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Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 [email protected] Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 [email protected] sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 [email protected] sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 [email protected] greenhouseusa.org

MASS SCHEDULE Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:30 am, 12:00 pm

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am &

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

SACRAMENTS Confession: Saturday,

4:00 pm - 5:00 pm Baptism

Contact the Parish Office. Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a priest at least one year in advance.

Sick/Homebound/Hospital Call the Parish Office.

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Parish Office.

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact the Parish Office.

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Andrew Park Rev. Roy Regaspi

DEACON George Montalvo DEACON Edward Maron

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe — November 20, 2016

Parish Office Hours: Parish: Mon.-Fri..9 am-5 pm, ; Rel. Ed.: Mon –Thurs.: 9:30 am—5 pm (Also by appointment.)

*THANKSGIVING FOOD DRIVE—THIS WEEKEND

*OUR “GIVING TREE” —Take a tag!

(See page 4 for both.)

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10.30 am 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 pm

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS

Let us remember those who are ill: Patrick O’Brien, Bobbie Murtha, Geoffrey Pluto,

Harold Bottino

Let us remember those who have recently died: Jeffrey Harm, Dorothy Stephan

Let us remember those serving in the military.

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Week of November 13, 2016 BASKET PARISHPAY TOTAL

$9, 082 $4,659 $13,741

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread and wine for the week of November 20, 2016

are offered in celebration of the birth and baptism

of our first grandson,

Luca Mayson Orlanes

as requested by Diane & Al Jensen.

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “...giving thanks to the Father, who has made you fit to share in the inheritance of the holy ones in light.” COLOSSIANS 1:12 God wants us to be happy! Instead of looking at the Ten Commandments as being restrictive and telling us what we can’t do, look at them as guides for living a joy-filled and peaceful life. Most of our problems arise when we put our own needs first or spend most of our time trying to acquire “things.” Try putting God first in all things instead.

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Dir. of Religious Education ……..Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator ………...Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ……………………….Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director …………………...Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager …………………. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………...Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…………..Mrs. Colette Vail Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

MINISTERS OF HOLY COMMUNION Please note: The Christmas and New Year Mass schedule sign-up sheets are available in the Upper Church Sacristy. Please sign up

for the Mass(es) at which you can serve. Thank you for your dedication and commitment to your Ministry.

November 19, 2016 Richard Nelson

November 20, 2016 People of the Parish Felice Bartolomeo (18th Anniversary Remembrance) Antonio B. Claveria, Sr. (Anniversary Remembrance) Perry Di Giovanni John Pimpinella

November 21, 2016 James Jannucci Brian Patrick Coogan

November 22, 2016 George Dunphey Carmela & Simon Scarano

November 23, 2016 Norma Jannucci Inez Kemp

November 24, 2016 Thanksgiving Day In Thanksgiving (Only Mass)

November 25, 2016 Frank Fowler George Dunphey

November 16, 2016 Mary & Dominic Nocetti Elizabeth Pittenger

November 17, 2016 People of the Parish Lindsey Manzelli Mickey Corcoran In Thanksgiving Marie Roeltgen

HOLIDAY CLOSINGS In observance of the holiday, the Parish Office/Rectory, the Religious Education Office and Saint Joseph School will be closed for Thanksgiving on Thursday, November 24 and Friday, November 25.

See our bulletin in FULL COLOR at: sjcnj.org

THANKSGIVING DAY MASS There will be ONLY ONE MASS on Thanksgiving Day (Thursday, November 24) at 8:30 am.

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OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, KING OF THE UNIVERSE ~ NOVEMBER 20, 2016

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

PLEASE COME! INTERFAITH THANKSGIVING

PRAYER SERVICE—NOVEMBER 20 The annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Prayer Service will be held this year on Sunday, November 20 at 4:00 pm at Grace Lutheran Church (925 Fifth Avenue, River Edge). Saint Joseph will join Grace Lutheran and neighboring houses of worship to offer thanks to God for all our blessings. Help represent Saint Joseph at this beautiful prayer service that has become a very special tradition in our community.

CAMPAIGN FOR HUMAN DEVELOPMENT —THIS WEEKEND The collection for the Catholic Campaign for Human Development (CCHD) provides funding for groups that make lasting change and uplift the poor in the United States. CCHD’s

grants improve education, support economic development, and create affordable housing in low-income neighborhoods. Help us continue to defend human dignity and build communities of solidarity. Please give to the CCHD Collection. If you do not have your parish envelope with you (or have not already donated through ParishPay), you can write a check to “St. Joseph” and memo it “CCHD.”

