10/7/12 Crabb | Larry Crabb’s Theory of Biblical Counseling 1/14 learntheology.com/crabb-biblical-counseling.html Home Biblical Theology Is Hell Literal? Prophecy Survival Counseling The Dake Bible Cults Islam Larry Crabb’s Theory of Biblical Counseling Dr. Larry Crabb has a unique approach to counseling. His system of counseling, called Biblical counseling, will be explained in great detail. Dr. Crabb’s first book, Basic Principles of Biblical Counseling, was published in 1975. The basic parts and theories of his system, along many changes in theology and emphasis’ will be also explained in detail. Crabb (1975) believes that ". . . the most basic problem of every human being is his separation from God, a gulf made necessary by the fact that God is holy and we are not" (p. 17). Crabb, like most other Christian counselors, claims that his system is biblically based. T he f ou nda ti on of Crabb’s cou ns el i ng sty l e i s th e Bible. God has revealed truth to us in two ways, general and special revelation. Crabb ( 1987) believes that,". . . many Christian counselors have adopted a method ofstudy that treats the bible as helpful, informative, and insightful- but neither autho ritative nor sufficient" (p. 37). The bible is to be allowed the final word. The questions that are answered by the Bible are authoritative. Dr. Crabb divides problems into two categories, the first category are those resulting from natural or physical causes. This would include such things as a chemical imbalance, and learning disabilities brought on by common, perceptual disfunctions. The second category is composed mostly of problem that are essentially moral. Crabb believes the Bible is sufficient for providing a framework, that is able to direct the counselor in dealing with every problem. The Bible speaks meaningfully to every area of life. "The Bible teaches principles that can comprehensively guide our efforts to counselor with warmth and insight, and it lays out truths about human personality that are sufficient for leading us into a thorough understanding of what therapists call "dynamic" (Crabb, 1987, p. 62). Dr. Larry Crabb’s (1977) ap proach to in tegrati ng th eology and psychol ogy is called "spoiling the Egyptians" (p 47). His approach is tries to screen out any secular psychology which is not compatible with biblical principles and doctrine. Counselors need to look at psychology from a foundation of theology and not from a psychological point of view. Crabb believes that if non biblical ideas or presu pposi ti ons are al l owed t o sl i p th rou gh , th e ch ri sti an messag e an d th eol og y will end up being lost and something new will replace it. Crabb has tried very hard to formulate what he feels is a biblical counseling system. The most important concept in Crabb’s theory of counseling is the idea that there is one basic need, the need for personal worth, that is satisfied in two ways. The
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Larry Crabb’s Theory of Biblical Counseling
Dr. Larry Crabb has a unique approach to counseling. His system of counseling,
called Biblical counseling, will be explained in great detail. Dr. Crabb’s first book,
Basic Principles of Biblical Counseling, was published in 1975. The basic parts
and theories of his system, along many changes in theology and emphasis’ will be
also explained in detail. Crabb (1975) believes that ". . . the most basic problem
of every human being is his separation from God, a gulf made necessary by the
fact that God is holy and we are not" (p. 17).
Crabb, like most other Christian counselors, claims that his system is biblically
based. The foundation of Crabb’s counseling style is the Bible. God has revealed
truth to us in two ways, general and special revelation. Crabb (1987) believes
that,". . . many Christian counselors have adopted a method of study that treats
the bible as helpful, informative, and insightful- but neither authoritative nor sufficient" (p. 37). The bible is to be allowed the final word. The questions that
are answered by the Bible are authoritative.
Dr. Crabb divides problems into two categories, the first category are those
resulting from natural or physical causes. This would include such things as a
chemical imbalance, and learning disabilities brought on by common, perceptual
disfunctions. The second category is composed mostly of problem that are
essentially moral. Crabb believes the Bible is sufficient for providing a framework,
that is able to direct the counselor in dealing with every problem. The Bible
speaks meaningfully to every area of life. "The Bible teaches principles that can
comprehensively guide our efforts to counselor with warmth and insight, and it
lays out truths about human personality that are sufficient for leading us into athorough understanding of what therapists call "dynamic" (Crabb, 1987, p. 62).
