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Essentials of Supervision 2014 Nonprofit Essentials Conference

Lisa Negstad Negstad Consulting LLC

[email protected] 618-3511

Minnesota Council of Nonprofitswww.MinnesotaNonprofits.org

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Essentials of Supervision

Do Happier People Work Harder?

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Engaged Employees

Mission Impact

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Happy employees have on average: 31% higher productivity

37% higher sales

3x higher creativity— Meta-analysis of 225 academic studies

by Lyubomirsky, King and Diener

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“ A heightened emotional connection that an employee feels for her organization, that influences her to exert greater discretionary effort to her work.” — David Rock

Engagement is …

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Gallup poll found that only 29% of employees are engaged in their jobs.

Right Management in recent online survey found that 19% of employees are satisfied; 16% are somewhat satisfied; 21% are somewhat dissatisfied and 44% are unsatisfied

Mercer study of 30,000 workers worldwide: 32% of workers in the US wanted to find new work.

3 Studies:

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Employees don’t quit organizations,

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Employees don’t quit organizations, they quit bosses.

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Think of the best experience you have had with a supervisor. What was one thing that supervisor did that contributed to your positive experience?

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Role of Supervisor

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Best Self Map © Karen Tax and Associates

Authentic

Best Self

Happy

CourageousEnergized

Flexible

Appreciative

CuriousStrong

FlowingConfident

Open

Calm

Present

Passionate

KnowledgeableClear

martyr thinking

busyness

Disappointment

Struggle

Doubt

Unknown

Blame

ComparisonsSacrificeConflict Worry / Anxiety

shoulds

Problems

Overwhelm

FearSuffering

Complacency

TolerationsVictim Thinking

ChallengesDefensiveness

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Awareness

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“ In observing leaders for 40 years, I have never seen one fail for lack of IQ. But I have seen hundreds fail who lacked emotional intelligence.” — Bill George

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Emotional Intelligence

Step 1: Self-Awareness

Step 2: Self-Management

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Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse — by John Gottman

Criticism (finding fault/judging)

Contempt (disdain/scorn)

Defensiveness (seeing yourself as victim)

Stonewalling (silence/withdrawing)

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What makes your employee tick?

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Golden Rule

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“ Every great manager’s first response – no matter the situation – is always to think about the individual concerned and how things can be arranged to help that individual experience success.” — Marcus Buckingham

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Essentials of Supervision

LeversStrengths/Weaknesses

Motivations

Learning Style

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9% employee engagement increased to 73% when the organization focused on employee’s strengths. — Gallup

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“ Millennials want to hear the truth from their bosses, they want feedback and they want it right away.” — Nonprofit Quarterly

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Coach Approach

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Coach Approach________________________________

Build Trust

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Coach Approach________________________________

Build Trust________________________________

Critical Skills

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Coach Approach

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1. Be a good coach • Provide specific,

constructive feedback, balancing the negative and the positive.

• Have regular one-on-ones, presenting solutions to problems tailored to your employee’s specific strengths.

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A development model where employees are invited to explore learning – with the assumption that they are capable of growing, acquiring new knowledge, and succeeding.

Coaching is …

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Coach approach assumes everyone has the blueprint for success within his/herself.

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Boss vs. Coach

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Coach ApproachCheck Yourself1.

Question3.

Listen2.

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Coach Approach________________________________

Build Trust________________________________

Critical Skills

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“ Chance of employees being engaged at work is just 1 in 12 when they do not trust the company’s leaders. Rises to 1 in 2 if they trust the organization’s leaders.” — Gallup Poll

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Trust starts with you being trustworthy.

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We often judge others by their behaviors and ourselves by our intentions.

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Julio Olalla’s Trust Model

sincerity

reliability

competency

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Ways to Build Sincerity• Mean what you say and say what you mean

• Align your words and actions

• Ensure consistency - saying the same thing to different individuals

• Be intentional about your expectations (check understanding with others)

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Ways to Build Competency• Clarify the areas where you think you

are competent

• Identify the areas where you do not have skills, knowledge or capacity

• When you don’t know something, say so

• Ask for performance feedback from others

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Ways to Build Reliability• Keep commitments that you make

• Before you respond to a request, make sure you can do what is asked

• When you make offers to people, be clear about what you will do and what you won’t do

• If you aren’t sure if a conversation is requiring a commitment, ask.

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Coach Approach________________________________

Build Trust________________________________

Critical Skills

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Critical SkillsStructuring / On-boarding

Selecting

Goal Setting

Guiding

Supporting

Feedback

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StructuringInvolves creating a positive environment and context for the position by...• showing how the position contributes to the

mission of the organization

• writing a clear job description

• clarifying “how” the work should be done – e.g. key values/behaviors

• determining the non-negotiables of the job

• allowing for employee involvement in the structuring of the position

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SelectingSuccessfully recruiting for the position by...• being proactive in searching for the best candidates

• considering the strengths and profile of the best candidate

• taking into account how the candidate will complement the rest of your staff team

• carefully designing interview questions

• designing an interview process that includes informal time to try and get “a sense of the candidate”

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Goal SettingInvolves supporting the employee to...• set clear results-based goals for the work

• foster employee ownership of work and results

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GuidingEnsuring employees are on the “right path.” It involves...• regular employee check-ins to field questions and ideas

• offering affirmations and correcting course when needed

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SupportingIs being a champion for an employee within the organization by...• helping employee to work around obstacles

• ensuring employee has the right tools and resources to get the job done

• advocating for your employee throughout the organization

• watching for opportunities to link employee’s work to other areas inside and outside of the organization.

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Critical SkillsStructuring

Selecting

Goal Setting

Guiding

Supporting

Feedback

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cost cost

cost cost

we think

actually

don’t confront confront

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Feedback:C = ConnectO = ObservationI = ImpactN = Next Steps

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