8/7/2019 HOW TO MANAGE FAILURES SUCCESSFULLY http://slidepdf.com/reader/full/how-to-manage-failures-successfully 1/23 HOW TO MANAGE FAILURES SUCCESSFULLY 25 Laws "Nobody succeeds in a big way except by risking failure." - William Feather 1. Smile at failure. Failure only exists temporarily. Anticipate success will return. 2. Believe that there are no failures; we merely postpone our success. There are no failures in life, only delays. Failures are stepping stones, not stumbling blocks, to success. Unless there are failures, how can there be success? 3. Failure can be reversed into success. 4. Failure is a process. It is a series of events leading to the failure that fails. 5. It takes a lot of courage to fail. 6. Failing challenges us to greater heights. 7. It is a privilege to taste failure. Not everyone has the experience of a particular failure. 8. Failure is not final. 9. Accept the realities of failure. It strikes at everybody. 10. Do not brand ourselves as failures. 11. Regard failure as an isolated case. We have not failed; it is the work we have done that has failed. We must separate ourselves from failure. While we dislike our failure, we still love ourselves dearly. 12. Permit ourselves to fail. 13. Do not regard failing as a stigma. 14. Failure is not the opposite of success. It is the step prior to achieving success. 15. Any work we do has inevitably two results - failure or success. It is akin to tossing a coin in the air - the result is either a head or a tail when it lands on the ground. Sometimes, it happens that failure results. We did not choose failure. 16. Failure is a learning process. We learn failure in the school of hard knocks, just like we learn trigonometry in school. Regard failing as an education process. 17. Since failure is a learning process, enjoy failure! Failure can only be appreciated and enjoyed in the University of Life. 18. Failure is a resource from which we can draw invaluable experiences. 19. Failure creates other opportunities. 20. Focus on managing 20% of crucial failures. It contributes to 80% of the results.
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"Nobody succeeds in a big way except by risking failure."
- William Feather
1. Smile at failure. Failure only exists temporarily. Anticipate success will return.
2. Believe that there are no failures; we merely postpone our success. There are no failures inlife, only delays. Failures are stepping stones, not stumbling blocks, to success. Unless there arefailures, how can there be success?
3. Failure can be reversed into success.
4. Failure is a process. It is a series of events leading to the failure that fails.
5. It takes a lot of courage to fail.
6. Failing challenges us to greater heights.
7. It is a privilege to taste failure. Not everyone has the experience of a particular failure.
8. Failure is not final.
9. Accept the realities of failure. It strikes at everybody.
10. Do not brand ourselves as failures.
11. Regard failure as an isolated case. We have not failed; it is the work we have done that hasfailed. We must separate ourselves from failure. While we dislike our failure, we still love
ourselves dearly.
12. Permit ourselves to fail.
13. Do not regard failing as a stigma.
14. Failure is not the opposite of success. It is the step prior to achieving success.
15. Any work we do has inevitably two results - failure or success. It is akin to tossing a coin inthe air - the result is either a head or a tail when it lands on the ground. Sometimes, it happensthat failure results. We did not choose failure.
16. Failure is a learning process. We learn failure in the school of hard knocks, just like we learntrigonometry in school. Regard failing as an education process.
17. Since failure is a learning process, enjoy failure! Failure can only be appreciated and enjoyedin the University of Life.
18. Failure is a resource from which we can draw invaluable experiences.
19. Failure creates other opportunities.
20. Focus on managing 20% of crucial failures. It contributes to 80% of the results.
21. Failure is not that important. It is the response we make to the failure that is important.
22. Read biographies of successful men and their failure. Study how it traumatized and spursthem on to greater heights. Model them.
23. Pamper yourself with a good book, holiday, meal, movie or simply laze around and smell theroses.
24. Plan and strategize what is the next course of our action.
25. Finally, remember success is managing failure.
When we are successful, we will look back at our failures with a grin. How badly we took it whenwe could have enjoyed and savored them.
"Men are born to succeed - not to fail" Henry Thoreau
EXCERPTS FROM
"I ONCE WORE DIAPERS"
The Successful Failure PledgeI am a unique personI have my strengths as well as weaknessesFailures I do encounter But each failure makes me stronger To meet another challengeAlthough I may fail from time to timeIn finality, I will still succeedI will raise my threshold of failure
I live not to the expectations of othersI accept the realities of lifeI go through both the valley of despair And the peaks of successI believe I am born for great thingsTherefore, I will try and persistTo achieve this missionI may fall but I'll get up againI am a small but important piece of the zigzag puzzleAnd I will contribute my fair shareTo make this world a better place to live in.
__________________ Name__________________ Date
What is a Successful Failure?First of all, a successful failure dares to admit "I fail".A successful failure takes full responsibility for his failure.
A successful failure separates himself from acts of failing.A successful failure affirms courageously, "I dare to fail!".A successful failure does not blame his stars, bad luck or other people.A successful failure maximizes his resources and talents to the limit.A successful failure acknowledges "I learn from failure".A successful failure has an inquiring mind, "I'll find out".A successful failure asserts, "I must do it, not I ought to do it".A successful failure assures himself, "I avoid the same mistakes".A successful failure views failure as opportunities, not problems.A successful failure foresees solutions, not obstacles.A successful failure does not quit. "I'll try again".A successful failure believes failing to try is trying to fail.A successful failure persists, "There must be a better way to do things".A successful failure challenges, "I shall return to success!".A successful failure believes, "There's no free dinner; I must work".A successful failure's creed is "Failing to prepare is preparing to fail".A successful failure always smiles. There is a rainbow after a thunderstorm.Finally, a successful failure celebrates because failure begets success.
A to Z of Managing FailureAdmit our failures. Brave failures. Be courageous to manage them.Conquer our fears. Confidence then exudes.Determine to find the exit route from failure.Experience failure. It's not taught in any MBA school.Failures are stepping stones, not stumbling blocks, to success.GOD loves failures; that's why there are so many of us.Help other failures; they will reciprocate our help.Inspire other failures so that they get up again.Joy is experiencing success after failure.Knowledge is a powerful tool to overcome failure in the new economy.
