And The Support Received From Their Parents Millennial Parents Research
And The Support Received From Their Parents
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RESEARCH METHOD…………………………………….... .
KEY FINDINGS…………………………………………………
MILLENNIAL PARENT PERSPECTIVE……………………
GRANDPARENT PERSPECTIVE…………………………..
APPENDIX……………………………………………………...
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This survey was conducted by Head Solutions Group on behalf of TD Ameritrade Holding Corporation.1
The statistical margin of error for the total sample of N=2,018 American adults within the target group is +/- 2.1 %.2 This means that in 19 out of 20 cases, survey results will differ by no more than 2.1 percentage points in either direction from what would have been obtained by the opinions of all target group members in the U.S. Sample was drawn from major regions in proportion to the U.S. Census.
1 Head Solutions Group (U.S.) Inc. and TD Ameritrade Holding Corporation are separate, unaffiliated companies and are not responsible for each other’s products and services.2 Assumes survey participants are the same as non participants.
Note: Percentages may not add up to 100 due to rounding.
New England
5%
Mid-Atlantic
16%
South
26%
Southwest
11%
West
20%
2,018 American adults (half Millennial Parents, half Grandparents with
Millennial Children)
OnlineSurvey
October 20-26, 2016
Average time to complete survey:
18 minutes
Head Solutions Groupon behalf of TD
Ameritrade Holding Corporation1
49% Male
51% Female
Midwest
22%
WHENWHATWHO
CONDUCTED BY
Research Method
Throughout this report, arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents.
Callouts show significant differences between subgroups noted (i.e. Males and Females, or between Ethnicities) within Millennial Parents (shown in green callouts) or within Grandparents (in yellow), or between a subgroup and the total sample of Millennial Parents or Grandparents.
This study focused on two groups: Millennial Parents (aged 19-37) and Grandparents
(aged 50-70) who have Millennial children
Q35/Q36. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014
Millennial Parents: How many children do you have aged 18 or under? Grandparents: How many grandchildren do you have, aged 18 or under, from your
child/children who is/are aged 19 to 37?%
43%
38%
13%6%
29%
24%14%
34%
Average1.9
Average3.4
Four or moreThreeTwoOne
• The average number of children born to Millennial Parents is: 1.9
• Grandparents have 3.4 grandchildren, on average, from one or more Millennial adult children (Grandparents were specifically asked
how many grandchildren they had from children who were Millennials)
Millennial Parents# of Children
Grandparents# of Grandchildren
Key Findings
1. Millennial Parents say they received, on average, $11,011 in financial support or unpaid labor from their parents in the past year, equivalent to approximately $253 Billion across the US
• Half (47%) of Millennial Parents with a living parent received financial support from their parents totalling, on
average, $2,543 in the past year
• Millennial Parents are most likely to receive financial support for meals out and entertainment (30%
receiving, with an average annual value of $235) and for groceries (24%, $423 annually)
• The highest value support is for rent/mortgage payments, totalling $2,033, on average, for those receiving
support
• Furthermore, 7 in 10 (69%) Millennial Parents with a living parent received financial support specifically for their
children totalling $1,632, on average, in the past year
• Half (52%) of Millennial Parents with a living parent received financial support for their children’s toys, to
the value of $172, on average, and for clothes (47%, value of $189)
• Almost 2 in 10 (18%) received support towards college savings in the amount of $1,134, on average, in the
past year
• Most Millennial Parents do not see themselves as reliant on their parents’ financial help. Only 2 in 10 (18%) strongly
agree that they could not afford their current lifestyle without their parents’ help, while over half (54%) strongly
disagree
• Over half (54%) of Millennial Parents receive help with childcare or running the household in a typical week. Single, separated or widowed Millennial
Parents more likely than married parents to be receiving such help (65% vs. 51%)
• Millennial Parents who receive support in the form of Primary childcare (30%) receive 14.3 hours per week, on average. More Millennial
Parents receive support in the form of Back-up childcare (41% receiving, 9.2 hours help on average)
• One quarter (26%) of Millennial Parents agree that they could not afford their current lifestyle if their parents were not helping out by giving time
• Taken together, financial support and unpaid labor equal a value of $11,011 of help for each Millennial Parent, or approximately $253 billion across
the US
Key Findings (continued)
2. Grandparents claim that they provided an adult child with, on average, $4,527 in the last year. That’s $2,000 more than what Millennial Parents admit to. Grandparents are, however, “glad to help”
• Looking at the support provided to adult children (i.e. Millennial Parents) from Grandparents’ perspective highlights
the fact that Millennial Parents may be receiving more support than they realize or admit to:
• Grandparents claim to have provided an adult child with a total of $4,527, on average, in the
past year – that is $2,000 more than the amount Millennial Parents are reporting (i.e.
$2,543).
