An enlightening Study
An enlightening Study
MarriagesClassical Classification
• Arsha
• Brahma
• Daiva
• Prajapatya
• Gandharva
• Asura
• Rakshasa
• Paishacha
MarriagesNeo Classical Classification
Arranged Marriages Love Marriages
EBM(Emotion Based
Marriage)
DBM(Dowry Based
Marriage)
SBM(Service Based
Marriage)
CBM(Cadre
Based Marriage)
Ordinary Marriages Extra Ordinary Marriages
Marriages Modern Classification
Definitions & MottoEBM
Inter-sentimental relationshipDBM
Inter-status RelationshipLove is blind, marriage is
the eye-openerIf your father is poor,
that’s your destiny; but if your father-in-law is poor,
that’s your stupidity
SBMInter-disciplinary relationship
CBMInter-state relationship
Work hard to make the marriage a success; relax in the office
Love thy neighbor, especially if he or she differs in cadre & sex
Propositions & Dispositions
• EBM– He proposes, she disposes
• DBM– his father-in-law proposes, her father-in-law
disposes• CBM
– LBSNAA proposes, DoPT disposes
HistoryFirst Emotion Based Marriage
• Love evolved during trek
• 80% of the girls tried to catch him
• But he opted only for 8 of them
• Ended up with 1,80,000 wives, and an equal number of mothers-in-law
Radha Krishna
• He ran a divine PDS for the world without government subsidy
• The huge overhead cost of this project made him bankrupt
• He then married a rich girl, whose father was a merchant navy man
HistoryFirst Dowry Based Marriage
Laxmi Narayan
• He married when he was still unemployed and trying to get a job
• At first attempt he failed to get administrtion and He then joined the Forest Service
• Took his wife to his place of posting
• As soon as he got an administrative position, he abandoned her
HistoryFirst Service Based Marriage
Sita Ram
HistoryFirst Cadre Based Marriage
• He married Parvati and got into Himalayan cadre, (Uttarakhand or Himachal Pradesh)
• Her father was an ex ruler of this region
• His first wife committed suicide at her father’s home under suspicious circumstances
Shiva Parvati
CBM
Intake of civil servants
years
Num
ber
of c
andi
date
s
19701980
19902000
2010
Note:-Though the gender ratio among AIS is increasing rapidly, CBMs are going down. On such rate we apprehend that
the CBM will be extinct by 2020
Need of ResearchDecreasing proportion of CBMs
Life of a Probationer at LBSNAA
Many probationers disappear in the above triangle.
Unless a probationer escapes out of this, he cant have CBM
The Highway of CBM
CPM of CBM
CourseStarts
Course Ends
PT
Trek Horse Riding
AthleteMeet
ClassRoom
SyndicateGroup
SeminarGroup
CulturalEvents
India Day Fete
CBM
MalRoad
GangaDhaba
FourSeasons
CounselorGroup
Note:- As per Critical Path Method path 1 and 4 are totally misleading, only path 3 is sure &
shortest
Path:-1
Path:-4
Path:-2
Path:-3
Wait. . .
