668 For all Parish emails, add @stmatthias.net Pastor: Rev Abraham Orapankal, abraham Parochial Vicar: Rev. Msgr. Joseph Curry, jcurry Pastoral Staff Deacon Russell Demkovitz, rdemkovitz Ana V Kelly, Marketing & Development, akelly Dolores R. Nann, Faith Formation, dnann Mary Beth Oria, Business Administrator, moria Deacon John Radvanski, deaconjohn Joan Best Seamon, Music Ministry jseamon Sr Marie Therese Sherwood, OSF, Social Concerns, msherwood Phyllis Stone, Liturgy/RCIA and Administrative Assistant to the Pastor, pstone St. Matthias School (add @stmatthiasnj.org) Elena Malinconico, Principal Joseph Gidaro, Vice Principal, jgidaro Parish Office Staff Kelly Counts, Day Receptionist Nathalie Godet, Formation/Parish Support Sec. Leslie Guillen Evening Receptionist/Bulletin Editor Amy Hanna, Parish Support Secretary Joan Jones, Evening Receptionist Vinnie Natale, Bookkeeper Denise Sawicki, Accountant Trish Stumper, Parish Support Secretary Maintenance Staff Julio Montero, Maintenance Supervisor Mario Brown, Custodian Conroy Davis, Custodian Juan Diaz Flores, Custodian Silvia Nizama, Housekeeper St. Matthias Parish Office: Open (8:30-4 Mon-Thurs; 8:30-1 Fri) 168 JFK Boulevard, Somerset, NJ 08873, 732-828-1400, fax: 732-828-0866, www.stmatthias.net Parish Office Building: use emails below . Our office phone is now fully staffed during the day. Mass Schedule: Every Sunday on our YouTube channel: (Private masses are also being cele- brated) St. Matthias School (SMS): 170 JFK Boulevard, Somerset, NJ 08873 732-828-1402; www.stmatthias.info The Catholic Community of St. Matthias Sunday, Jul 5, 2020 – Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Weekend and Two Weekday Masses (Tue/Thurs) now in person (see below) All Masses will be live- streamed at: www.youtube.com/c/ StMatthiasSomersetNJ and also available on demand. Registration is Now Open for St. Matthias School. Call the school office at 732-828-1402 to schedule a tour or learn more information. Volunteers Needed! As we welcome people back into our church building, we find ourselves in need of a greater number of volunteers. We especially need Hospitality Ministers (to help guide people to the pews, to Communion, etc.), and volunteers to help with Sanctuary Safety (e.g., wiping down the pews and other surfaces after each Mass). Training will be provided. We need many volunteers for both ministries and each one only takes a very short amount of time to do. Please contact Phyllis Stone, [email protected], with questions or to volunteer. THANK YOU! Weekend & Weekday Mass with a Congregation Are Mass schedule (with YOU present in the church) is now as follows: Tuesday & Thursday 8AM Mass Sat. 5:00PM Mass Sunday 10:00AM & 1200PM Mass If you are able to join us in person, please follow all safety guidelines, in- cluding wearing a mask and staying at least 6 feet away from others. We are able to accommodate up to 100 people at each mass (overflow for the weekend masses will be in the cafeteria; if the cafeteria is full, addi- tional overflow will be in your car via livestream.) Weekday masses and a weekend mass (beginning at 5 pm Saturday) will continue to be available on our YouTube channel, www.youtube.com/c/ stmatthiassomersetnj.
