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CENTRE FOR HUMAN DEVELOPMENT & SOCIAL TRANSFORMATIO N (CHDST)
PROTECT OUR FUTURE PEACE AND CIVIC EDUCATION PROGRA MME
PEACE EDUCATION MANUAL
For
SCHOOLS IN NIGERIA
Centre for Human Development & Social Transformation (CHDST)
10b Isaac Boro Street, Old GRA, Port Harcourt
Project Coordinator: Mr. Imoh Colins Edozie +234-8075464618
This manual is developed through the generous support of
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AN ELEPHANT AND THE BLIND MEN
Once upon a time, there lived six blind men in a village. One day the villagers told them, "Hey,
there is an elephant in the village today." They had no idea what an elephant is. They decided,
"Even though we would not be able to see it, let us go and feel it anyway." All of them went
where the elephant was. Every one of them touched the elephant.
"Hey, the elephant is a pillar," said the first man who touched his leg.
"Oh, no! it is like a rope," said the second man who touched the tail.
"Oh, no! it is like a thick branch of a tree," said the third man who touched the trunk of the elephant. "It is like a big hand fan" said the fourth man who touched the ear of the elephant. "It is like a huge wall," said the fifth man who touched the belly of the elephant.
"It is like a solid pipe," Said the sixth man who touched the tusk of the elephant.
They began to argue about the elephant and everyone of them insisted that he was right. It looked
like they were getting agitated. A wise man was passing by and he saw this. He stopped and
asked them, "What is the matter?" They said, "We cannot agree to what the elephant is like."
Each one of them told what he thought the elephant was like. The wise man calmly explained to
them, "All of you are right. The reason every one of you is telling it differently because each one
of you touched the different part of the elephant. So, actually the elephant has all those features
what you all said."
"Oh!" everyone said. There was no more fight. They felt happy that they were all right.
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"…It is only the story that can continue beyond the war and the warrior.
It is the story that outlives the sound of war-drums and the exploits of brave fighters.
It is the story...that saves our progeny from blundering like blind beggars
into the spikes of the cactus fence.
The story is our escort; without it, we are blind.
Does the blind man own his escort? No, neither do we the story;
rather it is the story that owns us and directs us."
--Chinua Achebe, Anthills of the Savannah (1987)
"I will tell you something about stories....They aren't just entertainment...
They are all we have...to fight off illness and death.
You don't have anything if you don't have the stories."
--Leslie Marmon Silko, epigraph to Ceremony (1977)
Traditionally, Africans have revered good stories and storytellers, as have most past and present
peoples around the world who are rooted in oral cultures and traditions. Ancient writing
traditions do exist on the African continent, but most Africans today, as in the past, are primarily
oral peoples, and their art forms are oral rather than literary.
African proverbs and stories draw upon the collective wisdom of oral peoples… thus serves important social and ethical purposes: "The story itself is a primary form of the oral tradition,
primary as a mode of conveying culture, experience, and values and as a means of transmitting knowledge, wisdom, feelings, and attitudes in oral societies"
(Obiechina, "Narrative Proverbs in the African Novel").
A CROW perishing with thirst saw a pitcher, and hoping to find water, flew to it with delight. When he reached it, he discovered to his grief that it contained so little water that he could not possibly get at it. He tried everything he could think of to reach the water, but
all his efforts were in vain. At last he collected as many stones as he could carry and dropped them one by one with his beak into the pitcher, until he brought the water within
his reach and thus saved his life. –This story can serve various functions like: CREATIVITY IN SOLVING PROBLEMS. LOOKING FOR ALTERNA TIVES.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
In the moment of crises the wise person build bridges and the foolish person build dams.
Nigeria Proverb
Introduction: Page 6
• Introduction to Protect our Future Project • Role of Teachers • Introduction to Manual • Users Guide • Manual Division • Users Guide
Task 1: Know thyself Page 16
• Exercise on Identity
Task2: What Is Conflict? Page 20
• Common Understanding of Conflicts • Types and Levels of Conflict • Conflict in Schools • Analyzing Conflict • Dealing with Conflicts • Conflict Handling Styles
Task 3: Approaches to dealing with conflicts Page 39
• Process in Setting up a Peer Mediation Team • Peer Mediator selection • Peer Mediation Beliefs • Peer Mediation Process • Peer Mediation Example • Points to Remember in Peer Mediation
Task 8: Skills for Dealing with Conflict Page 77
• Communication Skills • Non-Verbal Communication • Types of Non-verbal Communications • Reframing • Skills in Reframing • Common Ground Statements • Listening Skills • Dealing with Anger • Prejudice and Stereotype
Task 9: Strategies for Non violence
This session was developed in collaboration with students of George Mason University and the
International Centre for Non Violence. It is not included in this work submitted to EMU.
