change from intense to absolute fun and back to intense within a span of ten minutes. Another giveaway of her identify as a true Libran is the prankster in her. You may not detect the mischief monger in her (this lady can keep a straight face I tell you!) but she is quite prone to playing pranks. If you are the butt of a practical joke among your friends, chances are the mind behind it is that of your Libran female buddy. With her great sense of humour she is excellent company to hang out with.

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But a Libra girl is also self-obsessed to some extent, which is why she is misunderstood by people around her.  How does she score on the following points? Appearance: Libra women are extremely fashionable. They are also very adaptive of trends – from shorts and tees at home to evening gowns at cocktail events, a Libra girl can do it all in a day. She is also quite detailed about all aspects of grooming… right down to her manicured fingers, trimmed and polished nails, well set hair, etc. Ambition: Amongst all women, a Libra woman is the most ambitious one and sky’s the limit for her. She wants to grow and climb to top positions and titles. She also has the innate talent of knowing how to get things done and perceiving where she needs to be… at any given point in time. Self respect/Ego: Self respect and ego make for a curious case for Libra women. I have observed that they possess a great amount of self-respect and a greater amount of ego. Many times in life her ego is what gets this lady in trouble. She has a unique was of getting herself into a tight spot… a point of no return. And it is usually her ego that stops her from mending matters.  What are the finer traits of her personality? There is a peculiar way Libran women have of dealing with people. For starters they don’t want to hurt anybody, especially emotionally. Because of this they find it difficult to say ‘no’ to anyone. Once they have given their word, they find it difficult to back out or fulfill their commitments. To get out of this tricky situation, they start re-negotiating. Because of this habit she may not hurt anybody but fails to make them happy. A Libra girl is charming to a great extent (I would give her an eight on ten for that!). Like her male counterpart she has a smooth tongue and therefore is very convincing and persuasive. Being conservative in thought and action is another of her feature. Not that she lacks confidence but she will prefer towing the traditional line rather than doing something out of the box. She prefers ‘stunning’ people with her success and not with her untoward actions. She also gets easily angry… the kind who is ready to flip their lid at a moment’s notice. But she is a thinker and a rational one at that, so she is quite capable of reasoning and managing her anger. Is there something more to her personality? Well, I guess there is! Her nature has an uncanny resemblance to the symbol of her zodiac sign – the scales. A Libra woman enjoys all good things in life but she also knows that these things

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come with a tag… expensive one at that. So she has to do a fine balancing act between fulfilling her desires and saving for the rainy day. Another reason why her scales tip to and fro is her need to conform to the likes and dislikes of her loved ones and her need to have her way. She also has an instinct towards fair play and you will find her playing arbiter or mediator amongst friends and family.  She is also quite opinionated and is open to views from others too. Like her male counterpart, she likes to weigh the pros and cons of every situation before forming an opinion. Although this habit is a healthy one in terms of business or life in general, she takes it rather too seriously in matters of heart. You will have to spend much quality time with her before getting the classic ‘yes’ from her. This woman also has a lot of tact in her… in the way she speaks and behaves. Add to that is her intelligence. This makes her get along well with people. Her natural friendliness makes her all the more charming. Libra females also have a good sense of humour. How is she when in love? Love can completely floor her. A Libra woman is very romantic and gets totally involved with her man. When in love she can be extremely submissive and adjusting. With love also comes understanding. A Libra girl is extremely understanding of the feelings and situations of her husband, children, family and friends. She is ever ready to help those she loves. But with people with whom she doesn’t share such a bond, her understanding can be had only with a good amount of reasoning. It isn’t easy to win the heart of a Libra girl as she has high ideals for the man in her life. She seeks refinement, grace and intelligence (a goodly amount of all these qualities actually!) as well as understanding, sincerity and a balanced outlook towards life in a man. She wants her man to be strong enough to give her the security she needs and tolerant enough to give her the freedom she wants. And above all she wants her man to respect her for what she is.

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SCORPIO

Scorpio man – 23 October – 22 November Introduction Boundless energy is the term that comes to my mind when I think of Scorpio men. They are so full of life and vitality; it’s a surprise how they manage to do umpteen tasks in a day. The fervour in their nature can be matched only by Aries men. But the catch here is with the Scorpion his passion borders dangerously near obsession. Extremely fond of good clothes and good food, you might find him indulging in either of these quite often. The Scorpio guy is also extremely attached to his money… he is frequently seen taking measures to double it! While he is fun to be with, he can get possessive of his relationships, especially girlfriends. Life with him will undoubtedly be a passionate affair but like every passion it has its fallouts. Living life in excesses, the Scorpio man’s nature is a two-sided sword… if he loves you God help you, if he hates you God help you double quick!  How to identify a Scorpio man in a crowd? A Scorpio man displays the right mix of passion and composure. He is passionate about work, help, conversations, dressing, and food and just about everything. Around 70% Scorpio men come across as passive in nature but can get aggressive when provoked. And the 30% who are actually aggressive can be passive and diplomatic when needed. In spite of possessing diplomacy and humility, Scorpio men are reasonably arrogant. It is quite easy to identify a Scorpio man – he’s the one smooth talking everyone, especially women. If not that, you will find him in intense conversation involving money, work, and investments… generally about stuff related to economics. Known to be extremely enterprising, he has ‘growth’ on his mind always. It’s not surprising to find a Scorpio man getting maximum promotions in an office environment. How does he score on the following points? Appearance: He is extremely stylish and fashionable. He is amongst the first few, like the Aries man, to adopt and adapt to new trends and fashions. His looks and appearance matter a lot to him and he is very conscious of the same. Both Scorpio men and women have fiery eyes.

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 A Scorpio man likes to be well groomed… to the extent of carrying a comb in his pocket. The need to be always immaculate is so intense in him that he won’t even shy away from shaving his chest to go swimming. That’s grooming to a tee, I say! That is one of the things a Scorpio man has common with an Aries man. Ambition: There is an essential difference between being ambitious and enterprising. Scorpio men are very enterprising and have tremendous risk taking ability. No matter what field he is in, for the Scorpion the sky’s the limit. If he likes you he will not hesitate to share his ideas with you but yes, he can get superstitious about his plans. Be it his own venture or someone else’s, a Scorpio man is a great motivator. Added to that is his warm and affectionate nature, which makes him extremely popular. What are the general traits of a Scorpio man? If there is a goddess of passion then Scorpio men are her true devotees. So much is this man taken in by whatever he does, loves or has… there is no other word to describe him but ‘passionate’. And his passion often makes him go into excesses with everything that he does. Believing in living a larger than life image, a Scorpio man will let his hair lose in any enterprise that catches his fancy… from working in the wee hours of the night to partying till morning. In spite of the burning ardour he has within, it is rarely displayed on his face. He has a ‘cool dude’ image, which at times is carried to the extreme of coldness. But it should not be mistaken for indifference as he is concerned about all and sundry that touches his life.  Is there something more to his personality? Yes there is a darker side to a Scorpio man’s personality. There are certain aspects which I have found unique to Scorpions. A Scorpio man is afraid of death or disaster. He is therefore an easy victim to superstitions and the knick-knacks that accompany it. He will be taken up by curiosity to know his future and is also likely to take help of astrology, tarot card reading and numerology to know what is to come. Apart from wealth, prosperity and happiness, the one thing that preoccupies his mind is death… the inevitable stop to all his enterprises. Another factor that keeps him in check is ‘public’. He knows his image depends a lot on what the general public thinks about him. He is always conscious of his image… including his dress, grooming, the car he travels in, the restaurants he eats at etc. He is therefore forever striving to make good impression on people around him and create a positive public image and opinion. 

