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How to retain and build trust
with clients
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Possibly the most interesting book on the subject, In Search of Excellence by
Thomas J. Peters and Robert H. Waterman, Jr., defines three ways you can
compete to gain customers: operational excellence, product excellence, or
customer intimacy. The book makes the point to choose one and let that lead
your company. Another choice may be a secondary goal, but you cant pursue
all three. For example, if you're Home Depot, you compete with the lowest
price based on operational excellence; ifyoure Neiman Marcus, you compete
with the best service. IfyoureIntel, you compete with the best technology.
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What Zone Do We put our Focus
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Some Strategies
For Implementation
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1. Relevance: In order to be truly relevant to a client, your work mustdirectly relate to and support that clients agenda of criticalpriorities. If you cannot demonstrate this, you will be sidelined:senior management wont care about your work, and your fees will
always be under scrutiny. Youll be a nice-to have but nonessentialvendor.
2. Impact : If you want to impact a clients success, your work needs tosomehow affect or tie to the companys most important levers forgrowth and value creation.
3. Ensuring that the agenda is the right one: The wrong agenda can bedisastrous.
E.g. :
At this writing, General Motors market capitalization is a fraction ofToyotas, and bankruptcy is a distinct possibilitya consequence ofspending decades following the wrong agenda (a wasted roboticsprogram in the 1980s; lack of investment in hybrid technologies; anexcessive focus on large SUVs sport utility vehicle and trucks as oilprices climbed; and so on). Clearly, General Motors agenda has not beenthe right one.
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4. Breadth: You may be initially asked to work on a relatively
circumscribed, narrow issue for a client. Your ability to broaden the
relationship over time depends on understanding and being able to
engage with the clients broader agenda. If all of your conversationswith the client are about the specific project at hand, its unlikely you
will be able to discern additional needs, introduce other colleagues,
and therefore grow the relationship.
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Agenda stageStage 1Agenda reacting: In stage 1, you react to a clients request for work. You get a call
asking for help with an issue. Your client has identified the need, not youyoure reactive,
not proactive.
Stage 2Agenda sensing: In this phase, you invest time to deeply understand your clients
needs, issues, and goals. This may happen as a natural consequence of working with her,
or it may require a special effort to get to know her as an individual, learn about her
business, and understand the markets and industries in which her organization competes.
Stage 3Agenda setting: At this point, you have earned the requisite trust to be able to
help your client shape and set her agenda. You have a seat at the table when your client
is thinking about her most important issues.
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Executive Conversations
Client agendas are uncovered through open-
ended questions that probe for key priorities,
problems, and opportunities. Here are some
suggested questions that may be helpful as you
explore and try to uncover a clients agenda:
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1. In talking to our other clients in your industry, we find that there are three major issues
that they are grappling with right now . . . how would these resonate with you and your
management?
2. How is your organization reacting to . . . [a recent, important development in this
clients industry or function]?
3. How are you handling . . . [new competition, low-cost imports, a new regulatory
framework, etc.]?
4. Can you share with me your thoughts about the most pressing issues that youre
focused on right now?
5. Can you say more about what you mean by . . . [organizational transformation,
globalisation, cultural change, innovation, etc.]. Do you have some specific goals? What
programs are you trying to implement to achieve them?
6. At the end of the year, how will you be evaluated? What accomplishments or goals will
you be judged by?
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7. As you look at your plan for this year, what do you feel is working well? Where
are you making less progress?
8. What are your biggest opportunities over the next several years?
9. What issues do you wish you could spend more of your time on? Less time on?
10. How would you describe your organizations priorities for the next year?
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Conclusion
If you are responsible for developing and managing client
relationships, it is imperative to hone your skills at sensing and
shaping client agendas. The art of growing a relationship is very
much founded on the capacity to deliver high-quality work in a
specific area of expertise, while simultaneously conversing
intelligently with your client about their broader agenda and
connecting your work to it. A profound understanding of your
clients most critical issues and goals, in short, is essential to
building the Level 6 trusted partnerships .
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Strategy two
Engaging New Clients
Evolving Your Relationships from Contacts toClients
First meetings with a far more specific plan.
You should havefourmain goals for any first
meeting:
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1. Build rapport.
2. Understand the other persons issues.
3. Demonstrate credibility.
4. Establish a next step.
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A-The New Neuroscience ofEmpathy
Researchers have discovered that these mirror neurons fire
in exactly the same patterns whether you are performing
the action or someone else is performing it. So in essence,
these specialized brain cells allow you to actually experience
what the other person is experiencing.