Learning from failure is invaluable. Failure is the greatest teacher.Mistakes are inevitable. To err is human; to fail to try is criminal.Nature will guide us through our difficult times.Opportunities, not obstacles, arise from failure.Problems form part of our lives. Those who have no problems live in the graveyard.Quit - that's the game for idiots. Successful failures don't give up.Revise your plan continuously to adapt to new changes.Success is the next step after failure.Trying and failing is better than doing nothing and succeed.Universities of failures are located in the streets, not in the classrooms.Value and learn from our failures.Work on our weaknesses.X-ray and analyze the root causes of our failures.You and I are responsible for our own failures. Don't blame them on bad luck.
Zenith of our endeavors occurs after many failures.
ARTICLES
Below are a sample of short articles contributed by Michael in the Recruit Page of the
1. Creating your own Rice Bowl – Home Based Business2. Filling your own Rice Bowl with Rice – Home Based Business
3. Second Career as Trainers – Training Business4. Be a Trainer – Training Business
5. Ingredients of a Successful Trainer – Training Business6. Ingredients of a Successful Workshop – Training Business
7. Declaring Your Passions – Community Contribution8. Visual Aids – Presentation Skills9. Anchoring – NLP
10. Rapport – NLP
1. Creating your own Rice Bowl
Many dream of being your own boss. The first step of your dream can be realized if
you know how to set up a home-based business
With the current economic down turn and the rapid loss of jobs, the choice of being
an entrepreneur operating out of your home is more encouraging. The government is
encouraging Singaporeans to be more entrepreneurially minded. HDB is relaxing itsregulations to allow more flats to be used as home offices. Now is a good opportunityfor you to be your own boss, creating your own rice bowl instead of begging with a
rice bowl.
Be fair to your neighbours
You can establish a small-scale business from your home, provided it does notgenerate much traffic or cause noise and environment pollution. Ensure that your
business will not cause disturbances to your neighbourhood. Otherwise, it is not fairto your neighbours who may have bought their homes for its peaceful environment.
What home-based businesses are permitted?
Good examples of home-based businesses are secretarial services, bookkeeping,
editing, writing, translation, art direction, design and layout, research, web design,software, reminder service, home delivery, courier, photocopy, cleaning and sewing.
For eight years, I have been operating a lucrative training consultancy business outof an under-utilized room located on the third level of my house.
If you have specialized skills, you can operate a consultancy service in advertising,marketing, interior or print design, public relations, finance and management
consultancy. In consultancy business, you visit your clients more than they visit you.If you need to meet your clients, you can organize meetings in hotels, restaurants or
coffee joints. In fact, consultancy businesses are one of the most profitablecategories of home businesses.
A home-based business in a HDB flat should not have more than two employees.
What home-based businesses are disallowed?
Businesses that are not suitable for home-based operation are retail outlets, maidagencies, commercial schools, food catering, car trading, massage services, food
outlets and laundry. These businesses either generated too much customer traffic orhave environment pollution. A full-fledged office is disallowed.
Office Space
The best home office space is a dedicated room. You will have less distraction. If you
cannot afford to spare a room, then partition a corner of your living room andconvert it to an office. Inform your family member that this corner is your work
space so that they will respect your privacy.
What equipment do you need?
Basic equipments you need are PC, printer, fax machine and telephone. If yourbudget permits, you can spoil yourself with a laser and inkjet colour printer. You can
have two lines – one for fax machine and the other for your land line. If spacepermit, you can have a stereo set and cabled TV which is essential in some industry
like public relations or investment consulting.
Furniture
You will need a table, chairs, table lighting and bookshelves as your home office
furniture. Arrange your equipment ergonomically around you, so that you can beproductive in your work. You have a choice of buying second hand furniture or
inexpensive knock-down furniture and assemble it yourself at home.
Stationery
Equip your home office with basic stationery like invoice, letterheads, envelopes andfiles. Organize your files systemically so that you will not waste time hunting for that
piece of paper. Three useful ways for filing are alphabetically, by subject matter orclients. Use different coloured files, papers and pens to aid productivity.
Since you are probably working alone at home, you may like to decorate your roommore office like. Hang motivational posters on empty walls. Fill empty spaces with
productivity tools like table top calendars, notepads, calculator, coloured paper clipsand inspirational paraphernalia.
Remain contactable
Modern technology allows us to be highly mobile. Invest in mobile phone, Palm top
and notebook. This allows you to be contactable at all time and you can work
anywhere anytime. In my case, I have two mobile phones – one Palmtop combinedwith mobile phone for free incoming phone calls and another mobile for outgoingcalls. In the long run, you’ll save.
Office Address
For your mailing address, you may use a prestigious service office in the central
business district. Service offices can also answer your phone calls in your company
name and redirect them to either your home phone or your mobile. If you need tohold meetings, they have meeting rooms for you to rent.
Name Card
It is the most important piece of paper that sells you and your services. Invest in a
tastefully designed name card that portrays a good image of your company. List yourcontact numbers and your services in your card. Choose a simple and easily
company name. It helps if you have easy-to-recall phone and fax numbers.
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2. Filling your own Rice Bowl with Rice
After setting up a home-based business, how do you ensure you succeed?
The main advantages of setting a home-based business are cost and convenience.
Firstly, you save a big chunk on rental. Secondly, while working at home you havethe flexibility and convenience of being close to your children or parents.
However, there are also disadvantages. Clients may not patronize you if they know
you operate out of your house. The home environment may not be conducive for theconduct of your business. It can either be too comfortable or distracting. If you want
to be a successful home-based entrepreneur, be determined to succeed.
Adopt a new mindset
Hitherto, you have a nice office with colleagues whom you can pick and choose to
relate too. Now you are a lone ranger and an all rounder – boss, delivery boy,
cleaner, clerk. The structure and security you once have as an employee havevanished. You have to adopt a totally new mindset – that of a home entrepreneur. Itis lonely and risky venturing out there by yourself. However, the challenges are great
and the rewards satisfying.
Discipline yourself
I cannot over-emphasize the importance of self discipline. It is human to be lax in
the home-office. Have a fixed time to start work. Otherwise, you find yourself over-
indulging yourself in the morning papers, breakfast, TV, household chores or withyour children. At the scheduled time, go to your workstation as if you are going to
office and work seriously. If you do this consistently, this becomes a good anchoring
habit for the rest of your business life. Some of my friends even dress up in officeattire before stepping into the home office.
