Introduction to Counselling Kevin Standish
Introduction to CounsellingKevin Standish
Learning ObjectivesUnderstand the development of existential
therapyTo define the core concepts of existential
psychotherapyOutline its relevance today
Youtube: Pink Floyd Timehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6uaWydVf7E
Pink Floyd - TimeTicking away the moments that make up the dull day You fritter and waste the hours in an off hand wayKicking around on a piece of ground in your home
townWaiting for someone or something to show you the
wayTired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch
the rainYou are young and life is long and there is time to kill
todayAnd then one day you find that ten years have got
behind you… No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun
Time, part IIAnd you run and run to catch up with the sun, but it's sinking…
And racing around to come up behind you againThe sun is the same in a relative way, but you're olderShorter of breath and one day closer to deathEvery year is getting shorter, never seem to find the timePlans that either come to naught or a half page of scribbled linesHanging on in a quiet desperation is the English wayThe time is gone the song is over, thought I'd something more to
sayHome, home again I like to be here when I can When I come home cold and tired It's good to warm my bones beside the fire Far away across the field The tolling of the iron bell Calls the faithful to their knees To hear the softly spoken magic spells
HistoryExistential thinking has occurred throughout
history.Exemplified by Augustine, Pascal, Kierkegaard,
Nietzsche.Fundamental questions leading to the
development of existential psychotherapy included:Where was the actual immediate person to whom these
things were happening?Are we seeing clients as they really are, or are we simply
seeing a projection of our theories about them?
HistoryIn 1958 existential psychotherapy introduced to
the US with publication of Existence: A New Dimension in Psychiatry and Psychology by Rollo May, Ernest Angel, and Henri Ellenberger
In 1981 Yalom published the first comprehensive textbook in existential psychiatry entitled Existential Psychotherapy
HistoryOther Important WritingsRollo May’s The Meaning of Anxiety (1977); Man’s
Search for Himself (1953); Existential Psychology (1961)
James Bugental’s The Search for Existential Identity (1976)
Victor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning (1963)
IntroductionExistential psychotherapy is not a specific
technique or set of techniques. It is more
philosophical in nature
Existential psychotherapy is a philosophy about human nature
Proponents of existential psychotherapy have not advocated specific training institutes
because its presupposition can underlie any form of therapy
IntroductionIn existential terms, the conflicts individuals
experience are regarding the givens of existence
From the existential perspective "deep" conflict means the most fundamental concern at that moment
Important InfluencesVictor Frankl
Prisoner, Nazi Concentration Camps-1942-45-lost entire family; Spiritual freedom & independenceof mind can be had in the worst situations;Essence lies in searching for meaning & purpose
Rollo May American psychiatrist; many books on existential therapy, integrated psychoanalysis and existential therapy - He had two failed marriages- wrote extensively regarding questions of intimacy, monogamy, morals of relationships, studied with Adler
Irvin Yalom: Therapy through Meaning, therapeutic love themes of existential work
Viktor Frankl
Viktor Frankl's approach to existential theory is known as logotherapy.
Rollo May
Rollo May has been instrumental in translating some concepts drawn from existential philosophy and applying them to psychotherapy.
Irvin Yalom
According to Yalom, the concerns that make up the core of existential psychodynamics are
death. freedom. isolation. meaninglessness. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73wVVNrDI4I&feature=related
Basic ConceptsExistential psychotherapy is more
philosophical in nature
Existential psychotherapy is not a specific technique
Focuses on issues central to human existence
Basic ConceptsExistential therapy is basically an
experiential approach to therapy It is based on a personal relationship
between client and therapist.
It stresses personal freedom in deciding one's fate.
It places primary value on self-awareness.
