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Lam’a_n Printers Hyd. 9440877806 Space for Advertisement To be used for educational purposes at mosques, homes, schools and colleges (Islämic culture) For mosque-based morning schools with breakfast schemes (that provide education and practical training) Good Manners and Etiquettes of Daily Life From: “Qur'änï wa Akhläqï Qäîdah” (Urdu, Hindi, Telugu and English) published by Isl̈ähï̈ Charitable Trust, Nizamabad, AP َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠO Muhä mmad ! You surely hold an excellent standard of character (good manner). (Qur'än 68:4) ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَُ َ ِ َ َ Prophet said: I have been sent to take (the concept of) noble character to the pinnacle. (Baihaqï's As-Sunan 21301) َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠOn the Day of Judgment, people with the best characters will be closest to the holy Prophet . (Ahm̈ ad 6447) ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَُ َ ِ َ َ The heaviest thing to be placed in the scale pan of a Believer would be good character (manner). (Tirmizï 1926) Say (O Prophet): .If you really love Allah, then follow me, and Allah shall love you and forgive you your sins. Allah is Most-Forgiving, Very-Merciful. (Qur'än 3:31) Practical guidelines for students, youths, be in future, like becoming a Hä̈ fiz,̈̂ an Âlim, a p.m. Before sleeping, (preferably) hold your person to Hell. These are Satanic acts. parents, teachers and general Muslims: doctor, an engineer, a post graduate, an tongue to punish it. Seek Alläh's forgiveness ◘Remember the day, month and year of the ◘Students and young people should pay advocate, a journalist, a scientist, an honest from all the sins of the day.◘Be regular to the Islämic Hijrï calendar and also of the special attention to cleanliness of body and politician, a businessman, a farmer, a public five Sälähs (Namäz)̈. Method for making Gregorian calendar. ◘Remember: The world clothes and should put on caps or täjs over their servant, etc (In Shä Alläh), and resolve to keep children regular Säläh-offerers : Habituate has been created for humans and humans have heads. ◘Teach the children etiquettes of away from begging and to serve humanity. Say them with regular prayers when seven years been created for the Hereafter. (Shuâb-ul Ïmän conversation like saying “please” (äp, jï, äiye, greetings to non-Muslim students and youths. old. When ten years old, separate their sleeping 10185) This world is a place of trial. jäiye, khäiye). Prevent them from using vulgar Intermingle with them and keep them inviting beds and if they miss a Säläh (Namäz)̈, beat Everybody has to answer five questions in the language, abuses and curses. Ask them to say towards Isläm. ◘For every good work, say them. (Abü Däwüd 418) Do not cook meal if Hereafter: 1. How did you utilize your life? 2. Taubah (repentance to Alläh) frequently. Ask Bismilläh, Shä Alläh, Sub-hä̈nalläh, somebody in the house misses a Sä läh and let To what extent did you put your knowledge to them to have friendship with studious students. Alhämdulilläh or Allähu Akbar, according to all miss one meal. Let all the adults and practice? 3. Wherefrom did you earn your ْ َ Keep them away from non-studious ones. children remain hungry. Repeat this as many wealth? 4. Where did you spend your wealth? ُ ْ َ ْ the situation ( ﺳﺒﺤﺎن ﷲ، اﻟﺤﻤﺪُ ، ﺑﺴﻢ ﷲ، ﻣﺎﺷﺎء ﷲَ َْ َ َ ِ َ ِ ◘Students and youths should not let their gazes times as needed. In Shä Alläh, all will become 5. In what acts did you degrade your body? َ ْ َ ). For a future intention, say In Shä ﷲ أﮐﺒﺮَ ُ upon their parents while talking. They should regular Säläh-offerers. ◘Ask the children to (Tirmizï: 2341) This world is a travelers'-inn َ ْ Alläh ( ). If you commit a sin, then say إن ﺷﺎء ﷲَ ِ lower their gazes. When entering the house, carry alms and charities to the needy. Provide for the Believer. It is a prison for him and a َ ْ َ ْ Astaghfirulläh ( ). Do a good work with ﺮ ﷲُ أﺳﺘﻐﻔِ they should say Saläm. Parents should teach for the fees or books of a poor student. Feed a Paradise for the Unbelievers (Muslim: 5256). the right hand and dirty works with the left them that Alläh says: “Do not say to them: uff person every day. Arrange for community Always remember that you are not alone: hand. On facing a trouble or losing an object, (a word or expression of anger or contempt) meal at the mosque every day so that travelers Alläh is with you and Satan is with every soul. َ ﯿْ ﻭإﻧﺎ إﻟ ﻟﻠﻪ إﻧﺎsay Innä lillähi wa innä ilaihi räjiûn̈ ( ِ َ ِ ِ ِ and do not scold them … and submit yourself or poor Säläh-offerers may get to eat. ◘Road Two angels (Kiräman Kätibïn, meaning noble ). ◘Mingle with others at home. Do not ﻌﻮنُ ﺭاﺟbefore them in humility out of compassion, etiquettes: Remove obstacles from the way writers) are with each of us, recording every َ ِ talk more than needed. Keep silent. Visit your and say, 'My Lord, be merciful to them.' ” like thorns, stones, banana-peels, etc. Do not word and act. All relations and friendships are neighborhood daily. Say Saläm and do service (Qur'än 17:23-24) The Crown-holder of park vehicles and bicycles on road. Thus there only before death. With death, all such َ to them. ◘Visit your relatives or call them to ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠMadïnah said: Paradise lies neither cause trouble to others nor get troubled. ties will be cut off. None will benefit the other, ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ your house every week or every month and under the feet of mothers. (Kanz-̈ul Um̂ mäl Help passers-by. Give your seat to an elder in except one's own good deeds. Good people organize a feast. Give financial aid to them. 45439) The father is the central gateway to buses and trains. Walk on the left. Honor the will get to meet relatives, family-members and ◘Say sorry on every wrongdoing. Repeat the Paradise. (Ahm̈ ad 20724) ◘Get up from sleep queues. Do