Make yourself productive
Have a schedule for the day and week. Plan the week ahead on Sunday evening orMonday morning. Do the most difficult or creative work when your mind is at its
peak. If you need to run errands or meet your clients outside, plan to do themconsecutively so minimize traveling time. Stick to your schedule; otherwise you find
yourself raiding the fridge, glue to the favourite TV soap opera or sink in yourcomfortable bed. If you plan your schedule, you find you maximize your time.
Keep yourself driven
If you are driven, you get things done. Reward yourself regularly if you obtain
results. Treat yourself to a well-deserved movie, meal or a small gift. Displaymotivational calendars or posters. Read inspirational biographies. Talk to like-minded
home entrepreneurs. Set daily and weekly objectives and strive to achieve them. Forinstance, if you need to make 50 cold calls to prospective customers, plan to make
10 calls a day in the afternoon when your energy level goes down. This action keepsyou both mentally alert and makes full use of your time.
Stay motivated with friends
Operating a home-based business is a lonely affair. Many a times, you feel are lonely
and frustrated. Be connected to friends. Join a networking group. By meeting otherentrepreneurs, you will realize your problems are not unique to yourself. Other
home-based entrepreneurs suffered the same problem too. Meet new friends. Theyoffer a new perspective to problems and new insights to opportunities. Take theinitiative to call them regularly to keep yourself in the loop. Keep yourself abreast of
times by participating in workshops, attending talks and reading books and journals.
Market Yourself
No one knows how good you are unless they know you. Market yourself through
networking, community work, talks, journals and writings. Ask your satisfied clientsto give you referrals and testimonials. Pick the telephone and make the dreaded cold
calls. Learn that saying “NO” is not rejection but is a way of saying they are notprepared to accept your services now.
Don’t quit
Many home-based entrepreneurs quit because they do not have staying power. Thesuccessful entrepreneurs are those who persist and never-say-die. They are stayers,
not quitters. As you prolong in this business, you are more experienced and more
referrals will pour in. Your business will eventually grow as mine did.
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3. Executives commence their second career as trainers
After spending years wandering in the corporate wilderness, seven executives
answer to their true calling - training
Most executives, after working many years, wonder if they are in the right job. One
may label this as the mid-life crisis. When you have changes in your family andlifestyle, you also have different commitment and expectations. After much
Six executives, caught in the whirlpool of midlife, deliberated on their next careermove. Recently, they make a conscious career switch to be trainers. They enrolled in
a 3 month Diploma in Training organized by Atlantic International University. Amongthe subjects they learn are training needs analysis, lessons plans marketing, voice
charisma, NLP, Transaction Analysis and upfront delivery. A crucial component of theprogram involves participants to speak and present in front of the class. The
graduating project requires participants to present a training session in front of a liveaudience.
The six executives are Joseph Kuan, a regional manager, Lionel Lim, a retired armedforces officer, Derrick Loi, a sales manager, Allen Ang, a financial practitioner, Regina
Chua, previously an executive with an American MNC and Sng-Fun Poh Yoke, an ex-airline executive.
Joseph Kuan, who also volunteered in Boys Brigade, enrolled for the diplomaprogram so that he can venture overseas to conduct training. Allen Ang, armed with
a MBA, participated with an objective of getting rid of his speaking fears in public.The program provides ample opportunities for participants to train before an
audience.
Lionel Lim, retired early from the armed forces, is too young to retire but too old to
look for another job, participated in the program to start a second career as a
training consultant. While he had ample training experiences in the armed forces, heacknowledged he lack the private sector audience. The diploma program teaches him
the skills of handling difficult participants in a workshop and how to answer difficultquestions which he did not encounter while training in uniformed groups.
After they graduate, the organizer organized a one-day public seminar where
participants roll out their training programs in a “rubber meets the road” scenario.Beyond the comforts and familiarity of the usual training classroom, the trainers
meet the public for the first time in baptism of fire. Ignorant of background andexpectations of the audience, they are to deliver their program to meet the training
objectives in a real-time environment.
Recently, these six executives have their first taste of conducting a public seminar at
the YMCA. It was titled “Renew and Recharge 2004” with topics appropriate forstarting the new year with the right life skills. Topics include goal formation,
managing yourself between work and family, bringing order in your life, influencingwith NLP, managing your children and financial skills. About a hundred people from
various walks of life came to be trained by the six new trainers.
Derrick Loi, 36, exclaimed, “I feel fantastic as I was able to speak in a public seminar
for the first time in my life. It boosts my confidence tremendously.”
Allen Ang, 39, conducted a mini-workshop on managing your finances. He conquered
his public speaking fears that he philosophized, “It is not how much fear you have orhow much courage you possess to conquer your fear. Just do it.”
The diploma program was conducted by two master trainers, Michael Lum and ErnestChen, who between them have over 30 years of training experience. They have
Michael Lum, author of Who Broke My Rice Bowl? explained, “After training for somany years, I want to transfer my training technology to new trainers. The best way
to share my skills is through this ‘train-the-trainer’ diploma program.”
Ernest Chen, generally regarded as the father of the Toastmaster movement inSingapore shared,” The enthusiasm displayed by these executives coupled with their
working experiences make them excellent trainers.”
Trainers can set up their training consultancy at home. This home-based businessjust requires a mobile phone, computer, printer and a desk. The rest is all in your
head – intellectual property.
Regina, 38, mother of 3 kids, had recently completed her marketing assignment with
an American MNC in China. She is excited about embarking her new career as acorporate trainer.
Regina disclosed,” Working from home allows me to focus on the needs of my busyhousehold and my three children. With this peace of mind, I can confidently
concentrate on training assignment without stressing myself out. It is a dream jobfor any corporate mum with entrepreneurial aspirations.”
Regina delivered a time-management workshop which wowed the audience.
Lionel is marketing his licensed Emotional Quotient program both to institutions as
well as conducting it as a public program. His ambition is to develop a full fledgedtraining consultancy business. His leadership experience in the armed forces comes
handy in fulfilling his dreams.
Make a difference in people’s lives.
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4. Be a trainer
There are many business and career opportunities for trainers during this economic
downturn. Michael Lum shows you the roadmap to be a trainer.
