Meditation: What It Really Is, Why Its Awesome & How To Get
Started
Meditation: What It Really Is, Why Its Awesome & How To Get
Started
Before I moved to Australia, If youd told me one day Id be
writing an article about meditation, I would probably have started
laughing.
I had never meditated and its not something Id even thought
about doing.
Yet here I am, crafting the first lines of a blogpost about
meditation And guess what: Im pumped about it!
Why? Because meditation has been hands down my #1 life discovery
over the last year.
Out of all the crazy/healthy stuff I do on a daily basis, its my
meditation that helps me most show up in the world they way I want
to, and become a slightly better version of myself everyday.
And thats why, my friends, Im happy to say that I havent missed
a day of meditation in 9 months. And to be honest, I dont plan on
ever missing a day again. Yes, meditation is that awesome.
If youre skeptical, I dont blame you. How could sitting down,
eyes closed, doing nothing for a few minutes really help us, let
alone provide Jedi Mind Tricks?
Let me tell you a little story.
How I Started MeditatingOne day around this time last year, I
was lost in the depth of the Youtube sphere, browsing around
aimlessly, before I found an interesting video. It was Jon
Kabat-Zinn, a pioneer of meditation in the Western World,
introducing Meditation to a room full of Google employees.
I had nothing planned for the next hour, and I figured if those
guys had the time to watch this presentation, I should watch it
too. So I did. And what a good idea it turned out to be.
Before the video was even over, I knew I to try this thing. Ive
always had a really active mind, always thinking about a million
and one things, and it seemed like meditation was exactly what I
needed to harness the full power of my mind by taming it down a
little.
So I committed to 5 minutes every morning, for the next month.
See what happens, you know. If anything, the chances of getting
injured from this experiment were rather slim.
The next morning, as soon as I got up, I sat up in my bed,
closed my eyes and thus began my meditation career.
The next 5 minutes were slightly uncomfortable, relatively
uneventful, and certainly not life-altering. But I got up happy,
because I had taken that critical first step in my meditation
project. And you know what? I was already looking forward to my
next 5 minute session, to see if I would be able to control my mind
a bit better.
Over the next few weeks, I traveled far and wide around the
internet, doing research about meditation, trying to shed some
light on this concept that is still so obscure to us Westerners.
But the more I learned about meditation and its benefits to the
human brain, the stronger my feeling grew that I had embarked on an
adventure unlike any other. An adventure inside my own mind.
Woah.
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And now, for those of you who arent familiar with meditation, Im
about to take you on a guided tour inside this amazing activity.
And if youre already a meditator, Ill be sharing a few
unconventional meditation tricks that could greatly enhance your
practice.
So take deep breath, smile, and get ready because this is gonna
be good. If the following information can enhance your life half as
much as it has mine, youre in for a ride.
(Thats me meditating at the Kalbarri Canyon in Western Australia
a few months ago)
What is Meditation?When we speak of meditation, it is important
for you to know that this is not some weird cryptic activity, as
our popular culture might have it. It does not involve becoming
some kind of zombie, vegetable, self-absorbed narcissist, navel
gazer, space cadet, cultist, devotee, mystic, or Eastern
philosopher.Meditation is simply about being yourself and knowing
something about who that is. It is about coming to realize that you
are on a path whether you like it or not, namely, the path that is
your life. Meditation may help us see that this path we call our
life has direction; that it is always unfolding, moment by moment;
and that what happens now, in this moment, influences what happens
next.~ Jon Kabat-Zinn inWherever You Go, There You AreWho better
than the master himself to start us off? :)
Kabat-Zinn makes it quite clear, but I want to make this real
clear: meditation is not some weird mystic activity, its an
effective, relaxing, and pleasant way to to tune in with
ourself.
When I meditate, I dont see crazy stuff, I dont communicate with
aliens, and I dont time-travel. No, I just chill out and meditate.
Thats it.
Meditation is the process of slowing down our mind, and
controlling our stream of thoughts. Its achieved mainly by
controlling our breath. Breathing, when we focus on it, acts as the
connection between our mind and our body. By taking slow, soft,
rhytmic breaths, we calm down both our body and our mind, and
before long, were meditating. We achieve a state of deep
relaxation.
Everything slows down, the outside world ceases to exist, and we
connect with whats going on inside us.
What happens when we meditate?As we do that, the brainwave
patterns in our brain begin to change. From a beta state
where our mind is busy even a beginner meditator can quickly go
into an alpha state which already feels quite nice.
Then, with some practice, we start calming our mind enough to
produce Theta brainwaves, which is when the real fun begins. This
state of relaxation is unlike anything a non-meditator has ever
experienced, and is also the source of a lot of insights.
Finally, the Zen Buddhist masters have been shown in EEGs to
produce Delta brainwaves, which is the same as normal people in
deep restorative sleep.
From our perspective, we just feel progressively more relaxed,
light, and eventually (in my case at least), I feel like Im
floating, like my body doesnt exist anymore. And in deep
meditation, I feel this glow in my head.
Why is it important to slow down our brainwave patterns?Well for
one, we live more busy/hectic/mentally draining lives than any
generation of humans before us. The amount of information our brain
processes, the constant stimulation its provided, puts a severe
drain on our cognitive abilities. Eventually, we become drained,
and thats when that urge to lay on the couch or to have another
coffee appears.
By venturing down into Alpha, Theta, and Delta states, we calm
down our brain, allowing it to refuel our neurochemical tanks.
Thats why after meditation we enjoy greater mental clarity, focus,
and serenity.
The Benefits of MeditationOver the course of the last ten years,
I have also participated in several research programs intended to
document the long-term effects of meditation practice on the brain
and on behavior. This research has shown that it is possible to
make significant progress in developing qualities such as
attention, emotional balance, altruism, and inner peace.Other
studies have also demonstrated the benefits of meditating for 20
minutes a day for a period of six to eight weeks. These benefits
include a decrease in anxiety, in vulnerability from pain, and in
the tendency toward depression and anger, as well as strengthening
the power of attention, boosting the immune system, and increasing
ones general well-being. Thus,no matter what point of view you
approach it fromwhether that of personal transformation, the
development of altruistic love, or physical healthmeditation
emerges as a factor essential for leading a balanced life, rich in
meaning.~ Matthieu Ricard in Why Meditate?Mathieu Ricard is an
interesting fellow. 37 years ago, he left a promising career as a
cellular geneticist in France, moved to the Himalayas, and decided
to become a Buddhist monk.
After about 30 years isolated in the mountains of Nepal, he came
back to the Western world to take part in some studies on the human
brain. Through extensive testing, it became obvious that all his
years of daily meditation had totally transformed his brain. He was
now capable of lighting the parts of his brain linked to kindness,
compassion, attention on demand, and to generate much more activity
in those regions than normal people.Thus began a series of studies
that now show without a doubt that meditation benefits us in many
ways. You can read a good overview of all the scientifically proven
benefits of meditation on this site.
In his great book Relaxation Revolution, Herbert Benson even
tells us that eliciting the relaxation response through any of a
wide variety of techniques will actually change the bodys gene
activity or expression. Im not sure I fully grasp the implications
of this, but it goes to show that meditation can really change us
on a very fundamental level: our genes expression.
At this point in time, were past the debate of whether this
stuff works or not. Its been proven time & time again,
meditation is legit. And beyond all the studies & research take
it from me. Im not here to sell you anything, just trying to share
a bit of wisdom with you.
The benefits Ive experienced from my 250+ consecutive days of
meditationThere are probably more, but on top of my head:
-I have a greater ability to focus when Im working, reading,
trying to learn a new skill, or having a conversation with
someone.
-I have a lot more good ideas popping out seemingly out of
nowhere.
-Im much more relaxed, and I very rarely get stressed
anymore.
-My mind feels a lot less cluttered, my thoughts more organised
and less chaotic.
-I have a greater ability for whole-brain thinking. This means I
can use both hemispheres of my brain simultaneously, looking at
things creatively & analytically at once. For a
naturally-analytical person like me, getting in touch with my
creative has been awesome and has really opened up a whole new
world of possibilities.-I stay much calmer and composed under
pressure.
-I have a much greater ability to put myself between a stimulus
and my response to it. This allows me to live my life a pro-active
way, instead of being reactive to all the stuff that happens around
me.
-Im more confident and willing to go for it in because I know
whatever life throws at me Ill be able handle it.
-I need less sleep to feel good. I now sleep about 6
hours/night, and take a 45 minute nap-itation (30 minutes of
meditation followed by a 15 minute nap) in the afternoon. I feel
more energised than I did sleeping 8-9 hours a night last year.
Can you imagine if there was a pill that offered all this? How
much would you be willing to pay for it?How much better would your
life be if you could feel more relaxed, be able to concentrate
better, have more good ideas, and feel more confident while needing
less sleep?