• Over 4 in 10 (45%) Grandparents are paying for some groceries (yearly average of $898) and
40% are providing support for some meals out/entertainment (yearly average of $632)
• Eight in 10 (81%) Grandparents are providing financial support for their Grandchildren. On average,
this financial support totalled $2,383 in the past year. This represents about $800 more than the
amounts reported by Millennial Parents (i.e. $1,632)
• Three in 4 (75%) Grandparents are “glad to help” and over half (56%) of Millennial Parents are
grateful for the help they receive from their parents. One-quarter (26%) of Millennial Parents are
embarrassed by this financial support
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Millennial Parent Perspective
If money was no object, Millennial Parents would have 1 more child, on average
Q110/Q130. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004
22
44
21
1310
31
25
35
0
20
40
60
1 2 3 4 or more
# children plan to have # children would have if money was no object
%
• Millennial Parents plan to have 2.3 children, on average, compared to 3.3 if money was no object
• Half (47%) of Millennial Parents would have more children than they currently plan to, if money was no object
• Married Millennial Parents plan to have more children on average (2.4) than Millennial Parents who are single, never married (2.0)
Average: 2.3 Average: 3.3
47%
53%
Would have more children than planned
if money was no object
Would not have more children than planned
if money was no object
Married: 2.4
Single: 2.0Stay-at-home: 2.7
Working FT: 2.2
Female: 3.4
Male: 3.1
Millennial Parents
How many children do you plan to have, in total, including any you already have?If money was no object, how many children would you like to have, in total?
Millennial Parents and Grandparents believe it costs a quarter of a million dollars to
raise a child from birth to age 18
Q140. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,0141. Trimmed Average, excluding top and bottom 5% to reduce impact of outliers2.https://www.usda.gov/wps/portal/usda/usdahome?contentid=2017/01/0004.xml&navid=NEWS_RELEASE&navtype=RT&parentnav=LATEST_RELEASES&edeployment_action=retrievecontent
Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence
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29
12
0
20
40
$50,000 or less $50,001 to $100,000 $100,001 to $200,000 $200,001 to $500,000 Over $500,000
Millennial Parents Grandparents
%
• Three in 10 (29%) Millennial Parents who have a low household income (up to $50,000) mistakenly believe it costs $50,000 or
less to raise a child to age 18
Average1: $268k Average1:$250k
H Income < $50k: 29%
H Income
$150k+: 43%
H Income < $50k: 24%
In total, how much money do you think it costs to raise a child from birth to age 18?
The U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) estimates the cost of raising a child to age 18 is $233,6102
One in 4 (25%) Millennial Parents believe the first year of a child’s life will be the most
expensive stage. Only 1 in 10 (9%) Grandparents agree
Q150. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence
16
21
20
7
3
5
28
25
7
4
3
30
28
3
Newborn/infant (0 to 1 years old)
Toddler (2 to 4 years old)
Young child (5 to 10 years old)
'Tween' (11 to 12 years old)
Teenager (13 to 17 years old)
Young adult (18 to 24 years old)
Adults (25 years old+)
Least expensive Most expensive
%
• Half (50%) of Grandparents believe that the Young Adult years (ages 18 to 24) are the most expensive, compared to only
3 in 10 Millennial Parents (28%)
Millennial Parents
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3
27
9
2
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Least expensive Most expensive
Grandparents
Which of the following stages of a child's life do you think is/will be the most expensive? And the least expensive?
Over 8 in 10 (84%) Millennial Parents define their parenting style as “very
involved”
Q170. Base: All, excluding not applicable: Millennial Parents, n ranges from 758 to 999; Grandparents, n ranges from 557 to 995Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence
8475 72 66
2634
19 17
1321 21
24
3933
29 35
2 3 4 7
26 22
30 28
1 3 39 10
21 20
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20
40
60
80
100
Millennial Parents Grandparents Millennial Parents Grandparents Millennial Parents Grandparents Millennial Parents Grandparents
Very involved Moderately involved Moderately hands-off Completely hands-off
MYSELF MY SPOUSE/PARTNER MY MOTHER/FEMALE
GUARDIAN
MY FATHER/MALE
GUARDIAN
• Three-quarters of Grandparents (who are parents to Millennial Parents), believe that their parenting style is/was “very involved”;
however, only a quarter of Millennial Parents believe that their own parents (26% Mother, 19% Father) were “very involved”
• Females are more likely than Males to see themselves as very involved, for both Millennial Parents (92% vs. 76%) and Grandparents
(89% vs. 59%)
Female: 92%
Male: 76% Female: 64%
Male: 80%
Female: 89%
Male: 59%Female: 82%
Male: 50%
Which of the following best describes youand your spouse/partner's parenting style?
%
Worrying about finances is, by far, the hardest part of being an adult for Millennial
Parents
Q190. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004
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3
7
14
23
51
0 10 20 30 40 50 60
No longer receiving (as much) support/help from my parents
Something else
My job/looking for a job
Looking after/supporting my children
Keeping up my home and other day-to-day responsibilities
Worry/stress about finances and money
• Half of Millennial Parents (51%), including almost two-thirds (64%) of those with a household income of up to
$50,000, say that worrying about finances and money is the hardest part of being an adult. Almost four in 10 (36%) of
those with household incomes of $100,000 or more also worry about finances and money
• Keeping up the home is in a distant 2nd place, at 23%
Millennial ParentsFemale: 58%
Male: 45%
Female: 11%
Male: 16%
Female: 4%
Male: 10%
H Income $150k+: 25%
H Income <$50k+: 64%
H Income >$100k+:36%
Which one of the following do youfind the hardest part of being an adult?
%
Six in 10 (58%) Millennial Parents find earning enough money to support their families
very stressful. Half of Grandparents (48%) are stressed about the same thing
Q195. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence
To what extent do you currently find each of the following aspects of your financial life stressful?