Trainer? The first image that comes to your mind is an animal trainer with a whip in
a zoo or a dog trainer with a whistle in a pet farm. Not only animals can be trained.People can be trained too and their performance improves thereafter.
In this economic downturn with many people unemployed, there exists an excellentopportunity for training. The Government has announced that a new statutory board
will be formed. Called Workforce Development Agency, it will focus on adultcontinuing education and training. Training and retraining workers ensure they are
employable. Additionally, many companies and government department are usingthis lull time to upgrade their employees’ skills. Schools have on-going enrichment
How do you decide what area to specialize in training? Firstly, it can be based onyour education. If you are study finance, you may want to trained finance subjects
like “Accounting for non-accounting executives”. Secondly, it can be based on yourtraining. If you are in the sales and your company sends you for intensive customer
service training, you can in turn trains others in same subject. Thirdly, it can be onyour profession. If you are working as a human resource executive, you can train inHR areas like interviewing skills and job appraisals. Fourthly, your passion can be a
source of your training. If you love public speaking and love to persuade theaudience, you can teach presentation skills. Lastly, as you trained, you will discover
new areas of interest and opportunities which you can develop into a trainingprogram. A health-nut friend of mine market and conduct his healthy lifestyle
programs quite successfully. Although I was trained as an accountant, I worked as ageneral manager in MNCs. While training management topics, I developed an
interest in creative thinking which slowly evolved as my most profitable trainingprogram.
How can you be trained as a trainer?
It is beneficial to take up a program in training as a start. It gives you the basic
structure and foundation about training. Interconex Management offers an eight
week Diploma in action-based training from Atlantic International University. Besidesclassroom teaching, participants must participate and speak regularly in front of his
class.
A diploma in training helps to open doors when you present your training programsto HR managers. On-the-job training and continuous self-learning with constant
feedback hone in your skills as a trainer. A diploma is only a start to your business orcareer. Subsequent success is based purely on your ability to deliver life-changing
training programs.
Who are your potential clients?
Major segments of the market who purchase training programs and contract trainersare schools, institutions, community centres, government, corporations and MNCs.
Certain public institutions and associations like NUS Extension and YMCA markettraining programs to the public. Members of the public who wants to upgrade
themselves can enroll in these programs. A few students of mine deliver regular
team-building and self-esteem programs to schools. Another organize study skillscamps during school holidays.
Types of trainers
You can operate as a freelance trainer or a sole proprietor who operate out of thecomforts of your home. The cost of one-man-operation from a home-office is very
low. The major cost is photocopying of manuals, transport and training materials.Alternatively, you can opt to work as a stand-up trainer with one of the major
institutions, corporations or with the Government. You can also work-full time andtrain part-time in the evenings and weekends.
If you are the type that always likes to share your skills with others, then this job iscut for you. Successful trainers impact participants and make a difference in their
lives. The ability to reduce complicated theories into simple facts is a gifted ability.Other traits of an impelling trainer are high EQ, excellent communication skills, wide
expanse of knowledge and clear presentation skills. The ability to build instantrapport with the participants, humour, humility and to take constructive feedback are
other qualities a trainer should have. Training is a people-oriented job. This impliesyou must like people and love engaging them.
How to start as a trainer?
In diploma in training classes, master trainer like me will motivate students to speak
in class as if they are the trainer. Students will deliver portions of their trainingprograms regularly in class. Upon graduation, there are opportunities to speak in
front of public. Start with one-hour talks to non-paying audience in not-for-profit
organizations like community clubs first. If audience does not pay for a one-hourtalk, they are more forgiving to virgin trainers. As you gather more knowledge andconfidence, you are deliver longer training programs and charge so that you have
income. My longest training program for my clients ranges from 5 to 9 days. Speakin public whenever you have the opportunity. This will conveniently lead you to
keynote speaking, master-of-ceremony and game master assignments which I hadthe pleasure of hosting.
What makes a successful trainer?
Is training is your blood? Michael Lum lists the ingredients that make an excellenttrainer.
Wouldn’t it be helpful if you know the ingredients that make you a world-class
trainer? And wouldn’t it be wonderful if you can harness these ingredients to aid youin the delivery of a successful workshop?
There is no single ingredient that makes you an excellent trainer. Just like it takesmany hands to build a house, many ingredients contribute to the success of a
trainer. And the combination of these ingredients varies from workshops toworkshops from time to time.
Rapport building
Workshops do not start at nine in the morning. It begins as soon as you arrive at thetraining room at eight. After arranging your logistics, make attempts to build rapportwith your participants. Meet and greet them as soon as they enter the training room.
Make an effort to get to know them better. Talk and listen to them on neutral topics,for example, food, education, work and if they have any difficulty finding the training
venue. Avoid touching sensitive subjects in religion, culture, sex and politics. Rapportbuilding is an integral part of Neuro-Linguistics Programming.
If you can create rapport with your participants, delivery of the workshop will beeasy to facilitate. Remember, participants want to find a workshop fulfilling and want
you to succeed as a trainer.
Employ variety
In the delivery of your workshop, a good trainer employs variety of trainingmethods. Lectures are the least effective. Research shows that after 2 weeks, an
average participant remembers only 2% of the lecture contents. As every participantlearning style is different, your safest bet is to employ variety to impact them. Load
your workshop with group discussion, individual presentation, story telling, teachback, case studies, role plays, drama-acting, puzzles, games, physical exercises and
debates. Use a variety of audio-visual aids like videos, audio, flip charts, posters,diagrams, Post-It pads and Baroque music.
When there is variety, you can be assured there is never a dull moment. In theafternoon, especially after lunch, where participants are drowsy, employ active
exercises to keep them on their toes.
Change attitudes
The main objective of a workshop is to make attitudinal changes and make adifference in their lives. For example, if a salesman is frightened of making cold calls,
a trainer’s duty is to eradicate that fear and embolden him to pick up that telephone,make that dreaded phone call and visit the prospective client unknown to him. If
your workshop is a life-changing one, your participants will forever be indebted toyou.
Therefore, your lesson plans, manuals and exercises are constructed to impactparticipants’ lives and change their attitudes. Sometimes, a good trainer has to
exaggerate his anecdotes, metaphors and exercises so that participants canremember it. At other times, a confident trainer throws challenges at the participants
and invites them to pick up the gauntlet.