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For all Parish emails, add @stmatthias.net
Pastor: Rev Abraham Orapankal, abraham
Parochial Vicar: Rev. Msgr. Joseph Curry, jcurry
Pastoral Staff
Deacon Russell Demkovitz, rdemkovitz
Ana V Kelly, Marketing & Development, akelly
Dolores R. Nann, Faith Formation, dnann
Mary Beth Oria, Business Administrator, moria
Deacon John Radvanski, deaconjohn
Joan Best Seamon, Music Ministry jseamon
Sr Marie Therese Sherwood, OSF, Social Concerns,
msherwood
Phyllis Stone, Liturgy/RCIA and Administrative Assistant to the Pastor, pstone
Tuesday: Hos 8:4-7, 11-13; Ps 115:3-4, 5-6, 7ab-8,
9-10; Mt 9:32-38
Wednesday: Hos 10:1-3, 7-8, 12; Ps 105:2-3, 4-5,
6-7; Mt 10:1-7
Thursday: Hos 11:1-4, 8e-9; Ps 80:2ac and 3b, 15
-16; Mt 10:7-15
Friday: Hos 14:2-10; Ps 51:3-4, 8-9, 12-13, 14 and
17; Mt 10:16-23
Saturday: Is 6:1-8; Ps 93:1ab, 1cd-2, 5; Mt 10:24-
33
Sunday: Is 55:10-11; Ps 65:10, 11, 12-13, 14; Rom
8:18-23; Mt 13:1-23 or Mt 13:1-9
Readings for the Week
Pray for those who are sick... If you or a family member are sick, please email Kelly Counts at [email protected] to add the name to this list. Names will be listed
in the bulletin for 6 weeks. Please let us know if this time period needs to be extended. We want to know how you are doing and want
to offer you the support of our prayers.
Pray for those who have died...
Kimberly Hancoviz—wife of Jacob -”His mercy endures forever.” Chronicles
Elbren, Sr. & Natalia Agdeppo
Rosemary Albaugh
Lourdes Banaag
Genevieve Bonk
Clement Bottone
Dylan Braunstein
Timothy Brennan
Marie Brody
Baby Isla-Rose Callahan
Tara Capatosto
Ellen Catalina
Frank Catalina
Daria Cergnul
Merna Chambers
Darrie Christmas
Charles Connellly
Lisa DeFeo
Mary Ellen Delaney
Nancy Diaz
Vanessa DiRocco
Mary Dolan
Dorothy Domenici
Jaclyn, Ariana & Thomas
Donlon
Anthony Driz & Family
Mary Eads
Briana Edwards
Jim G.
Emma Gergely
Rose Gessner
Mary Gidaro
Jeanne Gita
John Gross
Michael Haagerty
Emma A. Himey
Merla Isabelo
Pamela Kannaire
Michael Kirugi
Milicent Kraft
Herman Krueger
Taylor LaCort
Alexander LiCausi
The Litrakis Family
Monique Marie Mageot
Patrick Mahoney
Michelina Malafonte
Lourdes Maniego
Elizabeth Miller
Marius Moran
Ursula Morgenberger
Dave Moynihan
Julianne Opydike
Pace
Elsa Pesigan
Jim Pettit
Samantha Renaud
Angie & David Rind
Maria Schwenzer Sr. Jessy, OSF
Sr. Mary Amata Shina, OSF
Sr. Rosaria Shina, OSF
Dorothy Smith
Encarnacion (Gina) So
Dennis Stuewe
Roseann Szani
Juan Ulerio
Denise Urquhart
Luzminda Villarica
Mona Wilson
Mark T. Worthington
Edward Yeager
Everyone who is ill with Covid-19
...and for all who are
homebound, elderly, in nursing
care, or living with chronic illness
Mass Intentions for the Week*
*The Mass intentions will be fulfilled by Fr. Abraham and Fr. Joe as they celebrate private masses for these intentions, when we don’t
have a public mass scheduled. Everyone is welcome to join us in spirit as we pray for these intentions.