Our parish’s Mass for Thanksgiving Day will be celebrated at 8:30 am. It is our only Mass on the holiday.

Thanksgiving Day has become America’s preeminent secular holiday. Our parish staff wishes you a very delightful time at all of your gatherings of family and friends. Of course, the values this day highlights are ones that are central to our faith. To be reminded of this, we have only to look at how we were taught to pray from our young days, when we were told that prayer is meant to ask for favors for ourselves and for others, to beg God’s pardon for our sins, to praise the Lord for his awesome greatness, and to thank Him for all the good things He has given us. Some years ago I came across a beautiful prayer by that well-known author “Anonymous.” Like so many other prayers people will use to express their gratitude on Thanksgiving Day, it ranges far—although no one’s words can ever be comprehensive enough for the great obligation of being thankful to God, whose love and good works are so vast and so constantly present in our lives. The prayer goes like this:

Thank You, Father, for the wonderful gift of life that You have seen fit to share with us. Thank You for all the happy days of childhood, for all the games and friends. Thank You for the excitement of learning and for the knowledge of this earth. Thank You for the strength of mature years, for the work that we did, the places we saw, the people we helped. Thank You for opening our hearts to love for the special people who loved us, and for surrounding us with our families and Yours. Thank You for letting us live in exciting days. Give Your blessing to all our acts, past and present, that they may lead to a happier world when we are gone. Thank You, Father, for pain, for suffering, for tears, for laughter, for the air, the rain, the sky, and the earth. Thank You for the lives we have lived and for the life we will live in heaven with You forever. Amen.

Thanksgiving is also, as all times ought to be, an occasion for believers to grow in charity. Our food drive is taking place during the hours of our Saturday evening and Sunday Masses this weekend. The items our Social Concerns volunteers have requested may be dropped off at the rectory garage. Turkeys may also e brought there as late as Monday morning before 9:30. Because of your generosity to this drive many people will experience a more enjoyable holiday.

Msgr. David Hubba

THANKSGIVING DAY BLESSING

O God of all things in heaven and on earth, you give all your people in the world

the gift of life, the gift of family, the gift of work, and the gift of rest.

On this, our national day of Thanksgiving, we turn all our thoughts to you, from whom all blessings flow.

Bless all our work, our friends, and our families both near and far.

We humbly ask for the ability to continue our work

for your kingdom and the ability to gather freely

to worship you without fear.

We ask you to give our years ahead your blessing and protection.

We ask all this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

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Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org

SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

FOOD DRIVE AT SAINT JOSEPH

—THIS WEEKEND NOVEMBER 19-20

“Lord when did we see You hungry, and feed you, or thirsty, and give You drink? … Truly, I say to you,

as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to Me.” Matt. 25: 37, 40

Our traditional Thanksgiving Food Drive is taking place this weekend. Your generous donations will bless those in need of the Food Pantries at the Church of the Ascension in New Milford and our Brother/Sister Parish of St. Joseph in Jersey City.

You may still make a monetary donation. Please make your check payable to “Saint Joseph Church” and mark the envelope “Food Drive.”

TURKEYS may be dropped off at that time, or TOMORROW, Monday morning, November 21, before 9:30 am.

A CHRISTMAS GIFT TO REMEMBER Looking for a special gift? Or a way to remember a loved one? Or something to record a special event (birth, Baptism, First Communion, Marriage) in the life of your family? A personalized engraved paver placed in our Commemorative Path (beside the church) or in our Garden of Saints (behind the parish office/rectory) may be just the answer. In the Garden we have shrines to Saints Francis of Assisi, Anthony of Padua, Joseph, Therese the Little Flower, and Jude. (We hope to include Saint Patrick in the near future.) Your brick can be placed in front of the saint of your choice. The donation for each brick is $125. Pick up an order form in the literature racks in the church or in the parish office/rectory and return it to 105 Harrison St., New Milford. Engraved bricks will be installed in the spring. Any questions, call 201-261-0148.

YOUR

LOVED

ONE’S NAME

ATTENTION ALL LECTORS! Your 2017 Lector Workbook can be picked up in the upper church (in the Ministers’ Gathering Room of the main foyer —Elm St. entrance). The book will

have your name on it. Please be sure to pick yours up before November 26-27 (the First Sunday of Advent).

TAKE A TAG SHARE THE SPIRIT OF CHRISTMAS

What better way to prepare our homes and hearts for Christmas than to share the blessings and joys of that

holy season with those in need.