58
4746
42
33
48
52
32
41
54
4846
Earning enough to
support myself.my
family
Saving for retirement Saving for a
house/Buying a house
Getting a job/a good
job
Affording college for
myself
Saving for retirement
and, at the same
time, supporting adult
kids
Supporting an adult
child who may not be
earning
anything/enough
Affording college for
an adult child
Millennial Parents Grandparents
• Single, separated or widowed Millennial Parents are more likely than those who are married to be stressed about earning enough
to support their family (67% vs. 56%), although the majority of both groups are stressed. Females are more stressed than Males
on the majority of items shown below
• Differences in stress levels by household income are shown on the following slide
Female: 61%
Male: 54%
Female: 53%
Male: 39%
Married: 56%
Single, Separated
or Widowed : 67%
Female: 62%
Male: 41%
Female: 38%
Male: 26%
Female: 46%
Male: 35%
Female: 52%
Male: 44%
Female: 53%
Male: 40%
Female: 63%
Male: 44%
% 8 to 10 on a 10-point scale
Millennial Parents and Grandparents who have a household income below $50,000
are more stressed than average
Q195. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence
58
4746
42
33
48
52
32
41
54
4846
Earning enough to
support myself.my
family
Saving for retirement Saving for a
house/Buying a house
Getting a job/a good
job
Affording college for
myself
Saving for retirement
and, at the same
time, supporting adult
kids
Supporting an adult
child who may not be
earning
anything/enough
Affording college for
an adult child
Millennial Parents Grandparents
• For each potential item of stress shown below, Millennial Parents who have a household income below $50,000 are more stressed
than Millennial Parents, on average. The same pattern holds true for Grandparents for 6 of the 7 items shown below
• The previous slide discusses the average levels of stress of these items and any differences by gender and marital status
H Income: <
$50k: 73%
H Income:
< $50k: 56%
H Income:
< $50k: 57%
H Income:
< $50k: 50%
H Income:
< $50k: 42%
H Income:
< $50k: 54%
H Income:
< $50k: 67%
H Income:
< $50k: 57%H Income:
< $50k: 49%
H Income:
< $50k: 63%
H Income:
< $50k: 65%
To what extent do you currently find each of the following aspects of your financial life stressful?
% 8 to 10 on a 10-point scale
Three in 10 (29%) Millennial Parents are saving more money now than they did before
having children, while 4 in 10 (39%) are saving less
Q210/211/212. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Millennial Parents who save more now than before having children n=296All Millennial Parents who save less now than before having children n=387
Thinking generally about how much you are now able to save (whether that is weekly, monthly, or yearly), is this generally more than you saved before you had children, less, or about the same?
Approximately how much more, or less are you now able to save?
%
29
32
39
I save more now than I did before I had children
I save about the same now as I did before I had children
I save less now than I did before I had children
% More Saved
% Less Saved
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20 23
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<25% 25% to 49% 50% to 99% 100% to 199% 200% or more
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27
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0
10
20
30
<25% 25% to 49% 50% to 69% 70% to 89% 90% to 100%
Average: 48%
Average: 45%
• If saving more than before having children, on average Millennial Parents are saving 48% more
• If saving less, Millennial Parents are saving 45% less
Stay-at-home: 48%
Millennial Parents
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12
5
13
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7
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13
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10
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13
5
9
2
6
5
10
6 7 8 9 10
Disagree completely
Agree completely
Grandparents
Millennial
Parents
8 to 10: 24%
Disagree completely
8 to 10: 12%
Agree completely
1 to 3: 34%
1 to 3: 61%
6 7 8 9 101 2 3 4 5
1 2 3 4 5
To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statement:I waited until I was financially secure before having children
%
Six in 10 (61%) Grandparents say they did not wait until they were financially secure
before having children. This has dropped dramatically to a third (34%) of Millennial
Parents
Q325. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014
• Twice as many Millennial Parents than Grandparents (24% vs. 12%) strongly agree that they waited until being financially
secure before having children
• Millennial Parents with 3 or more children are less likely than Millennial Parents as a whole to agree that they waited
until they were financially secure to have children
3+ children: 16%Female: 42%
Male: 26%
H Income < $50k: 46%
H Income $150k+: 16%
Three in 10 Millennial Parents (32%) and Grandparents (27%) wish they were more
financially secure when they first had children
Q330. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004; All Grandparents n=1,014Arrows indicate a significant difference between Millennial Parents and Grandparents at 95% confidence. Multiple responses allowed
Looking back to when you first became a parent, do you now wish that you had first become a parent at a different time in your life, such as any of the following?
32
22
18
16
13
34
27
13
14
18
8
46
0 5 10 15 20 25 30 35 40 45 50
I was more financially secure
I had a higher income
I was younger
I was older
I had a more secure job
None of the above
Millennial Parents GrandparentsI wish…
• A fifth (22%) of Millennial Parents wished they had had a higher income when they first had children
• Grandparents who are single (never married), separated or widowed are more likely than those who are married to wish
they had waited until they were more financially secure (36% vs. 24%)
Female: 38%
Male: 26%
Female: 15%
Male: 21%
Married: 37%
Single, Separated
or Widowed : 22%
Married: 24%
Single, Separated
or Widowed : 36%
H Income <$50k: 40%
%
Three in 4 (78%) Millennial Parents are optimistic and believe that in 25-30 years’ time
they will be as financially secure or more secure than their parents are now
Q341. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004
In 25 to 30 years' time, do you expect that you will be more financially secure than your parents/guardians are now, less financially secure, or about the same?
