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Behavioral Crisis
Prevention and
Intervention The Dynamics of Non-Violent Care
Relationship is the single most important therapeutic modality for
ameliorating threats of violence, emotional crises, and the need
for restraint. Dr. Peter Breggin, Joint Commission on
The Nature of Aggression ..................................................................................................................................................... 7
What is violence? ........................................................................................................................................................... 10
Why do people act violently? ........................................................................................................................................ 10
What happens physiologically as aggression escalates? ................................................................................................ 11
What is the relation of trauma to violence and coercion? .............................................................................................. 13
What are risk factors (within the person receiving services) for aggression or violence? ............................................. 15
What factors in the care environment contribute to safety and dignity? ........................................................................ 17
What are your values and beliefs in relation to conflict and aggression? ...................................................................... 18
How do you manage your own responses? .................................................................................................................... 18
STAGES OF DANGER (Lalemond) .................................................................................................................................. 22
Agitated/Aggressive Behavior Versus Non-Compliance ............................................................................................... 22
Professionalism along the continuum of care: ............................................................................................................... 24
Nonviolent communication skills ....................................................................................................................................... 29
Principles of effective communication .......................................................................................................................... 29
Applying the Principles of Social influence to De-escalation ........................................................................................... 34
Personal Safety .............................................................................................................................................................. 38
General Principles .......................................................................................................................................................... 38
General Principles .......................................................................................................................................................... 39
Ten Tips for Effective Verbal Interventions .................................................................................................................. 43
10 things we can do to contribute to internal, interpersonal, and organizational peace ................................................. 43
Information on Seclusion and Restraints ....................................................................................................................... 44
Reducing restraint related injuries and deaths ............................................................................................................... 45
Additional Communication Strategies ........................................................................................................................... 45
What is included in this program and why..................................................................................................................... 57
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About this course
Why ―The Dynamics of Non-Violent Care‖?
Although the word ―dynamics‖ has a very specific technical definition in physics, in this context it
refers to the social and psychological forces and actions within an organization that create, maintain,
and reinforce an environment that is inherently non-violent, even when faced with violence on the
pat of service users.
While an important outcome is to establish effective techniques for de-escalating situations of
escalating and potential violence, and to deal effectively and safely with aggressive persons, this
course takes a broader scope approach. This course presents, but does not focus on techniques of de-
escalation, rather on the principles behind the techniques, and the broader context of interpersonal
and organization interactions. The broader outcome of creating an environment of ―non-violent care‖
becomes the context in which these techniques are taught.
Author‘s note:
Workshops in conflict resolution, de-escalation and management of aggressive behaviors (including
physical techniques, and stress management are available by the author.
Besides its hormonal functions, adrenaline is also an excitatory neurotransmitter in the CNS
(indirectly controlling its own production). It is involved both in neural and hormonal processes and
its effects as a neurotransmitter are further reinforced by its hormonal function (a positive feedback
loop).
Adrenaline and cortisol are the most important hormones in regard to stress - taking a major role in
the stress reaction (and staying longer in the body than Autonomic Nervous System - [ANS]
processes).
Some researchers posit that the physiological cascade of responses can lead to a state of over release
of catecholamines, resulting in excited delirium syndrome. While the term ―Excited Delirium
Syndrome‖ is not a universally accepted medical term, it has been described by numerous clinical
researchers:
Delirium can alter sensation and render a person capable of extreme (abnormal) exertion
Can lead to cardiovascular collapse
Metabolic acidosis in cardiac arrest associated with use of restraint
Even though there is some controversy surrounding this concept, the import thing to be aware of is
that delirium defined as:
An acute, generally reversible, altered state of consciousness, consisting of confusion, distractibility, disorientation, disordered thinking and memory, defective perception, prominent hyperactivity, agitation, and autonomic nervous system overactivity.
Is a risk factor for harm when a person is violently agitated.
Normal body ph is 7.4. Autopsies of patients showed profound acidosis - 6.25
May be caused by a number of toxic, structural and metabolic disorders
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What is the relation of trauma to violence and coercion?
Until recently, trauma exposure was thought to be relatively rare (combat violence,
disaster trauma). Recent research has changed this.
One of the highest risk factors for experiencing trauma as a result of violence is a history of prior
traumatization.
Studies done in the last decade indicate that trauma exposure is common with 56 % of an adult
sample reporting at least one event in which they experienced trauma.
Exposure to trauma is even higher in the Mental Health Population:
90% of public mental health clients have been exposed
Most have multiple experiences of trauma
34-53% report childhood sexual or physical abuse
43-81% report some type of victimization
Current rates of PTSD in people with a diagnosed mental illness range from 29-43%
Majority of adults diagnosed BPD (81%) or DID (90%) were sexually or physically abused
as children
What is trauma informed care?
The prevalence and risk of traumatization requires organizations and individual staff members to
recognize the high rates of PTSD and other psychiatric disorders related to trauma exposure in
people with mental illness. Some key features of trauma informed care include:
Early and rigorous diagnostic evaluation with focused consideration of trauma in people with
complicated, treatment-resistant illness such as DID, BPD
Use neutral, objective and supportive language
Develop individual care plans that incorporate flexible approaches
Are based on current literature, and are informed by research and evidence of effective
practice
Are inclusive of the survivor's perspective
Recognize that coercive interventions cause traumatization and re-traumatization and are to
be avoided
Trauma, like pain, has both objective and subjective components. Like pain, one can not judge the amount of trauma by
looking only at objective measures. For example, objective we can look at a situation and say this patient started the
conflict, he became increasing agitated when appropriate interventions were attempted, and he was the aggressor, so we
had to restraint him for his and our safety. That‘s the objective component. Subjectively the patient may still perceive
himself to be the victim
One must consider the persons involved and their experience and interpretation of an episode of violence.
The greater the escalation of aggression the greater the chance of retraumatization.
Furthermore, it is not just service recipients that experience trauma as the result of violence or coercion. Staff members
involved in an episode of violence are at risk for traumatization as well.