Dr. Larry Crabb’s (1977) approach to integrating theology and psychology is
called "spoiling the Egyptians" (p 47). His approach is tries to screen out any
secular psychology which is not compatible with biblical principles and doctrine.
Counselors need to look at psychology from a foundation of theology and not
from a psychological point of view. Crabb believes that if non biblical ideas or
presuppositions are allowed to slip through, the christian message and theology
will end up being lost and something new will replace it. Crabb has tried very
hard to formulate what he feels is a biblical counseling system.
The most important concept in Crabb’s theory of counseling is the idea that there
is one basic need, the need for personal worth, that is satisfied in two ways. The
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Why do christians live carnal lives then? The basic problem is unbelief. They do
not truly believe that God is good and that He will meet all their needs. God has
truly promised to meet all the needs of his children. Still a lot of Christians do not
believe God and experientially are operating from a deficit motivation.
To adequately counsel a client, the counselor must have an accurate
understanding of the human personality. The parts that Crabb finds important are,
the conscience mind, the unconscious mind, basic direction, will, and emotions.
The conscience mind includes the sentences we tell ourselves. Crabb (1977)
says, ". . . events do not control my feelings, my mental evaluation of events (thesentences I tell myself) do affect how I feel" (p. 89). What we believe about a
subject or event will affect how we respond to it. An example
would be if the evening news showed that lot’s of pro-abortion laws had been
passed by congress that day. The event would be measured by whether I thought
abortion was good or bad. Since I believe abortion to be bad, this event would
probably result in me having negative feelings. Albert Ellis has had a strong impact
on Crabb at this point in his theory of counseling. What the client believes about
an event will determine his emotions in response to it, and ultimately affect his
behavior.
The unconscious is a vitally important area for Crabb’s theory. He describes the
unconscious as, ". . . the reservoir of basic assumptions which people firmly andemotionally hold about how to meet their needs of significance and security"
(Crabb, 1977, p. 91). Stored in our unconscious is the belief that our basic needs
can be met apart from Christ. We believe we can fix and steer our lives without
the help of God. An example could be if the Christians mind has been
programmed to believe that only lots of money can make him significant. He may
believe or think that if only he had a little more money everything would be ok.
Most people find though that, as they make more and more money, it does not
satisfy. Adler refers to these untrue beliefs as a person’s guiding fiction.
When a counselor attempts to help the counselee change these attitudes or beliefs
that are in the unconscious, he must be prepared for resistance. The counselor
must understand that the client may perceive this as a threat and react with
resistance. The clients approach to finding worth is being threatened. Thecounselor needs to reassure the client that he is a worthwhile human being. The
counselee needs to feel safe and accepted before he will consider changing his
beliefs. The counselor needs to talk in a loving, caring way. Crabb (1984) says,
"The protection intended to block out rejecting words also prevents encouraging
words from reaching to the core of people" (p. 48).
The heart or basic direction of a person deals with both the rational and emotional
parts of a person’s personality. The heart is ". . . that essential part of the person
which chooses his basic direction in life" (Crabb, 1977, p. 97). The client has
only two basic directions: he can live for God, or he can live a selfish life. A non-
christian can only serve himself. A Christian can study the Bible and fill his
conscious mind with the biblical truths on how to find significance and security.
A fourth part of the personality structure is the will. People are able to chose their
behaviors. People can chose to do what makes sense to them. Their behaviors
will be based on their beliefs, and on how they perceive a particular situations
possible affects on them.
The final aspect of the personality structure are the emotions. The client has to
have correct thinking as a foundation in order to have good feelings. Feelings are
good in that they let the client know when something is wrong, and they help the
counselor by acting as a guide to trace the problem back to its roots. It is all right
for a Christian to feel some negative emotions as long as they do not interfere with
compassion for the lost. All emotions spring from a client being in deficit or
deficient in meeting his two basic needs, which in turn is caused by wrong
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characteristics from a strictly freudian view. "My understanding of unconscious
elements within the personality is rooted in the biblical teaching that, above all
else, our hearts are deceitful and desperately wicked" (Crabb, 1987, p. 143).
An often used illustration of the conscious and unconscious is the idea of an
iceberg. The tip of the iceberg, the smallest part, is the same as the conscious.