I expectI will be…
…in 25-30 years than my parents/guardians are now
Millennial Parents%
32
24
22
10
67
Much more financially secure
Slightly more financially secure
As financially secure
Slightly less financially secure
Much less financially secure
I don't know
78% expect to be at least
as financially secure as
their parents are now
Seven in 10 (68%) Millennial Parents believe themselves to be completely financially
independent from their parents
Q400. Base: All Millennial Parents n=1,004
Which of the statements below best describes the extent to which you are financially independent from your parents/guardians?
68
27
4 1
I am completely financially independent from my
parents/guardians – they do not support me financially in
any way and will not need to in the foreseeable future
I am somewhat financially independent from my
parents/guardians – they provide occasional financial support that
helps me make ends meet/helps me get closer to my financial goals
I am somewhat financially dependent on my parents/guardians –
they provide regular financial support that helps me make ends
meet/helps me get closer to my financial goals
I am completely financially dependent on my parents/guardians –
they pay for all/most of my essential expenses such as
rent/mortgage, food, travel costs and debt payments
Millennial Parents
• Married Millennial Parents are more likely than those who are not married to be completely financially independent of
their parents (71% vs. 55%)
Married: 71%
Single, Separated or
Widowed: 55%
Married: 25%
Single, Separated or
Widowed: 35%
Married: 3%
Single, Separated or
Widowed: 8%
%
The average age of financial independence for Millennial Parents is 25, with Females
outperforming Males
• Asian Millennial Parents are more likely than Latino or Hispanic, African-American and Caucasian parents to believe they
will never be completely financially independent from their parents (26%, 13% ,8% and 9%, respectively)
Millennial Parents
At what age did you become, or expect to become, completelyfinancially independent from your parents/guardians?
24.626.4
9
26
8
13
Caucasian
Asian
African-American
Latino or Hispanic
0 10 20 30
25.5
% “I never expect to become financially independent
Average (years)
Q410. Base: All Millennial Parents (n=1,004)
Almost 6 in 10 (57%) Millennial Parents with a living parent currently receives support
from parents to help them save money
Q415. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904
Do your parents/guardians currently help you save money in any of the following ways?
43
6
9
9
10
10
12
15
16
27
0 10 20 30 40 50
None of the above
Allowing me/my family to vacation in their secondary home
Allowing me/my family to live in their home
Providing loans of money (e.g. for a house, car, paying off debt, etc.)
Paying for my/my family's cell phone/allowing us to be part of their family plan
Sharing internet subscription accounts with me/my family (e.g. Spotify, Netflix, Amazon Prime)
Paying for emergency/unexpected expenses
Giving me/my family cash
Buying me/my family gifts (outside of birthdays/regular celebrations)
Providing babysitting/childcare for my children
• The most frequently received form of support is babysitting or childcare, received by 27% of Millennial Parents with a living parent
• One in 10 (10%) Millennial Parents with a living parent shares one or more of their parent’s internet subscriptions, and 1 in 10 (10%)
also have their cell phone bills covered by their parents
• Married Millennial Parents are more likely than those who are single (never married) to say they did not receive any of the support
listed below (46% vs. 32%)
Female: 33%
Male: 22%
Married: 11%; Single: 18%
Married: 8%; Single: 21%
Married: 9%; Single: 16%
Married: 46%; Single: 32%
Millennial Parents%
57% receive some
help to save money
Almost half (47%) of Millennial Parents with a living parent received, on average,
$2,543 in financial support in the past year
• Married Millennial parents are less likely than single, separated or widowed parents to receive support (44% vs. 59%), but if they
receive support, they receive a higher value on average ($2,752 vs. $1,887)
• Rent/mortgage payments receive the highest value of support on average ($2,033 if received). The highest number of Millennial
Parents receive support for meals out and entertainment (30% receiving, with an average annual value of $235)
Note: These $ values are mean values based on all respondents (excluding a small number of clear outliers) and are significantly higher than the median values. This means that the distribution of the data is skewed: most Millennial Parents receive less support than the mean value, but there is a small number who receive substantially more than the mean
Please think about the financial support you have received, if any, from your parents/guardians in the last year. For each item below please estimate the $ value of
support received from your parents/guardians in the past year
$47
$48
$61
$71
$84
$87
$98
$103
$121
$124
$355
$1,198
0 200 400 600 800 1000 1200 1400
Cell phone payments for yourself/sharing a cell phone plan
Gas/travel expenses
Utility bills
Meals out/entertainment
Credit card payments
Health insurance/medical-related expenses
Student loan payments
Groceries
Vacations
Car/motor vehicle payments
Rent/mortgage payments
TOTAL
Millennial Parents
% receiving some support
Average $ received (if support received)
15% $2,033
18% $665
14% $787
24% $423
15% $519
12% $625
14% $600
30% $235
15% $408
20% $246
18% $262
47% $2,543
Married: 44%
Single, Separated
or Widowed: 59%
Married: $2,752
Single, Separated
or Widowed:
$1,887
$ Average
Q420. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904
Seven in 10 (69%) Millennial Parents with a living parent say they received financial
support for their children totalling $1,632, on average
Please think about the financial support your parents/guardians have provided for your children in the last year. For each item below please estimate the $ value of support
received from your parents/guardians in the past year
• Support received for college savings is highest, on average, at $1,134, if support received. However, Millennial Parents are most
likely to have received support for their children in the forms of toys (52% receiving, $172 received on average) and clothing
(47%, $189 on average)
Millennial Parents$ Average
Note: These $ values are mean values based on all respondents (excluding a small number of clear outliers) and are significantly higher than the median values. This means that the distribution of the data is skewed: most Millennial Parents receive less support than the mean value, but there is a small number who receive substantially more than the mean
$21
$22
$47
$59
$64
$69
$76
$84
$88
$89
$91
$96
$118
$205
$1,129
0 500 1000 1500
Cell phone payments for children/sharing cell phone plan
Allowance/payment for chores
Extra-curricular lessons (e.g. sport lessons, musical lessons)
School expenses (e.g. school supplies, school clothes, outings)
Non-cash gifts
Private school tuition
Daycare or preschool fees (pre-Kindergarten)
Meals out/entertainment
Clothing
Toys
Cash gifts
Vacations
Car-related (e.g. car loan payments, giving/buying a car)
College savings
TOTAL
% receiving some support
Average $ received (if support received)
18% $1,134
16% $527
10% $1,151
33% $274
47% $189
52% $172
11% $671
29% $218
14% $340
13% $173
11% $185
37% $226
9% $750
21% $236
69% $1,632
Q421. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904
In total, over half (54%) of Millennial Parents report having received financial support
from their parents in the past year. Those receiving support received, on average, $2,425
Q430. Base: All Millennial Parents with a living parent n=904
In total, how much financial support, if any, have you and your family received from your parents/guardians in the past year? And in the past 5 years?