Task 10: Concluding Thoughts! Page 93
Tips for Telling Stories
Stories
Reference Page 117
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Story List Page 94 - 116 Story 1: A Blind Man Catches a Bird
Story 2: Water Not Wine: A Tale from Africa and China
Story 3: The Monk and the Samurai
Story 4: Not Our Problem: A Tale from Burma and Thailand
Story 5: The Farmer and the Angel
Story 6: The Tiger's whisker
Story 7: A Caterpillar's Voice
Story 8: The Teacher and the Three Disciples
Story 9: What is Peace? By Arun Gandhi
Story 10: The North Wind and the Sun
Story 11: Two Roads Overcame the Hyena
Story 12: The Two Cold Rodents (with Quills and Spines)
Story 13: The Boy and the Filberts
Story 14: The Mouse, the Frog, and the Hawk
Story 15: The Lion and the Boar
Story 16: Origin of Death Myth of the Chameleon and the Lizard
Story 17: The Community of Rats
Story 18: The Fisherman Piping
Story 19: The Wolf and the Lamb
Story 20: The Labourer and the Snake
Story 21: The Piglet, the Sheep, and the Goat
Story 22: The Man and the Lion
Story 23: How the Monkeys Saved the Fish
Story 24: The Donkey and the Small dog
Story 25: The Three Tradesmen
Story 26: The Widow and Her Little Maidens
Story 27: The Gamecocks and the Partridge
Story 28: The Father and His Two Daughters
Story 29: The Donkey and His Shadow
Story 30: The Story of the Rainbow
Story 31: The Cracked Pot
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Introduction – Protect our Future Peace Project
The history of democratic rule and peaceful coexistence in Nigeria has been that of conflict,
violence and coup d’etat. Nigeria has witnessed series of military coup, from 1966 till 29th May
1999 with a short spell of democratic government from 1979 to 1983. The expectations of the
people have not been met, there is gloom in the land and there is nothing to celebrate. The
experience so far in this democratic era has not given room for celebration. The April 2003
elections were marred by violence including political assassinations and claims of election
manipulation and rigging. The 2007 election was not better and all the evils of the 2003 election
were perpetuated in greater levels.
The society is still plagued by the attitude that “might is right” towards settling of disputes and
leadership sytle. This can be attributed to the legacies of long military rule and general failure of
leadership. The situation is critical with the unrest and kidnappings. The kidnappings started with
the victims been expatriates oil workers. However, now nobody is spared: politicians, traditional
rulers, local oil workers, even children.
It is within this concept that the ‘Protect our Future’ Project was developed. It is meant to chart a
new beginning to reverse the various undemocratic political practices in Nigeria which has
combined and contributed to the deterioration of traditional values and structure. This has created
a situation, in which the Nigerian people do not believe that democracy is possible, neither are
they able to envision credible alternatives. There is then a growing sense of disillusionment
among the populace and a growing cycle of violence. This has led to unprecedented ethnic and
religious violence. The country’s integration and corporate existence is threatened and raises
questions about the ability of the country to survive. Nigerians now see themselves as members
of ethnic groups instead of citizens of a country. Consequently, there is a shift from community
values and thus the collective aspirations of the people of Nigeria are being abandoned.
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The desire for change and transformation led the Centre for Human Development and Social
Transformation (CHDST) to conduct research to determine student behaviours. The result
showed that students were prone to act in a violent way at the least provocation instead of
respecting and allowing the rule of law to take its place (CHDST, 2005). CHDST therefore
developed the programme that specifically target young persons. Youth form a significant
majority of the population of Nigeria (The United Nations Human Development index estimated
the population below 15 years to be about 46% of the total population). It is obvious that students
who are presently in secondary school have no experience of a democratic culture. They do not
know what is expected of them and neither do they know what they can expect. It is necessary to
have a program to educate the students on their civic responsibility and how to live peacefully.
Students, being part of the society, are affected by the situation. The average age of students in
the secondary schools is 10-17 years. The project is based on the premise that if students / youths
who form a significant majority of the population know their right and cultivate a culture of
democracy and skills of living peacefully, they will be a powerful voice in sustaining democratic
values and a culture of peace. It is an invaluable way to safeguard the future. The strategy is to
train teachers in both primary and secondary schools, who in turn will assist in training students
on a culture of peace. The desire is that this peace education project given in schools will have an
effect in the wider community. The project aims to contribute significantly at this critical
juncture of building a democratic culture among the young aspiring citizens of Nigeria. The way
to sustain democracy in Nigeria is to train the future leaders and their teachers. Make them
appreciate and believe in democracy by internalizing it as their strategy of hope for the future.
One of the strategies of the project is the formation of peace club in schools and the holding of
annual peace camp. The camp provides an atmosphere of friendship and interaction in which
peace education and conflict resolution are taught. The session considers the four values of
education: learn to know, learn to do, learn to be and learn to live peacefully. The participatory
approach is used and teachers who are already trained assist in the training of the students in the
summer camp. The trainings involve a range of interactive activities, workshops and role-play.