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There is no word like mediocre in a Scorpio man’s dictionary. He believes in living life king size and has the courage and vision to achieve it. Actually he is not satisfied with anything and is in a constant need to do more and get more. How is he when in love? I think he can go completely blind when in love. Since he is obsessive by nature he gets so when in love. You need to have a lot of energy to keep up with him. He is entertaining, adventurous, fun loving and passionate. But slightest casualness shown by his woman can get him to lose interest and divert his attention elsewhere. He can be unforgiving in situations like these. He expects his partner to be as obsessive as him about their relationship. Another common trait shared with a Aries man. He has a magnetic personality and women often find themselves gravitating into his field of influence. But he is selective about the women he dates. So no matter how many females fall for him, he will pick the one that fits in his image of a perfect woman. An important aspect about a Scorpio man’s love is his concept of the ideal. To him the woman in his life should conform to the ideal female he has in his mind… and no that need not be like his mother 

Scorpio woman - 23 October – 22 November Introduction:Captivating… is the word which can be used to introduce a Scorpio woman. There is something of a hypnotist in her and she knows how to make men fall in love with her and do her bidding. Although this may sound vamp-like, the Scorpio woman indulges in these arts with such grace and polish that it is impossible to resist her charms. She is good looking, more often than not downright beautiful, and knows very well how to use her beauty to make way into other people’s heart. But her ingenuity does not stop on her face. She has brains to match. The typical Scorpion female has loads of intelligence, a fantastic sense of humour and an innate sense of living a sophisticated lifestyle. Not one to settle for the common fare, she would always aspire for the skies. She is high on passion, style and a certain oomph factor that sets her a cut above the rest! But there is lot more to her personality… and what that ‘lot’ would be? Let’s find out!  How to identify a Scorpio woman in a crowd? 

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Scorpio is the only zodiac sign where I have observed that the majority of aggressive kind of women are born between 23rd and 31st October while the passive kind are born between 1st and 22nd November. When I say aggressive in case of a Scorpion it’s not the regular ‘in your face’ assertive type but the kind which is more prone to responding in an aggressive manner when provoked or given the slightest reason. There are certain facial features and behaviour traits through which you can identify a Scorpio woman. On her face you can note a) the shape of her eyes, b) strong jaw line and, c) subtle flirting glances.  What does she expect from life? Much like a Scorpio man, the Scorpio female wants to over-achieve. She wants to be in tens of places and do scores of stuff at the same time. She yearns for everything ‘big’ and anything mediocre is not her cup of tea. How to effectively deal with a Scorpio woman? This lady likes direct talk… so don’t twist your words and come straight to the point. Very rarely will you see her falling for flattery – so drop all thoughts of making way into her heart with smooth talk. This makes life simple for straight forward men who don’t like being pretentious, for example: Aries, Sagittarius, Aquarius men. Most Scorpio women are smart from an early age and are well able to tell fake from real. The only place they find themselves fooled is with fake emotions shown by men. A Scorpio woman enjoys chasing more than being chased. But at the same time she is not one to make the first move. She is likely to fall for men with husky voices (a trait I have noticed in Gemini and Capricorn women too)… so much so that cupid will strike them with his arrow even on phone and she won’t mind dating a man she has never met. Once in love she will be very vocal about her feelings and will expect her man to be the perfect gentleman. What is her approach to life? She is not very realistic and certainly not practical. Although she is a dreamer, she not the ‘head in clouds’ kind of person and is shrewd enough to understand which ones of her dreams are workable. However, her chief characteristic remains her emotional and sentimental nature. A Scorpio woman is quite capable of being a follower as well as a leader. She has what it takes to be a leader. She is also ready to give respect where it’s due… and accept the leadership of a superior person. Ambition: A Scorpio woman will compromise on anything only if her monetary situation is average. Once again purely based on my observations I have found that the October born are

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usually more ambitious and focused on their goals than the November born, who are more laid back and lazy. But both are equally creative, innovative and ever ready to take on challenges. A friend of mine born on 24th October, a single mother, had to take up a job to support herself. Having never worked before, she started off with a marketing job in a dot com company for a remuneration of Rs 10,000 only. Her need to earn for herself and her family made her work for nearly 14 hours a day. In my entire lifetime I haven’t seen anyone more committed and sincere towards work. She successfully completed all the targets and goals set before her. Almost after a year of such toil, she got an offer for marketing from another firm, which she accepted. The jump in her package was from Rs. 10,000 to Rs. 60, 000 monthly. After nearly four months of working with the radio station she was drawing up to a hundred thousand rupees, that’s her salary plus incentives. Two years later she joined as a senior official in the marketing department of a TV channel. I was extremely proud and happy to see her covering the ground from Rs. 10, 000 to Rs. 200, 000 a month in a span of 3-4 years. With sincere effort and hard work, she bravely fought every adversity in sight to achieve a sustainable lifestyle. With sheer grit and determination, the core of a Scorpio woman, she can achieve great heights. In my opinion there are only two kinds of women who can bounce back in life with vigour – Scorpio and Gemini. I’m not saying others can’t, I am only saying Scorpio and Gemini women can do it better. Self respect/Ego: Regarding ego, a Scorpio woman takes after her male counterpart. She will never display her ego and until you see her at close quarters you will not know how ego-centric she really is. Her ego centric nature is well hidden behind her diplomatic attitude. But being the touchy person that she is… any sensitive subject is likely to brush her the wrong way. Along with ego she also possesses a good amount of self respect.  How is she when in love? ‘Blind, blind, blind’ wrote Charles Dickens in David Copperfield while describing his hero’s love. Ditto a Scorpio woman! In addition she loses all her other senses too. If any man is looking for the classic Juliet, his search will stop with a Scorpio woman. In spite of her assertiveness, she cannot be with a weak man as she loves being dominated and controlled. No, she’s not crazy, she’s simply smart. It is her way of knowing that her man is as madly in love with her as she is with him. How is she when alone? A Scorpio woman is much like her male counterpart when alone… that is she shouldn’t be left alone. The devil will start its work in her head the minute she is alone. Moreover, she is a people’s person and therefore likes constant company. What does she look for in her partner?

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 A Scorpio woman wants a custom made man… one who is tailored to meet her demands. The essential qualities which her love interest must possess are simplicity, the right amount of authoritativeness and arrogance, spiritual awareness and philosophical turn of mind. But above all he should be expressive and able to communicate his emotions well… much like herself. A Scorpio woman also appreciates a man with high family values and this is a trait I have noticed in Capricorn women too. 

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius man - November 22-December 21 Introduction: He will age but never grow old, he will flirt with many but never break a heart, he will laugh with you but never at you…is he the quintessential Sagittarian man. Easy to talk to and easy to be with, he takes mere social small talk to a new level of stimulating conversation. Not only is he blessed with eloquence but he is also knowledgeable enough to converse on a range of topics. With a Sagittarius guy for company, there would never be a dreary moment to crib about. His penchant for knowledge and eagerness to know more is touched with a child-like innocence, although this is no indication that he lacks worldly wisdom. He is street smart, and his easy-going nature belies an intellectual mind and a rare spiritual consciousness too. The Sagittarian guy has patience but just enough patience to get along smoothly in life. You can’t make undue demands on his time and generosity as that might make him lose his patience. The best way to get friendly with him is to share his sense of humor. And that’s not all, as there is a lot more to this Sagittarian male persona... How can you identify a Sagittarius man in a crowd? Sagittarius men are seen and known to be more assertive than aggressive. There might be some 15 odd per cent of Sagittarius men who would have an aggressive body language. The majority come across as extremely composed, patient, sure about what they want and where they wish to get…without showing the least amount of apprehension or urgency. 

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You can usually identify a Sagittarius man through his speech. He is usually very knowledgeable and when he speaks you will notice certain authoritativeness on the subject of his conversation. He is great at playing with words and is usually very charming with women. He is equally animated during conversations with his male friends. This is one guy who likes to use logic in everything. Although practical, he is also extremely adventurous and not one to dread trying untested waters. In his commitments as well as words he is extremely straightforward and blunt yet he possesses a unique quality of being a diplomat too. 

What are the key features of his personality? The Sagittarius male is much like his female counterpart in various aspects. He is adventurous by nature, often boisterous in his manner, loves the outdoors, gets easily frustrated by the mundane, is quick to fall in love and is passionate in expressing the same. For a Sagittarius man two and two make four. Life’s as simple as that and he will be quite direct about it too. He doesn’t waste time mincing words, although he is pretty good with them. While expressing his opinions he is forthright and sometimes even blunt. But let me assure you his sharp tongue makes no difference to his popularity. His bluntness is very well balanced with charm and diplomacy. This attribute makes him an ace at maintaining relationships. He dislikes unpleasantness of any kind with his acquaintances and is therefore apt to patch up any dispute he may have with them. He always prefers being on good terms with everybody. Because of this quality Sagittarius men tend to be friendly and at ease with ex-girlfriends and ex-wives too. How should one deal effectively with a Sagittarius man? A Sagittarius male finds it difficult to deal with people who are either not at par with his intellectual level or on the same mental page. So far I have made him sound intense (which he is) but at the same time he is also extremely humorous and witty. More often displaying a dry sense of humor, he finds it easy to get along with people who possess the same. Being detailed, he has a knack for asking questions (and I mean a lot of questions) that are relevant to the situation at hand and isn’t satisfied till he gets the right answers. His follow-ups are equally prompt for questions that are left unanswered. So to effectively deal with a Sagittarius man you must have carried out your homework with due diligence.  Is there something more to his persona?

