How to make people feel comfortable around you

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5 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE FEEL

COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU

Ethan Musolini


1. Give them your full attention


Why?

It shows that you care


It shows you respect the other person’s view


How?

Maintain eye contact

BUT don’t stare


Don’t interrupt until they are done


2. Initiate conversations


Why?

It says you are interested


How?

Greet


Comment on the weather

Ask about their likes or dislikes


Ask their opinion on a subject

Find out similar interests


3. Display welcoming body language


Why?

Makes you Approachable

Less intimidating


How?

Use open and friendly body language

Nod occasionally


Smile genuinely

lean in when you speak


Use friend cues like a head tilt or eyebrow flash


Avoid

Crossing arms or legs UNLESS you are mirroring


Looking away from the other person


4. Mix in some humor


Why?

Makes you fun to be around

Makes you interesting


How?

Share a joke

Tell a short story


5. Engage the intellect


Why?

Makes the other person feel like an expert


How?

Hit on something they can speak intelligently on

E.g. their work, travel, skills


2 Actions

1.Read a lot of jokes

2.Practice good grooming (smell good, look good)


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