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Trauma Informed Care services are NOT designed to treat the specific symptoms related to the past
trauma or abuse. Rather they are providers of care whose primary mission is not the treatment of
trauma. They treat the ―person‖ who has special needs due to their trauma history in a sensitive,
caring, and welcoming way.
You‘re likely to hear the term ―trauma informed care‖ in relation to mental health service, if you haven‘t heard it
already. The concept of ―trauma informed care‖ is gaining increasing attention, especially over the last few years. But
if you look at this list of what it entails you‘ll see that we‘ve been doing this for years.
When you hear the term, know that we provide trauma informed care as part of our unusual stand of care.
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o Examples of previous violent behavior include: physical or sexual aggression, fire setting with the
intent to cause property destruction, planned, premeditated violent acts and group or gang violence
that is organized with other perpetrators. In addition, people who have been severely physically
abused as children and/or are sociopathic are at greater risk.
Objectives: Participants will be able to describe factors that make a person at risk for violence
What are risk factors (within the person receiving services) for aggression or violence?
Violence occurs as an interaction of a person and with the environment. In addition to attending to
the environment in which services are provided, it is important to be aware of individual factors in
service recipients.
A person experiencing increasing aggression or agitation is in distress. He/She is experiencing
hurt, fear, grief, anxiety, or some other distressing emotion. Aggression is his/her way of resolving
or distracting from that emotion.
A number of individual factors indicate a higher risk for violent behavior in response to distress.
What are some of the most serious violence correlates?
Previous violent behavior #1 individual risk factor for re-occurrence
Previous history physical or sexual aggression
Previous history of S/R use
Specific command hallucinations with intent to harm
Intoxication or detoxification
Delirium
Delirium may be causally related to a number of factors including neurological or metabolic conditions or
intoxication or withdrawal, also poses greater risk. Common to these conditions is the disruption to one‘s
cognitive processes, misinterpretation and paranoia along with greater impulsivity and disinhibition.
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A consumer shared her experience in the
hospital. She approached a nurse who was
very busy and could not get the medication
that she needed at that moment.
The nurse told her in a heartfelt and
respectful way that she would have to wait:
―I‘m so sorry; I can‘t do this right now. I
know you‘re having a tough time; do you
feel like you can wait?‖
The power of an apology and real concern
made all the difference in terms of how this
interaction was experienced.
Objectives: Participants will be able to describe psychosocial factors within a care or service
environment that either contribute to or prevent aggression and violence
Violence in mental health settings has been blamed on the ―patient‖ for years.
Hundreds of studies have been done on patient demographics and
characteristics. Findings are variable and inconclusive.
More recently, studies have looked at the role of the environment in violence,
including staff. Situational factors refer to features or characteristics of the
environment in which they occur.
While acknowledging that patent characteristics is most often the single biggest factor in violence in
the care setting, it is also information to place focus on factors within the control of the care
provider. As was demonstrated in the famous Milgram
experiments of the 1960s, the environment is one of the most
powerful determinants of behavior. It is a factor care can
control.
Aggression depends on situational factors including the
social environment (example: status or to defend territory).
It is important to be aware of common
environmental triggers that lead to violence.
Triggering events leading to violence on a unit often
have to do with the way a person is treated in the most
basic of ways. Anger may be precipitated by the
enforcement of hospital policies, a sense of unfair treatment,
long wait times, or problems in the health care system.
Some factors in the care environment that can contribute to violence and aggression are:
Lack of structure/ Overly rigid rules and regulations
Institutional setting
Delays in care/ Understaffing
Unkempt setting, clutter, litter, disrepair
Poor temperature control
Spatial crowding
Limited or no staff training in conflict prevention and management
Younger staff with less experience
Consumers are labeled & pathologized as ―manipulative,‖ ―needy,‖ attention seeking
Misuse or overuse of displays of power - keys, security, demeanor
Culture of secrecy- no advocates, poor monitoring of staff
High rates of S/R & other restrictive measures
Poor management of medication: under or over medication
Little use of least restrictive alternatives other than medication
Institutions that emphasize ―patient compliance‖ rather than collaboration
Institutions that disempower and devalue staff who then ―pass on‖ that disrespect to service
recipients.
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Lack of/inadequate training in de-escalation or responding to aggression
Leadership and staff members within an organization have the responsibility to create an
environment of care that supports therapeutic relationships
What factors in the care environment contribute to safety and dignity?
Facilitate Empowerment of Service Users
Universal Screening for Trauma
Involve patient in treatment planning
Establish Safety for Patients
From the time of initial contact and throughout care communicate our commitment to
ensuring the physical, psychological, social and moral safety of patients.
Additional Factors
Non-institutional setting
Living plants
Cleanliness/organized work space
―Homey‖ environment
Use of comfort rooms/objects
Implement sensory rooms and sensory interventions
Manage overcrowding
We ask each patient questions, early in the admission process, to determine whether he or she has experienced
violence, abuse, neglect, disaster, terrorism, or war. These questions not only help to obtain the information
needed to plan an appropriate safety and recovery plan, but they also confirm to consumers/survivors that their
trauma histories matter.
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Self Management
Objective: Participants will be able to demonstrate self-awareness and self-management skills
in relation to situations of escalating aggression
What are your values and beliefs in relation to conflict and aggression?
Possible values/beliefs:
Avoid conflict at all costs
Never back down
My way or the highway
The ends justify the means
I‘m the boss
I know what‘s best
Speak softly and carry a big stick
I can‘t protect myself
Stick to the facts
The rules come first
How do you manage your own responses?
A person‘s state results from an interaction of physiological and cognitive processes. The
physiological response are largely automatic and non-specific (fight or flight response). The
cognitive processes primarily include self-talk (attribution and interpretation) and internal images.
Physiologically responses can not be addressed directly. A person must therefore self regulate self
talk and internal images. A third means of managing one‘s own state is to manage one‘s own
behavior.
Anticipation (What can go wrong?)
Risk assessment is an element of providing a safe and supportive environment; it is therefore a
professional responsibility to anticipate and plan for potential crisis situations.