A step ahead
A good trainer must not train what participants already knows. Otherwise, they arewasting their time. He must research and organizes his lesson plan so that
participants can enrich themselves from the workshop. Employ active learningmethods where participants can share their experiences and learn from others in the
class. Make learning fun and easy to learn. Otherwise participants will find thelessons difficult and the trainer threatening. A trainer’s duty is to create a non-
threatening learning environment where participants find it conducive to learn.
Keep “a step ahead” philosophy in both the design and delivery of your workshop.
One way of staying ahead in training technologies is to attend “train-the-trainer” orcertification programs. Times change and a responsible trainer must keep himself
Training is like a strip tease performance. Do not disclose everything within the firsthour. Otherwise there is nothing to keep participants excited. Always have surprises
every hour to keep participants interested. Workshops are interesting if they do notknow what is around the corner. Participants love surprises just a child opening a
wrapper without knowing what is inside. Motivate them to learn by awarding themsmall knick-knacks or bite-size chocolate bars.
The design of the lesson plan and stand-up delivery are crucial in injection of the“strip-tease” element into the workshop.
Stay on course
Map out the main learning outcome of the workshop. What are the learning points
you want participants to take home? What do you want participants to do when theyleave? These must be made known at the outset of the workshop. Throughout your
conduct of the workshop, you must stay on course to reach your objectives.Sometimes, trainers get distracted or carried away by their pet subject, story or
exercise.
Facilitating a workshop is akin to sailing. Put the sail up for power and keep therudder for the right direction. If you deliver a workshop with a powerful punch but
head towards the wrong direction, your efforts are negated.
Impacting people’s life with a “killer” training program
Michael Lum shares with you the ingredients of a successful training workshop.
Just like many hands build a house, many ingredients contribute to the success of aworkshop. The focus of the workshop is to change participants’ attitude and make an
impact in their lives. This is achieved through meticulous planning and effective
delivery of a workshop.
Set realistic objectives
Setting objectives give a clear indication of what is to be achieved at a workshop.
Define the performance standards you want to attain. Through setting of objectives,trainers have a better insight of the behaviour they are seeking to change.
Participants are aware of requirement of the workshop. This helps to allay any fearsor uncertainty participants generally harbour before the workshop. Corporations can
justify an adequate return on their investment in training. Objectives must be statedin positive and action verbs.
Create an interesting lesson plan
An effective lesson plan focuses on areas which need emphasis. It ensures that
resources are available and are utilized fully. A lesson plan ensures that nothing isoverlooked or under-emphasized. In a workshop, learning should be made as easy to
learn as possible. Divide materials into three major sections: must know, should
know and good to know. Cover the “must know” section first. If time permits,incorporate the others.
Check the number and educational level of the participants. It is pertinent to checktheir level of understanding of the subject matter. Trainers should state the optimal
number of participants in their initial submission. Consider the availability andaccessibility of training equipment and materials. Is there enough time for the trainer
to deliver the workshop and reach its objectives? Consider the “lull” period in theafternoon where participants are not at their peak performance level.
Use a variety of training methods
There are many ways to skin a cat. In training, use different ways in the workshopbecause participants learn differently. Traditionally, many trainers lecture. Lectures
are the most ineffective and boring mode of transmission of knowledge. Considerothers like role plays, group discussion, presentation, brainstorming, games, case
studies and outdoor exercises. If you use variety in training, participants will have nolapses to be bored. As the name “workshop” suggest, participants must work during
a workshop.
Ask questions
An effective trainer can ask quality questions and response adequately to questionsfrom the floor. Training questions are asked to arouse interest from participants. A
well-timed and relevant question excites participants and the trainer can lead theminto the topic. Trainers can involve participants by asking them questions.
Questioning also stimulate thinking and thus learning by participants. Even if there isno verbal response, participants do ponder over the question. Trainers can also ask
testing questions which help to check the level of participants’ understanding. Alwaysacknowledge answers from participants. Thank them. If response is wrong, correct
them politely.
Create rapport with participants
The conduct of a successful workshop rests heavily on rapport. If a good rapport isestablished between the trainer and the participants, learning is easier. Participants
want the trainer to succeed. Recognize and get to know the participants. Involve
them in exercises and games. Be humble. Do not boast of your achievements andwhat great things you can achieve. Encourage participants to learn without any fear
of failure. If they are ignorant, do not make them feel inadequate. Be empathetic
towards their feelings.
Positive body language
One good way of establishing rapport is to smile. It is the cheapest and mosteffective way of gaining trust from your participants. Smiling make you relaxed.
Participants will find you non-threatening and therefore more willing to learn andparticipate in your exercises. Greet participants at the start of the workshop with a
firm handshake. Stand tall with a good posture. Be open in your gestures likestretching forward your arms. Look at participants when you talk to them. Be neat in
your appearance. Dressing must be appropriate. No t-shirts or jeans please.
Use music to enhance the quality of your training. Music keeps participants relaxedand inspired to learn. Otherwise, the silence in the room can dampen their
enthusiasm. Music keeps the level of energy high. Many people are visual learners.Use flip charts, whyteboards, overhead projector, videos and computer. They make
learning fun and easy to learn.
Room logistics
Arrange the room in clusters with 4 to 6 participants to a cluster. Ensure that all
participants have a good view of the trainer. Air-condition temperature must becomfortable. It is good to rotate participants in different clusters so that they can
network. One training session should not last more than one and a half hours. Haveready supply of beverages and finger-food during tea-breaks. Check with participants
from time to time if they are comfortable in the workshop. Respect your time. Beginand end the workshop on time.
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6. Impacting people’s life with a “killer” training program
Michael Lum shares with you the ingredients of a successful training workshop.
Just like many hands build a house, many ingredients contribute to the success of a
workshop. The focus of the workshop is to change participants’ attitude and make animpact in their lives. This is achieved through meticulous planning and effective
delivery of a workshop.