not get in a hurry while driving and friends in the Paradise. ◘Remember that the َ ْ َ ْ words of Astaghfirulläh ( ) and waêfu ﺮ ﷲُ أﺳﺘﻐﻔwith the Fajr Azän. Say Saläm to family- thus prevent accidents. ◘Good manners: worshipping youth will be in the shade of ِ َ ْ ْ َ ْ ُ ânnä waghfir lanä warhämnä ( ﻭاﻋﻒ ﻋﻨﺎ ﻭاﻏﻔﺮ ﻟﻨﺎَ members, perform Wuzü̂ , offer Fajr prayer at Affection, mild temperament, simplicity, Alläh's throne on the Day of Judgment. ِ َ َ َ ْ ) 100 times every day and say Durüd ﻭاﺭﺣﻤﻨﺎmosque. Read the book Qur'änï wa Akhläqï fulfilling promises, sacrifice, steadfastness (Bukhärï 620) ◘Hadïth: My Lord has َْ َ Sharïf: Allähumma sälli âlä sayyidinä Qäîdah published by Isl̈ähï̈ Charitable Trust. (Säbr), thankfulness, lawful earning, honest commanded me to do nine things: (1) fearing muḧammadin̂ wa âlä äli sayyidinä Fold up your beds. Sweep the house and clean transactions, truthfulness, etc. are guarantors of Alläh in public and in solitude (2) saying ٰ ّ َ muhä mmadin ̂ wa bärik wa sallim ( ٰ ﻋﻠَ ﱢﻞ ﮭﻢ ﺻُ اﻟﻠthe toilet. Massage the hands and feet of Paradise. Learn them and practice them. ◘Evil equitable words in pleasure and in anger (3) َ ْ َ َ ) at least 63 ﻰ ﺁﻝ ﺳ ﱢﯿﺪﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﻭﺑﺎﺭﻙ ﻭﺳﻠﻢٰ ﺳ ﱢﯿﺪﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﻭﻋﻠــــــٍ َ ٍ parents. Brush the shoes of yours and theirs. manners: anger, falsehood, backbiting, taking a moderate path in poverty and in َْ َ َُ َِ َُ َِ َ ِ ِ times a day. ◘Television and computer: Do not Wash clothes. Do your work yourself. This is calumny, slander, stinginess, abusive prosperity (4) maintaining relations with him watch serials. Only watch Discovery the Sunnah (customary practice) of the Prophet language, ostentation, revenge, breaking who cuts it off (5) giving him who deprives me َ programs. Do not use cell phones ﯿْ .ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠExtend help to Muazzin Sä̈ hïb promise, hatred, ill-will, malice, unlawful (6) forgiving him who oppresses me (7) ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَُ َ ِ َ َ (unnecessarily). ◘ Do not use parents' vehicles. in cleaning the mosque. ◘Memorize your earning, fraud, quarrels, fights, bribery, making my silence a contemplation, and (8) Use bicycles instead. Go and purchase lessons. Respect your teachers. Do service to interest-exaction, singing, dancing, cinema, my speech a remembrance of Alläh (9) making necessary domestic commodities from market. them. Massage their feet when needed. Go to television serials, stealing, drinking wine, my sight a learning of moral. And I must enjoin Provide comfort to parents. Go to bed at 10:00 play after Âsr̈ . Firmly resolve what you want to accepting dowry, etc. are all evils which take a the virtuous acts. (Mishkät: 5358) ج، Put the Sunnah into practice and popularize it. Attain the reward of both the worlds by publishing this handbill. The Secret of Health and Cure for Diseases Medical benefits of Wuzü̈ , Sä läh, fasting, Tä härah (ceremonial cleanliness), and of the etiquettes of eating, drinking and sleeping “Alläh has made the human anatomical machine with His Own hands. While the exterior looks quite attractive and robust, the inner system is quite delicate and complicated. Each one of the nervous system, cardio-circulatory system, respiratory system, digestive system, excretory system and skeletal system which got completed in just nine months is a sufficient proof for this. To keep this anatomical machine healthy and to run it efficiently, there are rules laid out in the Sunnah of the holy prophet which are perfectly in sync with the laws and principles of this human machine. If one follows َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠthe Sunnah of the holy Prophet , his bodily machine ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَُ َ ِ َ َ runs well, else it breaks down. Look! The holy Companions ْ (Sä hä̈ bah) and Alläh's friends (walïs = noble Muslims) ﮭﻢُ ﺭﺿﻲ ﷲ ﻋﻨَُ ِ َ َ used to fall sick rarely. On the other hand, today, you find at least one sick person in every house.” (From the book Isl̈ äḧeMuâs̈ harahand Izä̈ la eMunkarät available in Urdu, Telugu, Hindi and English) Etiquettes of Life Etiquettes of Saläm Etiquettes of Saläm Etiquettes of eating and drinking َ ﯿﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠ ﺭﺿﻲ ﷲ◘The Prophet said: There General Etiquettes:– morsel or a grain falls one to eat more. ◘Ḧadïth: Âishah َ َ ُ َ ُ َ ِ ِ َ َ ْ ﻋﻨﮭﺎis no vessel filled by a man worse than 1. Spread dining sheet, down, then clean it and eat said: “The first misguiding innovation َ َ abdomen.It is enough for a man to sit around it and eat it (if it did not fall on a arose after the Prophet passed away consume a few morsels which would keep together in a single platter, or eat separately dirty place). 5. Before washing hands, lick was of overeating.” ◘Overeating or his back straight. If he is bent upon more, in plates. 2. The Sunnah posture is to squat your fingers. At the end of meal, recite this binging may lead to the following diseases: then he should reserve one-third for food, with both knees up, one leg up or both lying prayer: Alḧamdulillähillazï aẗ-âmanä wa 1. Mental illness 2. Eye ailments 3. Tongue ْ one-third for water and the last one-third down on the floor. In each of the three and throat related disorders 4. Chest and ُ اﻟﺬي ﻟﻠﻪ اﻟﺤﻤﺪsaqänä wa ja-âlanä muslimïn ( ِ ْ َ for air. (Tirmizï: 2302) ◘When a Persian postures, you automatically get limited to lung disease 5. Heart and valve disorder 6. ْ َ َ َ َ َ َ ﺴﻠﻤﯿـــــﻦْ – أﻁﻌﻤﻨﺎ ﻭﺳﻘﺎﻧﺎ ﻭﺟﻌﻠﻨﺎ ﻣTirmizï 3379) َ ِ ِ ُ َ َ َ َ َ َ َ doctor Ibn e Abï Maês̈übah read this, he filling up only one-third of your abdomen. Liver and pancreas malfunction 7. Medical benefits of Sunnah posture: said, “If people started following this 3. Recite the starting prayer for meals: Abnormal sugar level 8. Blood pressure With this practice, you are likely to remain ḧadïth, they will get safe from diseases, Allähumma bärik lanä fï mä raz̈aqtanä ailment 9. Brain hemorrhage 10. Paralysis healthy, else you might be afflicted with and clinics and pharmacies will be warz̈uqnä khairam minhu, bismillähi wa 11. Psychiatric disease 12. Depression 13. one or the other disease from time to time. ْ ّ َ َ ْ َ َ َ َ ﻢ ﺑﺎ ﺭﻙ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻓﻲ ﻣﺎ ﺭزﻗﺘﻨﺎُ اﻟـــــﻠﮭdeserted.” (Ganjïna e Ḧikmat by Ḧäfiẑ̈ Ibn âlä barakatilläh ( Paraplegia (Reference: Prof Richarboard َ ِْ َ َ ِ All ailments come from eating in a cross- ْ ْ ُ َ َ َ ﻰ ﺑﺮﻛﺔ ﷲٰ ﺴﻢ ﷲ ﻭﻋﻠــــــــــْ ُ ﺮا ﻣﻨﻪً ﯿْ ﺭزﻗﻨﺎ ﺧْ ﻭاRajab) – Ibn Davis, England) َ ِ ََ ِ َ ِ َ ِ legged posture, or while sitting on a chair Mäjah 3313). 