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How to speak so that people want to listen | Soham Nayak, NIT calicut

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Page 1: How to speak so that people want to listen | Soham Nayak, NIT calicut

How to speak so that people want to listen?

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A ted talk by Julian Treasure

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Voice is a very powerful instrument

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Why don’t people listen to you?

7 deadly sins of speaking

Gossip Judging

Negativity Complaining

Excuses Embroidery

Dogmatism

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Gossiping- Speaking ill of somebody not present

Judging- Hard to listen to someone if you know you

are being judged

Negativity- Hard to listen to

Complaining- complain anything under the sun

Excuses-some people have a blame thrower

Exaggeration- turns into lying

Dogmatism- confusion of facts with opinions

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•HonestyH

•AuthenticityA

•IntegrityI

•LoveL

HAIL -To greet or acclaim enthusia-stically

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VOICE TOOLBOXREGISTER

TIMBER

PROSODYPACE

VOLUME

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How to increase the power of your speaking

• For weight , voice has to go down from throat to chest

REGISTER

• Rich , smooth and warm voices are preferred

TIMBRE

• Prosody is a sing song to the voice, it eliminates monotonic voice. Repetitive prosody should be avoided

PROSODY

• Pace is increased when excited, whereas it is slowed down to emphasize a point. Silence is powerful.

PACE

• Volume can be varied accordingly to get attention of the audience

VOLUME

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GossipingJudging

NegativityComplaining

Excuseslying

NOT LISTENING

RECAP

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DESIGNED SOUNDSCAPES

POWERFULSPEAKING

CONSCIOUSLISTENING

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CREDITS http://www.lingholic.com/be-more-confident-speaking-foreign-language/

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http://faculty.knox.edu/fmcandre/Psychology_of_Gossip.html

http://madtbone.tripod.com/school-excuse-2.html

https://zakereen.wordpress.com/2011/06/24/is-life-being-unfair-on-you/complaining/

http://daily.bismun.com/blog/category/gossip/

http://improved.tumblr.com/post/1514006140/snape-is-judging-you

https://mentalinfusion.wordpress.com/2014/03/25/trying-to-fight-negativity/

http://www.jasonyounglive.com/blog/2014/5/29/what-a-complaining-guest-wants

http://timemanagementninja.com/2012/07/what-is-your-excuse-for-putting-things-off/

http://www.travel-studies.com/category/travel-classics-topics/4-marco-polo-0

http://tfli.be/my-way-or-bird-on-a-wire/

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Created By :-

Soham Nayak , NIT Calicut

Internship with Prof Sameer Mathur, IIM Lucknow

www.IIMinternship.com

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THANK YOU

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