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 A Sagittarian male has the gift of the gab. With his persuasive skills, he is very good at convincing others. That’s what makes him excel at marketing and sales. Want to sell snow to Eskimos? He’s the man for you! People say Sagittarians have a strong luck factor working for them. But the truth is if you believe in your ideas and dreams and back it up with sincerity, hard work and self- confidence you can achieve most things in life. The self-confidence quotient of saying and believing in ‘I can’ gets you to places…and that’s the secret Sagittarian mantra. A Sagittarius male is quite independent in his thinking and I have observed that his thoughts are laced with creativity. And this is no ordinary creativeness…there’s something unique in his thinking process, so much so that you will find him arriving at conclusions different from most men. And it is this unique thought process that makes him lead a life away from home. He needs space for himself and may find the sentimental atmosphere at home a bit stifling. But that is not to say he is bereft of emotions…he values his relationships but also recognizes the potency of his own needs.   How is he when in love? There’s one word to describe a Sagittarius man in love…crazy. He is a true romantic and won’t fall short of doing the craziest of things to prove his love or to simply live the romance of his dreams. He is both eager and restless to experience love. As said earlier, Sagittarius men generally have attractive personalities and women are naturally drawn to them. Most of them buckle under the pressure of such feminine attention and become flirts. A teenage Sagittarian will learn love by trial and error and therefore is likely to have a long list of girlfriends. But as he matures and understands the concept of love, he grows more comfortable in a relationship. He would then seek and strive for emotional stability. If your love interest is a Sagittarian, then lady you have a hard time ahead of you. You will have to make yourself visible amongst the crowd of blondes and brunettes surrounding him. But let me assure you if you have the right kind of feminine charm and intelligence, he will seek you out…for this man wants a complete package for himself. His woman has to be not just a ‘woman’ but one with an intellect to reckon with. Once you are dating him or even married to him, remember the ground rule—give him space. This guy likes freedom and adores people who give him that. But that doesn’t mean he is totally independent. When the heartstrings start tugging he’ll come running into your arms.  

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Sagittarius woman - November 22 - December 21 Introduction: Sagittarian women can be defined with 3 F’s: Funny, focused, Fierce. They come with a terrific sense of humour, that’s impossible to resist. The typical Sagittarian will find smiles and laughter in every detail of life and will instantly spread the mirth with her powerful ‘word-of-mouth’. A chatter-box and impishly wicked, she can dare to do the unexpected and live on her own terms, no matter how unconventional. More likely she will startle you (sometimes out of your wits!) with her non-conformist statements or mimickery and outrageous logic and thereby making sure you don’t forget her for a long time to come. Ever keen on expanding her wealth of knowledge, the Sagittarian girl will be full of questions and might often poke her inquisitive nose in places where it doesn’t belong. She is practical and far-sighted… to the extent of keeping a larder full of goodies (she loves food) and her study table full of interesting books (remember her quest of knowledge) for those long rainy afternoons. But books are not enough for this girl! She is ever ready to go on a backpacking trip for no one loves travel more than the Sagittarian. ‘The world is my book and mother nature my teacher…” that’s the quintessential Sagittarian girl. How to identify a Sagittarius woman in the crowd? See that woman striving to be the centre of attraction… chatting with the most handsome man in the company, hanging out with the prettiest girls and being loud with her laughter and words… that’s her, the chatty and naughty Sagittarius woman. Of course this description does not hold true of the 35 odd percent of ‘passive sagittarian women’. But of the rest it is a fairly accurate account. How does she score on the following points? Appearance: Sagittarius women sport a prominent jaw line. I have found seven out of ten Sagittarians to be extremely pretty looking with sharp features. They have a great sense of style and fashion. They are also very dressy just like Scorpio women. Ambition: Generally by nature both kinds are extremely ambitious. A Sagittarius woman, whether aggressive or passive, likes new challenges and is usually happy and content when she has a meaty role or responsibility within her work profile. In a job scenario growth and titles are important to her. If she is an entrepreneur, she will study the competition in the market and accordingly add more value to her products or services. In case she is unable to do so, she will use her charm and persuasiveness to achieve her targets. Moreover she has to excel at every task at hand.

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  What are the finer traits of her personality? A Sagittarius woman loves to travel. She is an adventurer at heart and not averse to taking risks as well. You are likely to find her hooting for plans of treks and hikes. This spirit of adventure will be seen in other areas of life like work. Coupled with ambition, her explorer attitude makes her take up new ventures and set newer goals. She also possesses the ability to learn. She is constantly in quest of knowledge and the things she wants to know are boundless. She will have questions and queries about everything… from science to spiritualism and from practical life to philosophy. The term ‘perpetual student’ suits her to a tee. With so much knowledge comes teaching. There is something of a teacher in her too as she likes to distribute the abundant knowledge which she has gathered from places, people and events. But her teachings are not always to be taken at face value as she is quite given to preaching without following. Many people regard Sagittarian women as flamboyant and carefree, especially with money. However this is not so! Here is one woman who is shrewd in every sense of the term and knows (both intuitively and with experience) which horse to bet on. She is an adventurer, yes, she likes to take risks, yes… but her risks are calculated and her adventures are not life threatening. How is she when in love? One thing that is unique about fire sign women is their need to have love in their life and their emotional state of being. Sagittarian women appear to be over-friendly and sometimes even flirts but the truth is that’s just a façade… the only thing that can move them to the core is love. Although she may be deeply in love with you, yet she will shy away from committing herself. This is because she values her freedom above everything else and naturally is doubtful of its continuance after a commitment. Secondly, she likes to be very sure of her feelings before she commits. She also needs to confirm that her boyfriend is as much in love with her as she is and that she can dominate him to some extent. Once she is satisfied on these fronts, she will go all out to prove her love. When dating a Sagittarius woman, you should… … give her freedom. Try tying her down and she will scurry off like a scared deer. If there’s one woman who prizes her freedom above anything else, it’s her. The Sagittarian is a free spirit… she needs physical space, emotional liberty and most importantly freedom to do her will. This is one area where you will have to trust her. As she is prone to do as she pleases, it is always a good idea to have faith in her and believe that she won’t do anything wrong. 

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Moreover, being emotionally stable herself, she dislikes hyper sensitive, emotionally needy people. Since I have already mentioned her love for freedom, it would be redundant to say that she hates possessiveness too. Dating a Sagittarian does not mean marrying her or even having an affair with her. That might take a long time to come. Dating is the first step either towards a love relationship or simple friendship. The Sagittarian will always regard you as her friend and from thereon will start the journey of your love life with her. A Sagittarian woman is shrewd and very often street smart. Obviously she looks for smartness in her date. You have to be as dashing with your conversation as you are with your appearance while dating her. If you are able to floor her with some stimulating conversation it’s game, set and match for you! 

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Capricorn man - December 22 - January 19 Remember the most popular guy in school? How he used to woo your best friend, who happened to be the most attractive girl in class? Let me tell you something… that girl got tired of him soon as he spoke only about himself.  But it was no loss for him as he was seeking out the next pretty face the very next day. A Capricorn guy through and through! A typical Capricorn male will be charming and ebullient yet he would be intense to the core and often somber. And then there’s this incorrigible habit of covering up all his feelings. He will continuously make and break your impression of him. Now go figure out this man! 

How to identify a Capricorn man in a crowd? Loud, flamboyant, centre of attraction and oodles of charm… that’s the briefest description you can get of a Capricorn man. This is how you can identify him too. He travels in flashy cars, stands surrounded by people (usually women) and is the chief talker of the group. While his words will be directed at one, his eyes will be making out with another woman. Although a womanizer, he is a light hearted one and a gentleman at that. He will captivate both men and women with his suaveness and charm rather than force. If you observe closely, you will find him talking mostly about himself… with topics ranging from his latest car to his last girlfriend. 