4. Eat with the right hand. If a or while standing. These methods allow دwhich Drink in three breaths while sitting. ◘Say Saläm before starting a conversation. (Tirmizï 2623) ◘The nearest to Alläh are those who take the lead in salutation. (Abü Däwüd 4522/5178) ◘A person gets the reward for thirty virtues when he says:As Saläm u Âlaikum wa Rahm̈ atulläh i wa Barakätuh ُ ُ ُ َ َ َ ْ ﯿﻜﻢ ﻭﺭْ اﻟـــــ ﱠﺴﻼمﻋﻠ( ). (Abü Däwüd 4521/5176) ◘The rider ُ ﻤﺔ ﷲ ﻭﺑﺮﻛﺎﺗَ ََ ِ َ ْ ُ َ َ َ should first greet the pedestrian, and the pedestrian should take lead in greeting the one who is seated and a small group should greet a larger group (with As Saläm u Âlaikum). (Muslim 4019/5374) ◘When one of you meets his brother, he should salute him; then if he meets him again after a tree, wall or stone has come between them, he should salute him again. (Abü Däwüd 4524/5181) ◘(If there are several walls and rooms in a house, then one should say Saläm every time he crosses them. See the picture.) ◘The addressee of a Saläm should respond with: Wa Âlaikum-us Salämu wa ُ ُ ُ َ َ َ ْ ﯿﻜﻢ اﻟــــ ﱠﺴﻼم ﻭﺭْ ﻭﻋﻠRahm̈ atulläh i wa Barakätuh ( ) ◘The ُ ﻤﺔ ﷲ ﻭﺑﺮﻛﺎﺗَ ََ ِ َ ُ ُ َ َ َ َ completion of your greeting is a handshake. (Ahm̈ ad 21207) ◘To a non-Muslim, one should say: “Saläm, Brother”, “Ädäb ârz̈ hai”, “Namskär”, “Good Morning”, “Good Evening”, etc. If you need to sit on a chair, sit in a way that Sunnah is safeguarded. Eating together in one platter brings about blessings. Squat with both knees up, or one knee up, or both on the floor. This is the Sunnah posture. Etiquettes of eating and drinking ﺑﺳﻡ ﷲ ﺍﻟرﺣﻣﻥ ﺍﻟرﺣﻳﻡWith the name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Very-Merciful Etiquettes of Sneezing, Yawning and Sleeping Etiquettes of Sneezing and Yawning: ◙The sneezing person should say: Alhä̈mdulilläh (Praise be to Alläh), the listener should respond: Yarhä mukalläh (May Alläh have mercy on you!), at this the sneezer should say: Yahdïkumullähu wa yusl̈ihü bälakum (May Alläh guide you and ameliorate your state. – Bukhärï 5756) ◙The person should cover his face with his hand or cloth and keep the sound low. (Tirmizï 2669) ◙When one yawns, he should place his hand over his mouth, else the Satan would enter. (Muslim 5312) Etiquettes of Sleeping: ◙The preferred Sunnah way is to perform wuzü̂ , then lie down on one's right side keeping his right hand under his cheek. (Bukhärï 5836) ◙The prayer to be recited at the time of sleep is: Allähumma bismika amütu wa ahÿä (O Alläh! In Your name I die and live. – Bukhärï 5839) Sneezing and Yawning Etiquettes Sleeping Etiquettes Girls, adult women and old women should preferably wear shirt-salwär, kurtah, and scarf (orhnï) over their heads. Men should wear pajamas and pantaloons above their ankles. Clothing and Dressing Etiquettes ◙Allah will not look on the Day of Judgment at him who drags his robe (behind him) out of pride. And he will burn in the Hell-fire. (Bukhärï 3392) ◙Women should wear salwär and kurtä and cover their heads with scarfs and faces with veils. They should refrain from sari-blouse, fine translucent garments and men-like dresses. Women should keep their ankles covered. ◙Prefer white clothes and in them wrap your dead. (Tirmizï 915) ◙When َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠProphet wore turban, he would ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ hang its long end (shamlah) between his shoulders. (Tirmizï 1658) Health benefits: Wearing turban protects one from the loo-heatstrokes, strengthens the mind and improves memory. Etiquettes of Hair-Dressing and Facial Care َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠThe Prophet said: "Whoever can guarantee ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ (protection from sins of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him." (Bukhärï 5993) ◙The two things that will take the largest number of peole to the Hell are the mouth and the genitals. (Tirmizï 1927) ◙One day Ûmar bin Al Khaẗẗäb came upon Abuü Bakr As S̈iddïq while he was pulling out his tongue. Ûmar said to him, "Stop, may Allah forgive you!" Abü Bakr replied, "This has taken me to places of danger (sin)." (Mälik1567/56.5.12) ◙Every morning, all the organs pray humbly to the tongue: “Our fate is tied with you. If you are right, we also remain right. If you get crooked, we also get crooked.” (Tirmizï 2331) ◙Every night before sleeping, one should punish the tongue by catching hold of it, so that we get to repent every day and that we might refrain from evil talks and useless speeches. Protection of Tongue Punish the tongue every day Etiquettes of Bathing َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠ◙Abü Hurairah narrated: The Prophet said: ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ "Five practices are characteristics of the Fiẗrah (natural virtue): circumcision, shaving the pubic region, clipping the nails, cutting the moustaches short, and removing the armpit hair." (Bukhärï 5438) ◙Anas reported: A time limit has been prescribed for us for clipping the moustache, cutting the nails, plucking hair under the armpits, shaving the pubic hair. It should not be neglected for more than forty nights. (Muslim 379/497) ◙Ibn َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠÛmar narrated: Allah's Apostle said, "Cut the ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ moustaches short and leave the beard (as it is)." (Bukhärï 5443) َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠ◙Abü Hurairah narrated: The Prophet said: “He ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ who has hair should honour it.” (Abü Däwüd 3632/4151) In other words, if a person has long hair on head and has beards, he should take care of them. Etiquettes of Purification and Bathing Etiquettes of Purification (toilet) Cleanliness is half of faith. (Muslim 328/432) ◙Before entering toilet, recite this prayer: ْ ْ ُ َ ُ ْ ُ َ Allähumma inni auz̈̂ ubika minal khubuthi wal khabä'ith. (ﺚ ﻭاﻟﺨﺒﺎﺋﺚُ ﻢ إﻧﻲ أﻋﻮﺫ ﺑﻚ ﻣﻦ اﻟﺨﺒُ اﻟﻠﮭَ ِ َِ ِ ِ َ ِ ِ = O Allah! I seek refuge with You from all offensive and wicked things (evil deeds and evil spirits. – Bukhärï 139) ◙One should enter the wash room with left leg first. Cleaning should also be done with the left hand. ◙One should not sit facing the Qiblah (the direction of Kaêbah). ◙Urination should not be done while standing. (Muslim 385/504, Tirmizï 12) ◙Water, pebble, soil-lump or tissue paper should be used for cleaning. ◙Upon getting out of the wash-room, one should recite this prayer: Alhämdulillähil-lazï َ ْ َ ْ ْ َ َ ُ azhaba ânnil-azä wa âf̈änï ( = Praise be to Alläh who اﻟﺬي أﺫﻫﺐ ﻋﻨﻲ اﻷﺫى ﻭﻋﺎﻓﺎﻧﻲ ﻟﻠﻪ اﻟﺤﻤﺪَ َ َ ِ َ ِ َْ َ removed the filth from me and relieved me. – Ibn e Mäjah 297) Health benefits: ◙Spitting, urinating and defecating in the direction of Qiblah have been forbidden. ◙Dr Zaron Ladi Buster and Alexandra have found out through research that there are positive rays all around the Holy Kaêbah which are spreading out in the entire world. By facing Kaêbah during these acts, he will constantly be harmed by the negative rays. ◙By sitting according to the Sunnah during relieving oneself in wash-room, one is protected from perpetual constipation, piles and kidney-ailments. ً there is a dog or a picture of a living come back. Don't peek into a house. ). When they are seven ﻝ ﷲُ ﺳﻮُ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﺭMiscellaneous Etiquettes: ◙Do not ِ َ َُ creature (a human being or an animal). Stand by the side of the main gate, not in years old, habituate them with regular walk in a haughty gait. (Qur'än 17:37) (Bukhärï 5493) ◙When you write a letter to the front. When you go to your mother, S̈aläh (Namäz̈). When they reach ten ◙When you knock at the door and somebody, begin with your name. (Abü then also seek permission. ◙When years, separate their beds, and if they someone from inside enquires about Däwüd 4468/5115) ◙When you visit babies begin to talk, teach them the miss prayers, beat them. (Tirmizï: 418) you, then don't say: “I”. Rather, say your somebody's house, seek permission to K a l i m a h : L ä i l ä h a i l l a l l ä h u name. (Bukhärï 5781/8.74.267) ◙Angels (of َ َ enter. If you do not get permission, Muḧammad-ur Rasülulläh ( ﻻ إﻟﻪ إﻻ ﷲmercy) do not enter a house wherein ُ َ ِ ِ Verbal and Practical Test (Ask yourself daily whether you have acted upon them or whether you plan to act in future (In Shä Alläh) Questions: (1)Are you with T̈ahärah (8)What do you want to become in future: stones, banana skins, etc which come under (23)Say what are the etiquettes of sneezing, (ceremonial purity)? Have you had a look at Ḧäfiẑ̈, Â̈lim, doctor, engineer, graduate, the etiquettes of road? (14)Have you watched yawning and sleeping. (24)Say what are the the mirror for the purpose of tidying business man, public servant, advocate, television today? If so, which film or serial? etiquettes of wearing and clothing, and those yourself? (2)Do you have conversations in a editor, scientist, leader, farmer, laborer? Say Repent and vow not to repeat. (15)Have you of facial care and hair dressing. (25)How respectful manner? (e.g. in Urdü, using äp, jï, In Shä Alläh. (9)What formulas (Duâ̈s) left your seat in bus, train, etc. for a woman or should you protect your tongue (from evil)? etc.) (3)What should you say on looking at should you recite, according to the Sunnah, an elderly man? (16)Have you met a non- Punish it by holding it. (26)Say what are the your parents? Recite it. Take part in cleaning for starting and ending the works from Muslim brother? Did you have exchange of etiquettes of Ghusl (bathing according to the house, washing clothes, and massaging morning to evening, and when faced with a greetings with him? Have you invited him for Sharïâh). (27)Say what are the etiquettes of parents' limbs. (4)Have you woken up with trouble, grief, deprivation or loss of an a feast or accepted his invitation? (17)Say T̈ahärah. (28)What are the miscellaneous the Fajr Azän itself? (5)Have you offered the object? (10)Have you done any work at a what are good manners. (18)Say what are evil etiquettes? (29)What are the nine commands َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠfive prayers (S̈alähs) today? Or if you have neighbor's house, or visited it, or invited a manners. (19)What are the months of the which Alläh and His prophet ﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ ُ َ ِ َ َ missed a prayer, then have you remained relative or met him? (11)Have you sought Hijrï calendar and of the Christian Gregorian have proclaimed? Recite. (30)Say all the hungry (as atonement)? (6)Say the timings of forgiveness for today’s sins and for using calendar? Recite. (20)Say what is the secret medical benefits that one gets by following َ ﯿْ ﺻﻠﻰ ﷲ ﻋﻠthe five Azäns and S̈alähs in your abusive language? Have you sought Alläh's of health and cure for diseases. (21)Say what the Sunnahs of our loved Prophet َ ُ ِ َ neighborhood mosque. (7)Have you done forgiveness 100 times, and recited Durüd are the etiquettes of Saläm. Do you say Saläm and say the diseases which one is ﻭﺳﻠﻢَ َ any service to your teacher, have you in any Sharïf 63 times? 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Good Manners and Etiquettes of Daily Life