Transactional Analysis
As per analysis most of conversations prior to CBM are either Cross or ulterior, none is parallel…
Preference Pyramid of
EBM & DBM
Look
Qualities
Emotions
Look
Qualities
Money
Preference Pyramid of
CBM
Cadre
Cadre
Cadre
Pie chart of factors involved in CBM
Service&
Cadre Worries
IndiaTour
SyndicateGroup
India day
CulturalEvents
VillageVisit
TrekFete
Role of different players
• Stakeholders– OT himself/herself
• Facilitators– Faculty
• Negotiators– Colleagues
• Counselors– Senior CBM experts
• Observers– Family members
Cross sectional analysis
• Tried, failed and disappointed
• Tried, got and disappointed
• Tried even before FC
• Tried too late
• Tried in a focused direction
• Tried in Multi directions
SWOT Analysis of CBMStrength Weakness
Value addition in service Value reduction in dowry
Opportunity Threat
Net cash flow is positive You may not get a good cadre (or get only a good cadre)
Value Generated
ValuePaidAgain
ValuePaid
Value Generated
NPV vs Cash( benefit) flow analysis of Normal marriage
Time
Value
Value Paid continuously
NPV and benefit flow analysis of CBM
Time
Value Value Generated
Cadre Change(Break Even Point)
Opinions
Its like a dew drop…- A Successful OT
Opinions
Its like comic imagination… - His Friends
Opinions
Its like an illusion…- An Unsuccessful OT
Opinions
It is more arm twisting than hand holding
- FACULTY
Opinion
Its like the Civil Services Exam; you try again and again…
- An Interested unsuccessful Ex-OT
Opinions
Its like bubble… -One who married successfully, but failed to get a good cadre
Opinions
Marriage is a 3-RING circus
Engagement Ring,
Wedding Ring
&
Suffering
Its like vicious cycle… - LBSNAA Staff who see these CBMs every year
Risk Enumerations• Opportunity Cost is too high
• Private Sector is emerging as a better alternative
• Optional System introduced in AIS • Chances of undesired cadre are lesser
• Redundancy factor• By the time you adjust to family life,
you are disappointed with that cadre• Contingency factor
• Murphy's Law- if a thing can go wrong, it will certainly go wrong.
Risk Analysis• Sensitivity Analysis
– Works only with single partner; no variables allowed• Be it Cadre or partner
– Does not co-relate variables• In one way table analysis, it can run well, but cant
start• In two way table analysis, it can start well, but cant
run
• Scenario Analysis• Base Case Scenario- good• Best Case Scenario- better• Worst Case Scenario- best
• Simulation Analysis– NPV becomes more than zero after 1000000 simulations– Monte Carlo method is not as attractive as its branded
garments
Best
Normal
Worst
Overall Analysis
• Standard Deviation is average• variance is normal• Range width is less than other
alternatives• Best on Mean, Median, Mode
methods• Probability of negative NPV is zero
Common end of Love Marriages
what happens in Love marriages, which are mostly based on face Value ?
Comparative Analysis
Comparative Analysisand what happens in Conventional marriages, which are mostly based on Pocket Value ?
Common beginning of Traditional Marriages
Conclusions
• All charges against CBM are unsubstantiated
• Criticisms are based on insufficient data• Most of alleged evils are evils of marriage
itself, not that of CBM alone• Even this researcher is also not exempted
from it, as he is still feel deprived
Marriages are made in heaven, but performed on earth Just like thunder and lightning
Recommendations
There should be proper time and space analysis system
Recommendations
Academy should provide an extra portal for CBMAnd give a link from its official website
Recommendations
There should be GPS to zero in andPNR system to know waiting Statuswith Digital Hit counters to know visits
Recommendations
Academy should request the DM, DehraDun to open a Marriage Registration Section at LBSNAA for CBM
Recommendations
A separate post of Deputy Director ( Rituals) should be created for CBMs
Recommendations
Academy should publish a ‘who’s who’ at the beginning of the training course, and a ‘who’s after who’ after some time
who’s whowho’s after who
Recommendations
Gym should be clubbed with Dance Floor
Recommendations
OT lounge should have special CBM lockers
Recommendations
Prospective OT bridegrooms should be trained in horse riding To prepare for CBM Baaraat
Recommendations
• For sign languages — • Amitabh Bachchan (Black)
• For communication and understanding gap —
• Aamir Khan (Taare Zameen Par)
• For ambience discomforts — • Shahrukh Khan (Mohabbatein)
Faculty should be Outsourced . . .
Recommendations
Every day there should be extra sessions for the Maritally Challenged OTs
Recommendations
There should be proper Cardiac Care Unit and Trauma Center for the unsuccessful OTs
In Conclusion…
Before Marriage After Marriage
Man:- Collector sir, aap bahar jitne sher dikhte hain, kya ghar me bhi vaise bane rahte hain?
Collector:- Rahta to ghar me bhi sher hi hu, bas us par Durga sawar ho jati hain !
A K. K. Pathak Committee
PresentationSpecial Thanks
ToR.S.Gopalan
A presentation of Temporary Affairs Society