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Stepping Stones

A healing journey

By

Julia C. Kocsis

Stepping Stones

A healing journey

By

Julia C. Kocsis

Stepping Stones

A healing journey

By

Julia C. Kocsis

Edited by Garry Hannam

Copyright © 2017 Julia C Kocsis

All rights reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-6480839-3-1

About the Author

Julia was a nurse for

over thirty years. For

fifteen of those

years she was also

an Aged Care Quality

Officer and for six of

those years was an

Aged Care Quality

Manager. Julia left a

corporate position to pursue her

passion – practising healing.

Julia is qualified in Reikki/Seichim,

Therapeutic Touch, Reconnective

Healing®, The Reconnection®

and is a Licensed Grace Method©

Practitioner/Trainer.

Julia founded The Real You Connection

and E.L.S.I. Healing which trades under

The Real You Connection.

Julia adjusts the healing to your needs

and does these in the Blue Mountains

NSW Australia or by distance.

Introduction

This little book is for anyone wanting to

understand more about how they can

supplement their own and others

wellbeing by experiencing a different

perspective to heal. Often it is only

when people tire of not feeling well

when they’ve tried all other medical

options that they finally resort to

booking someone like me.

Because of centuries of stigma against

people with healing abilities this

mindset has stuck but more and more

the glue is becoming undone and we are

all realising that there is more to this

than meets the eye. Shamans and

indigenous people have understood this

for time immemorial. Scientists now

have the evidence of what this is and are

creating machines to emanate what

healers can do. And we are not the only

ones, you have this ability. You just need

to tap into it and experience it for

yourself. At a young age I realised I have

this ability and set out to understand it.

This is my healing journey and I hope

that by the end of this book you too will

have a clearer picture of this ability we

all share.

Dedication

I dedicate this book to all my many clients that trusted me in your healing

journey.

I wouldn’t have learned what I did without you.

To you I am most grateful.

To you, a heartfelt thank you!

Contents

TV show, a spider and a life time quest 1

My stepping stones — the first step ... 4

Natural abilities —stepping stone two 8

A new finding - Stepping stone number

three ..................................................... 13

Changing direction — stepping stone

four ...................................................... 20

Lesson learned — stone five .............. 26

My remote ledge healing – stone six .. 41

Sound healing—stepping stone seven

.............................................................. 46

You’ve got this .................................... 58

References:.......................................... 78

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TV show, a spider and a life time quest

At 5 years old I watched a cartoon movie

about a man (Jesus) who put his hands

over people and they were healed. I also

recalled hearing people say such things

as ‘as above, so below’ and ‘man was

made in the image of God’. The next day

(after the TV show) I was sitting in the

driveway fascinated by a spider when

my brother ran past and stepped on

some of it. Some of its legs were

buckled up. So I figured that if I’m made

in the image of God and Jesus is a man

who can heal, then so can I. So intending

the spider would be OK, I held my hand

over the spider and to my surprise it ran

away. It was no longer crippled up. I

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couldn’t believe what just happened.

But that sparked my curiosity and I

never forgot it. You may not believe it

but I’m telling you that’s what

happened.

My mum believes everything alternative

and my dad has always been a big

sceptic, who needed proof -scientific

proof before he’d believe anything. I

was influenced by both.

I became a nurse but always had an

interest in alternative things. I studied

herbs, iridology and massage that I used

on friends and family. Whenever I did a

massage on people I could feel an

instinctiveness. My intuition would

guide my hands to somewhere and I’d

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feel my hands tingling and would be

drawn to just one area, then another

area. My palms would get hot and

they’d tingle. I yearned to understand

what this was but didn’t know where to

start.

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My stepping stones — the first step

I was around 25 when mum booked us

into a Reikki Seichim course. The

teacher explained that someone in

Japan intuitively received the Reikki

healing symbols and at the same time in

South America, someone received

those same symbols only they called it

Seichim. It was great but by the end of

the weekend I was told I’m a Reikki

master and that’s what the certificate

says. That didn’t sit well with me. I

always thought no-one is a ‘master’ until

they’ve spent a long time of practise

and have mastered their skill, are

completely confident and know all

about it. To me, a master is where they

can confidently teach their skill without

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a second thought or anyone second

guessing them and they are the go to

person. The person with a lot of

experience.

Anyway, the day after the Reikki

Seichim course I was nursing a man with

emphysema. We’d wheel him to the

ensuite toilet on a commode chair with

his long oxygen tubing and walk him

back for exercise with a lot of help while

he struggled to breathe. This day when

he finished using the toilet he didn’t

have the strength to get up off the chair.

I offered him some Reikki and he gave

me a strange look. Back then if I were to

mention Reikki or healing it was taboo,

so no-one ever knew and as he had

some dementia I knew he’d forget. I

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explained what it was and he agreed

with a frown. So while he sat there I

gave him some Reikki and after a couple

minutes I asked him to stand up. He

jumped up without help and walked

back without a problem and with me

only standing by. Another man came in

suffering a delirium. He was confused,

talking nonsense out loud and was

hallucinating, plucking things out of the

air. I escorted him in the ambulance to a

nearby bigger hospital for a CT scan

because our hospital didn’t have one. At

the scan he couldn’t lie still. To my

pleasant surprise the radiographer says

“I’ll give him some Reikki”. I said “You

work at his head, I’ll work at his feet”.

