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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 29

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008



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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 29

NARCOSIA Publishing

ARAD COUNTY, MACEA

2008



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CIP description of the Romanian National

Library

Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978-606-8048-08-6



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Urge to read, analyze and apply

these meditations

By reading and analyzing the

meditations of AGC, by applying one

or more thoughts we will find solutions

that will help us:

I. Discover:

1. qualities;

2. defects;

3. capabilities;

4. skills;5. some opportunities

to succeed in life;

6. finding a partner for life;

7. keeping our marriage;8. discovering our feelings;

9. discovering our

mistakes;

10. etc..



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II. To prevent some:

1. mistakes;2. accidents;

3. divorces;

4. trouble;

5. bankruptcies;

6. failures;

7. conflicts;

8. etc..

III. Become:1. more efficient;

2. happier;

3. more loved;

4. more honorable;5. appreciated;

6. more respected;

7. more loved;

8. more organized;



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9. more optimistic;

10. more plan;

11. most active;12. best;

13. fairer;

14. more humane;

15. more unselfish;

16. popular;

17. more famous;

18. etc..

IV. Come out of:1. the state of lost hope;

2. the state of pessimism;

3. the state of despair;

4. the state of passivity;5. the state of inactivity

6. etc..

V. Participate at:



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1. social life;

2. political life;

3. the activity of non- profit organization

4. etc..

VI. Find more

opportunities to meet

favorable or more

favorable conditions.

VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to

make it more beautiful.

VIII. To expand our chances to find the right

partner for life.

IX. To let us realize and to



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maintain a happy marriage.

X. To let us raise andeducate our children better,

to take more care of them.

I am writing these meditations

and adding these books, other

publications and on the Internet, etc..

because we need them every day and it

is necessary to apply them so that we

each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and

happy one. These meditations reflect a

tiny part of reality, of what would be

good to be present in real life and inhuman relations.

I expect good news from you,

good deeds that you have done

influenced by the fact that you have



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read and applied one or more ideas to

make your life more beautiful, more

prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others.

Each of us can become a positive

new model for those around us thus

participating in the creation of a better

human society, of a more prosperous

one, and a happier one.

I would be very happy and

excited if one or more ideas that you

have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more

prosperous, etc..

I wish you all health, happiness

and the achieving of all things that youwant.

I expect your news, ideas,

opinions, troubles and joys, etc..



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Sincerely, love and with much joy,

I invite you to visit my site

www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write tome at: [email protected]

“Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel”

(AGC)



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1) Those who are willing to try new

ways have more and greater chances to

achieve more outstanding performances.

2) Those who have the sense of

objectivity have contributed a lot inachieving the greater good.


objectivity must be supported.

4)

Those who have the sense of objectivity have more and greater chances

to achieve efficient co-developments.


objectivity become more efficient.

6) People who are full of life andactive have greater and more chances to

achieve a more beautiful life.

7) People who are full of life and

active have more chances to achieve their



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desired future.

8) People with prejudices may not

maintain a mature love because of prejudices.

9) People with prejudices may not be

able to maintain mature love because of

some prejudices.

10) Wrong ideas must not be rewarded.11) Some people with wrong ideas can

not participate in global humanization

because of some wrong ideas.

12) Some people with wrong ideas have

many failures because of some wrong

ideas.

13) Some people with wrong ideas

cannot trust the future because of some

wrong ideas.14) Some people with wrong ideas have

fewer chances to meet favorable situations

because of some wrong ideas.

15) Some people with wrong ideas



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cannot become more credible because of

some wrong ideas.

16)

People who inspire trust must berewarded.

17) People who inspire trust have a

great capacity to achieve efficient co

operations.

18) People who inspire trust have agreater ability to achieve a happy

marriage.


greater ability to become more

performing.


greater ability to achieve efficient co-

developments.

21) People with the sense of disciplinehave a greater ability to achieve a happy

marriage.

22) People with the sense of discipline

have a greater capacity to become more



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effective.


have a greater potential to achieve a happylife.


have a greater ability to become more

credible.

25) People who are not careful withothers are not appreciated.

26) People who are not careful with

others have lowered chances to maintain

true friendships.


others achieve a beautiful life a lot harder.


others succeed a lot harder.

29) The state of uncertainty stops themaking of decisions very much.

30) The state of political uncertainty

pushes investors away from the country in

which it exists.



