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Existential Psycholo
gy Rolloreese May
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• Rooted in European ExistentialPhilosophy
•
Based in Clinical Experience• People live in the Present and are
Responsible for Experiences
• People lack Courage to Face Destinyand Flee from Freedom
• Healthy People Challenge Destinyand ive !uthentically
OVERVIEW OF EXISTENTIALPSY!OLO"Y
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• Born in Ada, Ohio in 1909
• B.A. from Oberlin College in 1930
• Lived as an itinerant artist in Europe for three earsafter !ollege, "here he heard Adler spea#
• $eturns to the %.&. in 1933
• 'raduates from %nion (heologi!al &eminar "ith)aster of *ivinit in 193+
B"#$R!PH% #F &!%
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• &erves as a pastor for t"o ears, then uits andbegins to stud ps!hoanalsis
• $e!eived his -h* in !lini!al ps!holog fromColumbia %niversit in 199
• -ublished The Meaning of Anxiety in 19/0
•
&erved as visiting professor at institutions in!ludingarvard and -rin!eton
• *ied in (iburon, California in 199
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E'"()E*)"!"(&
• Con!erned "ith the struggle to "or# through lifes
e2perien!es and to gro" to"ard be!oming more
full human
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Common elements found in
E2istential (hin#ers
1. E2isten!e ta#es pre!eden!e over essen!e
4. E2istentialism opposes the split bet"een sub5e!tand ob5e!t
3. -eople sear!h for some meaning into their lives
. E2istentialists hold that ultimatel ea!h of us isresponsible for "ho "e are and "hat "e be!ome
/. E2istentialists are basi!all antitheoreti!al
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B!("C C#*CEP)(
• Being in the "orld
•
6onbeing
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BE"*$+"*+)HE+,#RD
• E2pressed in the 'erman "ord 7*asein8
• 7*asein8 to e2ist in the "orld
•
phens in the term impl a oneness of sub5e!t andob5e!t
• )an people suffer from an2iet and despair brought on
b their alienation from themselves or from their "orld
• :eelings of isolation and alienation of self from the "orld
is suffered not onl b pathologi!all disturbed individuals
but also b most individuals in modern so!ieties.
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&anifestations of !lienation-
1. &eparation from nature
4. La!# of meaningful interpersonal relations
3. Alienation from ones authenti! self
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&imultaneous modes of being in
peoples "orld
Umwelt environment around us
Mitwelt relations "ith other people
Eigenwelt relationship "ith our self
• ealth people live in %m"elt, )it"elt, and
Eigen"elt simultaneousl
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ealth people live in %m"elt, )it"elt,
and Eigen"elt simultaneousl
Eigen.elt
&it.elt/m.elt
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*#*+BE"*$
• Also nothingness
• *read of not being
• *eath is not the onl avenue of nonbeing
• -rovo#es us to live defensivel and re!eive less
from life than if "e "ould !onfront the issue of ournone2isten!e
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*read of nonbeing !an ta#e the form of
• ;solation
• Alienation
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MIS
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!*'"E)%
• the sub5e!tive state of the individuals be!oming
a"are that his or her e2isten!e !an be destroed,
that he !an be!ome
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F#R&( #F !*'"E)%
NORMAL ANXIETY
• 7"hi!h is proportionate to the threat, does not
involve repression, and !an be !onfronted
!onstru!tivel on the !ons!ious level
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F#R&( #F !*'"E)%
NEUROTIC ANXIETY
• 7a rea!tion "hi!h is disproportionate to the threat,
involves repression and other forms of intraps!hi!
!onfli!t, and is managed b various #inds of
blo!#ingoff of a!tivit and a"areness
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$/")
• =hen people den their potentialities, fail to
a!!uratel per!eive the needs of fello" humans or
remain oblivious to their dependen!e on the nature
1. %)=EL(
4. );(=EL(3. E;'E6=EL(
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"*)E*)"#*!")%
• the stru!ture of meaning "hi!h ma#es it possible
for us to see and understand the outside "orld
• sometimes un!ons!ious
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ARE$ LOVE
an% WILL
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C!RE0 #1E 2 ,"
• Care
to re!ogni>e a person as a fello" human being, to
identif "ith that persons 5o, guilt or pit
is an a!tive pro!ess? it is a state "here
something does matter
is the sour!e of love and "ill
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• Love
to have an a!tive regard for a persons
development
a delight in the presen!e of the other person
affirming of a persons value and development
as mu!h as ones o"n
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• Will
!apa!it to organi>e ones self so that movement
in a to"ard a !ertain goal ma ta#e pla!e
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• UNION of LOVE and WILL
- )odern so!iet suffers from an unhealth division
of love and "ill. Love is seen as sensual se2,
"hereas "ill is seen as dogged determination or "ill
po"er.
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iologi!al rea"on" w#$ love and will are "e%arated
=hen !hildren !ome into the "orld, are at one
"ith the universe, their mother, and themselves.
As "ill begins to develop, it manifests itself asopposition. (he 7no 8, unfortunatel, is seen b the
parents negativel.
Child learns to disso!iate "ill from the blissfullove.
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Our tas# is to unite love and "ill.
:or the mature person, both love and "ill mean a
rea!hing out to"ard another person. Both involve
!are, both ne!essitate a !hoi!e both impl a!tion
and both reuire responsibilit.