Set realistic objectives
Setting objectives give a clear indication of what is to be achieved at a workshop.Define the performance standards you want to attain. Through setting of objectives,
trainers have a better insight of the behaviour they are seeking to change.Participants are aware of requirement of the workshop. This helps to allay any fears
or uncertainty participants generally harbour before the workshop. Corporations canjustify an adequate return on their investment in training. Objectives must be stated
in positive and action verbs.
Create an interesting lesson plan
An effective lesson plan focuses on areas which need emphasis. It ensures thatresources are available and are utilized fully. A lesson plan ensures that nothing is
overlooked or under-emphasized. In a workshop, learning should be made as easy tolearn as possible. Divide materials into three major sections: must know, should
know and good to know. Cover the “must know” section first. If time permits,incorporate the others.
Check the number and educational level of the participants. It is pertinent to checktheir level of understanding of the subject matter. Trainers should state the optimal
number of participants in their initial submission. Consider the availability andaccessibility of training equipment and materials. Is there enough time for the trainer
to deliver the workshop and reach its objectives? Consider the “lull” period in theafternoon where participants are not at their peak performance level.
Use a variety of training methods
There are many ways to skin a cat. In training, use different ways in the workshop
because participants learn differently. Traditionally, many trainers lecture. Lecturesare the most ineffective and boring mode of transmission of knowledge. Consider
others like role plays, group discussion, presentation, brainstorming, games, casestudies and outdoor exercises. If you use variety in training, participants will have no
lapses to be bored. As the name “workshop” suggest, participants must work duringa workshop.
Ask questions
An effective trainer can ask quality questions and response adequately to questionsfrom the floor. Training questions are asked to arouse interest from participants. A
well-timed and relevant question excites participants and the trainer can lead them
into the topic. Trainers can involve participants by asking them questions.Questioning also stimulate thinking and thus learning by participants. Even if there is
no verbal response, participants do ponder over the question. Trainers can also asktesting questions which help to check the level of participants’ understanding. Always
acknowledge answers from participants. Thank them. If response is wrong, correctthem politely.
Create rapport with participants
The conduct of a successful workshop rests heavily on rapport. If a good rapport is
established between the trainer and the participants, learning is easier. Participantswant the trainer to succeed. Recognize and get to know the participants. Involve
them in exercises and games. Be humble. Do not boast of your achievements andwhat great things you can achieve. Encourage participants to learn without any fear
of failure. If they are ignorant, do not make them feel inadequate. Be empathetictowards their feelings.
Positive body language
One good way of establishing rapport is to smile. It is the cheapest and most
effective way of gaining trust from your participants. Smiling make you relaxed.Participants will find you non-threatening and therefore more willing to learn and
participate in your exercises. Greet participants at the start of the workshop with afirm handshake. Stand tall with a good posture. Be open in your gestures like
stretching forward your arms. Look at participants when you talk to them. Be neat inyour appearance. Dressing must be appropriate. No t-shirts or jeans please.
Use music to enhance the quality of your training. Music keeps participants relaxedand inspired to learn. Otherwise, the silence in the room can dampen their
enthusiasm. Music keeps the level of energy high. Many people are visual learners.Use flip charts, whyteboards, overhead projector, videos and computer. They make
learning fun and easy to learn.
Room logistics
Arrange the room in clusters with 4 to 6 participants to a cluster. Ensure that allparticipants have a good view of the trainer. Air-condition temperature must be
comfortable. It is good to rotate participants in different clusters so that they cannetwork. One training session should not last more than one and a half hours. Have
ready supply of beverages and finger-food during tea-breaks. Check with participantsfrom time to time if they are comfortable in the workshop. Respect your time. Begin
and end the workshop on time.
TOP 7. Declare and share your passions
Knowledge shared is knowledge gained. Michael Lum shows how you can transfer
your expertise with others.
Tomorrow is Valentine’s Day. Traditionally, Valentine’s Day, 14th February, is theoccasion where you declare your love for your loved one. Professionally, have you
declared your love for what you are doing at work and in business? On Valentine’s
Day, you share your love with a card, candle-lit dinner and gifts. How are you goingto share your professional passions with others?
It is crucial that to identify your passions. If you do what you love and love what youdo, you do not have to work for a single day in your life. If you can discover what
your passions are, a dull moment will not occur in your life. You live a purposefuldriven life if you know where your true north lies.
Knowledge kept is knowledge lost. Knowledge shared is knowledge gained. Manythink that by sharing knowledge, others will have an unfair advantage. When others
ask you questions, you benefit from it too. Nothing is more fulfilling than sharingwith others on your passions. When someone’s life is changed by you, it is a
rewarding experience. There are a few ways where you can share your skillsknowledge with others:
Speaking
Speaking is the easiest and the hardest thing in the world to do. Giving speeches is a
one way communication where you transfer knowledge to a group of people. Aspeech can last from ten minutes to a few hours. It is easy because it is mainly a
one-way information transmission. At the same time, it is the hardest because of stage fright. You do not know how hostile the audience can be. Speaking is time
efficient as one person can transmit your technology to many. I have given many
speeches to educational institutions, interest groups, not-for-profit organizations,companies and National Libraries.
Training
Training differs from speaking as it is a two way communication. Besides lecturettes,
you use other channels like games, stories, discussion, focus groups, teach-back,adventures, presentation etc. In speaking, lecturing dominates whereas in training, a
variety of tools is employed. The primary purpose of speaking is to inform whiletraining is to impel participants’ attitudinal changes. The duration of training can
lasts from 3 hours to a few days. The longest training I have facilitated is a 5-dayprogram. Training can be conducted either in-house (organization’s training room) or
in public (eg. a hotel). Last year, I deliver free workshops on resume writing andinterviewing skills for retrenched workers.
Coaching
Where training is targeted at a group of people, coaching is a one-to-one
personalized tuition. Coach a younger staff where he can look up to you as a rolemodel. Instead of reinventing the wheel and making mistakes, he can learn newskills and strategies from you. In this manner, he can grow faster professionally. You
too can learn from your “coachee” from his questions, perspectives and growth.
Coaching can lasts from a few days to a few years. During this period of time, youmonitor his progress. It is gratifying for coaches to see young executives mature in
wisdom and prosper in their career. I have personally coached a few CEOs.