View of Human Nature
The basic dimensions of the human condition are …1. The capacity for self-awareness2. The tension between freedom &
responsibility3. The creation of an identity &
establishing meaningful relationships4. The search for meaning, purpose,
and values of life5. Accepting anxiety as a condition of
living6. The awareness of death and
nonbeing
1. The Capacity for Self-Awareness We can reflect and make choices because we are
capable of self-awareness. Expanding our awareness in realizing that:
We are finite - time is limited We have the potential, the choice, to act or not to act Meaning is not automatic - we must seek it We are subject to loneliness, meaninglessness,
emptiness, guilt, and isolation
2. Freedom and Responsibility
The central issue in therapy is freedom and responsibility.
A concept ultimately associated with freedom is assuming responsibility
The existential concept of freedom refers to the fact that we are the authors of our own world
The bridge between wishing and action is decision
Freedom and Responsibility We are free to choose among alternatives We are responsible for our lives, for our action,
and for our failure to take action. Blaming others for their problems---
Recognize how they allowed others to decide for them and the price they pay
Encourage them to consider the alternative options
We Cannot Escape
Freedom and Responsibility
Existential therapy is rooted in the premise that humans cannot escape from freedom and responsibility.
Freedom and Responsibility involves the notion that …
our freedom requires us to accept
responsibility for directing our own life.
we are free to choose who we will be. they go hand in hand.
QuestionWhat are the possible reasons
that people tend to blame others for their problems?
The Concept of “Bad Faith”
The concept of "bad faith" refers to leading an inauthentic existence.
An Example of Bad Faith
A example statement that illustrates "bad faith" is - naturally I'm this way, because I grew up in an alcoholic family.
Striving for Identity Identity is “the courage to be”
We must trust ourselves to search within and find our own answers
Our great fear is that we will discover that there is no core, no self
Struggling with our identity: Challenging clients---in what ways that they have lost
touch with their identity and letting others to design their life.
Relationship to others
Aloneness We are alone---So, we must give a sense of
meaning to life, decide how we will live, have a relationship with ourselves, and learn to listen to ourselves.
Relatedness We need to create a close relationship with others Challenging clients----What they get from the
relationship? How they avoid close relationship?
Relatedness can be Therapeutic
Existentialists contend that the experience of relatedness to other human beings can be therapeutic.
Question What is the meaning or purpose of your life?
What do you want from life? Where is the source of meaning for you in life?
The Search for Meaning Meaninglessness in life leads to emptiness and
hollowness (existential vacuum)
Existentialists believe that the major solution to
meaninglessness is engagement
Finding meaning in life is a by-product of engagement, which is a commitment to creating, loving, working, and building.
5. Accepting Anxiety as a Condition of Living
Anxiety – A Condition of Living Existential therapists define anxiety as a
threat to our existence Anxiety arises from one’s strivings to
survive. If anxiety is proportionate to the situation
confronted, existentialists would consider it normal anxiety
In contrast to normal anxiety, neurotic anxiety is repressed unconscious impulses
AnxietyExistential anxiety is normal
an outcome of being confronted with the four givens of existence: death, freedom, existential isolation, and meaninglessness.
Anxiety can be a stimulus for growth as we become aware of and accept our freedom
Normal Anxiety
According to May, freedom and anxiety are two sides of the same coin.
Existential anxiety is seen as a function of our acceptance of our aloneness.
From the existential viewpoint, the aim of therapy is NOT to eliminate anxiety so clients can live comfortably.
Existential Model of AnxietyAwareness of Ultimate Concern
Anxiety
Defenses
Existential Model of AnxietyAnxiety is more basic than fear.Anxiety arises from our personal need to
survive, to preserve our being, and to assert our being.
Normal anxiety is proportionate to the situation. It does not require repression and can be used for creativity.
Neurotic anxiety exceeds or minimizes the situation, is repressed and destructive.(Normal anxiety is seen as proportionate to the
situation involved. When the anxiety exceeds the situation present, it is considered neurotic.)
6.The Awareness of Death and Nonbeing
Death
According to the existential viewpoint, death gives significance to living.
QuestionIf you had only have 30 days
left, what would you feel? What will you do?