The peace camp is not a brainwashing exercise but rather one in which the enthusiasm in the
participant is awaken for a different way of looking at the world and humanity. Therefore it is
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not only about imparting “information” or a new “model” which sits in their heads. Much more
importantly, it is about bringing them to an experience in their own being, within their own souls
of what its like when you leave behind the world of ‘survival of the fittest’; “might is right” and
enter into a world of mutual support and recognition and acceptance of the other. To this end
their thinking ability – their world of feelings – their creativity – their humour – their will – their
own vulnerability – their strengths – shall be engaged and given expression. There will be games
in which there are no losers; team games where they have to depend on each other to complete
the course.
For example: You cannot teach a person trust by telling them about it. But you can play a game
in which one person is blindfolded and another must hold his shoulders from behind and guide
him as he boldly walks about so that he doesn’t fall or walk into anything. Or he can stand up
and fall backwards where his guide catches him and stops him from being hurt. Or he can stand
on a table blindfolded and fall forward off the table where eight of his peers catch him. Then the
partners swap roles until everyone has experienced all three games blindfolded. Then they talk
about how it was for them – what they experienced – emotions – likes and dislikes. These are
powerful experiences and when you then talk about trust and what it makes possible in society
and relationship, they have already experienced what you’re talking about.
It is also vital that the teachers, who are involved in educating the student, be aware of the
techniques of peace education and civic awareness and to assist the students in living this culture.
It is imperative that students appreciate and believe in culture of peace by internalizing it as their
strategy of hope for the future. The students trained will form a network of “peace clubs” in
various schools to continue to share ideas and to involve more students in the training.
The manual is a component of the programme it compliments and is a strategy for the attainment
of the goal of the project; some of the activities in the camp will be in the manual. The purpose
of the manual is to provide a document that the students can use in the various peace clubs. The
manual will enhance knowledge and skills sharing of peace building and conflict transformation.
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It emphases values needed for the building and attainment of a just and peaceful society. The
manual uses stories to illustrate this concept. Forest, H. (1996) stated that stories are powerful
tools in the learning process; it can be used for personal reflection and over time can take root
that can lead to transformation.
Role of Teachers
Educating the future leaders of Nigeria is a collective responsibility of parents, teachers, pupils
and all other adults in a community. It is a partnership to ensure that children can live peacefully
with themselves, their fellow students and the community.
The task of the teachers is to help students learn the basic skills of living peacefully. It is
important that we recognize the changing role of teachers in our educational institutions. How
can we assist the teachers to help the students to exercise their rights and live peacefully in the
society?
The framework for interaction can be like the diagram below adapted from UNICEF (2004).
This diagram shows the interrelationship between the learning environment, the teachers, the
materials and what is taught. The student is at the centre and what impact these factors have on
the student shapes their future as well as the role and contribution of the parents and the
community.
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Introduction to Manual
In the continuous search for peace in the world and more especially in the African continent,
scholars have posited various methods through which this can be attained. Chiefly amongst them
is inculcating the culture of peace in the citizenry. This is because conflicts are not caused by
abstract beings, but by individuals. While it may be difficult to change the ingrained culture of
adults, it should be easier to change the mind set of young learners. The cliché, ‘you cannot teach
an old dog new tricks’ is therefore apt. In order to build a culture of peace, those working in and
around peace movements must target the young ones even from the cradle. This of course does
not mean that we can still not change the mind set of adults – it will eventually change especially
where they notice that their children exhibit a different, more peaceful attitude about relationship
and life in general. Targeting the youth, therefore, will be performing many purposes. These
include grooming future leaders to always bear a peaceful attitude in their interactions with one
another. The other is to build a generation of peace-loving people so as to eliminate violent
conflicts in our societies thereby ensuring that the effects of conflict are eliminated. Thirdly, this
will have a spiraling effect in the society and the attitude of adults towards conflict will be
affected positively.
The mobility of labour in various parts of the world including Nigeria means that most people
work outside their place of origin or outside their ethnic communities. This movement of parents
also involves their children. Therefore, the characteristics of the school over the years have
changed. Students come from different social, political, economic and religious families. They
come with different worldviews and persuasions. The orientation and attitude in the family are
brought into the school environment and shape their actions in schools. This unique composition
of the schools make schools an interesting and complex place prone to different kinds of
conflicts. This is the case in the society; we should therefore not expect schools to be different.
Most times the conflicts among students have nothing to do with the school or its activities.
Therefore conflicts need to be accepted as part of our everyday life. Conflict should be
appreciated and transformed as opportunities for growth and development for all involved.
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The baseline studies conducted in schools showed that the basis of conflict resolution in schools
is vested in the disciplinary structures, whereby conflict is seen as a break in the established
school order. The method of resolving it therefore lies in restoring order by punishing the
offender. This method does not address the root causes of the conflict nor does it build better
friendship among the parties. There is therefore a need to look at alternatives. The teachers and
school authorities are very busy people, therefore there is need to empower student to be peer
mediators to help each other. It is expected that the whole school will therefore be turned into a
democratic and peaceful environment with the teachers and school authorities involved.