Writing
If you are introverted and fear speaking before an audience, writing is the medium
for you. Document your technology in a written format and share it with others. Youcan submit your writings to internet discussion groups, journals, magazines and of
course, here in Recruit Pages. Whenever I am free, I will take out my notebook andwhip up a few pages. Nothing is more satisfying than to see your name in print.
Many readers cut out and file your articles for future reference. When you havewritten enough, you can compile all your articles into a book! I have written five
books till date.
If your knowledge benefits others and improves their lives, it is the best form of non-
monetary income. Give back to society what you have taken from it. If, sometime, infuture, someone comes up to you and says that your speech or article has made a
difference to his life, you have succeeded. So decide in what way you share yourexpertise with others this coming year.
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8. Getting Insight Assistance from Visual Aids
Using the right visual aids, you can deliver a memorable presentation
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if you can have access to resources that can aid you in the
effective delivery of your presentation? And wouldn’t be useful if you can harnessthese resources work for you making your job as a presenter easier?
Many resources are available to assist you in your presentation to your boss, board
of directors, bankers, partners, clients and the public. These resources are aseffective as your ability to utilize them.
Visual aids consist of whiteboards, charts, posters, flip charts, overhead
transparences (known as acetate in America), 35 mm slides, PC and projector.
The advantages of visual aids are many. Firstly, it saves a lot of time especially if the
presentations are repeated many times. Instead of drawing a diagram or a picture, avisual aid is more effective in communicating information to the audience. A visual
aid commands attention from the audience. If a transparency is projected onto thescreen, the eyes of the audience naturally shift their focus there. Instead of
describing a diagram in so many words, it can be flashed on the screen. It saves
many minutes of description and explanation. An unknown advantage of visual aidsis it helps you to control your nervousness. When a visual is displayed, the audiencedirects their attention at it, thereby taking the pressure away from you.
Since 83% of people are visual and learn from sight, visual aids are of paramountimportance when you are presenting, teaching or facilitating. In another study, 20%
of participants in a presentation remember what they hear. When visual aids areadded, 50% of them remember what they hear and see. When physical activities are
included, 70% remember what they hear, see and do.
The most common visual aid is flip charts. Knowing the art of flip-charting can
alleviate your status as a skilled communicator. The basic of writing of flip charts isthe “6 by 6” rule. The maximum number of words in one line is 6 words and the
maximum number of lines is 6 lines. In between the lines, leave plenty of whitespace. Create some space on the sides too. To make it visible to the audience at the
back of the room, never crowd the flip chart with information.
What types of markers should the presenter use? Thick markers are effective. Use
dark colours like black and blue for words. Avoid lighter colours like yellow, pink andgreen. Red is an appropriate colour to frame up your chart. This is accomplished by
drawing a rectangle around your script. Add various colours to your flip chart to
make it impactful. Graphics and drawings are very effective in bringing your points toyour audience. They will not forget your drawings, no matter how bad an artist you
are. Do not be afraid bring out the artist in you. The audience will appreciate your
amateur artistic effort!
When you are writing on the flip chart, stand on one side so that it will block the
audience. If you need to move away from the flip chart, never wander more thantwo steps away. Face the room as you talk. If you need to write on the flip chart,
write with your body facing ¼ position towards the audience. No one like to have apresenter’s back facing them.
Another popular visual aid is the overhead projector. Always test the equipmentbefore your presentation. Focus the image on the screen till it produces a sharp and
undistorted image. Display the transparency only when you need to illustrate a point.When finished, turn the projector off. Never leave the projector on with a blank
screen. The bright halogen light will distract the participants. When changingtransparencies, either switch off the OHP or use a paper to cover the glass surface.
Do not stand in-between the projector and the screen; otherwise the contour of yourbody will be projected. Use a manual or laser pointer. Using your fingers smacks of
amateurish presentational skills.
The more colourful your transparency is, the more effective is it in drawing the
attention of the audience. Colours will life to an otherwise monotonous presentation.People are excited by colours easily.
Even if you are using an OHP, have marker pens and flip charts ready. The OHP maymalfunction or the bulb can get blown.
Pre-drawn charts, posters and quotations can be pasted on the walls by usingdouble-sided tapes or pins. After the presentation, the audience is reminded of your
message. Repetition is the best form of communication.
Try not to use the whiteboard. The board tends to reflect light making it difficult forthe audience to see. Moreover, many whiteboards are stained from markers left over
by previous users. Whiteboards markers are thin. The words written do not leave a
strong impression compared to flip charts with absorbs the ink.
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9. Anchor yourself to deliver peak performance
Michael Lum, a certified NLP trainer, shows you how anchoring can recreate any
desirable experience you once had.
Would it be useful if you have a magic wand, wave it and make butterflies in your
stomach disappear when you make a presentation? Would it useful if you can haveanother magic wand, wave it and make yourself totally motivated when you meet a
new client?
The waving of the magic wand is the stimulus. The outcome of confidence and
motivation is the response. The stimulus-response model was first studied by a
Russian psychologist, Ivan Pavlov. When he hit the tuning fork, his dog came and hefed it food. The dog salivated as it smelled and tasted the food. Each time he hit the
tuning fork, he gave the dog food. It salivated when it saw the food. One day, Pavlov
hit the tuning fork, the dog came. There was no food but the dog salivated. Thesound of the tuning fork is the anchor and the salivation is the response. This
conditioned response is the foundation of anchoring.
In Neuro-Linguistics Programming (NLP), anchoring is the stimulation of our senses
and it can recreate or revoke a prior experience. Any of our five senses, sight,hearing, feelings, taste or smell can be used as an anchor to trigger a desirable
experience like enthusiasm, motivation, pride, energy or curiosity. Examples of anchors we encounter daily are traffic lights, advertisement, music, ringing of the
alarm clock and school bell, smell of coffee and taste of certain food. When driverssee the red traffic light, they stop automatically. As the light turns green, they lift
their legs off the brakes and press the accelerator. An aroma of curry reminds us of our hunger. Smell of leather reminds the motorist that the car is still new. Our
behaviour results from conditioned response.