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 The most noticeable thing about a Capricorn man according to me is his attention seeking nature. No matter where he is… with a small group of friends or at a party, he likes to be noticed. He makes sure when he arrives at a social event then ‘he has arrived’. There is also much of a brag in a Capricorn male. He likes to talk explicitly about his achievements and successes. Don’t mistake this for low self esteem. This man has confidence by the ton but bragging is his way of playing the power game. But whatever he talks and how much ever he may brag… a Capricorn man is a crowd puller. He has the quality to attract admirers and listeners by the horde. He is great at entertainment but all the fun comes at a cost. If you want to enjoy his company, you should be prepared to bear his mood swings. When friendly, he will be one of the ‘most charming’ beings and the funniest of men. But when in a black mood, he can kill with his sarcasm and slay with his anger. 

What are the finer attributes of a Capricorn man’s personality? A Capricorn man although captivating and fun to be with can turn into a turtle and pull up the hardest of shells to shun the world. It isn’t easy to get up and close with this guy. He likes being sociable, will behave in a gentlemanly way and will also show a degree of chivalry, but when it comes to looking into his eyes right up to his heart, he reserves this privilege for a select few. He lives in a cocoon to which very few people have access. This makes him a man of the world, who’s true worth only a handful understand. And I find this to be his most peculiar trait. Lest I am blamed for being contradictory, let me explain. A Capricorn guy is funny, charming and good at conversation. He likes to talk and connect with people. At the same time he isn’t someone whom you can describe as a people’s person. There is a thin yet rather strong veil between him and those around him… a veil which he wants to keep for his true self to remain hidden. 

What does he want from life? Hmmm… it would be incorrect to say everything. This man has desires that go beyond everything. The word ‘enough’ does not exist in his lexicon. Be it success, material comforts, love or happiness… he wants more of it all. His ambition drives him from one milestone to the next. He ‘must’ have the best of everything life has to offer and he will stop at nothing to achieve it.  How is he when in love? A Capricorn guy is a romantic. There, now I have gone and trapped myself by making such a statement. It’s true he is a romantic but his definition of ‘romantic’ is slightly different from the

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rest of us. And that’s why I said I have trapped myself… because now I will have to delve into what makes him a romantic, albeit a different one. You will hardly ever notice a Capricorn man in love. Not because he can’t be in love, but because he won’t show it. He will not shout from rooftops or pour his story into eager ears. On the contrary he will be very subtle and even shy in displaying his love. By the time he is mature enough to know what true love is, he has mastered the art of controlling his emotions. This makes him conceal his feelings and act unperturbed. But actually inside he is steaming with untold fantasies and bursting with energy.  While dating him you should… …never forget his definition of romance. It saves trouble in the long run. He will take you to the best restaurants, buy you gifts, whisper sweet nothings and be very funny and amiable. But it is likely that this behaviour won’t continue beyond the courting period. I am not implying here that this guy is a fake. He’s not! He means every word and every gesture but he is too practical to continue this kind of behaviour once in a steady relationship. It is for you to understand how things change as a relationship progresses and accept the transformation. He won’t actually give you any cause to complain as he will be a good companion to you, with his feet firmly rooted. Remember, his constant reality checks! You will have to believe in him and his dreams if you wish to have a long term relationship with him. 

Compatibility quotient Compatibility is a much used term in behavioural study. A Capricorn male is undoubtedly popular for his flamboyant style and persona. But does that make him compatible in a long term relationship? Find out for yourself. Capricorn man and… Aries woman: 8/10. A workable combination but both will have to work a lot to make it a happy one. Expect lots of sparks. The Capricorn guy needs to be more expressive to meet up the vivacity of the Aries woman, or at least be able to put up with it. And she will have to make do with his usual reserved way of life. Taurus woman: 8/10. An excellent match for both! The Taurus girl knows how to trust and love a man, while the Capricorn guy knows how to make a woman feel secure and comfortable. She also has the ability to make him relax in her company with her good humour. 

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Gemini woman: 5/10. Both will have to walk a long way to be on the same plane. It is impossible to rein-in the free spirit of a Gemini and the Capricorn guy will find this disconcerting. Cancer woman: 7/10. Once the Capricorn guy is able to match the Cancer girl’s emotional quotient to some extent, this relationship can work out to be simply perfect. He needs to be more expressive of his feelings and more understanding of hers. Leo woman: 8/10. A Leo woman has qualities that the Capricorn guy hates; for instance excessive socializing. While he is way too predictable to suit her fancy, I have given them an eight…he will love her for her determination and she will appreciate his dependability. Virgo woman: 9/10. A great match for both! These two are quite compatible as they understand each other implicitly. Each can act as an anchor and a source of support for the other. Libra woman: 5/10. Again a midway deal! While both love the nicer things in life, the level of extravagance in a Libra girl can be a little too much for the Capricorn guy to digest. Moreover, she is likely to get bored of his sombre nature sooner than later. But with compromises, this can be a workable relationship. Scorpio woman: 9/10. The Scorpio girl is the Capricorn guy’s real dream girl. She has the right amount of vivacity to make him comfortable and she can win him over easily with her devotion and loyalty. He in turn will give her a strong shoulder to lean on. Sagittarius woman: 4/10: Trouble is likely to brew between the two, after the courtship period. The essential differences in their personalities will make them take offence at the drop of a hat. Overall, a difficult relationship! Capricorn woman: 7/10: This relationship can go a long way. Both are intense and dependable by nature, with the right amount of humour. But he will have to rein his hovering eye, while she will have to be a little less possessive. The only thing that can make this relationship work is effective communication. Aquarius woman: 4/10: Both would require putting in extra efforts to make this alliance work. A Capricorn man may find the Aquarian free spirit and feminism a bit too much to take to. Pisces woman: 9/10: Whoa! Now we’re talking! This is a woman the Capricorn guy will love since she will never try to dominate him. She can be completely feminine and dependant on him and he is capable of taking care of her fragile self (a role she enjoys playing even if that’s not her true self in some cases.) This relationship would be ideal. Capricorn men celebrities/personalities: Elvis PresleyTiger Woods

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 Capricorn woman – December 22 to January 19 Introduction: A cool breeze wrapping you up on a sunny day or a hot mug of coffee spreading warmth on a rain drenched evening… if you are familiar with these experiences, you would know what to expect from a Capricorn woman. She is warm, friendly, easy to be with and compassionate; the kind of person who instantly strikes you as ‘nice’. A Capricorn woman is innately nice and warm which makes her friendliness genuine; there is nothing put on about her attitude. She makes it her business to keep everybody around her comfortable, albeit in a graceful way.  How to identify a Capricorn woman in a crowd? A lively and bubbly woman gliding across gracefully, with a warm smile for everyone… this one’s got to be a Capricorn female. These women have the natural quality of standing out in a crowd with their liveliness and good humour without being over the top. A Capricorn woman is always subtle, be it her words or behaviour. While deep in conversation, she will be totally absorbed and attentive towards the subject and will hardly notice the presence of a stranger in the crowd. But if she catches you staring at her, she is very likely to blush with self-consciousness… a blush that easily melts into a smile as she is artlessly friendly and approachable.  What are the finer traits of her personality? A heart-winning quality that Capricorn women possess is simplicity. Beneath all kinds of outer facades lies a simple and non-materialistic heart. However, lack of materialism does not necessarily make her desire-less, on the contrary, she aspires to all things good and wants the best for herself and her loved ones. She is also a ‘quality’ over ‘quantity’ woman, so don’t be surprised if the Capricorn woman in your life prefers having a single pair of branded shoes rather than six non-tagged or average quality ones.  

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Capricorn women are high on emotions and can get high with emotions. But the strong practical front of their personality evens out the towering emotional quotient. Pragmatic in every approach towards life, a Capricorn woman is often engaged in thinking out the how’s and why’s of life’s many mysteries. Her practical nature helps her strike a balance and not go over-board with emotions.  What does she look for in a man? It is strange yet true that the docile Capricorn woman gets turned on by aggressive and powerful men (in strength, attributes or attitude). I guess this is a case of opposite attracts! She is often attracted towards tall muscular men (who exude power). This can be said to stem from her need to be protected. In a relationship, she desires protection and security. And brawn can easily represent all that. However, you don’t always get what you see and she is well aware of that. How is a Capricorn woman when in love? Given her intense devotion for her family, a Capricorn woman can turn drastically once she finds the love of her life. Once she falls in love, she does so blindly. For her love she will be ready to battle it out with her family – the very family that she adores. Moreover, her love comes with no conditions attached. She will go to great lengths to attain her love. Falling in love is a calculated risk and she is ready to plunge into a commitment without bothering to confirm if it is all worth it. And if at all her instinct goes wrong, she has enough pride not to go back to her family or seek assistance from them. How does she deal with her emotions? Her face is a reflection of her emotions as she is not very good at hiding them. At times she comes across as emotionless and cold, but if one is able to penetrate this barrier, her emotions flow like music where there is no need for words. And a smile is enough to brighten her countenance. A Capricorn woman has great inner strength; she is resilient and determined in her actions. At the same time she is not entirely emotionally independent. And this is one of her dark secrets. In spite of her pragmatism and belief in her independence, she needs the support of a man. She always gives her spouse or the man in her life ample of space. And although she likes to believe that she too requires this space, she actually wants her man to protect her always. She needs a strong shoulder to lean on and a protective cocoon to live in. Is there something more to her persona? 