We did for two minutes and he settled

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long enough for us to take the scan. I

was starting to see that this is more

popular than I first thought and that it

works, even if only temporarily at times.

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Natural abilities —stepping stone two

I spent a year doing a Parapsychology

course called The Higher Self-

Connection with The Australian

Academy of Applied Parapsychology.

Parapsychology is just another term for

natural abilities we all have that the

majority of people think is beyond

normal (well that’s my interpretation).

We’ve just lost touch with these abilities

and they can be developed. At the same

time I was spending every 2nd Monday

evening with a Shaman (four years in all)

who is a life time friend. We practised

healing and other Shaman abilities.

We fine-tuned feeling the human body

field (auras; measured as the

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electromagnetic field that emanates

around our body) and practised seeing

them. Seeing them was easy for me as I

could always see them and didn’t realise

until I was 8 years old that many other

people couldn’t. We learned all about

the auric field and what different

colours and objects in them meant. If

there was a hole in it or an area that

lacked energy we learned how to bring

it back into balance. We learned all

about Chakras and how to do a Chakra

clearing and balance. We practised

healing and meditating with crystals.

We meditated every evening which was

part of our homework.

Crystals expand our healing ability and

each have different qualities that affect

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the energy fields for different organs in

our body. (See Gem research in the

References pages). Some crystals draw

energy and you’d use these to help

remove a heavy energy and some

magnify the healing energies.

We also practised other fun things that

have nothing specific to healing, so I’m

not mentioning that here.

Chakra clearing and balancing

I had a friend who called me. His wife

had been oversees for months and

she’d just broken up with him. He

couldn’t focus. Every two minutes he

was outside having a cigarette. Then

he’d sit for a minute and he’d be up

making another cup of tea or out for

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another cigarette. We got on well and

used to meditate together. I asked him

what was wrong and when he told me, I

explained and offered him a Chakra

clearing and balancing. He was eager to

try it and following it he was feeling

peaceful. He told me the next morning

that he was back to his normal self,

decided to ditch his wedding ring and

was able to make clear decisions. He felt

great and losing her didn’t concern him

anymore. He downloaded a Chakra

healing meditation and every night after

that listened to it as he went to sleep.

His wife returned from overseas and

they got back together but she didn’t

realise he was now also seeing someone

else. When she found out, she was an

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emotional wreck. I told her about

Chakra clearing and balancing and its

effects. I ran one on her and it had the

same effect as her husband. She had

clarity of thought. She said “I’d pay for

that”. She found a lady who did Chakra

dancing and learned a different way to

keep her Chakras energised and

balanced. A doctor where I worked

asked me to use this on her patients that

were emotionally in turmoil over the 12

months I worked there and each had the

same results as those two.

Research has found that Chakras

coincide perfectly with areas of

neuropeptide enrichment.

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Stepping stone number three

I was working in an aged care facility

when a friend asked if I wanted to do a

Therapeutic Touch (TT) course with her

and a third person. She said we have

permission if three of us do this as they

can claim funding in the RCS (the old

Australian residential aged care funding

system). So we found another nurse and

the three of us did Units 1, 2 and 3. It’s a

hands off healing system developed by

a nursing professor, Delores Krieger in

New York, after she realised that people

weren’t healing as quickly as they used

to and wondered what had changed.

She realised that it could be something

to do with machines now doing what

people used to, like monitoring vital

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signs. So she went to a healers

conference and asked healers what it is

they do and why. People said things like

‘they are compelled to do it’, ‘it’s a gift’,

etc. One lady named Dora Kunz said that

she grew up on a rubber plantation in

Indonesia and can see auras. Everyone

there could. When someone falls and

hurts their knee we could see that

normally where the aura flows, there’d

be a stuck, dark area and we’d clear it

with our hands. They’d heal quicker that

way. Delores and Dora travelled the

world speaking to tribes and Shamans

learning everything they could about

healing and they developed Therapeutic

Touch or TT.

Years of research in regard to TT has

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found that:

The relaxation response kicks in

without which cells don’t heal.

Increased depth of respiration.

Reduced respiratory rate.

Reduced heart rate.

Muscle relaxation.

Blood vessel dilation.

T cells in the immune system increase

boosting the immune system.

HB (iron) increases

Pain relief.

Changes in EEG (brain waves) to an

alpha state.

Wounds heal in half the expected

time.

Oedema (a fluid build-up) decreases

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in size.

A technique used when people who

suffer with dementia pace,

considerably decreases pacing. And

many more findings.

Thanks to these two ladies and the

research findings, TT became a part of

the United States nursing curriculum.

150 case studies and a new finding

We first did a presentation to all the

residents and their families. We then got

permission in writing from each

resident’s doctor after giving them the

research findings. For Unit 3, we each

undertook 50 case studies and we found

the same results as the research

findings with some additional findings.

