Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna, PLLC North Carolina Licensed Attorneys 2017 Publication NC Estate Planning Fundamentals
Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna, PLLCNorth Carolina Licensed Attorneys2017 Publication
NC Estate Planning
Fundamentals
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Introduction
NC Estate Planning Fundamentals is an
extensive guide to the most common estate
planning tools used to prepare for incapacity and
the inevitability of death. A detailed explanation of
each tool is provided along with items to consider
when implementing the tool as part of your estate
plan.
One of the most difficult parts for loved ones in
assisting you once you are incapacitated and in
handling your affairs after you’ve passed is locating
your assets. For that reason, this guide contains a
planner that will allow you to keep all of the
information your loved ones might need.
For additional information or assistance, please
contact Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna, PLLC at (919)
244-2019 or visit us on the web at
http://www.hoplerwilms.com.
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A Quick Look
•Not Useful Until You Have Passed
•Disposes of Personal and Real Property
•Does Not Include “Beneficiary” Property
•Appoints an Executor
•Nominates a Guardian
•Create a Testamentary Trust
•Not Required to be Filed Until You Have Passed
Last Will & Testament
•Transfer Property to Trust During Lifetime
•Useful for Managing Assets When You Cannot
•Avoids Probate
•More Privacy with Living Trust
•Not Filed
Living Trust
•Grants Broad Authority to Manage Affairs
•Effective when Signed or Effective when Incapacitated
•Limit the Scope of Authority Granted
•Not Effective Once You Pass
•Nominate a Guardian for Yourself when Incompetent
•Revoke with a Separate Written Instrument
•Should File with the Register of Deeds
Power of Attorney
•Appoint an Agent to Make Medical Decisions
•Effective Only if Unable to Make/Communicate MedicalDecisions
•Set Limits on Decisions Made
•Decisions about Remains, Organ Donation, &Anatomical Study
•Nominate a Guardian if Incompetent
•May File with Secretary of State
Health Care Power of Attorney
•Decide when to Withhold Life Prolonging Measures
•Make you as Comfortable as Possible even if it Hastensyour Death
•Let Health Care Agent Override or Take Decision Awayfrom Agent
•Releases Liability for Following Directive
•May File with Secretary of State
Advance Directive
(“Living Will”)
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The Last Will and
TestamentThe Last Will and Testament is a document which expresses your intent
once you pass of how you want your affairs handled. This includes naming
beneficiaries, nominating a guardian for children, naming the person who
will manage your affairs, and deciding how and under what conditions your
property is distributed.
The Last Will and Testament will usually begin with an introductory paragraph
(“exordium”) which states that you are making this Will, provides some identifying
information, typically will revoke all prior Wills, and may identify some or all of the people
names later in the Will. You may have a blended family, with adopted children, step-
children, or unrelated parties that you want treated as if they were family. If you do
have people in your life that fall
into these categories, it is
especially important to indicate
your intent. It is also important to
acknowledge somewhere in the
Will if you are intending to
disinherit a natural heir, such as a
child. If you are intending to
make a change to a previous
Will, you will usually indicate that
purpose by reincorporating the
previous Will and indicating the
changes you are making.
Inadvertent omissions or mistakes can be avoided by redoing the entire Will instead of
executing a codicil. The Will should allow for the payment of your debts and the costs of
administering the estate. You should also allow the funeral expenses to be paid from the
estate. There is a statutory amount which is allowed to be paid, but it has not been
adjusted, and is presently insufficient to pay for most funeral services.
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While some people leave “everything” to one person
or to more than one person to be split among them, some
people prefer to make gifts of specific items to designated
people. There are a number of ways to handle this.
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Name the Executor as beneficiary and request that he or she gift it to the named
people as described in attachment.
(Can update this later without execution)
Give it to the named people directly in the Will or via
attachment.
(Cannot update this without full execution later)
Give “categories” of property to named individuals.
(Cannot update this without full execution later)
Leave everything to one or more beneficiaries to split, and request items be given
from beneficiaries to named people
(Can update later without execution)
Bequest a sum or category of property to a class of
beneficiaries.
(Cannot update this without full execution)
Use a fact of independent significance
[all the property in my living room, all the books in my
library]
(Alter the condition to update without a full execution.)
Residuary
Every Will should have a
residuary clause to avoid a
situation of partial intestacy.
Even if you are sure you have
specifically devised all
property, the residuary will deal
with unexpected property
interests and lapsed gifts. The
residuary is essentially the
catch-all “everything else goes
to X” clause.
Specific Bequests
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Naming an ExecutorThe Will should specifically appoint an Executor to serve for
the Estate. It should also name multiple backup options for the
preferred Executor. If we run out of options, we may use persons in
the following order of priority:
(1) The surviving spouse of the decedent;
(2) Any devisee of the testator;
(3) Any heir of the decedent;
(4) Any next of kin (closer degrees of kinship have higher priority)
(5) Any creditor to whom the decedent became obligated prior to
the decedent's death;
(6) Any person of good character residing in the county who applies
therefor; and
(7) Any other person of good character not disqualified
You should speak with your potential Executors to make sure
they are willing to serve. They should also be aware of where you
store your Will for safekeeping and should typically have a copy of it
for their own records.
In your Will, you can waive the necessity of the Executor to
be bonded. This may save the Estate some expenses.