Users Guide
The development of the peace manual for the ‘Protect our Future’ project is to support the
learning of peace education in the peace clubs and possibly introduction to the community. The
peace clubs are places of friendship and solidarity. It is in the schools that peace education and
conflict resolution will be practiced, with the intention that it will have multiplier effect in the
communities. This manual acts as a guide for teachers in peace education. While it is advisable
to read and understand the contents before proceeding, when making use of the manual, the
teacher is encouraged to use stories and practical examples that the students would easily connect
with. For instance, if a particular programme is located in the northern part of Nigeria, the
teacher is encouraged to use stories and examples that originate in the traditional Hausa/Fulani
folklore to explain the different concepts that the students might find difficult to understand if
left in an abstractive formulae. Teachers are also encouraged to make the class as interactive as
possible. This means that all the students would have to participate in role playing so as to
enliven the study and let the lessons sink home.
Stories are means of instruction, when students listen to the following stories and reflect on them
through the guidance of a facilitator (Sande, 1997). They will become sensitive and imbibe the
lessons of peaceful living and conflict transformation. The concept of protecting our future
entails a deep empathy for our fellow human beings as members of one community. Through
these stories and the manual we hope to encourage youths to be mindful of their behaviours and
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seek ways of peaceful behaviors. The students will be able to learn songs which might
accompany the stories and will also be taught to be creative in introducing other songs or stories.
Reflection & Action:
We expect the facilitator to lead the students through a reflection. The questions below should
act as a guide, but the facilitator should be able to develop appropriate guides.
• Discuss the main points of the story told in relation to the theme (state the theme)
discussed?
• Develop and put yourself in the story. What part do you see yourself playing if you are
an actor in the story?
• Reflect on your feelings about the story.
• Describe the main actors of the stories and their various roles.
• Compose and present a song about story themes.
• Ask the students to write the words that the main theme of the day means to them. Let the
students explain what they feel and think in their own words.
• Let the students think of a time, they might have been in such situation?
If there is time you might want to divide the students into group to discuss their feelings
• Let them discuss their experience either in a group or 2 or 3 depending on the situation.
Any member of the group can then present his or her feeling.
The teacher and the students are encouraged to keep a reflective journal. This is where the
students and teachers can record their experiences and more importantly their thoughts,
experience, analysis and reactions to those experiences. The teacher should insist that EVERY
MEMBER OF THE PEACE CLUB SHOULD HAVE A JOUNAL OR NO TEBOOK!
Peace builders should be reflective practitioners.
We as Africans believe that humans are not necessary evil. We all want to live peacefully.
However, when people from different social, economic, ethnic, religious orientations are
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together, there is bound to be some misunderstanding. In resolving these disputes, everyone
wants to get something, and believes that others are standing in the way. In most cases emotions
run high, we ask ourselves, are we respected, and are we heard. It is in human nature for one to
feel respected and safe. If in the process of looking at the problem and striving for a solution,
people feel threatened or discounted, they are less likely to accept the decisions. It is therefore
vital that we examine the procedure through which we take decisions. In most cases when people
do not get favourable decisions, appreciating how the decision was made and believing that it
was fair, and they were provided an opportunity to present their side of the story, produces some
sense of satisfaction. In this manual and in the peace club, we will endeavor to practice these
principles.
The manual is therefore structured into eight sessions or tasks. The expected duration should be
60 minutes. The animator can structure the sessions as necessary the key is flexibility and ability
to adopt based on the reality in the school or community. However, a schedule can as follows:
• 5 Minutes: Introduction & Story telling
• 15 minutes: Reflection on the story
• 15 Minutes: Discussion of theme and underlining theory or principle
• 15 Minutes: Exercises and Activities based on the Theme
• 10 minutes: Debriefing and Closing
The manual will enhance knowledge and skills sharing of peace building and conflict
transformation. It seeks to build on the feeling and experience of the students as they practice
the activities in the manual which will lead to transformation. Therefore there are three key
aspect of the manual.
1. Story Telling
2. Exercises and Activities
3. Theory and Knowledge Sharing
This division of each session conforms to our understanding of the four values of education:
learn to know, learn to do, learn to be and learn to live peacefully. There are various stories and
exercises which the facilitator is free to decide which story is best suited for the themes to be
discussed. We expect feedback from teachers on what works and does not work well.
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Manual Division
The manual is further divided into nine tasks. The first Task explores some exercises on how the
participants can discover their true self. It is generally acknowledged that peace building starts
from within. There is the need to appreciate how we react or perceive and see the world. This is
followed by Task two which deals with our understanding of conflict. It deals with the concept
of conflict. The emphasis will be that conflict is a natural phenomenon which can happen at any
time and place. It is our reaction to conflict that determines if it is positive or negative. The
cause of conflict is examined. Task three examines various reactions to conflict with emphasis
that our reactions might be based on various factors. The concept of power is examined as well
as rights and interests. Task four answers the question drawing from various sources: Is peace
the absence of war or violence? It concludes that peace is possible and attainable with discipline.