This requires service providers to be aware of risk factors within individuals and within an
environment.
Risk assessment involves evaluating risk factors and intervening early so that we are able to prevent
aggressive behavior from occurring. We want to be able to identify early on, individuals in need of
assistance. We want to problem solve and address individual triggers, provide additional treatment
modalities, expand options and choices, and develop de-escalation preference plans in advance.
Response: Prevention/Preparation
The primary response to anticipated potential risks is prevention.
The primary means of prevention is to manage the environment to maximize therapeutic relationships between
service providers and service recipients.
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A secondary response is to prepare for the occurrence of crisis. This involves training in de-
escalation skills, physical interventions skills, and debriefing skills. Additionally it requires the
implementation of policies that govern the behaviors of care providers in the event of a crisis.
Expectation (What is likely to go wrong?)
Negatively, expectation of crisis can be an indication of inadequate prevention or preparation. It can
be an indication that the environment of care is lacking in therapeutic elements.
Positively, it can indicate a realistic assessment of a patient or situation that temporarily heighten the
possibility of violence.
Response: Practice
Practice involve the practice of both internal responses and external behaviors.
Internal behaviors (state management):
Fear prepares us to be mentally and physically ready to respond to a threat. Fear should be
recognized, acknowledged, and acted upon.
There is an effective three-step for managing fear.
1. Identify the threat
2. Dissect and de-mystify the threat
Fear, as with all emotions, must be managed indirectly. It‘s not enough to tell one‘s self, ―Don‘t be
afraid.‖ One must address the thoughts that maintain fear, both the internal dialogue and the images
one plays in one‘s head. Thought changing is an effective means of addressing one‘s fears. The time
to develop thought changing is not in the heat of the moment, but during times of deliberate practice.
In addition to attending to one‘s thought processes it is often helpful to practice mindfulness.
Over a long time period it can be stated that violence is to be expected. Short term there are times when the
potential for crisis is heightened due to the interaction of individual and environmental forces. Expectation in
this sense is more immediate than anticipation. If we expect violence to happen it can mean a number of things
This involves assessing the situation and all parties involved in an interaction. Effective interventions can only be
developed after knowing the factors in play. In de-escalation scenarios, it would be helpful to know who, what,
where, when and how a threat may present itself, both to you and to the patient.
Mindfulness draws on techniques commonly found in all spiritual traditions to help people maintain an open, nonjudgmental in-
the-present approach to everyday tasks. In the care setting the approach helps providers to be aware of how they are feeling and
how events in their own lives might be influencing how they react to service recipients.
A mindful approach helps one to stay flexible and adjust to constant changes in the care environment, to pay greater attention to
service recipients and treat them with respect.
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The most basic mindfulness practice is simply to be aware of one's own breathing concentrating on
breathing. As you bring your awareness to how you breathe in and out, you will also notice the
thoughts and feelings crowding your mind. Being acutely aware of what you're experiencing—the
racing heart, the tumbling thoughts—and accepting it without judgment, observing as it changes, has
a strong calming effect.
3. Prepare to deal with the threat.
As with most endeavors, there will be times when learning new techniques and honing previously
learned skills becomes necessary.
Detachment
Detachment is a type of mental assertiveness that allows people to maintain their boundaries and
their own emotional integrity when faced with the emotional demands of another. It is a positive and
deliberate mental attitude which avoids engaging the emotions of others.
What is it about the threat that makes it so frightening? Is it the fear of getting injured? Killed? Embarrassed? Those
are legitimate fears, but are they inevitable or only remotely possible? The solution to many fears is reality.
Analyze the current threat and try to determine how likely it is to occur, and what realistically is level of danger is
posed by the threat?
Additionally, one must be aware of one‘s own responses. How has the threat effected one‘s own behavior? How has
the threat effects one‘s own physiology?
You will need to master many skills if you are to be successful at your with dealing with persons throughout the
continuum of escalating aggression. Some of those skills are physical and require a certain level of proficiency.
However, there are many psychological skills that will be called upon much more often. Time spent on these areas
will pay big dividends in your interactions with potentially aggressive individuals. Managing fear is one of these top
skills.
Self preservation is a natural instinct; intentionally putting yourself in harms way is an unnatural act, but this is what
many roles require. Fear is a normal and necessary defense mechanism built into our DNA in order to preserve the
species. That being said, it is absolutely necessary to learn to work with, around and through fear if you are
effectively de-escalate a potentially violent situation.
Detachment is an important skill in dealing with conflict situation.
This detachment does not mean avoiding the feeling of empathy; rather it involves an awareness of empathetic
feelings that allows the person space needed to rationally choose whether or not to engage or be overwhelmed by
such feelings.
It can mean holding back from the need to rescue, save, or fix another person from being sick, dysfunctional, or
irrational, or the willingness to accept that you cannot change or control another person. A patient will make bad
choices regardless of what we attempt, and we have to respond to those choices. Positive detachment allows a
caregiver to approach the behavior of an angry, frightened or otherwise distressed person with an attitude of concern,
or even curiosity. An underlying principle for maintaining positive detachment is the recognition that short of
physically restraining someone, we can never fully control another person. We can influence others; we can provide
information; can make requests of others; but we can only control our own behavior.
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External behaviors:
External behaviors refer to all outward responses to an individual experiencing increasing
distress leading to aggression. This include verbal and nonverbal interactions. While one can not
always control one‘s internal responses, the care provider is absolutely responsible for his or her
external behaviors.
External behaviors will be examined in detail following a discussion of the stages of danger.
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STAGES OF DANGER (Lalemond)
A number of models to describe the escalation of aggression are in use by
various researchers, practitioners, and service providers. While there is
disagreement on the number of stages or levels, and how they should be
labeled, the consensus is that aggression or violence follows a continuum
of behaviors varying in intensity.
The Lalemond Behavior Scale offers staff a framework with which to conduct such an assessment. It
gives staff a common language in which five levels of danger are determined. This scale offers a
way to ―hear‖ second level messages and provide staff response options.