The terms “executor”,
“executrix”, and “personal
representative” all refer to the
same fiduciary position. The
terms “administrator” or
“administratrix” refer to the
person appointed to handle the
affairs of a person that died
without a Will. “Personal
Representative” is a generic
term for all of the above.
Executors may be entitled to a
commission of up to 5% of
receipts and disbursements,
but you may specify otherwise
in the will.
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For dealing with assets to be inherited by
children. You have several options available. The most
common methods are to leave property to a child while
referencing the Uniform Transfer to Minors Act. This is
basically a trust built into a statute and it often
addresses all of a testator’s concerns.
For those with additional concerns, you can
create a testamentary trust – a trust that does not exist
until certain conditions are met which you set in your
Will – and then a trust is created to manage property for
a minor. You dictate all the terms and conditions of the
trust as part of your Will. This is the most flexible option
to control distributions to children. Additionally, if you
have an adult beneficiary that you have concerns about,
you may create a testamentary trust to manage property
for them as well.
Minors and People Not
Responsible with MoneyThe terms “executor”,
“executrix”, and “personal
representative” all refer to the
same fiduciary position. The
terms “administrator” or
“administratrix” refer to the
person appointed to handle the
affairs of a person that died
without a Will. “Personal
Representative” is a generic
term for all of the above.
Executors may be entitled to a
commission up to 5% of
receipts and disbursements,
but you may specify otherwise
in the will.
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Revocable Living Trusts
A Revocable Living Trust is an estate planning tool which often acts as a
“Will Substitute”, meaning that the distribution of the property that you
acquired during your lifetime would be controlled through this instrument
instead of the Will. The Revocable Living Trust is also a useful tool for
planning for incapacity and for avoiding the time and expense associated
with probate.
A trust is a fiduciary relationship with respect to property in which the trustee holds
legal title to the trust property pursuant to agreement with the trust’s grantor or settlor,
subject to enforceable equitable rights in the beneficiary. Living trusts are commonly used
as will substitutes. A typical revocable trust provides that during the settlor’s lifetime, he or
she may withdraw or direct the use of trust assets. The trust agreement may provide for
how trust assets are to be used
during the settlor’s incapacity and
therefore can be helpful in planning
for incapacity. There are
advantages to using this method
over a Power of Attorney to plan for
incapacity. Generally, a trustee has
an easier time dealing with financial
institutions. Typically the trust
activity causes the trust to be a
disregarded entity, so the settlor
does nothing different on their tax
return as a result of having a trust. If a revocable trust is used, the dispositive provisions of
an estate plan can be kept private. A revocable trust is not filed with the Clerk of Court like
a Will would be. The desire for privacy is a reason many clients choose a revocable trust
for estate planning. As public records become more and more accessible online, the
likelihood of information in a Will being viewed grows higher.
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One of the main benefits of a revocable
trust is that, if it is properly funded, it can help a
settlor avoid the probate process. If a person’s
assets are all held in a revocable trust at the time
of that person’s death, then none of those assets
would be held in the person’s individual name, so
there would be no assets subject to probate. Not
only does this save time and probate fees, but it
also maintains privacy, since probate filings are
public record.
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In addition to remaining outside of
the probate process, NC also allows for a
certification of trust. A certification of trust
sets out important information about a
trust without disclosing the dispositive
terms of the trust. This allows a person to
provide the information necessary to
transact business for the trust without
having to turn over the entire trust
agreement. A certification includes the
existence and date of the trust, the identity
Avoid Probate Maintain Privacy
of the settlor (unless withheld under a specific provision in the trust), the identity and address of the
current trustee, the powers of the trustee, the revocability or irrevocability of the trust, disclosure of
who has power to revoke the trust, the authority of co-trustees to execute documents, the trust’s
taxpayer identification number, and the manner of taking title to trust property.
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To put assets into a trust, the trust must be adequately identified. For example, the
title of trust assets may be held in this form:
John Smith, Trustee of the John Smith Revocable Trust dated July 4, 2017.
The title has the trustee’s name, the name of the trust, and the date of the trust
agreement. It supplies sufficient identifying information for the trust. Title to assets is
held by the trustee. The trust is a relationship – not a separate entity.
When you modify a trust, you execute “Trust Amendments” which can order the
revocation and replacement of provisions of the trust. Even after a modification, you
continue to identify the trust by its original date.
Identifying the Trust
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Assets Held by the Trust
Cash
•Bank account should be re-titled in the name of the trust.
•You may wish to not re-title small joint accounts.
•Accounts can be titled in the name of the trust but checks will not indicate it.
Investment Accounts
•A broker or custodian can help change title of the account.
•Procedure is the same as for deposit accounts.
Other Stocks and Bonds
•You can open a brokerage account in the name of the trust and deposit the certificates.
•You can work with the transfer agent to reissue the stock to the trustee.
Tangible Personal Property
•If “titled” property, transfer title to the trust.
•If non-titled, then a declaration that the trust is the owner of the property is used.
•Vehicles in the name of the trust can cause issues obtaining insurance.
Retirement Plans
•Name the trust as beneficiary.
•Be careful to avoid tax issues when designating a trust as a beneficiary.
Promissory Notes and Other Receivables
•Typically a written instrument assigning the interest is sufficient.
Partnership Interests
•Partnership Agreements may have restrictions on transfer.