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31) Those who solve their problems

only through constructive methods have

greater chances to succeed in life.32) Those who solve their problems

only through constructive methods must

be promoted.


only through constructive methods havegreater chances to achieve efficient co-

developments.


only through constructive methods have

chances to achieve outstanding

performances.

35) The state of nervosity stops us from

becoming more efficient in life.

36) The state of nervosity makes itharder to maintain efficient co-

developments.

37) The state of nervosity must not be

promoted.



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38) The state of nervosity makes it a lot

harder to achieve social relations.

39)

Not assuring personal freedom is agreat abuse.

40) Not assuring personal freedom

makes it very hard to achieve efficient

global co operations.

41) Assuring personal freedomcontributes a lot to global humanization.

42) A positive conception of life helps

us achieve more social relations.

43) A positive conception of life helps

us achieve more and greater successes.

44) The uncertainty of incomes makes it

very hard for our imagination.

45) The uncertainty of incomes shakes

our trust in ourselves.46) Those who discover unique ways to

work efficiently for a better life will

contribute more to achieving the greater

good.



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47) Those who discover unique ways to

work efficiently for a better life must be

supported.48) Those who discover unique ways to

work efficiently for a better life become

more performing.

49) Those who know how to take

advantage of the opportunity to createincrease their chances of self achievement.


advantage of the opportunity to create

have more chances to prevent more

failures.


advantage of the opportunity to create

have a greater capacity to achieve a happy

life.52) Those who control circumstances

have a greater ability to maintain true

friendships.

53) Those who control circumstances



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continuously develop their trust in the

future.

54)

Those who know that discipline isthe key to our dreams have the necessary

abilities to maintain the desired efficient

global co operations.

55) Those who know that discipline is

one of the keys of our dreams have agreater ability to achieve more and greater

successes.

56) Those who have had better

economical and social conditions during

their evolution have a greater ability to

achieve themselves.



their evolution achieve the desiredefficient co operations.



their evolution have a greater capacity to



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achieve more and greater successes.


economical and social conditions duringtheir evolution usually have trust in the

future.



their evolution mostly have the ability to become more efficient.

61) Those who live their life

passionately and not at random have a

greater ability to maintain their

participation in efficient global co

operations.

62) Those who live their life

passionately and not at random mostly

have a great ability to achieve a happymarriage.

63) Those who have the opportunities to

develop contribute more to achieving the

greater good.



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64) Those who have the opportunity to

develop have more trust in the future.

65)

Those who willingly expand their positive experience have more chances to

achieve their own happiness.

66) Those who willingly spend their

positive experience increase their trust in

themselves.67) The need to succeed increases

people’s chances to achieve their desired

future.

68) The need to succeed must be

supported.

69) The need to succeed of many people

gives them the ability to achieve more

useful and greater outstanding

performances.70) The majority of those who wonder

without a purpose in life do not participate

in efficient co-developments.

71) The ability to consciously choose



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makes us contribute more to achieving the

greater good.

72)

Most of those who have the abilityto consciously choose have a great

capacity to achieve efficient co-

developments.

73) Most of those who have the ability

to choose have a greater contribution toglobal humanization.

74) A positive enterprising spirit makes

each of us more creative.

75) A positive enterprising spirit must

be promoted.

76) A positive enterprising spirit creates

more possibilities to achieve a happy life.

77) Efficient people in positive actions

have more chances to maintain their desired positive social relations.

78) People who are efficient in positive

actions have more chances to achieve a

happy marriage.



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79) The sense of quality increases our

chances to achieve efficient global co

operations.80) The sense of quality helps us a lot to

make true friends.

81) The sense of quality increases our

needs to achieve a more beautiful life.

82) Constructive thinking makes ushave zero tolerance towards abuse.

83) Constructive thinking is a necessity.

84) Constructive thinking helps us a lot

to achieve our own happiness.

85) Constructive thinking increases our

chances to achieve the desired social

relations.

86) Constructive thinking helps us

achieve efficient co operations.87) Constructive thinking must be

rewarded.

88) The sense of fairness increases our

chances to achieve a mature love.



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credibility.

90)

The sense of fairness helps us become more effective.

91) The sense of fairness helps us

achieve positive performances.


chances to achieve a more beautiful life.93) The majority of those who have the

ability to react with understanding must be

sustained.