Our Giving Trees, an Advent tradition at Saint Joseph Parish, will be placed in the main entrance of the Church and at the Harrison Street entrance on November 23. Please take a tag from the Giving Tree, purchase the requested gift and then place the wrapped gift, with tag attached, under the tree the next time you come to Mass. The tag you take from the tree is very important. It tells our office staff and the agencies we are helping for whom the gift is meant. It is extremely important that the tag you took from the Giving Tree be attached securely to the wrapped gift so that it will reach the correct person on Christmas. All Giving Tree Gifts need to be returned no later than Monday, December 12.

ADVENT REFLECTION BOOKS —OUR GIFT TO YOU

Be sure to pick up your copy NEXT WEEKEND (Nov. 26-27) of the Magnificat Advent Companion which will be available at the doors of the church.

This pocket-sized Companion follows a practical, page-a-day format featuring original meditations on the Gospel reading of each day by twenty-five gifted authors. Each issue of the Advent Companion is never the same as the last and contains these one-of-a-kind extras that you won't find anywhere else: - A variety of beautiful and practical blessings. - An Advent Penance Service - Specially-commissioned poetry - Advent Stations - Praying the O Antiphons.

SAVE THIS DATE FOR BEAUTIFUL MUSIC

—JANUARY 8

Please mark your calendars for Saint Joseph Church's extremely popular annual Christmas concert "An Afternoon of Christmas Joy.” The concert will take place on Sunday, January 8 at 3:00 PM. It will feature the Adult and Children's Choirs as well as soloists and instrumentalists who are a part of the Music Ministry at Saint Joseph Church.

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OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST, KING OF THE UNIVERSE ~ NOVEMBER 20, 2016

OUR “YEAR OF MERCY” SERIES CONTINUES!

JOIN US FOR OUR FINAL SPECIAL PRESENTATION

“PARABLES OF MERCY” —NOVEMBER 26

Parishioners Dana and Barry Celestine invite us to see the “Parables of Mercy” (the prodigal son, the lost sheep, the rich man and Lazarus) in a new way, recognizing ourselves in the stories, on Saturday, November 26 after the 8:30 am Mass in Mary’s Chapel. The presentation is free and open to all. Please come! Through personal reflection we will see that mercy is a powerful force that overcomes all and fills our hearts with God’s pardon and love for us.

K of C ANNUAL CHRISTMAS PARTY —DECEMBER 2

The St. Joseph Knights of Columbus Council #3814 welcomes you to our annual Christmas party at the Council Hall, 199 River Road, New Milford on Friday, December 2 from 7:30—9:30 pm. Admission is FREE, but the Knights would appreciate it if all guests would bring a donation of an unwrapped toy (for a tot) and/or non-perishable food items. Food and a cash bar will be provided. Please call Frank DeBari at 201-739-8686 if you will be attending.

FIRST RECONCILIATION/PENANCE PARENT MEETING—NOVEMBER 28

Parents/guardians of children who will be receiving the sacrament of First Penance on January 21 or February 4 (assigned) are

required to attend a Preparation Meeting on Monday, November 28 at 7:30 pm in Mary’s Chapel in the lower church. Any question, please contact our Sacraments Coordinator Arlene Kennedy at 201-261-1144.

CALLING ALL CORNERSTONE SISTERS & BROTHERS:

COME TO OUR ANNUAL CHRISTMAS PARTY

—DECEMBER 5 Yes, it's nearing that time of the year...the time when we gather to celebrate our Savior's birth! We invite you to join in the celebration at our Christmas Party to be held on December 5, beginning at 7:30 pm. Our party will be held in the Knights of Columbus Hall at 199 River Road in New Milford. You are invited to bring your spouse even if he/she has not yet made Cornerstone. This is a great chance for them to get to know us. A wonderful celebration is being planned, with music, games, good food and some other surprises. All we ask is that you bring one of your special Christmas goodies for our sharing table and join us! What a good way to begin your Christmas Celebration! —DECEMBER 5

NOVEMBER 20th MARKS END OF JUBILEE YEAR OF MERCY

The Jubilee Year of Mercy concludes THIS Sunday, November 20, 2016, the Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe. Pope Francis will preside at the closing rites (and the closing of the Holy Door) at Saint Peter's Basilica. His Grace, Archbishop Myers will preside at the noon Mass at the Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart in Newark. At the conclusion of the Mass, to mark the end of the Jubilee Year, all will join in an acclamation of praise and honor to the Blessed Virgin Mary.

PRAYER TO OUR LADY OF MERCY (by St. Augustine of Hippo)

Blessed Virgin Mary, who can worthily repay you with praise and thanks for having rescued a fallen world by your generous consent! Receive our gratitude, and by your prayers obtain the pardon of our sins. Take our prayers into the sanctuary of heaven and enable them to make our peace with God.