•Transfer can occur through written assignment signed by settlor and acknowledged by other partners.
Corporate Interests
•Corporations cancel certificates and issue new certificates.
•For LLC’s, the operating agreement will determine how a transfer occurs.
Real Property
•A deed is required to transfer an interest in real property.
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Power of Attorney
The Power of Attorney is a tool used to plan for incapacity. It designates
another to make decisions about your affairs on your behalf. It grants
broad, sweeping authority to another and should not be granted lightly. A
Power of Attorney is only effective while you are living and becomes
ineffective at your death.
The Power of Attorney is one of the most important pieces of your estate plan. It
prepares for your possible incapacity. Without such a document, you and your family are
vulnerable to suffering through guardianship proceedings. Guardianships must be
established when no one has been named to handle the assets of an individual, and no
one has been named to make
health care decisions for the
individual. Guardianships are
costly, potentially embarrassing
for the client, and awkward for
the family member or friend who
must initiate the process.
Planning for potential incapacity
is planning that could well impact
the quality of your day-to-day life.
Planning for the inevitability of
death is important, but,
depending on your view, after you
die, you will be unaware of probate, taxes, or unhappy beneficiaries. Failure to plan for
potential incapacity may result in a less-than-desirable person being in charge of your
checkbook and your care decisions. An effective estate plan must include a durable power
of attorney.
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The AIF can perform all acts that the principal could
perform. Exceptions: Marriage, Divorce, Voting, and Writing a Will.
Some powers should be expressly included, such as gifting
if it will include gifts to the AIF, designating beneficiaries on IRA’s,
transferring property into a revocable trust, and disclaiming
property.
You can limit the power to specific things, such as to a
particular real estate transaction or use of a specific bank account.
You can make the POA durable, so it continues to be
effective when you are incapacitated or incompetent. The POA
must be recorded for it to be effective when someone is
incapacitated or incompetent.
Springing vs. Non-Springing: A POA can be effective when
you sign it, or it can be effective upon the happening of an event,
like incompetence or incapacity. There are pros and cons of both
types. Often, a determination in writing by a physician as to your
deteriorated mental state is the triggering event.
The POA is effective only while alive, and if you want to
revoke a recorded POA, then you will want to serve the revocation
and record both proof of service and the revocation with the
Register of Deeds where you recorded the POA.
Principal:
The person executing the
power of attorney
designating someone to
act on his or her behalf
Attorney-in-fact:
The attorney-in-fact is the
person being designated
to act on behalf of the
principal. This does not
need to be an attorney.
The duty of the attorney-
in-fact is to act in the best
interest of the principal.
He or she must be at least
18. There is not a
requirement that he or
she be local, but it is
usually helpful.
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The basic principle behind powers of attorney is
that one person (the principal) gives another (the
agent or attorney-in-fact) the power to act on his
or her behalf, as long as the principal consents to
the action. In other words, one person may act as
if they are the other person, but only to the extent
that that person gives them permission to do so.
A power of attorney is usually created through a
written instrument, but no particular form of
writing is required. It must be executed under seal
if the writing executed by the attorney-in-fact is
under seal. A power of attorney must be recorded
if the agent wants to act on behalf of the principal
with regards to real property. To execute
instruments, it doesn’t matter if the attorney-in
fact signs the principal’s name as the attorney-in-
fact or signs his own name on behalf of the
principal.
The writing defines the scope and duration of the
power of attorney. A principal can give the agent
very broad and general powers, or define them
narrowly. The duration is set out in the writing and
can be as long or short as the principal wants.
Importantly, even if the principal says that the
power of attorney is irrevocable in the writing, the
principal usually will still have the ability to take
the power away from the agent.
There are certain constraints on the agency-
principal relationship that a power of attorney
creates. The first is that the relationship is
fiduciary; it implies that the principal has placed
trust or confidence in the agent, and the agent or
employee is bound to the exercise of the utmost
good faith, loyalty, and honesty toward his
principal or employer. The second constraint
involves public policy. Generally, personal
services contract obligations can’t be delegated
from the principal to the agent. For example, you
couldn’t, in your powers of attorney, delegate an
obligation to paint a portrait for someone. Even
with a written durable power of attorney, the
principal can’t give the agent powers that have
been traditionally prohibited by common law,
unless it has been changed by statute. The third
constraint involves the “four undelegables;” that
the attorney-in-fact can’t vote, get married, get
divorced, or write a will for the principal, but there
is some flexibility. In terms of voting, if there are
constitutional implications connected to the voting
right, it can’t be delegated. This is especially true
if a statute requires a personal act. However, the
power to vote may be delegated if the voting right
has something less than a political election with
constitutional implications attached to the right.
With marriage, generally both parties need to be
present In North Carolina only a competent
spouse may commence an action for absolute
divorce, but an attorney-in-fact may commence,
defend, maintain, arbitrate, mediate, or settle any
action under Chapter 55 of the N.C. General
Statutes. With regard to wills, almost everyone
agrees that you have to execute your own,
meaning that you can’t delegate the authority to
an attorney-in-fact. The statutes are in alignment
with that. The fourth constraint on the agent-
principal relationship is a limited power to fund a
trust. The power of an agent acting under a
power of attorney to deal with a trust is expressly
set out in N.C., Section 36C-6-602.1 of the
Uniform Trust Code.