Awareness of Death Death provides the motivation for us to
live our lives fully and take advantage of each opportunity to do something meaningful.
Ontology of BeingThe Basic “I-Am” Experience
The "I-Am" experience is about being i.e., the realization of one’s being
The term ontological means science of being (or the nature of being)
Existentialists consider the "I am" experience as a precondition for a solution in life and feel that this is an ontological experience
“I am now living and I could take my life” “The idea of suicide has saved my life
many times.” Nietzsche
Six Ontological Principles1. Humans are centered in self and derive meaning
from that center.2. Humans are responsible for mobilizing the courage
to protect, affirm, and enhance the self.3. People need other people with whom they can
empathize and learn.4. People are vigilant about potential dangers to self.5. Humans can be aware of themselves thinking and
feeling at one moment and may be aware of themselves as the person who thinks and feels in the next moment.
6. Anxiety originates out of awareness that one’s being can end.
OntologyExistential psychotherapy seeks a deeper and
more discerning type of therapyThe “I am” experience is not a solution in itself it
is a precondition for a solutionAn ontological experience;
Ontis = “to be” and Logical = “the science of”Nonbeing is illustrated in the experience of fear
of death, destructive hostility, severe anxiety and critical illness
The Three Forms of Being-in-the-World1. Umwelt – world around, biological world2. Mitwelt – with world, world of one’s fellow
human beings3. Eigenwelt – own world; relationship to one’s
self
Human Capacity to Transcend the Immediate SituationTranscend means “to climb over and beyond”Existing involves a continual emerging
When an individual can move past a situation in order to move towards their future, it is said that the person has transcended the immediate situation
Existential PsychotherapyA form of dynamic psychotherapyHolds a different view of inner
conflictConflict is between the individual and the
“givens” of existence termed ultimate concernsDeath.Freedom.Isolation.Meaninglessness.
Existential PsychotherapyDeath.The most obvious ultimate concern.“A terrible truth”.Conflict between awareness of death and
desire to live.To cope we erect defenses against death
awareness.Psychopathology in part is due to failure to
deal with the inevitability of death.
Existential PsychotherapyFreedomRefers to the fact that humans are the authors of
their own worldWe are responsible for our own choicesConflict is between groundlessness and desire for
ground/structureImplications for therapy
ResponsibilityWilling ImpulsivityCompulsivityDecision
Existential PsychotherapyIsolation – The fact that we are isolated from parts of
ourselves is termed intrapersonal isolation Intrapersonal isolation = Fact we are isolated
from parts of ourselvesA form of isolation that refers to the fact that each
of us enters and departs the world alone is existential
Existential isolation differs from Interpersonal isolation = Divide between self and othersIntrapersonal isolation = Fact we are isolated from
parts of ourselves
Existential PsychotherapyMeaninglessnessMeaning creates hierarchal order of our values
From a schema regarding the meaning of life an individual generates a hierarchy of values
Tells us how to live not why to liveConflict stems from “How does a being who
requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?”
Existential PsychotherapyExistential Frame of ReferenceSpecialness
Despite rationality we often believe the laws of biology are not applicable to us
Ultimate RescuerBelief in a personal omnipotent servant to guard
and protect us(To cope with ultimate concerns regarding death
individuals will often use the defense mechanism of creating an ultimate rescuer)
Existential PsychotherapyExistentialists hypothesize that anxiety is the result
of awareness of ultimate concerns.Ultimate concerns create experiences, which
force us to confront an existential situation called boundary situations.
An experience which forces an individual to confront an existential issue is known as a boundary situation. Examples might be diagnosis of a terminal illness or
death of a family member or friend.Psychotherapy can address existential isolation.Jung suggested 30% of patients seek treatment
because of personal meaninglessness.
Therapeutic Goals To expand self-awareness. To increase potential choices. To help the client accept the responsibility for their
choice. To help the client experience authentic existence.