The case for the introduction of peace education in schools was motivated for in Task five. The
use of third part in conflict situation is introduced in Task Six. It lays out the importance and
how it can be practiced. The various stages in the process are explained, while Task seven
explains peer mediation drawing from various experiences. Task eight is conceived as a tool kit.
It introduces different tools of peace building. The manual concludes with Task nine which
introduces the concept of non violence and strategies on how students can take various actions to
change situations in their community. We felt that this will be a perfect conclusion to the manual.
It is a process where student can reflect and take actions for change. This session was developed
in collaboration with students of George Mason University and the International Centre for Non
Violence. It will not be included in the work to be submitted to EMU.
Thank you and we hope that collectively we shall be able to protect our future. Please send all
your comments to:
Imoh Colins Edozie;
Centre for Human Development and Social Transformation.
House 13, IZZI Estate, 312 Aba Road, P.O.Box 6040, Port Harcourt, Nigeria.
There was once a religious teacher who wanted to make sure that his three disciples would, after
his death, find the right teacher of the Way for them. He therefore, after the obligatory bequests
laid down by law, left his disciples seventeen camels, with this order: “You will divide the
camels among the three of you in the following proportions: The oldest shall have half, the
middle in age one-third, and the youngest shall have one-ninth.” As soon as he was dead and the
will was read, the disciples were at first amazed at such an inefficient disposition of the Master’s
assets. One said, “Let us own the camels communally.” Another sought advice and then said, “I
have been told to make the nearest division.” Another was told by a judge to sell the camels and
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divide the money. A second judge held that the will was null and void because its provisions
could not be executed.
They then fell to thinking that there might be some hidden wisdom in the Master’s bequest, so
they made inquiries as to who could solve insoluble problems. Everyone they tried failed, until
they arrived at the door of the son-in-law of the Prophet, Hazrat Ali. He said: “This is your
solution. I will add one camel to the number. Out of the eighteen camels you will give half – nine
camels – to the oldest disciple. The second shall have a third of the total, which is six camels.
The last disciple may have one ninth, which is two camels. That makes seventeen. One – my
camel – is left over to be returned to me.” That is how the disciples found their teacher for them.
Story 9: What is Peace? By Arun Gandhi
An ancient Kalabari King who was obsessed with the desire to find the meaning of peace. What
is peace and how can we get it and when we find it what should we do with it were some of the
issues that bothered him. Intellectuals in his kingdom were invited to answer the King's questions
for a handsome reward. Many tried but none could explain how to find peace and what to do
with it. At last someone said the King ought to consult the sage who lived just outside the
borders of his Kingdom:
"He is an old man and very wise," the King was told. "If anyone can answer your questions he
can." The King went to the sage and posed the eternal question. Without a word the sage went
into the kitchen and brought a grain of wheat to the King. "In this you will find the answer to
your question," the Sage said as he placed the grain of wheat in the King's outstretched palm.
Puzzled but unwilling to admit his ignorance the King clutched the grain of wheat and returned
to his palace. He locked the precious grain in a tiny gold box and placed the box in his safe. Each
morning, upon waking, the King would open the box and look at the grain to seek an answer but
could find nothing.
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Weeks later another sage, passing through, stopped to meet the King who eagerly invited him to
resolve his dilemma. The King explained how he had asked the eternal question and this sage
gave him a grain of wheat instead. "I have been looking for an answer every morning but I find
nothing”.
The Sage said: "It is quite simple, your honor. Just as this grain represents nourishment for the
body, peace represents nourishment for the soul. Now, if you keep this grain locked up in a gold
box it will eventually perish without providing nourishment or multiplying. However, if it is
allowed to interact with the elements - light, water, air, and soil - it will flourish, multiply and
soon you would have a whole field of wheat which will nourish not only you but so many others.
This is the meaning of peace. It must nourish your soul and the souls of others; it must multiply
by interacting with the elements."
The following stories: Aesop’s Fables
Story 10: The North Wind and the Sun
THE NORTH WIND and the Sun disputed as to which was the most powerful, and agreed that
he should be declared the victor who could first strip a wayfaring man of his clothes. The North
Wind first tried his power and blew with all his might, but the keener his blasts, the closer the
Traveler wrapped his cloak around him, until at last, resigning all hope of victory, the Wind
called upon the Sun to see what he could do. The Sun suddenly shone out with all his warmth.
The Traveler no sooner felt his genial rays than he took off one garment after another, and at last,
fairly overcome with heat, undressed and bathed in a stream that lay in his path. Persuasion is
better than Force.