The largest part of the iceberg, the unconscious, is below the water level. The
conscious contains such things as behaviors, emotions, and beliefs. The
unconscious, beneath the water line, contains the images and beliefs which we
have chosen, and also the pain from imperfect relationships we have experienced
during our lives. If a counselor does not change the unconscious, but changes onlythe conscious, it will result in only externalism and conformity in the client. Crabb
(1987) says, ". . . leaders who work only above the water line produce either
robots or rebels" (p. 144). These unconscious beliefs and images can keep us
from following and growing in our relationship with God. While these unconscious
beliefs and pain can control how we respond and react, we are still responsible
because we chose the beliefs and images. Our unconscious is not something
separate from us that we can blame for our problems. The unconscious does not
control how we respond. We are not victims of our unconscious images and
beliefs.
There are two elements that have to be exposed for healing and change to take
place. These two elements are self-protective patterns of relating, and relational pain.
People have pain buried in their unconscious that causes them to chose sinful
ways of relief. This pain is caused by the crushed hopes of not having another
love them fully, and the lack of impact on their close relationships. Because of the
pain we have received from relationships, we tend to keep a distance between
ourselves and others, to protect us from further pain. We also allow others to
touch us personally, but only in a limited way, so that if rejection occurs, serious
pain and hurt can be avoided. Crabb (1987) says, ". . . beneath every method of
relating can be found a commitment to self-interest, a determination to protect
oneself from more relational pain" (p. 148). People intentionally hide how they
manipulate and hurt others, in their unconscious.
Every person’s distress and psychological problems, results from not depending
on God to satisfy our two basic longings or needs. The sin that keeps us from
relying upon God, needs to be exposed and forgiven through repentance. During
repentance two steps have to be acknowledged and worked through. The first
are those times when our desire for protection from pain is put before obedience
to God. The second step involves replacing these self-protective measures with
obedience.
Repenting of a sinful behavior is incomplete and only partial repentance. To truly
repent the client needs to feel and experience his deeply entrenched pain within
his unconscious. By feeling and expressing the unconscious pain, the client can
recognize his methods of self-protection which he has been practicing.
Forgiveness and involvement are the fruit or sign of real repentance and change.Deep repentance in essence involves getting rid of manipulative styles of relating
in order to achieve risky involvement with others.
Our rational circles become filled as our wrong beliefs about how to manipulate
and meet our longings are replaced by the truth and wisdom of God. Repentance
is the first step towards filling our rational and personal needs or circles.
Repentance results from exposing the client’s wrong strategies for meeting his
needs, and the hidden pain within the unconscious.
The third part of the human personality involves a person’s volition or ability to
chose. People like to be in charge. Nobody likes to be confused about what
decisions to make. For fallen man, the accuracy of his decisions is not as
important as his struggle to believe he is truly independent. Because of people
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doing whatever it takes to live for themselves, their capacity to chose is badly
distorted to keep from having to admit their dependence. The client may settle for
a premature explanation, but still have a nagging doubt in the back of his mind,
because he is not willing to think further on an issue, because of the fear of
confusion.
Speaking of human responsibility, Crabb (1987) says, "Psychiatry and
psychology have rightly been criticized for sometimes explaining human struggles
in a way that weakens personal accountability" (p. 158). People were created in
the image of God with the ability to chose, and even though this has been affected
by the fall, are still responsible for their choices.
The final cause of all behavior is personal choice. The capacity of people to chose
can be divided into two parts. God created man with the ability to chose behavior
and to chose goals. All behavior is directed toward reaching a goal. A person will
chose a goal that is meant to relieve their personal circle pain.
People may, in reality, have a choice ov
er what they do, though they may not feel like they truly have a choice. While
most Christians would agree we can chose and are responsible for our choices, in
reality we may feel like we are just being dragged along by a mysterious force or
internal drive. An example would be masturbation. Most realize intellectually they
have a choice and responsibility to stop this habit, in reality they feel out of
control, as if, like an addiction, they cannot help but do it. The ability of a client tochose a godly response can be undermined by disturbances and sin within the
person. Crabb (1987) says, ". . . loss of felt choice does not mean loss of actual
choice" (p. 163). The counselor must not take away a person’s responsibility by
saying it is not their fault or its just an internal drive. Crabb (1987) makes an
excellent statement when he says, ". . . behavior will feel like a choice to the
degree that the goal of the behavior is recognized. . . behavior in pursuit of an
unrecognized goal does not feel like a choice" (p. 164).