No pill does that yet. But doing meditation every day does.
Its free, its simple, you can do it anywhere, and theres no
reason not to try it.How to get started on your Meditation
PracticeFirst off, the posture: the most important thing is to be
comfortable. I meditate right after I wake up, so I just sit up,
put my pillow against the wall, and sit in a butterfly position.
Find aspot where you have space, where it feels right. When you
sit, try to sit with dignity. Not too upright and rigid, or too
slouched over. Just right.
Ok as far as the actual meditation process goes, there are 2
path you can embark on: the Traditional path, or the Technological
path (which I recommend).
The Traditional Path:1) Start with 5 minutes/day, ideally first
thing in the morning (its easier on an empty stomach).
2) Once youre sited comfortably, close your eyes and focus on
your breathing: taking small, soft, calm breathes.
4) With each exhale, relax your body & your mind a little
bit more.
3) When thoughts arise, dont worry about them. Let them pass
through.
5) Whenever your mind goes astray, simply come back to your
breathing.
This path is very much the path of the training the mind through
diligent, constant practice. It is certainly effective and has been
used for centuries, but its a relatively slow process. Sure, after
each meditation you will feel peaceful & relaxed, but it will
take at least a few monthsbut start feeling deep changes within
yourself.
The most important thing if you choose the Traditional Path is
to make meditation a part of your daily routine. The key is
consistence. If you do it long enough, meditation will become just
another thing you do, like sleeping, eating, and brushing your
teeth. When I wake up, I do 15 minutes of traditional meditation
and I
The Technological PathAlong the way, I discovered a technology
that totally supercharged my meditation practice. Its called the
Brain Evolution System. Its a soundtrack containing sound
frequencies that directly alter the brain wave our brain
produces.
Over a 30 minute period, the soundtrack takes us to aDelta
state, which had previously been reserved to Buddhist Monks. Now,
even the most novice meditator can just sit there, and achieve that
state, enjoy all of its benefits, without having to focus.
Listening to the soundtrack is all thats necessary. This is
fucking revolutionary, and believe me it works.
The Dalai Lama, who meditates about 4 hours a day, once said
that if there was a technology that provided the same benefits as
meditation without the time investment, he would be willing to try
it. I really wonder if hes heard about it? Maybe I should send him
a Tweet just in case
Heres the bottom line: Brain Evolution Systemis in my opinion
one of the best technologies available to us in 2011, and I cant
recommend it strongly enough. You can purchase it, or order a free
trialright here.
Theres no meditation pill yet, but Brain Evolution is as close
as it gets. Ive just been doing it for 30 minutes/day for the last
12 weeks and it rocks.
Its been wonderful, the meditation sessions are enjoyable and
truly restorative, and the changes Ive noticed within myself have
been nothing short of spectacular.Why YOU should start
meditatingThe ultimate reason for meditating is to transform
ourselves in order to be better able to transform the world. To put
it another way, we transform ourselves so that we can become better
human beings and serve others in a wiser and more effective way.
Meditation thus gives our life the noblest possible meaning.
-Mathieu Ricard
This might sound bold, but I honestly believe that its
impossible to live life to the fullest without meditating every
day. Knowing what you know now, you wouldnt be true to the best
version of yourself if you at least give meditation a shot.
When I watched that speech by Kabat-Zinn at the Google
Headquarters, theres one thing he said that really stuck with me:
If you were a concert violinist, you would never go on stage and
offer your performance without first tuning your instrument. In
life, your mind is your instrument. Why not tune it with meditation
before going out into the world and offering your performance?
As I wrote in my description of The Feel Good Lifestyle, its
based on the idea that each day should be treated like a gift,
because it has the potential to be extraordinary. And by making the
most of each day, we start living life to the fullest.
So take a leap, even if youve always thought meditation was
weird. Only fools never change their minds
Whether you decide to supercharge your meditation with Brain
Evolution, or to kick it old-school with traditional meditation, do
yourself a favour and just give it a try.If you stick with it, it
will open up a whole new part of your mind, ofyour life,and let you
tap into talents you dont even know you have. Promise
If you have any questions, or want to share your experience with
meditation, please leave a comment!
All the best in your meditation journey. Its gonna be a fun
trip.
Cheers!
Phil
The Art of Meditation / Stop Being a Zombie!
A person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about
except thoughts. So he loses touch with reality, and lives in a
world of illusion Alan WattsHave you ever driven your car or
bicycle and suddenly you wake up somewhere down the road and cant
remember how you got there? What happened in those few minutes?
When you put some effort into it, you probably remember some of the
thoughts you had. And when you are honest about it, it was probably
a fantasy. You either remembered the past, stuff you should have
done but didnt. Or you were fantasizing about the future, stuff
that might never happen. And when I say that most of our waking
life we spend in our private dream world, not really aware of what
is happening to us or within us, probably everyone who has not
tried meditation will disagree with me.
And so did I when I first started meditating. Now Im completely
convinced that its true. I now need my meditation more than I need
my coffee in the morning. Because with meditation, I finally start
to notice whats really important. Many books are written about it,
but its actually pretty simple. Now is really important. Why now?
Because there is no other moment. If you only think about future
goals all the time you wont even notice when you finally reached
them. Because in that future youre also thinking about the future
and thus, you will never get there. And you might start to believe
that the goal is the goal and not the journey itself. It seems to
me that dying is not the goal of life, but living is.
So before I continue, Id like everyone to experience this to
understand what Im talking about. Please join me in this little
experiment and close your eyes, sit up straight, relax (probably
your back and neck are tense) and try to be really aware of
everything that happens, inside and outside, for just two minutes.
Try not to get caught up by the storyteller inside your head that
always has a comment on literally everything, but just be aware of
the sensation of your breath, your computer humming, cars outside,
your heart beating and everything else that goes on of itself.
Did you do the two minutes? How was it? How many times did you
get caught up in another story?Theres a lotwritten on meditation,
and, to be honest; I do not have anything new or groundbreaking to
tell. However, I do feel that it could benefit so many people in so
many ways that it just has to be said over and over again.
What is Meditation?
Meditation is the act of training the mind. It works in the same
way you train your body. With your mind, habits will form and with
your body, muscles will form. One of the things you need for a
healthy body is exercise; the same goes for your mind. You need
good habits instead of bad habits. The more agitated your mind is,
the less clear your thoughts will be. We think the time when we are
awake should matter, and I agree, but in this age of information
almost all of us are philosophical zombies some of the time, not
really aware of what we are doing. Dr. Daniel J. Siegel, the
inventor of Mindsight, defines the mind as that which regulates the
flow of energy and information. With meditation, we increase the
control we have over this regulation and so the control over our
lives.
Why Meditate?
The Buddha said: dont blindly believe what others say, see for
yourself what brings serenity, clarity of thought and inner peace.
But some people, like me, need more to be convinced. Of course,
there is a rich culture that has been doing this for thousands of
years, and they all say the same and nowadays science is getting
more and more interested to find out if their claims are true. I
hope that meditation can form a bridge between western science and
eastern spirituality but the human brain is one of the most complex
phenomenons we have in this universe and I feel like we are just
scratching the tip of the iceberg. Numerous studies have shown that
meditation, because of neuroplasticity, literally changes your
brain. Neuroplasticity is the brains ability to reorganize itself
by forming new neural connections throughout your life. These new
connections that form with meditation seem to increase well-being
and improve the quality of your life. Scientists also found changes
in gray matter, the part of the brain that is associated with
memory, sense of self, empathy and stress. The Mindfulness-Based
Stress Reduction (MBSR) clinic uses meditation to reduce stress in
patients so that they recover faster. So far, the outcome is
positive, decreasing anxiety and depression.
I find it hard to explain what meditation has done to me. Its
like explaining colors to a blind man. I just wouldnt ever want to
miss it. In general, it taught me to get out of my head and into my
life. It is my primary tool to eliminate any destructive emotions I
encounter.
How to Meditate?
There are different forms of meditation and its beyond the scope
of this article to treat them all. I will explain Shamatha
(one-pointed concentration) and Vipassana (insight). You can do
these meditations walking, sitting or lying down. My favorite is
the traditional way of sitting on a cushion with your back
straight. Make sure you have a quiet environment where you are
undisturbed for the duration of your meditation and relax your
whole body as much as you can. You can do either of these two
meditations. In general the advice is to start with Shamatha
because without concentration your mind will wander so many times
that any other meditation will be less productive.
The Ultimate Beginners Guide To MeditationShamatha is the
meditation of one-pointed concentration. This means that you try to
keep a focus on one object. The number one recommended object is
the sensation of your breath because of a couple of reasons; you
can breath either consciously and unconsciously, you have your
breath always with you, it is a natural biofeedback system which
means that it gets more and more subtle the more you focus on it.