Therapist’s Function and Role Understand the client’s subjective world. Encourage clients to accept personal responsibility. When clients blame others, therapist is likely to ask
them how they contributed to their situation.
A Prime Factor in Determining the Outcomes of Therapy
The existential approach puts emphasis on the therapist as a person and the quality of the client/therapist relationship as one of the prime factors in determining the outcomes of therapy.
Client’s Experience in Therapy They are challenged to take responsibility. Major themes in therapy sessions are anxiety,
freedom and responsibility, isolation, death, and the search for meaning.
Assist client in facing life with courage, hope, and a willingness to find meaning in life.
Philosophically, the existentialist would agree that:
the final decisions and choices rest with the client. people redefine themselves by their choices. a person can go beyond early conditioning. making choices can create anxiety.
Relationship Between Therapist and Client
Therapy is a journey taken by therapist and client. The person-to-person relationship is key. The relationship demands that therapists be in
contact with their own world. The core of the therapeutic relationship.
Respect and faith in the clients’ potential to cope and discover alternative ways of being.
Therapists share their reactions to clients with genuine concern and empathy as one way of deepening the therapeutic relationship.
Therapeutic techniques and procedures
It is not technique-oriented. The interventions are based on philosophical
views about the nature of human existence. Free for draw techniques from other
orientations The use of therapist self is the core of therapy.
Subjective understanding of
clients is primary
In the existential approach subjective understanding of clients is primary and techniques are secondary.
The term unfolding refers to the therapist's attempt to uncover with the patient what was there all along.
Questions Which populations is existential therapy particularly
useful?
Which issues is existential therapy particularly useful?
Application of Existential Psychotherapy.
Existential therapy is especially appropriate for clients who are struggling with:
Developmental crises.Identity in adolescents.Coping with disappointments in family and careerGrief counseling. Coping with physical limitations as one ages.Low self confidenceFeelings of inadequacyStress / tensionSocial anxiety
From a multicultural perspective Contributions
Applicable to diverse clients to search for meaning for life
Be able to examine the behavior is influenced by social and cultural factors.
Help clients to weigh the alternatives and consequences.
Change external environment and recognize how they contribute
From a multicultural perspective Limitations
Excessively individualistic. Ignore social factors that cause human problems. Even if clients change internally, they see little hope
the external realities of racism or discrimination will change
For many cultures, it is not possible to talk about self and self-determination apart from the context of the social network.
Many clients expect a structured and problem-oriented approach instead of discussion of philosophical questions.
Pros
Something to offer all counselors, Stresses self-determination, Accepting the personal responsibility, Provides perspective for understanding the value
of anxiety and guilt, the role of death, and the creative aspects of being alone
and choosing for oneself.
and ConsCONS: Lacks a systematic statement of principles and
practices; writers use vague and global terms or abstract concepts; little research, limited applications for lower-functioning clients, clients in extreme crisis who need direction, those who are nonverbal.
http://www.existentialanalysis.org.uk/
short film of a cat with "existential despair." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0M7ibPk37_U
Readings1. McLeod J. (2009) An Introduction to
Counselling. Chap 102. Corey, G. (2009) Theory and Practice of
Counseling and Psychotherapy.Chap 63. Colledge, R (2002) Mastering Counselling
Theory chap 10 & 114.Dryden, W ( 2007) Dryden’s Handbook of
Individual therapy. Chap 8Advanced readingJacobsen (2003) Is Gift-Giving the Core of
Existential Therapy?Dryden (2007) chap 8Yalom (2003) the gift of therapyYalom (1980) existential psychotherapyCooper, M (2003) Existential Therapies. (in
dawson books)
Advanced reading
Jacobsen (2003) Is Gift-Giving the Core of Existential Therapy?
Dryden (2007) chap 8Yalom (2003) the gift of therapyYalom (1980) existential psychotherapyCooper, M (2003) Existential Therapies. (in
dawson books)