I t’s like having a guidebook written just for you. No touristy rip-offs or stan- dard recommendations. It’s getting downright personal with your destina- tion. From having high tea with the de- scendant of an erstwshile nawab of Luc- know to sharing a home-cooked meal of kolumbus, pootus and poriyals at a local’s home in Chennai — local sharing and caring is every traveller’s demand today. “Conventional luxury is available in al- most every travel destination. What people are searching for is meaningful and au- thentic experiences — whether it’s an enrich- ing conversation or a de- licious dish they can share with their friends upon their return,” says Aashi Vel, co-founder, Traveling Spoon – Travel Off The Eaten Path, a community that lets travellers dine at local people’s homes around the world, including India. PERSONAL CONNECT Who would you rather have in your jeep on a tiger safari… a seasoned wildlife photographer or a regular guide? We all know the answer. Face-to-face recom- mendations and insider tips from in-the- know locals or professionals rank much higher on people’s itinerary than a tour escort’s rehearsed stories. “Local travel comprises authentic, off-the-beaten track experiences. It can range from meeting an ex-monk in Malaysia, who will take you through several sacred spots to learn- ing how to cook organically with a fami- ly in Bali,” says Madalina Buzdugan, communication manager of Withlocals. Connecting with local people is also easier than ever thanks to technology. This rapidly growing trend is transform- ing how travellers see the world. And what’s the best part? It’s all very cost-effective. The trend is en- couraging individuals and communities to share their resources, right from sharing their couches, renting their cars, leasing out their residential farms for camping, to hosting deli- cious dine-ins. MICRO TOURISM In local travel, the trips could get as nar- rowed down as meandering through the Dharavi slum in Mumbai (by the startup Padhaaro) or seeing Agra in battery-driven rickshaws. Seeksherpa.com, a website cur- rently operational across New Delhi, Mumbai, Kolkata and Bengaluru, offers potential tourists the option of choosing specially-created tours, all priced under Rs 3,000! These micro tours offer a plethora of options — from street photography in old Delhi to cycling in the British-era Mumbai. Micro tours are also ideal if you’re passing through and only have a limited amount of time. The best feature is that anyone can sign up to be a sherpa/friend/greeter/local expert. All you need is the enthusiasm to talk to people and, of course, sound knowledge on the lay of the land. Local travel is big not just among the budget traveller, but also for those who have travelled abroad extensively, and now want to explore their own country in detail. Holidaymakers are accepting that the exoticness of the unknown doesn’t have to take the form of a desert island in the middle of the Pacific… it could be hid- den in their own backyard. “Earlier, only going abroad was seen as glamorous, but now going to the Rannotsav or doing a high-altitude drive in Ladakh is also a talking point,” says Piya Bose of Girls on The Go Club. Her Great Rann of Kutch vacation is all about staying with the tribals in their traditional huts and buying authentic embroidery first hand. The trip also includes a rendezvous with a collector of ancient fossils and di- nosaur eggs… an experience one would surely miss on a guided tour. FOOD MELTS BORDERS Going by the popularity of local travel, you’d probably be booking a delicious home meal instead of a fancy restaurant on your next va- cation. Imagine accompa- nying local hosts in Ra- jasthan on a spice bazaar tour before being served a rich Rajasthani spread of soolas (a battle- field speciality meat), ker sangri and bajra roti with chunks of homemade butter! “Cook- ing and sharing a meal allows people to open up, share stories and realise how similar we are despite cultural differ- ences,” sums up Aashi. 4 PAGES, A SUPPLEMENT OF SUNDAY TIMES OF INDIA FEBRUARY 22, 2015 DEL D o you spend hours in the gym try- ing to chisel out abs of steel for an added dose of ‘machista’*? Hear out what Pope Francis said recently during a meeting with youths at the University of Santo Tomas, Manila. He advised men to shun machismo and lend a ear to women. The Pope said, “Women have much to tell us in today’s society. At times, we men are too ‘machista’ (*Spanish term for male chauvinists). We don’t allow room for women, but women are capable of seeing things with a different an- gle... with a different eye. Women are able to pose questions that we men are not able to understand.” We talk to people from various fields to find out whether they agree. MEN, forget being macho! There’s nothing sexier than confid- ence, but over- confidence is a huge turn-off. A lot of men think they know it all and aren’t ready to see things from a woman’s point of view. Such men are weak and insecure. It’s no longer fashionable to be a macho man. Our society should accept men who portray their emotions freely, listen to women more often! —Evelyn Sharma, actor I agree with the Pope completely. Since women have the ability to give life, they are connected to the universe differently than men. Moreover, their perspective is well-rounded, and very few men possess this quality. Listen to the ladies; you might become wiser! — Robin Uthappa, cricketer While growing up, I believed macho was a particular look combined with certain traits, or men who were daring. Even the reckless were considered macho.To me, macho-ism is a tool that should be used at the right time and at the right place, and for the right reason. Women are better equipped to deal with situations which macho men run away from —Nitin Mirani, comedian To me, macho simply means a sense of pride and strength in what I do well. My question is:When men can be called sexy, why can’t women be called macho? Just like Virat Kohli disp- lays machismo on the cricket field, Mary Kom portrays machismo in the boxing ring. — Anshuman Jha, actor Macho men are men with great looks; they are well-behaved and chivalrous and can handle any given situation sensibly.Times have changed and women have evolved. Men and women now have an equal say in everything and both the sexes can be ‘macho’. —Preety Bhalla, singer Machista has nothing to do with being muscular or flaunting 6-pack abs. It's got nothing to do with how many guys you punched. A true macho man is the one who is not a chauvinist and believes in protecting, caring and being equal. I second the Pope’s statement.Women are often stronger than men in terms of EQ and IQ; their reasoning skill is par excellence —Swapnil Shinde, fashion designer PIC: THINKSTOCK [email protected] “Earlier, only going abroad was seen as glam- orous, now, going to the Rannotsav or doing a high- altitude drive in Ladakh is also a talking point.” —Piya Bose of Girl On The Go Club [email protected] CHECKLIST BEFORE YOUR TRIP z Do your background check on the locals you will be hanging out with, especially if you’re staying with them. z Keep an open mind. Don’t be judg- mental about lifetyle or food choices of your host. It was your decision to be adventurous and try something new. “Opening up your home space for travellers can be enriching. We once invit- ed an Iranian family to stay with us in Mumbai. The lady cooked a fabulous Iranian meal for us and did the traditional aarti with my wife every morning.” —Jishu Dev, a media professional travel planner what they said It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end — Ernest Hemingway, American author, journalist There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right — Martin Luther King Jr, activist, humanitarian, leader in the African-American Civil Rights Movement Buying travelogues or booking tourist guides isn’t the same as travelling with a local companion who takes you through the secret coves and homespun bistros for that authentic flavour. Local travel is trending big time this year TOUCH, FEEL, SMELL… TRAVEL points of view