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Seniors Association Seminar March 2010

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Staying in control of your transition
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Downsizing is a monumental task that

goes beyond just selling your real estate

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It can be a challenge for both seniors and family members

who are helping with the process

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It can also be an incredibly positive experience!

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Understanding the downsizing process and its challenges will help you when you are

ready to move on

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In this seminar:- Assessing your situation

- Emotional impact-You are in control-Family dynamics

- What do I do with my stuff?- Finding your ideal new home

- Navigating the real estate market- Where to turn for assistance

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The key to a positive, stress reduced transition is

remembering that you are in control!

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Assessing your situation: Should you downsize?

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The downsizing checklist:

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Now that we’ve determined that you should be making a

move...

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I need to find a new

home

Where do I find a Realtor?

I need to sell my current

home

I have to pack my belongings

I need to sort my belongings.

What can I take with me?

What will I do with all this stuff?

The house needs paint...

There’s so much

cleaning to do

Does my home need staging? I must prepare the

house for sale

Who gets what?

What about shipping?

What do I want to keep?

Where do I start?

I need to find a mover

Are these antiques worth anything?

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The emotional impact of downsizing

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There are lots of emotions associated with downsizing.

Some of them can feel negative

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- Loss of independence- Fear of change

- Will the space be too small?- Giving up the family home

- Fear loss of control

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We go through many transitions in our lives:

- College/University- First home

- Family home

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We embrace these changes as a new phase in our lives and we can do the same for

downsizing

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Actively change the way you choose to look at

your transition

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You have made a decision to change your lifestyle based on your current needs, not

your past needs

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Remember the past fondly and choose to look forward

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You are in control: Why downsizing doesn’t mean loss of independence

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A tough decision can be made easier by remembering

that you are in control

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29 Montgomery Boulevard

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- Had mixed feelings about selling- Controlled her timeline

- Looked at several retirement homes before moving

- Involved family- Made sure she was comfortable

before selling house- Went through transition at her own

pace in her own way, which relieved the stress

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- You can set your timeline- You make the decisions- You choose where to go- Make sure everything is

right for you.

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Should not be working with anyone who doesn’t listen, forces, pushes won’t take

your feelings into consideration

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Family Dynamics

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Moving is different as we age. Family involvement

is a big part of this

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Depending on the situation, family members are often

more involved in the process when we are older

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Children and siblings can be a great help but they can also slow or complicate

the process

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What do I do with all this stuff?: Handling a lifetime worth of possessions

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“Stuff” can often be the most overwhelming part

of downsizing

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Testimonial?

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- Don’t know where to start- Don’t know what to take- Want to give to family

- How to choose?- How to organize?

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Often have emotional attachment to possessions or see them as a comfort

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Testimonial?

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Let’s look at this from another angle:

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As we age, our possessions can take over our living space

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An overwhelming number of possessions can create a

stressful living environment

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Testimonial?

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Requires time and energy to clean, maintain and keep

orderly

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Testimonial?

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Important items can get lost in clutter

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Home can become uncomfortable because of

excess items

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After meeting with a client, we often leave them with “homework” that will help them look objectively at

their possessions

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Look realistically at the space you will be moving into

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- Will this fit into my new space?

- Is this worth the expense of moving?

- Have I used this in the past year?

- What is the functionality of this item?

- Will I need this with my new lifestyle?

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Testimonial?

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- We use 20% of our possessions

80% of the time- Things do not reflect who

you really are

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“Lots had come in and nothing had gone out...”

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Handling possessions with the future in mind ensures a stress free, relaxing place

where you can focus on the road ahead and not what

you’ve left behind

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Finding your ideal new home

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Many seniors put off downsizing because of outdated ideas about

seniors housing

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Fear that long term careis the only option

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Senior housing has come a long way and times have

changed

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Myriad options mean there is something for everyone

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Your perfect new home could be:

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- Smaller home- Condo

- Apartment- Cottage

- Retirement residence- Residence with care options

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Testimonial?

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Testimonial?

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Testimonial?

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Testimonial?

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Testimonial?

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Testimonial?

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“I couldn’t be happier with thechoice I made...”

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-Living alone in a 4 bedroom bungalow

- Wanted to move to a retirement residence

-Loved facilities, social opportunities & activities- Looked forward to move

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Testimonial?

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Navigating the real estate market

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May not have bought or sold a property in many years

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Putting your home on the market is different today

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Motivation for moving is often different for seniors

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- Independence - Social opportunities

- Closer to entertainment or amenities

- Health benefits - Travelling with ease

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Women 82

Men 77

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The longer seniors put off downsizing, the more

complicated a situation can become

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- Death of a spouse- Illness

- Mobility Issues

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696 Highway 15

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- wanted specific condo but couldn’t buy

for three years

- Started looking at retirement residence

- Didn’t want to move before house sold

- House sat on market for 2 years

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May be detrimental to wait out

the market or refuse to sell based on false or hopeful

price expectations

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Selling/buying a home can be stressful. The whole

experience is easier if you choose to move when you

are healthy and capable

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If you are concerned about the market, there are a

number of things you can do to quicken the sale of

your home

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Look at the move as a whole project and not just

the sale of your home

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Work with a company who will offer honest, straightforward

advice on all your needs

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Your choice. Someone who will tell

you what to do, or someone who will do

what you want.

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Pick someone you trust, then trust them!

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For a successful transition:

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- Embrace change and be positive!- Look ahead

- Don’t work with anyone who wants to take control from you

- Seek help from experts & listen to their advice

- A transition is easier when you are healthy & capable

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Ultimately,YOU are in control every

step of the way.

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Where can I turn for assistance?

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Certified Relocation and Transition Specialists™

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Thank-you

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