The client will often have to face the sinful, ugly, goals beneath their behavior
before the route to true joy appears. The client must repent of trying to fill their
personal circle wrongly, and enter into their pain. Crabb (1987) says, "When his
core direction is perceived, the man will be able to understand that the root
choice he faces is not whether or not to masturbate, but rather, whether to trustGod for personal fullness or to depend on one’s own methods of fullness" (p.
167). The person’s feeling of being able to chose will be restored as they
understand how they have been trying to protect themselves from personal circle
pain. The fundamental goals must be seen before the client will feel his choice has
been restored.
The last part of the human personality deals with man as an emotional being. God
made man an emotional being. It is okay for us to hurt over life’s
disappointments.
There are three things the counselor needs to know in order to understand people
as emotional beings. "Hurting Christians must embrace their pain, not deny it out
of quilt" (Crabb, 1987, p. 173). Christians are not to deny their pain.
The first thing a counselor needs to know is where emotions originate from.
Emotions can be divided into two types: pleasant-unpleasant; and constructive-
destructive. Normally, pleasant events will produce good (pleasant) emotions,
and unpleasant events will produce negative (unpleasant) emotions. The second
type of emotions, constructive-destructive, are very important. Any emotion that
interferes with our relationships with others, and especially God, is destructive. All
emotions must be evaluated and not denied because they might be sinful. "A
commitment to trust the Lord deeply with the core of our being can turn every
emotion, even the most painful, into constructive avenues for more fully pursuing
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basic assumptions which are the causes of their problems. The client must be
shone how to depend on God alone to meet his fundamental needs. Crabb links
changing our basic assumptions, and renewing our minds, as being essentially the
same thing. The client’s wrong way of trying to meet his goal, his need for
significance and security, will change to a more biblical way as his thinking and
beliefs change.
Before continuing on, let us review the three main emotional problems that are at
the root of all psychological symptoms. The first is anxiety which is produced
when a person tries to reach a goal which is not guaranteed. If the goal is
reasonable and can be achieved given the persons circumstances, no anxiety will be produced. If the person may or may not reach the goal, that is it may be out of
their reach, anxiety will be produced. If the goal is reachable but the person does
not reach it because of irresponsibility, they will feel guilt. The client will feel false
guilt if the goal was never reachable. The client will
feel frustration and resentment against anything he feels is keeping or preventing
him from reaching his goal.
Let us look now at a general way Crabb’s system can be used to counsel, and
the steps that need to be taken. Crabb’s style or theory of counseling can be
divided into seven major steps.
The first stage would deal with identifying problem feelings. Feelings are to beused by the counselor as road maps to point toward the root of the problem. It
will not help the client a whole lot if they express their feelings but do not deal
with the underlying cause.
In the second stage the counselor tries to identify the goal oriented behavior that
is causing the counselee problems. Changing the behavior without changing the
goal may keep the counselee from improving. The counselor needs to find out if
the goal is truly biblical. He does this by finding out what is the basic assumption
of the counselee. The client’s basic assumption may not be biblical. If the client’s
basic assumption’s about how to meet his needs is wrong, then his goal will also
be wrong. If the basic assumption can be changed, the client’s goal will become
more biblical.
During the third stage the counselor tries to figure out the wrong patterns or
beliefs that have contributed to the client’s problems. The goal of the counselor is
to guide the client into replacing his wrong thinking with the biblical way. The
client has to understand that the biblical way of meeting his needs is the only way
that will work. The counselor needs to help the client understand where his wrong
assumption crept into his thinking. The client can change a faulty belief easier
when he understands how or where he learned it. It is also easier for them to
rationally consider their beliefs and thinking if they are allowed to express their
emotions freely. Changing the client’s thinking toward a biblical standard is stage
four.