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Our aged care facility was designed to

be well spread out so residents were

encouraged to get in a lot of walking for

exercise. If someone was having angina

or asthma that meant that a carer often

had to walk 400M to the Medication

Room for their medicine. Time and again

it happened that I’d be asked to check

on someone that had angina or asthma

and I’d send the carer for the resident’s

medication. While they were gone I’d

offer the resident and do some TT. By

the time the carer was back, they never

needed their medicine. We had to

cancel the ambulance a few times with

residents that were experiencing angina

when their medication didn’t help but

TT did. The only problem was that in the

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following few days, the resident would

sometimes have another asthma or

angina attack. TT worked like a

symptom controller for angina and

asthma but didn’t actually ‘heal’ the

cause of the problem. But it is very

useful for nurses and could potentially

save people a lot of money in

medication.

There was one very interesting fact that

reoccurred. One of us doing the TT is a

Yoga teacher and while we were taught

to have a specific intention, the Yoga

teacher didn’t do that and where you’d

expect a wound to heal in 3 weeks to a

month her resident’s significant wounds

were healing within 5-7 days. For

example in TT, if I feel a cold area in the

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aura my intention is to warm it up. Our

Yoga teacher said she just put it to the

universe to use her to bring the best

healing possible and took her thoughts

out of it!

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Changing direction — stepping stone four

I wanted to be a TT teacher but I missed

the opportunity to do the next year’s

course. Four years earlier I’d read Dr

Pearl’s book ‘The Reconnection®. Heal

Others, Heal Yourself’. He was actually

curing people and I wanted to learn it

but couldn’t get to America to do it. I

had a note pad that I’d doodle in when I

was on the phone and noticed I doodled

the same pattern again and again for

two years. At the same time I had an

interest in the word ‘Solomon’. I’d hear

it on TV and run to watch ‘King Solomon

Mines’ but it didn’t satisfy my curiosity. I

read different books about Solomon

but that wasn’t it either. A friend that

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did Unit 4 of TT phoned to ask why I

didn’t go. I had no idea it was on. She

said Dr Pearl was coming to Brisbane. I

was so excited I booked flights,

accommodation and booked into the

whole course that day. I borrowed the

money to do it and had to wait seven

months.

On the last day of the course Dr Pearl

draws a pattern up on the board. It was

the very same pattern I’d been doodling

for the last 2 years. He named it ‘The

Seals of Solomon’. Well if I wasn’t in the

right place at the right time, strike me

down! I knew that this is what I’m meant

to be doing. So I quit as secretary of

the Therapeutic Touch Australasian

Association and was actively practising

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Reconnective Healing® and The

Reconnection®. At that time I’d been

nursing mostly and had a desk job

analysing clinical data. On my days off I

was running healings from home. I wore

glasses for computer work and after

doing Reconnective Healing® on four

people, I no longer needed my glasses

for the next two years.

People aren’t sure what to believe

I had a phone call from a new client. He

said he doesn’t believe in any of this

rubbish but he’s been on chemo for

seven years and expected he’d get

better. He asked his oncologist if he

would improve but was told that they

can only maintain him how he is now.

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Someone recommended Reconnective

Healing® and he found me on Dr Pearl’s

website practitioner list. He couldn’t

leave his house so I went there. On the

first day he said he needs the toilet

every twenty minutes because the

radiation burned a hole between his

bladder and bowel and he has a

constant urinary infection. I did a one

hour session and we chatted for the

next three hours when he said “Ohh my

God - I haven’t needed the toilet. That

just doesn’t happen.” He was saying

that he gets leg cramps at night, takes

Quinine and asked if I could do anything

for his legs. I fell asleep that night

thinking about his legs. The next

morning I was almost awake when I had

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a vision of a pair of legs with a pattern

on them the same as one we learned

only it was closer together. So I figured

I’d try that. On the 3rd day he was

ecstatic. He said he still uses the toilet

every three or so hours and he didn’t

need any Quinine for his legs overnight.

He had tears in his eyes as he said he’d

had the best sleep he’s had in seven

years. He told me three weeks later that

everything was still going well and how

very grateful he was.

Another lady who’d suffered with

neuralgia had to wear a thick scarf at

night and always needed the car

windows closed so wind wouldn’t hit

her head as it triggered her neuralgia.

Three months after her healing

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sessions, she rang to say she’d realised

she no longer has her neuralgia and now

does things she never could before. I

received a lovely long letter from her

explaining all the things she can now do.

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Lesson learned — stone five

A dear friend who was a nurse I worked

with had terrible knees. She was a strict

Catholic and so asked me to keep it

confidential (which goes without

saying) as she didn’t want any of our

workmates knowing. But could I do a

Reconnective Healing® on her? So I did.

I really wanted to help her and to ‘prove’

this works (my Ego!). Going against

what Dr Pearl teaches in that you need

to get your head out of the way - he says

praying and adding thoughts is like

adding more and more water to coffee.

It weakens it. I started the healing

session asking in my mind for every

angel I could think of to help with this

healing and to go on healing her. I

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pictured her knees healed and her

walking well. It didn’t work. Nothing

changed and she still needed an

operation on her knees. I should have

listened! Remember the Yoga teacher

and her not putting any thought into it?