Agitated/Aggressive Behavior Versus Non-Compliance
Noncompliant behavior often precedes aggression, and it is often a sign of escalating aggression. It‘s
important, however, to be aware of the distinction between behavior that is merely non-compliant
(individual is merely not doing what we want him or her to do) and behavior of escalating
aggression.
Forms of non-compliance:
Reluctance—Individual does not believe that desired behavior is in his/her best interest. May be a
lack of motivation or understanding.
Reactance— Natural response to attempts to restrict behaviors/options
Resistance— Counter-behavior to deal with heightened anxiety
The model used is not as important as the fact that there is a specific model that all
staff members are using to describe the behaviors and stages.
While it is best to be as specific as possible when describing the behavior of those
being served and the staff‘s response, shorthand terms invariably become part of the
descriptions of incidents of escalating aggression. It is therefore important that all
staff members are in agreement when decoding what is meant by terms such as
―agitated‖, ―disruptive‖ or ―acting out‖.
It‘s only when there is agreement on a model, in terms of labels, the behavioral
components of each, and appropriate the responses to each level, that the model
becomes valuable as a means of communicating, and guiding staff members‘
responses in actual situations.
To label all noncompliance as aggression ignores the wider context in which behaviors occur. Staff response to
noncompliance is often the trigger for aggression.
The physical interventions that are appropriate in cases of violent or self-destructive behavior (for example: manual
holds, restraint/seclusion) are very different than those that are appropriate for noncompliance (for example:
escorting, leading).
Level
Behaviors Professional Role/Intervention
5. Threat of Lethal
This is the most dangerous but is actually seen the least.
Message: Stop me.
A very direct threat of suicide or serious aggression
Physical Intervention:
Personal Safety
Physical Control
4. Dangerous
Physical behaviors directed towards self or others. This
level usually includes gross motor movements and a loud
voice.
Message: I‘ve lost control
Threatening to hit someone with true intent, hurting
themselves or using a weapon such a chair or glass to hurt
someone else
Physical Intervention:
Personal Safety
Physical Control
3. Destructive
This typically involves some kind of physical behavior
directed towards property
Message: I‘m losing control
Pounding a wall and yelling, throwing clothing or even a
chair but not at someone
Personal Safety
Empathic listening
Problem solving
Diversion/Distraction
Presentation of options to reduce anxiety
and enhance self-control
Presentation of reality (benefits/risk;
choices/consequences)
Isolate/
Immediate assistance/intervention plan
―What else can this mean?‖
2 Disruptive
This is still a fairly early stage of upset but now involves
other people. This is often the stage at which staff over-
react, start to set limits, rather than offer support or
options, which may contribute to the process of escalation.
Message: Pay attention
Pacing in front of a TV, going into someone else‘s
bedroom, yelling at the nurse‘s station, interrupting the
behaviors of others, noncompliance
Empathic listening
Problem solving
Diversion/ Distraction
Presentation of options to reduce anxiety
and enhance self-control
Presentation of reality (benefits/risk;
choices/consequences)
Isolate
―What else can this mean?‖
1. Agitated
This, the lowest level, is often ignored because it is the
least disruptive. Trained staff understand that if
intervention occurs here, it is most likely to resolve.
Message: I‘m in distress
Early warning signs might include pacing, clenching fists,
teeth, hands, tremors or sweating. Other signs include
verbalization of distress, staring, hypervigilance, brooding
or plotting to hurt someone, noncompliance
Identify distress and relieve it:
Empathic listening
Problem solving
Diversion/Distraction
Presentation of options to reduce anxiety
and enhance self-control
―What else can this mean?‖
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Professionalism along the continuum of care:
General Principles:
Safety first
Find the distress, relieve the distress
Open up communication
Make others safe
Use least restrictive intervention that matches behavior
Professional versus Personal Response
If we want people to behave in a certain manner, we must set the stage and give them a cue. …
There is no telling how deeply a mind may be affected by the deliberate staging of gestures, acts and
symbols.
Eric Hoffer, The Passionate State of Mind
Stage Presence:
Educated response: A professional response is by definition one that is acquired through purposeful
education and training. The professional does not have the luxury of saying ―that‘s just how I am.‖
Doing what comes naturally is not only ―unprofessional‖ in a situation of aggression or violence it is
dangerous.
Skills For Professional Response
Nonverbal skills
Proxemics:
Competency: Care provider is able to identify and maintain appropriate personal space
through an interaction with a care recipient
Personal space 18-36 inches; includes personal items.
Safety considerations:
Once a person enters a professional role he or she must be able to suspend his or her ―natural‖ response and act in the
role which he or she has taken on.
While approximate one arms length is appropriate for
social setting in situations of increasing distress and
agitation/aggression safety considerations extend the
appropriate space to no less than two arms length (striking
distance).
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Other factors affecting personal space
Culture
Age
Gender
Size absolute and relative
Positioning (face-to-face versus side-by- side
Environmental constraints
Mood
Presence of risk factors
Kinesics (body Language):
Competencies: Care provider is able to correctly identify the possible underlying emotions
associated with common kinesic elements.
Care provider is able to demonstrate and purposely display kinesic elements that convey
support and safety.
Includes facial expressions, positioning, gestures and movements.
NONVERBAL BEHAVIORS and Kinesics
The meaning of nonverbal communication is highly dependent on context created by situational
(including parallel communications), and demographic elements.
Cultures and various ethnic groups maintain varying personal spaces, for example many European cultures generally
stand closer, while many Asian culture maintain a slighter greater distance
Very young and very old service recipients more closely approached
Research shows that people are generally poor judges of nonverbal cues. Misunderstanding and false conclusions are
common. The probability of error increases as people are under stress.
Adolescents and younger children are especially prone to false interpretations, with a tendency to interpret various
emotions, such as surprise, confusion, or worry as anger. Children with conduct problems are especially likely to
interpret nonverbal cues as anger, while those with Attention Deficit (with or without hyperactivity) are likely to miss
nonverbal cues altogether. Further confounding nonverbal communications is gender and culture.
