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(Sunrise: August 11, 1952 and Sunset: March 18, 2014)

Saturday, March 22, 2014

2:00 pm

Mount Vernon Baptist Church

1005 Lavanner Brown Drive

Hammond, LA 70403

Pastor Samuel C. Brown, Officiating

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Born on August 11, 1952 to Tom and Mary Louise Carter, of Hammond, LA, he grew up a good ole country

boy who knew about God, good creole cooking, guiding and protecting his siblings, and the value of hard

work, education and family. As a child, Gregory was inquisitive, talkative, mischievious, and stubborn, yet a

brilliant thinker. He was always known as “the smart one.” All these traits proved to serve him well later in

life as he became a fierce businessman and community activist managing and directing the political

campaigns and careers of many influential political leaders.

Gregory received a Bachelor’s of Science degree from Southeastern Louisiana University in Political Science

and was also a honorable member of the armed services (Army). Gregory served as a State Farm Insurance

Agent for 21 years before retiring. He also built a company along with his youngest daughter Kim; Carter

Consulting & Management Group, Inc. dedicated to providing excellence and innovation in management

practices. Gregory worked tirelessly in his efforts to improve humanity and guide young brilliant minds as a

mentor to many. His love for reading, the acquisition of knowledge and education was also evidenced in

his love for public speaking. He was often called upon to share words of wisdom and speeches that were

informative yet eloquent, creative, and moving.

Gregory’s love for food was equal to his zeal for learning. Early on he perfected many creole recipes and

became known for his Bar-B-Que and as the “King of Gumbo.” He was always found cooking a very

expensive pot of gumbo and his legacy will continue as his dream “Chef Uncle G’s” comes to fruition.

Gregory had a zeal and love for people like none other. He NEVER met a stranger! He enjoyed traveling the

world, spending time with his family, working with his many mentees, guiding his grandchildren, and

encouraging everyone he met.

Gregory valued the importance of integrity and family. He would always stress to his family that “the

covenant of family always, ALWAYS supercedes convenience!” Known as an overcomer, Gregory was a

TRUE SURVIVOR having pressed through many health struggles. Greg’s unrelenting faith and fortitude are

his legacy.

On Tuesday, March 18, 2014, Gregory Carter transitioned from his earthly home to be reunited with his

parents, Tom and Mary Louise Carter, his brothers (Tom Carter Jr., Willie Ray Carter, and Thaddeus Carter)

and sisters (Evelyn McCarter, Helen McGary, and Stephanie Jacob). He leaves to cherish his memory his

wife of 44 years, Faye Carter; one son, Ephraim “Tiger” Abdullah (Aliyyah Abdullah); two daughters

Danaquoa “Sundae” Allen (Arlo Allen) and Kim Carter Evans (Noble “Neal” Evans); ten grandchildren; Nia,

Gerald, Victoria “Tori”, Amir, Adam, Alexia “Lexi”, Muhammad, Dre’Lyn, Amira and Zacharia; one brother,

James Jerome Carter, Sr. (Mildred); three sisters, Geraldine Johnson, Elaine Carter and Cynthia Thorn; He

also leaves numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends to treasure his memory. The family would also

like to thank two special friends that aided in caring for him during his final days, Willie Brazil and Joanie

Weber.

Order of ServiceOrder of ServiceOrder of ServiceOrder of Service

Processional Pastor Samuel C. Brown and Family

Scripture Reading Old Testament – Pastor Ollie Hardaway, Jr.

New Testament – Pastor Andrew Jackson

Prayer Pastor Samuel C. Brown

Mount Vernon Baptist Church

Hammond, LA

Song Mount Vernon Baptist Church Mass Choir

Acknowledgement of Clergy Pastor Andrew Jackson

Acknowledgements, Cards, Tribute Dr. Kristi Isaac Rapp

Remarks Valarie Kelly

James Jerome Carter, Jr.

Victoria & Alexia Turner

Joyce Pugh

Reading of the Obituary Dr. Kristi Isaac Rapp

Song Minister Gilda Moore “Take Me to the King”

Eulogy Pastor Samuel C. Brown

Altar Call Pastor Ollie Hardaway, Jr.

Faith Christian Center, Vicksburg, MS

Recessional

BURIAL

Holly Garden Cemetary, North Holly St., Hammond, LA 70401

REPAST

Mount Vernon Baptist Church Fellowship Hall, 1005 Lavanner Brown Drive, Hammond, LA 70403

Pallbearers

Clifton “Brad” Turner Corey Baham

Blake Short Uland Thorn

Jarred Carter

Robert Isaac, Jr.

Dylan Jacob

Justin Turner

Honorary Pallbearers

Ephraim “Tiger” Abdullah Noble “Neal” Evans

James Jerome Carter, Jr.

James Jerome Carter, Sr.

Arlo Allen

Rodney McGary

Wayne Baham Willie Brazil

Willie “Chuckie” Jenkins Paul Winfield

CELEBRATING AND HONORING A VICTORIOUS LIFE!

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Papa’s Toys

We will Miss you Daddy!

““““Dancing with DaddyDancing with DaddyDancing with DaddyDancing with Daddy””””

My Tribute to You!!My Tribute to You!!My Tribute to You!!My Tribute to You!!