Interesting isn’t it.

I visited my sister for a week who had a

little dog Beth. At that time Beth was

getting old, she wasn’t well and needed

to go outside up to three times at night

to pee. I was running a Reconnective

Healing® on my sister who I found out

later that she didn’t believe in this type

of healing and accepted it only because

she was being nice. She didn’t have any

improvement from the sessions I ran

and I was starting to doubt this myself,

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not knowing what she’d done. She told

me a few years later that during the

healing she was intentionally blocking

out the healing with her thoughts. But

during the healing her little dog Beth

had jumped up and fell asleep on her

abdomen and I continued the healing

with Beth there for the majority of the

time. The next day my sister told me

that Beth didn’t need to pee overnight

and that went on for the whole time I

was staying there. After that week I

never found out whether that

continued or not and my sister can’t

remember either. That was seven years

ago and Beth is no longer with us. So I

can’t ask Beth (me smiling).

While doing a Reconnective Healing®

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session on another lady, as I always do,

I asked her to clear her thoughts and be

alert to anything she’s feeling. During

the session after only ten minutes I kept

feeling little sort of electrical shocks and

I intuitively wanted to stop. I didn’t

because I didn’t want to cut her time she

paid for short so I persisted. I’d been

doing a lot of healings by now and was

having lots of great feedback. This

session was out of the ordinary. At the

end of the session I asked her if she

noticed anything. She said, “Yes, after

ten minutes I decided to help, so I prayed

right through the entire session,

otherwise I didn’t feel anything.” I

bumped into her two months later in a

bookshop and she said nothing had

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changed for her - she didn’t think the

healing worked. I realised then that

even when the person on the table

prays or ads in their intentions, it blocks

the healing frequencies coming through

as well.

So added thoughts are not needed, they

really do interfere with the healing

frequencies.

Lesson learned!

I now take the time to explain all this

before a session. Maybe I’ll just give my

clients this book when they book in

from now on. It may save me and them

a lot of time.

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This is life changing stuff

Before you can learn to do The

Reconnection®, you must have one

yourself. So while I was in Brisbane I had

mine. Six months earlier I’d busted up a

relationship and I was still heartbroken.

A few months before my Reconnection

I walked past my ex-partner in a

shopping centre and felt as though my

legs were going to give way on me. I

struggled to get myself to the car and

cried for fifteen minutes before I could

leave. The first night after my first

Reconnection® session, I could smell my

ex-partners aftershave. Normally I’d be

a crying mess but this time, it didn’t have

any effect on me. I told Allou who done

my healing and she said ‘Swaha’. I asked

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what that meant. She said “Karma is

done”.

As I’m standing in line at Dr Pearl’s

course I heard my name called. I turned

around to see a friend who had two

boys and after her youngest one was

delivered (seventeen years earlier) the

doctors told her she’d never be able to

fall pregnant again because of damage

done during birth. She was just married

for the second time. Following Dr

Pearl’s course, they were staying on for

their honeymoon. A few weeks later she

was saying that since she had her

Reconnection®, she’s been feeling

moody and out of sorts and wishes she

hadn’t done it. The following week she

phoned me to say that she doesn’t

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know what to say to her boys because

she’s pregnant. Her new husband was

so happy - he was over the moon. I

reassured her that I’m pretty sure her

boys will love their little brother or

sister. They had a darling little boy.

Interesting findings

Research indicates that when in session

Reconnective Healing® measures

between 1 and 30 Hertz with the

majority between 1 and 8Hz.

This means:

2Hz = nerve regeneration, neurite

growth from cultured ganglia.

7Hz = bone growth.

10 Hz = ligament healing.

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15, 20 and 72 Hz = decreased skin

necrosis, stimulation of capillary

formation (blood flow) and

fibroblast proliferation (immune

function).

25 and 50Hz = Synergistic effects

with nerve growth factor.

Other research measured:

Reconnective Healing® as light

waves or sound waves and

information that changes our DNA.

Reconnective Healing® clears

Gamma waves from the room and

from the person receiving the

healing.

Brainwaves and heart waves

become the same as each other’s

for the healer and the person

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receiving healing.

Healers affect the structural

dynamics of water.

Athlete’s performance improves up

to 22% and it lasts over time.

Distance healing also works just as

effectively as if it were person to

person.

The practitioner has the same

benefits as the client.

Registers and results

Some clients experience what we call

registers. These are little twitches and

other sensations. Their mouth might go

dry or water, some feel pressure here

and there and some report many other

things. Some report feeling nothing

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during the session and the experience is

boring for them but the healer has an

amazing experience. Effects of a healing

can be immediate or sometimes it takes

months to notice you’ve healed. The

healing doesn’t finish at the end of a

session. It goes on healing and

sometimes you don’t realise the full

extent of the healing for months.

Anyone can become a healer and

following a healing session for days the

healer feels blissful, light and peaceful.

What is The Reconnection®?

It is believed by Dr Eric Pearl (the

founder of Reconnective Healing® and

The Reconnection®) that originally the

meridian lines (sometimes called

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acupuncture lines) on our bodies are

connected to the grid lines that encircle

our planet. And I believe he’s got it right.