1. Build rapport.
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B-Mimicry
The concept of mimicry, or mirroring another persons body language in order toestablish rapport In another study conducted at Duke University, researchers
had 37 students drink a beverage that was touted as a new sports drink. The
researcher who subsequently interviewed them about the drink mimicked their
posture and movements, using a one- or two-second delay. If a student crossed
her legs, the interviewer would wait a second or two and also cross his legs. If
the student scratched her nose, the interviewer would also scratch his nose,
trying to approximately but not precisely copy the gesture. At the end of the
interviews, students who had been mimicked with a delay were far more likely
to say that they would buy the new sports drink, compared to students who
were not mimicked.
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2. Understand the other persons issues.
A- What we find:
In this approach, you share with the client some
specific experience or best practices that relate
to their issue, and then you let them react. Youmight say, What we find is that there areusually three potential obstacles to
implementing a program like this, or, What wefind is that behavioral change is an importantbut often-ignored ingredient in this situation.
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B- Smart questions:
In this context, a smart question is one in which you
demonstrate your own knowledge of the issues while getting
your client to open up and tell you more about theirs. It works
well when you ask the client to place their organization on a
scale of extremesfor example, I might say, Some of my clients,
which have historically had tenure-based compensation systems,
are now moving toward more individually driven rewards. On
the other hand, other clients are trying to get away from an
emphasis on individual performance and are moving toward
team based incentives. Im curious, where is your organization
on this continuum?
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C- What are the implications?
Implication questions are almost always fruitful as a
means to explore a clients issues. You can simply ask,How is this affecting . . . (morale, sales, productivity,
risk exposure, communications, speed of decision
making, etc.)?
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D- Let me give you an example:
This approach to gleaning your prospective clients issues involvessimply sharing several case examples of other clients youve worked
with, and getting the other person to react to those stories. This
works best in response to questions like, Sotell me something about
your firm, in which case you respond by saying, The best way to
talk about what we do is to give you one or two examples of recent
work weve completed. After you recount a short, sharp case study
(100 to 150 words, no more), the client will usually say something
like, Thats interesting. Actually, were facing a similar issue. Or,
Thats really not our issue. What we are up against is quitedifferent.
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E-What are yourpriorities?I still hear people asking questions like What keeps you up at night? or
What are your three most pressing issues right now? As Ive mentioned,
these are shopworn, overused, and with some clients, possibly intrusive.
For example, To understand if and how we can be helpful, it would
useful to get a sense from you about some of the high-priority issues
you are working on right now. Or, I know you have a lot on yourplate right now. In your view, what would you say are the most
critical issues on your agenda? You can also turn this over to the
client and say, I understand that weve got 30 minutes this
morningare there some particular issues youd like to focus in onduring our discussion?
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3. Demonstrate credibility
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4. Establish a next step.
Now, we are talking about evoking the clients curiosity to want
to meet again with you or someone else from your firm. You can evoke
your clients curiosity in a variety of ways, such as:
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Clearly making the connection between a tough issue they are trying to solve
and a specific capability or experience you can bring to bear on that issue
(client is thinking: Maybe they have the skills to help us).
Suggesting that you can bring back some data or research that is either just
plain intriguing, or that will shed light on one of the issues the client is dealing
with (client is thinking: Theyve got some interesting data Idlike to see).
Offering an introduction to a colleagueor even someone outside your firm,
such as a clientwho has first-class expertise and experience (client is
thinking: Idlike to meet this person. Shes a real expert).
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Conversational Techniques
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1. Synthesizing: Pulling the conversation together and clarifying the issues, as opposed to
just summarizing.
2. Active listening: Interjecting okay, uh huh; I see; what happened then? and so on.
3. Nonverbal listening: Leaning over, using strong eye contact, focusing completely on
the other person.
4. Echoing: Repeating the last word of the other persons sentence, to encourage
elaboration.
5. Self-disclosure: Saying things like I know what you meanI missed my wifes birthday
one year, too.
6. Open-ended questions: How do you think this is affecting your customer service?7. Provocative questions: Why?Sowhat?Does that really matter?
8. Questions about the meaning of words: Encouraging the other person to elaborate:
What exactly do you mean by..?
9. Questions about the past, the present, and the future: How and when did this start?
What are you doing now about it?In a years time, what kind of progress do youhope to achieve?
10. Personal questions: Where did you grow up?; Going forward, is there another role
youd like to play in the organization?
11. Questions about feelings:How did people feel about that decision?
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(Listening Pitfalls)
There are a number of bad habits that I have
observedstarting with some of my ownthat
can get in the way of effective listening and,
therefore, good conversations. Ask yourself howoften you indulge in any of the following:
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1. Thinking ahead: Our minds often race ahead to the next question or issue
while the person were with is still talking.
2. Believing that youre the most insightful person in the room: We tend to
forget that its not always about being right or having the perfect idea, butrather about helping clients make changes that will improve their business.
3. Being in love with your own ideas: After spending weeks or months analyzing
the problem, its easy to become enamored of the conclusions youre trying
to presentas opposed to creating a give-and-take with the client as you
socialize and test your ideas.