For example, what is the meaning of extended eye contact? It could be friendly or threatening depending on who and
under what circumstances, and what other verbal and nonverbal messages are being communicated.
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Therefore it is important to consider any interpretation of nonverbal cues as provisional until it
is clarified, reflected, and verified.
More important, care providers need to be aware of the nonverbal messages they are sending, and
the effect they might have. The following is not intended as a guide to interpreting body language,
rather is help staff be more deliberate in their own body language.
By being aware of the following nonverbal behaviors staff member can be sure to convey the
message they intent.
Eye contact and gaze
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Head tilt and movement
Figure A. Figure B. Figure C.
Figure A Figure B
Dictionaries of nonverbal language that present the ―meaning‖ of various elements of body language such as ―arms
crossed means person is unreceptive‖ have limited value. The most reliable gestures are the one that do not need a
dictionary to interpret. Less obvious gestures are too varied, as there are too many individual and environmental
factors that may be influencing a particular gesture.
Length of eye contact: Generally speaking 3-5 seconds is the maximum duration of eye contact before raising discomfort.
This can vary greatly based on cultural factors, and other facial expressions accompanying the eye contact.
While speaking to a person be aware of the difference between a ―business gaze‖ that focuses on the area of the triangle in
figure A, and a ―social gaze‖ that focuses on the area of the triangle in figure B. The ―business gaze‖ is appropriate when
being more directive, or as aggression escalates. Overuse can be taken as threatening. The ―social gaze‖ is appropriate for
conveying understanding or support. Over use can be taken as weakness, or even flirtatiousness.
When breaking eye contact, breaking downward communicates understanding, however, breaking contact in any direction
except as in figure C (right or left) is acceptable.
Rather than facing and maintaining eye-to-eye contact with both eyes, there appears to be an advantage in aligning one‘s
right eye to the right eye of the individual you are speaking with, so that you are primarily in that person‘s right visual
field. There is a tendency to be perceived as less threatening, and more supportive.
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Shoulders
Arms and hands
Pointing:
Hands in front: Openness, nonthreatening (nothing to hide). Also safer.
Hands Down: ―Pause‖ , ―This is important‖, ―Calm down‖
Palms Up: Can be taken as supportive and open or as submissive, depending on other factors
Hands on hips: Readiness, aggression
Arms crossed on chest: Defensiveness, closed to listening
Open palm: Sincerity, openness, innocence
Tapping or drumming fingers: Impatience
General movement and positioning
Matching/Mirroring:
Shifting weight:
A slight head tilt, forward and to the side, as in figure A can convey attentive listening (especially with a slight
leaning forward posture) and supportiveness. It can be taken as submissiveness if over used, especially as
agitation/aggression escalates. The chin up neck straight is more directive, but can be taken as coldness.
Nodding while listening emphasizes that one is listening. Nodding or shaking one‘s head while speaking can
reinforce the verbal message, ―This isn‘t a good situation for you [shaking head] and I can understand [nodding head]
why you would feel that way.‖
Raising (shrugging) one‘s shoulders while speaking can be disarming. It helps neutralize the sense of ―us-versus-them‖
by conveying that the speaker, while in control, does not have all the answers. It communicates that the speaker is
willing (within limits) to give options/control to the listener, or that the speaker is in the same position as the listener of
being up against the policy
Hand to chin/cheek: This conveys that you are thinking what is being said. Pausing
while using this gesture conveys a seriousness about what is said, rather than an
automatic response.
Hands on jugular communicates fear or defensiveness
Direct pointing at an individual is taken as aggressive or accusative. If you need to point towards
someone, it‘s better to use the back of an open hand.
Persons in rapport naturally develop synchronicity of movement. Research is equivocal , but suggests that when done
subtly, deliberate matching and mirroring of another person can help develop rapport, even in a conflict situation.
Frequent shifting weight from side to side can be interpreted as uncertainty or a sign of weakness.
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Paraverbals (Prosody):
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Competency: Care provider is able to identify and display appropriate paraverbals
throughout interactions with care recipients
Defined as: the pitch, loudness, tempo, and rhythm patterns of spoken language.
This refers to all the parts of verbal communications, other than the words used. A technical
examination of these can be quite complex. For the purpose of effectively managing aggression the
most important elements are:
Tone. Significance signaled by pitch and other paraverbal distinctions
Volume. Loudness
Cadence. Rate, rhythm, duration, pauses
Inflection. Rise and fall of voice pitch over entire phrases and sentences
Communications is often the first intervention for managing aggressive behavior. While the words
used are important, equally (at some would argue, more important) is how it is spoken.
Too great of a mismatch between the paraverbals of persons in an interaction can hinder communication. Too gentle
or soft a response to an angry person can convey disregard for the person‘s feeling, or lack of importance. While it is
not appropriate to match the anger in a person‘s voice it is important to convey urgency or importance when
responding.
The cadence of a person‘s speech often reflects how a person processes information. Speaking too rapidly to a
person who speaks slowly or too slowly to a person who speaks rapidly can lead to confusion or raised anxiety. The
care provider can enhance communication by adopting certain aspects, at least initially, of the paraverbals of the care
recipient.
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Nonviolent communication skills
Participants will be able to describe the principles of effective communication
Participants will be able to demonstrate Empathic listening using the Nonviolent
Communications model
Participants will be able to demonstrate Directive, Non-coercive communication using the
Nonviolent Communications model
Principles of effective communication
Have a clear goal or objective, rather than merely reacting. Know what outcome you want to
achieve. Maintain initiative in setting the frame.
Be aware of verbal and the non-verbal communication that indicate whether you are moving
towards or away from your desired outcome.
Be flexible in approach, by having a wide repertoire of communication skills, and be willing
to used varied approaches to achieving your outcome based on above.
Respect the client as someone doing the best they know how (rather than judging them as
"broken")
Enjoy the challenges of difficult ("resistant") clients, seeing them as a chance to learn rather
than an intractable "problem" (positive detachment)
These are broad principles, that encompass multiple contexts.
An additional broad principles that is specific to the situation of interacting with an anxious of
aggressive person is:
Redirect rather than oppose or resist.