I suggest reading his book ‘The

Reconnection®. Heal Others, Heal

Yourself’ to understand how he came to

this conclusion. This happens via our

DNA or areas in it which scientists now

know to be multidimensional. This

multidimensionality is believed to be

where our soul comes into our body

when we are a foetus connecting our

spirit, body and mind. These gridlines

connected to our meridians were

designed to continue out and connect

us to a vastly larger grid, tying us to the

entire universe. The Reconnection®

brings in ‘new’ axiatonal lines that

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enable us to standardise unique

vibratory levels and frequencies for

healing and ultimately, for our

evolution. These axiatonal lines are a

part of a parallel-dimensional circulatory

system that draws the basic energy for

the renewal functions of the human

body.

The Reconnection® brings in and

activates these new lines, allowing for

the exchange of light and information,

the reconnection of DNA strands

and the reintegration of strings

simultaneously existing on parallel

planes of existence.

Dr Pearl has taught hundreds of

thousands of people all around the

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world from every walk of life. These

people have also experienced amazing

healings on themselves and others.

Some of them phoned Dr Pearl after

having him do healing on them, letting

him know that they came home, petted

their dog who healed of arthritis and

walked normally or their grandparent

who got out of a wheelchair and was

walking but couldn’t before. This is

when Dr Pearl realised that this can be

passed on - once you interact with the

frequencies. So I have no reason to

doubt what he believes. I’ve seen some

amazing things for myself that I feel

people wouldn’t believe if I told them.

So I rarely mention it until now. There

are so many more healings I could add,

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but it would only serve to bore you I

think.

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My remote ledge healing – stone six

After four years of tormenting myself

with betrayal from my ex-husband (by

the way, this healing happened in 2001),

I’d had enough but didn’t know what to

do. I was at the sink washing the dishes

and had an incredible urge to go to one

of my favourite places about an eighty

minute drive away. So off I went and I

took myself to a remote ledge that

looks over a valley. I had six days off

work and my kids were at their dad’s

place. I got there hoping something

would come to me and wondering why

I had such a strong urge to be there. On

the second day I had an idea. What if I

imagined that I was my ex-husband? I’ll

imagine I’m him doing each thing that

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happened to me that made me feel hurt.

And, what if I make up a story in my

head to see everything from his point of

view? Even though I’ll make it all up, I’ll

do my best to understand everything he

did.

So I started at the beginning. I imagined

I was him and made up a story that

made him feel good about each one of

those things. Every time I started to get

triggered into feeling hurt, I’d stop

myself and remind myself to understand

it from his point of view. I spent the next

three days there with my backpack of

food, water, coffee and a camp fire to

boil the billy doing exactly that with

each and every thing I was hurt over

that I experienced with him. At the end

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of it all, I realised I can forgive him. I

thought I’ll never forget what happened

but I forgive him.

People around me commented that I

was so much more peaceful. And I was.

Some asked me how I’d changed

because it was that noticeable. After I

told them, two friends said I should

write a book. I didn’t think I could back

then. I didn’t see that it was that special

because it was little ol’ me and who am

I to write a book?

Going back to my Ledge Healing, look at

that word ‘forgive’. You could say ‘for –

giving. Or ‘for giving up’. Why ‘up’?

Because I’m taking the energy of the

belief that feels heavy, a low vibrational

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energy and I’m sending it upward. I

raised the energy of my beliefs. At that

stage I didn’t understand about parts

and energy. I’ll explain what I mean.

When I say a part of me, it’s a voice in my

head. You know when one part wants

something but another part wants

something else. That’s what I’m talking

about here. And when I say energy, well

we all understand nowadays because of

quantum scientists, physicists,

epigeneticists and other professors that

explain all this, that we are all just

energy fields, connected to other

energy fields via the zero point field and

our thoughts are energy. So, in

understanding my ex-husband, I

forgave him. In the forgiving it raised

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the energy of my beliefs or thoughts

around him and what we went through.

Most of it no longer affected me.

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Sound healing—stepping stone seven

I left my job and again began running

healings. Soon I realised that I get in a

meditative state when doing a healing

and I see colours swirl in the client’s

auric field. When I’ve seen this my

clients have reported the most amazing

healings. So I always go into this

meditative state in every session now.

Growing up I had a constant feeling of a

lightness and at age 28 after a series of

emotionally traumatic events had lost

this light feeling until I practise

Reconnective Healing® or The

Reconnection®. Then I feel it for three

or four days. I also found that I feel it

after doing sound healing and when

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working with crystals. Because of this I

thought it would be good to include it

when I’m running a session if my

intuition guides me to. I previously

learned sound healing using drums,

bells and Tibetan or crystal bowls. There

is a lot of research around sound healing

frequencies, so it makes sense to add it

if needed.

During a healing some people say they

can’t stop the brain chatter and I’ve

found that at the beginning of the

session if I use a drum beat this puts

their mind (and mine) in a quiet and

focussed place. Shamans believe and

studies show that drum beats lead you

on a deeper meditative state quickly.