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She has a low battery life; her energy store is rather limited. She is too lazy to help herself but when it comes to others she will use the last ounce of her energy to help them especially family and loved ones. She does manage to recharge her batteries for things she likes to do though could be a late night movie or outing or to please her loved ones. Capricorn women are known to grow younger with age. That is because the child in her is hiding just below the surface, playful and ever ready to spring into action. This child-like quality makes her as appealing to a three year old child as to a sixty year old. Being warm and friendly towards people of all age groups comes naturally to a Capricorn woman. Compatibility quotient A Capricorn woman is friendly and easy to be with but that doesn’t make her compatible with all. When it comes to love and long-term relationship, one needs to understand the complete behavioral traits of two individuals. With a Capricorn woman on one side of the scales, let’s see who has the capacity to ‘weight’ it out on the other. Capricorn woman and… Aries man: 9/10. The Aries man is the kind of guy who can sweep women of their feet; add to that his chivalrous nature and fondness for grandeur which the Capricorn secretly likes, and she’ll gladly gives in. Her being naturally submissive and patient, can work in favour of this relationship. The Arien however will have to keep a check on his unruly temper and tongue. Other than that everything a Capricorn woman can dream of, from romance to passion, and what she wants her man to be or do is found in an Arien man. The Aries man would play the perfect Romeo to our Capricorn Juliet, with the fire burning bright throughout the course of this relationship. Taurus man: 8/10. This relationship can be for keeps. Both are responsible and dependable and hence will be able to take care of each other. He is romantic and she is mature enough to effectively manage matters of the heart and home. Some Taurus men can be chauvinists and that could be a big no-no. But other than that love could blossom here. Gemini man: 6/10. A difficult, yet not impossible match. He is too fond of his freedom to give her emotional need its due. He is also a lady charmer, which can leave her frustrated. She would need to accept his love for freedom and he would have to be patient with her to work this out. His diplomatic tricks are a turn-off for her as she looks for genuineness. Once he gives in and surrenders she can be cool about most things with him. Cancer man: 6/10. Although it kick-starts as an intense affair, it is not likely to be fruitful in the long run. While each may find the other attractive, it is not necessarily a lasting impression. The major hitch here would be lack of communication. Also, a Cancerian man is a mix of conservative and liberal ideas which would leave her confused as she always seeks clarity and direction when making commitments. 

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Leo man: 6/10. Between a Capricorn girl and a Leo guy, understanding is the key. If they understand each other, their relationship will work. She may find his extravagance and attention hogging nature a little too much to take, while he may be impatient with her lack of expression. Virgo man: 7/10.  A Virgo man might be the answer to a Capricorn girl’s need for security but that is if he knows how to share and also be graceful. While he will have to keep his flirting nature under strict check, her intense attitude will bring the best of his emotions to the forefront. However, he will have to make sure he gets his priorities in order and not take advantage of the cool Capricorn. She needs love and emotional security at all times! Libra man: 7/10. This relationship can swing both ways. Both are too dissimilar for a long lasting relationship. He attracts too much female attention which she dislikes, and he is too disorganised which she can’t stand. But perhaps both can tweak their natures to suit each other and make a relationship possible. If he turns out to be a guy who is not just a dreamer but also an achiever/provider, she could find solace. Scorpio man: 8/10. A Scorpio man can bring a Capricorn woman’s feelings out in the open, thanks to his vivacity, while she will make him feel secure with her devotion and loyalty. In a way, they complement each other wonderfully. On passion (not romance/love) front however the Capricorn woman will have to keep up with him for a lifetime which I am not very sure she is capable of. Sagittarius man: 8/10: An amazing start and this relationship would be one helluva roller coaster ride. However, this duo can see a lot of problems once the initial courtship is over. A lot of compromises would be required to make this relationship a success. But his knowledge, philosophies and visionary nature do match her intellectual self. Capricorn man: 7/10: Many of the stronger traits of both males and females under the Capricorn sign are common. That’s why this relationship can work wonders. However, both should learn to emote and express themselves. Only when they are communicative will they be able to reach out to each other. Otherwise, it would be one boring, romance-less relationship. Aquarius man: 8/10: A relationship between these two will blossom like friendship. The easy and outgoing nature of an Aquarian can gel well with the steady and cautious Capricorn girl. Pisces man: 8/10: The Piscean is intense, dreamy and spiritual and this concoction is just right to suit the tastes of a Capricorn girl. She is reliable, trusting and loyal, which makes her appealing to him. She has the capacity to believe in his dreams and with such support he is quite sure of fulfilling them. However he must not lose her along the path while pursuing his dreams as she could find herself lost and disheartened.  Famous Capricorn women celebrities/personalities: Paris Hilton

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AQUARIUS

Aquarius man      20 January – 19 February Introduction: He’s inquisitive, he’s ambitious, he’s energetic. He is a man who likes to know what’s on your mind, but is not one to disclose what’s on his. Secretive to the core, the Aquarian male is a strange combination of sociability and reserve. He has a lazy charm about him. Casual and laid-back, he takes life one day at a time. But his casual attitude stops when it comes to ambition. Goal oriented and focused, nothing will stop an Aquarian from realising his dreams. And when it comes to dating Aquarian men, girls can be sure of having a ball. The water bearer will impress the babes’ with his capers and comic timing. Every time you meet an Aquarian guy, you are sure to have a good laugh. And the spectrum of emotions that he displays like flashes of lightening will keep you intrigued.  How to identify an Aquarian man in a crowd?

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There are two distinct types of men under this zodiac sign. The Aquarian man falling under the first 40 per cent is cynical, opinionated and eccentric and shows strong traits of aggressiveness. He is loud and boisterous, and likes to strut his stuff- showing off what he bought, where he went and the like. Most of this kind are usually full of Me, Myself, I, and rarely see beyond themselves. The Aquarian man who falls under the balance 60 per cent is the passive type and exactly the opposite. He knows the power of underplay. Never loud or brash, he will not brag about his material gains even if it is a Ferrari he bought the previous day. What are the key features of his personality?Most Aquarian men I have met are full of energy. They are propelled into activities by an inner force. And this is true not withstanding their casual attitude. I have also observed that most Aquarian men are likeable people. They mingle in a crowd and make friends easily. In fact, an Aquarian man is most happy in company. He can connect with people of any age, gender or background easily. Also, Aquarians have the unique trait of chatting up women and end up showing more interest in them in a social gathering. His inherent secrecy will make these traits hard to spot the first time, but if you follow the pattern over a few times, it may become obvious.  Is there more to his persona?Aquarian men, like their female counterparts, make great show of self-confidence. They like to go on a talking spree about things they know nothing about. They project the image of being ‘master of all trades’ while in reality they are neither masters nor jacks. They cover up lack of knowledge and confidence by excessively exercising their tongues. Another thing they hate is being tied down. Pushing him to do what he is not ready to do yet is a sure way of losing him. He dislikes being controlled and would do as he pleases, whatever the repercussions. He will take up responsibilities only as and when they suit him. If duties are imposed on him, he will find a way to wriggle out of them or throw tantrums to show his disapproval. This trait makes him a difficult child too. No parent would know how to teach responsible behaviour to an Aquarian boy. So who can? Only life can be his teacher…and trust me he can’t have a better one!  How is he when in love?Very, very slow and calculative…that is not to say he is manipulative, but he likes to make his moves stealthily and with caution. Don’t take this as shyness or quietness. This man is only analysing you before making his move. As a lover, he is also full of surprises. He will woo you with the most unthinkable ideas and lure you into the most daring terrains. Be sure you fall in step with his ideas of honesty and commitment. Otherwise, his romance will take an instant U turn. Only if he is totally in love will