You first start to take three deep breath while really focusing how
the cold air comes into the nostrils, through your nose and throat
and into your lungs and belly. Then warm air comes the same way
back out again. Slowly start focusing on just the nostrils and
discover the subtle sensation you might never felt before. Accept
the fact that the mind has its own will and wanders every time you
lose focus a bit. Slowly bring your focus back to the nostril. When
you start with meditation, it might be easy to count from one to
ten every time you finished an out breath (or the in breath, doesnt
matter). This way it is easier to become more mindful (to notice
that you lost your focus on the sensation of your breath).
Sometimes you realize you are already at number 20! Another handy
thing is to label each thought as thought or this is a thought.
Keep in mind that there is no good or bad meditation so dont worry
if at first you dont get it. Just try to accept everything that
arises in your mind and body and keep bringing your focus back to
the sensation of your breath.
If you have achieved a stable level of concentration you can
move to Vipassana or insight meditation. The goal of this
meditation is to be aware of every single sensation that makes up
your reality. Dont reject anything but accept life as it is. Focus
on how all your sensations in your body change all the time. Not
one moment is the same, its exactly as the Greek philosopher
Heraclitus said it is impossible to step in the same river twice.
Keep your focus on the arising and passing away again.
Start with twice five minutes a day and once you feel youd like
to sit longer, slowly increase to ten minutes. Have fun, it might
be the most exciting and rewarding practice youve ever done!
Please ask in the forum if you have any questions regarding this
article. If you want to know something more about meditation I
would recommend Mindfulness in Plain English by Bhante Henepola
Gunaratana and How to Meditate: A Practical Guide by Kathleen
McDonald.
Cliffnotes: Sit still, concentrate like you would play a video
game, relax like you would be sleeping and notice that everything
changes all the time.
A Primer on Meditation
Editors Note: This is a guestcollaboration with my friend and
long-time meditator, Jason Marshall. Check out Jasons blog, Living
in the Nowwhere youll find practical info on self-development.When
you hear the word meditation, you may think of Buddhist monks or
Hindu swamis sitting with legs crossed and eyes closed, a New Age
pony-tail guy communing with nature in the woods, or wealthy folks
sitting in a meditation center in San Francisco.
You likely didnt think manly. And you may not think that
meditation has a place in your practical, workaday, red-blooded
American life.
But you might change your mind if you give meditation a try. Its
truly a practice that can be useful for any kind of man, whether
youre a granola-loving hippie, a straight-arrow lawyer, or a
rough-around-the-edges firefighter. Wherever you are in life,
meditation can help bring you closer to becoming the man you want
to be.
The Manly History of Meditation
Meditation has a long and storied manly history, and it has been
utilized by men from many different walks of life for thousands of
years. It has of course famously been a tool used by adherents of
many religions, from Buddhist monks to Jesuit priests. But
philosophers of all stripes have always seen its value as well; the
Stoics used meditation as a tool to develop their fortitude and
self-control, for example. And warrior classes across cultures used
meditation to instill in their soldiers a keen mind and a fearless
heart. The ancientSamurai are perhaps the most famous
warrior/meditator class. They meditated upon death daily so that
they could fight without fear.
Many of historys greatest thinkers also happened to be
meditators. For example, Charles Darwin and Immanuel Kant
unknowingly practiced what is called active mediation. They would
take a daily walk where they would ponder some idea theyd been
working on. Oftentimes it was during these walks that they had
their biggest insights.
Fast-forwardto today and youll find corporate leaders and star
athletes using meditation to reach their full potential. Executives
from companies such as Google, Target, and General Mills practice
meditation. Many people in high-stress (and often
testosterone-fueled) jobs such as stockbrokers and attorneys are
starting to pick up the practice in order to find peace and calm,
as well as regain focus.
Champion boxer Vijender Singh uses meditation as part of his
pre-fight training regimen. He explained, Mental conditioning is
very important as it keeps you focused during the bout. When you
have a large crowd watching you, the pressure starts building on
you, and its meditation that helps you at that time. I usually
invest 15 to 20 minutes on it every day and it has helped me a
lot.
Phil Jackson, one of the greatest basketball coaches of all
time, with 11 NBA titles to his name, is also a longtime meditator.
Jackson not only practices meditation in his personal life, he also
taught meditation techniques to his players to help them stay calm
and collected under pressure, as well as more focused during
games.
Even the U.S. Marine Corps is testing meditation as a way to
increase soldiers mental performance and clarity under high stress
conditions. Also, many groups and agencies are employing meditation
techniques to help soldiers with PTSD and other psychological
issues when they return home.
We could go on, but you get the picture. The takeaway here is
that meditation isnt just something for dudes who use crystal
deodorant instead of Speed Stick. Its a practice that is not only
compatible with manliness, but can be a vital tool in developing
it.
Why Meditate?
Everybody meditates for different reasons. It is a practice
often undertaken by those seeking to develop their spirituality or
trying to work through emotional problems. But even if those
reasons dont call to you personally, you can still benefit from
meditation for several reasons.
First, meditation serves as a defense between our fast-paced,
technological world and our psyches. Were surrounded by a multitude
of distractions from smart phones to 24-hour news channels. You
probably surfed through at least half a dozen different websites
before you started reading this article. The onslaught of input we
receive each day can do a number on us emotionally
andpsychologically. Meditation allows a man to take a much needed
mental rest from the hustle and bustle of modern life. It restores
our brains balance and our sense of overall calm and
well-being.
Second, and related to the point above, is that meditation can
help increase your attention span and focus. You exercise your body
at the gym, but what do you do for your brain? If you find it
difficult to concentrate on your work, your studies, or even your
interactions with other people, you need to meditate. Its a workout
for your brain and can give you the strength to focus better and
longer on your daily tasks.
Third, meditation can help a man be his own man and feel
comfortable in his own skin. That constant stream of input we face
each day often carries messages of what were supposed to think or
feel. Talking headsspout off opinions as if they were facts.
Advertisers try to convince us that buying such-and-such product
will make us feel more virile and manly. Meditation allows us to be
alone with our own thoughts and discover what we really think about
the world and ourselves.
Meditation is mental training that enables you to control your
own thoughts, instead of letting others control them. It creates a
deep inner discipline, which is incredibly manly.
If those arent enough reasons for you to start meditating,
scientists are learning that meditation can actually change your
brain and body in very positive ways, such as lowering your blood
pressure, strengthening your empathy, and boosting your memory.
Bottom line: Meditation can make you a healthier, smarter
man!
Getting Started With Meditation
Meditation is a fascinating subject, but it can be difficult to
explain or summarize because youre sure to offend someone, and
youre sure to run across someone who disagrees with you no matter
what you say (usually a self-styled expert). While I disclaim any
expertise, I have been a practitioner of various forms of
meditation for almost a decade, and I believe that a simple,
practical approach to meditation is essential for the modern
man.
Meditation isnt difficult; generally its gurus who can make it
sound needlessly arduous or dogmatic. To get the benefits of
meditation, all you need is a bit of time and the dedication to
stick with the practice. You can literally do it anywhere, without
any fancy supplies or gadgets. While meditation pillows, bells,
incense, etc. can be effective tools (I own them), theyre not
necessary. In fact, some of my most intense meditation experiences
have been spur-of-the-moment meditations in the woods, on my back
porch, or even during lunch in my office.
There are really five principle types of meditation, which go by
various names in the various spiritual traditions.
1. MindfulnessThe goal of mindfulness meditation is to relax and
calm your monkey mind. Whats the monkey mind? Its the constant and
restless shifting of thoughts that goes on in your head all day.
Mindfulness meditation seeks to quiet the thoughts clamoring for
your attention and to direct your attention to one thought or sound
that serves as your anchor. Your anchor could be the sound of water
flowing, therepetitionof a word, or even your own breath.
This is normally done in 15-30 minute sets. Its a wonderful tool
for relaxation, or to act as a primer for spiritual work or another
form of meditation.When thoughts come into your mind (and I promise
they will) simply try to dismiss them. You may find that a single
and pressing thought keeps reoccurring. If thats the case, take the
time to ponder why that thought is so important right now. Ask
things like Why is it important? How does it affect me? How can I
effectively deal with it?
Of course, if your reoccurring thought is something trivial like
a funny YouTube video you saw earlier that morning, dismiss it and
and try to get back to focusing on your anchor.
One useful mindfulness meditation technique is the Buddhist
breath meditation, vipassanna. In vipassanna you simply observe
your breath or use a breath set to anchor your thoughts. For a
breath set, inhale and count (1, 2, 3, etc.), and once you reach
your set, exhale and count (1, 2, 3, etc.). Repeat.