From: “Qur'änï wa Akhläqï Qäîdah” (Urdu, Hindi, Telugu and English) published by Islähï Charitable Trust, Nizamabad, AP ه وسلمO Muhammad ! You surely hold an excellent standard of character (good manner). (Qur'än 68:4)صلى هللا علی

Prophet said: I have been sent to take (the concept of) noble character to the pinnacle. (Baihaqï's As-Sunan 21301) ه وسلمOn the Day of Judgment, people with the best characters will be closest to the holy Prophet . (Ahmad 6447)صلى هللا علی

The heaviest thing to be placed in the scale pan of a Believer would be good character (manner). (Tirmizï 1926)

Say (O Prophet): .If you really love Allah, then follow me, and Allah shall love you and forgive you your sins.

Allah is Most-Forgiving, Very-Merciful. (Qur'än 3:31)

Practical guidelines for students, youths, be in future, like becoming a Häfiz, an Âlim, a p.m. Before sleeping, (preferably) hold your person to Hell. These are Satanic acts. parents, teachers and general Muslims: doctor, an engineer, a post graduate, an tongue to punish it. Seek Alläh's forgiveness ◘Remember the day, month and year of the ◘Students and young people should pay advocate, a journalist, a scientist, an honest from all the sins of the day.◘Be regular to the Islämic Hijrï calendar and also of thespecial attention to cleanliness of body and politician, a businessman, a farmer, a public five Salähs (Namäz). Method for making Gregorian calendar. ◘Remember: The world clothes and should put on caps or täjs over their servant, etc (In Shä Alläh), and resolve to keep children regular Saläh-offerers: Habituate has been created for humans and humans have heads. ◘Teach the children etiquettes of away from begging and to serve humanity. Say them with regular prayers when seven years been created for the Hereafter. (Shuâb-ul Ïmän conversation like saying “please” (äp, jï, äiye, greetings to non-Muslim students and youths. old. When ten years old, separate their sleeping 10185) This world is a place of trial. jäiye, khäiye). Prevent them from using vulgar Intermingle with them and keep them inviting beds and if they miss a Saläh (Namäz), beat Everybody has to answer five questions in the language, abuses and curses. Ask them to say towards Isläm. ◘For every good work, say them. (Abü Däwüd 418) Do not cook meal if Hereafter: 1. How did you utilize your life? 2. Taubah (repentance to Alläh) frequently. Ask Bismilläh, Mä Shä Alläh, Sub-hänalläh, somebody in the house misses a Saläh and let To what extent did you put your knowledge to them to have friendship with studious students. Alhamdulilläh or Allähu Akbar, according to all miss one meal. Let all the adults and practice? 3. Wherefrom did you earn your

Keep them away from non-studious ones. children remain hungry. Repeat this as many wealth? 4. Where did you spend your wealth? the situation (بسم هللا، ماشاء هللا، سبحان هللا، الحمد ◘Students and youths should not let their gazes times as needed. In Shä Alläh, all will become 5. In what acts did you degrade your body? ). For a future intention, say In Shä هللا أکبر هللا upon their parents while talking. They should regular Saläh-offerers. ◘Ask the children to (Tirmizï: 2341) This world is a travelers'-inn

Alläh ( ). If you commit a sin, then say إن شاء هللا lower their gazes. When entering the house, carry alms and charities to the needy. Provide for the Believer. It is a prison for him and a Astaghfirulläh ( ). Do a good work with أستغفر هللاthey should say Saläm. Parents should teach for the fees or books of a poor student. Feed a Paradise for the Unbelievers (Muslim: 5256).the right hand and dirty works with the left them that Alläh says: “Do not say to them: uff person every day. Arrange for community Always remember that you are not alone:hand. On facing a trouble or losing an object, (a word or expression of anger or contempt) meal at the mosque every day so that travelers Alläh is with you and Satan is with every soul. ه) say Innä lillähi wa innä ilaihi räjiûn إنا لله وإنا إلی and do not scold them … and submit yourself or poor Saläh-offerers may get to eat. ◘Road Two angels (Kiräman Kätibïn, meaning noble