Nonviolent communication skills is one subset or model of communications skills. Before turning attention to it
specifically, it is important to take a broad look at communications skills, and to do so we‘ll look at the question,
what does it take to be an effective communicator? Stated in this matter the focus is not on specific communication
techniques, rather on broad principles or strategies for effective communication.
The questions of whether or not there are common traits that are shared by expert communicators within and across
varied fields – top therapists, top physicians, top nurses, top executives or top salespeople, etc., has been studied by
numerous researchers. The difficulty lies in sorting through the various terminologies used by researchers in varied
field, and varied distinctions between principles versus techniques or discrete skills. For example, is the use of open
ended questions a principle, or a specific skill?
Consequently, it is impossible to enumerate a definitive list of characteristics of effective communication. The
following is presented as guidelines for discussion:
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Nonviolent Communications
The process of NVC encourages us to focus on what we and others are observing, how and why we
are each feeling as we do, what our underlying needs are, and what each of us would like to have
happen. The primary skills of NVC are:
Make careful observations free of judgments.
Specify behaviors and conditions that are affecting us.
Identify our own deeper needs and those of others.
Identify and clearly articulate what we are wanting (requests) in a given moment.
These skills emphasize personal responsibility for our actions and the choices we make when we
respond to others.
Empathy and Empathic Listening
Violence is the language of the unheard
Martin Luther King JR.
Empathy involves two elements:
(1) the ability to accurately attribute mental states, such as beliefs, intents, desires, and affects to
others; and
(2) having an emotional reaction that is appropriate to the other‘s emotional state.
Definition: a process of attending and responding to another so that the person feels heard in a non-
judgmental way.
As the name implies, this approach to communication emphasizes compassion as the motivation for action rather
than fear, guilt, shame, blame, coercion, threat or justification for punishment. In other words, it is about getting what
you want that build relationship in the long run as well as short term or immediately.
These techniques allow you to make conscious choices about how you will respond whether you get what you want,
or not. It is definitely not about guilt tripping and tricking people into giving you what you want.
Empathetic listening is distinct from normal social conversation, in which friends or colleagues often compete to
speak and be heard. In empathic listening a person suspends his or her desire to heard (even when he or she has a
brilliant diagnosis or good advice to share), and focuses on allowing the other to express him or herself fully, and on
understanding the mental state of the other.
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Specific Empathic Listening Skills
Dangling questions
Repeating a key word or phrase
Requesting more information
Paraphrasing
Empathic sayings
Phrases to avoid include:
―I know how you feel.‖
―You should/shouldn‘t…‖
These are incomplete questions that allow the speaker to control the direction of communication. It is more open than
―open-ended‖ questions, in that the listener is not request specific information, as much as providing a spring board
for the speaker to explore more in depth.
Repeating a key word or phrase in the same tone of voice that has been used lets the speaker know we are following
and invites the speaker to further explore his or her own thinking.
There are numerous way to signal our desire to hear more. Simply saying, ―Tell me more, about that.‖ Or
―Interesting‖, invites further expression.
Restating or summarizing what has been heard and understood allows the speaker to clarify if necessary, and builds
rapport when it is accurate.
An empathic saying is a entry phrase to let a person know we are following them. Commonly used ones are:
―It sound like you‘re ________‖
―I can see you‘re (feeling) ____________‖
I can only imagine how __________ you must be feeling.‖
Used sparingly they convey empathy and can encourage the person to express him or her self more fully. Overly used
the seem artificial and insincere.
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NONVIOLENT COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Empathically receiving without blame or
criticism
Honestly expressing without blame or criticism
At every phase evaluations, interpretations, judgments, defensiveness, attempts to control,
blame, and avoidance of responsibility can block communication.
Observation
What concrete actions (including verbal
expression) am I observing in you?
What concrete actions I am observing--seeing,
hearing, remembering?
―When you…‖
―When I …‖
Feeling
How are you feeling in relation to these
actions?
How are you feeling in relation to these actions?
―Do you feel…?‖
―You‘re feeling….‖
―I feel…‖
Needs
What are the values, desires and
expectations that are creating the feeling?
What are the values, desires and expectations that
are creating the feeling?
―Because you are needing…?‖ ―Because I am needing…‖
Requests
What concrete actions would you like me
to take?
What concrete actions would I like you to take?
―And would you like me to…?‖
―And I would like you to…‖
That these are presented in this order is not to say that this is the ―proper‖ sequence or step-by-step
order to follow in communicating these four elements.
Adapted from Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
by Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D.
Published by PuddleDancer Press
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Additional Verbal Skills
“Heuristic Redirection”
Definition: A set of linguistic tools for achieving a specific outcome by taking advantage of
cognitive biases in order to bypass reflexive resistance
Pacing and leading:
Sensory-based feedback:
Embedded commands:
Binds:
Displacement:
Presuppositions/Implications
(―Yes Set‖) Gaining agreement early on increases the likelihood of subsequent agreement, and reduces the risk for
escalation. Pacing refers to verbalizing statements that are easy to agree with. These can be aspect of the situation, the
person, or a restatement of what the individual has expressed, ―I‘m standing here talking to you…You‘re not
wanting to go now…and we need to come to an agreement about what happens next…‖ Accurate reflection
(empathy) is a form of pacing.
Leading follows pacing with a statement that is not self-evident, obvious, or as easily agreed with. If the pacing is
successful the listener is more likely (but there is no guarantee) to agree with the leading statement.
Sensory-based feedback is describing, without evaluation or labeling an individual‘s behavior. Use with pacing and
leading.
Commands (set apart tonally) as given within the context of a larger statement. The use of embedded commands
gives greater flexibility for communicating messages that might other wise be rejected. Embedded commands are
often used with one or more types of displacement.
(Equivalent choices) ― You can finish right away or you can just get it over with so you can have time to relax
afterwards…‖ Hint: to be more effective, follow up with a tangential question or statement, then quickly follow
which a question about what their preference is.
