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@agatestudio
Self Discipline
Depe
Clerics
Agate Studio
Self deception and self discipline
TDS Mei 2014
Aditia Dwiperdana
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Self discipline
The ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it.
Self-betrayal
• An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”.
Self-betrayal
• An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”.
• When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
Self-betrayal
• An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”.
• When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
• When I see a self-justifying world, my view of reality becomes distorted.
Self-betrayal
• An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of “self betrayal”.
• When I betray myself, I begin to see the world in a way that justifies my self-betrayal.
• When I see a self-justifying world, my view of reality becomes distorted.
• When I betray myself, I enter ‘the box’.
In the box: Below the line
Ownership
Accountability
Responsibility
Blame
Excuses
Denial
Self betrayal
• Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me
Self betrayal
• Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me
• By being in the box, I provoke others to be in the box
Self betrayal
• Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me
• By being in the box, I provoke others to be in the box
• In the box, we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification. We collude in giving each other reason to stay in the box.
What doesn’t work in ‘the box’
• Trying to change others
• Doing my best to ‘cope’ with others
• Leaving
• Communicating
• Implementing new skills or techniques
• Changing my behavior
To get out of the box
We get out of the box when we cease to resist other, liberate our self-justifying thoughts and
feelings.
Out of the box: Above the line
Ownership
Accountability
Responsibility
Blame
Excuses
Denial
Self discipline
Stay true to yourself.
Know what you want to do.
Do it.
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