Hindsight with a Vision (Dr. Mary Sharp, Trustee) CONTENTS Hindsight 1 Save the Dates 2 Resource Spotlight 2 Community News 3 Insight 3 Events 4 Training Opportunities 5 About Us/Donate & Special Thanks 6 AUGUST/SEPTEMBER 2013 NEWSLETTER COLLABORATION EDUCATION INFORMATION RELATIONSHIPS SUPPORT “If I knew then what I know now……” Right. Is there actually a way for parents who are farther down the road to communicate useful information to families just starting ? Or do we all have to learn our own life lessons in our own time, our own way? Probably yes to both questions. I remember years ago my dear friend trying to tell me about speech therapy, but my brain was so overwhelmed and my body so tired I could not take in or retain any of the information. I had no understandings of the basics so I couldn’t build a more complex understanding of the function of speech therapy. There was no trellis that the vine could grow on. So every year for about 20 years I’ve sat through the IEPs , curious about what Nic’s speech teachers and my husband are talking about, never understanding any of it. It didn’t help that I’ve never believed speech therapy had much to offer Nic. I am grateful to the many talented individuals who have given him time and attention, but I believe most progress obtained under this heading was due to the power of their personalities and the creative ways they sought to engage him. I also believe that a basic working knowledge of the systems we have been engaged with would have reduced my anxiety about the future and we could have made better decisions that would have reduced frustrations for all in- volved. We could have at least put the trellis in place so a vine could grow if the conditions were just right. It would have been helpful to have an image of what we were shoot- ing for, in order to use the sup- ports available through the schools more effectively. Perhaps we could have made summer a time for growth rather than the chaotic land-mine of melt downs we have traversed. So. My story is certainly not unique. A number of individuals and agencies around the region have come together to develop: Special Education Workshop for Families with Exceptional Children SEW for FEC (I know, too long, no grace…) It starts in October. We will run one curriculum the first year and touch on a variety of subjects such as best practices in the schools, surviving the holidays, special needs trusts. We expect the next year to split into two curriculum tracks, one aimed at families with small chil- dren, the other aimed at families with kids entering transition out of the school system. Our intention is that this program- ming will help families and profes- sionals be more on the same page, so we can all serve our children more effectively. As for speech therapy, I did learn one great word. Do you know what FRICATIVES are? Great word fricative…say it out loud three times. Keep your eyes and ears open for the flyer with details, coming out soon! How would you respond? Introducing a new interacve queson and answer segment to our newsleer. Send in a queson (and remain anonymous) and we will pose it to our readers for soluons! Send to: [email protected]
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Hindsight with a Vision (Dr. Mary Sharp, Trustee)
C O N T E N T S
Hindsight 1
Save the Dates 2
Resource Spotlight 2
Community News 3
Insight 3
Events 4
Training
Opportunities
5
About Us/Donate &
Special Thanks
6
A U G U S T / S E P T E M B E R 2 0 1 3 N E W S L E T T E R
C O L L A B O R A T I O N
E D U C A T I O N
I N F O R M A T I O N
R E L A T I O N S H I P S
S U P P O R T “If I knew then what I know
now……”
Right.
Is there actually a way for parents who are farther down the road to communicate useful information to families just starting ?
Or do we all have to learn our own life lessons in our own time, our own way?
Probably yes to both questions.
I remember years ago my dear friend trying to tell me about speech therapy, but my brain was so overwhelmed and my body so tired I could not take in or retain any of the information. I had no understandings of the basics so I couldn’t build a more complex understanding of the function of speech therapy. There was no trellis that the vine could grow on.
So every year for about 20 years I’ve sat through the IEPs , curious about what Nic’s speech teachers and my husband are talking about, never understanding any of it. It didn’t help that I’ve never believed speech therapy had much to offer Nic. I am grateful to the many talented individuals who have given him time and attention, but I believe most progress obtained under this heading was due to the power of their personalities and the creative ways they sought to engage him.
I also believe that a basic working knowledge of the systems we have been engaged with would have reduced my anxiety about the future and we could have made better decisions that would have reduced frustrations for all in-volved. We could have at least put the trellis in place so a vine could grow if the conditions were just right.
It would have been helpful to have an image of what we were shoot-ing for, in order to use the sup-ports available through the schools more effectively. Perhaps we could have made summer a time for growth rather than the chaotic land-mine of melt downs we have traversed.
So. My story is certainly not unique. A number of individuals and agencies around the region have come together to develop:
Special Education Workshop for
Families with Exceptional
Children
SEW for FEC
(I know, too long, no grace…)
It starts in October.
We will run one curriculum the first year and touch on a variety of subjects such as best practices in the schools, surviving the holidays, special needs trusts.
We expect the next year to split into two curriculum tracks, one aimed at families with small chil-dren, the other aimed at families with kids entering transition out of the school system.
Our intention is that this program-ming will help families and profes-sionals be more on the same page, so we can all serve our children more effectively.
As for speech therapy, I did learn one great word. Do you know what FRICATIVES are?
Great word fricative…say it out loud three times.
Keep your eyes and ears open for the flyer with details, coming out soon!
How would you respond?
Introducing a new interactive question and answer segment to our newsletter. Send in a question (and
remain anonymous) and we will pose it to our readers for solutions! Send to:
Here are a few resources we have found beneficial.
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Special Education Workshop: A Collaborative Program for Families with Exceptional Children
Location: Heartwood, Mason Time: 5:30 Details to Follow
2013 October 2: We’re Listening! A parent led discussion about lessons learned November 6: START Universal Supports: A parent education module for best practices presented by Maureen Ziegler December 4: Surviving the Holidays: Coping with Chaos
2014 February 5: Community Resource Mapping – What has worked for you? March 5: Summer is coming…Planning a successful summer schedule April 2: IEPs: A Strength Based Collaboration for Positive Outcomes May 7: Special Needs Trust: The future is just around the corner!
The Future. The daily challenges of maintaining a rigorous schedule of therapies, school meetings, medical appointments, speech therapy, occupational therapy, physical therapy and the list goes on and on…...sometimes, the daily schedule gets in the way of our vision for the future. As parents and caregivers, we know the future is coming, but often it is met with fear and uncertainty.
However, research has shown that very specific efforts that involve early training and supports are what our children need to be successful. And by success, I mean leading a quality life with a measure of independence.
The August 5, 2013 article in DisabilityScoop, Shaun Heasley reports (quoted in part):
“Researchers followed a group of high school students, some of whom received traditional special educa-tion offerings while others were provided with specialized training and internships through a program called :
‘Project SEARCH with Autism Supports‘
Of the young people who got the extra job training, 87 percent found work in competitive employment situations after graduation compared to just 6 percent in the control group.”
We know that it can take months and even years longer for important skill sets to be developed. That is why we must start envisioning a future now, don’t wait for it to happen.