94) The majority of those who have the

ability to react with understanding have a

greater capacity to participate in achieving

a positive global future.


ability to react with understanding havemore and greater chances to achieve true

friendships.


ability to react with understanding have



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the necessary capacity to maintain mature

love.

97)

People who know how to motivateother people have trust in themselves.

98) People who know how to motivate

other people have more chances to achieve

a mature love.

99) Humanist ideas are a necessity for society.

100) Humanist ideas have a great

contribution in achieving the future

desired by many people.

101) Humanist ideas help a lot of people

succeed in life.

102) Positive thinking helps us a lot to

continuously be preventive.

103) Preventive thinking is a necessity.104) Preventive thinking has a great

contribution in achieving the desired

future.

105) Using preventive thinking is an



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obligation.

106) The use of preventive thinking is an

engine of development in all areas of activity.

107) Using preventive thinking makes us

more credible.

108) Using preventive thinking makes us

commit fewer mistakes.109) Preventive thinking must be

rewarded.

110) People who respect their

collaborators have greater chances to

maintain efficient co operations.


collaborators have a greater ability to

maintain a mature love.

112) People who respect their collaborators have greater trust in

themselves.


collaborators have a greater potential to



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maintain a happy marriage.


collaborators have greater chances toachieve efficient co-developments.

115) Respecting one’s collaborator is a

necessity.

116) Most of those involved in many

projects make fewer mistakes.117) Participating in projects is a

necessity for each of us.

118) The greater good is not achieved by

itself but only through our larger

participation.

119) The majority of those involved in

projects have a greater ability to achieve

personal goals.

120) The majority of those involved inmore projects have the ability to become

more efficient.

121) Controlling people’s emotions is a

necessity.



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122) Loving gestures contribute to

maintaining happy marriages.

123)

Loving gestures contribute tomaintaining true loves.

124) Loving gestures contribute to

forming true loves.

125) Small attentions create true loves.

126) Small attentions contribute tomaintaining marriages.

127) Small attentions contribute to

maintaining true loves.

128) Small attentions contribute to

maintaining true friendships.

129) Hugs contribute to achieving true

loves.

130) Hugs contribute to maintaining true

loves.131) Hugs contribute to maintaining

marriages.

132) Hugs contribute to maintaining

friendships.



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133) Hugs contribute to achieving happy

marriages.

134)

Kindness contributes to achievingfriendships.

135) Kindness contributes to achieving

true loves.

136) Kindness contributes to maintaining

happy marriages.137) Kindness contributes to achieving

happy marriages.


true loves.


true friendships.

140) Love is not maintained by itself but

it must be maintained.

141) Friendships are not maintained bythemselves but they must be maintained.

142) Marriages are not maintained by

themselves but they must be maintained.

143) Co operations are not maintained by



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themselves but they must be maintained.

144) Women’s hopes must be

recognized.145) Women’s thoughts must be

respected.

146) Women’s thoughts must be

considered.

147) Women’s thoughts must beappreciated.

148) Women’s hopes must be respected.

149) Women’s hopes must be supported.

150) Women’s hopes make them

optimistic.

151) Women’s hopes make them more

confident in the future.

152) Women’s hopes give them trust in

the future.153) Women’s hopes make them more

confident in themselves.

154) Women’s hopes make them feel

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155) Women must be supported to

continuously be emancipated.

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Women must be encouragedcontinuously to perfect themselves.

157) We must always be smiling except

in situations when it is not normal to

smile.

158) We must never argue.159) We must never lie.

160) A life without arguments is a lot

more beautiful.

161) Continuous arguments are bad for

our health.

162) Continuous annoyances are bad for

our health.

163) Continuous conflicts are bad for our

health.164) Fury must be avoided.

165) People who smile continuously

more easily achieve true friendships.

166) Arguments can always be avoided.



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167) Annoyances can always be avoided.

168) Conflicts can be avoided most of

the times.169) A life in harmony is a lot more

beautiful.

170) A life in understanding is a lot more

beautiful.

171) A life in understanding makes usfeel that we are truly alive.

172) A life lived in a marriage makes us

feel alive.

173) Successes make us live life more

intensely.

174) True friendships make us feel truly

alive.

175) True friendships make our lives a

lot more beautiful.176) True friendships bring us many

pleasant surprises.