Simply observe the sensation of the breath entering your
nose/mouth, entering and filling your lungs, and then being
released through your nose/mouth. As thoughts come into your mind,
try to dismiss them and get back to focusing and observing your
breath.
2. Active MeditationThis type of meditation involves physical
activity to allow your body and mind to get into sync, which allows
you to experience peace, calm, and clarity. Many people
practice/experience this without even knowing it. Ever feel in the
zone while playing a sport? Perhaps youve heard of people losing
themselves in the beat while dancing. Or maybe youve experienced
the runners high. All these are examples of people taking part in
active meditation in some degree or another.
This type of meditation can be as simple as going for a walk,
practicing yoga (which is not just for chicks its a heck of a
workout if done properly), dancing, or simply working out. Just as
in mindfulness meditation, the key is to clear your mind and use
the workout or physical movement as an anchor to clear your mind of
mental garbage. Simply focus on the movement of your body, and the
activity immediately in front of you. And if thoughts keep popping
up, dismiss or explore them based on their importance. You can also
repeat a mantra or positive affirmation in the activity to provide
another anchor or stimulation.
3. Mantra/AffirmationThis type of meditation involves repeating
a phrase or word repeatedly. The phrase acts as an anchor to clear
your mind. The Transcendental Meditation (TM) movement has made
mantra/affirmation meditation a popular form of meditation. In TM,
adherents repeat a mantra (word or saying) over and over again.
This is what many people think of when they think of meditation. A
bunch of people sitting around on pillows chanting Aum! Aum! Aum!
or something similar. Basically the vibrations of the word or
phrase are supposed to act as an anchor, as well as a stimulant to
allow for a clear mind and spiritual progression to take place.
One of my favorite things to do is to repeat the Lords Prayer
one word at a time. Start with our and say our in your mind. Try to
visualize it in your minds eye and just focus on our for 10-15
seconds (dont worry about being exact because that defeats the
purpose). Then clear your mind and either mentally or audibly
repeat Aum! deeply and slowly three or four times, then move onto
Father. Continue through the prayer until you get to the end.
You can also repeat a positive affirmation or phrase (Tony
Robbins style) such as: I am great, I am a good person, I am a
strong person, etc.. Or meditate on any particularly motivational
or inspirational quote that will force you to focus on positive
aspects and dismiss negative aspects.
What you use as your mantra or affirmation is completely up to
you. Just use what works for you and what youre comfortable
with.
4. InsightInsight meditation is designed to explore and focus on
one thought or feeling. Before starting an insight meditation, its
important to have a very calm mind. It might be useful to begin
with a breath (mindfulness) meditation to quiet your monkey mind.
Once you feel calm and relaxed, youre ready to move into your
insight meditation.
Pick a topic. Any topic. It could be love or anger or justice or
even death. Once you have your topic, allow your mind to just run.
Dont try to control what thoughts come to you. For example, if you
pick love, you may think about your family, wife, child, romance,
Mother Theresa, your grandpa, an old couple holding hands, etc.
Just let these thoughts pass. Dont judge them or try to self-edit
them. Just explore what love is and what it means to you.
Sometimes it is helpful to think of a negative topic like hate
and let your mind run. You might be surprised by what pops up in
your mind, but dont judge. Just let your mind do its thing.
Sometimes its helpful to explore why you associate the images
popping up into your head with the word hate, and then try to
release that negativity.
If you are going to do an insight meditation with a negative
topic, its important to end your session focusing on something
positive. You dont want to leave your meditation on a sour note.
Plus, ending on the positive may give you a better picture of how
you really feel about a topic. You may discover that a thought you
associated with a negative topic ends up returning as a positive
association.
Insight meditation is extremely useful in clearing your mental
garbage. It forces you to explore and make connections you may have
longforgottenabout, but that are still affecting you on a
subconscious level.
5. GuidedThese meditations are guided by someone (in person or
via audio) who takes you through a certain scenario, or even an
archetypal dream-type world. You can create your own guided
meditation by developing a plan for your meditation. Where will you
go? What people will you talk to? How will you react to challenges
along the way?
Guided meditations allow your imagination to run wild and to
really explore mental associations in a very active way. Think of
guided meditation as watching an amazing movie where youre the
writer, director, and star.
For example, in your guided meditation you can imagine visiting
your younger self to work though issues, have a conversation with a
deceased loved one to finish some unsettled business, or even ask
advice from some great man that you admire.The possibilities are
limited only by your imagination.
We could write a whole series of articles on meditation, but
hopefully this one provided you with enough information to pique
your interest and get you started on meditating today.
Have any meditation tips? Whats your preferred way of
meditating? Share your thoughts with us in the comments.Your
Concentration Training Program: 11 Exercises That Will Strengthen
Your Attention
In this series on mastering your attention, we have emphasized
the fact that attention is not just the ability to focus on a
single task without being distracted, but in fact is comprised of
several different elements that must be effectively managed.
But this doesnt mean that single-minded focus is not of
paramount importance. Yesterday we compared managing your different
kinds of attention to being the supreme commander of your mind you
must be able to deftly maneuver and deploy your units to various
battles. But good management can only get you so far; to win the
war on distraction, the absolute strength of your voluntary
attention your focus foot soldiers greatly matters.
Research has shown that individuals who can sustain their
attention for long periods of time perform better on all sorts of
cognitive challenges than those who cannot. A man with a
scatter-shot attention span will only be able to experience one
plane of existence; he can skim across the surface of the worlds
vast knowledge and wisdom, but is unable to dive deeper and
discover the treasures below. The man with an iron-clad focus can
do both; he is the boat captain and the pearl diver and the world
is truly his oyster.
If you have a goal to learn and understand as much about the
world as you possibly can before you die, strengthening your power
of concentration is not an option, its a necessity.
Think of Your Mind as a Muscle
Last time we used the analogy of being supreme commander of your
mind to explain attention management; when it comes to attention
strengthening, wed encourage you to think of your mind as a muscle.
The parallels between strengthening your body and strengthening
your mind are in fact so close that its really not so much an
analogy as a description of reality.
Your physical muscles and your attention muscles both have a
limited amount of strength at any given time, their stamina and
power can either atrophy from inactivity or strengthen from
vigorous, purposeful exercise, and they require rest and recovery
after theyve been intensely exerted.
You get the same feeling of internal dread/doubt right before
you begin an intense workout the one that says Im not sure I want
to do this as you do right before you decide whether or not youre
going to read a long article, and in both cases you have to set
your mind, bite down, and get going with it.
Just as you can hit a wall in a tough workout where you think
you cant do one more rep, in the middle of reading a long article
your mind will want to quit and surf to another tab. In both cases,
if you tell yourself to dig deeper, youll be surprised how much
more strength and focus you actually have left in the tank.
And while everyones looking for cool new secrets for how to
build both their body and mind shortcuts and hacks heretofore
undiscovered the truth is that strengthening our physical and
mental muscles comes down to plain, good old fashioned, highly
unsexy work. Gaining strength in either area is ultimately about
eating right, getting ample sleep, and engaging in challenging
daily exercise.
So put on your lifting belt and chalk up your cranium. Were
going to hit the mental gym and turn your focus into a beast.
Below, youll find your brains workout plan.
Your Concentration Training Program: 11 Exercises That Will
Strengthen Your Attention
Youll never get big muscles from sitting on the couch all day,
and youll never develop amazing powers of concentration from
exclusively reading Buzzfeed and watching Tosh.O. Your mind
muscles, just like your physical muscles, need resistance; they
need challenges that stretch their limits and in so doing, grow
their focus fibers. Below we outline exercises that will beef up
your focus so that you can start lifting heavier and heavier
cognitive loads.
1. Increase the strength of your focus gradually. If you decide
you want to physically get in shape, but are starting at ground
zero, the worst thing you can do is to throw yourself into an
extreme training program youll end up injured, discouraged, or
both, and youll quit before you even really get started.
Likewise, if your attention span is currently quite flabby, its
best to slowly build up the weight you ask it to lift. In this
series weve mentioned trying the Pomodoro Method in which you work
for, say, 45 minutes straight and then allow yourself a 15-minute
break. But for many of us, 45 minutes might as well be a mind
marathon!
So start out with a pretty easy goal and work your way up from
there. Set a timer for 5 minutes and focus completely on your
work/reading for that time period. Then take a 2-minute break
before going at it again for another 5 minutes. Each day, add
another 5 minutes to your focused work time, along with an
additional 2 minutes to your break time. In 9 days, you should be
able to work for 45 minutes straight before you allow yourself an
18-minute break. Once you get comfortable with that set-up, you can
work to lengthen your focus sessions a little, while shortening
your break times.