Story 11: Two Roads Overcame the Hyena
A very hungry hyena went out on a savanna plain to hunt for food. He came to a branch in the
bush road where the two paths veered off in different directions. He saw two goats caught in the
thickets at the far end of each of the two different paths. With his mouth watering in anticipation,
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he decided that his left leg would follow the left path and his right leg the right path. As the two
paths continued to veer in different directions he tried to follow them both at once. Finally he
split in two.
Story 12: The Two Cold Rodents (with Quills and Spines)
One cold night two Rodents with sharp spines found themselves alone out on the plains. There
was no shelter or place to keep warm. They only had their body heat. But they were scared that if
they stood too close together during the night one could prick and even kill the other by mistake.
After experimenting they found the right distance to stand next to each other. They were close
enough together that their bodies gave heat to each other, but far enough apart that they would
not prick each other during the night.
Story 13: The Boy and the Filberts
A BOY put his hand into a pitcher full of filberts. He grasped as many as he could possibly hold,
but when he tried to pull out his hand, he was prevented from doing so by the neck of the pitcher.
Unwilling to lose his filberts, and yet unable to withdraw his hand, he burst into tears and bitterly
lamented his disappointment. A bystander said to him, "Be satisfied with half the quantity, and
you will readily draw out your hand." Do not attempt too much at once.
Story 14: The Mouse, the Frog, and the Hawk
A MOUSE who always lived on the land, by an unlucky chance formed an intimate
acquaintance with a Frog, who lived for the most part in the water. The Frog, one day intent on
mischief, bound the foot of the Mouse tightly to his own. Thus joined together, the Frog first of
all led his friend the Mouse to the meadow where they were accustomed to find their food. After
this, he gradually led him towards the pool in which he lived, until reaching the very brink, he
suddenly jumped in, dragging the Mouse with him. The Frog enjoyed the water amazingly, and
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swam croaking about, as if he had done a good deed. The unhappy Mouse was soon suffocated
by the water, and his dead body floated about on the surface, tied to the foot of the Frog. A Hawk
observed it, and, pouncing upon it with his talons, carried it aloft. The Frog, being still fastened
to the leg of the Mouse, was also carried off a prisoner, and was eaten by the Hawk. Harm hatch,
harm catch.
Story 15: The Lion and the Boar
ON A SUMMER DAY, when the great heat induced a general thirst among the beasts, a Lion
and a Boar came at the same moment to a small well to drink. They fiercely disputed which of
them should drink first, and were soon engaged in the agonies of a mortal combat. When they
stopped suddenly to catch their breath for a fiercer renewal of the fight, they saw some Vultures
waiting in the distance to feast on the one that should fall first.
Story 16: Origin of Death Myth of the Chameleon and the Lizard
When God had finished creation he wanted to send people an important message. He called the
chameleon to go and tell them that after death they will return to life. The lizard had
eavesdropped. However, she had misunderstood what the chameleon was told. She ran quickly to
tell people what she thought she had heard God say: "After death there is no return." The agile
lizard had long reached the people when the chameleon was still on his way. People thought the
lizard's message natural and a matter of fact. When at last the chameleon arrived and delivered
God's message, people ridiculed him and said: "You stupid chameleon, we already know that we
are all going to die and that death is the end of everything."
Story 17: The Community of Rats
Once upon a time there was a community of rats in a certain African village. In one particular
house a big and mean cat terrorized the rats. They decided to work together and build a small but
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strong hole that they could easily enter, but the bigger cat couldn't. After finishing and testing the
hole the rats were very pleased by their teamwork and cooperation together. But then at a
community meeting one rat said: "The cat himself can't go into the hole but he can still catch us
as we enter and leave the hole. Who is going to tie a bell around the cat's neck to warn us when
he is approaching?" Everyone was silent. All were afraid. While they succeeded in building the
hole together, no one was ready to sacrifice himself or herself to tie the bell.
Story 18: The Fisherman Piping
A FISHERMAN skilled in music took his flute and his nets to the seashore. Standing on a
projecting rock, he played several tunes in the hope that the fish, attracted by his melody, would
of their own accord dance into his net, which he had placed below. At last, having long waited in
vain, he laid aside his flute, and casting his net into the sea, made an excellent haul of fish.
Story 19: The Wolf and the Lamb
WOLF, meeting with a Lamb astray from the fold, resolved not to lay violent hands on him, but
to find some plea to justify to the Lamb the Wolf's right to eat him. He thus addressed him:
"Sirrah, last year you grossly insulted me." "Indeed," bleated the Lamb in a mournful tone of
voice, "I was not then born." Then said the Wolf, "You feed in my pasture." "No, good sir,"
replied the Lamb, "I have not yet tasted grass." Again said the Wolf, "You drink of my well."
"No," exclaimed the Lamb, "I never yet drank water, for as yet my mother's milk is both food
and drink to me." Upon which the Wolf seized him and ate him up, saying, "Well! I won't remain
supperless, even though you refute every one of my imputations."