177) People who are perceived as open

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relations.

178) Altruistic people more quickly

achieve true friendships.179) Altruistic people are more

trustworthy.

180) Affectionate manifestations

contribute a lot to achieving a true love.

181) Affectionate manifestationscontribute a lot to achieving a long lasting

marriage.


contribute a lot to maintaining a true love.


contribute a lot to maintaining a long

lasting marriage.

184) Affectionate manifestations make

the lives of lovers a lot more beautiful.185) Affectionate manifestations make

the lives of spouses a lot more beautiful.


the lives of lovers a lot more pleasant.



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the lives of spouses a lot more pleasant.

188)

Affectionate manifestations bringlovers closer.

189) Affectionate manifestations bring

spouses closer.

190) Affectionate manifestations must be

encouraged by lovers.191) Affectionate manifestations must be

appreciated by lovers.


rewarded by lovers.


supported by lovers.


encouraged by spouses.

195) Affectionate manifestations must beappreciated by spouses.


rewarded by spouses.




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supported by spouses.

198) Affectionate manifestations help

develop love.199) Affectionate manifestations

contribute to maintaining our health.

200) Lovers must speak of their own

emotions.

201) Spouses must talk about their ownemotions.

202) Lovers who talk about their own

emotions grow closer together.

203) Spouses by talking of their own

emotions grow closer to one another.

204) Lovers must encourage each other

to speak about their own emotions.

205) Spouses must encourage each other

to talk about their own emotions.206) Lovers must appreciate each other

when they talk about their own emotions.

207) Spouses must appreciate each other




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208) Lovers must support each other


209)

Spouses must support each other when they talk about their own emotions.

210) By talking about our own emotions

we create a state of psychical comfort.

211) We must always avoid

argumentative talks.212) Spouses must always avoid

conflicting talks.

213) Lovers must always avoid

argumentative talks.

214) Friends must always avoid

argumentative talks.

215) Repeated argumentative talks can

be bad for our health.

216) Argumentative talks can be prevented.

217) Spouses can prevent argumentative

talks.

218) Lovers can prevent argumentative



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talks.

219) Friends can avoid argumentative

talks.220) Argumentative talks complicate

solving problems.

221) Argumentative talks are very bad

for marriages.

222) Argumentative talks are very badfor love.

223) Argumentative talks are very bad

for a friendship.

224) Argumentative talks harm inter-

human relations.

225) Argumentative talks can create new

problems.

226) Argumentative talks create

psychical discomfort.227) Loyalty creates psychical comfort.

228) Spouses must avoid the apparition

of new problems.

229) Spouses can avoid the apparition of



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new problems.

230) The exteriorization of our

discontents contributes a lot to achieving along lasting marriage.


discontents contributes a lot to achieving a

long lasting love.

232) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to

maintaining a durable marriage.


discontents contributes a lot to

maintaining a durable love.


discontents contributes a lot to achieving a

durable friendship.

235) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to

maintaining a long lasting love.


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maintaining our health.


discontents in inter-human relationscontributes to maintaining those relations.


discontents is the first step towards

solving them.

239) Spouses must understand eachother.

240) Lovers must understand each other.

241) Friends must understand each other.

242) Those who cooperate must

understand each other.

243) Spouses, even if they have different

opinions, must understand each other.

244) Lovers, even if they have different

opinions, must understand each other.245) Friends, even if they have different

opinions, must understand each other.

246) Those who cooperate, even if they

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each other.

247) People, even if they have different

opinions, must understand each other.248) It is normal that spouses are

sometimes in a bad mood.

249) It is normal that friends are


250) It is normal that lovers aresometimes in a bad mood.

251) It is normal that people are


252) Spouses must sense one another.

253) Friends must sense one another.

254) Lovers must sense each other.

255) When spouses sense each other they

have more chances to achieve a durable

marriage.256) When lovers sense each other they

have more chances to achieve a true love.

257) When friends sense each other they

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friendship.

258) When people sense each other they

have more chances to get along better.259) When spouses sense each other they

have more chances to understand one

another.

260) When lovers sense each other they

have more chances to understand oneanother.


have more chances to understand each

other.


have more chances to maintain their true

friendship.

263) When lovers sense each other they

have more chances to maintain their truelove.


have more chances to maintain their happy

marriage.