2. Create a distraction to-do list. Because the internet has
made any bit of information instantly accessible, we tend to want
to look something up the moment it crosses our mind. I wonder what
the weather will be like tomorrow? What year did that movie come
out? I wonder whats new in my Facebook feed? Consequently, well
toggle away from what were working on the instant these questions
or thoughts pop into our minds. Problem is, once we get distracted,
it takes on average 25(!) minutes to return to our original task.
Plus, shifting our attention back and forth drains its
strength.
So to stay on task, whenever something you want to check out
pops into your head, just write it down on a piece of paper next to
you (or perhaps in Evernote for you tech types), and promise
yourself youll be able to look it up once your focusing session is
over and your break time has arrived.
3. Build your willpower. Voluntary attention and willpower are
intimately entwined. Our willpower allows us to deliberately ignore
distractions while staying focused on the task at hand. It would
serve your attention span well to review our in-depth article on
strengthening your willpower.4. Meditate. Not only does meditation
help keep you cool, calm, and collected, research has also shown
again and again that mindfulness meditation can boost your
attention span significantly.
In one study, 140 volunteers took part in an eight-week course
in meditation training. After the eight weeks, all the volunteers
showed measurable improvements in attention span, as well as other
executive mental functions.
You dont have to spend your days meditating in a monastery to
take advantage of its attention-boosting power. Research has shown
that just 10 to 20 minutes of meditation a day will do the trick.
Whats more, youll even see improvements in your attention after
just four days.
So if you want the power to focus on your studies for hours at a
time, start your mornings off just focusing on your breath for a
few minutes.
5. Practice mindfulness throughout the day. In addition to
dedicating 10 to 20 minutes a day to mindfulness meditation,
attention experts recommend finding opportunities to practice
mindfulness throughout your day. Mindfulness is simply focusing
completely on what youre doing, slowing down, and observing all of
the physical and emotional sensations you are experiencing in that
moment.
You can practice mindfulness when you eat as you take time to
really chew your food and concentrate on its flavors and texture.
You can practice mindfulness when you shave; as you smell your
shaving cream, note the pleasure of applying a warm lather to your
face, and slowly drag the razor across your stubble.
Incorporating short sessions of mindfulness throughout your day
will strengthen and expand your attention span for the times when
you really need it.
Mindfulness can also help you push back against distractions as
they arise. If youre working on a task and feel that restless itch
to go do something else, think to yourself, Be here now. In that
moment, bring your awareness to your body and your breath. After a
few seconds of focusing on your breath, youll notice that the
distraction is no longer present and that youre ready to get back
to work.
6. Exercise (your body). Not only can you compare exercising
your mind to exercising your body, doing the latter actually
directly benefits the former. Researchershave found that students
who engaged in moderate physical exercise before taking a test that
measured attention spans performed better than students who didnt
exercise. The researchers found that exercise primarily helps our
brains ability to ignore distractions, although they arent exactly
sure why. I would venture to say that the discipline it takes to
push through the pain of a workout strengthens the same supply of
willpower that we use to ignore the itch of distractions in order
to keep working/focusing.
7. Memorize stuff. Weve talked about memorization on the site
before. Besides being a cool bar trick and providing you a fount of
poems to recite at the drop of a hat, memorizing stuff is an
excellent way to exercise your mind muscles. Make it a goal to
memorize a poem or a verse of scripture each week.
What About Attention Training Games?Brain training games have
received a lot of press in recent years. Youve probably seen
commercials for Lumosity or Brain Age on Nintendo DS. The games
creators claim that spending just a few minutes a day playing can
improve your attention, memory, and mental agility. However, the
research on the veracity of these claims is divided.
Some studies indicate that brain training games can help improve
attention in children with ADHD or in the elderly, but that they
dont benefit young, healthy adults.
Other studies show that while certain brain training games can
boost attention levels, those gains dont crossover to other areas
of life. In other words, brain training games can help people pay
better attention and do better at brain training games, but they
wont help people pay better attention in class or while
studying.
A recent study showed a certain type of brain training game
called n-back can improve working memory (an important aspect of
attention) and that improvement can crossover to other cognitive
challenges.
So what does this all mean? The verdict is still out on whether
these brain games will definitively increase attention spans and
further research needs to be done. It wont hurt to try them out as
part of your attention training program, but include the other
suggestions outlined here as well.
8. Read long stuff slowly. Fight the TL;DR culture. With the
rise of tablets, e-readers, and smartphones, some studies indicate
that reading of e-content in general has gone up nearly 40%. This
is a good thing, right? Youd think so, except that Slate recently
did some research with the help of website analytics company
Chartbeart that determined that only a paltry 5% of readers who
start an article online will actually finish it. Whats more, 38% of
readers never scroll beyond the first few paragraphs. So to say
that reading in general has gone up would be misleading. What were
actually doing is more scrolling, and less engaging.
At the same time, were reading less books; a recent study showed
that 25% of Americans didnt read a single book last year.
This is truly a shame. While long definitely does not
automatically equal better, there are certain complex ideas that
are impossible to condense into short list posts and require an
entire book (or several books) to flesh out. To skip something
simply because it is long is to miss out on a whole world of
knowledge available only to those willing to dive deeper. Theres
definitely a place for skimming online, and learning a little about
a lot. But you should also make room for plunging into a few
subjects whole hog.
If you havent read a book in awhile, I challenge you to pick one
up tonight. Really try to dig into it. L
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Besides books, make an effort to read one or two long articles a
week. Longform journalism, as its called, is experiencing a
renaissance of sorts, and the amount of quality, in-depth content
available is at an all-time high. A few of my favorite sources of
longform articles:
Longreads.com Longform.org Arts and Letters Daily
The Economist
The New Yorker
The Art of Manliness (Always strives to publish comprehensive
posts that are as useful as possible. Also, I hear its founder has
a glorious mustache.)
9. Stay curious. The more curious you are about the world, the
greater the stamina of your concentration will be when it comes to
any endeavor. William James suggests a simple experiment to test
how staying curious about the object of your attention can prolong
your ability to stay focused on it:
Try to attend steadfastly to a dot on the paper or on the wall.
You presently find that one or the other of two things has
happened: either your field of vision has become blurred, so that
you now see nothing distinct at all, or else you have involuntarily
ceased to look at the dot in question, and are looking at something
else. But, if you ask yourself successive questions about the
dot,how big it is, how far, of what shape, what shade of color,
etc.; in other words, if you turn it over, if you think of it in
various ways, and along with various kinds of associates,you can
keep your mind on it for a comparatively long time. This is what
the genius does, in whose hands a given topic coruscates and
grows.
Charles Darwin was a master of this concept. His contemporaries
marveled at his ability to spend an entire day just staring at
animals and plants. Darwins secret was his unflagging curiosity he
could discover more and more about a single object by homing in on
various details, examining it in different ways, asking new
questions. Bit by bit he would peel back its layers.
10. Practice attentive listening. Focus isnt just useful for
intellectual endeavors. Its also an essential interpersonal skill.
The ability to be fully present with a loved one or friend builds
your rapport, intimacy, and trust and with them. At the same time,
making an effort to focus all your energy on someone else
strengthens your concentration muscles overall. Its win-win. So
next time youre talking with your main squeeze, put away your phone
and listen as attentively as possible.11. Perform concentration
exercises. The above exercises not only boost your focus, but offer
other benefits as well. Every once in a while, however, its good to
do some exercises that are aimed purely at boosting your
concentration. Here are twelve to try.
Series Conclusion
Modernity has given us a lot of comforts and conveniences, but
it has also unleashed a torrent of stimuli competing for our
attention. To live a truly flourishing life amidst this cacophony
of distractions, mastering your attention is key. At the end of
your life, who youve become, what youve learned and accomplished,
and whos there at the end with you will be the sum total of what
you chose to pay attention to each year, day, and hour of your
life. Will a series of cat videos flash before your eyes? Or will
you look back on the deep conversations you had with your family
and friends, the books that changed your life, and the little
details you discovered in all the places you visited?
We hope our series on attention has gotten you to think about
this increasingly precious commodity in a new light, as well as
inspired you to take steps to improve it. Youll be amazed how much
your life can improve just by paying attention to your
attention.
Become the Supreme Commander of Your Mind: How to Effectively
Manage Your Attention
In our last post we provided a big picture overview of what
attention is and how it works. We explored the fact that while many
people only think of attention in terms of the ability to focus on
a single task, there are in fact several different types, each with
their distinctive benefits and drawbacks.
Attention mastery, then, is actually all about attention
management. Attention is a precious resource. We only have so much.
To get the most out of life we must learn to utilize and allocate
our attention effectively.