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he open up and lay bare his secrets. While in a relationship with him, you should have the tact to draw him out of his reserve and see the man he truly is…underneath his strong facade of friendliness. Another quality he appreciates in his love interest is the ability to understand him and give him the warmth and care he requires. He looks for a friend in his partner, someone with whom he can share anything and everything.  While dating him you should… …treat your date like a mystery novel. The more you intrigue him, the more he will be enticed. Nothing delights an Aquarian guy more than unravelling mysteries or unlocking deep secrets. He will probe into your innermost thoughts and desires making you feel like you are the one for him. But hold on… that’s just his nature. He would do that to any other person. Whether the relation between you two would reach the next level depends on how long you are able to sustain his interest. Another word of advice…this man is not a conventional lover. So what should be expected of him? Reciting poems? No! Expensive gifts? No! Romantic escapades, maybe? No! The answer is a good time. He can be funny, entertaining, romantic and protective in his own unique way. He can make you smile, laugh, blush and say yes to all his ideas…that’s the power of his presence. You will be floored by the innovative ways he thinks of wooing you and the unconventional ideas he follows to prove his love.  Compatibility quotientThe easy going Aquarian is everybody’s friend. He stresses a lot on building networks and being friendly with everyone, but when it comes to compatibility, one has to probe deeper into his psyche. What exactly does it mean for Aquarian men and women from other signs? Let’s find out. Aquarian man and… Aries woman: 7/10. Between these two it is a wait and watch game. While each may admire the other’s positive attributes, there would be small differences to contend with. But with a little bit of patience, they can hit a home run. Taurus woman: 6/10. This relationship is somewhere in the middle. He can give her a lesson or two on how to have some fun and she can mellow down his bizarre nature. If they go slow on their innate obstinacy (both have plenty of it), theirs’ can be a good combination. Gemini woman: 8/10. Adventurous, spontaneous and non-conformist. Who am I talking about? Both. They share each other’s prominent traits and therefore this relationship is likely to bring the house down! 

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Cancer woman: 3/10. A risky affair! Both are placed on opposite poles. He is too friendly and easy going to fit into her intense and serious nature. And she is too emotionally dependant to meet his intellectual requirements. Leo woman: 7/10. This relationship can be anything but boring. Filled with his unconventional behaviour and her powerful charm, their union can bring in a lot of crazy moments. But for a fruitful relationship, they would need to work hard on understanding each other.Virgo woman: 6/10. Initial attraction and a lot of misunderstanding later—that’s the briefest description of a Virgo-Aquarian combination. Things can work out between the two if they quit trying to improve the other. Libra woman: 9/10. A match well made! There is an evenness of attributes in this case—his adventurous spirit is balanced by her practicality and her intellectual mind is balanced by his impulsiveness. Scorpio woman: 7.5/10. A little hard work is required here. Their emotional disparity will madden them and ‘might’ make it difficult for them to tolerate each other. A long term relationship may wear them thin and suck out all the charm from their stimulating conversations. If the Scorpio is or can be submissive and graceful throughout, this combo could really work well. Sagittarius woman: 9.5/10: This one’s the icing on the cake! Filled with passion, romance and limited emotions, this relationship will work wonders for both. The independent spirit in both will only bring them closer. Capricorn woman: 7/10: A sustainable relationship that’s more likely to succeed as friendship rather than a romantic affair. If these too are thrown in together over a long drawn affair, they are likely to get tired of each other. Aquarius woman: 5/10: With his Aquarian counterpart, his relationship will be totally without ardour or depth. Since both live life on the surface, they will miss out on the deeper meaning of love and romance. Although their chemistry will be good, long term compatibility is a question mark. Pisces woman: 5/10: Both are too dissimilar to walk a common path. His love for adventure and fun-filled lifestyle will not go well with her serious and spiritual bent of mind. He in turn will find her too clingy and emotionally needy. Famous Aquarian men:John TravoltaAbraham LincolnAbhishek Bachchan

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Aquarius woman – 20 January – 19 February Introduction Pop goes the bottle cork and out springs bubbly, silvery streams of champagne. That’s pretty much how an Aquarius woman makes her entry into a room. Full of life and bursting with energy, she infuses everyone around with her electric presence. She is peppy and full of laughter. And one thing you can’t help but notice is her incessant chatter. How this woman loves to talk! There’s never a dull moment when she’s around as she is constantly hopping from one topic to another… giving her opinions and passing judgments. Aquarius women are by far the most forward looking tribe. They have a modern mindset and believe in living life with a meaningful purpose. The Aquarian girl has the ability to dream big and realize those dreams as well. Its game, set and match for this lady all the way! How can you identify an Aquarius woman in a crowd? An Aquarian woman is quite easy to spot. She is extremely chirpy and full of life. You will usually find her talking at the speed of lightening. She is capable of fitting more words in one breath than any other woman. She is always buzzing with energy and you are likely to see her involved in animated conversations and debates… speaking her mind, proving her point. Feminist to the core, she is a true original!  What are her general personality traits? I have found Aquarian women to be very unpredictable. They follow their own train of thoughts and seem preoccupied most of the time. These thoughts are responsible for their volatile nature as they mentally jump from one idea to the next in split seconds. An Aquarian female has her own set of rules, which she holds sacred. Not that she won’t allow you to have your own too, but any infringement on her way of living will not be taken in a good spirit. Her feminism and need for independence makes her crave for space more than any other woman. Give her ample of space to be herself and expect the same from her. She is highly opinionated and will hold her own no matter what. So if you are trying to impose your ideas upon her, think again. She is not the one to change her views under compulsion. 

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 An Aquarian female is a woman full of purpose. You will see her championing social causes and lending support to the less privileged. But whatever she does is done with complete conviction and sincerity. Most forward looking woman of all zodiac signs, an Aquarian expects the very best from future. She is optimistic and idealistic to a great extent and is very capable of dealing with social matters in the most graceful manner. What to expect from her on the following points: Appearance:Appearance wise Aquarius women fall into two categories. The first category is of those who sport a tom boyish look, from clothes to hairdos. This amounts to about 30-40% of them. While the rest are very dressy, detailed and extremely fashion conscious… a true emblem of femininity. Their dressing style is non-conventional and non-conformist in every sense. Their daring attitude is evident in the way they dress up and carry themselves. AmbitionAn Aquarian female is ambitious in two distinct ways: she is an achiever at heart and also craves for independence. So when she sets upon scaling the ambition ladder it is to reach the top position as well as to attain complete freedom. What does she want from life? She is definitely not the one to go for mediocre living. She has keen interest in clothes, perfumes and all things nice. These comforts are necessary to make her life complete and comes out of her feminine stance. Since most of Aquarian women are feminists, they are less dependent on family/spouse and are capable of attaining the life they desire all by themselves. What are the finer traits of her personality? The gift of gab that she possesses in abundance is actually her weak point. She uses her blabber power to cover up for lack of confidence or knowledge. She will spin instant yarns and talk nonsense with immense confidence to gloss over her ignorance. Her need for independence also makes her self-centered. Her attitude takes an inward turn when it comes to proving her point or getting her way. I have often found Aquarian women making compromises or sacrifices to suit their ambitions and not bother about those around her. Another highlight of my observations about Aquarian women is their intuitiveness. Here is a woman who is constantly delving about the future and what it holds for her. This persistent attention to what is likely to happen sharpens her intuition and you will find her coming up with many inspirational ideas. 