Saturday, Jul 4 5:00PM William Oberlander, by Vinnie
Sunday, Jul 5 8:00AM Msgr. Joseph Penna, by The Penna Family
10:00AM Floyd Krebs, Jr., by The Steltenkamp Family
12:00PM Louis Taraborelli, by Lisa DeCenzo
5:30PM Intention of Parishioners
Monday, Jul 6 8:00AM Sr. Maria Dereola, Feast Day Blessings, by OSF
Community
Tuesday, Jul 7 8:00AM Concepcion Prodon-Calaunan, by Purita Aligaen
Wednesday, Jul 8 8:00AM Birthday Blessings for Mary Gidaro, by son, Joseph
Gidaro
Thursday, Jul 9 8:00AM Nicandro Ventura, by Menchie
Friday, Jul 10 8:00AM James Mulcahy, by Barb Garabrant & family
Saturday, Jul 11 5:00PM Joseph Gidaro, by Mary, Doreen & Joseph
Sunday, Jul 12 8:00AM Rose Jeffers, by The Seiwert Family
10:00AM Bill Murphy, by St. Matthias Handbell Choir
12:00PM Intention of Parishioners
5:30PM Marty Engelhardt, by The Enright Family
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Smile with Your Family
Father William, the old priest, made it a practice to visit
the parish school one day a week. He walked into the 4th
grade class, where the children were studying the states,
and asked them how many states they could name. They
came up with about 40 names. Father William jokingly
told them: “When I was your age, I knew the names of all
the states. How come you don’t?” One smart boy raised
his hand and said, 'Yes Father, but in those days there
were only 13 states.” ☺
Mark Twain: "It is by the goodness of God that in our
country we have those three unspeakably precious
things: freedom of speech, freedom of conscience, and
the prudence never to practice either of them." ☺
Alvin: My great-grandfather fought with Napoleon, my
grandfather fought with the French and my father fought
with the Americans.
Alex: Your relatives couldn’t get along with anyone,
could they? ☺
Q: What did one flag say to the other flag?
A: Nothing. It just waved! ☺
Marriage Tune-Up
Independence is an important step on the
journey to adulthood, but marriage also
requires dependence. I depend on you to keep your word,
to be there when I'm feeling hurt, to watch the kids so I
can have a break. How do you depend on one another?
Parenting Tune-Up "...although you have hidden these things from
the wise and the learned, you have revealed
them to little ones." (Mt 11:25) What have you
recently learned from your child?
Sunday Reflections
Disturbing Statistics on Stress
A few years ago, The Comprehensive
Care Corporation of Tampa, Florida pub-
lished a booklet about stress in our mod-
ern world. The facts are disturbing. (1)
One out of four (that’s 25% of Americans) suffers from mild
to moderate depression, anxiety, loneliness and other pain-
ful symptoms which are attributed mainly to stress. (2) Four
out of five adult family members see a need for less stress in
their daily lives. (3) Approximately half of all diseases can
be linked to stress-related origins, including ulcers, colitis,
bronchial asthma, high blood pressure and some forms of
cancer. (4) Unmanaged stress is a leading factor in homi-
cides, suicides, child abuse, spouse abuse and other ag-
gravated assaults. (5) The problem of stress is taking a tre-
mendous toll economically, also. Americans are now
spending 64.9 billion dollars a year trying to deal with the
issue of stress.
That is why Jesus shared the “Good News” with us a long
time ago when He said: “Come to me all of you who labor
and are heavy laden and I will give you rest” (Mt 11: 28).
What should we do to experience the rest that Jesus prom-
ises? We need to unload our burdens on the Lord. This is the
main purpose of our personal and family prayers and one
of the functions of Divine Worship in the Church. During our
daily prayers in the evening we ask God’s forgiveness for
the sins and failures of day and receive the consoling as-
surance that we are reconciled with God and our fellow
human beings. During the Holy Mass in our parish church,
we place our stress-filled lives on the altar and allow Jesus
to cool down the overheated radiators of our hectic
lives. We also unload the burdens of our sins and worries
on the altar and offer them and ourselves to God during the
Holy Mass.
“If I Keep My Bow Always Stretched,
It Will Break!”
Once, St. Anthony the hermit
was relaxing with his disciples
outside his hut when a hunter
came by. The hunter was surprised and mildly shocked to
see the saint taking it easy. This was not his idea of what a
monk should be doing, and he rebuked the saint. But An-
thony said, "Bend your bow and shoot an arrow." The
hunter did so. "Bend it again and shoot another," said An-
thony. The hunter did so-- again and again. At last the
hunter said, ”Father Anthony, if I keep my bow always
stretched, it will break." "So it is with a monk," replied Antho-
ny. "If we push ourselves beyond measure, we will break; it
is right from time to time to relax our efforts." Jesus gives us
the same message in today’s Gospel.