). ◘Mingle with others at home. Do not راجعونbefore them in humility out of compassion, etiquettes: Remove obstacles from the way writers) are with each of us, recording every talk more than needed. Keep silent. Visit your and say, 'My Lord, be merciful to them.' ” like thorns, stones, banana-peels, etc. Do not word and act. All relations and friendships are neighborhood daily. Say Saläm and do service (Qur'än 17:23-24) The Crown-holder of park vehicles and bicycles on road. Thus there only before death. With death, all such

to them. ◘Visit your relatives or call them to صلى هللا علیMadïnah said: Paradise lies neither cause trouble to others nor get troubled. ties will be cut off. None will benefit the other, ه وسلم your house every week or every month and under the feet of mothers. (Kanz-ul Ummäl Help passers-by. Give your seat to an elder in except one's own good deeds. Good people organize a feast. Give financial aid to them. 45439) The father is the central gateway to buses and trains. Walk on the left. Honor the will get to meet relatives, family-members and ◘Say sorry on every wrongdoing. Repeat the Paradise. (Ahmad 20724) ◘Get up from sleep queues. Do not get in a hurry while driving and friends in the Paradise. ◘Remember that the

words of Astaghfirulläh ( ) and waêfu أستغفر هللاwith the Fajr Azän. Say Saläm to family- thus prevent accidents. ◘Good manners: worshipping youth will be in the shade of ânnä waghfir lanä warhamnä (واعف عنا واغفر لنا members, perform Wuzü, offer Fajr prayer at Affection, mild temperament, simplicity, Alläh's throne on the Day of Judgment.

) 100 times every day and say Durüd وارحمناmosque. Read the book Qur'änï wa Akhläqï fulfilling promises, sacrifice, steadfastness (Bukhärï 620) ◘Hadïth: My Lord has Sharïf: Allähumma salli âlä sayyidinä Qäîdah published by Islähï Charitable Trust. (Sabr), thankfulness, lawful earning, honest commanded me to do nine things: (1) fearing muhammadin wa âlä äli sayyidinä Fold up your beds. Sweep the house and clean transactions, truthfulness, etc. are guarantors of Alläh in public and in solitude (2) saying

muhammadin wa bärik wa sallim (ل على the toilet. Massage the hands and feet of Paradise. Learn them and practice them. ◘Evil equitable words in pleasure and in anger (3) اللھم ص ) at least 63 یدنا محمد وبارك وسلم یدنا محمد وعلــــــى آل س س parents. Brush the shoes of yours and theirs. manners: anger, falsehood, backbiting, taking a moderate path in poverty and in

times a day. ◘Television and computer: Do not Wash clothes. Do your work yourself. This is calumny, slander, stinginess, abusive prosperity (4) maintaining relations with him watch serials. Only watch Discovery the Sunnah (customary practice) of the Prophet language, ostentation, revenge, breaking who cuts it off (5) giving him who deprives me

programs. Do not use cell phones صلى هللا علی. Extend help to Muazzin Sähib promise, hatred, ill-will, malice, unlawful (6) forgiving him who oppresses me (7) ه وسلم (unnecessarily). ◘ Do not use parents' vehicles. in cleaning the mosque. ◘Memorize your earning, fraud, quarrels, fights, bribery, making my silence a contemplation, and (8) Use bicycles instead. Go and purchase lessons. Respect your teachers. Do service to interest-exaction, singing, dancing, cinema, my speech a remembrance of Alläh (9) making necessary domestic commodities from market. them. Massage their feet when needed. Go to television serials, stealing, drinking wine, my sight a learning of moral. And I must enjoin Provide comfort to parents. Go to bed at 10:00 play after Âsr. Firmly resolve what you want to accepting dowry, etc. are all evils which take a the virtuous acts. (Mishkät: 5358) ج

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The Secret of Health and Cure for Diseases

Medical benefits of Wuzü, Saläh, fasting, Tahärah (ceremonial cleanliness),andoftheetiquettesofeating,drinkingandsleeping“Alläh has made the human anatomical machine with His Own hands. While the exterior looks quite attractive and robust, the inner system is quite delicate and complicated. Each one of the nervous system, cardio-circulatory system, respiratory system, digestive system, excretory system and skeletal system which got completed in just nine months is a sufficient proof for this. To keep this anatomical machine healthy and to run it efficiently, there are rules laidout in theSunnahof theholyprophetwhichareperfectly insync with the laws and principles of this human machine. If one follows

علی هللا theصلى Sunnah of the holy Prophet , his bodily machine وسلم ه runs well, else it breaks down. Look! The holy Companions

(Sahäbah) and Alläh's friends (walïs = noble Muslims) عنھم هللا رضي used to fall sick rarely.Ontheotherhand, today,youfindat leastone sick person in every house.” (From the book Islähe Muâsharah and Izäla eMunkarätavailable in Urdu, Telugu, Hindi and English)

Etiquettes of Life

Etiquettes of Saläm

Etiquettes of Saläm

Etiquettes of eating and drinking صلى هللا علیه وسلم –:The Prophet said: There General Etiquettes◘رضي هللا morsel or a grain falls one to eat more. ◘Hadïth: Âishah

,is no vessel filled by a man worse than 1. Spread dining sheetعنھا down, then clean it and eat said: “The first misguiding innovation abdomen.It is enough for a man to sit around it and eat it (if it did not fall on a arose after the Prophet passed away consume a few morsels which would keep together in a single platter, or eat separately dirty place). 5. Before washing hands, lick was of overeating.” ◘Overeating or his back straight. If he is bent upon more, in plates. 2. The Sunnah posture is to squat your fingers. At the end of meal, recite this binging may lead to the following diseases: then he should reserve one-third for food, with both knees up, one leg up or both lying prayer: Alhamdulillähillazï at-âmanä wa 1. Mental illness 2. Eye ailments 3. Tongue

one-third for water and the last one-third down on the floor. In each of the three and throat related disorders 4. Chest and الذي ) saqänä wa ja-âlanä muslimïn الحمد لله for air. (Tirmizï: 2302) ◘When a Persian postures, you automatically get limited to lung disease 5. Heart and valve disorder 6. – أطعمنا وسقانا وجعلنا مسلمیـــــن Tirmizï 3379) doctor Ibn e Abï Maêsübah read this, he filling up only one-third of your abdomen. Liver and pancreas malfunction 7.◘Medical benefits of Sunnah posture: said, “If people started following this 3. Recite the starting prayer for meals: Abnormal sugar level 8. Blood pressureWith this practice, you are likely to remain hadïth, they will get safe from diseases, Allähumma bärik lanä fï mä razaqtanä ailment 9. Brain hemorrhage 10. Paralysishealthy, else you might be afflicted with

and clinics and pharmacies will be warzuqnä khairam minhu, bismillähi wa 11. Psychiatric disease 12. Depression 13.one or the other disease from time to time. ) deserted.” (Ganjïna e Hikmat by Häfiz Ibn âlä barakatilläh الـــــلھم با رك لنا في ما رزقتنا Paraplegia (Reference: Prof Richarboard All ailments come from eating in a cross-