Holy Mary, help the miserable, strengthen the discouraged, comfort the sorrowful, pray for your people, plead for the clergy, intercede for all women consecrated to God. May all who venerate you feel now your help and protection. Be ready to help us when we pray, and bring back to us the answers to our prayers. Make it your continual concern to pray for the people of God, for you were blessed by God and were made worthy to bear the Redeemer of the world, who lives and reigns forever. Amen.

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SUPPLEMENTING RETIREMENT WITH A PLANNED GIFT

Are you nearing retirement or are already retired and are looking to make a year-end gift? If so, a Charitable Gift Annuity can be a way to supplement your retirement income and help your parish at the same time. Also, if you are 70 ½ or older, don’t forget about the IRA Charitable Rollover. Let the Archdiocese of Newark help you set up a Charitable Gift Annuity by contacting Theresa Lynch in the Planned Giving Office. She can be reached at 973-497-4042 or by email at [email protected]

HOW TO REPORT ABUSE The Archdiocese takes very seriously any and all allega-tions of sexual misconduct by members of the clergy, Religious and lay staff of the Archdiocese. We encour-age anyone with knowledge of such to inform us imme-diately so that we may take appropriate action to pro-tect others and provide support to any victim. Individu-als who wish to report an allegation may do so by calling the Archdiocesan Office of Child and Youth Protection at 201-407-3256.

“THANKS-GIVING” Catholic Charities is deeply thankful for your positive response to the donation bin located in the rectory parking lot. As we all know, one way to give “thanks” is by “giving.” Just as the Lord has given so many blessings, this is an ideal time to give away any unwanted clothing or small household items to the Catholic Charities donation bin in our rectory parking lot (at 105 Harrison St., New Milford). Catholic Charities will report in January on the amount of money generated from the bin. If you have any questions or would like to schedule a larger pick up, please call toll free 877-343-3651. Happy “Thanks-giving!”

MASS OF INSTALLATION OF NEW ARCHBISHOP

—JANUARY 6, 2017 On Friday, January 6, at 2:30 pm, the Mass of Installation of the new Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Newark, Cardinal-elect Joseph T. Tobin, will be celebrated in the

Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart, 89 Ridge Street, Newark, NJ. The general, open seating will be on a 'first come' basis, with the Cathedral Basilica opening at approximately 11:00 a.m. Given the potential for 'winter weather,' parking will be extremely limited. Those planning to participate may wish to arrange for carpooling to the Cathedral Basilica.

SAVE THE DATE! SOCIAL CONCERNS’ “BINGO & BASKETS”

—APRIL 27, 2017 The Bingo and Basket fundraiser for our Brother/Sister Parish, St. Joseph in Jersey City, will take place on Thursday evening, April 27 in the Saint Joseph Lower School Gymnasium. The doors will open at 6:00 pm and bingo will begin at 7:00 pm. Prizes will include gorgeous designer handbags. There will also be a Tricky Tray, Door Prizes and a 50/50 Raffle. Watch this bulletin to find out when tickets will be available for purchase. Be sure to save this date for an amazing night out!

IN MEMORIAM JEFF HARM—CATHOLIC WAR VETERANS

The day before Veterans Day, Saint Joseph Parish lost one of our own cherished veterans. Jeff Harm, who served as Captain in the Army Signal Corps during the Vietnam War and was a dedicated member of the Father Washington Post 1710 of the Catholic War Veterans, passed away on November 10. As Post Commander, Kurt Strobach, who worked closely with Jeff, tells us, “Jeff had a passion to help fellow veterans who have special needs and disabilities and to assist those who need daily care in the Veterans Home in Paramus.” Jeff served as First Vice Commander of the CWV and volunteered to be involved in the “Cross of Peace” program for the last three years, which raises funds for service, welfare and hospital activities performed by the post. Jeff repeatedly expressed his gratitude to Saint Joseph parishioners for their generosity to these programs. He also served as the post Officer of the Day and his enthusiasm and energy were infectious. As Kurt tells us, “Jeff’s works of mercy, kindness and compassion were hallmarks of his character. His volunteerism brought the Gospel alive for me as well as for others.” Jeff epitomized the Catholic War Veterans’ slogan: “For God, For Country, For Family.” Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and may he rest in peace. Amen.

DONATE YOUR OLD EYEGLASSES Help the Knights of Columbus give the gift of sight to those in need by donating your old

prescription eyeglasses and sunglasses and your over-the-counter reading glasses. A collection box will be at the back of both the upper and lower churches during the month of November. (Glasses with broken frames are also accepted.)

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