Disclaimer/ Negative commands. ―I don‘t expect you to just…, You don‘t have to …right away.‖, ―I know you don‘t
want to…‖
Quotes. ―I‘m not going to order you around like a drill sergeant, ‗you need to get that done right now‘, I want you to
think about what would be best.‖
Time - eventually, in the past, up until now, before, after, while. ―I don‘t know when you will soon begin to feel
better about all this.‖
Ordinals – first, second. ―Which would you like to do first…‖
Awareness — have you realized, noticed, understood. ―I don‘t know if anyone explained it to you so that you realize
that doing it this way works out the best for you.‖
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Applying the Principles of Social influence to De-escalation
In creating an environment that promotes pro-social behavior, it‘s important
to be aware of the principles of social influence.
Those six principles are:
Rule of Reciprocity
According to sociologists and anthropologists, one of the most widespread and basic norms of
human culture is embodied in the rule of reciprocity. This rule requires that one person try to repay
what another person has provided. The rule applies even to uninvited first favors.
Applications in a care environment:
Commitment and Consistency
In contrast to a lot of anecdotal, or pop-psychology information on persuasion and
influencing others, there is some actual scientific research that can inform our practice.
The leading researcher on social influence, Robert Cialdini, a Professor of Psychology at
Arizona State University, lists six basic social and psychological principles that form the
foundation for successful strategies used to influence others.
The decision to comply with someone's request is frequently based upon the Rule of Reciprocity. A possible tactic to
increase the probability of cooperation would be to give something to someone before asking for a favor in return.
The rule is extremely powerful, often overwhelming the influence of other factors that normally determine
compliance with a request.
Another way in which the Rule of Reciprocity can increase cooperation involves a simple variation on the basic
theme: instead of providing a favor first that stimulates a returned favor, an individual can make instead an initial
concession that stimulates a return concession.
One procedure, called the "rejection-then-retreat technique", or ―door-in-the-face technique‖, relies on the pressure to
reciprocate concessions. By starting with an extreme request that is sure to be rejected, the requester can then
profitably retreat to a smaller request--the one that was desired all along. This request is likely to now be accepted
because it appears to be a concession. Research indicates, that aside from increasing the likelihood that a person will
say yes to a request, the rejection-then-retreat technique also increases the likelihood that the person carrying out the
request will agree to future requests.
Frame communications as a concession ―I‘ll give you time to think about it‖
Remind patient of privileges received
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People have a desire to look consistent through their words, beliefs, attitudes, and deeds.
The key to using the principles of Commitment and Consistency to gain the cooperation of others is
held within the initial commitment. That is--after making a commitment, taking a stand or position,
or coming to an agreement people are more willing to agree to requests that are consistent with their
prior commitment. It is easier to request a small initial position that is consistent with a behavior
they will later request.
Applications in a care environment:
Social Proof
One means used to determine what is correct is to find out what others believe is correct. People
often view a behavior as more correct in a given situation--to the degree that we see others
performing it.
Social proof is most influential under two conditions:
Uncertainty--when people are unsure and the situation is ambiguous they are more likely to observe
the behavior of others and to accept that behavior as correct.
Similarity--people are more inclined to follow the lead of others who are similar.
Applications in a care environment:
Commitments are most effective when they are active, public, effortful, and viewed as internally motivated and not
coerced. Once a stand is taken, there is a natural tendency to behave in ways that are consistent with the stand.
Commitment decisions, even erroneous ones, have a tendency to be self-perpetuating. Those involved may add new
reasons and justifications to support the commitments they have already made. For this reason it is especially
important to avoid interactions that set up early resistance.
This principle of Social Proof can be used to stimulate a person's agreement with a request by informing him or her
that many other individuals, perhaps some that are role models, are or have observed this behavior.
Remind patient of past positive behaviors
Remind patient of previous agreements
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Liking
People prefer to say yes to individuals they know and like.
A number of factors contribute to this, but those most easily influenced are:
Praise -- praise produces liking. Generally, compliments most often enhance liking and can be used
as a means to gain agreement.
Increased familiarity -- repeated contact with a person or thing is yet another factor that normally
facilitates liking. But this holds true principally when that contact takes place under positive rather
than negative circumstances. One positive circumstance that may work well is mutual and successful
cooperation.
Applications in care environment:
Authority
In the seminal studies and research conducted by Stanley Milgram regarding obedience there, is
evidence of the strong pressure within our society for compliance when requested by an authority
figure.
Conversely, resistance to authorities can occur in a mindless fashion as a kind of decision-making
shortcut. Since authority can have a strong negative or positive effect in terms of agreement and
cooperation, it is important to know how the individual might respond before employing this
element.
Applications in care environment:
Normalize resistance while conveying that peers make the positive choice.
Example; ―A lot of patient feel upset, and don‘t want to do it, not until they realize that it‘s better for you in the long
run and then they‘ll do it.‖
Be aware of patient‘s response to authority and emphasize or deemphasize as appropriate
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Scarcity
According to the Principle of Scarcity people assign more value to opportunities when they are less
available. When access to something is restricted, or threatened to be lost, it is more highly desired.
Things difficult to attain, or likely to be lost are typically more valuable. The availability of an item
or experience can serve as a shortcut clue or cue to its quality.
Applications in a care environment:
When something becomes less accessible, the freedom to have it may be lost. According to psychological reactance
theory, people respond to the loss of freedom by wanting to have it more. This includes the freedom to have certain
goods and services. As a motivator, psychological reactance is present throughout the great majority of a person's life
span. However, it is especially evident at a pair of ages: "the terrible twos" and the teenage years. Both of these
periods are characterized by an emerging sense of individuality, which brings to prominence such issues as control,
individual rights, and freedoms. People at these ages are especially sensitive to restrictions.
Remind a patient of the privileges he or she all ready has and frame the consequences as loss of those privileges
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Physical skills
Participants will be able to demonstrate non-violent techniques to maintain personal safety
in situations of physical aggression
Participants will be able to demonstrate non-injurious physical holds that minimize risks to
those involved.
Personal Safety
Avoidance and evasion are the first choice always!
