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Self Awareness, Psychology and Social Roles
THE SELF
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PURPOSE OF THE PRESENTATION
To understand : The concept of Self How we know our
own
characteristics How self-
conception is usedto guide selection
of activities Development ofPersonal beliefs
Interactions with
people
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Content
What is Self?
Where does Self-Knowledge come from?
Aspects of Self-Knowledge
Self Regulation Motivation and the Self
Social Comparison Theory
Self-presentation Culture and the Self
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WHAT IS THE SELF?
Collection of beliefs that we hold about
ourselves
The individual as perceived by the individual
Peoples private personal views of who they
are and what they think and feel
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SELF ESTEEM
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Self- Esteem
Evaluation we make of ourselves
People with high self-esteem:
Have a clear sense of what their personalqualities are
Think well of themselves
Set appropriate goals
Use feedback in a self-enhancing manner
Cope successfully with difficult situations
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Self- Esteem
People with low self-esteem:
Think poorly of themselves
Often select unrealistic goals orShy away from goals altogether
Pessimistic about the future
Adverse emotional or behavioralreactions to criticism or negativefeedback
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Sources Of Self Knowledge
Where does Self-Knowledge Come
from?
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1. Socialization
Much of our Self-knowledge comes fromsocialization
Socialization is defined as the process bywhich a person acquires the rules, standardsand values of his/her family group and
culture
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Socialization
During childhood we are treated inparticular ways by parents, teachersand friends.
We participate in religious, ethnic orcultural activities
All of these socialization processes later
come to be significant aspects ofourselves
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Feedback from Others
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2. Feedback from Others
People sometimes give us explicitfeedback about our qualities
This feedback is an important elementto get knowledge about ourselves
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Feedback from Others
The process of socialization begins when ourparents tell us not to be so shy, how good weare at playing a piano, how math is our
strong point, or what a good reader we are.
There is a strong relationship between how
parents think about their childrens abilitiesand childrens own self-conceptions
(Felson & Reed, 1986)
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Feedback from Others
In later childhood and early adolescence, feedbackfrom peers become more important
Adolescent brings with it additional sources of direct
feedback
Students get direct feedback from teachers on theiracademic abilities in the form of comments and
grades which becomes important part of a childs selfconcept.
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Feedback from Others
Research suggests that people preferobjective feedback about their personalattributes (Festinger, 1954)
It is regarded as less biased and more fairthan personal opinion
But the opinions of others also countparticularly when they are shared by anumber of people.
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3. Self-Perception
People also infer their personal qualities byobserving their own behavior
In observing ourselves, we see ourselvesconsistently preferring certain qualities overanother, certain foods over others or certainpeople over others
From observing these regularities we maygain self-knowledge
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4. Environmental Distinctiveness
The self-concept is also heavilyinfluenced by factors that make youdistinctive
People often explain their selves on thebasis of the aspects that make themdifferent
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5. Comparisons with others
Sometimes we see our personal qualities bycomparing ourselves to other people
Social comparison may be helpful when wecan not find information about certain aspectsof ourselves
We may then compare ourselves to others toget information about our self
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6. Social Identity
Social identity is the part of an individuals self-concept which derives from her/hismembership in a social group together with thevalue and significance attached to that group
We are born in a family having particularvalues and beliefs these values become a part
of our self concept, as we grow older we pickour social groups according to these values.
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Social Identity
Our association with these social groupsbecomes an important element of our socialidentity
So self-concept and social identity mutuallydetermine and shape each other
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ASPECTS OF SELF KNOWLEDGE
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Self-schemas
A Schema is an organized, structuredset of cognitions about some concept orstimulus.
Just as people hold schemas about thenature of other people and events, theyalso hold schemas about themselves
Self-schema describe the dimensionsalong which you think about yourself
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People are schematic on the dimensions that
are important to them, on which they think ofthemselves as extreme, and on which they arecertain that the opposite is not true.
For example if independence is important toyou and you think of yourself as extremelyindependent and not at all dependent, thismeans that you have accumulated
considerable knowledge about yourself on thatdomain
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EXAMPLE
You may be very concerned about maintaining anddisplaying your independence having a strongindependence schema
You may refuse to accept help and take yourchoices alone.
On you might consider yourself more dependentand think a lot about ensuring security for
yourself by surrounding yourself with people youcan depend on..
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Self-Schemas
Not all Self-Schemas are positive People also hold well-articulated , highly
organized beliefs about themselves on negative
qualities For example someone who is over-weight will quickly notice that eating situations are relevantto him, he might plan what he will eat and may
count the calories that he consumes He may also notice others around him who are
weight schematic and those who are not
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Self-Schemas
Possible Selves: People hold self-conceptions not only about their
current qualities, but also about traits that may
become self-descriptive at some time in the future. Most possible selves tend to be positive; peoplethink of themselves in the future primarily in goodterms.