Thus mastering your powers of concentration requires becoming
the supreme commander of your minds armed forces budgeting your
resources, knowing your divisions strengths and weaknesses, placing
a particular unit at the battlefront at certain times, and moving
it to the rear for rest at others.
Are you ready to win the war on distraction? Heres your battle
plan.
Your Focus is Your Reality: How to Manage the Big
PictureAttention is more than just focusing on completing a task.
We use our attention to shape and frame lifes big picture as well.
You can tell what a man truly values by observing what he pays
attention to the most. And as countless spiritual teachers have
warned, what a man pays attention to ends up molding his soul and
character.
Your focus truly is your reality. For that reason, attention
mastery must begin at the most macro level, with directing your
attention away from that which distracts from your lifes purpose
and towards whats really important. As supreme commander of your
mind, you need to know why youre fighting this war and have an
overarching plan for how youre going to attain victory. Heres how
you draw up a strategy and stick with it:
Make sure your principles and goals are crystal-clear. When a
man lacks guiding principles, his attention mindlessly pivots to
whatever the world tells him is important, and typically what the
world tells him is important is corrosive to a truly flourishing
life. Knowing your core values and having a blueprint for your
goals creates focusing lenses that help direct your attention to
what matters most, while cropping out the superfluous and
distracting.
Use the Eisenhower Decision Matrix to get your priorities in
line. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, and unfortunately,
seemingly urgent tasks make the most noisy grabs for our attention,
even though they may not actually be important. Assigning your
tasks to the different quadrants of the Eisenhower Decision Matrix
can help you concentrate on what really needs to get done, instead
of using up your attention in putting out little fires.
Plan out your day and week. While we typically think of planning
as time management, at its core, planning is attention management.
Every time you sit down to plan out your day youre essentially
deciding what youre going to pay attention to that day. Without
planning, you end up spending your attention on whatever unforeseen
distractions pop up and make a play for it.
Conduct an audit to see how you currently spend your time. Even
if you say you know whats important to you, do you really put your
money where your mouth is? Paying attention takes time figure out
how you spend the latter, and youll know how youre directing the
former.
Generously embed moral reminders into your life. Moral reminders
are things like posters or personal manifestos that contain or
symbolize your values and goals. Whenever you see these prompts,
your drifting attention will be brought to heel.
How to Manage Your Voluntary and Involuntary AttentionOur
involuntary attention is unconsciously activated by stimuli in our
environment it comes online when we hear a dog bark or see an email
land in our inbox.
Voluntary attention is consciously controlled we use it when we
deliberately try to ignore these competing stimuli in order to
concentrate on a single task.
Distractions are like guerilla warriors that attack your
voluntary attention units on the way to the battlefront, weakening
the troops and diverting resources before they can be put to work
where theyre really needed. The trick then, is learning to protect
your voluntary attention so its at full strength and ready to
fight, as well as giving these troops ample rest once theyve seen
combat, so they can be returned to the frontlines ready for
action.
Know your attentions circadian rhythms. Attention like its
closely related brother, willpower ebbs and flows throughout the
day in ways that are unique to each individual. I tend to have a
more focused, sustained attention level at the beginning of the
day. Thats why I try to do my narrow-focused attention work (like
writing) first thing in the morning.
As the day progresses, my ability for narrow-focused attention
wanes so I shift my attention to tasks that require a more open
focus like research, podcasting, brainstorming ideas, or answering
email.
Everyones attentional circadian rhythm is different. Find yours
and plan your day around it.
Take attention breaks. Your voluntary attention is much like a
muscle. It needs breaks every now and then after a sustained focus
session. How often should you take an attention break? Well, thats
hard to say. Several lifehack and productivity blogs say that its
best to work in 45-minute focused sessions and then take a
15-minute break, but I wasnt able to find any research that backs
up those specific numbers. Experiment and see what works for
you.
Get out into nature for an attention reset. Sometimes just
taking a break to goof off on the internet or chat by the water
cooler isnt enough to completely refresh our attention. Instead, we
need to get in touch with our inner wild man by getting out into
nature.
In a 2008 study, participants were divided into two groups and
both performed a 35-minute task that fatigued their focus. The two
groups then went for a 50-minute walk one group in a park, another
in a busy city. When they returned, the participants had the
strength of their voluntary attention tested. The group who took a
walk in the park performed much better than the group who took a
walk in an urban environment.
The city-walkers involuntary attention was bombarded by stimuli
(honking cars, billboards, people talking), and this in turn taxed
their voluntary attention, which had to decide which of the stimuli
to pay attention to and which to ignore. The involuntary attention
of those who took a stroll in the woods, on the other hand,
encountered only very mild stimulation (Oh look, a squirrel.), and
this gave their voluntary attention a real rest, so that it was
ready for another round of cognitive challenges back at the
lab.
Mildly activating your involuntary attention with soothing
stimuli while giving your voluntary attention a breather allows us
to enter a state of soft fascination that truly feels great. I find
it interesting that giving your voluntary attention a little
something to feed on works better for refreshing your mind than,
say, just sitting in a completely empty and quiet room. I think you
can compare it to the idea of taking an active rest day after a
hard workout thats left you sore; lying on the couch all day to
recover leaves you tight, while doing a little light activity like
walking or swimming actually loosens you up.
Remove distractions. Unlike the mild stimulation of nature,
noises in our everyday life television, smartphone pings, crying
babies make a more violent grab at our involuntary attention; if
youre passing a flashing billboard along the road, youre much more
likely to instinctively turn to look at it than you are a stately
oak.
Working to ignore these plays for your involuntary attention in
order to focus on the task at hand fatigues your voluntary
attention, leaving you feeling scatter-brained, frazzled, and
distracted.
Instead of forcing your voluntary attention to battle an
onslaught of distracting invaders, beat them back with minimal
effort by building a fort around your involuntary attention. Remove
distractions from your environment: work in a quiet setting, dont
leave the TV on in the background, and turn off your smartphone
notifications. If the limitless possibilities of the internet are
ever attempting to scale your attentions walls, dump pots of hot
oil on them by implementing the distraction-destroying tips in this
post.What About Background Music and White Noise?If the mild
stimulation of nature can be beneficial to our attention, but many
everyday distractions can be detrimental to it, what about forms of
stimulation that fall somewhere in-between, like background
music?
Many folks (myself included) use background music while they
work to help them focus. But the research is split on whether it
actually helps your attention span or hinders it.
Researchers in Taiwan found that when we listen to music while
working, the music drains our attention. In the study, volunteers
who performed a reading comprehension test in complete silence
scored better than those listening to background music. The
researchers concluded that the music listeners performed worse
because they had to ignore the music to focus on the test. The
researchers suggest that working in silence is best for focus, but
that if youre going to listen to music anyway, choose something
thats not intense or distracting like hip-hop or rock music.
Other research suggests that listening to certain kinds of music
can prime the brain for sustained focus and that complete silence
can actually be distracting. What kind of music boosts your
attention? Lyric-free and soothing music that plays at 60 beats per
minute seems to be the sweet spot. The web app company focus@will
has developed an ambient music and sound app that uses this
research to create playlists that supposedly put you in an
attentive state. Ive used focus@will a few times and think it helps
about the same as listening to classical music.
To find out what works best for you, experiment with working in
complete silence or while listening to something with a calm
vibe.
As far as simple white noise goes, research suggests that when
used in a moderately noisy environment like a coffee shop or
student union building, it can help boost your concentration. If
youre working in a quiet environment, it wont have an effect; ditto
for using white noise in a really loud environment.
Quit multitasking. Related to removing distractions is to stop
multi-tasking. When you multi-task, youre not actually doing
several things at the same time. Youre just shifting your voluntary
attention back and forth between different tasks. And every time
you toggle your attention, you use up a tiny bit of your voluntary
attentions finite fuel. If you spend your mornings juggling your
attention between your Twitter feed, RSS feeds, email, and the work
youre actually supposed to be doing, dont be surprised if your
brain feels frazzled and you dont have enough attention juice to
plough through an assignment in the afternoon.
Take a nap. One of the myriad of wonders and benefits of the nap
is its ability to refresh our voluntary attention by giving our
working memory a break.
Take technology fasts to reset your attention. Fast from your
technology by taking a complete break from it for a day or more. No
computer, smartphone, or television. I wasnt able to find
scientific studies to back this idea up, but it certainly makes
intuitive sense, and Ive personally had success with trying it.
After a day or two without checking my computer or cell phone, I
just feel more focused. I usually combine my tech fasts with
getting out into nature, for a double dose of attention
refreshment.
How to Manage Your Mind WanderingSometimes your voluntary and
involuntary attentional modes need some R&R, and the cognitive
equivalent of the USO is a good old-fashioned mind wandering
session.