Finally, certain events can terminate the agency
such as death of a principal, incapacity of the
principal, death of the agent, incapacity of the
agent, death or incapacity of one of several joint
principals or agents, and revocation. The agent’s
authority is also ended by the principal’s
incapacity. If the authority is under a durable
power of attorney, this rule is different. With
regard to revocation, the principal can revoke the
agency at will. The principal only needs to give
the agent notice of the revocation, unless the
agent has been held out as a general agent to
third persons. In that case, the third persons must
also be notified. The common law rule in North
Carolina is that a power of attorney under seal
may be revoked orally.
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A durable power of attorney is essentially a power of attorney that doesn’t end when the principal becomes incapacitated or
mentally incompetent. The statutory requirements of a durable power of attorney are set out in N.C. Gen. Stat. § 32A-8 which
reads, “[a] durable power of attorney is a power of attorney by which a principal designates another his attorney-in-fact in writing
and the writing contains a statement that it is executed pursuant to the provisions of this Article or the words ‘This power of
attorney shall not be affected by my subsequent incapacity or mental incompetence,’ or ‘This power of attorney shall become
effective after I become incapacitated or mentally incompetent,’ or similar words showing the intent of the principal that the
authority conferred shall be exercisable notwithstanding the principal’s subsequent incapacity or mental incompetence. Unless
the durable power of attorney provides otherwise, where the grant of power or authority conferred by a durable power of
attorney is effective only upon the principal’s subsequent incapacity or mental incompetence, any person to whom such writing
is presented, in the absence of actual knowledge to the contrary, shall be entitled to rely on an affidavit, executed by the
attorney-in-fact and setting forth that such condition exists, as conclusive proof of such incapacity or mental incompetence,
subject to the provisions of G.S. 32A-13.
A power of attorney can be written so that it only becomes effective upon the incapacity or mental incompetence of the principal.
The actual incapacity or mental incompetence is called the “springing event.” If the power of attorney is written this way, there is
a minor issue with the question of when is a person actually incapacitated or mentally incompetent? The answer has seemingly
been to get one or two doctors to attach something to the recordation of the power of attorney, verifying the incapacitation or
mental incompetence. Because of the ambiguity in this area, the legislature in 1991 created a statutorily defined method for
establishing when the springing event has occurred. The language that was added to N.C. Gen. Stat.§ 32A-8 reads, “[u]nless
the durable power of attorney provides otherwise, where the grant of power or authority conferred by a durable power of
attorney is effective only upon the principal’s subsequent incapacity or mental incompetence, any person to whom such writing
is presented, in the absence of actual knowledge to the contrary, shall be entitled to rely on affidavit, executed by the attorney-
in-fact and setting forth that such condition exists, as conclusive proof of such incapacity or mental incompetence, subject to the
provisions of G.S.§ 32A-13.” Even with this provision, it’s still probably a good idea to have two doctors verify the incapacity or
mental incompetence. In order for the power of attorney to be effective once the principal becomes incompetent, it has to be
recorded. Moreover, for any durable power of attorney to be recorded, it has to be acknowledged first.
Unless expressly waived, the agent has to file accounts and inventories. If the power is waived, the Clerk of Superior Court can
conduct audits at its discretion. The agent is also entitled to compensation. If the amount isn’t stated in the power of attorney, the
clerk of Superior Court will set it after considering a number of factors. These include the degree of difficulty and novelty of the
tasks required of the trustee, the responsibilities and risks involved, the amount and character of the trust assets, the skill,
experience, expertise, and facilities of the trustee, the quality of the trustee’s performance, comparable charges for similar
services, time devoted to administering the trust, time constraints imposed upon the trustee in administering the trust, nature and
costs of services delegated to others by the trustee, where more than one trustee is serving, the reasonableness of the total fees
paid to all trustees, and other factors which the trustee or the clerk of superior court deems to be relevant.
Durable Power of Attorney
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A power of attorney may contain any provisions relating to the appointment, resignation, removal and substitution of an attorney-
in-fact, and to the rights, powers, duties and responsibilities of the attorney-in-fact. If all attorneys-in-fact named in the instrument
or substituted die, or cease to exist, or become incapable of acting, and all methods for substitution provided in the instrument
have been exhausted, the power of attorney will no longer be effective. Any substitution by a person authorized to make it has to
be in writing signed and acknowledged by that person. Notice of every other substitution also has to be in writing and
acknowledged by the person substituted. No substitution or notice subsequent to the principal’s subsequent incapacity or mental
incompetence is effective until it has been recorded in the office of the register of deeds of the county in which the power of
attorney has been recorded.
A durable power of attorney that is registered in an office of the register of deeds in North Carolina can be revoked by the death
of the principal or “registration in the office of the register of deeds where the power of attorney has been registered of an
instrument of revocation executed and acknowledged by the principal while he is not incapacitated or mentally incompetent, or
by the registration in such office of an instrument of revocation executed by any person or corporation who is given such power
of revocation in the power of attorney, or by this Article, with proof of service thereof in either case on the attorney-in-fact in the
manner prescribed for service of summons in civil actions.”