However, some possible selves represent fearsconcerning what one might become in the future
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Self-Schemas
Possible selves function in much the same way asself-schemas, they help people to attain their goals
and develop behaviors that will enable them to
fulfill those goals. Possible selves provide focus and organization for
the pursuit of goals
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Functions of Self-Schemas
Knowing about personal qualities enables us toidentify quickly whether situations are relevant to
us or not
Self-Schemas help us to remember schema related
information
They help us to make inferences about the meaning
of past behaviors and to make decisions and
judgment that guide our future behavior Relating other material to ourselves makes that
material more memorable
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SELF DISCRIPENCIES
Sometimes there are discrepancies between how we
actually are and how we ideally want to be or
think ought to be. Psychologist Tory Higgins suggests that these self-
discrepancies produce strong emotions
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When we perceive a discrepancy between ourpersonal qualities and what we would
ideally like to be (ideal self), we experience
disappointment, dissatisfaction or sadness,what are called dejection related emotions
Discrepancies between our actual self and
what we think we ought to be produceagitation related emotions such as fear or
anxiety
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SELF REGULATION
Self-regulation refers to the ways inwhich people control and direct theirown actions
People store enormous quantities ofinformation about themselves, includingtheir personal characteristics, their
goals and desires and their conceptionsof themselves in the future.
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How conceptions of the Self regulatethoughts, emotions, feelings andactions in social situations?
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THE WORKING SELF-CONCEPT
Which aspect of the self influences ourthoughts and ongoing behaviordepends in large part on what aspect of
the self-concept is relevant to aparticular situation
The aspect of the self-concept that is
accessed for a particular situation iscalled the working self-concept
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For Example
In a classroom situation, the academicself is likely to be dominant determinantof our thoughts and feelings, whereas ifwe are reminded about a party coming
up on Friday, the social self may beaccessed
The working Self concept is importantbecause it draws on our overall self-
concept but guides social behavior inspecific situations and is, in turn,modified by what goes on in the situation
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Working Self-concept Vs Stable Self-Concept
The working self-concept can
sometimes be at odds with the stableself-concept.
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For Example Think about a time that you had an argument
with your friend and you yelled at her
Afterward, you probably didnt feel very goodabout yourself and she probably think much ofyou either
Yet you probably have a stable sense ofyourself as a nice person who is easy to getalong with.
After that particular incident you may not have
thought of yourself for at least several hours orfew days. Overtime however your stable selfconcept won out and you again thought ofyourself as pleasant and easy to get along with
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Working Self-concept Vs Stable Self-Concept
Changes in the working Self-conceptproduce changes in the permanent self-concept only when the working selfconcept is stable overtime
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For Example
While in college you may not think of yourself asparticularly authoritative. Yet upon graduation, if youget a job supervising several other people in a bankand you do this day in and day out for months oreven years, you may come to think of yourself as
authoritative and that may become an important partof your stable self-concept.
It was not so before but it became so because youare now consistently in a situation that requires anauthoritative manner.
The working self in this case became part of thestable self-concept
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Self-Complexity
Another aspect of the self thatis important for self-regulation
involves self-complexity.
Some people think of themselves
in terms of one or two
predominant ways, whereas
others think of themselves in
terms of a variety of qualities
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Self-Complexity
One college student may think of herself primarilyas a student, focusing her attention and beliefs
about herself on how well she does in her courses.
Another may think of herself as in more complex
ways as a student, a friend, a member of sports
team and a part time employee
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Simple Vs Complex Self-Concepts
People with simple self concepts may have successin their particular area of importance but are veryvulnerable to failure
For example, a student who is focused primarilyon her grades and who receives a bad grade mayfeel very upset and depressed because of it.
But a student having a complex self may turn
away her attention from academic failure and prepare for other areas hence coping with thesetback
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Simple Vs Complex Self-Concepts
Self-complexity then can act as a buffer against
stressful life events.
It may help people from becoming depressed or illin response to setbacks
A setback in one area of life is less devastating
when other aspects of our lives are rewarding andsatisfying than when we derive most of our
identity from one aspect of the self.
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Self-Efficacy and Personal Control
Another aspect of the self that influences self-regulation include self-efficacy beliefs, that is, the
expectations that we hold about our abilities to
accomplish certain tasks (Bandura, 1986) Whether or not we will undertake a particular
activity, attempt to do a particular task, or strive
to meet a particular goal depends on whether or
not we believe we will be efficacious in performing
those actions
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SELF AWARENESS
Self-Regulation is also influenced by ourattention, specifically, whether attention isdirected inward toward the self or outward toward the environment.