Words will never be able to express my love for you. I did my very best to show you while you were

here with us. I wasn’t the perfect daughter and I know I gave you a hard time but everyone always

said I was/am the female version of you…they say “I act, look and TALK…JUST LIKE MY DADDY!

When it came down to it; you were always there for me and I was always there for you when it

mattered most. I will carry everything you have taught me and pass it on to future generations. I

will continue to build your dreams, and live your legacy! Don’t worry Daddy….I GOT YOU! (…and

Momma, Tiger, Sundae and your grandbabies. I will be there for Uncle Jerome, Aunt Geraldine,

Auntie Elaine “Auntie,” Aunt Cynthia, ….well everybody!! I will take care of and honor them all in

your memory! I know how much you loved your family!)….And don’t worry Daddy…Me and the girls

are being well taken care of! Mr. Evans’ got you too!

Until we dance again, I leave you the words to “our song,”

Love Always,

Kim

"Daddy""Daddy""Daddy""Daddy"

Because you loved me I overcome

And I'm so proud of what you've become

You've given me such security

No matter what mistakes I know you're there for me

You cure my disappointments and you heal my pain

You understood my fears and you protected me

Treasure every irreplaceable memory and that's why…

I want my unborn son to be like my daddy, I want my husband to be like my daddy, There is no one else like my daddy

And I thank you for loving me

Even if my man broke my heart today

No matter how much pain I'm in I will be okay

Cause I got a man in my life that can't be replaced

For this love is unconditional it won't go away

I know I'm lucky

Know it ain't easy

For men who take care of their responsibilities

Love is overwhelming

Lord why did you pick me

Can't stop my tears from falling

I love you so much daddy

(Thank you, you've done so much for me. I love you daddy.)

I get so emotional daddy, every time I think of you

There is no one else like my daddy

No one else replace my daddy...

(Song Lyrics by Beyonce’)

Don’t Cry for me for I Live OnDon’t Cry for me for I Live OnDon’t Cry for me for I Live OnDon’t Cry for me for I Live On

Don't cry for me in sadness; don't weep for me in sorrow,

For I will be beside you, as sure as comes tomorrow.

My body has gone but my spirit lives on, as does my love for you.

Just as in life. I'll watch over you, I always will be true.

My blood lives on in my children and grandchildren, how I've watched them grow up with pride.

I'll live on within them, always by their side.

Reach out if you need me, for I will always be near.

Just talk to me, as if I am there, I promise I will hear.

For I'll live on, with in your mind, we'll never be apart,

As long as you keep my memory, deep within your heart.

So lift up your hearts, don't be sad, my spirit hasn't gone.

While you are still there, so am I, I really will live on.

Author unknown.

Acknowledgements

The Family wishes to acknowledge with deep appreciation the many expressions of love, kindness and

support shown during this hour of bereavement. We invite you to continue to celebrate his life,

genorisity, and love for family. Additionally, we would like to express gratitude to Mount Vernon

Baptist Church and Wright and Calvey Funeral Home. May God Bless and Keep You!

Sundae,

I want you Arlo and the boys to know that I will always love you. Arlo is a good man so you better get

it together and stick it out. I can hear you saying now….”Who does he think he is telling me what to

do?”….but I will tell you. “I am your Daddy girl, so stop being so hard headed!”....LOL! Remember the

covenant of marriage ALWAYS supercedes CONVENIENCE!

We can always wish that things had worked out differently and we can look back and think of all the

time we didn’t have together when you were younger or we can make a choice to remember all the

good times. Please take care of your little sister for me.

Don’t ever for another day think anything other than, You had your father’s love!

I will miss you all!

Love,

Daddy

Tiger,

The little boy in this picture I held so dear. There is no greater joy than a father’s love for his only son.

All I ever wanted for you was everything I had (a father who taught me the value of hard work and

family) and everything I didn’t have (THE WORLD). I know I pushed you and you often pushed back.

We didn’t always agree but one thing never changed…you ARE my one and only son and I love you.

Teach your boys everything I taught you, take them hunting, take them fishing and camping….MAKE

MEMORIES!

In the end, all we have is “Those we have made and those we have met along the way!”

Take care of your mother and your sisters for me. I pass the torch. You are the man of this family now.

You have two strong men standing to help you. Your sisters married some good men! I want you ALL

to be a family!

YOU ALL ARE MY LEGACY! All is forgiven, so let’s choose to forget and focus and remember only the

good. Let my big brother (your Uncle Jerome) know how much I love him!

I love you son,

Daddy

Faye (Boo),

No matter how things may have come to an end, we shared the greatest years of my life. You gave me

the greatest of all gifts, MY LEGACY! MY CHILDREN!

Always know that everything I did or didn’t do was for all of you. I only wanted what I thought was

best for my family.

I want you to remain close to my sisters. Kim has her instructions; help her carry them out. Take care

of them like they have cared for me.

Tell Elaine, Geraldine & Cynthia how much I love them, and I will miss them and all their bickering.

Be strong and LIVE! All is forgiven. I am home with the Lord now….until we meet again!

Love always,

Greg

PS…..There is no letter for Kim because I got the chance to tell her in person…..