A durable power of attorney that is not registered in an office of the register of deeds in North Carolina can be revoked by “the
death of the principal, any method provided in the power of attorney, being burnt, torn, canceled, obliterated, or destroyed, with
the intent and for the purpose of revoking it, by the principal himself or by another person in his presence and by his direction,
while the principal is not incapacitated or mentally incompetent; or a subsequent written revocatory document executed and
acknowledged in the manner provided herein for the execution of durable powers of attorney by the principal while not
incapacitated or mentally incompetent and delivered to the attorney-in-fact in person or to his last known address by certified or
registered mail, return receipt requested.”
“As to acts undertaken in good faith reliance upon an affidavit executed by the attorney-in-fact stating that he did not have, at the
time of exercise of the power, actual knowledge of the termination of the power by revocation pursuant to the provisions of G.S.
32A-13(b) or by the principal’s death, such affidavit is conclusive proof of the nonrevocation or nontermination of the power at
that time. This section does not affect any provision in a power of attorney for its termination by the expiration of time or
occurrence of an event other than an express revocation.”
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Powers Often Granted in a
Power of Attorney
Real Property Transactions
Personal Property
TransactionsDigital Assets
Securities Banking Safe Deposits
Business Operating
Transactions
Insurance Transactions
Estate Transactions
Personal Relationships
and Affairs
Social Security and
Unemployment
Benefits from Military Service
Tax MattersEmployment of
AgentsGifts to Others
Gifts to SelfRenunciations
to Benefit Others
Renunciations to Benefit Self
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Health Care Power of Attorney
The Health Care Power of Attorney is a document which determines the
person that will make medical decisions when your provider determines
that you lack the ability to make or communicate medical decisions. You
can define the scope of the agent’s authority to align with personal
preferences and religious beliefs.
The Health Care Power of Attorney allows you to designate a health care agent to
make a broad range of decisions involving health care. The power becomes usable once
a physician determines you to be incapacitated. At that point, the health care agent may
act on your behalf. If no specific doctor is named, the attending physician will make the
determination. You should name at least one agent to act at a time and it is best practice
To name at least one backup
person in case the first person is
unwilling or unable to act. The
health care agent you designate
must be at least eighteen years
of age. The health care agent
can make a broad range of health
care decisions, including hiring
and firing doctors, authorizing
admission to a nursing home,
deciding about mental health
treatment, approving the
withholding or withdrawal of life-
prolonging measures, approving an autopsy, donating organs or parts, donating your body
for anatomical study, and disposing of remains.
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As you begin the process of creating a Health
Care Power of Attorney, there are a few things worthy
of consideration in addition to the scope of power
granted.
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Typically the document will revoke previous HC POA’s. If you travel frequently to other
states, consider whether to keep a previous one in place that is effective in another
state.
Consider how your Health Care POA will interact with your living will. You may
decide whether your agent prevails if the agent disagrees
with your living will.
The document does not traditionally provide for
compensation. Consider whether your agent should be
compensated for their role.
If you are naming a non-blood relative, consider whether you
should include a provision regarding visitation.
A guardian may usurp a health care agent’s authority with approval from the Clerk.
Consider whether to name your agent as guardian should
one be needed.
Consider whether to name your agent as your attorney-
in-fact, since finances and medical care often go hand-
in-hand.
Liability
Your agent and the
provider will want to know they
won’t be liable for the
consequences of following the
content of this document. A
Health Care Power of Attorney
should provide a release of
liability for relying on the
provisions contained in the
document.
Considerations for Health Care POA
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Advance Directive
The Advance Directive for a Natural Death, also called a Living Will, is an
instruction to your provider which determines when you would like them
to withhold or withdraw life-prolonging measures. The document is
effective when you cannot make or communicate medical decisions.
The author of a Living Will indicates to their provider when they want life-prolonging
measures to be withheld. Those measures are defined as medical procedures or
interventions which in the judgment of the attending physician would serve only to
postpone artificially the moment of death by sustaining, restoring, or supplanting a vital
function, including mechanical ventilation, dialysis, antibiotics, artificial nutrition and
hydration, and similar forms of treatment. Life-prolonging measures to not include care
necessary to provide comfort or
alleviate pain. NC expressly
validates the use of living wills
from other states if they meet the
formal execution requirements of
NC’s statutes. They must be
notarized, witnessed by two
witnesses who are not related to
the declarant, not employees of a
health-care facility where the
declarant resides, do not have a
claim against the declarant, and
will not expect to inherit from the
declarant. Even if the other state’s form is valid, it is best practice to execute one that
conforms substantially to NC’s statutory form. Providers in NC understand and rely on that
form comfortably.
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The Living Will allows you to customize
the circumstances in which life-prolonging
measures are withheld or withdrawn.
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Whether to withhold/withdraw when you have incurable or irreversible condition which will shortly
result in death
Whether to withhold/withdraw when you are unconscious and will not
regain consciousness
Whether to withhold/withdraw when you have a irreversible substantial
loss of cognitive function
Whether to authorize or require the
withholding/withdrawal of life-prolonging measures
Whether to continue to receive artificial nutrition
and/or hydration
Whether the health care agent can override your living
will.
Contents of a Living Will
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Estate Information Guide
What follows is an extensive guide for you to fill out so that when the time
comes for your loved ones to assist you with your affairs, either during
periods of incapacity or after you have passed away, the details of your
assets and affairs are centralized for their convenience.
As you review the following guide, you may find that some information is
wholly inapplicable to you. That is okay. You may also find that some
information is more easily conveyed through the attachment of documents.