While mind wandering (or daydreaming) can boost creativity and
help us untangle unresolved problems, it can also distract us at
inopportune times and lead us to ruminate on negative thoughts and
emotions. Thus while daydreaming may seem the ultimate in creative
spontaneity, to maximize its benefits and minimize its drawbacks,
its best to actively manage your mind wandering sessions:
Intentionally set a time to let your mind wander. Instead of
limiting your daydreaming to those few abbreviated pockets between
when your mind unintentionally drifts away from the task at hand
and when you yank it back to work, find times throughout your day
where you deliberately give your brain permission to wander at
will. Some great thinkers and leaders have made it a habit to block
out chunks in their day where they dont do anything except let
their mind freely ramble.
Besides blocking off specific time in your schedule for mind
wandering, give your brain permission to wander when youre doing
low-cognition activities like cleaning, whittling, or showering. A
bit of habitual stimulation really seems to free the mind up to
receive inspiration. If you find yourself stuck on a problem,
instead of sitting there trying to force the solution from your
cranium, take a break and the answer may very well come to you in
the shower.
Decide what kind of mind wandering session you want to have.
When we daydream, our mind has a tendency to drift towards negative
thoughts and emotions. It does this in order to direct our
attention to unresolved problems in our lives. This can be
beneficial, so its good to intentionally set aside times when you
give yourself permission to be a worrywart. Make a list of
everything that youre worried about. Next to each worry, write down
a next step something tangible you can do, however small, to begin
resolving that issue. If theres truly nothing you can do about
something for the time being, make a conscious note of that and
imagine tabling the issue for another session.
Sometimes though, we dont want our cognitive rambles to drift
over to the dark side and be such a downer. Instead, were hoping
our daydreams can generate a bit of inspiration or creativity. In
that case, actively focus on positive thoughts as your mind
wanders. If it starts to drift towards more negative things, nudge
it back on course. It may help to keep a mental drawer of positive
subject file folders you can leaf through fond childhood memories,
things you love about your girlfriend, the last vacation you took,
and so on.
How to Manage Your Narrow and Broad Focus AttentionAs we
discussed in our previous post, our voluntary attention comes in
two flavors: broad and narrow. Broad focus attention is great for
getting your bearings, understanding the big picture, and
comprehending complex systems and relationships. Narrow focus
attention allows us to be efficient, productive, and
meticulous.
To be effective supreme commanders of the mind, we need to know
when to use one and when to use the other; sometimes you want to be
holed up in your war room, poring over plans and maps, and
sometimes you need to go out to the frontlines to see exactly what
is going on on the ground.
Knowing when to use a broad or narrow focus attention is more
art than science its something you have to learn from experience;
however, theres actually a science to how you shift into those
different attentional foci. Below we provide a few
researched-backed tips:
Narrow Your FocusUse lists, outlines, and categories. When we
categorize, use lists, or create outlines, our attention narrows in
order to pinpoint any missing information. If youre working on a
task in which getting details right is vital, write out all the
steps or even use a checklist.
Focus on a goal. The fact that having a clear goal can narrow
ones focus is perfectly displayed in the Invisible Gorilla
Experiment. When the experiments participants were told to watch a
video and given a goal to count how many times a basketball was
passed around, they became so narrowly focused on the ball that
they failed to see a man dressed in a gorilla suit stroll casually
among the players and dance in the middle of the court.
While a goal is an effective attention narrower, theres a risk
of suffering tunnel vision and missing out on more rewarding
opportunities. Always employ your practical wisdom.Take it slow.
When you think, read, or observe your surroundings slowly, your
attention narrows. Youll spend more time homing in on and examining
the objects in your environment that catch your involuntary
attention and use your voluntary attention to ponder and analyze
single words and sentences within a large piece of literature.
Broaden Your FocusStay optimistic. Research has shown that
positive emotions give us a more open attention. When were
optimistic, were relaxed and thus more likely to see new
connections and opportunities. This is one reason why its so
important that leaders remain upbeat; a sense of realistic optimism
is essential in crafting and maintaining a strategic big-picture
vision.
Focus on others. Another way to broaden your attention is to
shift your focus from yourself and onto others. Studies show that
being other directed or thinking in terms of we and not me opens up
attention. The best way to make that shift is to simply help
another person with a problem. You can also try doing some
compassionate meditation.
Scan. When we quickly scan our environment (or even a book), our
attention widens in order to take in as much information as
possible, which in turn allows us to get a quick and dirty overview
of the situation or text.
Gather contrary evidence. Once we decide that someone has an
inherent flaw and we label them with it theyre stupid, crazy,
useless, selfish, immature, bitchy, evil, lazy, etc. a narrow focus
tends to set in. You experience the Velcro/Teflon effect: you
notice everything the person does that confirms your conclusion,
but overlook any conflicting evidence.
If you find yourself only being able to see a loved one through
the lens of a negative label, it can help to actively look for
things they do that run contrary to it, and even write those things
down. While lists can narrow your focus in some cases, they can
also be used to produce a broader, more balanced picture in others.
Think for example of keeping a gratitude journal; if you find
yourself narrowly attuned to whats wrong with your life, making a
list of the good things can greatly broaden your perspective.
ConclusionIf you want to win the war on distraction and build an
empire of personal progress, you need to be a wise supreme
commander that knows how to best utilize his units. Sometimes you
want to send one type of your attention to the frontlines, and
sometimes you want to send another to the rear for rest. By deftly
maneuvering your resources and effectively deploying your troops,
you can make the most of your invaluable attention.
Of course the pure strength of your fighting force matters
greatly too. Single-minded focus may be only one element of your
attention, but its still vital one. But since this article has been
so long and meaty, and your voluntary attention is now all tuckered
out, its time to let it get a hot meal and a shower. For
instructions on how to strengthen your powers of concentration,
return to the briefing room tomorrow at 1900 hours.
12 Concentration Exercises from 1918
Does your mind flit from one thing to another? Do you have
trouble focusing on something for more than a few minutes? Do you
consequently have a bunch of half-finished projects lying around
the house, and a dozen half-baked ideas still knocking around in
your cranium, and thus a pile of regrets about where youre at with
those things and in your life? If so, what should you do?Now if you
went to the gym and tried to lift weights only to find your arms
and legs were weak and flabby, youd start a program of weekly
exercises to strengthen your muscles. Well, your mind is a kind of
muscle too! And just like the muscles in your body, your brain
needs weekly exercise to tone up the strength of its focus and
concentration. Whats a good workout for your noodle? Well, I
discovered some interesting concentration exercises in a great old
book from 1918: The Power of Concentration by Theron Q. Dumont, and
have shared some excerpts from the book below, along with some
great illustrations from Mr. Ted Slampyak. While some of the
exercises are a little goofy and you may look like a crazy person
staring at an outstretched glass of water, youll have the last
laugh as your concentration power increases to Professor X levels.
Use this guide to beef up your brain, or as inspiration to invent
your own concentration exercises. Now put your finger on the side
of your nose and lets get started.Concentration Exercises from
1918The rays of the sun, when focused upon an object by means of a
sun glass, produce a heat many times greater than the scattered
rays of the same source of light and heat. This is true of
attention. Scatter it and you get but ordinary results. But center
it upon one thing and you secure much better results. When you
focus your attention upon an object, your every action, voluntary
and involuntary, is in the direction of attaining that object. If
you will focus your energies upon a thing to the exclusion of
everything else, you generate the force that can bring you what you
want.
When you focus your thought, you increase its strength. The
exercises that follow are tedious and monotonous, but useful. If
you will persist in them you will find they are very valuable, as
they increase your powers of concentration.
It will be necessary to first train the body to obey the
commands of the mind. I want you to gain control of your muscular
movements. The following exercise is especially good in assisting
you to acquire perfect control of the muscles.
Exercise 1: Sitting Still in a ChairSit in a comfortable chair
and see how still you can keep. This is not as easy as it seems.
You will have to center your attention on sitting still. Watch and
see that you are not making any involuntary muscular movements. By
a little practice you will find you are able to sit still without a
movement of the muscles for fifteen minutes. At first I advise
sitting in a relaxed position for five minutes. After you are able
to keep perfectly still, increase the time to ten minutes and then
to fifteen. This is as long as it is necessary. But never strain
yourself to keep still. You must be relaxed completely. You will
find this habit of relaxing is very good.
Exercise 2: Fix Gaze on FingersSit in a chair with your head up
and your chin out, shoulders back. Raise your right arm until it is
on the level with your shoulder, pointing to your right. Look
around, with head only, and fix your gaze on your fingers, and keep
the arm perfectly still for one minute. Do the same exercise with
your left arm. When you are able to keep the arm perfectly steady,
increase the time until you are able to do this five minutes with
each arm. Turn the palm of the hand downward when it is
outstretched, as this is the easiest position. If you will keep
your eyes fixed on the tips of the fingers you will be able to tell
if you are keeping your arm perfectly still.