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How is an Aquarian woman in love? An Aquarian woman can be extremely emotional and sensitive. She is almost childish in her behaviour and can be unforgiving on silly issues. But flowers, chocolates, gifts and lot of flattery can undo everything at a speed you never imagined. Although she is emotional, she is a novice at expressing her emotions. If your love interest is an Aquarian woman, you may have to teach her to emote and show her love. Don’t take her lack of expression as stiff necked pride. It’s not that at all. She simply finds it difficult to put her heart out and express her love in words. She is the kind of person who will easily dismiss romantic ideas like holding hands and gazing into each other’s eyes as silly. But at the same time she will walk the extra mile just to be with you… for instance cut short her meeting to keep her date with you. This is the kind of faith she has in love. An Aquarian female is straightforward and doesn’t believe in mincing words. So if she walks up to you and says it’s over… then it is ‘over’. When in love she means every word she says… and this remains true of her even when she falls out of love too. Compatibility quotient Compatibility with an Aquarian girl is more than just matching her zing factor. To be her partner, you have to understand her need for independence and her deep rooted stand on feminism. However complicated she may appear, the mathematics of her life is quite simple…the man who wins her heart takes her home. Let’s find out what is the compatibility quotient she shares with males of different signs in the zodiac. Aquarius woman and… Aries man: 8/10. For once the Aries man will have to let go of his position as the ‘manager’ of things. The Aquarius girl will know exactly how to deal with the fiery Arian. She would know how to manage his anger and ego, while he would be delighted to infuse passion in this relationship. Her independent streak is likely to floor him completely. Taurus man: 6/10. This relationship is likely to start off well but soon after a ‘war of wills’ will be unavoidable. Add to that the disharmony between the conservative Taurean’s view and the radical Aquarian’s beliefs, and there will be constant discontent. Gemini man: 9/10. An instant hit! The adventurous Gemini is a true match for the sociable Aquarian. Both value each other as friends and their relationship will grow from strength to strength…thanks to their love for freedom and good conversation. Cancer man: 4/10. Long term compatibility has slim chances of existing in this relationship. The Aquarian woman lacks the depth and heart-warming love that a Cancer man craves for. 

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Leo man: 5/10. A difficult yet not impossible match. Both will have to make sincere efforts to make this relationship work. In short, the Leo man will have to think a little less about himself and more about her, while the Aquarian woman will have to think a little less about the world and more about him. Virgo man: 6/10. Once they know how to balance their outlook towards life, they can hit it off quite well. Since they have very little in common, they have to prepare a meeting ground for themselves. However, they do match up with each other on the ambition front. Libra man: 9.5/10. A brilliant match! Their relationship will make a great start with good amounts of love and friendship. He is intellectual enough to appeal to her and she is spontaneous enough to suit him. This relationship is likely to be comfortable for both. Scorpio man: 6/10. The Aquarian girl will find it difficult to take his bossy attitude and the Scorpio man will not find it easy to accept her outgoing ways. He is way too possessive for her comfort and this relationship is definitely not going to be an easy one for either of them. Sagittarius man: 9/10. An excellent pair. The Sagittarian man and Aquarian woman share an unmatched understanding of each other. He is creative and she is intelligent and both are good at conversing. Capricorn man: 7/10 This match will demand too many compromises on both ends. If he tries to dominate her too much, there may be a tug-of-war between them over authority and freedom. Aquarius man: 8/10: Great chemistry! Since both share a lot in common, it is a match that can be an instant hit. But both will have to learn to curb their frivolous nature. Their independent outlook will help them forge a comfortable relationship. Pisces man: 4/10: They have too many opposite traits to reach a common ground. He is too emotionally dependent, while she desires absolute freedom. He seeks a warm and understanding partner, while she is too involved with her social activities to be with him 24x7. Famous Aquarian women:Jennifer AnistonPreity ZintaShakira 

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Pisces man - February 19-March 20  Introduction: This zodiac has been assigned the sign of fishes. But there is nothing ‘fishy’ about the Pisces man. Outgoing and easily approachable, he has all that it takes to be a gentleman. The only characteristic he has akin to a fish is that he loves to swim in deep waters. Mystery, isolation and sympathy are dear to him and you will find a good listener in your Piscean friend. When you meet a Pisces male recall the Piscean symbol—two fishes. The fishes are moving in opposite directions much like the Piscean mind. This does not mean confusion…it is simply indicative of the depths to which he can go with his mysticism or the heights he can achieve with his dreams. There’s nothing more realistic than dreams for a Piscean male. All in all, he’s a wonderful companion. So if you are friends with a Piscean, the only thing I can tell you is ‘Happy fishing’! 

How can you identify a Pisces man in a crowd? That’s a tricky one! Unless you are a part of the conversation involving a Piscean it is difficult to spot them in a crowd. Piscean men don’t possess overt qualities that set them apart from the milieu and if you are not keen in your observation, you are likely to miss identifying them. When amongst people, a Pisces man can be identified with the limited hints that he drops, namely, over-friendliness and opinionated conduct. Certain emotional reactions or comments, unsolicited advice and eagerness to comment or help are other giveaways. But all these signs are quite subtle as he is not aggressive in any of these traits. He is undoubtedly an extrovert but without being vociferous. One remarkable quality that sets him apart would be his keenness to help, with advice or action, anyone and everyone around. While this doesn’t make him a bad person, it can make him come across as interfering.  

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What are the key features of his personality? “I dream, therefore I am.” Piscean men are a personification of Strindberg’s (A Swedish playwright and writer) thoughts. Driven by ambition, the Piscean man believes in dreaming big. He is also adventurous and impulsive by nature, which only adds to his ambitiousness. Piscean men with the achiever spirit know how to welcome an opportunity when it comes knocking. They know how to make the most of everything. With ambition also comes the desire to draw out the best from life, including materialistic pleasures. For the Piscean man, getting the much coveted home theatre system or a fancy sports car or four wheel drive is also a part of success in life. What is his approach towards life? In two words, his mantra is ambition and adventure. For a Piscean man ambition takes precedence over all else. His ambition makes him aspire for all things good, including material pleasures. His nature is an odd mix of contradictions. Although you will find him generally satisfied with life, he will never be content with what he has achieved. For him each day comes with new challenges and aspirations. But it would be unfair to call him arduously ambitious. Although he likes to climb the ladder of success, he is never deceitful or mean in his intentions. He would rather give up his ambition than hurt anyone deliberately. And remember the dreamer that he is! His dreams are founded on idealistic goals; that’s why his ambitions are based on certain pre-defined ethics. And he is never aggressive about it either. Is there more to his persona? A Pisces male is artistic, creative and spiritual. He is highly intuitive and comes with a rather honed sixth sense. If you have an eye for detail you will see him enveloped in a spiritual aura. His intuitiveness makes it possible for him to see through people and it’s not easy to fool him. But he is also an emotional being and loves a sob story now and then. So he is easily entrapped by tales of sorrow. Usually he is ever ready to help people, by deed or money. Because of these qualities he is often misused. This can cause him much hurt. Given his sensitive nature, things like accusations, dishonesty, disloyalty and lack of faith don’t go down well with him. Since he is emotional and sensitive he is also easily hurt. Therefore it is necessary to give him space. He uses his personal space and time to revitalise his energies and you will usually find him replete with enthusiasm and zeal for life once he is out of hibernation. He is also secretive, which is another reason for his want of space. How is he when in love? If you are being pursued by a Pisces man, you will see the persuasive side of his nature in its full glory. The more you play hard to get, the more he will enjoy pursuing you. He will be all glib and slick in expressing his love and will say all the things a woman likes to hear. 

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But women who are in love with Pisces men should realise that their man has a goal oriented mindset. And whatever his romantic dreams may be, his ambitions will always be his topmost priority. I sometimes wonder whether ambition is the right word to use for a Piscean and I am using it here for want of a better one. Actually this guy is an idealist and his dreams are his goals. He fights and works to achieve his dreams. But how well he excels depends on how realistic his dreams are. If your partner is a Piscean, it will be up to you to back him in his plans. You need to be alert and clever enough to know if your man is actually stepping towards his aim or merely walking in a trance. Pisces men are committed to their relationships, but men being men, some Pisceans are no different. They are quite capable of promiscuity although they will not be able to handle it if they’re at the receiving end. While dating him you should… …be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside. Rather complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like. Pisces man and… Aries woman: 3/10. The Aries woman is too self-absorbed to understand the needs of a Pisces man. Such a relationship can work out only if the Aries female shows patience, understanding and gentleness. Taurus woman: 6/10. With a Taurean, the relationship will be harmonious as both are easy-going and dependable. Gemini woman: 5/10. This combination might result in clashes as there is likely to be a battle between the Gemini’s pragmatism and the Piscean wistfulness. Cancer woman: 8/10. A relationship between a Piscean guy and a Cancer girl is likely to work out, given their emotional, sensitive and sympathetic nature, with a soft corner for filial ties. Leo woman: 4/10. This is a case of opposites attract and both will need to make many adjustments to make this relationship work.