Jesus’ claim: "My burden is light" does not mean that the
burden is easy to carry, but that it is laid on us in love. This
burden is meant to be carried in love, and love makes
even the heaviest burden light. When we remember the
love of God, when we know that our burden is to love, both
directly and by loving others, the God Who loves us, then
the burden becomes easy. Jesus is returning to the simplic-
ity of God's original Covenant and Law, giving people what
they need to guide them on their path easily. By following
Jesus, a man will find peace, rest, and refreshment. Alt-
hough we are not overburdened by the Jewish laws, we
are burdened by many other things: business, concerns
about jobs, marriage, money, health, children, security, old
age and a thousand other things. Jesus' concern for our
burdens is as real as his concern for the law-burdened
Jews of his day. "Come to me, all you that are weary and
are carrying heavy burdens and I will give you rest" (11:
28). Jesus still gives us rest! Is Jesus calling on those who
are carrying heavy loads to come and add a yoke to their
burden? Doesn’t that sound like adding affliction to the af-
flicted? No; Jesus is asking us to cast away our burdens
and take on his yoke. This is because, unlike the burdens
we bear, his yoke is easy and his burden light. The yoke of
Jesus is the love of God. By telling us: "Take my yoke . . .
and you will find rest" (11:29), Christ is asking us to do things
the Christian way. When we center in God, when we follow
God’s commandments, we have no heavy burdens.
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Sunday Reflections Worriers or Warriors?
Author Stephanie Stokes Oliver in her book, Daily
Cornbread, asks whether we are worriers or warri-
ors. Chronic worriers let their anxiety and fear inter-
fere with living their life to the fullest. They manifest
their worry in physical symptoms like headaches
and knotted muscles. Worriers seem unable to
take control of their situation and make a positive
change for themselves.
Warriors, on the other hand,
find healthy ways to deal with
their fears. They don't auto-
matically shut down and go
into crisis mode. They trust
that God will sustain them.
Warriors take positive action
to change a negative situa-
tion. (Stephanie Stokes Oliver, New York: Double-
day, 1999). Astronaut Jim Lovell is a warrior. In a
news conference, he was asked about Apollo 13.
He was in command of that spacecraft when it
experienced an explosion on its way to the moon.
With their oxygen almost gone, their electrical sys-
tem out, their spaceship plunging toward lunar
orbit, it appeared Lovell and his crew would be
marooned hundreds of thousands of miles from
Earth. Lovell was asked, "Were you worried?" Such
as obvious question drew snickers. But then Lovell
gave a surprising answer. "No, not really." he said.
"You see, worry is a useless emotion. I was too busy
fixing the problem to worry about it. As long as I
had one card left to play, I played it." [Second
Thoughts--One Hundred Upbeat Messages for Beat
-up Americans by Mort Crim (Health Communica-
tion, Inc., Deerfield Beach, Florida, 1997), p. 154].
Jim Lovell is a warrior.
Pope Francis’ Words of
Encouragement
Weep not for what you have lost,
fight for what you have.
Weep not for what is dead,
fight for what was born in you.
Weep not for the one who abandoned you,
fight for who is with you.
Weep not for those who hate you,
fight for those who want you.
Weep not for your past,
fight for your present struggle.
Weep not for your suffering,
fight for your happiness.
With things that are happening to us, we begin
to learn that nothing is impossible to solve, just
move forward.
The Sweetest Sound
There is a story that Hebrew families tell their children to help
them understand the fourth commandment. The fourth com-
mandment reads, "Six days you shall labor but on the seventh you
shall rest." The story is called, "The Sweetest Sound." The main
character in the story is King Ruben. It goes something like
this. The king asked his royal subjects, "What is the sweetest melo-
dy of all?" Early the next morning they gathered all sorts of musi-
cians. The sound awoke the king and all morning he listened to
their tunes. But, after listening to all of them he could not tell
which was the sweetest sound. Finally, one subject suggested
they all play together. It was so noisy the king couldn't
think. About that moment a woman, dressed in her Sunday best,
pushed to the front of the crowd and stepped forward. "O, king,"
she said, "I have the answer to your question." The king was sur-
prised since she had no instrument. "Why didn't you come earli-
er?" he asked. She replied, "I had to wait until the setting of the
sun." The musicians were still playing and the king told them all to
stop. The woman then took two candles and placed them on
the king's balcony rail. She lit them just as the sun continued to
set. The flames glowed in the evening darkness. She then lifted
her voice and said, "Blessed art thou, O Lord, Our God, King of
the universe, who sanctified us with the commandments and
commanded us to kindle the Sabbath lights." She then said, "He
who has an ear, let him hear." Everyone was completely still.