Usually our attention is focused outward towardthe environment, but sometimes our attention isfocused inward on ourselves
Certain experiences in the world automaticallyfocus attention inward, such as catching sight ofourselves in the mirror, having our picture taken orwhen being evaluated by others.
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SELF AWARENESS
Self-awareness leads people to evaluate theirbehavior against a standard and to set an
adjustment process in motion for meeting the
standard.
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Self-awareness causes people to compare
themselves to standards, such as physical appearance, intellectual performance, athleticprowess, or moral integrity.
We attempt to conform to the standard, evaluateour behavior against that standard, decide that iteither matches the standard or does not and continue adjusting and comparing until we meet
the standard or give up. This process is called feedback and the theory is
called the cybernetic theory of self-regulation.
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Public Self-ConsciousnessPeople high on public self-consciousness areconcerned with autonomy and issues of identity,concerned with what other people think aboutthem, the way they look, and how they appear toothers
Private Self-consciousness
People high in private self-consciousness try toanalyze themselves, think about themselves a greatdeal and are more attentive to their inner feelings
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Public and private self-consciousness are not
opposites of each other. People can be high in both,low in both, or high in one or the other.
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MOTIVATION AND THE SELF
People are inherently motivated to seek out
possibilities to develop an accurate stable and
positive self-conception and seek out situations or
behave in ways that further those aspects of theself.
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MOTIVATION AND THE SELF
THE NEED FOR AN ACCURATE SELF-CONCEPT
To make future outcomes predictable and controllable, weneed to have a fairly accurate assessment of our abilities.
Having an accurate sense of self is an importantdeterminant in the selection of a task
Accurate self-assessment enables us to anticipate andcontrol our future performance
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MOTIVATION AND THE SELF
THE NEED FOR A CONSISTENT SELF-CONCEPT
Related to the need for accuracy is the need to have a
sense of self that is consistent
We do not want to think of ourselves as changing
dramatically from situation to situation; rather we need
to believe that we have certain qualities that remainrelatively stable overtime
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SELF-VERIFICATION
People tend to seek out and interpret situations
that confirm their already existing self-conceptions
and they avoid or resist situations and feedback
that are at odds with their existing self-conceptions. This process is called Self
Verification.
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FOR EXAMPLE
Imagine that a class ended and a classfellow comes to you and comments thatyou dont talk much. Perhaps you didnttalk in that particular class but you think
of yourself as an active student You may find that during the very next
class you talk more than usual in order
to convince yourself and your classfellow that you are an active classparticipant
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SELF-IMPROVEMENT
In addition to wanting an accuratesense of self, people are motivated by
the desire to improve Many self-regulatory activities serve the
need of the desire to improve
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SELF ENHANCEMENT
In addition to having an accurate self conceptpeople are heavily determined by the need tofeel good about themselves and to maintainself-esteem
One way in which people satisfy their self-enhancement needs is by holding self-perceptions that are falsely positive andsomewhat exaggerated with respect to theiractual abilities, talents and social skills
These false perceptions are known asPOSITIVE ILLUSIONS
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SELF ENHANCEMENT
We remember positive information about
ourselves, but negative information often slips
conveniently from our mind
Most of us would have more difficulty recalling
information about when we have failed than
when we have succeeded.
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Self-Affirmation
For example an attractive student who fails anexam may seek out female classmates who will flatter his ego
Or the college student who is not making friendseasily may proudly display high-school trophies.
Self-affirmation theory explicitly predicts thatpeople will cope with specific threats to their self-
worth by affirming unrelated aspects of themselves
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SOCIAL COMPARISON THEORY
In 1954 a pioneer in modern socialpsychology Leon Festinger developed socialcomparison theory
Festinger believed that people are motivatedto make accurate assessments of their levelof ability and the correctness of theirattitudes
To do this they assess their own standing incomparison to others like themselves
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Festingers theory can be summarizedin 3 points
1. People have a drive to evaluate theiropinions and abilities accurately
2. In the absence of direct physicalstandards, people evaluate themselvesthrough comparisons with others
3. In general people prefer to comparethemselves to similar others.
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The Goals of Social Comparison
1. Accurate Self-evaluationFestinger suggested that peoplesometimes desire truthful knowledgeabout themselves, even if thefeedback is not favorable
For example, learning that you are theworst player on the volleyball team
may spur you to greater effort orencourage you to change sports
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