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People have said that when I’m using a

singing bowl they can feel it vibrating

throughout their body and what a lovely

experience, they feel a vibrating and

centering feeling for a time after the

healing. I’ve learned to always follow

my instincts and use these tools

because it gives my clients a better

experience and I’ve experienced this for

myself. It’s difficult to explain until

you’ve experienced it but I felt as

though I was expanded and my celss

went on vibrating. I felt peaceful and

centered.

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E.L.S.I. – the ingredients that make healing happen

From time to time I go into a

visualisation or meditation and I have a

piece of paper nearby because I just get

an urge to do this. I’ve learned to trust

and go with these urges I get. But to

explain how I learned that would be a

whole book in itself. All you need to

know is that I trust these urges. As I go

into a meditation, I sometimes just get

two words in my head and it repeats

until I write it down. Then I get another

two words. It repeats until I write it

down. Sometimes it’s quicker and it gets

quicker and quicker lately. So quick that

I do it on the keyboard now.

One day recently as I was just waking

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up, I kept getting words in my head –

energy, light, sound and information. So

I wrote them down and then it stopped.

A week or so later the same thing

happened but they were different

words: Engage, listen, silence or

sometimes I got sound, intention and

sometimes I got intuition. That kept

going through my head until I wrote it

down.

I wrote the words in a list and I realised

that both set of words first letters

spelled out E.L.S.I. You can see the lists

below.

E = Energy waves or frequencies

L = Light

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S = Sound and,

I = Information

I’d read these words before and realised

it was in Dr Pearl’s book and some of the

scientists books. (See the References &

Recommended reading section). I also

got;

E = Engage person to person

L = Listen with heart, hands and senses

S = Silence and sound - go into the

silence as in meditation. Use sound

when needed.

I = Intention/Intuition - whole intention

on healing. Trust your intuition always.

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So healing frequencies and teachings I

received came in stepping stones and

they evolved into E.L.S.I. I can truly say

I’ve come a long way since that spider in

the driveway!

I believe after lots of research that the

first E.L.S.I. list is what I receive and

what comes through when I conduct a

healing. It explains very simply the

science of what it is and the second

E.L.S.I. list is how to do that. It doesn’t

give any technique and contrary to what

people might believe, different healing

techniques ARE very different. Research

findings tells us that. (See References

and recommended reading list if you’d

like to learn more). It’s only the results

that are astounding and that is that

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healing happens!

This is why I’ve called my healing

practice E.L.S.I. Healing.

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Distance Healing

Distance healing is when a client cannot

come to my healing room and I cannot

go to their home. We arrange a time for

each session and I request a photograph

of the person. At the allotted time for

each session the client lies down in a

quiet area and relaxes clearing their

mind. I ask that they remain alert. I put

their photo on my healing table and

imagine they are lying there. Then I go

about a healing as though they are right

there with me finishing at the expected

time.

I personally have only done a handful of

distance healings and have received

good feedback but as these weren’t

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recorded in a testimonial I don’t have

permission to repeat them here.

There is a lot of research conducted

around distant healing. Distance healing

occurs because of a thing that scientists

call ‘entanglement’. It surpasses time

and happens due to us energy beings

living in a multidimensional state of

being. Some scientists are now calling it

‘Information medicine’ and it is also now

called ‘Energy medicine’.

Some of which can be read in Lynne

McTaggarts book ‘The Field’ and in Gary

E. Schwartz PhD book ‘The Energy

Healing Experiments’ where the effects

of distance healing have been measured

across the expanse of the U.S.

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William Tiller Professor Emeritus of

Stanford University’s Dept. of Material

Science has extensive research

explaining how it works and that it in

fact is a very effective when it does

work. He explains (in my words) that

Professor Fritz Popp found that we have

photons of light within our cells and

when the light frequency is disturbed it

can cause ailments. When it goes out

the person is susceptible to cancer.

Information medicine (healing/distant

healing intentions) has the ability to

bring the photons back into a coherent

state. William Tiller has developed an

Intention Host Device that is imprinted

with an intention when people adept at

meditation sit nearby it and focus an

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intention into it. This devise can hold

this intention for up to six months.

When the devise is turned on a beam of

powerful coherent information is

broadcast to the recipient. It is not

electromagnetic. A single imprinted

devise can broadcast to hundreds of

recipients at once and no physical

contact is necessary. He has conducted

experiments to show the effectiveness

of it that goes across thousands of miles

and in fact to the other side of the

world.

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You’ve got this

Try feeling your electromagnetic field.

Place your hands together. Now move

them about 15cm or 6 inches apart.

Slowly bring them closer, then apart

again...very slowly. Do you notice that

you feel something? It may be a pulling

sensation or it might be like two

magnets that repel or attract each

other. You may feel nothing.

Try imagining that you have a ball in one

hand. Throw it to the other hand. With

your imagination, can you feel that ball

in your hand and then in the other hand?

You might like to imagine a slinky.

Remember those? They are a toy that

looks like a flexible coil. The majority

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would be in one hand and you easily

move the majority of it to the other

hand. Imagine that going back and

forward in your hand, feeling and

practise it. Can you notice any feelings in

your hands? Some people do straight

away and for some it takes more

practise.

