The body and mind’s reaction to everyday demands or threats.
Stress can be useful or harmful, energizing or exhausting.
How each person reacts to the stressful situation, will often determine the effect it will have on the person
Stress: Stress: neutral
stress which often challenges people in their day to day tasksSchoolWorkAthleticsObligationsDeadlinesExpectations
Eustress: Eustress: positive
stress which helps people to meet their goalsScoring the winning
points in a gameGetting a new jobGoing on a dateGetting a promotionGetting a good gradeBeing recognized for
a job well done
Distress: Distress: negative
stress which can cause too much pressure and trauma in ones lifeOverworkedFailing a classParents divorceGetting fired from a
jobDeath of a loved one
Stressors: The source of stress
in each persons life; people, places, and things that cause stress in day to day lifeBiologicalEnvironmentalCognitivePersonal BehaviorLife Situations
Identify Stressors in Your Life
Common Stressors:
HealthProblems
Drugs/Alcohol
Girlfriend/Boyfriend
FuturePlans Activities
Sports
Peers
Finances
Jobs
Family
School
YOU
Stress Response: Alarm-Initial Reaction: the 1st stage of
the response to the stressful situation; when the body and mind are on high alert and the stress response is initiated
Resistance Response: the 2nd stage of the response to the stressful situation; when the body is attempting to repair any damage that has been done by the stress
Fatigue-Exhaustion: the 3rd stage of the response to the stressful situation; when the stress is not adequately dealt with, the body breaks down and health problems result
Reacting & Responding to Stressors:
Stress Tolerance: The amount of stress
that someone can handle before they reach a state of too much stress and they experience fatigue and breakdown
Warning Signs of Overstressed: Severe Headaches or Migraines Nausea, Diarrhea, Vomiting, Constipation Chronic Fatigue-Lack of Energy Insomnia (Sleeplessness) Lack of Memory-Unable to Concentrate Irregular Menstruation Decreased Sex Drive Lack of Appetite Emotional Mood Swings
Stress and Health Problems Drug and/or Alcohol Abuse Loneliness and Depression Suicide Attempts Psychological Problems Ulcers Stroke Heart Attack Emotional or Mental Illness Weakened Immune System-Frequent Illness
Stress and Personalities: Type A: competitive, high achieving;
thrives on high stress lifestyle
Type B: laid back, non-competitive; avoids stressful situations
Passive: wimpy, crumbles under pressure, easily influenced by others
Assertive: firm and positive, stands up for personal beliefs, takes control of situations, influences others
in a positive way
Aggressive: hostile, forceful, intimidating, bully’s beliefs on others
Ego Defense Mechanism
EGO:
Self
DEFENSE:
Protection
MECHANISM:
Strategies used to help reduce stress levels
when stressful situations occur
Common Ego Defense Mechanisms: Rationalization: making excuses and justifying behavior
to cover up the stressful situation Denial: pretending that the stressful situation never
occurred Projection: blaming someone else to avoid being
stressed by the situation Displacement: taking out frustration on someone or
something that had nothing to do with the stressful situation
Substitution: replacing one action for another to conceal the stressful situation
Compensation: settling for something less than what was expected to relieve stress
Regression: resorting to child-like behaviors to relieve the stress
Interpersonal Conflicts: stress caused by conflicts between two people or groups of peopleArguments or disagreements with other people
Internal Conflicts: stress caused by conflicts that occur within the person themselvesBeing torn between doing what is right for the
moment, and what is right in the long run
Conflict Resolution Strategy:
T: Take a Time Out (at least 30 minutes)
A: Allow Each Person To Present Their Point of View
L: Let Each Person Ask Questions
K: Keep Brainstorming to Find the BestSolution for Both Parties
Stress Management Skills: Set & Prioritize Goals Budget Your Time Learn to Say No Slow Down Take a Time Out Relax & Have Fun Get Regular Exercise Eat Healthy Get 7-10 hrs. of Sleep
per Night Have a Support System
Coping Strategies: Have Plans B, C, D, E
ready to go when plan A doesn’t work out
Take a “Power Nap” when needed
Talk your problems out with a friend or a professional
If your Lost, stop and ask for directions
Laugh and Have Fun