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265) When people sense each other they

have more chances to achieve harmonious

relations.266) When lovers sense each other they


relations.


have more chances to achieve harmoniousrelations.



relations.

269) When one of the spouses is upset by

the other’s behavior he or she must tell the

other spouse.

270) Spouses must reveal their feelings

mutually.271) When spouses reveal their feelings

mutually they contributes a lot to

maintaining a happy marriage.

272) When lovers reveal their feelings



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mutually they contribute a lot to

maintaining true love.

273)

When friends reveal their feelingsmutually they contribute a lot to

maintaining a true friendship.

274) When people reveal their feelings

mutually they contribute a lot to

maintaining inter-human relations.275) Spouses must know each other’s

needs.

276) Lovers must know each other’s

needs.

277) Friends must know each other’s

needs.

278) When spouses know each other’s

needs they contribute a lot to maintaining

the marriage.279) When lovers know each other’s

needs they contribute a lot to maintaining

true love.

280) Love gestures must be appreciated



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by spouses.

281) Lovers must reward one another’s

love gestures.282) Spouses must appreciate one

another’s love gestures.

283) Spouses must encourage one

another’s love gestures.

284) Spouses must support one another’slove gestures.

285) Love gestures must be rewarded.

286) Love gestures must be supported.

287) Love gestures must be encouraged.

288) Love gestures must be appreciated.

289) Lovers must reward each other’s

love gestures.

290) Lovers must appreciate each other’s

love gestures.291) Lovers must encourage each other’s

love gestures.

292) Lovers must support each other’s

love gestures.



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hugs with hugs.

294)

Lovers must reward each other’skisses with kisses.


tenderness with tenderness.



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About the author and his ideas

Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know

someone. Often, the person on whom

you stopped is difficult to decipher.

That is not the case of Gheorghe

Cornel Ardelean. From the first

moment I knew and he got my

attention.

I recognized him immediately

from the descriptions made by hiscolleagues: "One small, with white

haired man with many books and

newspapers in his hand, they said. My

curiosity pushed me to address him,cheerful, open; he began to talk to me

as if we knew each other for years. A

person opened both to dialogue as well

as current jokes. I got to know him



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even better when we met at Club

Central. A nice company as long as

you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future

plans are. Plans that are repeated

endlessly become a burden for the

people around him. Not because it

would be something wrong in what he

says but through their very

repeatability.

On several occasions I have read

some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine

"Freedom in Thought".

By their simplicity and the fact

that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the

writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean

they may seem indeed to read seriously

what to write, I bet they will find



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among the apparently simple lines, a

message equal to a person who has

suffered enormously because of human and system injustices.

The cry of a man eager for more,

eager for simplicity, for the truth and

for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect

world.

If even 10% of what he writes

would be put into practice by us, then

certainly we would set ourselves and

with others at the same time.Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into

practice what he writes, which means

that he really believes it.With an analytical style

impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a

few lines and penetrates into the



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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is

venturing into an area still unexplored

in specialized literature.Specialized topics are part of the

absolute truths that each of us have

deep within our being, so

acknowledged, so obvious, so natural

that no one has ventured to put them

on paper.

But surely there will be many

who, after reading and rereading these

absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The

novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe

Ardelean stand out besides putting on

paper a well-known truth, is that it alsoleads to problem solving. It is a

promising start in an area of astute

competition and often an unscrupulous

one.



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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean

and may these meditations help as

many people as possible. Do not giveup, continue on the path that you have

chosen and maybe in the nearer or

further future the world will be at least

5% as you want it to be.

Do not give up ... We ... only a

few, I must admit, we are beside you.

SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD

Graduate of the Academy of Theater

and Film

Former journalist of the national

newspapers and Romania Libera,Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's

Paul of Romania’s adviser

a businessman resident in Italy



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Gheorghe Cornel

Ardelean Writer (66

books written in English,

66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in

Macea, Arad County,

Email:

[email protected]

www.ardeleancornel.euI have known the economist Cornel Ardelean

for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the

thought of some who did not believe in his ideas,

innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient

duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is

indeed a good economist by founding the first smallenterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the

post-communist age.

I have always been by Cornel Ardelean’s

side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise

above his time if he wishes to and if he has the

potential to do it.

SABIN BODEA

President of the Writers’ League of Romania

Arad Branch

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978 606 8048 08 6

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