Research tells us that the more you use

it the better the healings happen and

everyone starts somewhere. We all

have the ability to do this.

Crystals emanate piezo electricity and

that’s how they power a crystal radio or

a quartz watch. Voice recognition

software and microphones also use

piezo electricity. Hold a quartz crystal in

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your hand and feel it. Try your other

hand. This can help you become

sensitive to feel our electromagnetic

field as it amplifies our energy and that’s

why some healers use them.

Remembering that different crystals

have different healing powers.

Find someone who’s willing to practise

with you or a pet. Keeping your hands 5

- 10 cm or 2 - 4 inches away from their

body, slowly scan their body with your

hands and just notice anything out of

the ordinary. You might feel tingles,

heat or cold. It might repel or pull your

hands in. How wide is their energy field?

Notice everything. What do you feel

with your hands? What do you feel

inside yourself? Do you feel like crying or

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do you feel OK?

You can see it with practise. There’s a

long history of our electromagnetic field

being seen by people and captured by

scientists dating back to 1777. You can

read more about it at the link in the

references. A lot of us have seen Kirlian

photography which shows it and in 1995

this was superseded by Gas Discharge

Visualisation (GDV) developed by

Professor Konstantin Korotkov and his

team in Russia. It’s a computerised

system that captures photon-electron

emissions in real time. Korotkov used

GDV to extensively measure results of

healing.

You can also see with your naked eye. If

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you sit quietly at sundown or on a dull

day. Find a tree that has a white sky

behind it and allow your eyes to go out

of focus. You’ll see a faint glow around

the tree. That’s what it looks like. But, if

you have a pet that is asleep or ask a

friend to stand or sit in front of a light

coloured wall and dim the lights. Just sit

patiently and look at them. Notice that

on the edge of your eyesight you may

see their auric field. If you practise this

over time you’ll see it without a

problem. Then you’ll begin to see other

things in there. You’ll see gaps, bulges in

colour, sparks and sometimes dark

cloudy things. Sometimes the dark

cloudy things move. It will take a long

time to be able to see that for some and

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for others (now that you’re aware to

look at it), you may be able to see it

straight away. Or like me, you may never

have been aware that people can’t see

it. I won’t go into the meaning of

everything here as that’s a whole new

level of teaching and it’s just good to

know it’s there.

Healing is accepted more than we realise!

I can’t specify that enough. A lot of

healers I speak with have a fear of

‘coming out’ as a healer. Especially in

hospitals or other caring places where

they work. A lot of people who are

healers that I talk to work in some kind

of caring role. There are also many that

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aren’t in caring roles that I meet at

workshops but most of my friends are.

Whether that is as a nurse, psychiatrist,

carer, psychologist, physiotherapist,

occupational therapist, doctor, etc. You

get my drift. But what I find is that they

all say that ‘IF’ they were to speak up

about it at work they would be frowned

upon. I used to believe that too.

In my experience I’ve found that when

you present doctors with the science

based evidence of what the healing

modality findings are and are clear

about how you will use it, they are quite

happy for you to use it on their patients.

And then, when you are open about it,

explain it to people, give them a

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handout, have handouts available at the

reception and sitting areas. What you

find is that when people walk in when

you’re doing a healing on their loved

one. You’ll get comments like I did such

as: “Wow look at you Mum soaking it all

up”, “Aren’t you being spoiled” or

“When can I book in”. I have never had

a derogatory comment in a health

setting yet. On a very odd occasion you

may get a confused look, but science is

on our side now. It just needs to be

more clinically accepted by the majority.

We fear anything we don’t understand.

It’s not airy fairy: it’s a reality and the

quicker people start to realise this and

realise that everyone has this ability, the

better of we’ll all be.

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Then when the doctors see the wound

photos and how quickly wounds heal,

the look on their faces is hilarious and

they start asking questions.

Don’t get me wrong. If I need to see a

doctor or if I injure myself or am in acute

pain, get me to a doctor! Give me pain

relief. Then when they have done their

job, then get me a healer. I want to heal

at an energetic level. There is room

enough for all forms of healing.

I wanted to do a Quality of Life study at

one aged care organisation and I had

everyone’s permission I needed. I had

permission to run a study for the

residents living in the Independent

Living Unit section. I still needed

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university ethical committee permission

but that was in progress. I was going to

advertise and run an information

session in the Independent Living Unit

Clubhouse and ask for volunteers to be

in the study after explaining everything.

I had a nurse who volunteered to

conduct pre and post vital signs checks

including: temperature, pulse, blood

pressure, oxygen levels, circumference

of any areas of oedema. We were to run

a session daily for three days for each

volunteer healing recipient. I had six

local Reconnective Healing®

practitioners happy to volunteer to help

with it, so seven of us in all. I have a

university Quality of Life survey to use

before the survey, one to be completed

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the day after the healing sessions,

another one at three weeks and another

at three months. I had an independent

academic paper writer from a research

university ready to receive the surveys

directly from the volunteers. She was

going to collate and analyse the data

and write up the findings. It didn’t

happen.