46%
27%
9% 9%4% 4%
0%
10%
20%
30%
40%
50%
$0 $1 to $500 $501 to $1,000 $1,001 to £3,000 $3,001 to $5,000 $5,000 or more
41%
15%
9%13%
8%14%
0%
10%
20%
30%
40%
50%
$0 $1 to $500 $501 to $1,000 $1,001 to $3,000 $3,001 to $5,000 $5,000 or more
Support Received in Past Year
Support Received in Past 5 Years
Average: $1,310
Average: $5,220
Average if support received: $2,425
Average if support received: $8,820
Millennial Parents
• Six in 10 (59%) Millennial Parents received financial support over the past 5 years -- $8,820, on average (if received)
• Married Millennial Parents are more likely than those who are single (never married) to have received no financial support in
the past year (48% vs. 37%) and in the past 5 years (43% vs. 31%)
Married: 48%
Single: 37%
Married: 43%
Single: 31%
% Averages rounded to nearest $5
Half (52%) of Millennial Parents receiving financial support from their parents were
offered money without asking for it
Q435. Base: All Millennial Parents receiving some financial support from parents/guardians n=540
Did you ask for the financial support your parents/guardians provided or did they offer it?
11
52
35
2I asked for my parents' financial support
I did not ask for my parents' financial support – he/she/they offered it
It was a mix – I asked for some and they offered some
I don't know
Millennial Parents
%
Over half (56%) of Millennial Parents with a living parent are, or would be, grateful for
any financial help received from their parents
Q440. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904
How do you, or would you, feel about receiving financial support and/or cash gifts from your parents?
10
2
11
17
20
20
22
26
36
56
0 10 20 30 40 50 60
None of the above
Angry
Overjoyed
Ashamed
Valued
Relieved
Indebted
Embarrassed
Loved
Grateful
• Female Millennial Parents are more likely than Males to feel grateful (63% vs. 49%)
• One-quarter (26%) of Millennial Parents are, or would be, embarrassed by receiving financial support
Female: 63%
Male: 49%
Female: 25%
Male: 16%
Millennial Parents
%
Over half (54%) of Millennial Parents receive help from parents with childcare or
running the household in a typical week
Typically how many hours a week, if any, do your parents/guardians help you and your family with any of the following tasks?
2.6
2.6
3.2
3.8
4.3
16.4
0.0 5.0 10.0 15.0 20.0
Shopping and errands
Cleaning/household tasks/repairs
Cooking/meal preparation
Back-up childcare/babysitting
Primary childcare
TOTAL
Average
• Single, separated or widowed Millennial Parents are more likely than married Millennial Parents to receive support (65% vs. 51%)
• Two-thirds (67%) of Latino/Hispanic Millennial Parents receive support for childcare or running the household in a typical week
• Millennial Parents who receive support in the form of Primary childcare (30%) receive 14.3 hours per week, on average. More
Millennial Parents receive support in the form of Back-up childcare (41% receiving, 9.2 hours help on average)
Millennial Parents
% receiving at least one hour of help
Average hours of help (if help received)
30% 14.3
41% 9.2
30% 10.7
24% 10.6
25% 10.3
54% 30.5
Married: 51%
Single, Separated or Widowed : 65%
Latino/Hispanic*: 67%
Q450. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904* Small base (n=94)
Four in 10 (38%) Millennial Parents receive support with bringing up their children to
the tune of 27 hours a week, on average
And how many hours a week do your parents/guardians help you and your familywith any of the following tasks?
1.8
1.8
2.1
2.3
2.3
10.3
0.0 5.0 10.0 15.0
Taking your children to school
Taking your children to after-school events
Helping your children with homework
Teaching your children skills (e.g. sports, cooking, music, art)
Before or after-school child-care
TOTAL
• Single, separated or widowed Millennial Parents are more likely than married Millennial Parents to receive help bringing up their
children (51% vs. 35%)
• Millennial Parents are most likely to have received help with teaching skills to their children (27% receiving, 8.5 hours on average)
% receiving at least one hour of help
Average hours of help (if help received)
24% 9.9
27% 8.5
22% 9.5
22% 8.1
20% 8.7
38% 27.0
Millennial ParentsMarried: 35%
Single, Separated or
Widowed: 51%
Average
Q451. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian n=904
Millennial Parents estimate that in a typical week the number of hours of unpaid help
they receive from their parents represents a dollar value of $300, on average
Thinking in total about the hours your parents/guardians spend helping you and your family in a typical week, what value in dollars
do you estimate this represents?