That is also okay. The guide is meant as a starting point for you to begin
organizing your affairs into a centralized location.
Chapter Six
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Estate Information Guide Contents
My Personal Information ............................................25
Medical Care ...............................................................29
Key Contact Information ............................................31
At The Time of My Passing ........................................32
Children, Wards, & Dependents ................................34
Important Documents ................................................38
Financial Information .................................................39
Business Information .................................................49
Beneficiary Information .............................................52
Personal Effects .........................................................59
Property Information ..................................................64
Insurance ....................................................................72
Pets ..............................................................................76
Accounts to Handle ....................................................77
Email & Social Media Accounts ................................87
Handling My Remains ................................................91
My Personal Wishes ...................................................92
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MY PERSONAL INFORMATIONThis information will help your loved ones have the identifying information they need to handle
your affairs on your behalf.
Full Legal Name
Maiden Name or Other Names You Might Go By
Address (Physical and Mailing)
Home Phone
Cell Phone
Other Numbers
Social Security Number
Where might we find your Social Security Card?
PO Box Number
Where might we find your PO Box Key?
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City/State of Your Birth?
If Outside the US, specify City, Province, Nation
Other Identifying Information Specific for that Nation
Marital Status
Full Legal Name of Spouse
Full Legal Names of Children
Full Legal Names of Grandchildren
If Previously Married, Full Legal Name of Former Spouse(s)
Full Legal Names of Siblings
Full Legal Name of Father
Location of Father’s Birth
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Full Legal Name of Mother, Including Variations (Such as Maiden Name)
Location of Mother’s Birth
Job/Occupation (Or Previous Occupation if Retired)
US Citizen? If not, Provide Citizenship Information
Names and Locations of Religious Entities in Which You Are Involved
Describe Military Service, if Any
Additional Information
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MEDICAL CAREThis will help your loved ones make sure your final wishes are followed in the event you become incapacitated.
Do You Have a Living Will?
Where is it Stored?
Username and Password for Living Will with Secretary of State
Do You Have a Health Care Power of Attorney?
Where is it Stored?
Username and Password for Health Care Power of Attorney with Secre-tary of State
If You Have a Health Care Agent, that Person’s Name Is:
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Address, Phone, and Email for Health Care Agent?
Names of Backup Health Care Agents?
Address, Phone, and Email for Backup Health Care Agents?
Do You Have a DNR Order? Where is it Located?
Do You Have Organ Donation / Anatomical Gift Donation Directive(s)? If so, where is it located?
What is Your Blood Type?
Medical Conditions (Include the date when you update this information)
Medications (Include the date when you update this information)
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Allergies & Reactions(Include the date when you update this information)
Health Insurance Information
Where might we find Your Health Insurance Card?
Physician Name and Location?
Preferred Hospital and Location?
Preferred Pharmacy and Location?
Additional Information
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KEY CONTACT INFORMATIONThis will assist us with locating people that can assist us in winding up your affairs.
Executor Named in Your Will and their Contact Information
Attorney and his or her Contact Information
Accountant and his or her Contact Information
Financial Advisor and his or her Contact Information
Insurance Agent and his or her Contact Information
Religious Advisor and his or her Contact Information
Additional Information
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AT THE TIME OF MY PASSINGAt the time of death, you may need several death certificates. If you are not sure, request ten. You can obtain them from the funeral home or from the Register of Deeds.
Contact the Following People:
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
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Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Name, Address, Phone, Email
Additional Information
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CHILDREN, WARDS, AND OTHER DEPENDENTSThis section allows us to have information important for contacting children and handling the transition of their care.
Name
Relationship
Address/Phone/Email
Birthdate and Birthplace
US Citizen?
Wishes for Ongoing Care of Dependent?
Any Medical Information We Should Know?
Known Allergies
Health care providers:
Health insurance information
Financial Information
Location of Important Documents
Wishes Regarding Care?
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Name
Relationship
Address/Phone/Email
Birthdate and Birthplace
US Citizen?
Wishes for Ongoing Care of Dependent?
Any Medical Information We Should Know?
Known Allergies
Health care providers:
Health insurance information
Financial Information
Location of Important Documents
Wishes Regarding Care?
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Name
Relationship
Address/Phone/Email
Birthdate and Birthplace
US Citizen?
Wishes for Ongoing Care of Dependent?
Any Medical Information We Should Know?
Known Allergies
Health care providers:
Health insurance information
Financial Information
Location of Important Documents
Wishes Regarding Care?
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Name
Relationship
Address/Phone/Email
Birthdate and Birthplace
US Citizen?
Wishes for Ongoing Care of Dependent?
Any Medical Information We Should Know?
Known Allergies
Health care providers:
Health insurance information
Financial Information
Location of Important Documents
Wishes Regarding Care?
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IMPORTANT DOCUMENTSThis will help us locate the documents we need to wind up your affairs.
Where can we find your original Will?
Where can we find your Driver’s License?
What is your Driver’s License Number and Expiration Date?
Where is your passport?
What is your passport number?
Where can we find your birth certificate?
Where can we find your marriage certificate?
Where can we find your separation and/or divorce documents?
Do you keep an address book? Where is it located?
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FINANCIAL INFORMATIONThis section provides critical information to help us determine who has authority to make financial decisions upon your incapacitation. It also provides information necessary to secure financial assets upon your incapacita-tion or death.