Story 20: The Labourer and the Snake
A SNAKE, having made his hole close to the porch of a cottage, inflicted a mortal bite on the
Cottager's infant son. Grieving over his loss, the Father resolved to kill the Snake. The next day,
when it came out of its hole for food, he took up his axe, but by swinging too hastily, missed its
head and cut off only the end of its tail. After some time the Cottager, afraid that the Snake
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would bite him also, endeavoured to make peace, and placed some bread and salt in the hole. The
Snake, slightly hissing, said: "There can henceforth be no peace between us; for whenever I see
you I shall remember the loss of my tail, and whenever you see me you will be thinking of the
death of your son."
Story 21: The Piglet, the Sheep, and the Goat
A YOUNG PIG was shut up in a fold-yard with a Goat and a Sheep. On one occasion when the
shepherd laid hold of him, he grunted and squeaked and resisted violently. The Sheep and the
Goat complained of his distressing cries, saying, "He often handles us, and we do not cry out."
To this the Pig replied, "Your handling and mine are very different things. He catches you only
for your wool, or your milk, but he lays hold on me for my very life."
Story 22: The Man and the Lion
A MAN and a Lion traveled together through the forest. They soon began to boast of their
respective superiority to each other in strength and prowess. As they were disputing, they passed
a statue carved in stone, which represented "a Lion strangled by a Man." The traveler pointed to
it and said: "See there! How strong we are, and how we prevail over even the king of beasts."
The Lion replied: "This statue was made by one of you men. If we Lions knew how to erect
statues, you would see the Man placed under the paw of the Lion."
Story 23: How the Monkeys Saved the Fish
The rainy season that year had been the strongest ever and the river had broken its banks. There
were floods everyhere and the animals were all running up into the hills. The floods came so fast
that many drowned except the lucky monkeys who used their proverbial agility to climb up into
the treetops. They looked down on the surface of the water where the fish were swimming and
gracefully jumping out of the water as if they were the only ones enjoying the devastating flood.
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One of the monkeys saw the fish and shouted to his companion: "Look down, my friend, look at
those poor creatures. They are going to drown. Do you see how they struggle in the water?"
"Yes," said the other monkey. "What a pity! Probably they were late in escaping to the hills
because they seem to have no legs. How can we save them?" "I think we must do something.
Let's go close to the edge of the flood where the water is not deep enough to cover us, and we
can help them to get out."
So the monkeys did just that. They started catching the fish, but not without difficulty. One by
one, they brought them out of the water and put them carefully on the dry land. After a short time
there was a pile of fish lying on the grass motionless. One of the monkeys said, "Do you see?
They were tired, but now they are just sleeping and resting. Had it not been for us, my friend, all
these poor people without legs would have drowned."
The other monkey said: "They were trying to escape from us because they could not understand
our good intentions. But when they wake up they will be very grateful because we have brought
them salvation."
Story 24: The Donkey and the Small dog
A MAN had a Donkey, and a small Dog a very great beauty. The Donkey was left in a stable and
had plenty of oats and hay to eat, just as any other Donkey would. The Small Dog knew many
tricks and was a great favourite with his master, who often fondled him and seldom went out to
dine without bringing him home some titbit to eat. The Donkey, on the contrary, had much work
to do in grinding the corn-mill and in carrying wood from the forest or burdens from the farm.
He often lamented his own hard fate and contrasted it with the luxury and idleness of the Small
Dog, till at last one day he broke his cords and halter, and galloped into his master's house,
kicking up his heels without measure, and frisking and fawning as well as he could. He next tried
to jump about his master as he had seen the Small Dog do, but he broke the table and smashed all
the dishes upon it to atoms. He then attempted to lick his master, and jumped upon his back.
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The servants, hearing the strange hubbub and perceiving the danger of their master, quickly
relieved him, and drove out the Donkey to his stable with kicks and clubs and cuffs.
Story 25: The Three Tradesmen
A GREAT CITY was besieged, and its inhabitants were called together to consider the best
means of protecting it from the enemy. A Bricklayer earnestly recommended bricks as affording
the best material for an effective resistance. A Carpenter, with equal enthusiasm, proposed
timber as a preferable method of defence. Upon which a Currier stood up and said, "Sirs, I differ
from you altogether: there is no material for resistance equal to a covering of hides; and nothing
so good as leather."
Story 26: The Widow and Her Little Maidens
A WIDOW who was fond of cleaning had two little maidens to wait on her. She was in the habit
of waking them early in the morning, at cockcrow. The maidens, aggravated by such excessive
labour, resolved to kill the cock who roused their mistress so early. When they had done this,
they found that they had only prepared for themselves greater troubles, for their mistress, no
longer hearing the hour from the cock, woke them up to their work in the middle of the night.
.
