The conversation every adult wants to have with an 18-year-old, but can’t find the words.
Jul 11, 2015
The conversation every adult wants to have with an 18-year-old, but can’t find the
words.
Welcome
• Qualifications and background of speaker
Energizer:
• “Baby Shark” Or “The Number 6”
Narrative and Discussion:
• Teenagers as a box - a metaphor
• Impact of social, emotional, and psychological
development on students’ career & academic journeys
Warm-up Ice-Breaker:
• “2 Truths and A Lie”
• Select a student (or group of students) to
participate; winning student(s) receive prize (e.g.
candy)
What does it mean to be you?
• Facilitate discussion – Obtain responses from
students; explore how surface responses (e.g. name,
ethnicity) do not truly encapsulate who you are
Facilitate “Is this who I Am” Handout Part I:
• Students complete first part of handout; sample
questions include:
• Three things that I like to do are…
• Three things that are important to me are…
• Three words that describe my personality are…
• Solicit student responses and discuss: is this who you
truly are?
Narrative and Discussion:
• One college student’s journey of being judged by
others & finding out who they were and who their
friends expected them to be
Facilitate “Is this who I Am” Handout Part II:
• Students consider a person in the lives (e.g. parent,
sibling, boyfriend/girlfriend) and complete second
part of handout; sample questions include:
• This person likes when I…
• Three things that are important to this person
are…
• This person would describe my personality as…
• Process the responses
Narrative and Discussions:
• Define and explore expectations as it relates to the
topic:
• Hopes, values, practices, etc. others place on
you, and expect you to embrace or want…as
opposed to hopes, values, and practices you
develop for yourself.
• Explore how expectations can hinder your progress
Narrative and Discussions:
•Throwing away expectations - a metaphor:
• Removing hopes, values, practices, etc.
• Creating your own path; creating your own
successes; creating a new you
• Having a fresh start in college
• Responding to others’ expectations
Facilitate Wrap-up Activity:
• “Would you Rather…”: interactive activity designed
to get students thinking about options, goals, and
opportunities they’d like to take advantage of in
college
Narrative and Discussion:
• The word Semantics (define the term)
• Semantics and students’ college years
Narrative and Discussion (continued):
•“Why do people go to College?”
• Experiencing social, intellectual, academic,
emotional, psychological growth with those
around them
• Photo album - a metaphor
• Not a game or race; but a journey or road trip
• Chance to fill memories, college years, and life
with friends, silly experiences, and life lessons.
Thank You!
• Facilitate Energizer (time permitting)