Exercise 3: Fix Eyes on Outstretched Glass
Fill a small glass full of water, and grasp it by the fingers;
put the arm directly in front of you. Now fix the eyes upon the
glass and try to keep the arm so steady that no movement will be
noticeable. Do this first for one moment and then increase it to
five. Do the exercise with first one arm and then the other.
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The purpose of the above exercises is to gain control over the
involuntary muscular movement, making your actions entirely
voluntary. The following exercise [is designed] to bring your
voluntary muscles under the control of the will, so that your
mental forces may control your muscular movements._____
Exercise 4: Concentrate on Opening and Closing FistsMove your
chair up to a table, placing your hands upon it, clenching the
fists, keeping the back of the hand on the table, the thumb doubled
over the fingers. Now fix your gaze upon the fist for a while, then
gradually extend the thumb, keeping your whole attention fixed upon
the act, just as if it was a matter of great importance. Then
gradually extend your first finger, then your second and so on
until you open the rest. Then reverse the process, closing first
the last one opened and then the rest, and finally you will have
the fist again in the original position with the thumb closed over
the finger. Do this exercise with the left hand. Keep up this
exercise first with one hand and then the other until you have done
it five times with each hand. In a few days you can increase it to
ten times.
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The chances are that the above exercises will at first make you
tired, but it is important for you to practice these monotonous
exercises so you can train your attention. It also gives you
control over your muscular movement. The attention, of course, must
be kept closely on each movement of the hand; if it is not, you of
course lose the value of the exercise.
You may think these exercises very simple and of no value, but I
promise you in a short time you will notice that you have a much
better control over your muscular movements, carriage and demeanor,
and you will find that you have greatly improved your power of
attention, and can center your thoughts on what you do, which of
course will be very valuable.
No matter what you may be doing, imagine that it is your chief
object in life. Imagine you are not interested in anything else in
the world but what you are doing. Do not let your attention get
away from the work you are at. Your attention will no doubt be
rebellious, but control it and do not let it control you. When once
you conquer the rebellious attention you have achieved a greater
victory than you can realize at the time. Many times afterwards you
will be thankful you have learned to concentrate your closest
attention upon the object at hand.Let no day go by without
practicing concentrating on some familiar object that is
uninteresting. Never choose an interesting object, as it requires
less attention. The less interesting it is the better exercise will
it be. After a little practice you will find you can center your
attention on uninteresting subjects at will. The person that can
concentrate can gain full control over his body and mind and be the
master of his inclinations; not their slave. When you can control
yourself you can control others. You can develop a Will that will
make you a giant compared with the man that lacks Will Power. Try
out your Will Power in different ways until you have it under such
control that just as soon as you decide to do a thing you go ahead
and do it. Never be satisfied with the I did fairly well spirit,
but put forward your best efforts. Be satisfied with nothing else.
When you have gained this you are the man you were intended to
be._____
Exercise 5: Concentration Increases the Sense of Smell
When you take a walk, or drive in the country, or pass a flower
garden, concentrate on the odor of flowers and plants. See how many
different kinds you can detect. Then choose one particular kind and
try to sense only this. You will find that this strongly
intensifies the sense of smell. This differentiation requires,
however, a peculiarly attentive attitude. When sense of smell is
being developed, you should not only shut out from the mind every
thought but that of odor, but you should also shut out cognizance
of every odor save that upon which your mind, for the time, is
concentrated. You can find plenty of opportunity for exercises for
developing the sense of smell. When you are out in the air, be on
the alert for the different odors. You will find the air laden with
all kinds, but let your concentration upon the one selected be such
that a scent of its fragrance in after years will vividly recall
the circumstances of this exercise.
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The object of these exercises is to develop concentrated
attention, and you will find that you can, through their practice,
control your mind and direct your thoughts just the same as you can
your arm._____
Exercise 6: Concentration on the WithinLie down and thoroughly
relax your muscles. Concentrate on the beating of your heart. Do
not pay any attention to anything else. Think how this great organ
is pumping the blood to every part of the body; try to actually
picture the blood leaving the great reservoir and going in one
stream right down to the toes. Picture another going down the arms
to the tips of the fingers. After a little practice you can
actually feel the blood passing through your system.
Exercise 7: Concentrating on SleepWhat is known as the water
method is, although very simple, very effective in inducing sleep.
Put a full glass of clear water on a table in your sleeping room.
Sit in a chair beside the table and gaze into the glass of water
and think how calm it is. Then picture yourself getting into just
as calm a state. In a short time you will find the nerves becoming
quiet and you will be able to go to sleep. Sometimes it is good to
picture yourself becoming drowsy to induce sleep, and, again, the
most persistent insomnia has been overcome by one thinking of
himself as some inanimate objectfor instance, a hollow log in the
depths of the cool, quiet forest.
Those who are troubled with insomnia will find these sleep
exercises that quiet the nerves very effective. Just keep the idea
in your mind that there is no difficulty in going to sleep; banish
all fear of insomnia. Practice these exercises and you will
sleep.
Exercise 8: Practice Talking Before a Glass
Make two marks on your mirror on a level with your eyes, and
think of them as two human eyes looking into yours. Your eyes will
probably blink a little at first. Do not move your head, but stand
erect. Concentrate all your thoughts on keeping your head perfectly
still. Do not let another thought come into your mind. Then, still
keeping the head, eyes and body still, think that you look like a
reliable man or woman should; like a person that anyone would have
confidence in
While standing before the mirror practice deep breathing. See
that there is plenty of fresh air in the room, and that you are
literally feasting on it. You will find that, as it permeates every
cell, your timidity will disappear. It has been replaced by a sense
of peace and power.
The one that stands up like a man and has control over the
muscles of his face and eyes always commands attention. In his
conversation, he can better impress those with whom he comes in
contact. He acquires a feeling of calmness and strength that causes
opposition to melt away before it.
Three minutes a day is long enough for the practice of this
exercise.
Exercise 9: The Eastern Way of Concentrating
Sit in a chair with a high back in an upright position. Press
one finger against the right nostril. Now take a long, deep breath,
drawing the breath in gently as you count to ten; then expel the
breath through the right nostril as you count to ten. Repeat this
exercise with the opposite nostril. This exercise should be done at
least twenty times at each sitting.
Exercise 10: Controlling DesiresDesire, which is one of the
hardest forces to control, will furnish you with excellent
exercises in concentration. It seems natural to want to tell others
what you know; but, by learning to control these desires, you can
wonderfully strengthen your powers of concentration. Remember, you
have all you can do to attend to your own business. Do not waste
your time in thinking of others or in gossiping about them.
If, from your own observation, you learn something about another
person that is detrimental, keep it to yourself. Your opinion may
afterwards turn out to be wrong anyway, but whether right or wrong,
you have strengthened your will by controlling your desire to
communicate your views.
If you hear good news resist the desire to tell it to the first
person you meet and you will be benefited thereby. It will require
the concentration of all your powers of resistance to prohibit the
desire to tell. After you feel that you have complete control over
your desires you can then tell your news. But you must be able to
suppress the desire to communicate the news until you are fully
ready to tell it. Persons that do not possess this power of control
over desires are apt to tell things that they should not, thereby
often involving both themselves and others in needless trouble.
If you are in the habit of getting excited when you hear
unpleasant news, just control yourself and receive it without any
exclamation of surprise. Say to yourself, Nothing is going to cause
me to lose my self-control. You will find from experience that this
self-control will be worth much to you in business. You will be
looked upon as a cool-headed business man, and this in time becomes
a valuable business asset. Of course, circumstances alter cases. At
times it is necessary to become enthused. But be ever on the
lookout for opportunities for the practice of self-control. He that
ruleth his spirit is greater than he that ruleth a city.
Exercise 11: When You ReadNo one can think without first
concentrating his thoughts on the subject in hand. Every man and
woman should train himself to think clearly. An excellent exercise
is to read some short story and then write just an abridged
statement. Read an article in a newspaper, and see in how few words
you can express it. Reading an article to get only the essentials
requires the closest concentration. If you are unable to write out
what you read, you will know you are weak in concentration. Instead
of writing it out you can express it orally if you wish. Go to your
room and deliver it as if you were talking to some one. You will
find exercises like this of the greatest value in developing
concentration and learning to think.
After you have practiced a number of these simple exercises read
a book for twenty minutes and then write down what you have read.
The chances are that at first you will not remember very many
details, but with a little practice you will be able to write a
very good account of what you have read. The closer the
concentration the more accurate the account will be.
It is a good idea when time is limited to read only a short
sentence and then try to write it down word fo