Do you have a Power of Attorney? Where is it Located?
Who is your Attorney-in-Fact (agent)? Who are your successor agents?
Contact Information?
BANK ACCOUNT INFORMATIONChecking Account
Bank & Location:
Account Number:
Online Account Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
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Savings Account
Bank & Location:
Account Number:
Online Account Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Other Accounts
Bank & Location:
Account Number:
Bank & Location:
Account Number:
Bank & Location:
Account Number:
Additional Information (such as contacts, where information is located)
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CREDIT CARD INFORMATIONAccount Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
Account Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
Account Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
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Account Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
Account Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
Account Number:
Website: Online Username:
Password:
Security Questions and Answers:
Additional Information:
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INVESTMENT ACCOUNTSType of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
Type of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
Type of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
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Type of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
Type of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
Type of Account?
Account Number
Contact Information
Location of Documents?
Additional Information
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OTHER ACCOUNTS THAT WE SHOULD KNOW ABOUTName of Account
Information and Notes
Name of Account
Information and Notes
Name of Account
Information and Notes
SAFE DEPOSIT BOXBank(s) & Location(s)
Where are the Keys?
Are there any deputies or co-owners?
Description of contents
Additional Information
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TAX INFORMATIONIt may be necessary to file taxes on your behalf or to use tax returns to assist with investigating assets. This section helps us locate records for that purpose.
Where are your records located?
Online Tax Accounts Username
Password
Additional Information Needed to Access
CREDITORSThese are institutions to which you may owe money.
Mortgage(s) and Other Loans Secured by Real Estate
Lender(s) Information
Account Number(s)
Location of Documents
Location of Information about Property Tax
Car Loan(s)
Lender(s) Information
Account Number(s)
Location of Documents
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Student Loan(s) Information
Lender(s) Information
Account Number(s)
Location of Documents
Where can we find information about medical bills?
Where can we find information about credit card bills?
Personal Loans
Contact Information
Account Number(s)
Location of Documents
Do you have any judgments against you? Where? How much?
Additional Information about Creditors
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DEBTORSThese are people or institutions that owe you money.
Description of Personal Loans Made and Status
Contact Information for Debtor
Additional Information about Personal Loans
Location of Supporting Documentation
Judgments You Have Against Others? Where? How much?
Additional Information about Judgments
Location of Supporting Documentation?
Additional Information about Debts Owed to You
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BUSINESS INFORMATIONIf you have ownership interest in a business, this section will assist us with securing the business assets, business operation continuity, and wind-up, if applicable.
Business Name(s)
Location(s)
Contact Information
Landlord
Contact Information
Key Location
Lease Location
Employee Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Employee Name, Address, Phone, and Email
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Employee Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Employee Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Employee Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Accountant Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Attorney Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Insurance Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Bank Contact Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Where can we find important documents about the business?
Where can we find information about business credit cards?
What do we need to know about customers, income sources, and licenses? What other information about business continuity do we need to know?
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Where can we find information about utilities?
Who should we contact about the business’s online presence?
What information do we need to handle online presence matters?
Additional Information
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BENEFICIARY INFORMATIONAfter your passing, we will need to take action to secure all death benefits that may be available, contact the Social Security Administration, make inquiries with your employer about benefits, and secure investment and retirement accounts.
LIFE INSURANCEType of Policy Account Number
Contact Information
Amount
Beneficiary
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Policy Account Number
Contact Information
Amount
Beneficiary
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
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Type of Policy Account Number
Contact Information
Amount
Beneficiary
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Policy Account Number
Contact Information
Amount
Beneficiary
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Policy Account Number
Contact Information
Amount
Beneficiary
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
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EMPLOYER BENEFITSContact Person for Discussing Employer Benefits
Any Account Numbers or Identifying Information to Access
Name, Phone, Email, and Address of Contact Person
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
SOCIAL SECURITY INFORMATIONLocation of Documentation
Account Number
Additional Information
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RETIREMENT ACCOUNTSType of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
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Type of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
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Type of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
Type of Account
Institution Name
Account Number
Contact Person’s Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Location of Documentation
Additional Information
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VETERAN’S BENEFITSVeterans Affairs Regional Office
Account Number
Contact Name, Address, Phone Number, and Email
Location of Documents
Additional Information
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PERSONAL EFFECTSDescription of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
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Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
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Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
Description of Item
Location
Additional Information and Wishes
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FIREARMSLocation of Firearms
Registration Information
Permit Information
Location of Documentation Related to Gun Trust
Information Needed to Access Firearms
STORAGE UNITSLocation
Storage Company Name
Name, Address, Phone and Email of Contact Person
Unit Number(s)
Location of Keys
Additional Information
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SAFELocation of Safe
Location of Keys
Combination
Description of Contents
OTHER VALUABLESDescription, Location, and Information to Access
Additional Information
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PROPERTY INFORMATIONThis section will assist us in locating and securing real estate, personal effects, and other valuables at your death.