11
26
17
14
16
18
$0 $1 to $50 $51 to $100 $101 to $200 $201 to $500 $500 or more
Average: $300
Millennial Parents%
For 48 hours of help, on average
$6.25 per hr.
Q460. Base: All Millennial Parents with at least one living parent or guardian who provides at least one hour of help (n=503)
Taken together, financial support and unpaid labor equal a value of $11,011 of help for
each Millennial Parent, or approximately $253 billion across the US
1. Unpaid labor is estimated as $300 value per week, on average, from all receiving at least one hour of help (503 Millennial Parents), Re-calculated to include the Millennial Parents who receive 0 hours help = $167 (i.e. $300 x 503 Millennial Parents receiving help / 904 Millennial Parents with living parents = $167).
2. Taken from table A3, http://www.census.gov/hhes/families/data/cps2013A.html there were approximately 26 million US adults aged 19 to 37 with children under 18 in 2013. From our survey, 90% of Millennial Parents have a living parent. 90% x 26 million =23.4 million, rounded down to 23 million for a conservative estimate
$1,198 annual financial support to Millennial Parents
+ $1,129 annual financial support for grandchildren
+ $1671 weekly unpaid labor x 52 weeks
= $11,011
There are approximately 23 million2
Millennial Parents with living parents
in the US
$11,011 x 23 million =
$253 billion per year
23
36
8
11
7
6
5
5
12
8
11
6
9
9
8
4
5
4
13
10
6 7 8 9 10
Disagree completely
Agree completely
One in 5 (18%) Millennial Parents who receive financial support from parents believe
they could not afford their current lifestyle without it
Q325. Base: All Millennial Parents receiving financial support from parents/guardians (n=540), receiving time support from parents/guardians (n=503)
To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statements:
I could not afford my current
lifestyle if my parents were not
helping me out financially
8 to 10: 18%
Disagree completely
7 8 9 10
8 to 10: 26%
• One quarter (26%) of Millennial Parents agree that they could not afford their current lifestyle if their parents were not
helping out by giving time, including 35% of Millennial Parents who are single (never married)
Agree completely
1 to 3: 54%
1 to 3: 37%
I could not afford my current
lifestyle if my parents were not
helping me out by giving time
and/or labor
Married: 24%
Single: 35%
%1 2 3 4 5
1 2 3 4 5
32
Grandparent Perspective
Half (52%) of Grandparents consider that their adult child is completely financially
independent from them. Only 5% have an adult child who is completely financially
dependent
Q500. Base: All Grandparents n=1,014
52
29
14
5 My adult child is completely financially independent from me/my
spouse/partner – I/we do not support him/her financially in any way
and will not need to in the foreseeable future
My adult child is somewhat financially independent from me/my
spouse/partner – I/we provide occasional financial support helps him/her
make ends meet/helps his/her get closer to his/her financial goals
My adult child is somewhat financially dependent on me/my
spouse/partner – I/we provide regular financial support that helps
him/her make ends meet/helps his/her get closer to his/her financial goals
My adult child is completely financially dependent on me/my
spouse/partner – I/we pay for all/most of his/her essential expenses
such as rent/mortgage, food, travel costs and debt payments
Grandparents
Which of the statements below best describes the extent to which your adult child is financially independent from you and your spouse/partner (if applicable)?
%
Four in 10 (41%) Grandparents with more than 1 adult child state that the most
financial support goes to their youngest child and the same number says the most
goes to a female child
Q505/Q506. Base: All Grandparents with more than one adult child n=745
Which adult child do you provide the most financial support to?What is the gender of the child you provide the most financial support to?
14
17
41
6
22
My oldest child
My middle child/one of my middle children
My youngest child
I provide financial support to all my children equally
I do not provide financial support to any of my children
34
41
4
21
Male
Female
I provide financial support to all my children equally
I do not provide financial support to any of my children
Grandparents
%
One third (33%) of Grandparents are helping their adult child pay the bills and the
same proportion (32%) is giving cash gifts for special events
Q510. Base: All Grandparents n=1,014
Are you and your spouse/partner (if applicable) providing your adult child with financial support in any of the following ways?
28
6
13
18
18
20
21
32
33
0 5 10 15 20 25 30 35
None of the above
Put money towards a home down payment or mortgage payments
Help to pay off debts
Pay for your grandchildren's sports/recreational activities
Help to purchase a car/giving him/her a new or used car
Pay for unexpected expenses for your grandchildren (e.g. braces)
Cash gifts for no special reason
Cash gifts for special events (e.g. a wedding, a birthday, etc.)
Help to pay bills
• Two in 10 (20%) Grandparents are paying for unexpected expenses for their grandchildren (e.g. braces)
• Grandparents are also helping children pay off debts (10% for female children, 17% for male children)
Female: 36%; Male: 29%
Female: 10%; Male: 17%
Female: 15%; Male: 22%
Grandparents%
Three in 4 (75%) Grandparents believe they have provided financial support to their adult
child in the past year, to the tune of $4,527, on average
Please think about the financial support you/your spouse/partner (if applicable) have provided, if any, to your adult child and his/her family in the last year. For each item
below please estimate the $ value of support you have provided, in total, in the past year
$137
$156
$192
$203
$214
$228
$251
$382
$406
$448
$775
$3,393
0 1000 2000 3000 4000
Utility bills
Cell phone payments for your adult child/sharing a phone plan
Gas/travel expenses
Vacations
Credit card payments
Health insurance/medical-related expenses
Meals out/entertainment
Student loan payments
Groceries
Car/motor vehicle payments
Rent/mortgage payments
TOTAL
• The categories with the highest dollar value of support on average across all Grandparents are rent/mortgage payments ($775, or
$3,462 on average, if received) and car/vehicle payments ($448, $2,239, if received).