Effective anchors have the following characteristics. It is unique. The more unique ananchor is, the more effective it is. Hence, using a handshake as an anchor seldomnot work as you shake hands very often and with strangers too. An anchor must be
portable i.e. you have bring it whenever you go. A good anchor can be used home, inthe office, in the clients’ premises or at business meetings. An anchor must be
discrete i.e. you can fire the anchor without others noticing. You are feeling anxiouspresenting before your board of directors. An effective anchor allows you to fire off
without any of the directors noticing it. An anchor is inexpensive and repeatable. Themore often you repeat your anchor, the more effective it is. You can use an object or
part of your body to install an anchor.
An anchor can be auditory, for example, music, names, tone and birds chirping. A
particular piece of music can bring back pleasant memories. To recreate thatenjoyable experience, play the same piece of music and beautiful memories are
evoked. A photograph is a fine example of a visual anchor. Every time you want toreproduce a successful moment, look at the photograph of you winning an award.
Kinesthetic anchors can be installed in parts of your body, for example, squeezingyour fingers, touching your elbows, punching your hands into the air, leather chair,
brushing teeth or shower. Smell of petrol, gas, newborn baby and bread are olfactoryanchors. Examples of gustatory anchors are taste of chocolate, cakes, curry or
medicine.
If you feel anxious presenting before an audience, you can install an anchor, say by
squeezing your left thumb and index finger. By squeezing, you visualize you feeltotally confident in your presentation. Imagine, you are able to influence the
audience and answer their questions adequately. Every time before yourpresentation, squeeze your fingers to recreate that positive feeling. You feel
confident each time you fire that anchor i.e. squeezing of your fingers.
If you feel uneasy whenever you meet a new client, you can install a kinesthetic
anchor like a smile. It makes you relaxed, charming, friendly and non-threatening.Install this anchor (i.e. smile) each time you meet a new client in all business
environment. Soon, your client will begin to like and trust you. Business transactionis on the pipeline.
By anchoring, you eradicate your minor and irrational fears which limit your progress
in our career and business. Firing off anchors allows us to live positively and
purposefully. It empowers us to move forward and perform more challenging tasks.Every time we need some nudges, we can fire off the anchor. Once an anchor isinstalled, it can last a lifetime.
Anchors can be negative too. Sighting a police car leaves us questioning the speed
we drive or the offences we have committed. An engagement in public speakingsuggests anxiety and mild panic attacks. The mention of the word “examination”
gives a feeling of anxiety, images of inadequate preparation and inability to deliverour best.
You can learn more about anchoring, a module in the NLP practitioner program. This7-day program is taught by a certified NLP trainer.
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10. Win Over your Clients by Building Rapport
Michael Lum, a Certified NLP Trainer, shows how you can influence others more
persuasively by using NLP rapport technology.
Do you like to have the ability to persuade your clients more easily? Do you like
them to communicate more responsively? How can you create an atmosphere of trust and respect? How can you respect another’s viewpoint while keeping yours?
Wouldn’t it be useful if you can have access to all these skills?
Remember an occasion you enjoy having conversation with someone and you are
totally absorbed in it? Time passes so quickly before you realize you spend hours.Did you notice that your body adopts the same posture as the other person? Did you
observe that he trusts you completely? This is a person whom you have just met andyou feel that you have known him for years. Welcome to the world of rapport
technology.
Observe in interviews, presentations, meetings, negotiations and other businessfunctions. When people converse and transact business successfully, they are in
rapport. Rapport is created by matching and mirroring in Neuro-Linguistics
Programming (NLP).
Matching is a natural process. When people get on well, they do things naturally in a
synchronized way. People who are in rapport tend to mirror and match each another.It is like Argentine Tango, where dancers respond to each another movement
gracefully and sensitively. It is a bridge to other person’s line of thinking. Rapporttechnology is created on the premise that “people like people who are like
themselves”. On the contrary, when people are not like each other, they do not likeeach other.
Rapport creates trust, harmony and co-operation. It creates a condition where otherswill accept your suggestions uncritically. When you are in rapport with others, you
will find them responsive to you.
People who are in rapport with others share similar interests, values, philosophy,
food and entertainment. If you make yourself familiar and non-threatening, othersaccept you to their own sphere of activities.
Successful people create rapport. By matching and mirroring body physiology, youcan instantly create rapport with anybody. Rapport can be also enhanced by
matching the facial expression, eye contact, breathing and voice (tonality, speed,volume and rhythm of speech). It can be established by adopting the same
philosophy, values, beliefs and level of complexity in information processing. Fullrapport is like belting out your favourite duet with someone in a karaoke lounge.
Matching is not mimicking and exaggerating other person’s movement. Mimicking or“monkeying” another person only ridicules and embarrasses him. When you mirror
someone, do not be obvious or overdo it.
In a meeting, if your client is thinking, you can create rapport by being silent andwait for him to process his thoughts. Continuing your conversation weakens the
rapport. In a business function, you can match another person by the way he sit,talk, think, look and even breathe. If your client orders a mug of beer, leans over thebar counter, talks about the stock market in a soft voice slowly, breathes lightly and
taps his finger occasionally on the bar top, you can create instant rapport bymatching him. If your customer thinks and talks in a long term, you will decrease the
rapport by emphasizing issues in the short term. In a job interview, if your employersees mental pictures of sales presentation in his head, you will break the trust if you
hear sounds or feel with your body.
You can also match another person’s emotional state. If your colleague is upset, he
will feel better if you talk quietly and slowly. Do not overload him with information ordistract him with fast bodily movement. If your boss is over the moon in securing a
big order, celebrate his conquest by talking exciting, breathing heavily andexpressing joy in your facial features with rapid body movement.
To match successfully, you need to be congruent with yourself. Your words, thinking
and body physiology must agree with each another. If you say yes verbally, yourbody language must show signs of affirmation. Your head nods to suggest
congruence. Creating rapport with others is like catching a wild horse. First you haveto ride a horse and gallop at the same speed besides the wild horse. At the
appropriate moment, you jump and take over it.
On the contrary, mismatching is useful in other situations. Instead of saying itverbally, you can mismatch to express your displeasure. For instance, if your
supplier is taking too much of your time, you can mismatch physiologically to signalyour displeasure. In a negotiation when issues run into a brick wall, you can indicate
your desire to take a time out by mismatching the other party’s physiology, tone of voice and subject matter.
You can learn more about rapport technology, a module in the NLP practitionerprogram. This 7-day program is taught by a certified NLP trainer.