REAL ESTATEAddress
Co-owners
Location of Documentation
Location of Keys
Security System Information
Additional Information
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Address
Co-owners
Location of Documentation
Location of Keys
Security System Information
Additional Information
Address
Co-owners
Location of Documentation
Location of Keys
Security System Information
Additional Information
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Address
Co-owners
Location of Documentation
Location of Keys
Security System Information
Additional Information
Address
Co-owners
Location of Documentation
Location of Keys
Security System Information
Additional Information
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LEASE INFORMATION FOR RENTED PROPERTYDate of Expiration of Lease
Location of Keys
Name, Address, Phone, & Email for Property Manager or Landlord
Additional Information
VEHICLES AND OTHER DMV TITLED PROPERTYVehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
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Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
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Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
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Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
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Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
Vehicle Year Make
Model Color
VIN/ID
Location of Title
Location of Documentation about Liens
Location of Keys
State of Title Title Number
Additional Information
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INSURANCEOften we will need to collect on, maintain, discontinue, or modify insurance after your death. This will assist us in locating all relevant policies.
LIFE INSURANCEAgency/Agent Name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
HOMEOWNER’S INSURANCEAgency/Agent Name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
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RENTAL OR STORAGE INSURANCEAgency/Agent Name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
HEALTH INSURANCEInsurer name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Health savings account (HAS) information
Medicare/Medicaid
Account Number
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
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DENTAL INSURANCEInsurer name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
VISION INSURANCEInsurer name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
MOTOR VEHICLE INSURANCEInsurer name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
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OTHER INSURANCEInsurer name
Address, Phone, and Email for Contact Person
Where can we find the policy?
Additional Information
Insurer name
Contact information
Where can we find the policy?
Additional Information
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PETSPets are often one of the first concerns at someone’s passing. This will allow us to secure pets and make arrange-ments for them, as well as pass on all necessary information.
Names of Pets
Descriptions of Pets and Ages
Any License / ID / Tag Information
Health Information related to Pets
Veterinarian Name, Address, Phone, and Email
Wishes for care of my pet
Name, address, phone, and email of caretaker(s) for pets
Wishes regarding future care of my pets
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ACCOUNTS TO HANDLEClosing or transferring accounts can be a tedious process, particularly if we do not have all the information. This will help us locate and make necessary changes to accounts at your passing.
UTILITIESGas/Oil
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Electric Company
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Water Company
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Landline Phone Company
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
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Cellular Telephone Company
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Cable & Internet Company
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Other Utilities
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
LIBRARY CARDLibrary
Card number
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
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ONLINE SHOPPINGAccount Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
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Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
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Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
Account Name / Website
Username Password
Additional Information
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COMPUTER INFORMATIONUsernames and Passwords are Located Where?
Additional Information
Usernames and Passwords Needed to Access Computers
ACCOUNTS SET TO PAY AUTOMATICALLYDescription
Username Password
Additional Information
Description
Username Password
Additional Information
Description
Username Password
Additional Information
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Description
Username Password
Additional Information
Description
Username Password
Additional Information
Description
Username Password
Additional Information
Description
Username Password
Additional Information
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CHARITABLE ORGANIZATIONSCharity Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Charity Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Charity Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Charity Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Additional Information
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SUBSCRIPTIONSPublication name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Publication name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Publication name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Publication name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Additional Information
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MEMBERSHIPSOrganization Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Organization Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Organization Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Organization Name / Description
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Additional Information
Other Information to Close Out Accounts
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EMAIL & SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTSThis is a growing concern as more and more people maintain an online presence and more activity is transacted online. This section will allow us to obtain information and secure your online identity.
EMAILEmail account
Username Password
Additional Information
Email account
Username Password
Additional Information
Email account
Username Password
Additional Information
Email account
Username Password
Additional Information
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SOCIAL MEDIAFacebook
Username Password
Additional Information
Username Password
Additional Information
Other
Username Password
Additional Information
Other
Username Password
Additional Information
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Other
Username Password
Additional Information
Other
Username Password
Additional Information
Other
Username Password
Additional Information
Other
Username Password
Additional Information
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WEBSITEAddress
Username Password
Additional Information
Name, Address, Phone, and Other Information for Contact
Domain registration provider
Web hosting provider
Additional Information
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HANDLING MY REMAINSThis outlines your wishes and assists us in locating information to handle your remains after you have passed.
Do You Have a Burial Policy? Where is the Policy Located?
Do You Have Instructions or Preneed Contract With a Funeral Home? Lo-cation of Funeral Home?
Wishes Regarding Disposal of Remains
Wishes Regarding a Memorial Stone
Cremation / What to do with Ashes
Additional Information on Funeral Arrangements
Wishes Regarding the Content of an Obituary
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MY PERSONAL WISHESThis is your opportunity to make information about your desires regarding care known. In addition to important estate planning documents which should outline your instructions for yourself, this allows you to add personal information that might not be appropriate for an estate planning documentation regarding your wishes.
Additionally, you can use this section to outline your wishes for caregivers of your children — how you want them to be raised and treated — that you would want a caregiver to honor and consider as they raise your child.
WHAT I WANT CAREGIVERS TO KNOW
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WISHES AFTER MY PASSINGThis section is for you to pass on any details about family, friends, and property that you want people to know. This will allow your wishes and opinions to be known. Your loved ones will be able to reflect on this in the future.
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THINGS I’D LIKE TO SAYThis is where you have the opportunity to make departing remarks – things you want people to know that you might not say to them while living. These are things that you will want people to know and reflect on long after you are gone.
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SIGNATUREPrinted Name:
Date First Completed:
Signature:
Updates
Date of Update:
Signature:
Date of Update:
Signature:
Date of Update:
Signature:
Date of Update:
Signature:
Date of Update:
Signature:
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