Focus on principles not techniques, and strategies not tactics
General Principles
Safety— for all parties involved
Maintain initiative—The goals is never self-defense (reactive); rather your role is to control
an aggressive situation
Physical Response Strategies
Speed—When action is required move quickly and without hesitation
Redirect rather than block or resist
Surprise— Unexpected actions interrupt the pattern, and buys time
Move the target- Keep moving until it is safe
Control space
Two ways a person can attack physically:
Strikes (punches, slaps, kicks, thrown objects)
Response (Strategy) is:
Deflect (parry)
Move
Grabs (grabs, hair pulls, chokes)
Response (Strategy) is:
Momentum—direct the force of the attack/assault
Leverage—use of natural range of motion, fulcrum points, body mechanics (elbow to elbow)
Weak point— use of natural escape paths
Even though this is not a self-defense or martial arts course there is an important lesson to be learned from these, namely,
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Physical Holds
Physical hold are used when a person is violent or self destructive (danger to self or others), and all
other alternatives have been exhausted
Escort positions for a non-compliant person is not a physical hold. Staff members must be very
careful in approach a non-compliant person so as not to trigger aggression.
General Principles
Safety— for all involved
Efficacy—ineffective techniques endanger the care provider, and are therefore unsafe.
Anytime we intervene physically there are potential problems with:
• Airway Obstruction/Position
• Pressure
• Exacerbation of unknown or known medical disorders
One person- Greatest risk of harm to staff or service recipient only to be used in dire
emergency
Two person- High risk, only to be used in emergency
Two primary guiding principles for any
physical intervention are safety and
efficacy.
The two person control position shown
here has been widely used. Both safety and
efficacy are questionable. A number of
deaths of persons held in this manner have
been reported.
A number of state have enacted
regulations prohibiting its use, and the use
of face down holds, in care and
correctional facilities.
Certain techniques are effective, even highly effective, in controlling an aggressive person, but have a potential of
causing severe harm. These include joint locks, pain compliance holds, and pressure points. These are, therefore, not
an acceptable intervention.
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Three person- minimum safe and effective number
Maintain Initiative
Physical Response Strategies
Control Speed/Momentum
.
Control Space/Limit attack options
Control balance/body mechanics
As with personal safety response, the goal is not self defense, rather it is to take control of a dangerous situation
Once a physical intervention has been decided upon it is necessary to move quickly and without hesitation
in order to minimize the risk of harm to both the aggressive individual and staff member. Furthermore, staff
members must control the direction of force
By positioning and controlling movement of limbs staff members limit the ways an individual can harm self
or others. Furthermore, staff members must control the distance between the aggressive person and self
The use of body mechanics to control balance and limit movement option is essential. The more strength is
used to control a violent person, the more potential there is for harm. Also the more techniques rely on
strength in order to be effective, the more limited they are in their applicability of all staff.
Go to Physical skills check off in back
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Debriefing
Guiding Principle
“A debriefing should follow each episode of seclusion or restraint. The debriefing should include an
assessment of the factors leading to the use of seclusions or restraint, steps to reduce the potential
future need for the seclusion or restraint of the patient, and the clinical impact of the intervention on
the patient.” (American Psychiatric Association/American Academy of Child & Adolescent
Psychiatry/National Association of Psychiatric Health Systems Joint Statement of General Principles
on Seclusion and Restraint, May 1999)
A debriefing or psychological debriefing is a time-limited, semi-structured conversation with
individuals who have just experienced a stressful or traumatic event.
The purpose of debriefing is twofold:
1)
2)
Depending on organizational policies and standards debrief may include more elements, but
minimally it will include an analysis of:
Triggers,
Antecedent behaviors,
Alternative behaviors,
Least restrictive or alternative interventions attempted,
De-escalation preferences or safety planning measures identified and
Treatment plan strategies.
Two types of Debriefing Activities:
Acute - immediate post event response to gather info, manage milieu, assure safety
As with stages of aggression, there are several models. Organizations will favor a model which they teach their
volunteers and staff members. Various models differ in the number and type of phases (or stages). They all get at the
same basic elements to help people cope with the sights, sounds, smells, thoughts, feelings, symptoms, and memories
that are all part of a normal stress reaction to a traumatic event. Here we use the COPING model,
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Formal - rigorous problem solving event with treatment team and consumer input, usually 24 hours
later
Practical Steps
Make Debriefing Rigorous.
Pay attention to both what was done correctly, and what can be improved.
Have a set format or template for debriefing (COPING). Use a standard format that is to be followed after every
incident of restraint or seclusion. Additional examples of debriefing forms are included in the appendix.
Debriefing is a teaching moment. Staff members are generally more comfortable with the former, yet an examination
of the latter is often more valuable.
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Additional Resources/Reading
Ten Tips for Effective Verbal Interventions
Self-Management
1. Remain calm
2. Maintain the initiative
Non-confrontive communication
3. Be empathic
4. Clarify messages
5. Don‘t argue
6. Redirect challenging questions
7. Permit venting when possible
8. Keep messages short and simple
Non-threatening nonverbals
9. Be aware of position
10. Be aware of your paraverbal communications
10 things we can do to contribute to internal, interpersonal, and organizational peace
(1) Spend some time each day quietly reflecting on how we would like to relate to ourselves and
others.
(2) Remember that all human beings have the same needs.
(3) Check our intention to see if we are as interested in others getting their needs met as our own.
(4) When asking someone to do something, check first to see if we are making a request or a
demand.
(5) Instead of saying what we DON'T want someone to do, say what we DO want the person to do.
(6) Instead of saying what we want someone to BE, say what action we'd like the person to take that
we hope will help the person be that way.
(7) Before agreeing or disagreeing with anyone's opinions, try to tune in to what the person is feeling
and needing.
(8) Instead of saying ―No,‖ say what need of ours prevents us from saying ―Yes.‖
(9) If we are feeling upset, think about what need of ours is not being met, and what we could do to
meet it, instead of thinking about what's wrong with others or ourselves.
(10) Instead of praising someone who did something we like, express our gratitude by telling the