The next stage, five, involves the counselor in trying to get the client to make a
commitment to act consistently with his new knowledge. The client has to act onhis new belief even when his feels like he does not want to. They have to act on
what is consistent with the Bible, whether they want to or not. Crabb (1977) says
that the client must act on his new beliefs, ". . . regardless of how he feels" (p.
156). The Bible holds us responsible for doing what we know is God’s will.
The client must decide what behavior must be done differently. The client must
then carry out this behavior in his life. He has to practice this behavior until it
becomes habit.
The last stage, seven, entails the client identifying the good feelings (spirit induced
feelings), that are present in the his life. The counselor can help the client to
recognize and focus on these good feelings which result from abiding in Christ.
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o e unconsc ous. ra s cr cs usua y p ace reu s vew o e unconscous
onto Crabb’s. Most miss the point that while there are similarities, there are also
many differences between Freud and Crabb. A few of these differences are: the
unconscious does not control us, we are not victims of our unconscious, the fact
of sin and movement away from God, and human responsibility.
Some Christians differ from Crabb on the importance of the fifth level of Maslows
need theory, self-actualization. Crabb believes that on this level, the person
becomes non-egocentric, or other-centered. Adams (1986) says, "To speak of
‘the last need of self-actualization’ as ‘non-egocentric’ makes no sense. The
actualization of my need-even the need to give-is clearly egocentric in motivation"(p. 34). God can give us the ability to give in a godly way, without getting
anything in return. Crabb does believe that only a Christian can reach this last
stage (Maslow’s last stage or level). Crabb speaks to this subject when he says,
"If we are to to be more than humanistic, relying on our own resources to become
all we can be, then dependence on God as we seek to obey Him must go beyond
inspiring rhetoric, it must become vital reality" (Crabb, 1989, p. 21).
Crabb understands than it is possible for people to spend so much time on trying
to meet their own needs, that the
y become completely self-centered. Crabb (1982) says, "Psychological needs
have taken over as the focus of our discussion of roles in marriage. The Bible has
been reduced to an optional guidebook as we look for ways to meet our
emotional needs" (Crabb, 1982, p. 11). We are not to focus on meeting our needs but on living for others. "We must focus on the real problem: self-
centeredness" (Crabb, 1991, p. 59). Self-centeredness, selfishness, can create
many problems in our relationships. As our needs are met in God, we can
become more and more other-centered. Trevor Morrison has written a paper
which was designed to show that the Bobgans’ has misrepresented Crabb.
Morrison does not believe Crabb really depends on psychology. Hurding (1985)
uses an example of Crabb using psychology by saying, "This may involve Adler’s
‘Early Recollection Technique’ in which the client is asked to recall his or her
earliest memory. . . " (p. 298). Crabb acknowledges how important psychology’s
insights can be, but Morrison seems clouded in thinking as he tries to defend him.
He says, "Their failure to see the significance of Crabb’s use of the word
"longings" instead of "needs" shows that they have come to Crabb to test himagainst their preconceptions, instead of allowing those very conceptions to be
challenged by what he writes" (Morrison, 1993, p. 1).
Morrison shows how easy it is for someone who is set on finding error in
another’s teachings to find it, if they look hard enough, and also how easy it is to
misrepresent someone, even if your on their side. Crabb has to be understood for
what he teaches, not what others teach on the same subject matter.
Tony Walter ( 1985) believes that, ". . . human need was never central to
Christian theology. What was central was God’s grace, not human needs" (p.
13). Some counselors are so afraid to admit that people might have needs or
longings that could prevent them from being responsible for their behavior, that
they eliminate all needs as unnecessary and psychological. We can admit that people have needs or desires without allowing that belief to control all our
thinking and behavior.
Crabb is not the only Christian who believes that the need for significance and
security are important. Neil Anderson (1993) has written a book on the subject
which says, "Our tendency is to think only of our physical needs, but the critical
needs are the "being" needs, and they are the ones wonderfully met in Christ" (p.
14). The well know author, R.C. Sproul (1991) wrote, "Deeply ensconced in the
marrow of our bones is the aspiration for significance" (p. 20). Both of these
books go into great depth discussing the need of every person for love and
impact in their world.
One other point of difficulty with Crabb, is the idea that his system of needs only
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