• The categories where the highest number of Grandparents provide support are groceries (45%), and meals out/entertainment (40%)
% providing some support
Average $ provided (if support provided)
22% $3,462
45% $898
20% $2,239
10% $3,758
18% $1,270
40% $632
10% $2,051
18% $1,120
32% $604
29% $547
22% $607
75% $4,527
Grandparents$ Average
Note: These $ values are mean values based on all respondents (excluding a small number of clear outliers) and are significantly higher than the median values. This means that the distribution of the data is skewed: most Millennial Parents receive less support than the mean value, but there is a small number who receive substantially more than the mean
Q520. Base: All Grandparents n=1,014
Eight in 10 (81%) Grandparents say they have given financial support for their
grandchildren in the past year totalling, on average, $2,383
Please think about the financial support you/your spouse/partner (if applicable) provide for your grandchild/ grandchildren, either directly, or to your adult child to be used for your grandchild/ grandchildren. For each
item below please estimate the $ value of support you have provided, in total, in the past year
$16
$21
$39
$46
$67
$112
$126
$127
$155
$168
$169
$196
$234
$452
$1,929
0 500 1000 1500 2000 2500
Allowance/payment for chores
Cell phone payments for your grandchildren/sharing a plan
Car-related (e.g. car loan payments, giving/buying a car)
Private school tuition
Extra-curricular lessons (e.g. sport lessons, musical lessons)
Meals out/entertainment
Vacations
School expenses (e.g. school supplies, school clothes, outings)
Cash gifts
Daycare or preschool fees (pre-Kindergarten)
Non-cash gifts
Toys
Clothing
College savings
TOTAL
% providing some support
Average $ provided(if support provided)
19% $2,337
58% $340
55% $428
39% $432
42% $371
6% Base too small
16% $794
14% $484
3% Base too small
6% Base too small
10% $157
27% $477
38% $297
1% Base too small
81% $2,383
• The category with the highest dollar value of support on average, is college savings ($452, or $2,337 on average, if received),
whereas the categories where the highest number of Grandparents provide support are toys (58%, $340, if received) and clothing
(55%, $428)
Grandparents$ Average
Note: These $ values are mean values based on all respondents (excluding a small number of clear outliers) and are significantly higher than the median values. This means that the
distribution of the data is skewed: most Millennial Parents receive less support than the mean value, but there is a small number who receive substantially more than the mean
Q521. Base: All Grandparents n=1,014
Grandparents who provided financial support to their adult child estimate that they
have provided $4,000 in the past year and $15,780 in the past 5 years
Q530. Base: All Grandparents n=1,014
In total, how much financial support, if any, have you and your spouse/partner (if applicable) provided to your adult child and his/her family in the past year? And in the past 5 years?
%. Averages rounded to nearest 5%
27
1513
19
1214
0
5
10
15
20
25
30
$0 $1 to $500 $501 to $1,000 $1,001 to $3,000 $3,001 to $5,000 $5,000 or more
24
5 4
14 12
41
0
10
20
30
40
50
$0 $1 to $500 $501 to $1,000 $1,001 to $3,000 $3,001 to $5,000 $5,000 or more
Support Provided in Past Year
Support Provided in Past 5 Years
Average: $2,910
Average: $12,000
Average if support provided: $4,000
Average if support provided: $15,780
• One in 5 (21%) Grandparents with a household income of $100,000 or more has provided $5,000 or more in financial support in the
past year, and half (53%) have provided that amount in the past 5 years
Female: $9,875; Male: $14,385
Female: $6,815; Male: $9,255
H Income <$50k: 7%
H Income $100k+: 21%
H Income <$50k: 30%
H Income $100k+: 53%
Grandparents
Four in 10 (40%) Grandparents providing support say their adult child did not ask for
financial support
Q535. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737
Generally, did your adult child ask for this financial support or did you and your spouse/partner (if applicable) offer it?
16
40
43
2My adult child asked for my financial support
My adult child did not ask for my financial support – I/we offered it
It was a mix – my adult child asked for some financial support and
I/we offered some support
I don't know
Grandparents%
• It was shown previously (slide 38) that 52% of Millennial Parents receiving report said that they did not ask for it
Over 8 in 10 (84%) Grandparents providing support state they are not their adult
child’s primary means of support/source of income
Q537. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737
Are you your adult child's primary means of support/source of income?
15
84
1
Yes
No
I don't know
Grandparents%
Nine in 10 Grandparents always know (56%) or usually know (36%) how the financial
support provided will be used
Q540. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737
Thinking generally of when you and your spouse/partner (if applicable) provide financial support to your adult child or grand-child/grand-children, do you know what the money is being used for?
5636
6 2
Yes, I/we always know how the financial support I provide will
be used
Yes, I/we usually know how the financial support I provide will
be used
No, I/we usually don't know how the financial support I
provide will be used
No, I/we never know how the financial support I provide will
be used
Grandparents%
Four in 10 (43%) Grandparents providing financial support do so because it makes
them happy, and gives their children/grandchildren a better quality of life than they
would otherwise be able to afford
Which of the following are reasons why you and your spouse/partner (if applicable) provide financial support to your adult child and/or grand-child/grand-children?