The problem was that I had two things

that got in the way and stopped this

happening. I wanted to get a grant to

fund the costs of the independent paper

writer from the university and I was

happy to foot the rest of the costs

(printing of surveys, envelopes and

postage costs). But this study didn’t fit

into any grants on offer, let alone a

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Government grant. Secondly, the

Geriatrician at the aged care

organisation wouldn’t listen to what I

was proposing, let alone accept it and

we needed her permission to go ahead.

Scientists are saying that they know that

healings have a place in the medical

world and that what we need now is

Quality of Life studies. So I’m hoping

that eventually I’ll raise the funding and

find another group of people that we

can conduct a Q.O.L. study on.

Where do you find healers?

In short…everywhere. Just Google it or

use whichever search engine you like.

There are many in my local area. I can

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give you a healing in my Healing room or

by distance if you prefer. When I do a

distance healing I’ll set up a time where

you can lie down facing up or however

you’re comfortable. Let me know if

you’d prefer to sit up. I like to have a

picture of who I’m running a session on.

I imagine that you are lying on the

healing table (massage table) or sitting

in a chair with your picture there and I

get a sense of and can feel where your

body is as I run the session.

How do you choose a healer? You go

with your gut instinct. Follow your

intuition. I believe nothing is a

coincidence. Things happen for a

reason. If you see an ad for one healer a

few times, perhaps you were meant to

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see it and follow up on it. That could be

a chiropractor, doctor, intuitive healer,

Reikki healer or any kind of healing

modality or professional.

Take notice of what you see and what

you feel to be right for you and go with

it. Or you may know someone who

could read this book and may benefit

from it.

When you run a healing on someone

else you receive the effects of the

healing for yourself. So perhaps you’d

like to learn how to heal and run healing

sessions on other people. There is

nothing more satisfying than receiving

feedback that someone you worked on

has healed and there is no better feeling

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than how you feel after a healing

session. And this feeling can last for

days.

Keep shining like you do!

References:

Reconnective Healing®/Distant Healing:

Gary E. Schwartz, PhD. with William L.

Simon. 2007. The Energy Healing

Experiments. Science reveals our natural

power to heal. Atria books. United

States of America.

Reconnective Healing®: Konstantin

Korotkov PhD. 2012. Science confirms

Reconnective Healing. Lexington. KY.

USA.

Healing/Distant Healing: Lynne

McTaggart. 2003. The Field.

Element/Harper Collins publishers.

Hammersmith. London.

Intentions: Lynne McTaggart. 2007. The

Intention Experiment. FP/Simon and

Schuster, Inc. New York.

Reconnective Healing®: Dr Eric Pearl.

2001. The Reconnection. Heal Others,

Heal Yourself. Hay House. Alexandria.

NSW.

Healing: Harry Massey. The Living

Matrix. A film on the new science of

healing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hz

2QtP0X9Vs [Accessed 6 Jun. 2017]

Healing: Gary Schwartz PhD and Linda

Russek PhD. 1999. The living energy

universe. A fundamental discovery that

transforms science and medicine.

Hampton Roads publishing, Inc.

Charlottesville, VA. Canada.

E.L.S.I. Healing: Winkelman, M. 2000.

Shamanism: The neural ecology of

consciousness and healing. Westport.

Conn: Bergin and Garvey.

E.L.S.I. Healing: Michael Drake. 2008.

Binaural beats for the Shamanic Journey

©.

http://shamanicdrumming.com/binaural

_beats.html

Gas Discharge Visualisation (GDV):

http://www.bio-

well.com/gb/resources/gdv-

history.html

Gem research using GDV:

http://jmshah.com/alternative-

medicine-practitioners.html

Human body field:

http://www.thinksmarterworld.com/th

e-re-discovery-of-the-human-energy-

field/

Meridians: M. Stefanov. Et al. 2013. The

Prima Vascular System as a new

anatomical system. Journal of

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Meridians:

http://upliftconnect.com/science-

proves-meridians-exist/

Chakra clearing and balancing: Candace

Pert. The Chopra Foundation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ys3mGVtRvZ0

Distant Healing: N. Herbert, Quantum

Reality (Anchor Books, New York, NY,

1985), p. 249.

Distant Healing: www.tillerinstitute.com

Distant Healing: William Collinge,

M.P.H., Ph.D. Subtle Energies and

Energy Medicine Volume 11. No.3. file:///C:/Users/Julia/Desktop/Research/Distant%20heali

ng%20William%20Tiller.pdf Sited 9/10/2017.

The Healing Room

I moved into my dad’s home. He is 91

years old and he expected that he’d lose

his license. I wanted to be around just in

case he needed me to drive him

anywhere as he’s very fit and healthy

other than losing his eye sight and

hearing. Dad’s house was the third to be

built in Hazelbrook NSW. From books

we’ve read, we know it is over 110 years

old. There was no insulation in the walls

and so I set about taking the interior

wall down in what was to become The

Healing Room to put in insulation as it

gets very cold in winter and very hot in

summer. Here and there were softwood

pieces that had been termite eaten,

although the termites were long gone.

So my little job became a big one and it’s

now up and running. Other home

renovations are slowly happening. So if

you happen to come for a healing,

please don’t expect the Taj Mahal.

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