How to-become-your-husbands-darling-10-tips-for-muslim-wives

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Use your 'Fitnah' to win the heart of your husband.

“All women have the “ornaments” that Allah

blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah

subhanuhu wa ta'ala has bestowed you with to

win the heart of your husband.

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When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting.

“Imagine your husband coming home to a

clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a

dinner prepared with care, children clean and

sweet smelling, a clean bedroom - what would

this do to his love for you? Now imagine what

the opposite does to him.

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Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them.

“The Qur'an and Sunnah describe the women

in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as

the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their

singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk

for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to

'enlarge' them, and sing to your husband.

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Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house.

“From the early years, little girls have adorned

themselves with earrings and bracelets and

worn pretty dresses - as described in the

Qur'an. As a wife, continue to use the jewelry

that you have and the pretty dresses for your

husband.

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Joke and play games with your husband.

“A man's secret: they seek women who are

lighthearted and have a sense of humor. As

Rasulullah (saw) told Jabir to marry someone

who would make him laugh and he would

make her laugh.

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Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does. Then thank him again.

“This is one of the most important techniques,

as the opposite is a characteristic of the

women of hellfire.

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An argument is a fire in the house. Extinguish it with a simple 'I'm sorry' even if it is not your fault.

“When you fight back, you are only adding fuel

to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument

will end when you just say sincerely, "Look, I'm

sorry. Let's be friends."

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Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah.

“Rasulullah (saw) taught us that any woman

who dies in a state where her husband is

pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So…

please him.

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Listen and Obey!

“Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is

the Ameer of the household. Give him that right

and respect.

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Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful.

“All good things are from Allah. Never forget to

ask Allah subhanuhu wa ta'ala for the blessing

of having a successful marriage that begins in

this Dunya and continues on - by the Mercy of

Allah subhanuhu wa ta'ala - into Jannah.

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LAST WORD

The referred narrative implies that the right of the

husband over his wife far exceeds the right of any

other human being over another human being.

And Allah subhanuhu ta'ala knows best.

“Rasulullah (saw) said:

If I were to command anyone to make

prostration before another I would command

women to prostrate themselves before their

husbands, because of the special right over

them given to husbands by Allah.

[Sunan Abu Dawud, 11:2135]