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F#R&( #F #1E
• &e'
a biologi!al fun!tion that !an be satisfied through
se2ual inter!ourse or some other release of se2ual
tension
the sour!e at on!e of the human beings most
intense pleasure and his most pervasive an2iet
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• Ero"
a ps!hologi!al desire that see#s pro!reation or
!reation through an enduring union "ith a loved
one? ma#ing love? "ish to establish a lasting union
built on !are and tenderness
salvation of se2
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• (#ilia
intimate nonse2ual friendship bet"een t"o people
!annot be rushed? it ta#es time to groo" and
develop
ne!essar reuisite for health eroti! relationships
during earl and late adoles!en!e
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• Aga%e
!on!ern for the others "elfare beond an gain
that one !an get out of it
altruisti! love
FREE#OM
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FREE#OMAN#
#ESTINY
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FREED#&
• Comes from an understanding of our destin
• -ossibilit of !hanging, although "e ma not #no"
"hat those !hanges might be• ;n!reases an2iet
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F#R&( #F FREED#&
• E'i"tential )reedom
– freedom of doing
– freedom to pursue tangible goals
• E""ential )reedom
– freedom of being
– freedom to thin#, to plan, to hope
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DE()"*%
• Biologi!al, ps!hologi!al, and !ultural fa!tors
• (erminus, goal
– *eath
As "e !hallenge our destin, "e gain freedom, and
as "e a!hieve freedom, "e push at the boundaries of
destin
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&%)H(
• Cons!ious and un!ons!ious belief sstems that
provide e2planations for personal and so!ial
problems• Oedipus stor
• Birth
• E2ile and separation
• ;dentit
• ;n!est and patri!ide
• $epression of guilt
• Cons!ious meditation and death
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"ROWT! an%
#EVELOPMENT
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)a divided personalit
development into stages.
Centers on the phsi!al and ps!hologi!al ties
bet"een us and our parents and parental
substitutes
7the !onfli!t is bet"een ever human beingsneed to struggle to"ard enlarged self
a"areness, maturit, freedom and responsibilit.
And his tenden! to remain a !hild and !ling to
the prote!tion of parents or parental substitutes8 *ependen! struggle
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()!$E #F "**#CE*CE
• &tage before !ons!iousness of self is born
• Chara!teristi! of the infant
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()!$E #F REBE"#*
(a#es pla!e at age 4 or 3 and again during
adoles!en!e
;ndividual see#s to establish some innerstrength
ma involve defian!e and hostilit
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()!$E #F REBE"#*
$ebellion is defian!e, an a!tive re5e!tion of
parental and so!ietal rules. Behavior is
automati! rigid and refle2ive.
(rue freedom involves openness, a
readiness to gro" it means being fle2ible,
read to !hange for the sa#e of greater
human values.
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#RD"*!R% C#*(C"#/(*E((#F (EF
ealth personalit
able to learn from ones mista#es and live
responsibl
!apable of understanding some of his errors
and of re!ogni>ing some of his pre5udi!es
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CRE!)"1E C#*(C"#/(*E((#F (EF
&ignifies maturit
Abilit to see something outside ones usual
limited vie"point and gain a glimpse ofultimate truth as it e2ists in realit
Cuts through the di!hotom bet"eensub5e!tivit and ob5e!tivit
A!hieved onl rarel
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7Cons!iousness of self gives us the po"er to
stand outside the rigid !hain of stimulus and
response, to pause, and b this pause tothro" some "eight on either side, to !ast
some de!ision about "hat the response "ill
be8
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PSY!OPAT
!OLO"Y
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• -eople have be!ome alienated from
- the natural "orld @Umwelt )
- other people @Mitwelt )
- themselves @Eigenwelt
• :eeling of insignifi!an!e apath and emptiness
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!P!)H% !*D E&P)"*E((
-
malaise of modern times- !hief e2istential disorders
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Deny theirdestiny3
!bandontheir myths4)hus0 one loses
his freedom5
#IRETIONLESS
Become sickand engage in
self+defeatingand self+
destructivebehaviors
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• a "a to renoun!e freedom
• narro"s the persons phenomenologi!al "orld to a si>e that ma#es !oping easier
• represent a proper and ne!essar
ad5ustment b "hi!h ones *asein !an be
preserved
*E/R#)"C (%&P)#&(
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PSY!OT!ERAPY
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E'"()E*)"! P(%CH#)HER!P%
• should ma#e people more human• set people free
• must be !on!erned "ith helping
people e2perien!e their e2isten!e
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E'"()E*)"! P(%CH#)HER!P%
- an en!ounter bet"een the patient andtherapist !oming together and sharing
their e2perien!e
-
I-t#o* en!ounter- EM(AT+Y for t#e !lient D #e
ingredient
- partl religion, partl s!ien!e andpartl friendship
- (+ILO&O(+ICAL
RITI&'
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RITI&'E
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• Lo" in generating a s!ientifi! resear!h
• Lo" in falsifiabilit
• )oderate in organi>ing data
• Lo" in guiding a!tion
•
Lo" in internal !onsisten!• )oderate in parsimon
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ONEPT OF
!'MANITY
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• Free hoice overDeterminism
• O(ti)is) over Pessimism
• Teleology over Causality
• onscio*s an%'nconscio*s
• Social an% +iologicalIn,*ences
• 'ni-*eness over