16
19
20
24
35
40
43
0 5 10 15 20 25 30 35 40 45 50
Other reasons
My parents provided me with financial support; it is only fair I/we do the same for
my/our family
It is unfair that the generation of my adult child is struggling
I/we want to see them enjoy my money while I'm/we're alive, rather than when
I'm/we're no longer around
They wouldn't be able to cope without my/our support
I/we want them to have a better quality of life than they would otherwise be able
to afford
It makes me/us happy
• Just over a third (35%) provide this support because they believe their child would not be able to cope without the support
Q545. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737Multiple responses allowed
Grandparents%
Two in 10 (22%) Grandparents providing financial support to their adult child cite
happiness (“It makes me happy”) as the single most important reason for providing
the support
Which of the following statements best describes your most important reason for providing some financial support to your adult children?
11
2
3
3
6
7
7
18
22
22
0 10 20 30
Another reason
My adult child doesn't want to move out/move away on their own
I/we don't want to push my adult child out of the house/away from me/us
I've/we've always paid some of my adult child's bills (e.g. cell phone) so I/we keep
doing so to help
My parents provided me with financial support; it is only fair I/we do the same
for my/our family
It is unfair that the generation of my adult child is struggling financially
I/we want to see them enjoy my/our money while I'm/we're alive, rather than
when I'm/we're no longer around
I/we want them to have a better quality of life than they would otherwise be able
to afford
My adult child wouldn't be able to cope without my/our support
It makes me/us happy
• Also, 22% say that the most important reason for providing support is that their adult child would not be able to cope without it
Q598. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737
%Grandparents
Three-quarters of Grandparents are glad that they can help out financially
Q550. Base: All Grandparents, n=1,014. Multiple responses allowed
How do you, or would you, personally feel about providing financial support to your adult child?
10
2
3
3
5
7
13
16
20
20
75
0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80
None of the above
Ashamed
Embarrassed
Angry
Resentful
Overjoyed
Taken for granted
Proud
Valued
Loved
Glad you could help
Grandparents%
Half (47%) of Grandparents have made some sacrifices to help their adult child or
grandchildren, with the most likely being using some/all of their savings (27%) and
cutting back on meals out/entertainment (22%)
Q560. Base: All Grandparents, n=1,014. Multiple responses allowed
Have you or your partner/spouse (if applicable) had to make any of the followingcompromises to help support your adult children and/or your grand-children?
53
3
4
4
4
5
6
7
8
14
15
22
27
0 20 40 60
None of the above
Downsize your home
Sell any of your possessions
Move closer to your adult child/not move away
Spend less time with your spouse
Take on an extra job
Cut back on the number/value of cars in your household
Spend less time with your friends
Postpone retirement
Find ways to make more money
Spend less time enjoying life
Cut back on meals out/entertainment
Use some/all of your savings
• Almost 1 in 10 (8%) Grandparents have postponed their retirement in order to help their adult child or grandchildren
47% have made at least
one compromise
Working full-time: 12%
Grandparents%
One in 5 (18%) Grandparents providing financial support expect they will continue
providing it to their adult child for the rest of their life – half (49%) see the support as
temporary
To what extent do you agree or disagree with the following statement:I expect to continue providing financial support to my adult child for the rest of my life
26 11 12 8 11 9 5 7 3 7
Disagree completely
Agree completely
8 to 10: 18%
6 7 8 9 101
1 to 3: 49%
Grandparents
2 3 4 5
%
Q586. Base: All Grandparents providing some financial support n=737
One-quarter (24%) of Grandparents say that a car is the most extravagant gift they
purchased for their adult child, followed by a vacation (13%)
Q590. Base: All Grandparents, n=1,014
What is the most extravagant gift that you have bought for your adult child since he/she turned 18?
44
6
2
3
3
5
13
24
0 10 20 30 40 50
I haven't bought my adult child any extravagant gifts since he/she turned 18
Something else
Jewelry
Home renovations
A home
Luxury goods (e.g. fashion, technology)
A vacation
A car/motor vehicle
• Four in 10 (44%) Grandparents have never bought an extravagant gift for their adult child
Female: 19%; Male: 30%%Grandparents
Appendix
Survey sample characteristics
Base: All Millennial Parents, n=1,004; Grandparents n=1,014
5
15
25 23
11
21
5
16
2722
11
18
New England Mid-Atlantic South Midwest Southwest West
Region
1912
36 32
0
26 2228 22
1
High school
or less
Technical
degree
Undergraduate college
degree
Graduate/Professional
degree
Prefer not to answer
Education
28 23 17 292
28 21 18 295
Less than $50k $50k-$74.9k $75k -$99.9k $100k + Don't know/ Prefer
not to answer
Household Income
Marital Status
14
81
5 02
76
166
Single, never
married
Married/ Common
law
Separated/
Divorced
Widowed
50 504753
Male Female
Gender
% Millennial Parents Grandparents
70
12 10 8 4 1
88
3 4 6 4 0
Caucasian Asian Latino or Hispanic African-American Others Prefer not to say
Ethnicity
5
19
4234
16
31 3122
19 to 24 25 to 29 30 to 34 35 to 37 50 to 54 55 to 59 60 to 64 65 to 70
Age