4. Listening without giving back: Good listening is about mutual disclosure, not
just sitting there and taking notes. The conversation has to be interspersed
with sharing of your own thoughts, feelings, ideas, and experiences.
5. Not affirming or validating: Affirmation is a powerful reinforcement for the
person speaking. Paraphrase and synthesize as you go along. Affirm that you
have understood your client.
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6. Lack of mindfulness: We are often distracted, rushed, and judgmental; and
not present in the current moment. All of your body language has to
reinforce that this is the most important conversation happening in your
world today.
7. Indulging your biases: We all have biases, and even prejudices, which
inhibit our ability to listen. Some studies have shown, for example, that
doctors give inferior care to certain minority groups. Why? Most likely
because their unconscious biases prevent them from listening wellfrom
taking these patients as seriously as they should.
8. Not allowing silence: Silence gives the client a chance to think and reflect,and it can make you seem thoughtful and considered in your judgments.
Dontrush to fill every second of airtime embrace the occasional pause or
break in the conversation.
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Engaging with Senior Executives
Think about the senior executives that you know. What are they like, inside
and outside the office? What pressures are they under? In their careers,
they are most likely highly driven and successful. You will probably find that
many of them read widely and pursuewith passion and vigoran eclectic
variety of outside interests. At work, they have access to vast amounts of
information because they tend to be collection points for a broad array ofmarket and competitive data that cross their desk. They will value your
expertise, especially if you are truly good at what you do. But if you are one-
dimensional and have few professional or personal interests outside your
core specialty, its unlikely that your relationship with them will grow very
close. As one of my clients said to me, In order to be interesting, youve gotto have interests. A recent New York Times article about the libraries of
CEOs starts with the headline, In personal libraries, more literature and
poetry than business best sellers.
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Nice rule
If you are not spending 50 percent of the time
you have with a senior executive talking about
things other than the immediate project you are
working on, youre probably not reallydeveloping a relationship with that person.
Relationship Manager
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1- Value for Time
For senior corporate executives, value for time
has become more important than value for
money.
Examples of ways to add more value for time
would therefore include the following:
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Always ensure that the focus of your conversation connects to
and aligns with the executives agenda of critical priorities.
If it doesnt seem like you are connecting with the other person,
consider redirecting the conversation. Ernst & Young Managing
Partner Mike Hamilton, who is Chief Learning and Development
Officer for the Americas, likes to ask clients a simple question:
Whats the most important issue we should be discussing
today? This can powerfully focus your time together.
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Getting to Know Clients as People
Here are some practices that will help you movefrom a purely professional, arms-length relationship
to one that has a personal dimension to it:
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1. Be human and accessible: Sometimes we are too professional, too buttoned-
down, or too flawless. Its very hard to become enamored of someone who
has no imperfections or vices, and who has seemingly never made a mistake.
Its okayeven necessaryto occasionally show your human side.
2. Offer praise and complement your client when its appropriate to do so: Youcan be sure that a lot of people certainly arent patting them on the back.
Even highly successful clients appreciate positive reinforcement. Just make
sure that its sincere!
3. Use humor : Humor is a universal way of connecting to others and diffusing
tensions. If you make fun of yourself, it also is a way of showing you arehuman
4. Ask your clients for advice: They may in fact have some very good counsel for
you on issues of importance, and it will certainly make them feel good to be
asked.
5. Look for breakthrough moments: In Clients for Life, I talk aboutbreakthrough moments in the life of a relationshipmoments that
catapult your bond to a new level. These can include working through an
extraordinarily difficult project or transaction together, dealing with a major
crisis, or perhaps, when your client faces a daunting personal issue,
providing support and advice.
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5. Ask about their lives: Most clients are quite happy to talk about their family
and interests outside of work.
6. Follow yourclients lead: Move slowly and take small steps. If someone is
very private and resistant to invitations to talk about family and personalinterests, dont push themgradually build familiarity.
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Accelerating Trust
How to:1. Occasionally say, Idontknow,orIm not sure how to answer that question
right now.
2. Answer every question from your client with refreshing honesty and candor.
3. Occasionallysay no to a client request for more work ifyourenot the best
firm to do that kind of work.
4. Make a recommendation that is clearly in your clients interest and clearly not
in your own interest.
5. Spend more time togetherat work and outside of work.
6. Always keep promises.
7. Recognize unspoken issues and emotions, and try to bring them out into theopen.
8. Never criticize others who are not in the room.
9. Tell your client, rightaway, if youve made a mistake.
10. Start a relationship by having an interesting conversation together, not by
showing how brilliant you are.
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CONCLUSION
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1. Confidence is critical to building Level 6 relationships ,
If you dont believe these things, why should your
clients?
2. focus is essential : Its almost impossible to develop
Level 6 relationships without a significant
concentration of resources. The organization should
invest in its client relationship.
3. Reinforce a collaborative, client centered culture
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Thanks for your attention