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 Virgo woman: 6/10. Again opposite forces are at work, but there are no conflicts involved. Libra woman: 4/10. Although they share a lot in common, the essential nature of both the signs is quite paradoxical. Scorpio woman: 8/10. Here there is a right balance between similarities and dissimilarities and therefore the compatibility amongst these two signs is strong. Sagittarius woman: 4/10: The fundamental features of these two signs are quite different with Sagittarians being very straightforward and Pisceans being subtle, making it a difficult relationship that will need lots of efforts. Capricorn woman: 7/10: There is a certain level of harmony between these signs as both are emotional, intuitive and introspective. Aquarius woman: 4/10: The passive Piscean can never match the ardour of the exuberant Aquarian. Moreover, Aquarians are more practical than emotional, something that just doesn’t gel with the Piscean nature. Pisces woman: 9/10: One couldn’t ask for a better match! The Pisces man and woman get along really well with each other, complementing each other’s sensitivity.  Famous Pisces men celebrities/personalities: Bruce WillisGeorge WashingtonEdward KennedyAamir KhanZakir Hussain 

Pisces woman - February 19 - March 20 Introduction: Ever met a woman who looks at you with eyes that are searching your very soul? Or if she looks away she’s glancing around the room looking for Mr. Perfect? She could well be a Pisces

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woman. Always on a look out for something, Piscean females constantly have a ‘I’m looking for someone or something’ gaze in their deep pocket eyes. The Zodiac has been assigned the sign of fishes. There is a ‘possibility’ that there is something fishy about one out of three Pisces woman. How to spot a Piscean woman?                               The first impression a Piscean girl makes on an onlooker is that she is made of glass. Ever seen those delicately designed crystal figures at display windows throwing a spectrum of light? That’s how a Piscean will appear on first look. She will seem as fragile and brittle as crystal… not to mention as exclusive and expensive.In a social setting it is not difficult to spot her. If you are fairly observant, you will notice a Piscean woman to be totally feminine… she will laugh gracefully at the loudest of wisecracks, she will hold her drink with delicacy and eat with the propriety of British royalty.And if you still can’t make up your mind if the girl next to you is a Piscean or not, just wait till you are invited to take your seats at the dinner table. If she is waiting for you to pull up her chair, be rest assured she is a Piscean. The true lady will always expect men around her to behave in the most gentlemanly way possible. How does she score on the following points? Appearance: Here’s one woman who knows how to dress, nay, dares to dress as she likes. Both kinds of Piscean women are always well dressed in an utmost feminine manner. Some have a prominent jaw line, while some have a fuller face (can be because of her obsession for chocolates and pastries).A Piscean female is as comfortable in flowing dresses as in skimpy outfits and has no qualms even about a little cleavage display or bare back styled tops. In her private space, she is more likely to be in the flimsiest of lingerie. Ambition: A good number of Piscean women are overly ambitious. This tendency may arise from their love for materialistic pleasures or creating their mark. Their determination to achieve their ambition is not just steady but downright tenacious. A determined Piscean woman will work relentlessly towards her goal; she is not one to shy off from hard work. But her resolve can make her take alternative paths too… like marrying a rich man. One way she takes to achieve this is meeting the right people at the right time. She has no misgivings about ‘using’ people to forward her cause. It’s not that all of them are like that!  What are the general traits of her personality? The materialistic kind of Piscean woman is aggressive albeit gracefully. She is caring and loving although a little sly. She is extremely impulsive, but her impulsiveness is governed by self made standards. And she upholds these criteria with utmost tenacity. She is so focused on attaining her goals that she is likely to risk or entirely give up a relationship if someone more

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powerful/richer/charming comes along. To put it differently, she understands her materialistic desires and knows how to get her priorities right. She’s not the one to back a loser, no matter how much love is lost in the process.The other kind of Piscean females is looking for compatibility rather than material comfort. They are not above material desires, but their ultimate aim is to be with someone whom they can call a soul mate. This kind is more emotional and submissive.There’s something Barbie-like about her… endearing, naughty yet elegant. She can carry off even a regular outfit like a pair of blue jeans and white tees with finesse. Given her passion for dressing up, she can be a big tease too. And this holds true of both kinds of Piscean women. What does a Piscean woman share with her male counterpart? Quite a few things… namely compassion, high emotional quotient and spirituality. Like a Pisces male, the female too feels deep compassion for others and hence is a good listener.If you are in trouble you can trust your Piscean friend to support you and help you look for solutions.Since she is emotionally charged, she draws a lot of energy from her emotions. Like her counterpart she has oceans of energy within her and all she needs to do in dive within to rejuvenate herself. Hence the essential ‘my time’ is close to her heart. How is a Piscean woman in love? Having said everything about her desires for materialistic fulfillment, I would like to add that a Piscean woman is actually a romantic at heart. She wants a man who can love and cherish her and most importantly protect her. This is true of the emotional kind of Pisceans, who are generally afraid of being hurt by others.She likes love to grow upon her… her idea of romance is a gradual progress of things. Make sure your courtship period is as per her standards or she will turn on her heel and disappear. Another reason for this is her innate shyness about love.When you whisper sweet nothings into her ears, while wooing her for love, make sure you mean every word you say. Merely quoting Shakespeare ain’t going to help! A Piscean woman has the ability to see through deceit and fake charms. Compatibility quotient: Here’s a brief summary of the compatibility ratio between Pisces women and men of the other zodiac signs. Given the two kinds of Pisces women (as well as two kinds of men under the other signs), these observations are subjective. While there might be exceptions, the below mentioned compatibility quotient is by and large applicable to all. Pisces woman and… Aries man: 7/10. With Aries men and Pisces women it’s rather hard to say which way the relationship will go. It all depends on the Arian’s capacity to be subtle and give her space and the Piscean’s ability to cope with his dominance. On the romance and passion front they may score a

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nine on 10 as they are a perfect match. On general compatibility they can either be a good match or a disaster because of their egos. Taurus man: 9/10. This combination can hit the bull’s eye. The Piscean vulnerability and volatility will be balanced by the Taurean practicality and steadfastness. The Taurus man can be quite a charmer and a romantic and that can keep them glued forever. Gemini man: 4/10. Both of them would need to be madly in love and eager to adjust in order to make this relationship work. The Gemini’s penchant for change will keep the Piscean on edge, while his emotional fickleness can play havoc on her sensibility. Cancer man: 9/10. A romantic alliance, the Cancer man will be able to fulfill the Piscean’s need for ever lasting love. He has the capacity to shower her with care, attention and understanding, while the Piscean can be her true romantic self with a Cancer male. All in all, great chemistry! Leo man: 8/10. The Piscean is the necessary feminine presence in the lion’s life. She would give him a good home and he will be allowed to rule it as he pleases. If he’s able to keep his anger and unruly tongue in check, this duo can go places. Virgo man: 6/10. The barely-emotional and self-centered Virgo man is a complete mismatch for the sensitive Piscean. She will never be able to accept and cope up with his neglectful attitude and any relationship between these two is likely to result in a disaster unless the Virgo male is more grounded in terms of relationship management and also happens to be a romantic. Libra man: 6/10. This may seem a great combination to begin with, but once the romance wears out the relationship will prove to be very demanding. Both of them would need to look beyond their selves to make their love long lasting. Scorpio man: 9/10. Bring it on! A Scorpio man can strike an instant bond with a Piscean girl. Both are capable of meeting each other on the same emotional level. Of course the Scorpion will have to keep his possessiveness in check. Apart from that everything will be hunky dory in this relationship. Sagittarius man: 5/10: Not easy, not comfortable, not possible! This is how either of them would react if the relationship is stretched too long. Although they may hit off on the first date, the chasm between dreamland (Pisces) and reality (Sagittarius) is too gaping to be ignored. But the, practical, easy-going and submissive Pisces woman might score higher (8/10). Capricorn man: 9/10: Almost felt like giving a 10 here! This is a perfect recipe for a long lasting relationship. He is the man for her…strong, capable and caring, while she is thewoman for him—one who lets him dominate. If he keeps his flirtatiousness under control, this relationship is for keeps. 

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Aquarius man: 5/10: Here again is a case of opposites. Although opposites attract, they seldom stick together for long. His thinking mind will find her an emotional muddle and her femininity will be crushed under his grossly liberal thinking. Pisces man: 9/10: Since both the Pisces man and woman have so much in common, they make for a great match. Of course the catch here is that they will have to combat their weaknesses to make their relationship a success.  Famous Pisces women celebrities/personalities: Drew BarrymoreSharon StoneElizabeth TaylorCindy Crawford 

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