– (Rajabوارزقنا خیرا منه بسم هللا وعلــــــــــى بركة هللا Ibn Davis, England) legged posture, or while sitting on a chair Mäjah 3313). 4. Eat with the right hand. If a or while standing. These methods allow

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◘Say Saläm before starting a conversation. (Tirmizï 2623) ◘Thenearest to Alläh are those who take the lead in salutation. (Abü Däwüd 4522/5178) ◘Aperson gets the reward for thirty virtues when he says: As Saläm u Âlaikum wa Rahmatulläh i wa Barakätuh

ورح علیكم سالم )الـــــ ). (Abü Däwüd 4521/5176) ◘The rider مةهللاوبركاته should first greet the pedestrian, and the pedestrian should take lead in greeting the one who is seated and a small group should greet a larger group (with As Saläm u Âlaikum). (Muslim 4019/5374) ◘When one of you meets his brother, he should salute him; then ifhe meets him again after a tree, wall or stone has come between them, he should salute him again. (Abü Däwüd 4524/5181) ◘(If there are several walls and rooms in a house, then one should say Saläm every time he crosses them. See the picture.) ◘The addressee of a Saläm should respond with: Wa Âlaikum-us Salämu wa

ورح سالم الــــ Rahmatullähوعلیكم i wa Barakätuh ( ) ◘The مةهللاوبركاته completion of your greeting is a handshake. (Ahmad 21207) ◘To a non-Muslim, one should say: “Saläm, Brother”, “Ädäb ârz hai”, “Namskär”, “GoodMorning”, “GoodEvening”, etc.

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Etiquettes of eating and drinking

With the name of Allah, the All-Merciful, the Very-Mercifulبسم هللا الرحمن الرحيم

Etiquettes of Sneezing, Yawning and Sleeping

Etiquettes of Sneezing and Yawning: ◙The sneezing person should say: Alhämdulilläh (Praise be to Alläh), the listener should respond: Yarhamukalläh (May Alläh have mercy on you!), at this the sneezer should say: Yahdïkumullähu wa yuslihu bälakum (May Alläh guide you and ameliorate your state. – Bukhärï 5756) ◙The person should cover his face with his hand or cloth and keep the sound low. (Tirmizï 2669) ◙When one yawns, he should place his hand over his mouth, else the Satan would enter. (Muslim 5312)Etiquettes of Sleeping: ◙The preferred Sunnah way is to perform wuzü, then lie down on one's right side keeping his right hand under his cheek. (Bukhärï 5836) ◙The prayer to be recited at the time of sleep is: Allähumma bismika amütu wa ahyä (O Alläh! In Your name I die and live. – Bukhärï 5839)

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Sleeping Etiquettes

Girls, adult women and old women should preferably wear shirt-salwär, kurtah, and scarf(orhnï)over theirheads.

Men should wear p a j a m a s a n dpantaloons above their ankles.

Clothing and Dressing Etiquettes

◙Allah will not look on the Day of Judgment at him who drags his robe (behind him) out of pride. And he will burn in the Hell-fire. (Bukhärï 3392) ◙Women should wear salwär and kurtä and covertheir heads with scarfs and faces with veils. They should refrain from sari-blouse, fine translucent garments and men-like dresses. Women should keep their ankles covered. ◙Prefer white clothes and in them wrap your dead. (Tirmizï 915)◙When

ه وسلم Prophet wore turban, he wouldصلى هللا علی hang its long end (shamlah) between his shoulders. (Tirmizï 1658)

Health benefits: Wearing turban protects one from the loo-heatstrokes, strengthens the mind and improves memory.

Etiquettes of Hair-Dressing and Facial Care

ه وسلم The Prophet said: "Whoever can guaranteeصلى هللا علی (protection from sins of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs (i.e. his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him." (Bukhärï 5993) ◙The two things that will take the largest number of peole to the Hell are the mouth and the genitals. (Tirmizï 1927) ◙One day Umar bin Al Khattäb came upon Abuü Bakr As Siddïq while he was pulling out his tongue. Umar said to him, "Stop, may Allah forgive you!" Abü Bakr replied, "This has taken me to places of danger (sin)." (Mälik1567/56.5.12) ◙Every morning, all the organs pray humbly to the tongue: “Our fate is tied with you. If you are right, we also remain right. If you get crooked, we also get crooked.” (Tirmizï 2331) ◙Every night before sleeping, one should punish the tongue by catching hold of it, so that we get to repent every day and that we might refrain from evil talks and useless speeches.

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Etiquettes of Bathing

Abü Hurairah narrated: The Prophet◙صلى هللا علی said: ه وسلم "Five practices are characteristics of the Fitrah (natural virtue): circumcision, shaving the pubic region, clipping the nails, cutting the moustaches short, and removing the armpit hair." (Bukhärï 5438) ◙Anas reported: A time limit has been prescribed for us for clipping the moustache, cutting the nails, plucking hair under the armpits, shaving the pubic hair. It should not be neglected for more than forty nights. (Muslim 379/497) ◙Ibn

ه وسلم Umar narrated: Allah's Apostle said, "Cut theصلى هللا علی moustaches short and leave the beard (as it is)." (Bukhärï 5443)

ه وسلم Abü Hurairah narrated: The Prophet said: “He◙صلى هللا علی who has hair should honour it.” (Abü Däwüd 3632/4151) In other words, if a person has long hair on head and has beards, he should take care of them.