"What is that?" asked the king." He could not hear a sound. The
woman then replied, "What you hear is the sound of rest, the
sweetest melody of all."
Jesus said, "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and
I will give you rest." This is also the sweetest sound any of us can
hear. Jesus is interested in lifting off our backs the burdens that
suck the life out of us, so that he can place around our necks his
own yoke that brings to us and to others through us, new life, new
energy, and new joy. We are called, not only to find peace, re-
freshment and rest for ourselves, but also to live the kind of life
through which others, too, may find God's peace, God's refresh-
ing grace, and the joy of placing their lives in God's hands.
Some Quotes on Freedom
"If the freedom of speech is taken away then dumb and silent
we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
--George Washington
"For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in
a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others."
--Nelson Mandela
"I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the
death your right to say it." --Voltaire
Sunday Reflections
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Being Good Stewards Stewardship Reflection Jul 5, 2020
Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
“For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.” (Matthew
11:30)
When we think of being good stewards, we may think
that God is asking too much of us when He calls us to
generously share our time, talent, and treasure. Howev-
er, we must remember that we are not “owners” of any-
thing, we are merely “stewards” of the gifts God has
given us. All He is asking is that we give back a small por-
tion, in gratitude, of what He has already given to us.
Reflexiónes — 5 de julio de 2020
14º domingo del Tiempo Ordinario
"Porque mi yugo es suave, y mi carga ligera". - (MATEO 11:30)
Cuando pensamos en ser buenos administradores, podemos
pensar que Dios nos está pidiendo demasiado cuando nos
llama a compartir generosamente nuestro tiempo, talento y
tesoro. Sin embargo, debemos recordar que no somos
"dueños" de nada, somos simplemente "administradores" de los
dones que Dios nos ha dado. Todo lo que está pidiendo es
que le devolvamos una pequeña porción, en agradecimiento,
de lo que ya nos ha dado.
Discovering God: Formation
Are You between 8 and 100+ Years
Old?
If you answered “YES”, we need YOUR input!
Please take 3 minutes now to complete this short
survey. It will ask you to select the most im-
portant need our parish should address next. We
will use your responses to select a parish-wide
project. This will be coordinated by our Next Lev-
el youth, and will involve the entire parish com-
munity. The link for the survey is: http://bit.ly/
nextlevelparish Thank you!
P.S. This survey should be completed by every
individual in your family who is at least 8 years
old!
Stewardship Totals for Fiscal Year 2019-2020 2019-Last Year's
Current Month Checks Parish Giving Weekly Total Weekly Total
June 7, 2020 $9,099.50 $13,249.63 $22,349.13 $27,115.79
June 14, 2020 $15,050.00 $13,149.63 $28,199.63 $26,898.79
June 21, 2020 $10,224.00 $13,064.63 $23,288.63 $30,307.79
June 28, 2020* $0.00 $0.00 $0.00 $25,359.79
Month-to-date Total Monthly Total
$73,837.39 $109,682.16
Current Year-to-date Total Year-to-date Total
$1,294,636.18 $1,554,140.17
*Please Note: This bulletin was due at the printer before the June 28 weekend due to the 4th of July holiday. We will update the col-lection information in next week’s bulletin.
Youth Groups — Update
The Youth Groups will take a break
over the 4th of July weekend, and
will start back up next Sunday.
The schedule for this month will be:
Sundays — July 12, 19, and 26
Junior High Youth Group — 6 PM
High School Youth Group — 7 PM
All gatherings will be online. Please contact Fr. Joe for online