Story 27: The Gamecocks and the Partridge
A MAN had two Gamecocks in his poultry-yard. One day by chance he found a tame Partridge
for sale. He purchased it and brought it home to be reared with his Gamecocks. When the
Partridge was put into the poultry-yard, they struck at it and followed it about, so that the
Partridge became grievously troubled and supposed that he was thus evilly treated because he
was a stranger. Not long afterwards he saw the Cocks fighting together and not separating before
one had well beaten the other. He then said to himself, "I shall no longer distress myself at being
struck at by these Gamecocks, when I see that they cannot even refrain from quarreling with
each other."
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Story 28: The Father and His Two Daughters
A MAN had two daughters, the one married to a gardener, and the other to a tile-maker. After a
time he went to the daughter who had married the gardener, and inquired how she was and how
all things went with her. She said, "All things are prospering with me, and I have only one wish,
that there may be a heavy fall of rain, in order that the plants may be well watered." Not long
after, he went to the daughter who had married the tile maker, and likewise inquired of her how
she fared; she replied, "I want for nothing, and have only one wish, that the dry weather may
continue, and the sun shine hot and bright, so that the bricks might be dried." He said to her, "If
your sister wishes for rain, and you for dry weather, with which of the two am I to join my
wishes?'
Story 29: The Donkey and His Shadow
A TRAVELER hired a Donkey to convey him to a distant place. The day being intensely hot,
and the sun shining in its strength, the Traveler stopped to rest, and sought shelter from the heat
under the Shadow of the Donkey. As this afforded only protection for one, and as the Traveller
and the owner of the Donkey both claimed it, a violent dispute arose between them as to which
of them had the right to the Shadow. The owner maintained that he had let the Donkey only, and
not his Shadow. The Traveler Donkeyerted that he had, with the hire of the Donkey, hired his
Shadow also. The quarrel proceeded from words to blows, and while the men fought, the Donkey
galloped off.
Story 30: The Story of the Rainbow
Once upon a time, the colours started to quarrel; each claimed to the best, the most
important, the most useful and the favourite. Green said: “Clearly I am the most important. I am
the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves – without me all the animals
would die. Look out over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority.”
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Blue interrupted: “You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is water
that is the basis of life and this is drawn up by the clouds from the blue sea. The sky gives space
and peace and serenity. Without my peace you would all be nothing but busybodies.”
Yellow smiled and said: “You are all so serious. I bring laughter and warmth into the world.
The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, and the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a
sunflower the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun.”
Orange started next: “I am the colour of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am
precious for I serve the inner needs of human life. I carry all the most important vitamins. Think
of carrots and oranges, mangoes and paw paws. I don’t hang around all the time, but when I fill
the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of
you.”
Red could stand it no longer and shouted out: “I’m the ruler of you all, blood, life is blood. I
am the colour of danger, passion and love. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire in the
blood. Without me the earth would be empty as the moon.
Purple rose up to his full height and spoke with great pomp: “I am the colour of
royalty and power. Kings, chiefs and bishops have always chosen me for I am a sign of authority
and wisdom. People do not question me – they listen and obey.”
Indigo spoke much more quietly than all the others, but just as determinedly:
“Think of me. I am the colour of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me, you all become
superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep waters. You need me for
balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace.”
And so the colours went on arguing, each convinced of being the best. Their quarrel
became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a flash of brilliant white lightning; thunder rolled
and boomed. Rain started to fall down heavily. The colours all crouched down in fear, drawing
close to one another for comfort.
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Then the Rain spoke: “You foolish colours, fighting among yourselves, each trying to dominate
the rest. Do you know that God made you all? Each of you for a special, unique and different
purpose. God loves you all. God wants you all. Join hands with one another and come with me.
God will stretch you across the sky in a great bow of colour, as are minder that God loves you
all, that you can live together in peace; a sign of hope for tomorrow.”
Based on an Indian legend, adapted from Anne Hope, in: Training for Transformation, Book I, S.
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Story 31: The Cracked Pot
A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole, which he carried
across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always
delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master’s house,
the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full 2 years this went on daily, with the bearer
delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master’s house. Of course the perfect pot
was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor
cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish
only half of what it had been made to do.
After 2 years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, the cracked pot spoke to the
water bearer one day by the stream. “I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you.”
“Why?” asked the bearer. “What are you ashamed of?” “I have been able, for these past two
years to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the
way back to your master’s house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you
don’t get full value from your efforts,” the cracked pot said. The water bearer felt sorry for the
old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said: “As we return to the master’s house, I want you
to notice the beautiful flowers along the path.” Indeed as they went up the hill, the old cracked
pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path. But at the
end of the trail, it still felt bad because it that leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized
to the bearer for its failure.
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The bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side
of the path, but not on the other pot’s side? That’s because I have always known about your flaw,
and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while
we walk back from the stream, you’ve watered them. For 2 years I have been able to pick these
beautiful flowers to decorate my master’s table. Without you being just the way you are, he
would not have this beauty to grace his house.”
Based on an Indian legend
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