Etiquettes of Purification and Bathing

E t i q u e t t e s o f Purification (toilet)

Cleanliness is half of faith. (Muslim 328/432) ◙Before entering toilet, recite this prayer: Allähumma inni auzubika minal khubuthi wal khabä'ith. ( اللھم إني أعوذ بك من الخبث والخبائث

= O Allah! I seek refuge with You from all offensive and wicked things (evil deeds and evil spirits. – Bukhärï 139) ◙One should enter the wash room with left leg first. Cleaning should also be done with the left hand. ◙One should not sit facing the Qiblah (the direction of Kaêbah). ◙Urination should not be done while standing. (Muslim 385/504, Tirmizï 12) ◙Water, pebble, soil-lump or tissue paper should be used for cleaning. ◙Upon getting out of the wash-room, one should recite this prayer: Alhamdulillähil-lazï

azhaba ânnil-azä wa âfänï ( = Praise be to Alläh who الحمد لله الذي أذهب عني األذى وعافاني removed the filth from me and relieved me. – Ibn e Mäjah 297) Health benefits: ◙Spitting, urinating and defecating in the direction of Qiblah have been forbidden. ◙DrZaron Ladi Buster and Alexandra have found out through research that there are positive rays all around the Holy Kaêbah which are spreading out in the entire world. By facing Kaêbah during these acts, he will constantly be harmed by the negative rays. ◙By sitting according to the Sunnah during relieving oneself in wash-room, one isprotected from perpetual constipation, piles and kidney-ailments.

there is a dog or a picture of a living come back. Don't peek into a house. ). When they are seven محمد رسول هللاMiscellaneous Etiquettes: ◙Do not creature (a human being or an animal). Stand by the side of the main gate, not in years old, habituate them with regular walk in a haughty gait. (Qur'än 17:37) (Bukhärï 5493) ◙When you write a letter to the front. When you go to your mother, Saläh (Namäz). When they reach ten◙When you knock at the door and somebody, begin with your name. (Abü then also seek permission. ◙When years, separate their beds, and if they someone from inside enquires about Däwüd 4468/5115) ◙When you visit babies begin to talk, teach them the miss prayers, beat them. (Tirmizï: 418)you, then don't say: “I”. Rather, say your somebody's house, seek permission to K a l i m a h : L ä i l ä h a i l l a l l ä h u name. (Bukhärï 5781/8.74.267) ◙Angels (of

enter. If you do not get permission, Muhammad-ur Rasülulläh (ال إله إال هللا mercy) do not enter a house wherein

Verbal and Practical Test(Ask yourself daily whether you have acted upon them or whether you plan to act in future (In Shä Alläh)

Questions: (1)Are you with Tahärah (8)What do you want to become in future: stones, banana skins, etc which come under (23)Say what are the etiquettes of sneezing, (ceremonial purity)? Have you had a look at Häfiz, Âlim, doctor, engineer, graduate, the etiquettes of road? (14)Have you watched yawning and sleeping. (24)Say what are the the mirror for the purpose of tidying business man, public servant, advocate, television today? If so, which film or serial? etiquettes of wearing and clothing, and those yourself? (2)Do you have conversations in a editor, scientist, leader, farmer, laborer? Say Repent and vow not to repeat. (15)Have you of facial care and hair dressing. (25)How respectful manner? (e.g. in Urdü, using äp, jï, In Shä Alläh. (9)What formulas (Duâs) left your seat in bus, train, etc. for a woman or should you protect your tongue (from evil)? etc.) (3)What should you say on looking at should you recite, according to the Sunnah, an elderly man? (16)Have you met a non- Punish it by holding it. (26)Say what are the your parents? Recite it. Take part in cleaning for starting and ending the works from Muslim brother? Did you have exchange of etiquettes of Ghusl (bathing according to the house, washing clothes, and massaging morning to evening, and when faced with a greetings with him? Have you invited him for Sharïâh). (27)Say what are the etiquettes of parents' limbs. (4)Have you woken up with trouble, grief, deprivation or loss of an a feast or accepted his invitation? (17)Say Tahärah. (28)What are the miscellaneous the Fajr Azän itself? (5)Have you offered the object? (10)Have you done any work at a what are good manners. (18)Say what are evil etiquettes? (29)What are the nine commands

ه وسلم five prayers (Salähs) today? Or if you have neighbor's house, or visited it, or invited a manners. (19)What are the months of the which Alläh and His prophetصلى هللا علی missed a prayer, then have you remained relative or met him? (11)Have you sought Hijrï calendar and of the Christian Gregorian have proclaimed? Recite. (30)Say all the hungry (as atonement)? (6)Say the timings of forgiveness for today’s sins and for using calendar? Recite. (20)Say what is the secret medical benefits that one gets by following

ه the five Azäns and Salähs in your abusive language? Have you sought Alläh's of health and cure for diseases. (21)Say what the Sunnahs of our loved Prophet صلى هللا علی neighborhood mosque. (7)Have you done forgiveness 100 times, and recited Durüd are the etiquettes of Saläm. Do you say Saläm and say the diseases which one is م وسل

any service to your teacher, have you in any Sharïf 63 times? (12)Have you given some to all you meet from morning to evening? afflicted with upon ignoring the Sunnahs. way helped him, or have you massaged his aid to a poor or fed an indigent? (13)Have you (22)Say what are the etiquettes of eating and (31)Say the harms of the non-Islämic limbs? Have you prayed to Alläh for him? removed troublesome objects like thorns, drinking and say their medical benefits. customs which we have adopted presently.

trips for 3, 10, 30 or 100 days to provide every human service, generosity, eradication of credits; conducting employment courses for Compiled by: Jamäât e Isläh e Muâsharah day four-hour training in residential localities evils, mosque service, and repentance and Âlims and Häfizs; populating mosques; wa Izäla e Munkarät (an NGO of holy and markets, and four-hour training in contrition. ◙Providing guidance for education establishing Bait-ul Mäl, morning schools clerics of all Islämic schools of thought.)mosques for reforming, educating, training and employment projects aimed at students, with provision of breakfast; forming Isläh e Aims and Objectives: ◙Action-oriented and encouraging, oneself and other people to youths and the poor. ◙Establishing family Muâsharah committees consisting of Âlims campaign for popularizing Alläh's worship, put into practice virtues like Saläh (Namäz), welfare societies, marriage centers, Muslim and Häfizs at the levels of mandals, towns, His servants' service and honoring of others' good manners, etiquettes of everyday life, finance centers for providing interest-free and districts, etc. Contact us.rights. ◙Encouraging people to go on Jamäât

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